This Woman Was Mistreating Her Boyfriend. You Won't Believe How These People Reacted

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  • Опубликовано: 9 авг 2019
  • Would you help a man being mistreated?
    Last time I filmed a video with a man mistreating his girlfriend in public. I decided to conduct the very same social experiment but this time I wanted to see how people would react if they saw a woman verbally mistreat her boyfriend in public. The results were shocking!
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  • @JavierPerez-zr2ic
    @JavierPerez-zr2ic 4 года назад +4967

    When a man even raises his voice at a girl, people lose it...
    the other way around, they barely care

    • @trayce5233
      @trayce5233 4 года назад +360

      Finally someone whose not an idiot

    • @Urmumbigfatgay
      @Urmumbigfatgay 4 года назад +278

      It’s messed up that the world is like this

    • @LostBoy606
      @LostBoy606 4 года назад +167

      Way too many damn double standards against men. World just caters to women tbh

    • @Jomana_azhar
      @Jomana_azhar 4 года назад +107

      @@LostBoy606 someday this will change don't worry
      I'm a woman and I would stand up against anyone who's being abused regardless of their gender
      There are some people who favor men over women and there are some people who favor women over men
      ❤✌

    • @LostBoy606
      @LostBoy606 4 года назад +39

      @@Jomana_azhar Yes. And I appreciate u for it. But this will never change

  • @iiyeetplayz4652
    @iiyeetplayz4652 4 года назад +2855

    I would dump anyone who says that men have to pay the women’s expenses

    • @denos2561
      @denos2561 4 года назад +88

      yep same
      ngl i wouldnt even pay at the first date lmao

    • @mrpoulet9534
      @mrpoulet9534 4 года назад +18

      @@denos2561 LMAO😂😂

    • @JustMak5086
      @JustMak5086 4 года назад +9

      @@mrpoulet9534 me three lmaoo

    • @preetirawat1155
      @preetirawat1155 4 года назад +16

      Whoever says that need a tight slap of reality check

    • @casandracannady5665
      @casandracannady5665 4 года назад +9

      And you would be right to do so. I'm almost 65, and I have never been guilty of anyone paying my way. I can manage things for myself

  • @gabrielvikestadolsen5231
    @gabrielvikestadolsen5231 4 года назад +703

    I like when someone finally are stepping in when a woman abuses her man.

    • @hamzakhalid2052
      @hamzakhalid2052 3 года назад +24

      The people's champion

    • @cindy844
      @cindy844 3 года назад +36

      Yes. Abuse can go both ways, and it's just as damaging.

    • @uwu-yo6jh
      @uwu-yo6jh 3 года назад +8

      I can relate

    • @cake-ie7uh
      @cake-ie7uh 3 года назад +6

      Agreed

    • @indridcold8433
      @indridcold8433 3 года назад +4

      If anybody is abusing someone else, go to the nearest telephone and call emergency services. Do not get involved. You risk being sued.

  • @elizabethplayer5398
    @elizabethplayer5398 4 года назад +577

    Woman:Mistreating her boyfriend
    Random guy sitting at bench:"Imma record this"

    • @deeznuttz9947
      @deeznuttz9947 3 года назад +6

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @karanpannu9287
      @karanpannu9287 3 года назад +48

      @@deeznuttz9947 this is not funny. This is sick.

    • @deeznuttz9947
      @deeznuttz9947 3 года назад +6

      @@karanpannu9287 that's your opinion just because mine is different it doesn't make yourself or me right, I respect that your opinion is different to mine , but i still find it funny and will continue to laugh 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Toafy
      @Toafy 3 года назад +15

      @Caner Gangs same he was smiling with a sick grin
      While recording.

    • @peachy6009
      @peachy6009 3 года назад +9

      Not only random guy but whole society is like that

  • @brucejones4655
    @brucejones4655 4 года назад +3758

    Only 1 guy actually stood up for the guy ... 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ what ashame

    • @anonymoustopsecret109
      @anonymoustopsecret109 4 года назад +155

      Yeah, out of 2 guys who actually witnessed the thing.

    • @flatpngofafish
      @flatpngofafish 4 года назад +13

      @@anonymoustopsecret109 What's this a fellow anon

    • @anonymoustopsecret109
      @anonymoustopsecret109 4 года назад +14

      @@flatpngofafish My brother, glad to see you're here as well.

    • @brucejones4655
      @brucejones4655 4 года назад +32

      It doesn't matter how many guys seen it ... the point is never treat anyone that way . No matter gender , color .

    • @FocusedFighter777
      @FocusedFighter777 4 года назад +1

      @@brucejones4655 Voilà

  • @Imabird4real
    @Imabird4real 4 года назад +2701

    When a guy is: bullied, depressed, abused... - "Man up!"
    When a girl is: bullied, depressed, abused... - *FBI almost steps in.*

    • @krakenmaster2743
      @krakenmaster2743 4 года назад +13

      OH COME ON

    • @Imabird4real
      @Imabird4real 4 года назад +133

      @@krakenmaster2743 Well I'm sorry, but it's mostly true.

    • @krakenmaster2743
      @krakenmaster2743 4 года назад +13

      A-T-A-G I blame Gacha

    • @gabriellec7813
      @gabriellec7813 4 года назад +38

      It's not true at all. Most people don't do anything to protect women.

    • @jenaiahgoguette5126
      @jenaiahgoguette5126 4 года назад +117

      @@gabriellec7813 shut up omg everyone defend women in all situations while men go through all this and nobody cares no hate tho

  • @sydneymcmillian
    @sydneymcmillian 3 года назад +559

    Dear Boys,
    As a girl I feel very ashamed. We live in a society where it’s no big deal when bad things happen to you guys😔 I feel your pain & mistreatment of your feelings. People just love to rarely care about anyone else but themselves mostly. I can’t always get what I want in life! I don’t always get away with everything! If I did something wrong I would own up to it. I am a respectful and understanding person and I walk in your shoes every-time i watch different gender videos like these 🥺
    BTW: This ain’t for the likes! I don’t care or pay attention to the likes at all✋🏼 all I want is to spread positivity. I mean what I say bc I watch videos like these all the time and I can’t imagine what it’s like for the boys even my mum thinks it’s no big deal either which makes me irritated. So plz don’t say it’s for the likes. Positivity means everything 🥺🙏🏼✨ -always let love lead the way “Vid chronicles” I’m an autistic btw

  • @brianrhodes5788
    @brianrhodes5788 4 года назад +139

    3:30 *my daughters over there and she’s 12 years old*
    Me: WHAT THE- she looks like she’s a grown woman!!

