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Комментарии • 605

  • @elijah4168
    @elijah4168 4 года назад +883

    Watching the intro and I already feel better. So, no false advertising here.

    • @MoonDancerArt
      @MoonDancerArt 4 года назад +6

      True

    • @jelle3248
      @jelle3248 4 года назад

      I was just thinking the same thing!

    • @carrieh2409
      @carrieh2409 4 года назад +4

      I definitely need to up my pj game...mine are truly sad in comparison to these stunning examples! 😍

    • @silviajoni337
      @silviajoni337 4 года назад

      same

    • @amanekabbaj
      @amanekabbaj 4 года назад

      Made me laugh

  • @ghostonthemoon1812
    @ghostonthemoon1812 4 года назад +221

    Nothing make me feel better than a happy vintage lesbian ❤️

  • @joyjellyface4231
    @joyjellyface4231 4 года назад +2

    I really appreciate being told I don’t have to be super productive and do puzzles or read novels or make large art works during this time. I have also discovered that when i’m super upset or in pain or whatever, I enjoy wearing pretty dresses and looking nice to help myself feel better, glad to see someone else who shares this sentiment. Thank you 😊.

  • @kaylahdavisofficial
    @kaylahdavisofficial 4 года назад +288

    I really love Jessica because she's not shy about her disability. I just really loves that she thinks about it as something that makes her stronger. Also, I just love how vintage she is. It's so cute! ❤

  • @ellie91059
    @ellie91059 4 года назад +251

    I’ve been feeling miserable today, I’ve been stuck in a severe depressive episode all week, this couldn’t have come at a better time. Thank you Jessica 💙

    • @alexb4185
      @alexb4185 4 года назад +3

      I hope your okay, people love you

    • @gloriatomassini6186
      @gloriatomassini6186 4 года назад +3

      Hi Ellie, how are you feeling today?

    • @ellie91059
      @ellie91059 4 года назад +2

      Gloria Tomassini I’m doing a little better thank you for asking :) 💙

  • @Invaderbuggums
    @Invaderbuggums 4 года назад +1

    I'm an essential worker. I do at-home care for the elderly, disabled, and hospice patients. Nothing medical, but I clean, drive them to doctors' appointments, and help them get groceries. It's been a very stressful time. We've had a lot of call-ins, so the company is short-staffed. Normally I work 2-4 hour days, but now I'm working 10 hours most days and only get 1 day off a week. It's a tough time for everyone :( and a lot of my clients live alone, so I may be their only company for a week. I'm just so very grateful that none of them have gotten sick yet- I've been wearing a mask and washing hands as much as possible.
    But I also struggle with chronic mental and physical illness, so I've been anxious and jumpy and in more pain than usual. During hard times like these, I'm also grateful for people like you and youtubers in general. Watching your videos genuinely helps me calm down the panic I feel and remember that things will be well again one day. Distractions and comforts like these *are* vital. Entertainers are more valuable now than ever online and I'm grateful to every single one of you. Thank you for making videos like these.

  • @IllyDragonfly
    @IllyDragonfly 4 года назад +406

    'This will make you feel better'
    And I see good 8 minutes of a beautiful lady in classy lingerie. Yes, this bisexual girl can confirm the video title is NOT clickbait XD

    • @humixmusic4lyf
      @humixmusic4lyf 4 года назад +17

      FR!!!! She's teasing our bi hearts throught the screen; it's not fair ~ T^T

    • @lemur22715
      @lemur22715 4 года назад +4

      Thank God I'm not the only one with that reaction! 🙊😄🤗

    • @krisb294
      @krisb294 4 года назад +3

      Yes! This video was equal amounts of enjoyable & teasing. 😍

    • @ChickenOfAwesome
      @ChickenOfAwesome 4 года назад +5

      As a bi redhead, I sent this to my fiancée with permission for her to ogle a fellow redhead. It's certainly made both of us feel better!

