Used to see this as only kids and teens in public goofing off. Can’t help but feel secondhand embarrassment seeing adults who may or may not be mentally ill doing it.
If I have, I've likely repressed it. I'm from the generation where if you acted out in public, you'd get spanked in the parking lot. THEN the embarrassment came, and you didn't do it again. I'm not advocating beating kids in public, but if this is the alternative, it's something to think about.
I was in a "bin store" that sells Amazon and other returns for a cheaper price each day. I think it was the $2 item day I was in there. I was looking through the bins and these two ladies were surrounding two bins as they were going through the items. Another guy walked up to look at the stuff in them and the woman says "This is mine!" The guy says "Are you buying EVERYTHING in this bin? It's not in your cart." I didn't hear her reply. I ended up behind the guy at the checkout and he complained to the store employee about it. The employee said no, unless they have it in their cart, it's fair game for anyone to grab. If they're blocking you, let an employee know and we will deal with them.
But on the other hand, it is 'murrica. So if the costumers wouldn't made this much of a mess, and they wouldn't need this many people to clean it up. The company just fire half the staff to increase profit.
@jenniferwatkins4103obviously, I didn't mean every single person that works in customer service, just like not every customer is a petty, annoying, pretentious asshole, the quality of customer and customer service worker, IN GENERAL, has decreased precipitously
Almost to the point where when you hear about a mass shooting, you just shrug your shoulders and hope it is the people that block the grocery aisle that were shot.
Same. I went to the deli up the road at lunch today and almost got hit head on by someone illegally passing the person in front of them in the oncoming lane. And they just ended up behind the car the person they'd passed had already been behind, it got them nowhere. Like I wonder where you're headed that saving 4 seconds of your time is potentially worth more than someone else's life.
I used to not have excessive discomfort around people who don't speak English. Now, I do, because I routinely notice the most rude and offensive behavior demonstrated by those who don't speak English! Several months ago, while I was shopping in a very tidy family-owned grocery store that a trio of women who were speaking Spanish were shucking corn right over the table bin where the ears were for sale! They were stripping leaves and dropping the silks in a mess, right over where other shoppers would be choosing their corn! They were making a spectacle of themselves and also making more work for store staff who would be responsible for cleaning up after them. Apparently these women failed to realize that buying fresh produce in an upscale family grocery is NOT the same as from some road-side stand! Thinking that maybe the women didn't understand the custom here in most of our U.S. groceries (some do let customers shuck corn, but when they do, there is usually a great big trash can nearby!) I mentioned politely that they weren't supposed to be doing that. Instead of being thanked, one of the women got belligerent and in heavily-accented English rudely told me to mind my own business! That's when I chose to speak to one of the store staff about the situation and to ask that they put a sign up -- in Spanish and English -- to let customers know that they are not permitted to shuck corn inside the store.
Yesssss... I'd love to see parents, teens or etc get pissy from being shamed. I'm sorry I totally saw the elephant makeup shit back when I worked in Sephora, I still hate kids because of it and their entitled parents
Modern progressive wisdom says people shouldn't feel negative emotions like shame or depression. It's making a society of such well-adjusted people though; we must be on the right track with that!
@clamum83 God instilled man with shame to keep us civilized and separates from wild life. Depression is just a sign of, adjusting to major change. Its a normal emotion that even animals share.
@m.w.2401and you would be justified. I would not worry about whether or not they were playing. I’d be worried for my life. Shoot first, ask questions later.
@m.w.2401 I was looking to see if this was just me lol, conceal carry! Not smart to go around harassing people you don't know, especially in the restroom.
There are two side to this coin. I have run into people working in customer service and treat customers like crap. When I grew up, the customer was always right but now it has all gone bad.
To the woman with 3 kids at a restaurant: As a mother, it's your job to teach them how to behave in public. Unless they're all under the age of 2, there's no reason to have kids out of control.
Yea I roll with my 3 boys under 4 with all sorts of activities to keep them busy. We don’t allow screaming and hollering. There are also kid friendly environments where they can be taken to eat. Gotta read the room lol
Genuine question: do parents not play games like "restaurant" or "grocery store" with their kids anymore? Where you pretend to do these activities at home so your kids understand how to act when you do the real thing out in public? I mention this to friends when we're talking about parenting and I get weird looks... Edit: Dear sweet baby Jesus, all y'all in the replies act like hitting your children is the same as teaching them...it isn't y'all, it's just child ab*se. Props to the one Uncle actually teaching his niblings...
If kids don't behave appropriately in an environment, take them out of that environment. TEACH THEM! Eating out in a restaurant is a luxury. If they misbehave, they don't get to eat out UNTIL THEY LEARN (from their parents) how to behave. Once they learn, then take them to the restaurant. If they start with bad behavior, remove them. Sorry if that interrupts your meal but that is part of parenting. Don't continue ruining everyone else's meal.
I guarantee 90 percent vote a certain way, kinda like the nose ring, peacock hair and hockey pucks for earrings vote the same way, The left destroys everything.
Oh I had to go to the tractor supply store and I handed the guy money and he straight up said "How much is that? Count it for me." ARE YOU FUCKING SERIOUS?!?! Then my husband and I went out to dinner and this couple with kids was sitting right next to us not controlling their children. One child kept trying to touch my food and the other one stuck his hand down the back of my pants!
Was coerced into going to see _Hamilton_ 4 years back . Fairly large theater. When the welcoming anouncement came on followed by the request to please turn off phones and no recording allowed , the woman next to me ( about 30) let loose with this ear splitting , screeching "WHOOOOOOO!!" right into my right ear. I turned and looked at her with a completely blank stare , not saying a single thing , and she went into total pissy mood . "You got some kind of problem?" Proceeded to turn _on_ her phone during the show and record a couple of numbers. "Sang" along with the hip hop parts. Don't know which sucked more , her or the show itself. Sometimes I don't bother leaving the homestead. The world is just too peopley.
yup. Retired from retail a few months ago. I can't tell you the number of times that I have had to tell grown ass adults-25 years old and up that it is not ok to play hide and seek or tag in a store. This same group will also play football, basketball, and volleyball in the aisle, where they can hurt other customers. Their children are just as bad as their grown ups.
The other day I heard a child obviously fake crying at the store and it went on for way too long. After they left the store, the mother started going through the groceries and asking the kid "is this the one you want?" probably referring to a chocolate, while the kid was still screaming. I am pregnant btw. Me and my fiance looked at each other and already knew what the other was thinking. Why the fuck are parents rewarding bad, spoiled, publicly inappropriate behaviour?
I was a city Bus Driver when 2020 happened... I watched the public change before my very eyes, and realized there was no recovering from this... Now I live in the woods and dont see people for days even weeks at a time, And I absolutely love it.
Fellow “essential” worker here. Didn’t miss a day of work. Social media started the snowball, covid sped it up like the snowball hit an 80 degree cliff.
All the children and young ppl went feral due to the covid lockfowns and excessive screen time. They fsiled to develope essential skills such as emotiobal intelligence, self and other awareness, group participation/cooperation and social norms. Apparently if you dont have adequate social, in person interactions during devrlooement, you may never acquire them.
Retired children’s librarian here. I saw the same behavior daily. Of course, it’s not the little one’s fault - ALL of such behavior is due to his/her parents. It’s STUNNING and terribly sad. Such a disservice to the little one and society! 😊Take care!
I was an usher in a theatre in the late 90s. Had only one badly behaved person that had to be dealt with in my 3 years there. I cannot imagine that job TODAY. In the US, you'd like get shot for enforcing rules.
@Project2013BIf you're paying the ticket price to see a movie before it hits streaming, it shouldn't be a stretch to sit down and shut up for the duration. It's not Netflix, you can't pause it.
