I agree with your response niam neej vam. I respect you so much because your answers are always so thorough and thoughtful. Thank you for being respectful to your listeners.
#1, your wife’s love language is food. She takes pride in her dishes and saves it for you. Even if you don’t eat it as a meal. Tell her so save you a little. As a side dish and thank her and complement her on her cooking. If you like healthier selection, tell her which dishes you like. So she can incorporate it into your weekly meals. #2, accident happens all the time, your son is not cursed. The probability of accidents happening in increases with extreme sports (skateboarding is one of them). Love your son, he’s still here, regardless of the state he is in.
Koj cia le tso tseg mog. Nkauj moob lwm xem los yeej tseem mauj coob2 peb hmoob yeej ib txwm tsi yuav yus tus maum nawb mog.peb tsi yog meka mog tsi xob ua li kos tsam lwm nub yus tsi mauj tsej muag ntsib kwv tij mog npooj ywg os mog
Kuv teb rau khub nkauj nraug ib lub xeem na,txawm tias neb sib yuav los thaum kawg cov laus yeej yuav tsum paub nawb vim thaum sib yuav ces yuav need cov laus los ua niam ua txiv ua mej koob na
Lmao! Thaum kuv tseem hluas es peb muaj 1 tug phauj nug kuv tias, Nyab, koj cev puas tab seeb na? Ces Kuv kuj teb hais tias kuv cev tsis tab seeb no laub! Vim nws tias kuv puas tab seeb? Ces kuv tsis muaj minyuam ces Kuv kuj tias kuv tsis tab seeb no mos! Then she start smiling. And again, she said es nyab, koj muaj mi ab lawm los? Ces kuv teb nws tias wb, kuv tsis muaj os phauj! Then now she start laughing at me. Ces kuv saib nws luag2 lawm ces kuv thiaj tias es yog li cas? So kuv tsis tshua to taub lo lus . Tab seeb, tsis tab seeb. It’s kind of opposite. Hmoob way ces tsis tab seeb ces yog muaj mi ab. Miskas way mas the word “ tsis” means tsis muaj baby haha.
Q2: Hmong parents need to stop wishing bad omens to their kids. We need to wish our kids godspeed whether we agree with them or not. Hmong people already suffered enough throughout history. This is how we can reach the stars.
Hais rau tus me ntxhais uas koj niam muab koj daim duab coj mus tham hmoob nplog naj. Ua cas es koj niam yuav liam nkaus li cov niag pog laus tim nplog teb lawm thiab os xu siab dhau lawm os me ntxhais aw kom niam mus yuav tshuaj ntxuav nyiaj los xwb maj. Hlub koj kawg li thiab kuj nrog koj tu siab thiab txaj muag thiab
Q1: Before u throw in the towel, have a heart to heart talk with ur wife. She loves u & loves to cook, but her demanding u to eat is over the top. When I cook a good meal for my hubby, I ask him to try r eat, but I dont make demands. If he likes the food, great, if not then I eat most of it. Q2: Life is too short. Tell ur husband to forgive his son for being an unfilial son. Im sure deep down he feels remorseful.
Hmong nplog yeej go by their last name with their father’s first name as their last name. It’s taboo so Hluas nkauj muaj ntau ma nrhiav dua os. Txhob ua yus niam Txiv tu saib thiab tag kev cia siab rau yus.
Lol puas yog li Maiv Puv hais. Cov txiv tsev tam sim no tsis nyiam cov poj niam ua ua noj ua haus. Lawm nyiam cov tu cev ua zoo nkauj lawm xwb. Cov niam tsev ua noj los tsis zoo, tsis ua noj los tsis zoo thiab. Yog li pojniam yuav tsis paub ua niam tsev tag. 😆😃
Secret #2 face the true brother the true will help you Tell your parents and see what they think and I think like and love is different just like need and want I think right now you still blind for love or like her but later on the road I don’t think it going to work out But it’s up to you
Hai txog tus txiv tsev uas koj pojniam ua zaubmov rau koj noj mas nws ua tsi yog lawm nws yuav tsum ua yam ua koj nyiam noj pab tau koj thiaj tsi muaj mob e neb obleeg thiaj muaj kev kaj siab mog.kuv mas kuv tsi nyiam noj cov muaj roj thiab qabqab tsev li thiab tiamsis kuv tus txiv tsi yuam kuv noj nws yeej tostaub kuv zoo mas kuv nyiam noj yam twg los nws ua rau kuv noj kuv tsi noj cov nws ua los nws yeej tsi hai tsi cem kuv lis os me tub.
