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Sales, son. Yes please. Really looking for Wedgewood and even bone, though tea is among my priorities, also blood pudding and a tip on some legit bangers.
Nicolas I am a 65 yr old woman. I recently retired 9 months ago. I find living in elegance is a choice and gift you give yourself and others as the come into your home. I was watching you preparing your lunch which I do every day I am home. Using my beautiful dishes, lighting candles, place mats and cloth napkins add such a special touch. I love playing gentle soft music in my home all of the time. It makes me feel that home is a place of beauty and relaxation. I shop at many fine stores but love estate sales, consignment stores, and like shops to find unique pieces to add to my home. It is a joy to find treasure, bring it into my life, and giving it new life instead of it being destroyed. I also shop for designer clothing at resale shops, it is amazing what you can find some new articles of clothing w/tags still attached. You are absolutely right you don,t need a lot of money. I love your videos so much, and find you so very inspiring. I truly look forward to what you share in 🎉each post you bless us with. Be safe, happy and healthy. 💐
Well said Nicolas. Yes, why not set up a selling page, but not just for us. Establish something on a wider platform and let us know how to find it. I have been getting ready to downsize and as I sell things on FB marketplace because it’s easy, I tuck the cash away for something special. It’s risen to a nice sum. I did have one more expensive item that bumped it up.
I am 68 and I used to be like you, buying art, dishes, cutlery, furniture, linen, etc. Then suddenly I realized that when I die, at any moment, these items will be taken over by servants and neighbours. My kids live abroad and they dont have the interest or reach to have any control over my possessions. So is there any purpose?
@@ianbertus9689 That's your stuff, you enjoy it! What happens after that? Does it matter? Those beautiful things are meant to be enjoyed by the owner, you, until you pass away, that could be until you are 70 or 80 or 90. I visit friends and family and see if they appreciate beautiful things, my sister loves pearls. I'm giving her my pearls when pass away. Those special people that appreciate and will take care of those things, those are the people that will get those items. Pass it forward.
Nicolas, I am getting married today and you are the person I wanted to hear speaking as I got ready for this beautiful day. Your kindness, voice, elegance and advise are all so appreciated. Thank you for all that you do to brighten our days!!...xoxoxo
Unfortunately alot of folks don't believe that. Less is more. The Back Area evokes Memories of Paul McCartney's First Home after The Beatles became successful.
I think we crave this lifestyle because we are so fed up with how the World is currently. Watching your videos makes me feel like I am dreamily in another world that is both comforting and somehow familiar. It’s almost like a beautiful meditation and reminder to enjoy the moment. ❤
We all deserve beauty and reject the ugliness and evil enveloping our world. It’s so nice when we can take something so simple and make it so special, beautiful and elegant ☺️
"Elegance is a mindset. It is taking the time to be present in your life and do all things in a way that is going to enrich it, so that even a mundane task, like sweeping leaves, becomes a moment to enjoy and to cherish." Beautiful definition.
Isn’t Nicolas a wise soul for his young age? He includes us, but never makes his audience feel as though we’ve fell short before we get started. Ty you for all your content. He’s pure in heart, class, and character. ❤️
This was the first vlog that I actually teared up. I do not like eating alone. I use distractions with my meals instead of enjoying what I have prepared (not so elegant). I will change this immediately as you taught how. Thanks Nicolas. You a beautiful, elegant soul.
@@Motherhubbard170lol. I know who Tim Janus is! I met him once, made him dinner back in 1987 he was dating my best friend at the time. A very classy guy too 😊
Your parents can be very proud of the young man they've raised, and the young man can be very proud of all he's accomplished so far. I'm looking forward to watching you soar.
I'm in old age now. But many years ago I knew a young man very much as yourself. He did everything to the best. He was in the closet for many years. I would often think of how his life could of been better if he had been free to be his true self.
I love this quote... "You can live an elegant life by making everything that you do your own beautiful moment." Such a lovely sentiment. Be aware of what brings you joy and savor every task and moment. Thanks for reminding me that I need to practice slowing down and being quiet and relaxed.