    • @highclassd0mme380
      @highclassd0mme380 4 года назад +2

      This is all I came for

  • @tattyuk75
    @tattyuk75 4 года назад +166

    I have RA and currently my hips and knee are flaring, however, I had a hot shower, blow dried my hair, applied my favourite make up and Chanel perfume and I’m feeling pretty cute, even if it is just for me. Other than worrying about colleagues being left to cover my work as I’m being shielded, this lockdown doesn’t particularly bother me. It’s nice to have permission to relax and go with the flow rather than struggle on as normal with chronic pain and the rheumatoid arthritis for a change! Beautiful video, I’m sure your equally beautiful wife enjoyed filming it too ❤️

    • @elizabethbroham1626
      @elizabethbroham1626 4 года назад +1

      My mom has RA and she has been feeling pretty useless. She is a teacher and she misses her kids and she wants everything to open up, but I don't think she realizes just how scary this virus can be for her. I am worried about her health and wellbeing. The only advice I can offer her is to breathe and enjoy the little things. The pain is sometimes too unbearable to her. Thank you for this comment. Maybe if she gets all dolled up, she will feel just a bit better. You are a fighter and we will all get through this together, but separate.

  • @Cedalion
    @Cedalion 4 года назад +127

    Someone send this to my teachers, who are assigning us about 16 hours of work. “Don’t focus on productivity” I would very much like to sleep again thank you.

    • @furbytoothpaste
      @furbytoothpaste 4 года назад +15

      yeah, my teachers are assigning so much homework and my work thinks im not in school anymore because of covid so both of them think im not doing the other and i calculated it and to keep up id need to work 9 hours a day which just isnt feasable

    • @lavender_evie
      @lavender_evie 4 года назад +6

      @@furbytoothpaste i hope that telling both sides helps.

    • @leticialima5938
      @leticialima5938 4 года назад +3

      SAME! and I still working bc I work at a pharmacy...

    • @WritingSch
      @WritingSch 4 года назад +5

      God, me too. They saw pandemic and thought it was time to assign extra work on top of the already large work load we already had

  • @KindCountsDeb3773
    @KindCountsDeb3773 3 года назад +2

    ⭐⭐⭐ Mission accomplished ! I enjoyed your presentation. Your wise words and then an example of How to calm yourself and see the bigger picture in your own life. Well done Jessica ! AND, that first night ware was one of the pretties outfits I have EVER seen ! Thanks. ahhh

  • @diannemartino3464
    @diannemartino3464 4 года назад +62

    Hi, gang! I’ve been waiting for you all to get here. Jessica’s been bringing you along. I’m a disabled, severely at risk person. This pandemic means I’m having a harder time getting my shipments of essential products. And one other thing I find amazing has happened. Medicare (US version of NHS) has kicked me off their list of people worth treating even though I have paid into this health care system since I started working at age 12. It’s deplorable. And getting through to them for resolution is impossible. I lie here needing medication, tests, and procedures I can’t get. Yet what is there to do? Keep moving forward step by step and enjoying the tiny things in life. Like beautiful nightgowns. Mine have been hidden in the back of a closet, mentally categorized as “Can’t wear without a husband.” I will start wearing them for me.

  • @jameswebster4689
    @jameswebster4689 4 года назад +3

    as a guy this video convinced me i need a 1950s nightgown.

  • @emmacarter6033
    @emmacarter6033 4 года назад +58

    You should do a vintage swimwear lookbook!

    • @phi1105
      @phi1105 4 года назад +3

      OMG yes!!!

    • @seratonin7004
      @seratonin7004 4 года назад +1

      Yes, yes, yes, yes! !

    • @lemur22715
      @lemur22715 4 года назад +1

      Oh please! Very much yes!

  • @CronoCloudAuron
    @CronoCloudAuron 4 года назад +38

    Just hearing "Hello, Lovely People", and "whilst", makes me smile. I do believe Jessica spoke for many of us when she mentioned toilet paper hoarding and said "Why?" The vintage nightwear was also faboo, though the vintage cameras also caught my eye.

