i forgot to talk about it in the vid but i was literally getting ready to ASK HIM OUT ON A DATE LMAO i had the time & place & i was so fucking ready but good thing i hesitated everything does happen for a reason :o)
you're so real and genuine. watching your videos feels like talking to a friend. you don't put yourself on some kind of platform above anyone like some other youtubers and I can really appreciate that.
I'll take friendship and maybe a follow from Instagram instead? ;D I messaged you once on both of my accounts! my username is @nessiedezz ^.^ It'd be super incredible if you'd follow back! I'd seriously fangirl
Girl. Besides your incredibelly pretty face, I just love the way you think. It is an incredible ability to think the way you do, like "it does not matter, something great will happen next". I'm sure, sure you will find someone that you will love from the bottom of your heart and that will love you back. Don't change, you are truly amazing
"the fact that I'm aware I want to be friends with this person makes everything I do so awkward" this is so cute and I can totally relate to, love you mei
Mei you are seriously fucking great like your morals and ways of dealing with things and self-love attitude, it's seriously fantastic to have a beauty and fashion blogger spreading these positive warm vibes throughout RUclips. I've been a follower for over a year and getting to know you a bit has been incredible and your personality flourishing has been really great and really refreshing. Thanks for existing and being you
Hearing you say you weren't down for feeling uncomfortable or sad because things didn't work out with some guy actually gave me a lot of inspiration and encouragement because I got dumped on Thursday and have been pretty sad (mostly because i don't really know why). But you know I'm ready to get over this and move on and I am going to, so thank you Mei!
That bear is so freaking cute. I completely agree with the fact that, if you genuinely like a person you don't care with who they are because you know that they have gone through a lot with someone else en they can make choices for themselves, and so you respect they person they choose to be with. I think this is a hard thing to accept so It's awesome that you do feel this way!
M88888 I'm 100% with you on the "having feelings for someone and feeling awkward around them because of it" shit show, it sucks. I have pretty bad anxiety that makes it near impossible to be around someone I like. Once someone I liked found out I liked them and when they told me they knew I literally never saw them again because I was too anxious to be around them. I'm the worst lol.
These eyeshadows match your new hair so perfectly !! This new hair color and how healthy your hair looks now, it's all just so stylish and mature and whatnot - you're gorgeous!
Hey, I just want to say I become like that too when I like someone, I completely ignore them and act like they don't exist and I hate it because I really want to become closer. Does anyone know why I and others do this?
Vetzayda Mendoza it's like this quote from a favorite movie of mine. "Sometimes we don't do things we want to do so that others won't know we want to do them." -The Village
Vetzayda Mendoza You see, I'm currently working as a psychømetrist and from what I've learned so far is that your description ties along with mine as well... So just make sure you read upon those schemas I mentioned. I'm sure it'll help you! It's helping me atm. So do not feel alone :)
ahhh i hope u find someone who makes u happy one day :( or i hope you continue being happy with yourself no matter what!! thank you for this video, your videos are always de-stressers for me ♡♡
Dude I really wanna thank you for uploading this today I really needed this. I've been crushing majorly hard on this one guy I met in one of my classes and just like you I just fell in love with this personality and how invested he'd be in me whenever we'd have conversations. We even hung out a couple of times and I was like wow this is great but today I saw that he posted on his snapchat how he was on a date with a girl and my chest literally collapsed I was so upset and confused. But like you said in your video I just need to get over it and wish him the best because he really is a great person who deserves to be happy :))) love your videos Mei thank u
Awww, MeI! I'm so sorry that really sucks that it ended up that way. 😭 I also believe that everything happens for a reason too , so I think you just haven't met your perfect person yet! I hope you feel better soon! All the hugs!
I like how we can share similar experiences. Although the turn outs suck, I feel comforted in a sense bc I'm not alone in this whole feeling of our love life. I enjoy the how we share beliefs when liking a person and respect. Keep strong Mei! Just keep on doing you
Honestly you and I are similar with it comes to dealing with our crushes. And every freaking time the guy I'm crushing on, has either a girlfriend or I'm not his type! You are so not alone in this situation
Mei you're so cute and wonderful! Don't worry, everything will be better, I'm in the same situation and it's pretty shocking but, I don't know, my friends care about me, and I know than your friends and subscribers love too♥️♥️♥️ Thanks for being an inspiration for me💕
hearing you talk about mystery meat and finding out that he has a girlfriend, idk u sound so mature and i really respect that. I'm also the type of person where it's like, if they're happy then i don't think i should be upset?/? and its really nice to find someone else that thinks that way too :>
I can tell you out of experience that love is beautiful, but not necessary. You can get lucky and happy through so many other ways :) so never put yourself down because of being single or so. It's a natural thing, we are born alone. Mostly society (especially nowdays) is putting pressure on people I feel like. Also it's kinda difficult because you have to find the very right person that fits you because otherwise love is an asshole.