    • @watchme6848
      @watchme6848 3 года назад +1

      Seriously.

    • @adrianramirez6848
      @adrianramirez6848 3 года назад +7

      yeah 12 year olds nowadays

    • @thefluff2431
      @thefluff2431 3 года назад +1

      @homo erectus we wuz kangs dude that's hella sus

    • @idkwtcm984
      @idkwtcm984 3 года назад

      @Obama Care bro you can’t just be saying that.

    • @dbangalot5248
      @dbangalot5248 3 года назад

      @Obama Care hella suspicious

  • @caseyedu
    @caseyedu 4 года назад +1471

    So glad for the women that actually stood up for this guy.

    • @timilehyinhussain7963
      @timilehyinhussain7963 4 года назад +47

      Ikr This video actually gave me hope for humanity. It made me realize that not all women see bullying men as empowering or think that the reason she's abusing him was because he did something to her.

    • @jennyVenturevlogs
      @jennyVenturevlogs 4 года назад +12

      Love doestn't measure in material things,it measures how you respect and accept each other the way who they are.

    • @PuShEeN-tk2fh
      @PuShEeN-tk2fh 4 года назад +6

      Brick Wallace Hey! My real name has the same last name you have! =D And im glad women aren't always going to be on the same gendered side just because they are the same gender.

    • @joeblow1942
      @joeblow1942 4 года назад +2

      Brick Wallace I think the “rescuers” are all actors. The whole thing is contrived.

    • @jennyVenturevlogs
      @jennyVenturevlogs 4 года назад +3

      @@PuShEeN-tk2fh material things will gone but love never ends/un ending love

  • @SG_____
    @SG_____ 4 года назад +1900

    Its sad because most relationships are this. Disgusting world.

    • @wanpanman3538
      @wanpanman3538 4 года назад +30

      Dashy I agree, personal experience from a female money hovering machine

    • @wanpanman3538
      @wanpanman3538 4 года назад +2

      @Benjamin Walker r/wooosh

    • @sparklessprinkles6308
      @sparklessprinkles6308 4 года назад +1

      @@wanpanman3538 😂

    • @A-halover2000
      @A-halover2000 4 года назад +6

      @Satanist not all women are this bad you know.

    • @noahplaysgaming5414
      @noahplaysgaming5414 4 года назад +7

      Satanist id consider that sexist not all women are bad, hate the feminists and sjws

  • @liplana
    @liplana 3 года назад +47

    I've been in an abusive relastionship. To this day, I have PTSD from it. I would never, ever, sit on my ass while seeing someone being treated like he was. People don't even understand the
    repercussions this brings. Remains with you for the rest of your life. People like him need people like us to protect them when nobody else seems to care. He doesn't have to "take it" because he is a male. He's human. He feels pain. Please speak up when you see someone being mistreated, male or female. You don't even know how much that will mean to them.

    • @cindy844
      @cindy844 3 года назад +3

      LOVE your comment!! I've been there too. It has a deep and lasting impact, on men as well as women.

  • @ja9rose483
    @ja9rose483 4 года назад +460

    When men abuse women: lets call the police
    When women abuse men: nah he can handle it
    Me: what happened to gender equality

    • @B.A.B.G.
      @B.A.B.G. 4 года назад +22

      There ain't no such thing, it's just wishful thinking.

    • @deletedaccount8836
      @deletedaccount8836 4 года назад +12

      FACTS 💯

    • @_s4mantha
      @_s4mantha 4 года назад +29

      and the same women on media are like: mEn anD WoMeN aRe EqUal

    • @deletedaccount8836
      @deletedaccount8836 4 года назад +2

      Sister VS Brother exactly

    • @dddrinaldsdaugats3451
      @dddrinaldsdaugats3451 4 года назад +8

      Omg u know how I have it like my bro hits me my mom:she can take it my dad:pfft shes fine
      I mess around with him as a joke he hits me I hit him back my parents:WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU U ARE A DISAPPOINTMENT GO TO YOUR ROOM YOU ARE GROUNDED FOR THE WHOLE SUMMER YOUR PHONE IS TAKEN FOR THE WHOLE SUMMER TO AND IF U WANNA GO OUT GO GARDENING is this right

  • @artinbahadori3810
    @artinbahadori3810 4 года назад +1667

    Girl: “**Teases and verbally abuses Boyfriend**”
    Random Guy: **Starts to film**
    *_What has this world come to like WTF_*
    Edit: *Guys thanks for the likes, it just frickin pisses me off that this even happens, like it’s just not cool, we need to be more aware of people/People’s feelings. I’m still pissed that, that guy thought it was polite to film a poor boyfriend getting verbally abused instead of standing up for him*

    • @reallycoolname6437
      @reallycoolname6437 4 года назад +53

      I bet if it was the other way around he's punch the abusive bf, but he's just thinking *VIEWWWWWS* lmao

    • @aminamalik7247
      @aminamalik7247 4 года назад +17

      It’s an act

    • @reallycoolname6437
      @reallycoolname6437 4 года назад +10

      @@aminamalik7247 ik lol

    • @fatmandirtball4746
      @fatmandirtball4746 4 года назад +11

      @@aminamalik7247
      It is in act but sadly its the reality brother

    • @25_kylie16
      @25_kylie16 4 года назад +12

      What's that dude gonna do? Post it on the internet? Show your relatives and laugh about it? That was seriously such a coward move. He couldn't bring the courage up to stop. No one deserves to be shouted at or hit. That's the harsh truth of life, I guess.