  • @TemeBriel
    @TemeBriel 4 года назад +177

    This made me smile, I can't see my partner and this bought a smile to my face. Thank you so much Jessica. yet another video from you gets me through. Also having a chronic illness and living alone is getting really difficult and I am scared to tell anyone. Love you x

    • @thedragonsunicorn
      @thedragonsunicorn 4 года назад +7

      talk to your family, friends or anyone you trust. if them coming over to help isn't an available option, calling someone to talk through your problems or stresses is helpful. theres always a solution to everything and anything; and talking to someone, whether it through a phone or face to face speeds up the process of solution finding and problem solving. most times opening up isnt easy, but it's usually the best thing to do, rememeber keep ur head up "hope prevails in the face of everything" (quoted by the 13th Doctor) :)

    • @ChrisPage68
      @ChrisPage68 4 года назад +3

      It is when you haven't got one too. 😢

    • @Poppy-
      @Poppy- 4 года назад +2

      I had a phone interview with my psychologist yesterday. Maybe it's available in your area too? Or, if you live on the main floor, having people drop by for a window visit? So you could see them and hear their voice? 🌞

    • @colettelee1162
      @colettelee1162 4 года назад +2

      I'm in the same boat, although I do count my awesome cats as family. Hang in there, babe. x

    • @meganb4432
      @meganb4432 4 года назад +4

      My husband works grocery, so he's living away from me in the backyard... we can still 'see' each other....from 6 feet away. It's really weird, & really hard. Hopefully it won't last too long, in the overall scheme of things. We were having trouble with it, so we started writing each other loooong emails when we need to get some big feelings out - it really helped. Hang in there, try to focus on the small pleasures you do have, like Jessica says.

  • @Alyssa-om5yc
    @Alyssa-om5yc 4 года назад +2

    You’re such an incredible role model!!

  • @KHAZimmermann
    @KHAZimmermann 4 года назад +119

    This really has made me so much better, as my brain just constantly obsesses over productivity, even when out of quarantine. It's like a whip I constantly attack myself with. I am finding it hard to internalise the message in a deeper level... Thank you for such an uplifting video! ❤

  • @jelle3248
    @jelle3248 4 года назад +1

    I'm going to keep this video in my back pocket for my bad mental health days. I happen to be having a good day, but I was wreck all last week.

  • @annajackson9001
    @annajackson9001 4 года назад +27

    You and Claudia must have had fun making this, you look lovely.

  • @maysamarres4763
    @maysamarres4763 4 года назад +47

    Myself and my overwhelmed neuroatypical brain have thoroughly enjoyed this video ! Sending you much love xx.

  • @marywebber7223
    @marywebber7223 4 года назад +1

    One of my all time favorite videos. Glorious

  • @ShedinjaNinja
    @ShedinjaNinja 4 года назад +58

    I haven't even watched it fully but I'm already happy

  • @roslyn4303
    @roslyn4303 4 года назад +12

    I’m an IB student with near-constant pressure to be doing “something productive” when I feel mentally exhausted, so your reassurances that it’s okay to prioritise mental health mean a lot, Jessica. Thank you so much for this wholesome content and sending love to everyone.♥️

  • @VashXTrigun
    @VashXTrigun 4 года назад +80

    "Well sod that for a load of bananas." - Jessica Kellgren-Fozard
    Love it.

    • @Bildgesmythe
      @Bildgesmythe 4 года назад +6

      I want that on a t shirt and a wall poster!

    • @RoccondilRinon
      @RoccondilRinon 4 года назад +2

      @@Bildgesmythe already working on it.

    • @britischenadligen3760
      @britischenadligen3760 4 года назад +1

      Any native speakers to explain that phrase a bit? 😅
      I don't even know what it's supposed to mean but I laughed when she said that, sounds so British 😄❤

    • @annoyingloudmicrowaveculti4373
      @annoyingloudmicrowaveculti4373 4 года назад +6

      Britischen Adligen
      I think it basically means “screw that” in a less polite way

    • @britischenadligen3760
      @britischenadligen3760 4 года назад

      @@annoyingloudmicrowaveculti4373 that makes sense! thanks 😄

  • @vickykamp8885
    @vickykamp8885 4 года назад +1

    ....i think this might have been the most helpful and happy video i have watched in my life...