Yes famously baby boomers are exemplars of correct moral behavior. Just look at the baby boomers who have run the white house for the last 30 years. Look at the PDF file baby boomer currently in the white house. I know what young people really need - they need lessons on proper behavior from the generation of lead poisoning and narcissism.
GenXer here and reading your relatable comment brought back a memory of my Mum's "the look" every parent had one and came with its own silent dialogue too 😂
I just mock them. I was in waiting room and this girl starts jaw jacking on volume 11...so i pretended to get a call from my friend Hi BOB!!! NO I HAVEN'T HEARD FROM JADE TODAY LET ME SEE WHAT SHES DOIN...OH REALLY.....YEAH WE CAN DO THAT Just act exactly like they do She marched off to take her all out front. .mission accomplished!!
It’s a double-edge sword. It gives a voice to people who were once invisible, which means the average Joe can publicly call BS on wretched muskrats like Elon. But social media also drives main character syndrome and lets bigoted morons spread hate and misinformation across the globe.
Social media needs to be abolished. It has been absolutely ruinous for our society! Public tantrums would be greatly reduced if there was no internet audience
Parenting is the bigger issue. And giving parents enough support and time to ACTUALLY parent their children correctly. Thats why people used to be better behaved - they were raised by the community to be part of the community.
I went to see a film during my visit in Japan, specifically at the theater in Umeda Sky Building. The audience was so quiet and respectful, what really blew me away was this: after the film ended, i naturally assumed everyone would leave during the credits, instead everyone sat silent in their seats, respectfully watching the credits. No phone, no talking, just silence. Not a single sound until the reel ended and the movie attendant escorted us out. It was mindblowing.
That is how my grown son and I watch a movie in public. We don't talk until ALL the credits have finished. Then we discuss the movie. People are too entitled.
As a 70's kid, if I destroyed a store like that and EMBARRESED my Mom I wouldn't sit for a week. To the lady in the restaurant, I was a single dad to 4 boys and if they acted up at a restaurant I simply gave them that "look" and they sat straight and calmed down. I was pretty lenient at home, but they were TAUGHT to behave in public so as not to disturb others. It is simply a respect thing.
Well l am an old timer, and if we misbehaved outside and got that “look’ from our mum. we knew we were definitely going to catch it when we got back home!!
This is why I go to Walmart at 8am when it opens and I am out of there by 9am. I don't go to cinemas or concerts anymore. People have become wild animals. I avoid crowds as much as possible.
Walmart should be boycotted along with target and those other huge chain stores that put local businesses out of business I think that is the best way to show patriotism to our country
That woman having a panic attack is so PERFORMATIVE. As someone who’s had one, panic attacks are often than not quiet. A majority of the people in this video need to be shamed ASAP.
💯💯💯 Flying is one of my biggest fears and turbulence has never ever made me want to scream like that. It 100% has always been a quiet gasp, stomach dropping and then barely been able to breathe out of straight fear. Wtf is this "my pinky is up so you know I'm super scared" crap? 🤣
I’ve had one before and for me it was hyperventilating and crying not screaming. I think a lot of people describe it as not being able to breathe or having a weight on their chest
I suffer from hardcore panic attacks with crowds or traffic. I legit can't breathe, and im constantly looking around. People who are putting stuff on tiktok think its cool to have these things which is sad.
@KSK1244 same I only go well if I have to go get my medicine from CVS if I need to go to the doctor or if I need to get my hair twisted that’s the only time I go to go outside other than that I’m in the house
I don’t let any of this stop me from living a life outside my house, I don’t run into these situations, they’re far and few between, but it seems prevalent because of social media! If someone harasses me or gives me a hard time, they will pay the price, and I’ll move on with my life!
“Is it ever alright to scream on a plane?” Yes! Yes it is. If the plane is inverted and beginning to nosedive towards the ground at 600 mph. That’s the perfect time to scream.
What bothers me the most are the parents who no longer teach their children manners and respect, but then want to get defensive and/ or confrontational when you call them out on their children’s behavior.
@perthfanny3017 which should be no excuse to not teach them manners. But nowadays parents just shrug saying "they are kids" while their little monsters terrorize their surroundings. YOU are the problem enabling bad behavior, not the kids.
EXACTLY. They are the most teachable at that age and it's your job as a parent to set an example and boundaries. Those kids won't magically turn into respectful adults along the way. I'm pregnant and already despise the thought of hanging out with mothers who let their kids run the show.
I have 4 kids and yes, they are still learning etiquette and aren't perfect, but I for sure am teaching them how to act. Parents need to teach. That's their job.
@Astro95Media I don't remember how my mom handled this, but even as young as 4, I knew that acting up or throwing tantrums, public or private was not going to be tolerated and I should save my energy and behave 😂 I used to sulk or quietly cry in private when she refused to give me something I asked for, but screaming, rolling around or running everywhere, loudly crying, I just didn't even bother having those reactions because I knew the consequences of those behaviours.
@petermilne4852well, everything like that have been banned in Sweden since the 1970s, no corporal punishment in any way. You can easily raise kids without being violent. Still - last years people have started to have their mobile phones with sound on, or talk via video calls without headset on the train for example. It didn’t exist a few years ago. Also it’s not just young people, its people in their 50s, 60s also
The generation of kids that didnt fight anything or anyone, no wars to fight in, no trials of becoming a man, just aged up with the mentality of children and the experience of children.
@petermilne4852Yea people who have suffered corporal punishment generally are more rebellious/aggressive especially against any authority figure and socially awkward by adult age. It doesn't help society it would just make things worse.
There was a dude loudly FaceTiming someone in the theatre behind me recently. I waited a few minutes to see if he would stop, and when he didn’t, I reported him to a worker and he got kicked out.
That public restroom one is terrifying. I would have been calling 9-1-1 if someone came in and started trying to open the door and looking under, muttering and acting weird. To a woman this is a full blown red alert
Whoever it was would get a kick in the face if they did it to me. When you see someone sticking a phone and videoing someone on the toilet, , again if that were me, I'd grab the phone and put it down the toilet.
Im giving them the benefit of the doubt and gonna say the person in the stall is their friend. The only problem is morons see it, and go to emulate it with real people. Its the jackass effect all over again. In the very early days of CKY/jackass when they would do things to "strangers" it was always someone in on the joke but the viewer didnt know that so when they went to emulate it they did it to real strangers
I've had them and seen lots of other people have them and you don't scream. Much more common to say "omg I think I'm having a heart attack, I'm going to die" or, if you're experienced "This is a panic attack, not a heart attack. I'm not dying." 😆
Yeah… my heart rate spiked to 250bpm. My skin turned red. My chest hurt. My toes and fingers clenched and turned ghost white. My face eventually went pale as I clenched my teeth. I remember thinking I couldn’t breathe but I was holding my breath. They gave me some kind of medicine in the ER because I kept having them back to back. Real stress will make your body think you’re 💀.
I spent 10 years in various parts of Japan. I moved back to the states for personal reasons and now I'm in therapy and on anxiety medication because of how unnerving the society acts.
6:40 That woman is not raising her children right. She's responsible for teaching them how to behave in public. Shame on her for ruining someone else's dining experience. If YOU CAN'T manage 3 kids on your own, STAY HOME.
I was in a store and a man was behind me in the checkout line, FaceTiming someone and screaming into his phone in Kreyol. Every step I took, he was on my behind. Finally I turned around and told him (in Kreyol), “Shut up! You’re not home.” 😂😂😂 People assume no one understands their language and even if I didn’t, he was rude. I have lost all patience with these types of people.
@robertwalker5521 Thank you! I was thinking, "Does she mean Creole?" I couldn't figure out how someone would recognize the language without seeing it written at least once!