  • @johnlejeune6734
    @johnlejeune6734 4 года назад +2747

    Thank you for making this video. Isn't it funny how women defended the guy while the guys didn't do anything?

    • @felicityholmes9072
      @felicityholmes9072 4 года назад +124

      Guys are maybe afraid of emasculating him further?

    • @johnlejeune6734
      @johnlejeune6734 4 года назад +92

      @@felicityholmes9072 Maybe they are!
      Tho I'd love to see a guy defend a fellow guy. I mean, couldn't any man imagine himself in that lads shoes and then take action?

    • @nadeemmustafa6450
      @nadeemmustafa6450 4 года назад +57

      A guy in pink shirt 1:30 tried to help but she told him that it was not his business that's why he sat down and leave them

    • @kieranpearson5096
      @kieranpearson5096 4 года назад +9

      @@YoungStoic45 Incorrect. That's not how the laws work. They have to be taken court and proven guilty. The guy can also scream rape. It actually works both ways

    • @YoungStoic45
      @YoungStoic45 4 года назад +45

      @@kieranpearson5096 Perhaps I wasn't clear enough. Although it's said that one is guilty until proven innocent, a woman can get a man arrested easily. (Believe me, that's how it is.) In the end, a man can be cleared off the charges but that time is more than enough to give people impression that he's guilty, no matter what happens in the end. One of my friends lost his job and was arrested just because a woman filed a complaint that a man harassed her. If that doesn't convince you, I don't know what will.

  • @dirac_sea4674
    @dirac_sea4674 3 года назад +22

    It is heartwarming to know there are people out there who actually care and wouldn't just look the other way.

  • @TMNTplay4487
    @TMNTplay4487 3 года назад +14

    This video makes me happy. Usually on these social experiments when the girl abuses the guy, slaps him, etc, no one stands up for him. Everyone either joined in, made fun of him, laughed.
    But now here we are. Finally seeing people stand up for a guy. I love it

    • @mikelawhite
      @mikelawhite 3 года назад

      But not much. If a girl is abused, many people immediately step in

  • @migueldesousa7325
    @migueldesousa7325 4 года назад +1556

    Girl: I need the money,where’s the money
    Me: Nah u need a therapist

  • @chosenzen
    @chosenzen 4 года назад +1384

    “My daughter is 12 years old”
    Me: yep and she looks like she graduated high school

  • @lizzy_90
    @lizzy_90 3 года назад +12

    It's a terrible thing from both parties. NOBODY deserves to get treated this way

    • @righteousfroce1254
      @righteousfroce1254 10 месяцев назад

      I agree there is this crazy RUclips with a deep voice that says if your a man and get hit by a woman you deserve it. I think he's a piss of shirt and deserves to get his ass kick.

  • @amycapstick4093
    @amycapstick4093 4 года назад +39

    Why did one off the men literally laugh and pull out his phone to record 😭 that's just not right

    • @erolfatma3357
      @erolfatma3357 3 года назад +1

      Ikr like he should stand up for the man who was abused not just sit there and record it. Man people are helpless.

  • @Xainorsum
    @Xainorsum 4 года назад +1044

    When a guy mistreats a girl: everyone: hey you can’t treat a girl like that
    When a girl mistreats a guy: everyone: oh it’s fine women do enough she can do whatever she wants to him

    • @gonrodngirchemat2290
      @gonrodngirchemat2290 4 года назад +47

      NexxSZN sad reality

    • @niick.7675
      @niick.7675 4 года назад +8

      Ya :(

    • @virtuallylightblue
      @virtuallylightblue 4 года назад +3

      imagine naming yourself after a toxic scammer that plays fortnite

    • @Xainorsum
      @Xainorsum 4 года назад +9

      Over Heaven wtf my name is NexxSZN who did I name myself after?

    • @Xainorsum
      @Xainorsum 4 года назад +13

      Over Heaven ohh ur talking bout ZaynSZN tf I didn’t name myself after him just bc I have SZN in my name dosent mean I named myself after that bitch also he didn’t invent putting SZN in ur name

  • @lexiimaee
    @lexiimaee 4 года назад +2001

    “you *need* to pay for my shoes”
    “you *need* to pay for my clothes”
    “you *need* to pay for my food”
    No. you *need* to get a job & be independent
    Relying on someone is your weakness.

    • @meow32145
      @meow32145 4 года назад +52

      Its a social experiment . Chill
      Edit: y'all coming after me and calling the girl a pussy whore.
      Like..... It was a social experiment...I would say she was the but only if it wasnt an experiment. Damn stop coming after me , cause y'all the heated ones anyway. 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @lexiimaee
      @lexiimaee 4 года назад +66

      sun flower its not always a social experiment.. things like this are real

    • @connorgarcia3843
      @connorgarcia3843 4 года назад +35

      @@lexiimaee most girls just use guys as a cash machine these days i see where you're comimg from,tbh i feel like equalityand feminists are taking female rights soo far that males barely have any rights these days like jesus christ if a girls beating a guy up its cool cause its a girl and they're considered the weaker sex which isn't right,but if a guy beats up a girl everyone wants the dude hanged this makes no sense to me

    • @FocusedFighter777
      @FocusedFighter777 4 года назад +15

      @@meow32145 Nope. These things happen. Wake up. It's not a gender thing; it's people abusing people, and it's not ok.

    • @FocusedFighter777
      @FocusedFighter777 4 года назад +15

      @@connorgarcia3843 Could also get lost in the utterly long list of ''most guys--'' bullshit; the important part is to remember that not all men/women are the same. Otherwise then you end up just as full of shit as them losers.