  • @lauracatalini1879
    @lauracatalini1879 4 года назад +4

    "Just getting by is good enough"... I'll draw a huge poster for my bedroom with this quote

  • @TheRealHatsune
    @TheRealHatsune 4 года назад +1

    Feeling so sick with worry... but today I got up and dressed up. Put on my comfy yet fashionable leggings, my comfy yet lovely gothic Lolita dress, and finally my warm cardigan. Thanks for the support!

    • @TheRealHatsune
      @TheRealHatsune 4 года назад

      My SSDI got approved 😭 I’m so happy. I’m so glad I’ve finally been acknowledged as truly being ill and don’t have to worry about finances.

  • @eaglebreath5
    @eaglebreath5 4 года назад +110

    I want to send this to my professor with the message, "Smart internet lady told me to wear comfy sleep wear and prioritize my mental health over your assignments." But I won't.

  • @Amber-ok1mi
    @Amber-ok1mi 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Jessica. This did make me feel better. All your videos do. ❤

  • @Basedbrulee
    @Basedbrulee 4 года назад +1

    I’m so glad I watched Anthony’s new video. Your energy, and personality made me come to your channel. You are such a radiant light shining over these dark times. Thank you. 🥺

  • @jude1639
    @jude1639 4 года назад +12

    This made me feel comforted, supported, and gay.

  • @gigracer
    @gigracer 4 года назад +7

    Watching this at 2:20 am, because chronic stress has long affected my sleep... sadly not pandemic related, just regular for me. Thanks many life stressors and chronic illness!
    Love your nightwear collection. That purple one could clearly worn as a dress. Looks amazing on you.

  • @fintheominousgoose1516
    @fintheominousgoose1516 4 года назад +24

    I‘m actually surprised by myself since I‘m dealing surprisingly well with all of this. I‘m a former CPTSD patient and I guess that’s why I don’t get as easily traumatized as other people? At least that’s how I explained it to myself.

    • @daylightbright7675
      @daylightbright7675 4 года назад +8

      My immune system decided to start attacking my retina so I'm partially blind in one eye. It's a chronic condition that's never going to go away and may fully blind me at some point, especially if I ever go off my immunosuppressants. I also have a thyroid condition and other chronic health problems. I'm dealing with the pandemic scarily well lmao. I do think it's bc most people haven't had to deal with medical issues/trauma before. If you're used to things being safe and never having to deal with stuff like this, it has to be traumatic ☹

    • @seratonin7004
      @seratonin7004 4 года назад

      Same, life is pretty much the same for me as I was already isolated and bedbound and have been for years. The only differences are the reduction in my carer visits; difficulty accessing some grocery items like toilet paper, cleaning products, masks, gloves etc; delays with a few medications; increased costs; and on the plus side, more accessible phone/video appointments. My depression and anxiety scores have actually gone down lately!
      I wish I could find nightgowns like those first two at affordable prices here in Australia! And looked like Jessica in them!

  • @mariee.3220
    @mariee.3220 4 года назад +1

    Can we please talk about how aesthetically pleasing this whole video is? 😍 I absolutely adore Jessica in all of her outfits and the music really underlines the vibe! The video would have been a hit even without the great speech! Haha 🤭

  • @WritingSch
    @WritingSch 4 года назад +1

    She’s so beautiful!

  • @scallionsoup1528
    @scallionsoup1528 4 года назад +11

    Thank you Jessica! This made me feel so much better! I'm an extrovert who has been in a major slump and been struggling to complete even the most basic of tasks, and this really helped me feel less awful about my productivity. ❤️

  • @averyvintagedarling
    @averyvintagedarling 4 года назад +27

    This was so beautiful, so soothing, so optimistic and so, so timely for me; it made me feel amazing!! As always, thank you Jessica for brightening my day and cheering my mood 💘🌻

  • @miriambarreiro9556
    @miriambarreiro9556 4 года назад +69

    No one else felt so overwhelmed by the statement "your productivity doent define your worth " that just had a mental breakdown?? No? Not one ?? Ohh good damnit🙃

  • @roswinds5772
    @roswinds5772 4 года назад +38

    Your smile and the aesthetic beauty combined with warm-hearted message is causing me to shed few tears while smiling. Thank you, this made my day❤️

  • @tywinderbaum5283
    @tywinderbaum5283 4 года назад +12

    I have a feeling I'm going to watch this at least twice a day for years.
    Thank you so much, Jessica, yout channel, your work the messages in your videos are all amazing, and it means the world to me

  • @taylacollins764
    @taylacollins764 4 года назад +26

    I spend 10 minutes panicking about writing a comment to just say thank you for making your videos.