I only go to Alamo Drafthouse theaters. They have staff monitoring the theater rooms and you can flag one down and report anyone loud/distracting, and the staff will remove that person. it's amazing!
I haven't been to a theater in two years. Last time I went, A family with kids sat behind me with their kids WITH TABLETS at FULL VOLUME. I walked out. I went to the manager and told him I'll never come back. I haven't been in a theater since.
EVERY WHERE WE GO!!!! Side note- At a grocery store a woman was using self check out and her 2 kids (probably 8-13) were standing board straight, white knuckling the cart. They seemed terrified to look anywhere or breathe. A man walked up and told her how well behaved her children were. She ate it up!! Her children just stared at the man straight faced. I thought it was the weirdest interaction. Clearly the mothers a B and the kids know it.
I noticed a distinct shift after COVID. It was like no one knew how to act anymore. EDIT: Wow, did not realize this would statement would bother so many people. Y’all - be nice in the comments. 😬
yep. worked at an applebee’s before and after covid and people got MEAN after that. we always would get the usual complaints before covid, but afterwards people were so incredibly rude and entitled when bringing up an issue. i ended up quitting in late 2021 because i couldn’t take the customers or my lazy ass coworkers anymore.
Social media has turned already self-absorbed fools into complete a$$holes who actually believe they can do whatever they want. I don't understand it and it makes me sick!
I'm honestly surprised not a single clip was about people watching RUclips or having conversations on speakerphone in public. When did we as a society allow this to be okay?
In 2024, I was visiting a castle, a historic site. While all the visitors were looking around quietly, there were 3 women on their speakerphones. I had to stop and wait until they passed. Their loud voices echoed in the castle.
A support worker used to do this at my physical therapy class. Come in, plonk herself down on a chair, ignore her client, and open tiktok on full volume. Like, ma’am, you’re supposed to be on the clock, not on the clock app
Need a version of this about people in cars…. Also go to the Arizona Memorial in Hawaii and watch people taking smiling selfies over what is clearly a mass grave.
I'd say that's a result of social media and having to look perfect in your photos. Couple that with ignorance and you get people smiling over a mass grave.
This. I went on a solo vacation to a bunch of Revolutionary War battlefields in the eastern US, and I'm not taking selfies with a big grin!! I'll catch a photo at the entrance with the National Park/Battlefield Trust sign and then just BE in the moment when I'm out there on the field/in the forest. Maybe take a picture of a monument or plaque. The people who do this at the 9/11 memorial or large cemeteries PISS 👏🏼 ME 👏🏼 OFF 👏🏼
The amount of anxiety that bathroom clip gives me…. When I use public bathrooms I think about what I would do if someone was outside my stall trying to get in. That is horrifying, the guy in the stall doesn’t know what the other guys intentions are. Horrifying
TN Fly Girl (Jenny Blalock) crashed her plane and killed her and her father because she was more concerned with filming for tiktok than actually learning how to fly a plane properly.
Yes. I watched the videos. It looked like she was trying to advance up the ladder WAY before she was ready...if she would ever be ready at all. Some folks may not be cut out to be pilots. 😞
9:30 yeah as someone who is diagnosed with multiple anxiety disorders and was on close to the max dose of meds allowed, panic attacks don’t entail screaming. that’s ptsd. she was just being performative and attention seeking
I worked in a nice store that had a small toy department, parents would leave children to destroy packaging and toys while they went shopping. It was insane 😢
4:26 People act like this because they know they can get away with it. Human nature to push boundaries and see how far you can go. The problem is the line to NOT cross has almost been erased. There are zero consequences.
8:34 it's even worse. It wasn't just a photo shoot. She brought a spirit box to try to speak to Nancy Guthrie's ghost (even tho she is *missing* not presumed dead) she's an OF model promoting that and using a tragedy to do it in the most disrespectful way possible 🙄
I was at Walmart in line for the self checkout the other day and an easily 40 year old man was on the phone in front of me. He was YELLING about his supposed sexual exploits from the night before. There was a probably 11 year old girl standing behind me who looked like she was about to cry. I won’t lie I crashed out on that man. The look on that poor little girls face sent me over the edge. I didn’t even think about the fact he could have easily beat me to death. I didn’t care, I was so disgusted. What bothers me most is the many men who said nothing. I don’t care how wronged you feel you have been by women, cowardice is cowardice. People know what right and wrong is. People being aloud to act like this with no pushback is why it keeps happening. What we allow is what will continue.
@KatlynHaydon it's one way to be sensible. ever heard of minding your own business? you never know how they might react towards something. imagine that dude has a knife, now you're gonna put your life at risk because some narcissist is too loud about sex? hell no.
That’s funny. Because I encountered the exact same scenario standing in line at the airport not too long ago, but it was a chick and her friend in their 20s. But instead I got ganged up on by a bunch of other women, and it was implied that I was a creep for even listening to their insanely loud and inappropriate conversation in front of families. So thats a fascinating double standard you women have.
Since we were homeschooled my mom would specifically take us on errands in the middle of the day so we would be exposed to adult spaces. Even though we were bored out of our minds at the bank or in line so our parents could vote, we were expected to behave like in adults in adult spaces. And if we didn’t think ahead to bring our own entertainment (this was before games on phones were even a concept) then that was on us.
I spent thousands of dollars to fly myself and my family out and see the US premier of a foreign film. Nearly half of the crowd talked through the entire film, completely ruining the experience. Several people walked out because of this. We complained to the event organizers in the middle of the film, and all they said was “that’s just the way people are.” It’s been two years and I’m still pissed about it. It’s insane to me how rude and entitled people can be..
4:10 I swear my jaw dropped and I said "Ahhh! Mas é uma adulta!..." (Oh! But she's a grown up!...) when I saw that woman nonchalantly dropping shoes. She's lucky she's in an US store. If she did that in my country, she'd be kicked out and banned forever!
At a Walmart, I witnessed a mom talking loudly on her phone as her 2 boys ran around yelling and crashing carts into each other and into shoppers.. so I interrupt her phone call and irritatingly says what you want while yelling.. I say are these your twin boys? She says are you an idiot? one's 6 and the other is 8 !! Why would you think they're twins??!! I say because I just couldn't believe anyone would sleep with you more than once..
@kevinleewilliams5119exactly! People who need constant approval and validation from complete strangers are obviously missing something in their pathetic lives 😂
I went to go step off an elevator the other day and there were no less than 5 people standing in front of the door when it opened pushing everyone to get inside while they see 6 of us trying to get off first. I’ve been saying it for years but ever since Covid people have become so self involved and think the world revolves around them. Zero etiquette or manners anymore. And as a stickler for manners, that drives me insane!
I verbally talked through elevator etiquette with my kids one summer on vacation in Dallas, and I had no less than two people say "THANK YOU" to me for teaching them explicitly. I did the same thing with escalators and moving walkways (stand on one SIDE, leave room for passerby on the other). It makes me sound like I'm leading a sociology lecture on the cultural practices of the city dwellers of the area... But hey, my kids at least know the expectations
Spaces being public doesn't mean that they can act however they want and inconvenience everyone around them. It means being considerate of the fact that you're all just trying to get through the day.
For any place of business whether it be a restaurant or store, there should be a sign on the front door stating that if anyone causes any kind of trouble or commotion, the police will be called, and a fine will be incurred.
I saw one the other day, lady had four cars behind her. Light went through the whole cycle until it was red again. And no one honked at her??? Blew my mind
Yes. Yes. The "standing in the way" gets me EVERY. SINGLE. TIME! Just move to the side. Its not hard. Dont stand in the middle of the sidewalk with people walking - move to the side. Dont put your cart in the middle of the aisle - put it to the side. Dont have a row of 5 friends walking all together blocking the whole sidewalk - gather to one side. Dont put your wallet away in front of everyone and block the entrance when you go into costco - move to the side and do it. The list goes on. Today, I went to my brother-in-laws high school concert. When leaving, this women blocked one of the exit aisles so she could toe her show, with multiple empty seat aisles besides her. PEOPLE, JUST MOVE TO THE SIDE!
