Story 2: Ah, there it is. "Contribute equally to my daughter's education" but the lady has no job and contributes nothing financially. What a doormat that OP is.
Never even interact with single mothers with anything besides friendship. My single mother sister recently baby trapped some poor guy who thought they were simply fwb...
@@jimjohnson394, there are some blended families that work well, here we have a spineless OP who ignored that he was marrying someone selfish and manipulative.
The math ain't mathing in story 2. Split the son's college fund and continue to add to the step daughters fund.... so the stepdaughter gets more than your son. Poor show
That and the fact that she was like “oh we can’t give your son a car! That will teach him to expect things from us and make him entitled.” but then she wanted instead to give her daughter a car. I guess she had no issue with her daughter expecting things and becoming entitled. Interesting how that works!
Poor Josh almost got disenfranchised by the new step family. Happened to both my husband and I. This is why remarrying with kids is evil. An overwhelming number of parents can’t balance both kids and romance.
It's not evil if you have the capacity to prioritize your kids when they need you most, splitting a college fund is 1 thing but allowing neglect & abuse? You're worthless as a parent at that point.
S2: How is it equal when the new wife doesn't work? I bet OP doesn't get a say in what they gift the daughter. I bet he just gives the money for those gifts. OP talks about how unfair his sons life is but also allows it. Josh lost a mother and now his father to his new family
Story 2: Mia and Lauren have made it clear that they want Josh out of the family. Neither have made the slightest effort to be kind to him. They only want to use you, OP. Sadly, OP, you need to divorce Lauren and be there for your son. He is the one who is suffering here. Lauren just wants to take everything she can. You have already stolen part of your son's college fun for Mia. Why? You saved that for your son. Lauren didn't save for Mia. Why let her lack of planning make your son's life so much harder?
Wow, so OP1 is a moron. turning the other cheek only gets you slapped twice. I would of called the cops and had them charged, unless I missed something.
Dad sacked up at the end. Its gonna be a long road for him to make this right, but what he's done so far is a good start. For the redditors who let perfect be the enemy good, because we know you will. Kindly touch grass.
It is rich for OP's wife to accuse him of favouritism towards his own bio son because he wants to give him a USED CAR to help him with his job when she wants OP to give the car to her own daughter instead who qas only 17 yrs old and has no job. And it's crazy how easily OP got manipulated by someone who's clearly only using him as an ATM.
Fair will be giving Mia a carb when she leaves for college. They are different ages, you can't give them both the same thing now ... That would be unfair.
1) NTA op needs to sue the woman for defamation, since she caused a scene and physically attacked you, also your sister needs to be kicked out. Also it’s mostly your parents fault, you mention how much she did this and how often, and they still let this happen, 2)YTA he is slowly breaking, dealing with everything, the death of her mother, new family that doesn’t make them feel safe or happy, then had to deal with you neglecting you the fact that you let this come to this point means you are a bad parents, the fact that you’re thinking of this, you’re a spineless doormat, your wife doesn’t love yoy or your kick once he finds, he will kick you out of his life, because you took both the money and the car from him forcing him to already struggle, the fact that you let this happen means you’re a bad parent, if she doesn’t like your kid then she isn’t for you. She didn’t have a job or didn’t try to contribute anything, and the fact that you supported her before getting married? Really,
They'd been together for 7 years at the start of the first post, dated for 5 married for 2, he'd known her since she was 9 living together since 12. It'd be concerning if he didn't care at all.
@@rugr82day Honestly i think im just a bad person who shouldn't be a step parent cause my feelings are the same aint no way im making my blood split their college fund for someone else's kid. known for 7+ years or not especially when the step kid's mom is obviously a gold digger, "refused to work" ta loca.
Story 2: Ah, there it is. "Contribute equally to my daughter's education" but the lady has no job and contributes nothing financially. What a doormat that OP is.
Leave single mothers alone
@@jimjohnson394knight in shining armor
I think he meant never date them
Never even interact with single mothers with anything besides friendship. My single mother sister recently baby trapped some poor guy who thought they were simply fwb...
@@jimjohnson394, there are some blended families that work well, here we have a spineless OP who ignored that he was marrying someone selfish and manipulative.
Story 2: The ex just wanted someone to fund her and her daughters life and wanted to push Josh out. The fact he didn't see it is ridiculous
How do you love someone who treats your son like ish? Dad is just as bad that's how.
Story 2:
Holy red flags Batman! Quick, to the divorce lawyer's cave!
The math ain't mathing in story 2.
Split the son's college fund and continue to add to the step daughters fund.... so the stepdaughter gets more than your son.
