Yeah it’s clearly in England (some Crown agency was mentioned) so they have no rights. In the US you’d get a massive payout in suit. We have something called Probable Cause over here and they certainly did not meet it. Also a 4th amendment violation. America has its problems, but when I hear about the lack of personal liberties in the UK, I thank my lucky stars.
@@cfc1523 Yeah, I'm in the UK having spent 25 years abroad and I don't have the patience or any kind of respect for authority being used in that way. I need to get out of here before I end up arrested.
I have like 25 first cousins, most of whom have partners and kids. Inviting them would’ve added another 100+ people. I wasn’t invited to most of theirs either. We’re mostly pretty tight and everyone understands it’s a logistics problem, not a personal slight
Yeah, I think I'm going to go with immediate family and a few friends, then we go visit my cousins later. I've got some 30 people just from one aunt/uncle. There is such a thing as too many people to invite.
@@arianebolt1575 certainly but it's weird that you've got some big co-worker but not your cousins it's just weird to me that's all you can invite whoever you want maybe your cousin's don't hang out enough maybe they are on their fifth wedding and have been invited you
Dude, have you seen certain families of certain races? My Mexican family ALONE, not including my husband, would be 100+ people already. Thank my grandparents for 18 children lol
Cheating on your husband with a stripper is not a "mistake" lol. That's a choice. Also if the story is real I hope he got a DNA test, genetics are wild sometimes
I would have thought hiring security for the venue. The cousin was persistent, should have been clue enough they were going to do it with or without permission after your first no
I would have reduced the cost per person and invited all the cousins after the first contact by the cousin. The wedding was simply not affordable as originally planned.
The marine giving his father Power of Attorney didn't negate his spouse's rights to benefits. He gave his father the authority to conduct business for him in his absence. He MAY have made his father the beneficiary of his life insurance policy, in fact, he probably already was. In any case, the young man would have had to actively change it to his wife after the marriage, or actively change it to his father, if he already wasn't beneficiary. The Power of Attorney had no effect on that. A more relevant question is where wss his pay going? The US military frowns on non-support of dependents. A POA is a serious document and shouldn't be given lightly; but it doesn't give the assignee any power that the assigner doesn't have. That Marine couldn't deny her spousal benefits, therefore, his father couldn't either.
Story 7: The groom went about canceling everything without talking to his fiancée? What if the person who dropped the dime was sabotaging the wedding for some reason? And the bride's father just blindly accepted that his daughter did this horrible thing? Was there previous behavior that made it believable that she'd do that? Why was the male officiant at the Bachelorette party? I understand it could just be a coincidence, but there are several pieces of this story that don't fit. But this applies to every story involving the bachelor/Bachelorette party ruining everything: Alcohol almost always gets part of the blame, along with it's conjoined twin, Bad Choices; so why isn't ANYONE at these events a good enough friend to watch out for them and stop it from happening?
Doesn't matter, she admitted it. If you cant keep yourself from sleeping with people you shouldnt be sleeping with while drunk, you should not be drinking
@Elbi93 I agree 100%. I was speaking as to what happened before she admitted it. If it's all true, there had to have been previous behavior that caused her dad to believe it immediately. The other points were generally speaking, I thought I made that clear, but maybe not. My question is why do all these "best friends " let their drunk buddy or buddette do all these stupid things? I guess my friend group was rare; even in high school we were the marines, No girl left behind. When the Bachelorette parties came along, the bride was free to get as drunk as she pleased. We sure wouldn't have let her out of our sight with the stripper or Random Club Dude. But we were friends, not whatever these people are who sit back and let someone ruin their life--if for no other reason than it wasn't going to happen on our watch.
Regarding the first story: I understand that there are budgetary constraints but could op not have offered the cousins to attend at their own expense instead of bringing a gift ? So they could be part of that special day? Hopefully not all of them would have been so off the charts bonkers but the other more respectful members of their family might have been happy to be there for the couple. In addition to that I just want to say that I absolutely don’t understand the need to insert oneself into an event that one is explicitly not invited to. Absolutely does not matter how much I would love or think I deserve to be there. Even if one of my parents married or god forbid died. If they explicitly stated they I was not allowed to the wedding/ funeral /birthday or whatever I would never “just show up “ if anything my self respect would not allow that 😅
On the first one where she said her cousin and her boyfriend crashed the wedding kind of tacky but whatever you're going to tell me they charged you $180 per person for two Desserts and Drinks. girl you got ripped off
After the forth couple got married I stopped listening. A lot of them are not even from the brides perspective and no wedding got canceled. Is the video wrong or the title?
Story 1. I don't know, if your family is that close maybe start looking for wedding plans knowing your cousins are going to want to attend. I know it's the groom and brides day but it's also your fanily
I disagree, no cousins were invited and this cousin, her mother and grandmother disrespected all the other cousins in the family by insisting that this entitled cousin should attend when the others weren't.