SAME. i haven't had a crush since grade school. then all of a sudden this guy comes along and i'm like. omggggff. like i had a mega big crush on this guy only to find out that he was already "falling" for another girl. i was totally crushed....but i'm okay as long he's happy with her. i just want him to be happy whether it's with me or the girl he's with. but i was hella salty at first cause i really thought i had a chance 🤧
you are literally me with crushes, like I've been in the same situation as you like 5 times in my life 😂, but I'm kinda young so I don't care, but at the same time I low-key feel like social pressure, idk😂😂😂
i understand this so much. I can't stand when a person I like has a girlfriend it sucks or if they're just a flirt, or the guys that like me aren't doing it. so stressful.😅
OMG. I know what it feels like to physically run away from a crush encounter or any potential romantic situation. I get so awkward that the first thing i do is to avoid. I actually almost not dated this one dude, because he thought I was disinterested, but really I just didn't know what to do.
being single is fun! after being so tied up with commitment (not saying its a bad thing), you can finally have time for yourself and travel and have fun, in general!
I'm the same way and that's probably why I'm single. I run away, hide and get ridiculously shy. I managed to spend a day with a crush, .. maybe I will get better.
Ahh I'm so glad I'm not the only person who rarely has crushes. When I do have a crush on someone it's more like admiration but I haven't liked someone enough to date them
I also believe everything happens for a reason. BUT that doesn't mean that all hope is lost for you. You never know what might happen. I was in the same boat for a while with a friend who was with a girl for over a year and I just tragically pined over him the whole time. Eventually, things didn't work out with them and they broke up and soon after we started dating. It will be a year for us come June and we could not be happier. Sometimes you may just not be ready to be with that person until later on in your life. So, hope is never completely lost. But at the same time don't limit yourself to just him- which I don't think you will.
omg this SAME exact thing happened to me. Don't have crushes on people often, and I usually get uncomfortable when people have crushes on me. I started liking this guy because he was so nice, actually considerate, and when we talked I felt like we really had a connection. Too chicken to do anything, except intense eye contact before running away. Right when I felt bold enough to make a move...literally ran into him on his first date with his now gf. So awk. But, on the plus side, I ran into him again recently and I looked super cute 😙
i love this kind of videos omg, days ago i had my first "date" with a boy who i wasn't sure if i liked, my friends just told me "go go go!!!" and i tried it, but girl i was so uncomfortable and felt so weird i just wanted to run LMAO but not in a good way when you're too nervous bc you like him, more like "i don't even like you wtf am i doing here i gotta go" and he told me a lot of things that kinda made me feel uncomfortable, he even said he likes me and he never found someone like me, (i know him since a month ago...) i rejected him, and he said that maybe im not interested now, but he'll "change that"and he will never leave me and was like ???? DUDE I JUST SAID NO. Now i feel weird about it, but i know, even when i never had a boyfriend or something, i feel better alone by now, i'll just do my thing.
Aww you're so cute! I have the exact same views as you! As long as that guy is happy with her then that that makes me happy. I would never tear a couple up if they are happy.
Your deal with crushes is literally 100% me like hoooly shit I never usually get them and when I do I become SUPER aware of how I'm trying to deepen the friendship and I become so shy....and I usually end up getting along w their friends better bc I'm not as shy...like a damn fool
i forgot to talk about it in the vid but i was literally getting ready to ASK HIM OUT ON A DATE LMAO i had the time & place & i was so fucking ready but good thing i hesitated everything does happen for a reason :o)
princessmei I hope next time is going to be a lot better.
@@idislikemints Spoiler, next time was better LOL
"he made eyecontact with me i gotta fucking go" IF THIS ISNT ME LOL
Kai Naito How I fucking feel all the time
girl I've been single for 23 years ;-( i feel ya
Joanna same but I'm 20
SAME
Joanna omygosh same but I'm 18 xD
Almost 21 years for me....i have literally no dating experience
Thats me in 2 month...
Single but not cute squad where u at? 8(
Here!
👋👋👋👋
Andrea C Ayeee
here!
ayyyeee
you're so real and genuine. watching your videos feels like talking to a friend. you don't put yourself on some kind of platform above anyone like some other youtubers and I can really appreciate that.
