I hate being sensitive. I'm 26, and I've been sensitive since I was younger. Everyone seems like a narcissist to me as a sensitive person.. even feel like people are apathetic
I'm a woman too but I am d opposite of you I don't take things to heart. But I'm glad you're starting to help yourself, because people who are in the same vibe as me are always having conflicts because people took what they said too personally and it's a reason why one of my closest friends cannot get their company successful because his team takes every of his advice that would benefit their company for the better in a negative sensible way, including the reviews from the critics, the more they got criticized. I'm giving this to him, so he can post it and hope it would also help those he is working with just as much as you. Congratulations you're moving forwards in life for the better.
This is true... I recently realised this about myself that I notice every twitch and turn of people's facial muscles when they're talking to me... And it plays with my head most of the time because I'm quite insecure... It could've been helpful if I weren't so sensitive, then I could've been some cool manipulative person lol Jk
@@kingofjustice6961 but letting it break u down mentally or physically is not ok, all y'all look into cold showers and finding better vitamins like blackseed oil or ACV or ginger
That self sabotage to avoid failure is definitely I caught myself doing this year, I think it can be so common that you don't realize you're doing it. It was only something I realized after talking with a coach
this shit is tricky as hell... i encounter it as overplanning and perfectionism... i often dont come far with a project because i never get out of the planning phase as there are teeny tiny imperfections i want to get rid off... it's correct to eliminate errors early on before moving on to more costly stages but it's horrible and contraproductive to get stuck in this phase. really really hard to let that go as it is some kind of accepting imperfections... allowing yourself to fail a little. its always better to have a slightly flawed thing in the end than having nothing at all
@@YuriNoirProductions omg I relate with every single word you said. That's something I've been learning to do as well, is to take action even if it's imperfect. A quote that helps me with this is "doing something imperfectly is better than doing nothing perfectly". I'm so curious, what helps you push through overplanning and perfectionism?
@@pursuitsoflife.6119 Yea an online coach that I spoke with, you can send me a DM on Instagram @kryptonites.journal if you want more info on the coach 😊
If i feared to talk in English unperfectly on the internet i wouldn't say a word. I don't say "sorry for my bad english" in every comment that i write.
None of this is taking any actions and all of it is literally psychological. People are sensitive sometimes because they have ptsd from seeing TOO MUCH. “When something bad happens, pretend it isn’t bad” Doesn’t always cut it chief.
You know being sensitive is a gift. Not something to be a shamed of. Don't dull your senses because society says you should. Look around. Do you think this is a healthy society?
I was literally in the middle of a small mental breakdown because of my mom always making negative comments about me, and making me feel like my emotions are invalid. Thank you
Brother!I would suggest you creating some boundaries by saying ,"If you belittle me ,mother then I will leave the house because this is hurtful to me and this is destroying my mental health".Don't allow your parents to treat you like trash .Defend yourself .Build healthy boundaries against them by being the utmost respectful.Don't be disrespectful. Let us know brother if you need help .
I am so grateful I made mistakes and failed a lot when I was younger. Now with all the meditation I’ve adopted into my daily life I am ready to live my best life. 💚
Omg! Thank you for posting this, I’m someone who takes things very personally and always feel strongly about things. I hate it, because I’m so bothered by every small thing and am unable to focus on anything. I’m too scared and sensitive and I hate it!
Being sensitive is a wonderful blessing. Of course with it come a lot of challenges but of you accept it as a gift and learn to deal with it through meditation for example, it's beautiful ❤️🙏🏽
I hate how I absolutely love offensive/dark humour, but when the jokes are about something I have/do I just can't get over it and I feel stupid because of that
Same, I love mocking my classmate, literally for being short, she has funny reactions. But I hate being jokingly bullied, I take it to heart and get defensive, and then get ACTUALLY bullied.
The most fundamental point I learnt as I explored my sensitivity which was inextricable from my introversion was that the way I feel does not need to have supremacy over the way I act. They are two different things. Once I learned to distinguish the two, my confidence was allowed to flourish.