@IzzyPR2010 I'm questioning the entitled part. Some cousins aren't close some are. If this is a close family, while I'm not saying it's right, I can understand the reaction of the grandmother. I don't agree with them showing up anyway but I would caution people to take into account your families feeling when deciding the guest list. Maybe you only can afford 45 dollar meals instead of 90 but at least you won't risk offending close family members. Maybe you wouldn't care but then don't make a post about it on reddit. Just my feelings. Be interesting to get the story from different point of view. Please no one come back at me with its thier day cause it's also thier family
Oh add I'm basing my opinion on the only reason seemed to be monetary. Since the food was pretty pricey I'm reading in between the lines that they went for extravagant possibly above thier means so the guest list had to be cut short. Maybe thier was different reasons but I don't remember them being mention. People tend to speak on the more important issues in these posts. We sent invitations and planned our reception for all those who rsvp and every family member that I had contact with got an invite. Then we planned accordingly. No rift. The day went well and we get a long with all our family. Even the ones that didn't show. I rather live harmoniously
Did you ever think that the Bride knew what this cousin was like and decided to exclude all cousins to avoid her and passed it off as a budget thing all in the attempt to avoid the drama - but world class drama queens will not be dissuaded
@@whitechocolate6645 I think so too. Some of those other cousins may decide not to invite her in their events like any future weddings and will have to exclude the aunt and grandmother to ensure this. I'm betting this cousin is grandma's golden child and this likely has ended u[p damaging her relationship with her other grandchildren over this.
How? 😂 it’s not that crazy. Also, giving white sheets is a tradition in a few culture like some in the Mediterranean, particularly Greek won’t wrap them up and it’s on display
@@whitechocolate6645 He didn't talk about hair. He talked about a certain hairstyle. If you google "afro" I think the pictures will show something you never saw on a newborn.
Story 1: it was wildly inappropriate and appalling not to invite your cousins. Weddings cost a fortune and nobody can afford anything so what difference does it make. Seems like a projection / power trip to me. Sad!
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I'd sue the pants off whoever was involved with calling on that couple, the police department, and anyone else tied to it.
Yeah it’s clearly in England (some Crown agency was mentioned) so they have no rights. In the US you’d get a massive payout in suit. We have something called Probable Cause over here and they certainly did not meet it. Also a 4th amendment violation. America has its problems, but when I hear about the lack of personal liberties in the UK, I thank my lucky stars.
@@cfc1523 Yeah, I'm in the UK having spent 25 years abroad and I don't have the patience or any kind of respect for authority being used in that way. I need to get out of here before I end up arrested.
Story 1. You should've told the staff not to serve them. Then had security take them out.
......that first one was some familial beef. No part of that specified the groom leaving for milk prematurely
Yes. I thought I was reading the title incorrectly. OP even said “my husband” in the post.
Story 2 the couple got married
Idk why the story not matching the title bugs me 🤷🏻♀️
Story 1 $190 a head for a wedding, no wonder op didn’t want to invite any of the cousins.
plot twist; the retiree who told the story is Jake
Your first cousins aren't invited to your wedding how distant is your family
I have like 25 first cousins, most of whom have partners and kids. Inviting them would’ve added another 100+ people. I wasn’t invited to most of theirs either. We’re mostly pretty tight and everyone understands it’s a logistics problem, not a personal slight
Yeah, I think I'm going to go with immediate family and a few friends, then we go visit my cousins later. I've got some 30 people just from one aunt/uncle. There is such a thing as too many people to invite.
@@arianebolt1575 certainly but it's weird that you've got some big co-worker but not your cousins it's just weird to me that's all you can invite whoever you want maybe your cousin's don't hang out enough maybe they are on their fifth wedding and have been invited you
@liwiathan ok moneybags. not everyone has enough money to host their whole family. you're either rich or a child.
Dude, have you seen certain families of certain races? My Mexican family ALONE, not including my husband, would be 100+ people already. Thank my grandparents for 18 children lol
Cheating on your husband with a stripper is not a "mistake" lol. That's a choice. Also if the story is real I hope he got a DNA test, genetics are wild sometimes
Jake didn't leave a newborn behind..
I would have called the police and let the cousin be escorted out by them. Doing this might also had convinced granny that it was not a set up.
I would have thought hiring security for the venue. The cousin was persistent, should have been clue enough they were going to do it with or without permission after your first no
I would have reduced the cost per person and invited all the cousins after the first contact by the cousin. The wedding was simply not affordable as originally planned.
The marine giving his father Power of Attorney didn't negate his spouse's rights to benefits.
He gave his father the authority to conduct business for him in his absence.
He MAY have made his father the beneficiary of his life insurance policy, in fact, he probably already was. In any case, the young man would have had to actively change it to his wife after the marriage, or actively change it to his father, if he already wasn't beneficiary. The Power of Attorney had no effect on that.
A more relevant question is where wss his pay going? The US military frowns on non-support of dependents.
A POA is a serious document and shouldn't be given lightly; but it doesn't give the assignee any power that the assigner doesn't have. That Marine couldn't deny her spousal benefits, therefore, his father couldn't either.
They should have played ball room blitz
My thoughts exactly. When you're falling - dive!
The band playing for the wedding fight: I would've started playing " pull the plug" by Sepultra 😂
And the very FIRST story, once again, has nothing at all to do with cancelling a wedding.