I think it's so cool that she uses the nickname mystery meat because I came up with it 😭💗
I said the sleepover part too! Ahh I feel like I'm an actual friend lol
AW THANK YOU FOR THE NICKNAME!!! i owe u my life
I'll take friendship and maybe a follow from Instagram instead? ;D I messaged you once on both of my accounts! my username is @nessiedezz ^.^ It'd be super incredible if you'd follow back! I'd seriously fangirl
indigo hernandez, beg much?
@@femcelgirlfren chill dude, they are just a fan :/
Girl. Besides your incredibelly pretty face, I just love the way you think. It is an incredible ability to think the way you do, like "it does not matter, something great will happen next". I'm sure, sure you will find someone that you will love from the bottom of your heart and that will love you back. Don't change, you are truly amazing
"oh he made eye contact with me i gotta fucking go" 😂🙌 relatable
"the fact that I'm aware I want to be friends with this person makes everything I do so awkward" this is so cute and I can totally relate to, love you mei
Mei you are seriously fucking great like your morals and ways of dealing with things and self-love attitude, it's seriously fantastic to have a beauty and fashion blogger spreading these positive warm vibes throughout RUclips.
I've been a follower for over a year and getting to know you a bit has been incredible and your personality flourishing has been really great and really refreshing. Thanks for existing and being you
Hearing you say you weren't down for feeling uncomfortable or sad because things didn't work out with some guy actually gave me a lot of inspiration and encouragement because I got dumped on Thursday and have been pretty sad (mostly because i don't really know why). But you know I'm ready to get over this and move on and I am going to, so thank you Mei!
watching this after her bf tag... it hits different
That bear is so freaking cute.
I completely agree with the fact that, if you genuinely like a person you don't care with who they are because you know that they have gone through a lot with someone else en they can make choices for themselves, and so you respect they person they choose to be with.
I think this is a hard thing to accept so It's awesome that you do feel this way!
"so i booked myself a spa appointment" this is so me i love this this is true #selfcare
M88888 I'm 100% with you on the "having feelings for someone and feeling awkward around them because of it" shit show, it sucks. I have pretty bad anxiety that makes it near impossible to be around someone I like. Once someone I liked found out I liked them and when they told me they knew I literally never saw them again because I was too anxious to be around them. I'm the worst lol.
This video also really feels like a sleep over. Your teddy bear really sets the mood, plus I'm all cozy in bed
your cheekbones are goals!❤
honestly you're one of the only youtubers that i love to watch talking about their life bc you're just so chill and real about it
I love how completely real you are. You don't hold anything back or pretend to be something you're not. Honesty is hard to come by these days :)
Aw you're such a good person for wanting him to be happy even if it's not with you. ❤️
These eyeshadows match your new hair so perfectly !! This new hair color and how healthy your hair looks now, it's all just so stylish and mature and whatnot - you're gorgeous!
ur videos are always down to earth like you're really talking to us and not a camera they're so easy/nice to watch :~)
Honestly, unrequited feelings is one of the worst things. Especially if you end up really loving the person
Your probably my favorite youtuber, love your honesty and humblessnes😍
Your shyness and embarrassment towards crushes is so completely relatable for me. I can't seem to crawl out of the shy abyss
i really like these videos it feels like a fun sleepover please make more chatty grwm videos
I love how you share your experience! Please keep sharing your love journey!
You were so mature with handling the situation. Loved hearing this story ❤️
your got damn aesthetic hits me straight in the heart
such a relaxing video! I enjoy these casual ones the most kinda
Mei, you're amazing. Period.
mei youre so cute in every aspect ahhhhhh *-*
I relate to every word you said in the video. You're such a genuine person Mei
Hey, I just want to say I become like that too when I like someone, I completely ignore them and act like they don't exist and I hate it because I really want to become closer. Does anyone know why I and others do this?
Vetzayda Mendoza I used to do this but I think it's because we don't wanna make it obvious we have a crush on them
yea your right, but do you why we are so scared of them knowing? Like i'm too scared to even say hi.