  • @cementflavouricecream
    @cementflavouricecream 4 года назад +1

    So inspiring! I love all your videos.

  • @alexb4185
    @alexb4185 4 года назад +1

    I just went on a small online shopping spree!! I’m SUPER in the vintage floral stuff atm, when I say vintage I mean like Jessica vintage not that barrette trend stuff. I bought a really pretty floral midi skirt, a knitted sweater dress (I’m a sweater hoe I had to), a pale leaf teen headband, and a S T U N N I N G blue, floral lace strapped summer dress I’m SO EXCITED!

  • @BackwardsInFlats
    @BackwardsInFlats 4 года назад +1

    Can confirm this did make me feel better. Thank you Jessica 💛

  • @missm-ky2od
    @missm-ky2od 4 года назад

    The purple one is stunning!!!!!!! It looks like an evening gown and that's what I aspire all my nightwear to look like in the future

  • @izzysharpe
    @izzysharpe 4 года назад +6

    I've been having a hard time with my studies now that everything is online, and my grades are worse then I want them to be, and I've been having a hard time keeping up with housework and being productive. I've been incredibly anxious and depressed, and everything seems overwhelming right now. But this definitely helped me calm down a little; like a warm ray of sunshine through the gloom. So thank you ❤️

  • @sersastark
    @sersastark 4 года назад +15

    She's wearing the pink Tilly prom dress from The Pretty Dress Co and I'm here for it. I'm gonna get like 5.

    • @seratonin7004
      @seratonin7004 4 года назад

      Ahhh I wondered about this dress! Always love it 💗

  • @l.m.5319
    @l.m.5319 4 года назад +33

    Anyone else wondering how your fanciest dresses manage to be less fancy than Jessica's nightgowns

  • @richardvelez3151
    @richardvelez3151 4 года назад +5

    You are a true vision of loveliness, Jessica. From your mind to your spirit to - yes, your body ... you are a source of inspiration. It is so nice to know you are there to comfort us when we need it.
    Jessica, you are our shoulder to cry on, our friend to lean on, our shining light in times of darkness. I only hope that, in some small way, we are to you as well. Bless you ... and thank you. Lovely as always!
    👍🤟💝 xoxo

  • @mapleapgar
    @mapleapgar 4 года назад +3

    Oooh... love the purple one. The jammies are gorgeous too! Thank you for saying things so succinctly. 🌹💜

  • @jordyngobble
    @jordyngobble 4 года назад +43

    I’m totally stressing about AP tests, and this couldn’t have come at a better time

    • @katherinemorrissey7589
      @katherinemorrissey7589 4 года назад +4

      Jordyn G Agreed!! Even with the shortened tests they are stressful.

    • @MadameCorgi
      @MadameCorgi 4 года назад +4

      I'm stressing about finishing my BSc degree

  • @ChrisPage68
    @ChrisPage68 4 года назад +45

    "Sod That For A Bunch Of Bananas!"
    New Merch line!
    And I vaguely remember what food delivery men look like. I haven't seen one for about a month...😭
    EDIT: I have no problem being unproductive. That's standard operating procedure for me.