Q2: no it’s not karma. You’re the parent, be the bigger person and show your kids that you will always be there for them. And did your husbands ever stop to consider why his son is so against him? If he was your real birth son, would you think it’s karma?
Tus kwv tij kuv xav mas koj yuav tsum tau tso tseg koj tus hluas nkauj uas yog koj tus muam nawb vim sijhawm no neb tsis tau muaj me nyuam ua ke koj khiav tawm koj thiaj li yuav tso taug tseg
Secret story, son you should leave her as soon as possible before your secret expose. If she's a good girl she won't force you to marry her and plan to run away like that.
1st secret: Son, better let that girl go. It’s wrong to married a girl with the same last name as yours. D you love your parents? If you answer yes, better let her go.
To the brother with the same last name of your girlfriend. It’s best, you walk away. That’s your own sister from the same ancestor bloodline…. Don’t disgrace yourself and you parent. No one can sleep with their own sibling. You wouldn’t want your future children(s) to have defects and/or deformities. You don’t want to have regrets in the future. Love her as your sister, but NOT your girlfriend or partner. There’s plenty of mermaids in the sea!
Q1- your wife shows her love to you thru her foods and cooking. Also if she really love you she should not force or make excuses for you to eat her food because we will all died because of obesity and overweight. It will be hard on the person that put on those weight. Hard to lived, moved, fine clothes and so on. So if she really love you than she should give you an option to eat and how much to eat. Not everyone can eat the same amount of portions. Q2- I don’t think it is 100% karma but 50% only because your son makes bad decisions. Skateboard is a dangerous sport and can possibly lead to injury or even paralyzed. But if he is driving to work everyday and someone hit him or he hit a deer or get a speeding ticket than that would be more karma because he’s doing something in good faith but something bad happened to him unlike making bad decisions and bad decisions caught up to him. That’s just my option.
To the guy with the same last name as the girl…. Now days there’s all kinds of different relationships/marriages/situations. If you still value yourself as a hmong person/guy n respect your parents, let go of the relationship. If you only think of yourself n your girlfriend then do what you want.
Taboo story: If you can live a life without Hmong ppl, then stay. If you can't, then get out If you can. I'm in my mid40s....I have not seen a successful taboo story. They always end in separation bc our culture is too strict around that topic. One of my best cousin growing up, went through it. They had a child together.....the child have to live and carry that taboo sin, not fair, and they ended up separating bc it's too shameful to show upevery timee with the nose pointing.
1st question, brother, tell your wife you have had enough of her bullshit. Let her eat her damn food. Since she's so unhappy, then divorce her. That's an unhealthy life.
#1 if you want to divorce your wife because she feeds you too much you may want to reflect on the real reason why you don’t want to be with her. Communication is key. Food is her love language. Tell her your love language. #3 is too funny😂 #4 break it off with your girl. Red flag from the start if she couldn’t be honest with you from the start. Also wants you to hide it from your family is a red flag. #5 you’d be surprised how common this happens. I personally know someone this happened to where the mom posed as her daughter. But the thing is that the mom didn’t know the daughter knew. The daughter finally confronted her 5 years later with how it traumatized her in taking photos and how it made her feel uncomfortable with the mom. The mom apologized for what she did and that she didn’t have intentions of hurting her daughter but that was her coping mechanism at the time with what she was going through in life and that she’s sorry. Maybe have a heart to heart conversation with your mom and try to sort things out? If she doesn’t acknowledge her wrong then maybe that’s when you can cut her off. She’s probably embarrassed or hates herself for doing it as well, Hmong ogs have mental health problems they don’t know about. Give her a second chance to explain.
Q1: You should be happy that your wife loves to cook. Eat, but just eat in small amounts. Tell her you love her but don't want to gain too much weight.