@ً I started to learn to stop stop letting my emotions control my behaviour. Just because I felt something such as anger or rage didn’t mean I had to let that influence how I acted. Learning to feel my emotions, especially those perceived as negative without acting out or behaving unreasonably meant I had some control over myself which helped significantly with my self confidence.
Rather than focussing on the fact that you failed, focus on the reason why you failed and take a lesson from that failure and try again. You will definitely succeed soon
Great tips, I live by meditation and its benefits and love zooming out. Also appreciate you mentioned using affirmations to build up a anti-fragility mindset.
Being sensitive is the best and worst thing ever. Having more empathy than the average person is something I'm grateful for, but all the world's negativity will affect me even if I'm not involved + can't do anything about it
“Don’t major in minor things.” - Tony Robbins. I’ve been trying to do that for years but tbh, was only really able to once I started taking ssri’s (sertraline). I genuinely think that this is a part of being detailed oriented and is some kind of ocd.
My mum was telling me that I am very sensitive, then I opened RUclips and was checking your channel , but and wouldn’t ya know you released this video just 30 minutes ago on the same topic , your timing is the best dude!
This Helped me a lot. I used to cry myself to sleep Because I thought I was just a failure And I can't do anything. Even a person I met online made me cry. I have overcome my sensitivity and depression because of This video. Thank u so muchhh
Here's the problem with saying "become less sensitive" - it's not like you can turn on or off a switch. A better phrase would be to say "less reactive." We can take advantage of our sensitivity, but when we're constantly attacked for a neurological pre-disposition it's less than helpful and only demeans us as people. Luckily, there are tools and strategies we can employ to better adapt to a less-than-sensitive society. Cheers all!
I'm a mistake to my mom. Everytime he teaches me to cook I fail and fail. I said to myself I can just learn from my mistake. But my mom always told me I never learn.
@@weirdchamp4601 that or the people who make it up. You ever heard that quote its like before you say you are depressed make sure that everyone around you is not an asshole first. Words to that effect . Well it's fucking valid dude
So...tip #1: let failures inform your desicions so you grow and don't fail again, but also you shouldn't actively avoid a failure so that you can grow enough, to the point you'll be able to avoid failure... Basically "read a book by reading, but without reading a book" thanks mate, suuuper helpful
Don't avoid failure meant to not be afraid to try new things even if you suck. If you avoid things because you fear you'll fail, then you'll never reach your full potential
The fact that this world made being sad a joke is terrible. I genuinely think that I’m a terrible person every time I cry since I’m a man. The “thoughts” started in the 5th grade, because of my teacher and a lot of other things. Luckily, I’m doing a bit better now, but it’s starting to get worse again. Usually, I would be scared to comment in comment sections, but this community feels welcoming :)
Today I felt Im being overly sensitive about things that does not even affect me and I am aware that I am feeling that way. Its weird, i needed this. Thank You
I am so much thankful for this video....and I ensure you this is the last time I am being a sensitive person because from now , I will be improving myself constantly .
improvement pill, you're so underrated and definitely deserve more views.. I always listen to your vids when I'm eating my meal, at the train, when driving.. such a beneficial content
I heard and read a quote "Don't be afraid to give up the good for the great". But how do we keep a balance I mean you have got to enjoy too ,right?So how do we figure out when things are balanced and when they are not?
Welcome my HSP friends, ik your hurt, someone really told u to be strong and not to be so sensitive right yeah I'm here for the same. Your amazing just don't forget to love yourself ❤️
My brother insults me about things im insecure about, and then says ''You cant take a joke'' or ''You need to stop being so sensitive'' he literally calls me names that are supposed the be jokes like Slave, Disgrace, and etc. He shames me because im too skinny, or that im too weak, or that im too ugly. But then when I say im insecure about it he says ''why are you insecure about it? Its not my fault, plus nobody teases you about it.''