  • @keilakurihara7445
    @keilakurihara7445 4 года назад +67

    That dudes not wearing garbage he’s wearing a shirt and jeans, sounds like a normal outfit to me
    Edit: ik it’s just acting but I’m just pointing it out

  • @andersonle68
    @andersonle68 4 года назад +105

    Guy: starts filming
    ah, another useless bystander i see

    • @Cow29389
      @Cow29389 3 года назад

      Dude you know it's an act

    • @That1Karen
      @That1Karen 2 года назад +2

      @@Cow29389 you do realize that the only people acting is the gf and the bf. The people that were just watching them and overhearing them were not in on it so that guy was not in on it hes just a waste of space. It's called a "social experiment" for a reason

  • @ashleychadwick7104
    @ashleychadwick7104 4 года назад +535

    I’m glad to see people intervening because verbal abuse isn’t ok

  • @mista_mask3163
    @mista_mask3163 4 года назад +769

    I love how women dont tolerate other women disrespecting men. I dont like how men laugh at it.

    • @ExploreWithEthan
      @ExploreWithEthan 4 года назад +7

      Mista _Mask they don’t that’s the thing or real men dont

    • @journeythroughtherails5294
      @journeythroughtherails5294 4 года назад +29

      Mista _Mask Literally I saw this social Experiment of a Guy Touching his girlfriend asking for sex vs the girl asking for sex too, literally When the girl was begging for sex and touch him in places. Everyone else were like “Oooooh get some! 🤘🏽” but then When they swap with the man, everyone were about to kill him

    • @williamhayward7830
      @williamhayward7830 4 года назад

      That’s ur problem u assume shit u don’t know what ur talking about

    • @sittingcrowd912
      @sittingcrowd912 4 года назад +8

      MrTop5 that’s life for you

    • @jezreelg2189
      @jezreelg2189 4 года назад +1

      Try again

  • @worldcool9665
    @worldcool9665 3 года назад +12

    I really hate this kind of social etiquette. I’m a girl and this broke my heart. Of course men have also feelings and we should be treated equally. 💝😢.
    Sorry for everyone who had to experience like this one.

  • @hendoskelly4933
    @hendoskelly4933 3 года назад +6

    I’ve seen things where people don’t care if men get physically abused but at least they do a lot of the time when they are verbally abused. One step closer

  • @gunjeetsingh9035
    @gunjeetsingh9035 4 года назад +131

    "You look like garbage "...he is honestly dressed better than me!!

    • @gavincrow7374
      @gavincrow7374 3 года назад +12

      He dressed better then the girl tbh

  • @mrguy86
    @mrguy86 4 года назад +331

    who else was still mad at the girlfriend even though they knew she was acting

    • @peterdavids31
      @peterdavids31 4 года назад +7

      I'm not sure, according to the description of the video it was real and the uploader filmed it in secret.

    • @peterdavids31
      @peterdavids31 4 года назад

      @@zdog552 Really? Hmm...

    • @theadvancedfloof3514
      @theadvancedfloof3514 4 года назад +1

      Kiwi It said a man mistreating a girl in public, they did the same except the other way..
      The bad thing is, the man actually did it..

    • @bad_boypikachu
      @bad_boypikachu 3 года назад

      me

    • @LTN272
      @LTN272 3 года назад +1

      @@peterdavids31 bruh u dumb asf.

  • @JayStarMoney21
    @JayStarMoney21 3 года назад +62

    Girl: hits guy, yells at him, bullies him, makes him depressed and have low self esteem and he defends himself after she hits him and goes to jail
    The whole internet: Nah he just needs to man up and deal wit it. He can’t POSSIBLY be depressed or sad cause he’s a m a n!
    Guy: y e l l
    The whole internet: CANCEL HIMMMM!!! CANCEL HIMMMMMMMM!!

  • @chris7285
    @chris7285 3 года назад +5

    I love the different angles you target on these problems. Definitely not mainstream and that’s good because you’re raising awareness about less mentioned forms of bullying. It just goes to show that anyone can be a bully. Some of these sound rare but it can be your grandma, uncle, boss, classmate, stranger, girlfriend, boyfriend, coach, etc. Bullying comes in a variety of forms and we definitely need to be aware of all them.

  • @dom-kt8hw
    @dom-kt8hw 4 года назад +559

    Me: *barely touching a girl*
    The girl AAAaAAaAaaaaAaAhhh he hit me
    Me: aight, I’m going to jail

    • @xxxd6068
      @xxxd6068 4 года назад +15

      the exact sount at
      5.12

    • @vvgirl6219
      @vvgirl6219 4 года назад +11

      WHY DOES EVERYONE THINK US GIRLS ARE SO WEAK?? it's not true. Quit it

    • @dom-kt8hw
      @dom-kt8hw 4 года назад +23

      VV girl never said girls were weak

    • @AOTheKidd
      @AOTheKidd 4 года назад +14

      VV girl dumbass, they never said anything about girls being weak. They were a making a (true) statement about how girls always cry out when a guy does the smallest thing to them.

    • @immortalbrolyblack2891
      @immortalbrolyblack2891 4 года назад +4

      @@vvgirl6219not all men think your weak I mean im guy and I don't think your weak.

  • @tabbyy.
    @tabbyy. 4 года назад +240

    The boys: *goofs around on their phones*
    The girls: _Hey leave him alone_

    • @celestial9839
      @celestial9839 4 года назад +16

      тαвву вαву it’s honestly pathetic it’s probably cuz the stigma that society puts on men, how all men are supposed to be brutes who have no emotion just the other day my mother yelled at my brother for not working out and not having a “Manly” Figure like me. There is no such thing as a manly or womanly feature I believe we as a society should stop putting such barriers on ourselves it only causes pain and problems

    • @tabbyy.
      @tabbyy. 4 года назад +7

      FGC_SPACE COP exactly. No matter what gender you are a boy or a girl, you are _still_ a person, and deserves to be treated like one.

    • @celestial9839
      @celestial9839 4 года назад +6

      тαвву вαву i agree

    • @A-halover2000
      @A-halover2000 4 года назад +3

      @@tabbyy. indeed you are very right

    • @reebalbibu2288
      @reebalbibu2288 4 года назад

      Yep you all are right.

  • @mischiefhexagond3201
    @mischiefhexagond3201 3 года назад +9

    2:32 She's a real legend, real real legend....