  • @Sarah-Sunshine95
    @Sarah-Sunshine95 4 года назад

    This did make me feel better. I’ve felt awful that I’m not being ultra productive or creative when it’s hard enough to get out of bed most days. Thank you Jessica, for your wisdom and wit. Today I’m going to buy some pretty flowers and just enjoy the day

  • @hellointernetitsphilsfirst9397
    @hellointernetitsphilsfirst9397 4 года назад +2

    Thank you for existing

  • @bilemcin
    @bilemcin 4 года назад +1

    I've watched this video 3 times in 3 separate days, every time helps a LOT. Thank goodness for your wisdom Jessica 💜

  • @moondontugodown643
    @moondontugodown643 4 года назад +30

    I’ll get my wisdom teeth removed tomorrow and I’m a bit scared so I’m glad you’re cheering me up :)

  • @maghouinbeg5011
    @maghouinbeg5011 4 года назад

    My favourite pjs were ivory satin on the outside and brushed cotton on the inside. a serious amount of slink, but also a glorious amount of snuggly warmth.

  • @Dragonflygem
    @Dragonflygem 4 года назад +1

    The intro was so beautiful!

  • @Hulachowdown
    @Hulachowdown 4 года назад

    Can I just say that you are my role model? Not only do you get what it is like to be dealt a challenging hand by fate, but you also manage to look utterly beautiful while doing it. If I could handle life with that much grace, I would feel beyond proud of myself. Watching your videos really inspires me to keep going when all I want to do is sit on my bed like a potato and cry ( for the fifth day in a row)

  • @selicar9707
    @selicar9707 4 года назад +1

    I clicked thinking that it would absolutely not make me feel better because how is a simple video going to do that? and was proven wrong. Thanks Jessica.

  • @gwenbeauvais7973
    @gwenbeauvais7973 4 года назад

    Lip balms and yarn is what is helping me get through! I know that these are two odd things to help calm me down, it does! I love nice scents and knitting! Oh and books, lots and lots of book!

  • @srjohnst
    @srjohnst 4 года назад

    I appreciate you being so understanding of us being so new to this internal world where normal things/things we feel we should be able to do are really hard. You would absolutely be in the right to feel frustrated and annoyed that we're only just understanding this thing you've been living for 30 years, but instead you're compassionately telling us how to cope. Thank you.

  • @spacecat_scribbles
    @spacecat_scribbles 4 года назад +1

    Ah yes, Jessica's smile does always make me feel better.
    I finished an extremely difficult paper in my second language (Finnish) today and I've been feeling burnt out for the last couple hours. This is exactly what I needed to recharge! :)

  • @willmacrealtalk4754
    @willmacrealtalk4754 4 года назад +43

    I love how it looks like she's stuck in the 60's with her elegant appearance

    • @Butterflier00
      @Butterflier00 4 года назад +7

      her pajamas were 1950s....

    • @STRcircaFKR
      @STRcircaFKR 4 года назад +4

      @@Butterflier00 they're a decade off... relax not every thing has to be exact and not everyone has to know THE FACTS!!

  • @RachelKe
    @RachelKe 4 года назад +1

    i’ve been a fan for over a year and i can’t wait for the rush of viewers from anthony’s video. you’ve been too underrated for too long. IT IS THE QUEENS TIME TO SHINE

  • @squirrel6536
    @squirrel6536 4 года назад

    I've been moving moving moving - cleaning, going on walks, making soap, posting biz stuff and worrying about making money. Just got word from my boss that I'm back on payroll for the next 8 weeks, so I'm not worrying about money anymore and BOOM I'm exhausted and waking up to panic attacks.
    Right now, this is very helpful and calming. Thank you Jessica 💜
    I need my cocoa butter to come in so I can continue with my soapmaking. It is very therapeutic (very, very therapeutic) along with being necessary if I wanna do business, lol.

  • @shannonwalls7573
    @shannonwalls7573 4 года назад

    It did, it really did! What wonderful vintage fashions. On a different note, I find motivation and an ability to think is kicking in now; now that my husband is at home & I am no longer constantly stressed about his exposure. But yeah! Stress! I'm glad to hear from a social isolation expert at this time, we need all the tips we can get.

  • @catherineelizabeth2108
    @catherineelizabeth2108 4 года назад

    Oh thank you so much for that! My daughter and I both suffer from anxiety and depression and you are one of the few truly caring people who understand how It can affect ones life and also make it easy to laugh about it. We both adore you.