5:11 when our boys were little going through a stage we didn’t take them to a restaurant. We’d get pizza or maybe take them to DQ for an ice cream 🍦. It was a treat. We didn’t do this often. Now my sons as parents do this too. They hardly eat out bc it’s more of a battle than enjoyable and yes, grocery stores are the rudest now. No consideration of others. They don’t care. I have eyes everywhere when I shop. People have blinders on. It’s amazing
A ways back, was with my entitled sister when she was trying on a few things in a store dressing room when she just left the stuff she wasn’t interested in in a rumpled mess on the floor, nothing put back on hangers, unbuttoned, unzipped. I made the comment to clean up after herself & put the stuff back the way she found it. She said that’s what “those” people were for (sales people). I reminded her I used to be one of those “people”, and it was a second job for me on top of working a full time job during the day.
I remember about a year or two ago, some parents let their kids play fetch in between the tables at an Olive Garden. It's stuff like that that made me never want to be a waiter.
8:43 I have an anxiety disorder and know exactly what it's like to have a panic attack... Does this lady even know what it's like to think you're dying? Because that's exactly how you feel during a panic attack.
Worked at a Ross and had a woman in my line ask what we employees did to make the store look so trashed. I had never wanted to hold up a mirror to someone more in my life. Even at my current job I provided free things to my students (adult students, I work at a college) like a coffee/tea/hot cocoa bar, water bottles, boxes of free stuff I find college students might use-umbrellas, snacks, coupons, DVDs, decks of cards etc. and I’ve recently taken them all away. We have very basic rules, the one always broken is “if you make a mess-clean it up”.
Have you seen this type of behavior in public recently?
Used to see this as only kids and teens in public goofing off. Can’t help but feel secondhand embarrassment seeing adults who may or may not be mentally ill doing it.
I see this sort of thing at work all the time.
No, I avoid the public
If I have, I've likely repressed it. I'm from the generation where if you acted out in public, you'd get spanked in the parking lot. THEN the embarrassment came, and you didn't do it again. I'm not advocating beating kids in public, but if this is the alternative, it's something to think about.
I was in a "bin store" that sells Amazon and other returns for a cheaper price each day. I think it was the $2 item day I was in there. I was looking through the bins and these two ladies were surrounding two bins as they were going through the items. Another guy walked up to look at the stuff in them and the woman says "This is mine!" The guy says "Are you buying EVERYTHING in this bin? It's not in your cart." I didn't hear her reply. I ended up behind the guy at the checkout and he complained to the store employee about it. The employee said no, unless they have it in their cart, it's fair game for anyone to grab. If they're blocking you, let an employee know and we will deal with them.
i feel genuinely bad for people working in any sort of customer service capacity
Amen. People are stupid and entitled ...not a good combo. I don't get it at all
@tduck828I agree, however, the people working in customer service aren't high caliber either
But on the other hand, it is 'murrica. So if the costumers wouldn't made this much of a mess, and they wouldn't need this many people to clean it up. The company just fire half the staff to increase profit.
@nouseforaname86fair enough
@jenniferwatkins4103obviously, I didn't mean every single person that works in customer service, just like not every customer is a petty, annoying, pretentious asshole, the quality of customer and customer service worker, IN GENERAL, has decreased precipitously
I dislike people now even more than I did before.
Almost to the point where when you hear about a mass shooting, you just shrug your shoulders and hope it is the people that block the grocery aisle that were shot.
A little more everyday
Same. I went to the deli up the road at lunch today and almost got hit head on by someone illegally passing the person in front of them in the oncoming lane. And they just ended up behind the car the person they'd passed had already been behind, it got them nowhere. Like I wonder where you're headed that saving 4 seconds of your time is potentially worth more than someone else's life.
I used to not have excessive discomfort around people who don't speak English. Now, I do, because I routinely notice the most rude and offensive behavior demonstrated by those who don't speak English! Several months ago, while I was shopping in a very tidy family-owned grocery store that a trio of women who were speaking Spanish were shucking corn right over the table bin where the ears were for sale! They were stripping leaves and dropping the silks in a mess, right over where other shoppers would be choosing their corn! They were making a spectacle of themselves and also making more work for store staff who would be responsible for cleaning up after them. Apparently these women failed to realize that buying fresh produce in an upscale family grocery is NOT the same as from some road-side stand! Thinking that maybe the women didn't understand the custom here in most of our U.S. groceries (some do let customers shuck corn, but when they do, there is usually a great big trash can nearby!) I mentioned politely that they weren't supposed to be doing that. Instead of being thanked, one of the women got belligerent and in heavily-accented English rudely told me to mind my own business! That's when I chose to speak to one of the store staff about the situation and to ask that they put a sign up -- in Spanish and English -- to let customers know that they are not permitted to shuck corn inside the store.
6:30 Fake Eyebrows, Fake Face, Fake Hair, Fake Lips
Fake Soul….
This is why I love staying home.
The more I stay at home, the safer and more content I feel. No cap. 😌
Even driving is more dangerous than ever.
We desperately need to bring back public shame. People have gotten way too bold in recent years.
Social media rewards bad behavior. We need to record and humiliate these people and make fun of them. That's the only way.
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Yesssss... I'd love to see parents, teens or etc get pissy from being shamed. I'm sorry I totally saw the elephant makeup shit back when I worked in Sephora, I still hate kids because of it and their entitled parents
Modern progressive wisdom says people shouldn't feel negative emotions like shame or depression. It's making a society of such well-adjusted people though; we must be on the right track with that!
@clamum83 God instilled man with shame to keep us civilized and separates from wild life. Depression is just a sign of, adjusting to major change. Its a normal emotion that even animals share.
Harassing people in the public bathroom like that and recording can be sexual harassment, CALL THE POLICE
same
Someone harasses me in a public bathroom like that they will have to worry about bullet wounds.
It's called Vaccine induced psychosis It's VERY Real. Google it.
@m.w.2401and you would be justified. I would not worry about whether or not they were playing. I’d be worried for my life. Shoot first, ask questions later.
@m.w.2401 I was looking to see if this was just me lol, conceal carry! Not smart to go around harassing people you don't know, especially in the restroom.
I was in customer service for 25 years, recently quit because people have lost their minds. It’s sad it really is😢
There are two side to this coin. I have run into people working in customer service and treat customers like crap. When I grew up, the customer was always right but now it has all gone bad.
To the woman with 3 kids at a restaurant: As a mother, it's your job to teach them how to behave in public. Unless they're all under the age of 2, there's no reason to have kids out of control.
And if they are under two and out of control you leave!
Yea I roll with my 3 boys under 4 with all sorts of activities to keep them busy. We don’t allow screaming and hollering. There are also kid friendly environments where they can be taken to eat. Gotta read the room lol
Genuine question: do parents not play games like "restaurant" or "grocery store" with their kids anymore? Where you pretend to do these activities at home so your kids understand how to act when you do the real thing out in public? I mention this to friends when we're talking about parenting and I get weird looks...
Edit: Dear sweet baby Jesus, all y'all in the replies act like hitting your children is the same as teaching them...it isn't y'all, it's just child ab*se. Props to the one Uncle actually teaching his niblings...
If kids don't behave appropriately in an environment, take them out of that environment. TEACH THEM! Eating out in a restaurant is a luxury. If they misbehave, they don't get to eat out UNTIL THEY LEARN (from their parents) how to behave. Once they learn, then take them to the restaurant. If they start with bad behavior, remove them. Sorry if that interrupts your meal but that is part of parenting. Don't continue ruining everyone else's meal.