Vetzayda Mendoza it's like this quote from a favorite movie of mine. "Sometimes we don't do things we want to do so that others won't know we want to do them." -The Village
Vetzayda Mendoza I'm a grad student doing a MA in Clinical Psychølogy. All I can say is, look up: "Schemas or Schema Therapy: Mistrust/Abuse"
Vetzayda Mendoza You see, I'm currently working as a psychømetrist and from what I've learned so far is that your description ties along with mine as well... So just make sure you read upon those schemas I mentioned. I'm sure it'll help you! It's helping me atm. So do not feel alone :)
I love this style video. I could listen to you talk all day. :')
ahhh i hope u find someone who makes u happy one day :( or i hope you continue being happy with yourself no matter what!! thank you for this video, your videos are always de-stressers for me ♡♡
Mei is so genuine. I really appreciate that about her. ^-^
omg love that hair colour on you the most
Dude I really wanna thank you for uploading this today I really needed this. I've been crushing majorly hard on this one guy I met in one of my classes and just like you I just fell in love with this personality and how invested he'd be in me whenever we'd have conversations. We even hung out a couple of times and I was like wow this is great but today I saw that he posted on his snapchat how he was on a date with a girl and my chest literally collapsed I was so upset and confused. But like you said in your video I just need to get over it and wish him the best because he really is a great person who deserves to be happy :))) love your videos Mei thank u
Ive been single for almost 18 years and it honestly makes me happy! Romance gives me anxiety 😸
too cute to have a love life tbh ♡
Do you have any drugstore foundations you use for your olive skin tone???
wow that's the most relatable story ever lol I had an EXACT same situation looool
mei this hair looks great on you omg
I love these super raw videos!
crushes are called crushes because they
*crush you*
I love this so much haha you'll find the right one for you. The better is yet to come!
Omg, I am/ was literally in the same situation. Thanks for saying things happen for a reason. I think I am gonna become a believer now :)
Awww, MeI! I'm so sorry that really sucks that it ended up that way. 😭 I also believe that everything happens for a reason too , so I think you just haven't met your perfect person yet! I hope you feel better soon! All the hugs!
but like anyone would be LUCKY to have such a gorgeous (inside & out!) girl as you. you'll find the right one princess 💖
I like how we can share similar experiences. Although the turn outs suck, I feel comforted in a sense bc I'm not alone in this whole feeling of our love life.
I enjoy the how we share beliefs when liking a person and respect. Keep strong Mei! Just keep on doing you
hi mei! thanks for uploading another video~ its like 1 am here its the first time im this early ++ your new hair color suits you a lot im loving it
Hey PrincessMei,
You are so beautiful and cute, I just love all your videos!
Keep doing your best!
TeruAlicia that was really cute and pure youre awesome
Love you Mei! it will all work out the way it is meant to in the end
Honestly you and I are similar with it comes to dealing with our crushes. And every freaking time the guy I'm crushing on, has either a girlfriend or I'm not his type! You are so not alone in this situation
Oml this is way too relatable haha but I love that you went to the spa after this huge experience! What a great way to finish it all off :--)
You have such a balanced and positive view on the situation, I really admire you for it ^_^
i love your grwms, theyre so chill
Mei you're so cute and wonderful! Don't worry, everything will be better, I'm in the same situation and it's pretty shocking but, I don't know, my friends care about me, and I know than your friends and subscribers love too♥️♥️♥️ Thanks for being an inspiration for me💕
treat yourself. you deserve it, you're an amazing person 🌸
you are sooo pretty! I also love your hair and voice
hearing you talk about mystery meat and finding out that he has a girlfriend, idk u sound so mature and i really respect that. I'm also the type of person where it's like, if they're happy then i don't think i should be upset?/? and its really nice to find someone else that thinks that way too :>
Yass I love your chatty get ready with me's !! 😍❤❤
ive been single for 20 years i feel like im missing out on life lol
Jungkook The Fencing Man it's okey jungshook
I can tell you out of experience that love is beautiful, but not necessary. You can get lucky and happy through so many other ways :) so never put yourself down because of being single or so. It's a natural thing, we are born alone. Mostly society (especially nowdays) is putting pressure on people I feel like. Also it's kinda difficult because you have to find the very right person that fits you because otherwise love is an asshole.
So plz let me know where u got the big teddy bear and how much it cost bc all the ones I found are super expensive
girluv55 After Easter, there's usually big stuffies on sale. Mostly bunnies and llamas, but still.
teddy bear!!! ♡♡♡
and thank you for sharing, you're always chill about stuff
SAME. i haven't had a crush since grade school. then all of a sudden this guy comes along and i'm like. omggggff. like i had a mega big crush on this guy only to find out that he was already "falling" for another girl. i was totally crushed....but i'm okay as long he's happy with her. i just want him to be happy whether it's with me or the girl he's with. but i was hella salty at first cause i really thought i had a chance 🤧
you are literally me with crushes, like I've been in the same situation as you like 5 times in my life 😂, but I'm kinda young so I don't care, but at the same time I low-key feel like social pressure, idk😂😂😂
i understand this so much. I can't stand when a person I like has a girlfriend it sucks or if they're just a flirt, or the guys that like me aren't doing it. so stressful.😅
OMG. I know what it feels like to physically run away from a crush encounter or any potential romantic situation. I get so awkward that the first thing i do is to avoid. I actually almost not dated this one dude, because he thought I was disinterested, but really I just didn't know what to do.