Q1: sharing is caring so stop complaining. Q2: it’s just your stepson’s fault and luck for enjoying a dangerous sport. He’s probably very angry at his dad bc maybe you’re not a very good stepmom. There’s a reason why a child’s being rebellious against his dad.
2nd question, sister, as pertaining to your stepson since he is so undisciplined and lacks morals and manners and has no respect for his father, leave him be. Let him rot in his karma. For his behavior and ungratefulness he deserved it. He's grown. Made his own choices and decisions. Karma come in all.
To the young wife and husband who both got married at 15 years old.... im sorry but what?! What 21st century parents still allow this. Kids getting married. We are only talking about 2015ish only. I would not allow this with my kids. To the young adult dating with the same last name... I think some ppl still think this is a very taboo idea, but as long as you both are not related very close. I think it's fine. I know a few couple who have the same last name and are married and I don't see a problem. It's mostly just the OG's.
Secret2: Don’t taboo it’s not worth it! Sooner or later your secret will come out and you will be embarrassed forever. How do you know she’s not going to taboo with someone else since she has no morals. Secret3: You have every right to be mad at your mom for using your pictures to catfish those young Laos Hmong guy. It’s ok live by yourself it’s less headaches. Your mom needs to put her ego down and apologized to you. Looks like she don’t cared so just lived your life.
Q1: tell your wife that “u eat to live, not live to eat.” I feel bad for u, bc I could relate to u. I don’t care for good food, and if someone forces me to eat every day, that would be so annoying. If she wants to be fat, that’s her business, but don’t drag u in too.
Q1: I wish I was like you so I’m not fat 😂 but yes we do need to watch what we eat. Hmong people are overeating! Your wife needs to understand that health is first. Q2: even though it’s step parents if you mistreat them (if they love) you will get karma too!
Q1. Enjoy your wife’s delicious cooking. Only a few husbands get to enjoy eating their wives’ best cooking. Now most wives don’t like cooking meals for their husbands.
Q: the young Hmong lady falls in love with the Hmong man with the same last name. Follow your heart to marry your Hmong man with the same last name will bring shame and embarrassment to your parents, family and clan. But if your love for him is much more important and stronger than these Hmong shame and embarrassment, then marry him. But if your love for him is ordinary, then stop your relationship with him now.
Tus me nus Aws !!!! Qhov pheej Kom koj noj ces ntshe nws hlub222 koj o …yog koj tseem muab nrauj thiab ntshe koj yuav khuv xim thiab koj yuav noj nws pluas mov o mog Hov qhov nws pheej liam koj muaj hluas nkauj más yeej dhau zog but yog koj yeej ncaj ncees tiag ces g mob g khaus koj tawv li o …… vi Nws khib22 koj xwb o nawb
Q2: If you as a parent think that it's a curse than that's what it is..but you are also cursed because you now have a handicap son that you have to take care of if his wife leave him. Not a good thing to curse your children Hmong ppl 😕 STOP doing things like that!!
ua li cas koj ho tsis nyiam tus poj niam nyiam ua noj ua haus txiv neej mas phem tshaj li pob tau tus poj niam nyiam ua noj ua haus los cem ho tau tus poj niam tsis ua noj haus los cem tias tub nkeeg tsis ua noj ua haus los yog ruam tsis txawj ua noj ua haus tus poj niam txawm ua tau qab los poj niam kom koj noj los koj tsis xav noj ntau los koj saj me2 koj hais tias qab kawg no xwb
Q1. Kwv tij aw....koj tus poj niam ua kom koj plab zais zais es tsis zoo nraug lawm ces thiaj tsis mus tham niam nkauj mos ab xwb los mas. Tej zaub mov ko tsis muaj leej twg yuam tau yus noj os, leej twg txawm yuam los tsis quav ntsej noj li xwb los mas kwv tij aw cas yuav ruam ua luaj li na....
#1- You are so lucky you wife feed you. I assume that she clean a take care of the house well. These kind of people usually is neat and clean. It’s a mistake to divorce her. You next wife will be a lazy wife who expects you to cook and clean and work. You house will like a junk yard. Want that life?