  • @colettelee1162
    @colettelee1162 4 года назад

    I found out I'm living with chronic illness last year, by accident, when I got sick. I went from being able-bodied to not being able to get out of bed for a month, and then slowly learning how to work with my 'new' body. Your videos saved me. This is another really special one. x

  • @Janne_Mai
    @Janne_Mai 4 года назад +1

    This is the only post-pandemic video I've watched that has made me feel good. Thank you.

  • @brittamai5367
    @brittamai5367 4 года назад +2

    This was a pleasure to watch. Beauty, warmth, happy music and good vibes. Thank you so much, Lady of Nightdresses!

  • @mustbeinwantofawife
    @mustbeinwantofawife 4 года назад

    Oh god do I feel what you're saying at 1:13. I work in a supermarket, and those two weeks where everyone was panic buying were so busy I barely had time to look up from the shelves I was filling, never mind process what was going on around me. When the social distancing measures began, though, was a different matter altogether. That was when it started to feel real. I think I cried everyday for about a week, if not more. Luckily I've adjusted and am feeling largely okay, although I'm allowing myself to feel everything that I need to, be that happiness, boredom or sheer despair. I've also told work I only want to work my basic contract hours right now, no overtime, which has helped me feel safer and calmer. Dealing with some guilt about it but learning to set boundaries and to be okay with that. Much love 💛💛

  • @tayadulcich6545
    @tayadulcich6545 4 года назад

    Jessica "Just getting by is good enough". I needed to hear that. I am a nurse trying to work full time, a Mom of 3 young boys I have learning school from home, and a massive migraine on day 4. I feel it all over my body. I am really struggling today more than other days. Thanks for this. I needed to know it is ok to just get by.

  • @kodomotachi1
    @kodomotachi1 4 года назад

    Gorgeous! Thank you. Blessings to all 5 of you!

  • @evelynkrull5268
    @evelynkrull5268 4 года назад

    Matching jammies always make me feel better. I'm wanting to get a silky striped set since I HATE nightgowns as a thunder thigh lady lol

  • @NotAyFox
    @NotAyFox 4 года назад +3

    I feel tempted to order those silk monogrammed PJs for myself. Burgundy of course.

  • @perogieluver
    @perogieluver 4 года назад +1

    Love you, Jessica, I love when Walter and Tilly are in your videos!!

  • @purplebubbles3324
    @purplebubbles3324 4 года назад

    Thank you Jessica, as someone who wanted to get loads of things done but has autism and has been massively struggling internally due to the massive upset in plans you message spoke to me. Thank you.

  • @Isrjisoneavalable
    @Isrjisoneavalable 4 года назад

    I love a good nightgown! Both my mother and grandmother were believes in having nice nightwear, especially for if you were sick -what if the Doctor called! My favorite in a long, long sleeved jersey cotton one with a slight empire waist. It look like a fancy historically inspired dress and is SO comfy.

  • @enopp9977
    @enopp9977 4 года назад

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom, love. It did indeed make me feel better to learn about the plateau. And you really spoilt us with some gorgeous eye-candy there! Love you and your beautiful family. Stay safe! ❤🌹

  • @unseelie63
    @unseelie63 4 года назад

    Very important message,thank you so much,Jessica! I've been at myself for not achieving more more more and it's done nothing but make me feel like I'm a complete loser,which accomplishes absolutely nothing positive and worthwhile.
    Beautiful nighties and pjs,all the more so for your wearing them.Feeling pretty really does give one a lift!

  • @chloeslater7231
    @chloeslater7231 4 года назад +11

    I needed this, I needed to know just getting by is good enough. It's hard to not feel just bad about still struggling with the same stuff as normal no matter what is going on but with zero of the support from outside due to covid so support being diverted. It's hard. You are awesome and thank you. x

  • @pblack19141
    @pblack19141 4 года назад

    Jessica, loved all of the nightware you shared. My favorite one has to be the monogrammed 2 piece pajamas. It reminds me of Claudette Colbert from' It happened one night'. Your version has more Class. Thank you for sharing.
    Tricia B

  • @emile7794
    @emile7794 4 года назад

    Seeing Jessica be so happy about pajamas really did make me feel a bit better :) before pandemic I was already dealing with high levels of anxiety and depression so the pandemic just shot that into overdrive. Trying to just survive a day at a time

  • @PaigeLavoie
    @PaigeLavoie 4 года назад

    As someone else who lives in pretty 1950s pajamas I appreciate this video so much! ❤️ All of the stress has been making my hashimotos flair up on and off the last few weeks, and I've had to remind myself to take it slow and be a little more gentle with my goals and writing deadlines. Sending good vibes out to everyone in the comments!!