Don't think she got that memo or the attention economy really went to her head.
Their rudeness is only surpassed by their ignorance.
I guarantee 90 percent vote a certain way, kinda like the nose ring, peacock hair and hockey pucks for earrings vote the same way, The left destroys everything.
It's not ignorance, it's stupidity.
Oh I had to go to the tractor supply store and I handed the guy money and he straight up said "How much is that? Count it for me." ARE YOU FUCKING SERIOUS?!?! Then my husband and I went out to dinner and this couple with kids was sitting right next to us not controlling their children. One child kept trying to touch my food and the other one stuck his hand down the back of my pants!
Was coerced into going to see _Hamilton_ 4 years back . Fairly large theater. When the welcoming anouncement came on followed by the request to please turn off phones and no recording allowed , the woman next to me ( about 30) let loose with this ear splitting , screeching "WHOOOOOOO!!" right into my right ear. I turned and looked at her with a completely blank stare , not saying a single thing , and she went into total pissy mood . "You got some kind of problem?" Proceeded to turn _on_ her phone during the show and record a couple of numbers. "Sang" along with the hip hop parts. Don't know which sucked more , her or the show itself. Sometimes I don't bother leaving the homestead. The world is just too peopley.
@spikespa5208 Someone screaming in your ear is basically attacking you and completely deserving of a punch.
"We need to bring back shame and judgement" you said it!!
Ushers too
The adult child and disobedient children epidemic is a dangerous mix
yup. Retired from retail a few months ago. I can't tell you the number of times that I have had to tell grown ass adults-25 years old and up that it is not ok to play hide and seek or tag in a store. This same group will also play football, basketball, and volleyball in the aisle, where they can hurt other customers. Their children are just as bad as their grown ups.
This is why not everyone should have children
@savagesweetheart90 the public is witnessing 3 generations of lax parenting. It will not improve since each new generation grows more feral.
The other day I heard a child obviously fake crying at the store and it went on for way too long. After they left the store, the mother started going through the groceries and asking the kid "is this the one you want?" probably referring to a chocolate, while the kid was still screaming. I am pregnant btw. Me and my fiance looked at each other and already knew what the other was thinking. Why the fuck are parents rewarding bad, spoiled, publicly inappropriate behaviour?
The calling everything an epidemic epidemic is out of control.
I was a city Bus Driver when 2020 happened... I watched the public change before my very eyes, and realized there was no recovering from this...
Now I live in the woods and dont see people for days even weeks at a time, And I absolutely love it.
Ngl, I'm jealous
It’s my serious contemplation as well. People just suck nowadays.
Fellow “essential” worker here. Didn’t miss a day of work. Social media started the snowball, covid sped it up like the snowball hit an 80 degree cliff.
All the children and young ppl went feral due to the covid lockfowns and excessive screen time. They fsiled to develope essential skills such as emotiobal intelligence, self and other awareness, group participation/cooperation and social norms. Apparently if you dont have adequate social, in person interactions during devrlooement, you may never acquire them.
vaccine damage probaby
That toddler's parents should have made it put every one of those items back on the shelf.
Retired children’s librarian here. I saw the same behavior daily. Of course, it’s not the little one’s fault - ALL of such behavior is due to his/her parents. It’s STUNNING and terribly sad. Such a disservice to the little one and society!
😊Take care!
Right? They are setting up that kid to fail.
At gunpoint.
@papabear2515tantrum is so possible.
Instead they reveled in the mess and might even have put the kid up to it themselves.
Movie theaters need to enforce the rules, or shut up about ticket sales being down.
seriously!!!
I was an usher in a theatre in the late 90s. Had only one badly behaved person that had to be dealt with in my 3 years there. I cannot imagine that job TODAY. In the US, you'd like get shot for enforcing rules.
The prices might have something to do with it, and having to sit with the dregs of society also.
@Project2013BIf you're paying the ticket price to see a movie before it hits streaming, it shouldn't be a stretch to sit down and shut up for the duration.
It's not Netflix, you can't pause it.
I don't think they have enough employees for it.
Being a 66 year-old boomer, a kid acting like that in public was not tolerated back then. Never, ever...not at all.
Exactly
I'm 71. 5 siblings. Dad would tell us to give our heart to the Lord because your ass is mine. He meant that.
We were never allowed to act up in public. Things have changed, for the worse.
Yes famously baby boomers are exemplars of correct moral behavior. Just look at the baby boomers who have run the white house for the last 30 years. Look at the PDF file baby boomer currently in the white house. I know what young people really need - they need lessons on proper behavior from the generation of lead poisoning and narcissism.
GenXer here and reading your relatable comment brought back a memory of my Mum's "the look" every parent had one and came with its own silent dialogue too 😂
“Let me film my kid flinging games off a shelf. Everyone will love this!”
No thought about the poor employees who'll have to clean the mess her child had created, either.
@NixRiverSong That's such nasty disrespect. Those workers have it hard enough already, and it's not like they get well paid for it either.
Years ago you were embarrassed when your phone rang in a restaurant. You apologized and stepped outside to take that call. Can we get that back?
I'd like to get back too the time we had NO mobile phones!
We used to punch people, but that's illegal now.
@SomeUserNameBlahBlah If only we still could! I have a list of those I wanna 👊
I just mock them. I was in waiting room and this girl starts jaw jacking on volume 11...so i pretended to get a call from my friend
Hi BOB!!! NO I HAVEN'T HEARD FROM JADE TODAY LET ME SEE WHAT SHES DOIN...OH REALLY.....YEAH WE CAN DO THAT
Just act exactly like they do
She marched off to take her all out front. .mission accomplished!!
Why people act like back in the days was better it wasn't🤣🤣
Social media is a cancer.
And brainrot
No humanity is the cancer
It’s a double-edge sword. It gives a voice to people who were once invisible, which means the average Joe can publicly call BS on wretched muskrats like Elon. But social media also drives main character syndrome and lets bigoted morons spread hate and misinformation across the globe.
@patrickcardon1643And here we are!
@BrianGibbons-kd5gwTHIS...
Social media needs to be abolished. It has been absolutely ruinous for our society! Public tantrums would be greatly reduced if there was no internet audience
I think it’s good to an extent but it’s over used
You must not understand how the internet works
Parenting is the bigger issue. And giving parents enough support and time to ACTUALLY parent their children correctly. Thats why people used to be better behaved - they were raised by the community to be part of the community.
A rule I followed when raising my kids: if it’s cute age 3 but not at 13, then don’t allow it at 3!
Words of WISDOM!!!!
Great idea! Never heard it before I’m definitely writing that down ✍🏼
Yes! 💯
You're daughter in the thumbnail is ADORABLE
100000%
I went to see a film during my visit in Japan, specifically at the theater in Umeda Sky Building. The audience was so quiet and respectful, what really blew me away was this: after the film ended, i naturally assumed everyone would leave during the credits, instead everyone sat silent in their seats, respectfully watching the credits. No phone, no talking, just silence. Not a single sound until the reel ended and the movie attendant escorted us out. It was mindblowing.
The US is like a herd of cattle/beast.
Japan is so cool. i miss the place
That is how my grown son and I watch a movie in public. We don't talk until ALL the credits have finished. Then we discuss the movie. People are too entitled.
@dee1408I always watch the credits too and enjoy the music.
I too lived in japan so i saw that too. The watching credits thing was a bridge too far.
I’ve said it before and I’ll say many more times
Human beings are the only creatures on this earth that allow their children to misbehave
As a 70's kid, if I destroyed a store like that and EMBARRESED my Mom I wouldn't sit for a week.