Question 1. I get mad when my husband doesn't want to eat. Because he can't cook for us both so he wait until we starve and almost die for me to cook for us to eat(true story when I was pregnant with his first son!!) 🤬😡 So now he have to eat when I make it. Because he only wait for me to cook. But if you don't want to eat the food she makes maybe tell her what you like. Maybe you have divorce thinking in your head and that is why you always fight with her until you divorce. But the grass is not greener on the other side. Stay humble, respect your wife. Treat her like she's smart. And just challenge her to cook something that YOU would like to eat. Why do you just get mad at her for. Maybe you're the one who is stupid and don't know how to cook.
To boy with girlfriend same last name. PLEASE DO NOT marry her. Maybe I'm an OG but that is just wrong. Don't kill your parents. There a lot of girls out there with different last name. She knows what you two doing are wrong and I doubt her parents will agreed with you both. Leave the relationship.
Nasty dude..if you already question ur relationship due to sharing the same last name..then everyone will criticize you..let her go not worth the headache unless ur willing to leave the family
Secret 2: Thaub cas koj ruam ua luaj li na. You seriously got manipulated by your gf. The way she manipulated you into dating her and not caring about our Hmong culture, already says a lot about her. Koj mloog nws hais ces lwm hnub nws tsis xav yuav koj los nws muab koj veg kiag xwb. Think with your brain not your little brother. Sometimes we have to let the love of our life go if it’s going to destroy our family’s relationship. Your parents deserve to know.
*First story* Nah , it’s just you that don’t understand your aunty words. 😂 You can’t say “we Hmong meska” don’t understand their words 😅 I was born and raise in U.S and I completely understand the elders when they’re saying sh!!t like that 😂😂😂😂 Maybe you’re the 1995-2000’s babies.
#1 She’s selfish making you eat. She should ask you what you like to eat, how much you eat and cook healthy food for you, not fatty food that will give you high cholesterol, diabetes, and high blood pressure. She needs to find another hobby and tone down on the cooking.
I agree with your response niam neej vam. I respect you so much because your answers are always so thorough and thoughtful. Thank you for being respectful to your listeners.
Q2: Tsis yog npam os, nws tsis yog koj yug ces koj xav li rau nws xwb😢
#1, your wife’s love language is food. She takes pride in her dishes and saves it for you. Even if you don’t eat it as a meal. Tell her so save you a little. As a side dish and thank her and complement her on her cooking. If you like healthier selection, tell her which dishes you like. So she can incorporate it into your weekly meals.
#2, accident happens all the time, your son is not cursed. The probability of accidents happening in increases with extreme sports (skateboarding is one of them). Love your son, he’s still here, regardless of the state he is in.
Q#3. Love is bigger than culture. 👍🤣
Neb sib tso zoo duab nawb
Koj cia le tso tseg mog. Nkauj moob lwm xem los yeej tseem mauj coob2 peb hmoob yeej ib txwm tsi yuav yus tus maum nawb mog.peb tsi yog meka mog tsi xob ua li kos tsam lwm nub yus tsi mauj tsej muag ntsib kwv tij mog npooj ywg os mog
I’m too tired after work so I barely cook plus the food you mentioned are most likely not healthy
Lol the first story got me good!!!! 😅
Yuav tsis yog npam thiab tej zaum yog yuam kev xwb
for # 1. oh xav tau ib tug pojniam ua mov qab qab thiab pub yus noj kawg. hais txog tus nyab: so funny😂😂😂
Kuv teb rau khub nkauj nraug ib lub xeem na,txawm tias neb sib yuav los thaum kawg cov laus yeej yuav tsum paub nawb vim thaum sib yuav ces yuav need cov laus los ua niam ua txiv ua mej koob na
Lmao! Thaum kuv tseem hluas es peb muaj 1 tug phauj nug kuv tias, Nyab, koj cev puas tab seeb na? Ces Kuv kuj teb hais tias kuv cev tsis tab seeb no laub! Vim nws tias kuv puas tab seeb? Ces kuv tsis muaj minyuam ces Kuv kuj tias kuv tsis tab seeb no mos! Then she start smiling. And again, she said es nyab, koj muaj mi ab lawm los? Ces kuv teb nws tias wb, kuv tsis muaj os phauj! Then now she start laughing at me. Ces kuv saib nws luag2 lawm ces kuv thiaj tias es yog li cas? So kuv tsis tshua to taub lo lus . Tab seeb, tsis tab seeb. It’s kind of opposite. Hmoob way ces tsis tab seeb ces yog muaj mi ab. Miskas way mas the word “ tsis” means tsis muaj baby haha.