  • @larav.1865
    @larav.1865 4 года назад

    This definitely made me feel better. Thanks, Jessica! May I add that, while you look great in every one of those ensembles, the 60s set in green was definitely my favourite. I want one!

  • @jenniferraynor6612
    @jenniferraynor6612 4 года назад +4

    This was a helpful reminder that my productively doesn't define me. I'm in a physical and mental health flare and I've really been struggling to complete my uni work despite how much time I've had off to do it. Slowly getting through my reading list though so silver lining I guess

  • @loup4119
    @loup4119 4 года назад +1

    This purple gown looks absolutely stunning on you

  • @lizziethewitch7770
    @lizziethewitch7770 4 года назад +1

    Definitely distracted me and just got me to relax for a bit, how lovely xx

  • @PauliEvansBlack617
    @PauliEvansBlack617 4 года назад

    This was really really helpful, especially finding out that there is a word for the strange sensation when you are starting to get used to the situation but you are not quite there yet. Besides the looks, the music and the dancing was great too ❤️

  • @mschrisfrank2420
    @mschrisfrank2420 4 года назад +1

    From the perspective of someone with an anxiety disorder, I can confirm that it is exhausting. People think sleeping a lot is a sign of depression, but it can be anxiety too. You’re body goes until you exhaust yourself and then you crash. I always start with the basics to cope-am I hungry? Am I thirsty? Am I cold? Am I tired? Then I try to take a shower or watch a funny video. Gotta start small when you’re depleted.

  • @alisonbarker3862
    @alisonbarker3862 4 года назад

    Beautiful. Walter and Tilly compliment the colour scheme.xx

  • @didivredeveldt889
    @didivredeveldt889 4 года назад +2

    "Here is a beautiful person showing some night wear! With a dash of sincere validation of your feelings. You're welcome"
    Thank u Jessica, I will try to fall asleep again now

  • @camillabs87
    @camillabs87 4 года назад +1

    This was SO GOOD for my mind. Thank you, Jessica.
    Just... Thank you.

  • @crystalwhite6322
    @crystalwhite6322 4 года назад

    Of course I have enjoyed watching a beautiful lady with an amazing voice model beautiful pajamas. Especially when she is witty. Jessica I cant tell you how much your smile brightens my day, it is perfect.

  • @beehill9780
    @beehill9780 4 года назад

    As someone developing what might symptoms of fibromyalgia and/or CFS (both of which will keep me from finishing cosmetology school) and who has depression and anxiety, I really appreciate this video. I also sent it to the majority of people I know because I feel like it's a message everyone needs to hear right now. I know that my biggest takeaway is "your productivity does not define your worth". ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @dakotatwilight
    @dakotatwilight 4 года назад

    I so needed this today. Thank you for the most glamorous lookbook ever. I have been battling shingles I have had since 14 since 2 days. I am taking my homeopathic meds( it took tons of time to find one) and it is getting a wee bit better but makes me so sleepy. Your talk gave me a hint at why it might have flared up, I stayed up a bit too long crafting, just forgot time, lesson learned.

  • @pmbluemoon
    @pmbluemoon 4 года назад

    *HUGS* to both of you! And your puppies!

  • @WithoutAnAnchor
    @WithoutAnAnchor 4 года назад

    20 seconds in and I already feel better after two weeks of spiralling into the worst mental illness spell I've had in a long time. Thank you for putting a smile on my face

  • @Rubedalin12
    @Rubedalin12 4 года назад

    I didn’t even know I needed this. I just felt a huge weight off my chest. My mental health has been worse than usual. I do NOT have to account for my time. Life-changing.