Mistakes are okay as long as you don't make the same one twice. When you make a mistake, choose a time, as soon as possible, to think about it. Think about why you did it and how you can avoid them, come future occurrences. Also, most importantly, MOVE ON!! When you make the same mistake twice, it isn't just coincidental anymore. You have chosen to do that - whether intentionally, or even just due to negligence.
I needed this. Thank you! I’m insanely sensitive and I wasn’t able to sleep because of what Insaid to someone. I said that the food they made was not tasty and I wasn’t aware that they were the one who made it and it was so insensitive of me to say that! I’m still awake because the thought of hurting their feelings keeps me from sleeping! I want to say sorry but I think they would hate me for it! I’m a straightforward person but at the same time I’m highly sensitive when it comes to controlling my feelings! I feel like I can’t control my feelings. I tend to overthink a lot and can’t even do anything about it. Do I need professional help? I think I’m crazy!
I really can't control myself. Every simple mistake I make, I get angered or burst into tears. Every that happens someone tells me to "Man up." I've been trying to do that but really, nothing's happening. I'm trying the hardest I can. What should I do?
Same idk why even if it's not sad and even if it's a tiny mistake then tears automatically come out of my eyes But then mostly I take things too personally
It's hard to explain to people that you do it without even wanting to. Man, sometimes you just get overwhelmed by these insignificant problems that you have to think about over and over and sometimes it even feels like I want to be the victim of something bad, just to have a reason to complain again.
Thank you, i can see that you are really down to earth and easy to talk to. Im a kid that is focused on my self and i tent to take things to much to heart, in the heat of the moment and i start to cry. Im sick of looking like a baby in every one’s eyes so I really hope you know you have helped so many of us.
I thought he was going to talk about crying issues or how to handle criticism and not care about what people think of you, but this one really helped well too
Sometimes I know how insignificant my problems may be and start blaming myself for suffering in the first place (which is not the point of the video). In fact, just because someone else is suffering more, doesn't mean you are not allowed to. Just wanted to further clarify what I believe the video is saying -----> allow yourself to suffer, put things into perspective and try to get over them.
I feel like of you constantly view yourself as nothing in the "grand skeem of things" its gonna make you left sensitive but I think there would be many more cons to that 1 benefit.
I just don’t know what to do anymore. It’s gotten to the point where my mind starts imagining people bullying me and tricking me into thinking it’s real. My stomach naturally starts hurting too. The worst part is that my family has an awful personality (except my dad) so it’s gotten to where I avoid them.
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Being sensitive is one of the best and also worst traits to have as a person, tough part is being it in the right situations
Totally
yup
@MrBG1138 you only become weak, people will always use you
I hate being sensitive. I'm 26, and I've been sensitive since I was younger. Everyone seems like a narcissist to me as a sensitive person.. even feel like people are apathetic
Really correct...
I’m a woman and I take everything to heart, I don’t wanna be known as a sensetive woman I wanna be strong
Just remember what this person said madam you well get there eventually
I'm a woman too but I am d opposite of you I don't take things to heart. But I'm glad you're starting to help yourself, because people who are in the same vibe as me are always having conflicts because people took what they said too personally and it's a reason why one of my closest friends cannot get their company successful because his team takes every of his advice that would benefit their company for the better in a negative sensible way, including the reviews from the critics, the more they got criticized. I'm giving this to him, so he can post it and hope it would also help those he is working with just as much as you. Congratulations you're moving forwards in life for the better.
I'm a sensitive guy, and I've been like this since I was younger. I believe everyone hates me.
@@lilithhecataniangoddessesm187 Your a powerful woman
I used to be pretty sensitive
I would cry when under pressure
But I knew that I needed to change and now I am no longer sensetive
I really needed this. I hate that I take everything personally
Same here dude
Same
Me too
Same
Same, really wish I didn’t
“As a highly sensitive person, I can sense your mood from a mile away. Don’t try to hide it. You’re not fooling me.”
― *Tracy M. Kusmierz*
Do you know a RUclips called James Jani, he also makes great self help videos
This is true...
I recently realised this about myself that I notice every twitch and turn of people's facial muscles when they're talking to me...