Q2: Hmong parents need to stop wishing bad omens to their kids. We need to wish our kids godspeed whether we agree with them or not. Hmong people already suffered enough throughout history. This is how we can reach the stars.
Secret 2. Come be a vang.... lol... us vang done it in the pass but because of gvp. We stop😅
*The same last name* GROSS!!! Sound like you’re cool with it.
Lmao! That’s me! I loved eating all day. No wonder can loose weight😂
Hais rau tus me ntxhais uas koj niam muab koj daim duab coj mus tham hmoob nplog naj.
Ua cas es koj niam yuav liam nkaus li cov niag pog laus tim nplog teb lawm thiab os xu siab dhau lawm os me ntxhais aw kom niam mus yuav tshuaj ntxuav nyiaj los xwb maj.
Hlub koj kawg li thiab kuj nrog koj tu siab thiab txaj muag thiab
tsis yog kev npam... nej cov hmoob laus tsis muaj tswv yim pab menyuam, zoo lus txhawb zog.... koj yog tus niam koj lub siab mas xav kom yog npam... qhov no qhia tau tias koj tsis muaj kev hlub.....noog koj tus kheej seb koj txojkev hlub rau tus menyuam ntawd me npaum cas.. koj yuav tau mus kawm suni lee txiv nawb....
Q1: Before u throw in the towel, have a heart to heart talk with ur wife. She loves u & loves to cook, but her demanding u to eat is over the top. When I cook a good meal for my hubby, I ask him to try r eat, but I dont make demands. If he likes the food, great, if not then I eat most of it.
Q2: Life is too short. Tell ur husband to forgive his son for being an unfilial son. Im sure deep down he feels remorseful.
Hmong nplog yeej go by their last name with their father’s first name as their last name. It’s taboo so Hluas nkauj muaj ntau ma nrhiav dua os. Txhob ua yus niam Txiv tu saib thiab tag kev cia siab rau yus.
Lol puas yog li Maiv Puv hais. Cov txiv tsev tam sim no tsis nyiam cov poj niam ua ua noj ua haus. Lawm nyiam cov tu cev ua zoo nkauj lawm xwb. Cov niam tsev ua noj los tsis zoo, tsis ua noj los tsis zoo thiab. Yog li pojniam yuav tsis paub ua niam tsev tag. 😆😃
Tsum kiag txhob yuav nawb tsis zoo yog ib xeem nas me tub😢
Secret #2 face the true brother the true will help you
Tell your parents and see what they think and I think like and love is different just like need and want
I think right now you still blind for love or like her but later on the road I don’t think it going to work out
But it’s up to you
Mortar not making good enough peppers 😂😂😂
Q#1. Koj yeej ua tej yam rau koj tus poj niam tsis ntseeg koj lawm. Nws ua mov rau koj noj twm koj ntag.
Hoyo tau poj niam nquag ua noj los yws tau poj niam tsis ua noj los yws tsis paub hais li lawm lau
Hai txog tus txiv tsev uas koj pojniam ua zaubmov rau koj noj mas nws ua tsi yog lawm nws yuav tsum ua yam ua koj nyiam noj pab tau koj thiaj tsi muaj mob e neb obleeg thiaj muaj kev kaj siab mog.kuv mas kuv tsi nyiam noj cov muaj roj thiab qabqab tsev li thiab tiamsis kuv tus txiv tsi yuam kuv noj nws yeej tostaub kuv zoo mas kuv nyiam noj yam twg los nws ua rau kuv noj kuv tsi noj cov nws ua los nws yeej tsi hai tsi cem kuv lis os me tub.