Story 7: The groom went about canceling everything without talking to his fiancée? What if the person who dropped the dime was sabotaging the wedding for some reason?
And the bride's father just blindly accepted that his daughter did this horrible thing?
Was there previous behavior that made it believable that she'd do that?
Why was the male officiant at the Bachelorette party? I understand it could just be a coincidence, but there are several pieces of this story that don't fit.
But this applies to every story involving the bachelor/Bachelorette party ruining everything: Alcohol almost always gets part of the blame, along with it's conjoined twin, Bad Choices; so why isn't ANYONE at these events a good enough friend to watch out for them and stop it from happening?
Doesn't matter, she admitted it. If you cant keep yourself from sleeping with people you shouldnt be sleeping with while drunk, you should not be drinking
@Elbi93 I agree 100%. I was speaking as to what happened before she admitted it. If it's all true, there had to have been previous behavior that caused her dad to believe it immediately.
The other points were generally speaking, I thought I made that clear, but maybe not. My question is why do all these "best friends " let their drunk buddy or buddette do all these stupid things?
I guess my friend group was rare; even in high school we were the marines, No girl left behind. When the Bachelorette parties came along, the bride was free to get as drunk as she pleased. We sure wouldn't have let her out of our sight with the stripper or Random Club Dude. But we were friends, not whatever these people are who sit back and let someone ruin their life--if for no other reason than it wasn't going to happen on our watch.
Regarding the first story: I understand that there are budgetary constraints but could op not have offered the cousins to attend at their own expense instead of bringing a gift ? So they could be part of that special day? Hopefully not all of them would have been so off the charts bonkers but the other more respectful members of their family might have been happy to be there for the couple.
In addition to that I just want to say that I absolutely don’t understand the need to insert oneself into an event that one is explicitly not invited to. Absolutely does not matter how much I would love or think I deserve to be there. Even if one of my parents married or god forbid died. If they explicitly stated they I was not allowed to the wedding/ funeral /birthday or whatever I would never “just show up “ if anything my self respect would not allow that 😅
On the first one where she said her cousin and her boyfriend crashed the wedding kind of tacky but whatever you're going to tell me they charged you $180 per person for two Desserts and Drinks. girl you got ripped off
First story didn’t really answer the question, but WOW what a mess!!!
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People got to get over this wedding bs
It's stupid and unnecessary
I love these stories but the flowery embellishments drive me crazy, just give us the stories.
That cousin in s1 and her mom are tge AH.
After the forth couple got married I stopped listening. A lot of them are not even from the brides perspective and no wedding got canceled. Is the video wrong or the title?
Story 1. I don't know, if your family is that close maybe start looking for wedding plans knowing your cousins are going to want to attend. I know it's the groom and brides day but it's also your fanily
I disagree, no cousins were invited and this cousin, her mother and grandmother disrespected all the other cousins in the family by insisting that this entitled cousin should attend when the others weren't.
@IzzyPR2010 I'm questioning the entitled part. Some cousins aren't close some are. If this is a close family, while I'm not saying it's right, I can understand the reaction of the grandmother. I don't agree with them showing up anyway but I would caution people to take into account your families feeling when deciding the guest list. Maybe you only can afford 45 dollar meals instead of 90 but at least you won't risk offending close family members. Maybe you wouldn't care but then don't make a post about it on reddit. Just my feelings. Be interesting to get the story from different point of view. Please no one come back at me with its thier day cause it's also thier family
Oh add I'm basing my opinion on the only reason seemed to be monetary. Since the food was pretty pricey I'm reading in between the lines that they went for extravagant possibly above thier means so the guest list had to be cut short. Maybe thier was different reasons but I don't remember them being mention. People tend to speak on the more important issues in these posts. We sent invitations and planned our reception for all those who rsvp and every family member that I had contact with got an invite. Then we planned accordingly. No rift. The day went well and we get a long with all our family. Even the ones that didn't show. I rather live harmoniously
Did you ever think that the Bride knew what this cousin was like and decided to exclude all cousins to avoid her and passed it off as a budget thing all in the attempt to avoid the drama - but world class drama queens will not be dissuaded
@@whitechocolate6645 I think so too. Some of those other cousins may decide not to invite her in their events like any future weddings and will have to exclude the aunt and grandmother to ensure this. I'm betting this cousin is grandma's golden child and this likely has ended u[p damaging her relationship with her other grandchildren over this.
Story 14: some of these are so obviously fake
How? 😂 it’s not that crazy. Also, giving white sheets is a tradition in a few culture like some in the Mediterranean, particularly Greek won’t wrap them up and it’s on display
#6 Babies are not born with Afros....l
NICU nurse here - quite ofter they are born with afros - very soft, sometimes lighter in color but unmistakeably afro curls
@@whitechocolate6645 He didn't talk about hair. He talked about a certain hairstyle. If you google "afro" I think the pictures will show something you never saw on a newborn.
Story 1: it was wildly inappropriate and appalling not to invite your cousins. Weddings cost a fortune and nobody can afford anything so what difference does it make. Seems like a projection / power trip to me. Sad!