And it plays with my head most of the time because I'm quite insecure...
It could've been helpful if I weren't so sensitive, then I could've been some cool manipulative person lol
Jk
Correct
I have this power ☝🏼️
"no one cares"
-Master Oogway
Just in time when i was having a breakdown over LITERALLY the smallest thing even thanks!!
Small things matter, so it's ok ❤
@@kingofjustice6961 but letting it break u down mentally or physically is not ok, all y'all look into cold showers and finding better vitamins like blackseed oil or ACV or ginger
Same like for an example I cry bc I need to go to the bathroom buts it so scary
A boy kinda yelled at me bc he heard what i said wrong and i almost cried ;-;
Same I cried because of a jerk I met online
That self sabotage to avoid failure is definitely I caught myself doing this year, I think it can be so common that you don't realize you're doing it. It was only something I realized after talking with a coach
this shit is tricky as hell... i encounter it as overplanning and perfectionism... i often dont come far with a project because i never get out of the planning phase as there are teeny tiny imperfections i want to get rid off... it's correct to eliminate errors early on before moving on to more costly stages but it's horrible and contraproductive to get stuck in this phase.
really really hard to let that go as it is some kind of accepting imperfections... allowing yourself to fail a little. its always better to have a slightly flawed thing in the end than having nothing at all
@@YuriNoirProductions omg I relate with every single word you said. That's something I've been learning to do as well, is to take action even if it's imperfect. A quote that helps me with this is "doing something imperfectly is better than doing nothing perfectly". I'm so curious, what helps you push through overplanning and perfectionism?
What kinda coach are you referring to? Is it possible to get one online?
@@pursuitsoflife.6119 Yea an online coach that I spoke with, you can send me a DM on Instagram @kryptonites.journal if you want more info on the coach 😊
If i feared to talk in English unperfectly on the internet i wouldn't say a word. I don't say "sorry for my bad english" in every comment that i write.
1)develop a anti-fragility mistake.!
2)habit of meditation
3)zooming out
Thanks a lot 😊
Thanks
Thnkss
I can’t zoom out I have to close my eyes to and when I do that I just push my tears out
None of this is taking any actions and all of it is literally psychological. People are sensitive sometimes because they have ptsd from seeing TOO MUCH.
“When something bad happens, pretend it isn’t bad”
Doesn’t always cut it chief.
“The real warriors in this world are the ones that see the details of another’s soul.”
Ayyyyyyy, what’s up! Haha
@@xanty_3513 my guy 💪🏾❤️😂
Wait what?
@@maxanderson3733 I see him on every self-improvement video, and I always comment haha
@@xanty_3513 BRUH!
"There is nothing wrong with you if there are times you get weighed down by the heaviness of the suffering in the world."
Thank you
Absolutely right, and the "zooming out" method works great for this, from personal experience.
bro, i see your comment on literally every video
You know being sensitive is a gift. Not something to be a shamed of. Don't dull your senses because society says you should. Look around. Do you think this is a healthy society?
you again
Being sensitive is a curse, at the same time is the most precious thing we felt. Felt empathy
Ikr
Messing up makes me stronger....
Messing up makes me stronger....
Messing up makes me stronger....
Not for me ^^
I was literally in the middle of a small mental breakdown because of my mom always making negative comments about me, and making me feel like my emotions are invalid. Thank you
I hope you are fine now
I had same problem brother...stay stronger
You have your own mind. You can think for yourself, you know whats right whats wrong, c’mon, youre valid!
It I called narcissistic abuse sweetheart. That's got nothing to do with sensitivity and everything to do with gaslighting
Brother!I would suggest you creating some boundaries by saying ,"If you belittle me ,mother then I will leave the house because this is hurtful to me and this is destroying my mental health".Don't allow your parents to treat you like trash .Defend yourself .Build healthy boundaries against them by being the utmost respectful.Don't be disrespectful. Let us know brother if you need help .