Q2: no it’s not karma. You’re the parent, be the bigger person and show your kids that you will always be there for them. And did your husbands ever stop to consider why his son is so against him? If he was your real birth son, would you think it’s karma?
St#2- u should better, even if she dont, u r still hmong, even my x sister in law was married to same last name but they never last.
To the young man with the same last name girlfriend...END the relationship now before it goes too far
It's karma
Tus kwv tij kuv xav mas koj yuav tsum tau tso tseg koj tus hluas nkauj uas yog koj tus muam nawb vim sijhawm no neb tsis tau muaj me nyuam ua ke koj khiav tawm koj thiaj li yuav tso taug tseg
Secret story, son you should leave her as soon as possible before your secret expose. If she's a good girl she won't force you to marry her and plan to run away like that.
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I dont understand the last name thing. Can someone give me an example? I guess I've never met anyone with a last name that he's talking about.
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Q2: it’s an accident. Not a curse .
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Last story- I agree with you. She is your mom and she victimizes you without your knowledge or consent.
1st secret: Son, better let that girl
go. It’s wrong to married a girl with the same last name as yours. D you love your parents? If you answer yes, better let her go.
To the brother with the same last name of your girlfriend. It’s best, you walk away. That’s your own sister from the same ancestor bloodline….
Don’t disgrace yourself and you parent.
No one can sleep with their own sibling.
You wouldn’t want your future children(s) to have defects and/or deformities. You don’t want to have regrets in the future. Love her as your sister, but NOT your girlfriend or partner. There’s plenty of mermaids in the sea!
Q1- your wife shows her love to you thru her foods and cooking. Also if she really love you she should not force or make excuses for you to eat her food because we will all died because of obesity and overweight. It will be hard on the person that put on those weight. Hard to lived, moved, fine clothes and so on. So if she really love you than she should give you an option to eat and how much to eat. Not everyone can eat the same amount of portions.
Q2- I don’t think it is 100% karma but 50% only because your son makes bad decisions. Skateboard is a dangerous sport and can possibly lead to injury or even paralyzed. But if he is driving to work everyday and someone hit him or he hit a deer or get a speeding ticket than that would be more karma because he’s doing something in good faith but something bad happened to him unlike making bad decisions and bad decisions caught up to him. That’s just my option.
To the guy with the same last name as the girl…. Now days there’s all kinds of different relationships/marriages/situations. If you still value yourself as a hmong person/guy n respect your parents, let go of the relationship. If you only think of yourself n your girlfriend then do what you want.
Q2: It was just an accident
Me tub aw txhob mus tham thiab yuav koj ib lub xeem os ,yog koj yuav ces t'as nro koj tsev neeg koj tej phooj ywg yuav muab koj pov tseg koj nyob tsis taus ib leeg. Thiab koj niam koj txiv nkawd yuav mob siab thiab txaj muag dhau .
To the son with the same last name girlfriend.
Run, run away. Your girlfriend is wrong. Both of your parents will not approve.
RUN!
To the guy dating the same last name: If you truly want to do what's right, then you already know that the best way to do that is to let her go.
Taboo story: If you can live a life without Hmong ppl, then stay. If you can't, then get out If you can. I'm in my mid40s....I have not seen a successful taboo story. They always end in separation bc our culture is too strict around that topic. One of my best cousin growing up, went through it. They had a child together.....the child have to live and carry that taboo sin, not fair, and they ended up separating bc it's too shameful to show upevery timee with the nose pointing.
1st ?. The sooner you dump her out the better you are.
#2 you’re not a baby who can’t decide. You chose your troubled feelings.
1st question, brother, tell your wife you have had enough of her bullshit. Let her eat her damn food. Since she's so unhappy, then divorce her. That's an unhealthy life.
Taboo lover, bro walk away rite now when you still can
#1 if you want to divorce your wife because she feeds you too much you may want to reflect on the real reason why you don’t want to be with her. Communication is key. Food is her love language. Tell her your love language.
#3 is too funny😂
#4 break it off with your girl. Red flag from the start if she couldn’t be honest with you from the start. Also wants you to hide it from your family is a red flag.
