Talk Dirty to Me | The Naked Marriage Podcast | Dave and Ashley Willis

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
  • Is it okay to talk dirty to each other during foreplay and/or sex? This has been a fairly common question submitted at NakedMarriagePodcast.com. In this episode, Dave and Ashley tackle this hot-button topic with an unfiltered conversation about our freedoms and our responsibilities in the bedroom.
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    Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry.

    Dave and Ashley partnered with MarriageToday in 2018. MarriageToday (and its live events and media brand of "XO") is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. As part of the MarriageToday/XO Team, Dave and Ashley speak at all XO events, host The Naked Marriage Podcast, create new marriage resources, and co-host the MarriageToday television broadcast on the Daystar Network which features their teachings plus the teachings of MarriageToday's founder, Pastor Jimmy Evans.

    The Willis family includes four sons ranging in age from preschool to high school and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas.

Комментарии • 42

  • @countrygirl102395
    @countrygirl102395 2 года назад +17

    You should have an episode for teens that are wondering why they should wait for marriage, I wish someone had told me biblical reasons to save yourself for marriage. That in marriage it is great to have that freedom but how damaging it can be to have premarital sex

  • @monicaswavel6074
    @monicaswavel6074 3 года назад +13

    Om!! Thank you for sharing this! I definitely needed this! I didn't want anything from the world coming into our marriage but I think I went overboard.... I'm going to go find my husband and tell him what I like and how much I want him! God bless you! We don't cuss each other but I wasn't sure about bedroom talk. This cleared things up for me. And btw we are pastors and actually talked about sex and marriage and family for a month this year so yes! What a blessing!

    • @melodykubiak5850
      @melodykubiak5850 2 года назад

      The marriage bed is to be undefiled, a holy place. Talking dirty is not in keeping with that. Could you say those things to Jesus' face? He hears everything you do. We're supposed to be LOVING the most precious, cherished person in our lives, which we cannot do while calling them dirty names, etc. Dirty talk is not an expression of love.

  • @NonUpgradeCameraMan
    @NonUpgradeCameraMan 3 месяца назад +1

    I gave up on sex with my wife years ago. I was always begging and always getting turned down. I have always been faithful to her in our fifty year marriage. She is the only one I've been with. I think the world of her. This is the one thing I wish I could change.

  • @jose-anneleclair7561
    @jose-anneleclair7561 2 года назад +3

    I love how open you guys are with this topic, especially coming from a very reserved Christian background. I especially love the saying “don’t settle for less” - there really is so much more!!

  • @dawnaskey4975
    @dawnaskey4975 3 года назад +3

    The things I want to comment but don't want read! I will say this, my honey made the space safe after a lifetime of abuse. That empowered me to heal, to find joy but most of all to believe that God is good. The freedom found from within a safe space is amazing!

  • @MalinLH
    @MalinLH 3 года назад +3

    In keeping with the 80’s theme, I thought the title was going to be a Rick Roll, and it was really going to be about sharing cleaning duties. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @scottwhitley5542
    @scottwhitley5542 3 года назад +1

    Dave and Ashley, whoop, whoop!

  • @terrygodgirl4430
    @terrygodgirl4430 3 года назад +6

    I love this couple ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lolitasd316
    @lolitasd316 3 года назад +2

    Your podcast is a blessing thank you

  • @Rancid-Jane
    @Rancid-Jane 3 года назад +4

    20:21 Cursing or "cussing" requires the invocation of a deity, normally calling the deity to punish another person(s). Most of the "dirty" words, that people are bothered about, are vulgarisms.

  • @miraenadominguez1496
    @miraenadominguez1496 2 года назад

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS PODCAST

  • @doofanhiikyaa6617
    @doofanhiikyaa6617 3 года назад +1

    this is so good.