Omg I love that "The faster you fail, the faster you succed", that's a really nice way of thinking, I need to internalize that😄😍
*“What does kill you, makes you stronger“* in *”Re-Zero anyway”*
Hmmmmmm
I see you're a man of culture as well
I can hesr Nietzsche crying right now
my man subaru
Eggs
This video was made for me. I hate being bothered by other people's opinions. It really hurts my mental health.
same...
Same I needed to watch this
I am so grateful I made mistakes and failed a lot when I was younger. Now with all the meditation I’ve adopted into my daily life I am ready to live my best life. 💚
Hahahaha I thought this said medication for a second
So basically
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger! Stand a little taller!
doesnt mean im lonely when im aloneee
What doesn’t kill makes you wish you were dead 🗽
“Meditation is like a gym in which you develop the powerful mental muscles of calm and insight.”
Omg! Thank you for posting this, I’m someone who takes things very personally and always feel strongly about things. I hate it, because I’m so bothered by every small thing and am unable to focus on anything. I’m too scared and sensitive and I hate it!
2:20
wow, that subtle Evangelion reference
Can you please explain? I hate when things go over my head.
Being sensitive is a wonderful blessing. Of course with it come a lot of challenges but of you accept it as a gift and learn to deal with it through meditation for example, it's beautiful ❤️🙏🏽
As master yoda said, posthumously: The greatest teacher, failure is!
I hate how I absolutely love offensive/dark humour, but when the jokes are about something I have/do I just can't get over it and I feel stupid because of that
Literally, it’s ironic to me. I feel the same way as you
Same, I love mocking my classmate, literally for being short, she has funny reactions. But I hate being jokingly bullied, I take it to heart and get defensive, and then get ACTUALLY bullied.
The most fundamental point I learnt as I explored my sensitivity which was inextricable from my introversion was that the way I feel does not need to have supremacy over the way I act. They are two different things. Once I learned to distinguish the two, my confidence was allowed to flourish.
@ً I started to learn to stop stop letting my emotions control my behaviour. Just because I felt something such as anger or rage didn’t mean I had to let that influence how I acted. Learning to feel my emotions, especially those perceived as negative without acting out or behaving unreasonably meant I had some control over myself which helped significantly with my self confidence.
Thanks for this
thats really wise ty.
Being sensitive makes sick, that’s why is important to change for ourselves..love yourself first and you will find love everywhere 💕
“the faster you fail, the faster you eventually succeed”
I’ve failed everyday, yet i’m still here without any results 😭
Then there's probably a big success waiting for you at the end
Rather than focussing on the fact that you failed, focus on the reason why you failed and take a lesson from that failure and try again. You will definitely succeed soon
stop LOSING HOPE BASTARD GET UP
@@ghostofthefallenvalkyrie3320 exactly
Identify what to work on and make adjustments 🙏💯
Great tips, I live by meditation and its benefits and love zooming out. Also appreciate you mentioned using affirmations to build up a anti-fragility mindset.
Everyone talks about signs and nobody gives you how to handle it ,I found this quite helpful thank you for making this video.
Being sensitive is the best and worst thing ever. Having more empathy than the average person is something I'm grateful for, but all the world's negativity will affect me even if I'm not involved + can't do anything about it
“Don’t major in minor things.” - Tony Robbins.
I’ve been trying to do that for years but tbh, was only really able to once I started taking ssri’s (sertraline).
I genuinely think that this is a part of being detailed oriented and is some kind of ocd.
wow that quote hit me, definitely writing that down
Start meditating
I feel this
I just added this to my "Very helpful life videos" playlists.
My mum was telling me that I am very sensitive, then I opened RUclips and was checking your channel , but and wouldn’t ya know you released this video just 30 minutes ago on the same topic , your timing is the best dude!
How about your dad?
This Helped me a lot. I used to cry myself to sleep Because I thought I was just a failure And I can't do anything. Even a person I met online made me cry. I have overcome my sensitivity and depression because of This video. Thank u so muchhh
Here's the problem with saying "become less sensitive" - it's not like you can turn on or off a switch. A better phrase would be to say "less reactive." We can take advantage of our sensitivity, but when we're constantly attacked for a neurological pre-disposition it's less than helpful and only demeans us as people.