  • @chewy2430
    @chewy2430 4 года назад +16

    Girl:*gimme money*
    Also girl:*Has Gucci shoes*

    • @pm2669
      @pm2669 3 года назад +2

      mmm 😑

  • @Mike-xt9fm
    @Mike-xt9fm 4 года назад +473

    I pity the guy who started recording the conflict, it goes to show how much morals he has.. good video ! Keep up the good work 👍👍

    • @axissplayzlivestream6131
      @axissplayzlivestream6131 4 года назад +17

      Honestly I would have slapped that bitch back to the kitchen

    • @VerbalVantage
      @VerbalVantage 4 года назад +2

      Axiss playz LIVE Stream lmaooooooo

    • @jaydutta7711
      @jaydutta7711 4 года назад +1

      @musical fetty Fuck off, he said that right...😂😂

    • @qwashington8493
      @qwashington8493 4 года назад +5

      sorry i would've screamed worldstar and kept it rollin then stopped her

    • @danted.7651
      @danted.7651 4 года назад +1

      its fake

  • @Bikergirl_40
    @Bikergirl_40 4 года назад +267

    First time I’ve seen a social experiment showing men can be abused in a relationship too and people stood up to say something

    • @hades0572
      @hades0572 4 года назад +5

      30-40% of all domestic violence dispute victims are male but you only ever hear of the man being the baddie and further more see if a male can get into a DV house to get away from an abusive spouse. Aint gonna happen.
      PS No it's not happened to me I just hate hypocrites and double standards.

    • @descorchedfurnst2790
      @descorchedfurnst2790 4 года назад +2

      Hades thank feminism, its all about women's rights and making them superior to men. No one cares about men.

    • @Jomana_azhar
      @Jomana_azhar 4 года назад +1

      @@descorchedfurnst2790 THATS NOT TRUE
      before feminism u have no idea how much women suffered
      Feminism isn't about women being superior
      It's about equality don't worry
      Someday all this bullshit will change

    • @demonfire1897
      @demonfire1897 4 года назад +3

      @@Jomana_azhar No, feminism USED to be about equality. Not anymore. It's a poisonous heap of garbage now

    • @Jomana_azhar
      @Jomana_azhar 4 года назад

      @@demonfire1897 that poisonous garbage is not feminism
      It's garbage :)
      All the equality stuff is feminism

  • @captainghost4995
    @captainghost4995 3 года назад +2

    Other people I have seen they laughed at our pain these people who have stepped up have brought my first smile in a long time

  • @theycallmeanimegod2803
    @theycallmeanimegod2803 2 года назад +4

    I have 100%💯 respect for the people who stood up for the guy

  • @eggo_mylego196
    @eggo_mylego196 4 года назад +552

    Girl: You don't even dress properly
    Me: YoU DOn'T EvEn DrESs PrOPerLY
    Thx to every one who liked this comment

  • @islandboybry
    @islandboybry 4 года назад +192

    When couples are arguing
    Random person on the bench: “Allow me to introduce myself”

    • @sittingcrowd912
      @sittingcrowd912 4 года назад +10

      Lol dude was recording

    • @emiogawa86
      @emiogawa86 3 года назад

      @F.B.I Could you please open your door?

  • @degame5176
    @degame5176 3 года назад +6

    I actually feel relieved by seeing this video that there is humanity left now

  • @gramma1352
    @gramma1352 2 года назад +3

    I'm proud of the 2 women and the 1 man that stood up for the boyfriend.

  • @melanievasquez3532
    @melanievasquez3532 4 года назад +1199

    im sorry i know this is a experiment but she cant be judging his outfit choices when she don't look good either.

    • @saionsandifer3005
      @saionsandifer3005 4 года назад +16

      She bad

    • @Merlin-tlg
      @Merlin-tlg 4 года назад +1

      Haha

    • @meow32145
      @meow32145 4 года назад +14

      @raven from teen titans it's just a social experiment relax 😒

    • @cobrafn2682
      @cobrafn2682 4 года назад +22

      Once again it’s an experiment they’re ACTING. Don’t you get that.

    • @ohwhatelse
      @ohwhatelse 4 года назад +5

      Spooky ...HE looks fine! SHE looks (& acts) cheap!

  • @blah6585
    @blah6585 4 года назад +64

    The first guy just recorded it. That’s hella messed up. I felt so bad for the guy being yelled at by her, even tho it was a act. I was still upset. And the fact that he just sat there and did nothing but record makes me even more mad.

    • @vvgirl6219
      @vvgirl6219 4 года назад +5

      I agree. That's totally messed up. I'm ashamed for him

    • @nicholesilva8258
      @nicholesilva8258 4 года назад +3

      What do people get out of recording if they’re not gonna do anything right?

    • @mikelawhite
      @mikelawhite 3 года назад

      @@nicholesilva8258 they don't care. They asshole. They just laugh

  • @theonebeing981
    @theonebeing981 3 года назад +1

    Surprising it was, how men literally had the most passive approach to the situation, god damn, the time I expected men to stand up for one another and it's women that have the guts to defuse the situation.

  • @Drewz15
    @Drewz15 3 года назад +12

    It's a totally different reaction when a woman is abused. They barely care about men's emotion

    • @basmalaosama5997
      @basmalaosama5997 3 года назад +1

      yeah men have feelings too

    • @sydneymcmillian
      @sydneymcmillian 3 года назад +1

      As a girl I feel insulted by this honestly and how dumb society is because I feel men’s pain sm

    • @mikelawhite
      @mikelawhite 3 года назад

      @@sydneymcmillian exactly. The society don't care if man get abused. And if the man fight back, the society wan to punch him.

    • @whitehole9726
      @whitehole9726 3 года назад

      Men aren’t just like dirt with no feelings

  • @philly452009
    @philly452009 4 года назад +63

    She sounds like a gold digger, but I knew a young man who was being physically abused by his girlfriend, and everyday would come to work with cuts and bruises, so one day he called a friend to pick him up in back of the plant (the manager slipped him out the back gate), and she came to pick him up, but he had already left.