  • @godschild7909
    @godschild7909 2 года назад +5

    A lil sexy and a bit naughty is ok but not abused or dsrespected

  • @eunicemhoya4023
    @eunicemhoya4023 2 года назад

    Love you guys, you speak truth#nakedTruth though l am single l love your pragrames & l watch them on you tube l believe l will implement everything when my time comes to start my family. Can you please do some podcasts for us single ones, because your podcasts are very nice because you always go to the Bible for referrals

  • @Godchaserforever1973
    @Godchaserforever1973 3 года назад +1

    Great podcast. I love ya'll

  • @luevondataylor6286
    @luevondataylor6286 3 года назад

    I really enjoyed this it helps alot

  • @godschild7909
    @godschild7909 2 года назад

    I agree whith Ashley

  • @shanaemccain2370
    @shanaemccain2370 2 года назад +1

    Porn or name calling isn’t nothing we have entertained. Our question is using the “cuss” words for our genitalia’s or the speed we wanna receive @ the particular moment..

  • @susanmikan8447
    @susanmikan8447 2 года назад +1

    Disrespectful to call ugly names

  • @godschild7909
    @godschild7909 2 года назад +1

    Im scared

  • @suzanneporter5353
    @suzanneporter5353 Год назад

    Kentucky here! What city?

  • @glendawoodson592
    @glendawoodson592 3 года назад

    Thanks for this topic I needed to hear this especially this date it is helping me to see sex in a different light

  • @doofanhiikyaa6617
    @doofanhiikyaa6617 3 года назад +1

    lol i love you guys. God wants us to enjoy our sex life.

  • @stephaniebrown7009
    @stephaniebrown7009 2 года назад

    I know this is based on The marriage union.
    I was married 32 years,now divorced for more than 5 years.it was a sexless marriage for 8years.
    My ex husband,didn't want to get guidance. So I eventually Decided

    • @stephaniebrown7009
      @stephaniebrown7009 2 года назад

      That this wasn't what Marriage was supposed to me I was unhappy.
      I'm now in a healthy, emotional mature relationship. We enjoy each other,are together as a married couple would be however. We live separate. I'm 62, he's 55. Our values,ideas, sexually compatible,and very open and we communicate. We are we, not me or I. Marriage is not what we want.I do believe God understands our intentions.
      We struggle with not being married having sex ,but for now this is what we are.
      I love US😊❤️

  • @ronmance6715
    @ronmance6715 2 года назад

    Ok,so you two are always talking about married couples, now what about people who are single and are not finding that right person or maybe not ready to find someone, are adult movies or reading material still a bad thing?

    • @melodykubiak5850
      @melodykubiak5850 2 года назад

      Sin is still sin no matter if you are single or married.

    • @ronmance6715
      @ronmance6715 2 года назад

      @@melodykubiak5850 Thank you for your input, and there are probably many thoughts on this topic, anyone else care to weigh in ?

  • @tnoutdoors7016
    @tnoutdoors7016 2 года назад

    Pat benatar.

  • @MakayiJav
    @MakayiJav 9 месяцев назад

    Hey, great job this sounds like it’s all based on Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire. And yes, that’s the material you need to have him resonating with erotic electricity at your will. Sounds like too much IK, but just for the basics it's worth go'ogling her ;)

  • @melodykubiak5850
    @melodykubiak5850 2 года назад +5

    The marriage bed is to be undefiled, a holy place. Talking dirty is not in keeping with that. Could you say those things to Jesus' face? He hears everything you do. We're supposed to be LOVING the most precious, cherished person in our lives, which we cannot do while calling them dirty names, etc. Dirty talk is not an expression of love.

    • @ggrace1133
      @ggrace1133 2 года назад +2

      I agree. Sex should be worshipping each other. Vulgar and dirty are just that. Making love isn’t about making vulgar or making dirty. That’s for pornography, which many men watch, get a thrill out of, and then want to act out in their own bedroom. Such things are lowering us to our baser selves, and in my opinion defiles the marriage bed.

    • @r.walker7986
      @r.walker7986 9 месяцев назад

      unfortunately people are not moved to be sexual through holy talk or even love. its carnal. Nobody is getting aroused reading the bible... people need a little something extra to inspire it or it will usually just die. Attraction will fade and so will interest.

    • @melodykubiak5850
      @melodykubiak5850 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@r.walker7986 ~ I couldn't disagree with you more. As a woman married for 44 years next month, I can say that my husband has never said such things to me, has not even called me names when we argue, and we are thriving in our marriage. Keeping the marriage bed holy has nothing to do with holy talk or getting aroused reading the Bible, it has to do with treating your spouse with the highest respect and keeping what happens in the bedroom between the couple. No need to brag, just need to love each other.