To the lady in the restaurant, I was a single dad to 4 boys and if they acted up at a restaurant I simply gave them that "look" and they sat straight and calmed down. I was pretty lenient at home, but they were TAUGHT to behave in public so as not to disturb others. It is simply a respect thing.
Well l am an old timer, and if we misbehaved outside and got that “look’ from our mum. we knew we were definitely going to catch it when we got back home!!
Exactly! People don't have respect for others anymore, or even themselves it seems.
This is why I go to Walmart at 8am when it opens and I am out of there by 9am. I don't go to cinemas or concerts anymore. People have become wild animals. I avoid crowds as much as possible.
Facts!
People were always wild animals, there used to be consequences.
Walmart should be boycotted along with target and those other huge chain stores that put local businesses out of business
I think that is the best way to show patriotism to our country
Fatigue is Real.
If people have no shame advertising their 100K consumer debt then they'll never have shame for this
Good point.
That woman having a panic attack is so PERFORMATIVE. As someone who’s had one, panic attacks are often than not quiet. A majority of the people in this video need to be shamed ASAP.
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Flying is one of my biggest fears and turbulence has never ever made me want to scream like that. It 100% has always been a quiet gasp, stomach dropping and then barely been able to breathe out of straight fear. Wtf is this "my pinky is up so you know I'm super scared" crap? 🤣
She made me sick. That girl is obviously so full of herself, she kept looking at the camera making sure she was being recorded. Disgusting narcissist!
I’ve had many panic attacks and I’ve never screamed like that.
I’ve had one before and for me it was hyperventilating and crying not screaming. I think a lot of people describe it as not being able to breathe or having a weight on their chest
I suffer from hardcore panic attacks with crowds or traffic. I legit can't breathe, and im constantly looking around. People who are putting stuff on tiktok think its cool to have these things which is sad.
It's gotten to the point where I dread going out in public, and I mentally prepare myself to deal with this goofy attention-seeking BS.
This is why I don't step out of my house much.
Same. I’ve been a recluse for ten years now. Grocery stores and appointments.
@KSK1244 same I only go well if I have to go get my medicine from CVS if I need to go to the doctor or if I need to get my hair twisted that’s the only time I go to go outside other than that I’m in the house
Thats not good for your heart.. we need to be with others. The right others
Same, I only go outside for work and essential shopping.
I don’t let any of this stop me from living a life outside my house, I don’t run into these situations, they’re far and few between, but it seems prevalent because of social media! If someone harasses me or gives me a hard time, they will pay the price, and I’ll move on with my life!
“Is it ever alright to scream on a plane?” Yes! Yes it is. If the plane is inverted and beginning to nosedive towards the ground at 600 mph. That’s the perfect time to scream.
If that happens I’m going to be like bugs bunny in the cartoon screaming, crying, pulling my hair as the plane is going down.
That kid needed to have a pillow put over her face till the Sandman came and paid her a visit.
Best chance of survival, beat up the other passengers so you can take their oxygen
😆 🤣 😂 dang. I needed that laugh. Best comment 👌
Or if the Terries try to get froggy.
When children scream at a store, sometimes I will join in and also scream. It doesn't make me any friends, but it does get the screaming to stop.
What bothers me the most are the parents who no longer teach their children manners and respect, but then want to get defensive and/ or confrontational when you call them out on their children’s behavior.
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I hate the "they are kids!" excuse. Yes, they are kids, with no manners and considerations for anyone else but themselves...
@RoyalBlend-e5nthis is exactly why, BECAUSE they are kids.
@perthfanny3017 which should be no excuse to not teach them manners. But nowadays parents just shrug saying "they are kids" while their little monsters terrorize their surroundings. YOU are the problem enabling bad behavior, not the kids.
EXACTLY. They are the most teachable at that age and it's your job as a parent to set an example and boundaries. Those kids won't magically turn into respectful adults along the way. I'm pregnant and already despise the thought of hanging out with mothers who let their kids run the show.
I have 4 kids and yes, they are still learning etiquette and aren't perfect, but I for sure am teaching them how to act. Parents need to teach. That's their job.
Bingo. I taught my kids VERY early how to behave in public and if they act afool, they're no longer in public. They eventually pick up on it.
At least you’re trying, some parents don’t even do that
@Astro95Media I don't remember how my mom handled this, but even as young as 4, I knew that acting up or throwing tantrums, public or private was not going to be tolerated and I should save my energy and behave 😂 I used to sulk or quietly cry in private when she refused to give me something I asked for, but screaming, rolling around or running everywhere, loudly crying, I just didn't even bother having those reactions because I knew the consequences of those behaviours.
A lot of parents have the Ipad raise their kids. It's trash parents mostly, and too many trash parents.
Thank you for being a good parent.
The social media generation: offended by everything, ashamed of nothing.
I said it 10 years ago and i'll say it again...social media will be the downfall of society.
it's already happened, the fact people can be fooled by misinformation online is nuts
@xxdesertstorm I completely agree.
Mostly TikTok
@kacismith5911I'd have to agree with that, but rest of them aren't far behind
I AGREE!
We're going on two generation where some people have not faced consequences.
^THIS
i dont know about other countries but most of this steams from when they outlawed smacking,well at least here in NZ
@petermilne4852well, everything like that have been banned in Sweden since the 1970s, no corporal punishment in any way. You can easily raise kids without being violent.
Still - last years people have started to have their mobile phones with sound on, or talk via video calls without headset on the train for example. It didn’t exist a few years ago.
Also it’s not just young people, its people in their 50s, 60s also
The generation of kids that didnt fight anything or anyone, no wars to fight in, no trials of becoming a man, just aged up with the mentality of children and the experience of children.
@petermilne4852Yea people who have suffered corporal punishment generally are more rebellious/aggressive especially against any authority figure and socially awkward by adult age. It doesn't help society it would just make things worse.
There was a dude loudly FaceTiming someone in the theatre behind me recently. I waited a few minutes to see if he would stop, and when he didn’t, I reported him to a worker and he got kicked out.
Cultural fatigue.
Mortimer had a fun line he used, when speaking to his brother in that bathroom...
Main Character Syndrome fatigue.
Actually, more like diversity fatigue....
No more ordered structure... people are tired of rules
That public restroom one is terrifying. I would have been calling 9-1-1 if someone came in and started trying to open the door and looking under, muttering and acting weird. To a woman this is a full blown red alert
Whoever it was would get a kick in the face if they did it to me. When you see someone sticking a phone and videoing someone on the toilet, , again if that were me, I'd grab the phone and put it down the toilet.
Im giving them the benefit of the doubt and gonna say the person in the stall is their friend. The only problem is morons see it, and go to emulate it with real people.
Its the jackass effect all over again. In the very early days of CKY/jackass when they would do things to "strangers" it was always someone in on the joke but the viewer didnt know that so when they went to emulate it they did it to real strangers
Social media is a cancer in society.
I used to have panic attacks. Not once did I scream.
I still have them and I've never screamed, let alone filmed myself. I may breathe loudly if I'm hyperventilating.
I've had them and seen lots of other people have them and you don't scream. Much more common to say "omg I think I'm having a heart attack, I'm going to die" or, if you're experienced "This is a panic attack, not a heart attack. I'm not dying." 😆
Yeah… my heart rate spiked to 250bpm. My skin turned red. My chest hurt. My toes and fingers clenched and turned ghost white. My face eventually went pale as I clenched my teeth.
I remember thinking I couldn’t breathe but I was holding my breath.
They gave me some kind of medicine in the ER because I kept having them back to back.
Real stress will make your body think you’re 💀.
Same. I used to have panic attacks and I didn't scream at all. I just laid there or just tried to let it all pass.