  • @eh-dl2fz
    @eh-dl2fz 4 года назад +3346

    Only 1% will read this, but the 1% that reads this is beautiful in every single way! 😁🥰❤️

    • @dezairiek4649
      @dezairiek4649 4 года назад +23

      Thanks mate! You 2.
      Remember: True beauty begins inside!💕💕😁❤

    • @jarofbees8455
      @jarofbees8455 4 года назад +9

      Awww you beautiful to

    • @shaneaycock1890
      @shaneaycock1890 4 года назад +10

      Thank you. You're beautiful as a human being. I hope life brings you all the joy in the world.

    • @miraclecushionberry2955
      @miraclecushionberry2955 4 года назад +7

      Ayyy wassup😝thank u u are also

    • @marley.andme__
      @marley.andme__ 4 года назад +7

      Thank you.
      God Bless !!

  • @rosasantanna
    @rosasantanna Год назад

    I LOVE THESE KIND PEOPLE! You are an inspiration! ❤❤❤

  • @Namaskara_Bangaluru_04
    @Namaskara_Bangaluru_04 3 года назад +1

    This is was so amazing...I was overwhelmed after seeing the video ❤️

  • @darkhearts5438
    @darkhearts5438 4 года назад +135

    I love how you just zoomed up when the man started recording like “wHy aReN’t YoU iNtErFeRiNg!”

  • @norathenightfury4030
    @norathenightfury4030 4 года назад +133

    *I feel bad for the man who is being abused by he's girlfriend*

    • @scottfreeman5854
      @scottfreeman5854 4 года назад

      Doiiiii dupedado ,,, geez

    • @thegaminghamster9666
      @thegaminghamster9666 4 года назад +5

      ITS Actresses

    • @DankMumbas
      @DankMumbas 3 года назад +1

      I feel like you are under 13 just sayin.

    • @fae5825
      @fae5825 3 года назад +1

      @@DankMumbas first of all, what does that have to do with anything
      second of all, is there a problem with being under 13?

    • @JoshZnh
      @JoshZnh 3 года назад

      Just sayin he use bold so i think he knows its not real

  • @omaeawamoushinderiu-nani9847
    @omaeawamoushinderiu-nani9847 4 года назад +4

    Thanks for making this. Of course I’m not a male but nobody ever realizes that males can be abused by their girlfriends and it’s really sad.

  • @naidraug1990
    @naidraug1990 Год назад +2

    When I was verbally abused by a women I couldn’t do anything to make it stop, I didn’t even know who to go to. She knew I wouldn’t say anything back or lay a finger on her

  • @BALLOONLION
    @BALLOONLION 4 года назад +35

    I’m glad that people actually stood up for that man

    • @vvgirl6219
      @vvgirl6219 4 года назад +3

      Yeah, the first one should be ashamed of himself

  • @luich2275
    @luich2275 4 года назад +230

    If it was the other way around everyone would’ve jump on the guy

    • @Dre-yd2xh
      @Dre-yd2xh 4 года назад +41

      right, society is a peace of shit, fuckin sexist double standards

    • @rayrynZ
      @rayrynZ 4 года назад +34

      EXACTLY, a girl was beating up one of my lady friends and I grabbed the girl and shoved her to the ground and I got suspended for a week for standing up for someone

    • @roystonfernandes9445
      @roystonfernandes9445 4 года назад +4

      lmao savage guy @@rayrynZ

    • @rayrynZ
      @rayrynZ 4 года назад +9

      Royston Fernandes well she wouldn’t leave her alone so.. yeah

    • @mistermatute8183
      @mistermatute8183 4 года назад +14

      @@rayrynZ For real? That's stupid that they suspended you for standing up for someone. They should have suspended a girl that beat up your friend instead. I'm sorry that you got suspended for doing the right thing. Damn this society pisses me off.

  • @neiloychowdhury9337
    @neiloychowdhury9337 3 года назад

    I am happy people actually intervened, this is such a miracle.

  • @hamiltonfan6953
    @hamiltonfan6953 4 года назад +8

    This makes me upset because when this happens to a girl, EVERYONE is upset. But with this, when it happens to a guy, so many people won't even react. It's really messed up. Cuz when I was bullied for the third time, people finally recognized what I was going through. But when my guy friend was bullied very severely, I was one out of 2 people who stood up for him. It was messed up and I actually cried when he and I talked about it because nobody else thought that it was important. Both men and woman shouldn't be treated like garbage and forced to do things that they are incapable of doing. We are all human beings, we all have feelings, we all deserve to live a happy life. No matter what gender or race we are. Even sexuality doesn't matter when it comes down to how somebody should be treated. I was bullied for being bisexual, but I'm proud to say it. Some of my friends are transgender, that doesn't mean they should be treated differently either. We are all beautiful and smart human beings.

  • @amyawilliams6321
    @amyawilliams6321 4 года назад +132

    Lady: " my daughter she's 12 years old..."
    Me: TWELVE?? TF??

    • @PrinceXVI316
      @PrinceXVI316 4 года назад +11

      She look 18

    • @sekebazek2039
      @sekebazek2039 4 года назад +1

      😆👍

    • @rayzoldyck8044
      @rayzoldyck8044 4 года назад +7

      My Fucking god i was at that part of the video and I was saying the exact same thing, oh my god the fuckin coincidence. 🤣

    • @Emerly808
      @Emerly808 4 года назад +1

      She looks like some 14

    • @imyourmochi9600
      @imyourmochi9600 4 года назад +3

      Ikr, I'm like WHATTTT!? SHE LOOKS LIKE 17 OR 16

  • @billiestar8482
    @billiestar8482 4 года назад +219

    She is acting like a gold digger
    Girl: "gummies money!!"