Luckily, there are tools and strategies we can employ to better adapt to a less-than-sensitive society. Cheers all!
Well said.
Thank You Improvement Pill. You have helped me ever since I found your channel.
:)
I'm a mistake to my mom. Everytime he teaches me to cook I fail and fail. I said to myself I can just learn from my mistake. But my mom always told me I never learn.
Does anyone else feel like they have just constant repeated negativity that wears them down
Yes. Its got a name. Society..
@@aaronmann9442 that might be it
@@weirdchamp4601 that or the people who make it up. You ever heard that quote its like before you say you are depressed make sure that everyone around you is not an asshole first. Words to that effect . Well it's fucking valid dude
I was born as a mistake 😎. But now for serious, you made me more confident that i can do something about it. You're helping me once again, thank you
Damn! So many of them in my circle..
i really needed this rn since im in a small mental breakdown because of my mom saying that im a failure.
Not being sensitive is something that i value. I didnt know it was correlated with success but it's obviously important
Thank you improvement pill for helping to change my sensitivity barrier
I appreciate the fact that you put timestamps in your description
RUclips picks it up and integrates them into the videobar! thx :D
This really is a improvement
when someone yells at me I always cry and then I reflect on everything bad that happens to me and cry even more 😢
So...tip #1: let failures inform your desicions so you grow and don't fail again, but also you shouldn't actively avoid a failure so that you can grow enough, to the point you'll be able to avoid failure...
Basically "read a book by reading, but without reading a book" thanks mate, suuuper helpful
Don't avoid failure meant to not be afraid to try new things even if you suck. If you avoid things because you fear you'll fail, then you'll never reach your full potential
The 3rd tip is life changing...genuinely
The fact that this world made being sad a joke is terrible. I genuinely think that I’m a terrible person every time I cry since I’m a man. The “thoughts” started in the 5th grade, because of my teacher and a lot of other things. Luckily, I’m doing a bit better now, but it’s starting to get worse again. Usually, I would be scared to comment in comment sections, but this community feels welcoming :)
Today I felt Im being overly sensitive about things that does not even affect me and I am aware that I am feeling that way. Its weird, i needed this. Thank You
i’ve always been sensitive and i really needed this advice and tips to be able to overcome my sensitive nature a bit. thanks!
I am so much thankful for this video....and I ensure you this is the last time I am being a sensitive person because from now , I will be improving myself constantly .
Every mistake or thing done wrong is a learning opportunity 🙏🏽
Amen to that
This topic is something which keeps me awake at nights in this lockdown😂.. finnally got a cure 💜
Anyone with me?😌😂
improvement pill, you're so underrated and definitely deserve more views.. I always listen to your vids when I'm eating my meal, at the train, when driving.. such a beneficial content
this has changed my life
You really described my current situation
thank you very much self-development pill I am very grateful for all your advice. I changed my life with their help
this channel definitely deserves more subscribers
thank you so much for the tips. I really had a hard time at school. im know as the crybaby at school. this really helped me!
I heard and read a quote "Don't be afraid to give up the good for the great".
But how do we keep a balance I mean you have got to enjoy too ,right?So how do we figure out when things are balanced and when they are not?
With experience
I've been waiting for this one! Turn it up! 👏🏻
I love improvement pill, he dah best!
Omg...I don't know how...you just read my mind every single time...whenever I have a problem... you are there to help....Thanks a lot ♥️
Welcome my HSP friends, ik your hurt, someone really told u to be strong and not to be so sensitive right yeah I'm here for the same. Your amazing just don't forget to love yourself ❤️
My classmate is also really sensitive so i found this video and sent it to her
People keep telling me I’m too sensitive and don’t tell me how to even fix it, so I’m trying to fix it myself.
My brother insults me about things im insecure about, and then says ''You cant take a joke'' or ''You need to stop being so sensitive'' he literally calls me names that are supposed the be jokes like Slave, Disgrace, and etc. He shames me because im too skinny, or that im too weak, or that im too ugly. But then when I say im insecure about it he says ''why are you insecure about it? Its not my fault, plus nobody teases you about it.''