Poor show
That and the fact that she was like “oh we can’t give your son a car! That will teach him to expect things from us and make him entitled.” but then she wanted instead to give her daughter a car. I guess she had no issue with her daughter expecting things and becoming entitled. Interesting how that works!
@BrightElk exactly this. I don't get how he didn't see it sooner.
His son is such a good person
Poor Josh almost got disenfranchised by the new step family. Happened to both my husband and I. This is why remarrying with kids is evil. An overwhelming number of parents can’t balance both kids and romance.
It's not evil if you have the capacity to prioritize your kids when they need you most, splitting a college fund is 1 thing but allowing neglect & abuse? You're worthless as a parent at that point.
S2: How is it equal when the new wife doesn't work? I bet OP doesn't get a say in what they gift the daughter. I bet he just gives the money for those gifts. OP talks about how unfair his sons life is but also allows it. Josh lost a mother and now his father to his new family
Op is spineless and the mother is a 304 devil
Hopefully OP meets a woman who’s AGAINST the behavior Lauren exhibited
Better late than never i guess for op in post 2
First story...that person who put the peanut allergy person's life in danger needs a serious wakeup call...shame on her
Story 2: Mia and Lauren have made it clear that they want Josh out of the family. Neither have made the slightest effort to be kind to him. They only want to use you, OP. Sadly, OP, you need to divorce Lauren and be there for your son. He is the one who is suffering here. Lauren just wants to take everything she can. You have already stolen part of your son's college fun for Mia. Why? You saved that for your son. Lauren didn't save for Mia. Why let her lack of planning make your son's life so much harder?
Wow, so OP1 is a moron. turning the other cheek only gets you slapped twice. I would of called the cops and had them charged, unless I missed something.
Perfect example of why going for your own justice isn't smart.
Who are you talking about?
@Powerpolepro probably the idiot in the first story who went off attacking an innocent person
Dad sacked up at the end. Its gonna be a long road for him to make this right, but what he's done so far is a good start.
For the redditors who let perfect be the enemy good, because we know you will. Kindly touch grass.
What do you mean
It is rich for OP's wife to accuse him of favouritism towards his own bio son because he wants to give him a USED CAR to help him with his job when she wants OP to give the car to her own daughter instead who qas only 17 yrs old and has no job. And it's crazy how easily OP got manipulated by someone who's clearly only using him as an ATM.
i have both a stepmom and stepdad and neither helped pay for my college fund. actually insane to expect that
The gameplay in the background is giving me ocd
Fair will be giving Mia a carb when she leaves for college. They are different ages, you can't give them both the same thing now ... That would be unfair.
Fair would be having the mom earn the money and buy Mia the car in college. Plus pay for Mia’s college, and half the bills
Lauren and Mia are common women after all
1) NTA op needs to sue the woman for defamation, since she caused a scene and physically attacked you, also your sister needs to be kicked out. Also it’s mostly your parents fault, you mention how much she did this and how often, and they still let this happen,
2)YTA he is slowly breaking, dealing with everything, the death of her mother, new family that doesn’t make them feel safe or happy, then had to deal with you neglecting you the fact that you let this come to this point means you are a bad parents, the fact that you’re thinking of this, you’re a spineless doormat, your wife doesn’t love yoy or your kick once he finds, he will kick you out of his life, because you took both the money and the car from him forcing him to already struggle, the fact that you let this happen means you’re a bad parent, if she doesn’t like your kid then she isn’t for you. She didn’t have a job or didn’t try to contribute anything, and the fact that you supported her before getting married? Really,
rare ahole win in the last story. good for them
Second story. The dad is weak and pathetic.
What happened to the video earlier?
Mayb youtube took it down or something wasn't right so they had to change it?
@@RobinSiwula-w4hprobably and honestly the first story sounded fake as hell.
It was taken down due to censorship issues but will be uploaded again soon
Story 2 op is a door mat.
1:38 I don't feel bad for the person who got cheated on
Fair
S2 has to be fake becuase why does he care about Mia? He's known her for a couple years
Because she was his stepdaughter, it would be concerning if he didn’t
They'd been together for 7 years at the start of the first post, dated for 5 married for 2, he'd known her since she was 9 living together since 12. It'd be concerning if he didn't care at all.
You missed some stuff.
@@rugr82day Honestly i think im just a bad person who shouldn't be a step parent cause my feelings are the same aint no way im making my blood split their college fund for someone else's kid. known for 7+ years or not especially when the step kid's mom is obviously a gold digger, "refused to work" ta loca.