#5 you’d be surprised how common this happens. I personally know someone this happened to where the mom posed as her daughter. But the thing is that the mom didn’t know the daughter knew. The daughter finally confronted her 5 years later with how it traumatized her in taking photos and how it made her feel uncomfortable with the mom. The mom apologized for what she did and that she didn’t have intentions of hurting her daughter but that was her coping mechanism at the time with what she was going through in life and that she’s sorry. Maybe have a heart to heart conversation with your mom and try to sort things out? If she doesn’t acknowledge her wrong then maybe that’s when you can cut her off. She’s probably embarrassed or hates herself for doing it as well, Hmong ogs have mental health problems they don’t know about. Give her a second chance to explain.
Lol tshuaj kib
Q1: You should be happy that your wife loves to cook. Eat, but just eat in small amounts. Tell her you love her but don't want to gain too much weight.
Q1: sharing is caring so stop complaining.
Q2: it’s just your stepson’s fault and luck for enjoying a dangerous sport. He’s probably very angry at his dad bc maybe you’re not a very good stepmom. There’s a reason why a child’s being rebellious against his dad.
Neb tu tub tsis yog kev npam...nws keej dhau lawm es raug mob xwb
2nd question, sister, as pertaining to your stepson since he is so undisciplined and lacks morals and manners and has no respect for his father, leave him be. Let him rot in his karma. For his behavior and ungratefulness he deserved it.
He's grown. Made his own choices and decisions. Karma come in all.
To the young wife and husband who both got married at 15 years old.... im sorry but what?! What 21st century parents still allow this. Kids getting married. We are only talking about 2015ish only. I would not allow this with my kids.
To the young adult dating with the same last name... I think some ppl still think this is a very taboo idea, but as long as you both are not related very close. I think it's fine. I know a few couple who have the same last name and are married and I don't see a problem. It's mostly just the OG's.
Secret2: Don’t taboo it’s not worth it! Sooner or later your secret will come out and you will be embarrassed forever. How do you know she’s not going to taboo with someone else since she has no morals.
Secret3: You have every right to be mad at your mom for using your pictures to catfish those young Laos Hmong guy. It’s ok live by yourself it’s less headaches. Your mom needs to put her ego down and apologized to you. Looks like she don’t cared so just lived your life.
Q1: tell your wife that “u eat to live, not live to eat.” I feel bad for u, bc I could relate to u. I don’t care for good food, and if someone forces me to eat every day, that would be so annoying. If she wants to be fat, that’s her business, but don’t drag u in too.
Q1: I wish I was like you so I’m not fat 😂 but yes we do need to watch what we eat. Hmong people are overeating! Your wife needs to understand that health is first.
Q2: even though it’s step parents if you mistreat them (if they love) you will get karma too!
Q1. Enjoy your wife’s delicious cooking. Only a few husbands get to enjoy eating their wives’ best cooking. Now most wives don’t like cooking meals for their husbands.
Q: the young Hmong lady falls in love with the Hmong man with the same last name. Follow your heart to marry your Hmong man with the same last name will bring shame and embarrassment to your parents, family and clan. But if your love for him is much more important and stronger than these Hmong shame and embarrassment, then marry him. But if your love for him is ordinary, then stop your relationship with him now.
Tus me nus Aws !!!! Qhov pheej Kom koj noj ces ntshe nws hlub222 koj o …yog koj tseem muab nrauj thiab ntshe koj yuav khuv xim thiab koj yuav noj nws pluas mov o mog
Hov qhov nws pheej liam koj muaj hluas nkauj más yeej dhau zog but yog koj yeej ncaj ncees tiag ces g mob g khaus koj tawv li o …… vi
Nws khib22 koj xwb o nawb
#1 wow this man is ungrateful. He deserve a wife that don’t cook and clean but only maintaining herself. You need to start communicating to your wife.
Q2: If you as a parent think that it's a curse than that's what it is..but you are also cursed because you now have a handicap son that you have to take care of if his wife leave him. Not a good thing to curse your children Hmong ppl 😕 STOP doing things like that!!