Same I breathe then self soothe with headphones and calming music while on a plane
I spent 10 years in various parts of Japan. I moved back to the states for personal reasons and now I'm in therapy and on anxiety medication because of how unnerving the society acts.
The more I am online, the more I want to move away to a secluded area
6:40 That woman is not raising her children right. She's responsible for teaching them how to behave in public. Shame on her for ruining someone else's dining experience. If YOU CAN'T manage 3 kids on your own, STAY HOME.
I was in a store and a man was behind me in the checkout line, FaceTiming someone and screaming into his phone in Kreyol. Every step I took, he was on my behind. Finally I turned around and told him (in Kreyol), “Shut up! You’re not home.” 😂😂😂 People assume no one understands their language and even if I didn’t, he was rude. I have lost all patience with these types of people.
CREOLE ??
Yep.
@robertwalker5521 Thank you! I was thinking, "Does she mean Creole?" I couldn't figure out how someone would recognize the language without seeing it written at least once!
I meant it as I spelled it. That’s the native spelling.
@ladyzeta6 I figured that was the case, isn't the spelling "creole" French?
The lady trying on shoes without socks it’s freaking disgusting
People talking in movies is why I go on weekdays in the afternoon
people talking in movies is why i no longer go at all
There some crazy deals also if you go Monday through Thursday during certain hours
I only go to Alamo Drafthouse theaters. They have staff monitoring the theater rooms and you can flag one down and report anyone loud/distracting, and the staff will remove that person. it's amazing!
I just wait for the ones worth watching to come out on streaming or dvd and watch in the comfort and quiet of my home.
They finally beat me down to the point that I just don't go anymore. Unless the theaters start enforcing a few rules, they can do without my business.
My neice is a teacher. " all kids are little assholes now". Shes in her 5th year😢.
I worked as a teacher abroad, the kids were so demonic so spoiled.
I haven't been to a theater in two years. Last time I went, A family with kids sat behind me with their kids WITH TABLETS at FULL VOLUME. I walked out. I went to the manager and told him I'll never come back. I haven't been in a theater since.
6:28 I have a toddler and 9 year old…I have older people come to our table to congratulate us on how well behaved our kids are 😅
That's because it's rare and they appreciate your parenting skills😊
My mom did that and so do I.
Thank you for being a good parent!
People used to do this when my siblings and I were younger, strangers would tell my parents how polite and well behaved we were 🙂
EVERY WHERE WE GO!!!!
Side note- At a grocery store a woman was using self check out and her 2 kids (probably 8-13) were standing board straight, white knuckling the cart. They seemed terrified to look anywhere or breathe.
A man walked up and told her how well behaved her children were. She ate it up!! Her children just stared at the man straight faced.
I thought it was the weirdest interaction. Clearly the mothers a B and the kids know it.
This is why I'm a shut in.
I truly envy you.
I’m glad to see I’m not alone in my reasoning.
The lady that was letting her kids scream in the restaurant is part of the reason some restaurants are banning kids.
I noticed a distinct shift after COVID. It was like no one knew how to act anymore.
EDIT: Wow, did not realize this would statement would bother so many people. Y’all - be nice in the comments. 😬
Two years of being told to stay inside your house or go to jail tends to have that effect
yep. worked at an applebee’s before and after covid and people got MEAN after that. we always would get the usual complaints before covid, but afterwards people were so incredibly rude and entitled when bringing up an issue. i ended up quitting in late 2021 because i couldn’t take the customers or my lazy ass coworkers anymore.
You believe covid was real?? Wow.
You know other countries had covid lockdowns too right? And most other countries do not have people acting deranged in public like America does.
They know how to act, they just don't care. I think it's time for people to make these idiots care about acting right again.
No one cares anymore about anyone else but themselves
not no one...
Social media has turned already self-absorbed fools into complete a$$holes who actually believe they can do whatever they want. I don't understand it and it makes me sick!
I'm honestly surprised not a single clip was about people watching RUclips or having conversations on speakerphone in public. When did we as a society allow this to be okay?
That speakerphone crap was a problem when I was in college 10 years ago.
In 2024, I was visiting a castle, a historic site. While all the visitors were looking around quietly, there were 3 women on their speakerphones. I had to stop and wait until they passed. Their loud voices echoed in the castle.
In the 🛁 seriously
A support worker used to do this at my physical therapy class. Come in, plonk herself down on a chair, ignore her client, and open tiktok on full volume. Like, ma’am, you’re supposed to be on the clock, not on the clock app
My introverted self didn't need any more reasons not to go outside
yup saves money too
Need a version of this about people in cars….
Also go to the Arizona Memorial in Hawaii and watch people taking smiling selfies over what is clearly a mass grave.
I'd say that's a result of social media and having to look perfect in your photos. Couple that with ignorance and you get people smiling over a mass grave.
This. I went on a solo vacation to a bunch of Revolutionary War battlefields in the eastern US, and I'm not taking selfies with a big grin!! I'll catch a photo at the entrance with the National Park/Battlefield Trust sign and then just BE in the moment when I'm out there on the field/in the forest. Maybe take a picture of a monument or plaque.
The people who do this at the 9/11 memorial or large cemeteries PISS 👏🏼 ME 👏🏼 OFF 👏🏼
9:06 panic attack my ass.
More like a look at me, give me attention attack. What a loser 😂
The amount of anxiety that bathroom clip gives me…. When I use public bathrooms I think about what I would do if someone was outside my stall trying to get in. That is horrifying, the guy in the stall doesn’t know what the other guys intentions are. Horrifying
As soon as someone says "they are kids...." you KNOW the kids are terrible
TN Fly Girl (Jenny Blalock) crashed her plane and killed her and her father because she was more concerned with filming for tiktok than actually learning how to fly a plane properly.
Yes. I watched the videos. It looked like she was trying to advance up the ladder WAY before she was ready...if she would ever be ready at all. Some folks may not be cut out to be pilots. 😞
She was also on a concoction of drugs and many of them weren't supposed to be used while operating any kind of vehicle
Yikes
I'm not polite when people are rude, weird or entitled. I tell everyone off, I do not care.
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It pays to be strong too
Good, keep the cycle going 👍
Well, that’s not OK either.
@Me97202 Nah, it's justified
9:30 yeah as someone who is diagnosed with multiple anxiety disorders and was on close to the max dose of meds allowed, panic attacks don’t entail screaming. that’s ptsd. she was just being performative and attention seeking
Funny, it turns out now that "if it feels good, do it", is a lousy way to run a civilization.
People have learnt nothing from The Simpsons 😅
@Gawain5193or Sodom and Gomorrah🧐 🎉
In a nutshell….I hate people
AMEN! Agreed!
Ditto. I hate even going into public anymore.
Me too
I worked in a nice store that had a small toy department, parents would leave children to destroy packaging and toys while they went shopping. It was insane 😢
4:26 People act like this because they know they can get away with it. Human nature to push boundaries and see how far you can go. The problem is the line to NOT cross has almost been erased. There are zero consequences.
It's also because they can get engagement. The problem is that we see the FA but we don't see enough of the FO.
This is the reason why I stay at home.
You would like the channel JoeyB, f ing hilarious
8:34 it's even worse. It wasn't just a photo shoot. She brought a spirit box to try to speak to Nancy Guthrie's ghost (even tho she is *missing* not presumed dead) she's an OF model promoting that and using a tragedy to do it in the most disrespectful way possible 🙄
I was at Walmart in line for the self checkout the other day and an easily 40 year old man was on the phone in front of me. He was YELLING about his supposed sexual exploits from the night before. There was a probably 11 year old girl standing behind me who looked like she was about to cry. I won’t lie I crashed out on that man. The look on that poor little girls face sent me over the edge. I didn’t even think about the fact he could have easily beat me to death. I didn’t care, I was so disgusted. What bothers me most is the many men who said nothing. I don’t care how wronged you feel you have been by women, cowardice is cowardice. People know what right and wrong is. People being aloud to act like this with no pushback is why it keeps happening. What we allow is what will continue.