  • @jess_bumblebee
    @jess_bumblebee 4 года назад +1

    People dont react the same when it's the opposite gender that's what ticks me off the most god bless the actual people who stood up

  • @animalkingdom2871
    @animalkingdom2871 3 года назад

    I wanna cry! I loved the people who intervened! I hate seeing people treated that way!😖

  • @urhedaintrite4899
    @urhedaintrite4899 4 года назад +89

    Girl: all you do is waste your time on that stupid game
    Boy: all you do is thinks about other boys

  • @thunderscorpion770
    @thunderscorpion770 4 года назад +112

    "Where's the money? Why are you dressed like this?" Sounds like she's pimping him out

    • @Dippa1991
      @Dippa1991 4 года назад +4

      LickHerLow Scorpio sounds like a gold digger

  • @alexal7342
    @alexal7342 2 года назад +2

    This video made my heart warm. I love how people also stand up for men because most of the time people would only stand up for females which is wrong.

  • @christopherko475
    @christopherko475 6 месяцев назад +1

    Omg that how my father treats me when I just have social issues… it’s the most unhelpful thing to do even when you’re trying to make your point

  • @ginnakilong
    @ginnakilong 4 года назад +54

    There's still a good men and women out there. The woman (with her daughter) give us the best answer/advice for healthy relationship.

  • @roserose3081
    @roserose3081 4 года назад +77

    Ik it’s not real but I stared to cry😭he looked so nice and innocent! He didn’t deserve this and he looked AMAZING😪🥺

  • @IndorilTheGreat
    @IndorilTheGreat Год назад +1

    I was in a relationship with a woman that had several of these qualities.
    The first time I stood up for myself, she began smearing me to her friends and family, and I was suddenly being a "difficult boyfriend." It got to the point where my ex outright said, "You made me look abusive! I'm not abusive - women can't abuse men. Only men can abuse women. People always believe the woman in situations like this." Right then and there, I knew I had to get out for my own safety, so I did. The breakup was an absolute nightmare, but the right thing to do.
    Stay safe out there, folks.

  • @qualityname4775
    @qualityname4775 4 года назад +4

    Girlfriend: do you know what your doing?
    Boyfriend: Nothing .-.

  • @UnknownUnknown-kg7yw
    @UnknownUnknown-kg7yw 4 года назад +82

    It's crazy how men can be treated this way and will get zero help. If the roles were reversed, everybody would run toward the woman to lend a hand.

    • @thegoldenboy3799
      @thegoldenboy3799 4 года назад +4

      True

    • @francistoopiln709
      @francistoopiln709 4 года назад

      @Iron Monster funnily enough the woman could've been kidnapped easily

    • @francistoopiln709
      @francistoopiln709 4 года назад +3

      @Iron Monster but i see where you're coming from

    • @alana.s2774
      @alana.s2774 4 года назад +2

      people did go up and help..

    • @renlsr9921
      @renlsr9921 4 года назад +1

      Francis Toopiln men too HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAH

  • @lizziedoesthings1450
    @lizziedoesthings1450 4 года назад +149

    "This isn't your business go away"
    "Mankind is my business. The common welfare is my business. Sorry if that offends you. You ok bro? "
    My guide to stand up for the guys more often 👍

    • @jimgag2
      @jimgag2 4 года назад +2

      Lizzie Does things A great line from Charles Dickens’ “A Christmas Carol” and appropriate for the season. Good comment.

  • @Mushroom321-
    @Mushroom321- Год назад

    A wonderful example, & MOTHER The 2ND women is !! .. 👏👏👏🥰🥰 the daughter must be proud..

  • @lydiaheelu2681
    @lydiaheelu2681 3 года назад +4

    So sad that it’s actually like this in real life 😢😢😢😢. There are a lot of men out there suffering in silence.

    • @mikelawhite
      @mikelawhite 3 года назад

      Becos men ar strong. That why the society don't care

    • @lydiaheelu2681
      @lydiaheelu2681 3 года назад

      @@mikelawhite Strong or not, man or woman, no human being deserves to be mistreated.

    • @mikelawhite
      @mikelawhite 3 года назад

      @@lydiaheelu2681 I know. That why it sad

    • @lydiaheelu2681
      @lydiaheelu2681 3 года назад

      @@mikelawhite Very sad.

  • @udaydixit933
    @udaydixit933 4 года назад +149

    She can't judge him by his clothes

    • @anonymoustopsecret109
      @anonymoustopsecret109 4 года назад +11

      It's a social experiment. She didn't mean it, and these situations (people judging each other by what they're wearing) happens quite often for real.

    • @angietv5833
      @angietv5833 4 года назад +1

      It was a joke!

    • @ibladen7874
      @ibladen7874 4 года назад +3

      I don't even see what's wrong with the clothes 😅 does it look bad??

    • @pugassassin5591
      @pugassassin5591 4 года назад

      @@ibladen7874 yes

    • @pugassassin5591
      @pugassassin5591 4 года назад +1

      @@anonymoustopsecret109 Yes we know that but it's still funny. People shouldn't judge other people in public. Just on the internet.

  • @celestial9839
    @celestial9839 4 года назад +76

    *Im the woman buy me stuff* How bout you be the “Strong,Independent” woman you are and buy it urself
    Edit: This also applies to bums who get women pregnant then ditch them cuz they cant own up to their actions
    P.S I dont hate women

    • @hithere-io1ed
      @hithere-io1ed 4 года назад +1

      Hell yes

    • @ibelievethesecret80
      @ibelievethesecret80 4 года назад

      Exactly! I’d rather be able to do stuff on my own! A lot of people say I need to find a “rich husband” so I don’t have to work! If it’s HIS money I’d rather still work and make my own! Lol

    • @celestial9839
      @celestial9839 4 года назад

      Carlos Gutierrez K

    • @celestial9839
      @celestial9839 4 года назад

      Renee Guenette Glad you see the problem thank you for being a person with common sense

    • @nicejoke4074
      @nicejoke4074 4 года назад

      My time skip is unbeatable....

  • @pulsex7276
    @pulsex7276 3 года назад

    I'm glad that this video was made. It really should have more views.
    It doesn't matter who the victim is or who the abuser is or whether either is male or female.
    Abuse is abuse and an abuser is an abuser regardless.