Neb tus tub tsis mloog leej txiv lus thiaj raug mob los ntawm sport activities mas tsis yog raug npam vim txoj kev npam tsis tshwm sim zoo li ntawv. Npam yog lus Lao, lus Hmoob yog khaum. Txoj kev khaum tswm sim rau ib tug neeg twg txawv txawv heev thiaj yog raug khaum. Tab sis Hmoob yeej liam tej yam tsis yog los muab yuam kom yog kiag thiaj zoo Hmoob siab.
ua li cas koj ho tsis nyiam tus poj niam nyiam ua noj ua haus txiv neej mas phem tshaj li pob tau tus poj niam nyiam ua noj ua haus los cem ho tau tus poj niam tsis ua noj haus los cem tias tub nkeeg tsis ua noj ua haus los yog ruam tsis txawj ua noj ua haus tus poj niam txawm ua tau qab los poj niam kom koj noj los koj tsis xav noj ntau los koj saj me2 koj hais tias qab kawg no xwb
As Hmong we should never marry or date our same last name…it’s a taboo. Same last name came from the same ancestors…😩
Nws xav yuam kom koj rog koj txhob zoo nraug , thiab thaum rog lawm yuav ua kom koj muaj mob
Koj tsis paub nws lub tswv yim phem
Kom txhob muaj neeg nyiam koj hahaha
Q1. Kwv tij aw....koj tus poj niam ua kom koj plab zais zais es tsis zoo nraug lawm ces thiaj tsis mus tham niam nkauj mos ab xwb los mas. Tej zaub mov ko tsis muaj leej twg yuam tau yus noj os, leej twg txawm yuam los tsis quav ntsej noj li xwb los mas kwv tij aw cas yuav ruam ua luaj li na....
#1- You are so lucky you wife feed you. I assume that she clean a take care of the house well. These kind of people usually is neat and clean. It’s a mistake to divorce her. You next wife will be a lazy wife who expects you to cook and clean and work. You house will like a junk yard. Want that life?
Question 1. I get mad when my husband doesn't want to eat. Because he can't cook for us both so he wait until we starve and almost die for me to cook for us to eat(true story when I was pregnant with his first son!!) 🤬😡 So now he have to eat when I make it. Because he only wait for me to cook.
But if you don't want to eat the food she makes maybe tell her what you like.
Maybe you have divorce thinking in your head and that is why you always fight with her until you divorce. But the grass is not greener on the other side. Stay humble, respect your wife. Treat her like she's smart. And just challenge her to cook something that YOU would like to eat. Why do you just get mad at her for. Maybe you're the one who is stupid and don't know how to cook.
To boy with girlfriend same last name. PLEASE DO NOT marry her. Maybe I'm an OG but that is just wrong. Don't kill your parents. There a lot of girls out there with different last name. She knows what you two doing are wrong and I doubt her parents will agreed with you both. Leave the relationship.
Nasty dude..if you already question ur relationship due to sharing the same last name..then everyone will criticize you..let her go not worth the headache unless ur willing to leave the family
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q#1, your wife is too jealous. That’s why she wants you to gain weight. i hate that kinda people who make everything as a problem between you two.
Stess makes me eat.
Secret 2: Thaub cas koj ruam ua luaj li na. You seriously got manipulated by your gf. The way she manipulated you into dating her and not caring about our Hmong culture, already says a lot about her. Koj mloog nws hais ces lwm hnub nws tsis xav yuav koj los nws muab koj veg kiag xwb. Think with your brain not your little brother. Sometimes we have to let the love of our life go if it’s going to destroy our family’s relationship. Your parents deserve to know.
*First story* Nah , it’s just you that don’t understand your aunty words. 😂 You can’t say “we Hmong meska” don’t understand their words 😅 I was born and raise in U.S and I completely understand the elders when they’re saying sh!!t like that 😂😂😂😂 Maybe you’re the 1995-2000’s babies.
#1 She’s selfish making you eat. She should ask you what you like to eat, how much you eat and cook healthy food for you, not fatty food that will give you high cholesterol, diabetes, and high blood pressure. She needs to find another hobby and tone down on the cooking.
tus me ntxhais, koj muab tus fake account ko xa mus rau koj cov brother and sister
Q1: Dude, appreciate your wife’s cooking. Even if you don’t eat as a meal, have a little for snack.