Gender studies
The men stood idling by because they knew it would just end badly for them.
@movieguy1985That’s one way to explain cowardice.
@KatlynHaydon it's one way to be sensible. ever heard of minding your own business? you never know how they might react towards something. imagine that dude has a knife, now you're gonna put your life at risk because some narcissist is too loud about sex? hell no.
That’s funny. Because I encountered the exact same scenario standing in line at the airport not too long ago, but it was a chick and her friend in their 20s. But instead I got ganged up on by a bunch of other women, and it was implied that I was a creep for even listening to their insanely loud and inappropriate conversation in front of families.
So thats a fascinating double standard you women have.
Since we were homeschooled my mom would specifically take us on errands in the middle of the day so we would be exposed to adult spaces. Even though we were bored out of our minds at the bank or in line so our parents could vote, we were expected to behave like in adults in adult spaces. And if we didn’t think ahead to bring our own entertainment (this was before games on phones were even a concept) then that was on us.
"More worser?!"
I spent thousands of dollars to fly myself and my family out and see the US premier of a foreign film. Nearly half of the crowd talked through the entire film, completely ruining the experience. Several people walked out because of this. We complained to the event organizers in the middle of the film, and all they said was “that’s just the way people are.”
It’s been two years and I’m still pissed about it. It’s insane to me how rude and entitled people can be..
The intensity of my utter loathing for most people is indescribable.
Parents let game consoles, TV, and social media be the babysitter. It went downhill from there. No father in the house isn't helping either.
4:10 I swear my jaw dropped and I said "Ahhh! Mas é uma adulta!..." (Oh! But she's a grown up!...) when I saw that woman nonchalantly dropping shoes. She's lucky she's in an US store. If she did that in my country, she'd be kicked out and banned forever!
At a Walmart, I witnessed a mom talking loudly on her phone as her 2 boys ran around yelling and crashing carts into each other and into shoppers.. so I interrupt her phone call and irritatingly says what you want while yelling.. I say are these your twin boys? She says are you an idiot? one's 6 and the other is 8 !! Why would you think they're twins??!! I say because I just couldn't believe anyone would sleep with you more than once..
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We need to bring back true discipline and respect by all.
2:57 yep. People, no matter young or old, really lack awareness and it is so frustrating to go out. Hard to go out and not get pissed off
"See! No one's looking at me!"
Literally surrounded by people staring at him.
Noones looking too closely cause they don't wanna be attacked next.
It must feel awful to need so much approval from strangers and people that dont know you exist. Lmao such a weakness to seek such valadation.
@kevinleewilliams5119exactly! People who need constant approval and validation from complete strangers are obviously missing something in their pathetic lives 😂
People who scream make me unreasonably angry, but people who fake panic attacks make me actually want to hurt that person. How fucking dare you.
I went to go step off an elevator the other day and there were no less than 5 people standing in front of the door when it opened pushing everyone to get inside while they see 6 of us trying to get off first. I’ve been saying it for years but ever since Covid people have become so self involved and think the world revolves around them. Zero etiquette or manners anymore. And as a stickler for manners, that drives me insane!
I verbally talked through elevator etiquette with my kids one summer on vacation in Dallas, and I had no less than two people say "THANK YOU" to me for teaching them explicitly. I did the same thing with escalators and moving walkways (stand on one SIDE, leave room for passerby on the other). It makes me sound like I'm leading a sociology lecture on the cultural practices of the city dwellers of the area... But hey, my kids at least know the expectations
Spaces being public doesn't mean that they can act however they want and inconvenience everyone around them. It means being considerate of the fact that you're all just trying to get through the day.
Have not been in a movie theater in ten years
For any place of business whether it be a restaurant or store, there should be a sign on the front door stating that if anyone causes any kind of trouble or commotion, the police will be called, and a fine will be incurred.
One time I tried to keep two kids from throwing a ball in the light bulb aisle and the mother tried to have me fired because I spoke to her children.
One of my favorites is people on their phones at a stoplight. Light changes, they don't move, I honk, they LOOK IN THE MIRROR like what? ?!CARS?!
Or flip you off because you weren't willing to just sit there silently for another minute while they played with their phone.
I saw one the other day, lady had four cars behind her. Light went through the whole cycle until it was red again. And no one honked at her??? Blew my mind
@fawnettle They were probably on their phones as well! 🙄
@donreid6399LOL youre probably right 😂
Especially if they’re on a left turn arrow. Somehow it’s my responsibility to let them know the light changed.
"Hit me baby one more time" then rolling the car is absolute PEAK comedy
Hopefully her insurance adjuster saw that video and denied her claim.
I love the saucer eyes😂
Yep. She's dingbatting 1.000
First thing she does after flipping the car is reach for the phone AND she still posts this?
Guess it really does make for peak content. 😮💨
Yes. Yes. The "standing in the way" gets me EVERY. SINGLE. TIME! Just move to the side. Its not hard. Dont stand in the middle of the sidewalk with people walking - move to the side. Dont put your cart in the middle of the aisle - put it to the side. Dont have a row of 5 friends walking all together blocking the whole sidewalk - gather to one side. Dont put your wallet away in front of everyone and block the entrance when you go into costco - move to the side and do it. The list goes on. Today, I went to my brother-in-laws high school concert. When leaving, this women blocked one of the exit aisles so she could toe her show, with multiple empty seat aisles besides her. PEOPLE, JUST MOVE TO THE SIDE!
5:11 when our boys were little going through a stage we didn’t take them to a restaurant. We’d get pizza or maybe take them to DQ for an ice cream 🍦. It was a treat. We didn’t do this often. Now my sons as parents do this too. They hardly eat out bc it’s more of a battle than enjoyable and yes, grocery stores are the rudest now. No consideration of others. They don’t care. I have eyes everywhere when I shop. People have blinders on. It’s amazing
I don't go outside enough to see stuff like this, but getting covered in ranch would absolutely piss me off to the point that we would have to fight.
Bad parenting is the rot of society.
Social Media has made them “main character” they get out in public we NEED to bring back shaming aka accountability!
I was taught in high school by a teacher to be like the Boy Scouts and "leave somewhere better than you found it."
A ways back, was with my entitled sister when she was trying on a few things in a store dressing room when she just left the stuff she wasn’t interested in in a rumpled mess on the floor, nothing put back on hangers, unbuttoned, unzipped. I made the comment to clean up after herself & put the stuff back the way she found it. She said that’s what “those” people were for (sales people). I reminded her I used to be one of those “people”, and it was a second job for me on top of working a full time job during the day.
Do you still talk to said sister?
Music concert. Professionally lit. Phone lights everywhere. Bet they never look at these films😊
I remember about a year or two ago, some parents let their kids play fetch in between the tables at an Olive Garden. It's stuff like that that made me never want to be a waiter.
8:43 I have an anxiety disorder and know exactly what it's like to have a panic attack... Does this lady even know what it's like to think you're dying? Because that's exactly how you feel during a panic attack.
Worked at a Ross and had a woman in my line ask what we employees did to make the store look so trashed. I had never wanted to hold up a mirror to someone more in my life.
Even at my current job I provided free things to my students (adult students, I work at a college) like a coffee/tea/hot cocoa bar, water bottles, boxes of free stuff I find college students might use-umbrellas, snacks, coupons, DVDs, decks of cards etc. and I’ve recently taken them all away. We have very basic rules, the one always broken is “if you make a mess-clean it up”.