  • @isatanicblinki6152
    @isatanicblinki6152 3 года назад +1

    I like the fact that when you slightly start to be anywhere rude or even look like you being rude to a girl ppl lose their shit

  • @mysteryman9641
    @mysteryman9641 4 года назад +11

    3:39 - Great speech, she seems like a good mum and she said some really good advice in how to handle disputes and misunderstandings.

  • @danielsalazar6211
    @danielsalazar6211 4 года назад +7

    It's nice to see that there are some good women out there that will stand up for a guy that is being verbally abused by his girlfriend.

  • @chicagogalaxy670
    @chicagogalaxy670 3 года назад +1

    Glad to see people people stand up for the man for once

  • @suzannerey3684
    @suzannerey3684 3 года назад

    I love this. My son was severely abused and beaten by his girlfriend. He stood there and took it.... never told anyone. Until he finally started breaking down to me. His mom. I cried when I realized that the abuse could happen from a young woman who should know better. Its time to protect our boys , and stop always believing a woman who abuses them or assaults them. This woman has it right with her comments at the end of the video. Why doesnt anyone stick up for boys and their place in this world. It is so sad to me.

  • @starlight13081
    @starlight13081 4 года назад +22

    God I couldn't imagine this actually happening in real life wow!! This is sad male or female this is unacceptable.

  • @kimberlysharkey8164
    @kimberlysharkey8164 4 года назад +27

    Girl: look at what your wearing!
    Boy: *looks at outfit*
    Me: his outfit is perfectly fine! He's not the one wearing plaid AND stripes!

  • @leetheviewer2856
    @leetheviewer2856 Год назад +1

    I can’t stand double standards like this! This world is disgusting!

  • @MrEarth-dr9sj
    @MrEarth-dr9sj 2 года назад

    I was relieved after seeing girls coming up to stop the abuse
    This is the first video in which atleast some are coming up to help
    🥺🥺🥰🥰

  • @socairnone5550
    @socairnone5550 4 года назад +20

    Your partner gives you grief .... just walk away and don't look back.

  • @flower2364
    @flower2364 4 года назад +77

    Abuse is abuse but this shows how it seems to be acceptable for a woman to bully a man ...I would say something whether male or female.

    • @user-bc5cf5kr4s
      @user-bc5cf5kr4s 4 года назад

      Yeah, Ethiopia Elias is a devil in the flesh. Abuses her husband.

    • @user-bc5cf5kr4s
      @user-bc5cf5kr4s 4 года назад

      Leo women seem abusive, toxic 🤮

    • @GuardianHero14
      @GuardianHero14 4 года назад +1

      Male or Female. They can try to defend themselves. But, if the majority of the people think that it's acceptable for a woman to abuse a man, that doesn't mean they're always right. People have choices, but, that doesn't mean they are allowed to do anything what they want. If you people want to say, don't judge, then what I can tell you people is that let the true God do the right judgements!

  • @jamesdrabkin7790
    @jamesdrabkin7790 Год назад +1

    Speak for New York where I'm from and New Yorkers almost always try to take the side of the woman simply for the fact that she's a woman. God bless these people that actually stand up for men and realize that men are human beings as well.

  • @EnderSpino
    @EnderSpino 3 года назад +3

    Finally a video where people actually defend the guy

  • @jnrhaillesellasie8678
    @jnrhaillesellasie8678 4 года назад +195

    Oh well damn! I luv the very first woman in black top & the one with a 12 year old daughter 😎... Isnt it funny the first man trynna take a video ? Like wtf for?

    • @qwashington8493
      @qwashington8493 4 года назад

      the women with the black top looked like michelle rodriguez

    • @eyecomeinpeace2707
      @eyecomeinpeace2707 4 года назад +2

      IKR? Maybe he was recording in case things got out of hand and a scuffle broke out and report to the cops?
      NOT!!!

    • @shinji3106
      @shinji3106 4 года назад +1

      He looks like he just got his phone and tryna take a picture

    • @lilbro3605
      @lilbro3605 4 года назад

      Her daughter is thicc asf bro ( I’m 13 ) but honestly man🤤🥵

  • @itsyaboilester2158
    @itsyaboilester2158 4 года назад +65

    When she said her daughter was 12 I thought she was like 15

  • @user-yq4sc1xe3u
    @user-yq4sc1xe3u 2 года назад +2

    3:40 relationship starts with respect ❤️. But many people are failed to understand this

  • @iixzu6460
    @iixzu6460 3 года назад

    Matthew you are the nicest person I've ever watched on RUclips because when I was in 2 grade. People would bully me because I would wear school clothes every day.

  • @leogato7865
    @leogato7865 4 года назад +36

    Same here, i promised myself to disappear so many times then one day i left and never came back, been 12 years.

    • @spidersrcool2244
      @spidersrcool2244 4 года назад +2

      Leo Gato Good for you! I was in an abusive relationship from age 16 to 22. It started off ok. Downhill from there. I wasn't an angel at all. I knew that it was never getting better at 22, duh, and I left. I couldn't live that way. Peace

  • @makenicehkb3274
    @makenicehkb3274 4 года назад +16

    Relationships and Dating are based on women’s “wants and needs” mostly now a days from the start. How you approach..to where you take her..to what you do for her.. and don’t forget the competition to bragging to her girlfriends.. And the list continues. Not all women are like this, but society has molded the majority.. especially in America.

    • @raavansays922
      @raavansays922 3 года назад +3

      In India too

    • @JDNR30k
      @JDNR30k 3 года назад

      But that doesn’t mean u be rude to ur man.... just be nice

    • @JST03
      @JST03 2 года назад

      Exactly! Ppl say things like "treat your lady nice", "she deserves this or she deserves that", " treat her like a queen", and a bunch of other things that only apply to her needs and wants, but he deserves all those things too not just her.

  • @gamingcinema8836
    @gamingcinema8836 2 года назад +2

    Girlfriend: "Why are you looking at those girl? Am I not good enough for you?"
    The Girls: *A mom and her 12 year old daughter*
    I CAN'T 😂😂😂

  • @jamessharp9790
    @jamessharp9790 2 года назад

    Two of those women are just gold .