I absolutely loved when I heard In love with a ghost's music started playing ❤
being single is fun! after being so tied up with commitment (not saying its a bad thing), you can finally have time for yourself and travel and have fun, in general!
love your story times
I'm the same way and that's probably why I'm single. I run away, hide and get ridiculously shy. I managed to spend a day with a crush, .. maybe I will get better.
OMG I love you so much. I'm so glad Simply kenna suggested you!
I can relate so much. I love this video. Seriously my friends make it sound as if is so easy to talk to a crush but NO IS NOT
Never had a boyfriend yet and I'm 26 years old. 😭😂 ugh socially awkward😫
This video was so relatable❤
rip mystery meat but also thank you for sharing this i love listening to you talk !! your chatty grwm are so nice n relaxing to watch :)
I love you!!!!! Forever n ever!!!
tfw you have never been to a sleepover
same. im 19 and have never slept over anywhere bc my mom wont let me -_- #spanishMoms
I've never been to one because I have no friends... Sigh But at least I can fake a sleepover with my 597296 sisters 😪
little bubby same 💀
Thunder Rin I've never been to once because my parents never let me haha
little bubby hahaha yes! Spanish moms are usually not okay with letting their kids go into a "strangers" home. Thats so true
Ahh I'm so glad I'm not the only person who rarely has crushes. When I do have a crush on someone it's more like admiration but I haven't liked someone enough to date them
I also believe everything happens for a reason. BUT that doesn't mean that all hope is lost for you. You never know what might happen. I was in the same boat for a while with a friend who was with a girl for over a year and I just tragically pined over him the whole time. Eventually, things didn't work out with them and they broke up and soon after we started dating. It will be a year for us come June and we could not be happier. Sometimes you may just not be ready to be with that person until later on in your life. So, hope is never completely lost. But at the same time don't limit yourself to just him- which I don't think you will.
I can relate so much to this! Thanks for making the vid :)
A good thing to remember is that relationships are an option in life, not a requirement! *Starts singing Single Ladies*
Omg you're amazing😂
Like honestly I can relate sooo much
omg this SAME exact thing happened to me. Don't have crushes on people often, and I usually get uncomfortable when people have crushes on me. I started liking this guy because he was so nice, actually considerate, and when we talked I felt like we really had a connection. Too chicken to do anything, except intense eye contact before running away. Right when I felt bold enough to make a move...literally ran into him on his first date with his now gf. So awk. But, on the plus side, I ran into him again recently and I looked super cute 😙
Mei love your personality and thinking^^ much love my crazy funny friend~
i love this kind of videos omg, days ago i had my first "date" with a boy who i wasn't sure if i liked, my friends just told me "go go go!!!" and i tried it, but girl i was so uncomfortable and felt so weird i just wanted to run LMAO but not in a good way when you're too nervous bc you like him, more like "i don't even like you wtf am i doing here i gotta go" and he told me a lot of things that kinda made me feel uncomfortable, he even said he likes me and he never found someone like me, (i know him since a month ago...) i rejected him, and he said that maybe im not interested now, but he'll "change that"and he will never leave me and was like ???? DUDE I JUST SAID NO. Now i feel weird about it, but i know, even when i never had a boyfriend or something, i feel better alone by now, i'll just do my thing.
ahahah awwww meiii i love your story times!!!! 💜💜💜💜💜
this is such a fitting name you are a total princessT-T
Aww you're so cute! I have the exact same views as you! As long as that guy is happy with her then that that makes me happy. I would never tear a couple up if they are happy.
Your deal with crushes is literally 100% me like hoooly shit I never usually get them and when I do I become SUPER aware of how I'm trying to deepen the friendship and I become so shy....and I usually end up getting along w their friends better bc I'm not as shy...like a damn fool
5:44 SAME omg i felt like a freak because romantic situations are so difficult for me. i don't feel alone anymore♥
Broke up with my boyfriend a week ago. Single and cute Squad were you at?
i broke up with my boyfriend 2 days ago so i'm in the squad 🙌🏻
milkydumplings Right here girl! 🙌🏻✨
omg y'all even lucky u have had a bf
omg stay strong love u all
same
the title pulled me in. and that teddy bear is 👌
I wish I was single and cute... I'm single and very ugly :')
June don't worry fam same here.
June i'm sure you aren't ugly 😊
Angel Love is that a spongebob refference
in love with a ghost playing in background got me like
yo I really like the colors in this video
I loveee these types of videos, I love GRWM's...