Twitter needs this video
Thank you for making these. I really needed this right now. I am really thankful.
Mistakes are okay as long as you don't make the same one twice. When you make a mistake, choose a time, as soon as possible, to think about it. Think about why you did it and how you can avoid them, come future occurrences. Also, most importantly, MOVE ON!!
When you make the same mistake twice, it isn't just coincidental anymore. You have chosen to do that - whether intentionally, or even just due to negligence.
I really need more videos like dis
I needed this. Thank you! I’m insanely sensitive and I wasn’t able to sleep because of what Insaid to someone. I said that the food they made was not tasty and I wasn’t aware that they were the one who made it and it was so insensitive of me to say that! I’m still awake because the thought of hurting their feelings keeps me from sleeping! I want to say sorry but I think they would hate me for it! I’m a straightforward person but at the same time I’m highly sensitive when it comes to controlling my feelings! I feel like I can’t control my feelings. I tend to overthink a lot and can’t even do anything about it. Do I need professional help? I think I’m crazy!
I really can't control myself. Every simple mistake I make, I get angered or burst into tears. Every that happens someone tells me to "Man up." I've been trying to do that but really, nothing's happening. I'm trying the hardest I can. What should I do?
Appreciate this a lot man, really needed it.
Everytime I watch one of your videos I learn something new about something I actually knew about already but never was really aware of it. Thank you.
In regard to the anti-fragility mindset I like the saying/mantra: "You either win or you learn."
bro everything makes me cry idek what to do, like i take everything to heart
Same idk why
even if it's not sad and even if it's a tiny mistake then tears automatically come out of my eyes
But then mostly I take things too personally
One thing my dad always told me is "Think in terms of solutions, not problems"
It's hard to explain to people that you do it without even wanting to. Man, sometimes you just get overwhelmed by these insignificant problems that you have to think about over and over and sometimes it even feels like I want to be the victim of something bad, just to have a reason to complain again.
Relatable
Someone who I don't know insult me as a joke
I cried.
Getting hit at the head softly
I cried.
Thank you
Thank you, i can see that you are really down to earth and easy to talk to. Im a kid that is focused on my self and i tent to take things to much to heart, in the heat of the moment and i start to cry. Im sick of looking like a baby in every one’s eyes so I really hope you know you have helped so many of us.
This video helps i take everything personally
twitter stans need to watch this
True
keep uploading pill..ur grt
Sending this to my friends
like someone can come up to me and say "your goofy and weird" kr amth like that and I would take it to heart and end up crying about it. ty for these
Your voice makes me feel confident.
I thought he was going to talk about crying issues or how to handle criticism and not care about what people think of you, but this one really helped well too
Hope i can watch this regularly and improve myself.
I'm a very sensitive person. I react on smaller things. This video is very helpful for me 😊
zoom out more than zoom in, this is a reminder I have to stick in my brain daily. I love this content
You should dig in the benefits of being vulnerable.. it's a true life changer.
Amazing how calm I feel after watching this. Thanks alot
Sometimes I know how insignificant my problems may be and start blaming myself for suffering in the first place (which is not the point of the video). In fact, just because someone else is suffering more, doesn't mean you are not allowed to. Just wanted to further clarify what I believe the video is saying -----> allow yourself to suffer, put things into perspective and try to get over them.
Thank you improvement pill
i had a very bad time to control myself lately, thanks this is helping me a lot
Can you please do a video about how to deal with feeling left out in a group of people?
I feel like of you constantly view yourself as nothing in the "grand skeem of things" its gonna make you left sensitive but I think there would be many more cons to that 1 benefit.
I just don’t know what to do anymore. It’s gotten to the point where my mind starts imagining people bullying me and tricking me into thinking it’s real. My stomach naturally starts hurting too. The worst part is that my family has an awful personality (except my dad) so it’s gotten to where I avoid them.