There is a saying ....”Money cant buy you class”. I would say the same of elegance, Nicolas you are elegant without the expensive clothing or most expensive home decor. You have great taste and moreover a beautiful heart. Thank you for this lovely video.🌹
3 Ways Nicolas Has Taught Me To Be Elegant: 1. Always have fresh flowers 💐 in the house. 2. Using my good dishes even when alone. Right now, I’m using my Thanksgiving dishes and next month I’ll switch to my Christmas dishes. 3. Afternoon tea ☕️ is an elegant ritual.
“Elegance is for everyone” is such a gracious statement from the extraordinary gentleman that you are. It so perfectly captures what your channel is about. If you write a home & lifestyle book that should be your title. Thank you so much for inspiring so many to live a pleasurable, peaceful, thoughtful and beautiful life with even the simplest examples of elegance.💗💜♥️
I'm probably in the small percentage of women that hate clothes and shoe shopping. I shop when I need certain items of course but I rather shop for things for my home. This was a very elegant video and always so relaxing!!
I know I have said this before Nicolas , but your lovely videos are so calming in a world filled with chaos ! They're a reminder to us to take a moment to savour the beauty of life ..thank you .
Nicolas, thank you for this most inspiring video. I love your approach to living an elegant life. It's not about wealth, but having a mindset of bringing out the best in the most simple and mundane situations each day. You set a wonderful example for your viewers. You are so genuine, humble, and inspirational. On a gloomy and rainy day in New York City, you brought a ray of sunshine. Continue to be yourself. Your warm and inviting personality is what attracts viewers to your channel. God bless, Robert
Loved this video. I so agree that elegance isn’t about wealth but believe it is about intention, gratitude, and mindfulness. I learned valuable lessons from my dear German friend in Germany ( I am in America) about how to make the everyday special. It wasn’t expensive things but a simple candle lit at breakfast, cup and saucer instead of a mug, taking time to savor whatever is in front of you, a friend, a sunset, a peaceful moment.
Right on Nicolas!!! I agree with you 150%." Elegance is for everyone". I would never mistake you for a pretentious, uptight person. Your kindness of heart and spirit shines through. We use to say," his parents raised him right." Sincerely.
In einer Welt von Kriegen, Streitigkeiten und Hass sind deine Videos wie ein Ausflug in eine friedliche, schönere ubd bessere Welt. Vielen Dank für deine wunderbare Arbeit.
Hello Nicolas I'm from India. I grew up on romantic novels before I post-graduated in accounting. Your videos take me back to a world of elegance and graceful living, away from the din of life on a fast lane. Thank you for rhe beauty you spread through your video posts. God bless you.
Nicolas, I've had such a rotten day at work today. I'm in Australia and I work in an educational environment 🙃. My days had been rough and emotionally challenged. Then today, instead of doing work after hours, I decided to watch your video. Thank you for calm countenance and humility, coupled with your soothing voice. Thank you for making me feel better.
I’m 66. I find that keeping your own home clean and tidy (whether an apartment, house, RV, or condo) is imperative. Do the dishes, make your bed, set an elegant table for meals, savor what you have and live within your means. You are educating many. 🥰❤️
Nicholas! I just love you. My life is a stressful whirlwind and I’ve been very depressed. I’m going into work an hour later than normal, so I took the time to watch this. It was just the peaceful, pleasant, inspiring moment I needed. Thank you. I will try to keep this feeling as I go about my day. 💗🙏🌸
Nicholas your lovely video reminded me of the most elegant lady i ever knew. She had spent years in private service she walked almost silently, her voice like yours soothing. Her home was simply furnished but of quiet good quality nothing screamed for attention. Thank you for bringing my day to a calming end filled with happy memories..
Just woke up in Australia and watched this. I feel really calm and relaxed. Although I live here I watched and missed my old uk home. The crunchy winter leaves. I felt relaxed watching you sweep the leaves and make food and arrange flowers. I’m getting out of bed now to elegantly put on my tea and toast. I’m going to sit in the garden and eat. Watch the birds and start. My day. Your right it is a mindset. I may put on a nice dress today to and some beautiful purfume. A bold lip. It’s about feeling good.
Living well and enjoying quality time with REAL friends. You remind each of us the joy of maximizing the elegance of living well. Keeping it simple and BEAUTIFUL.
I agree with you. Having an elegant life doesn’t mean to be pretentious or ostentatious. It has to do more with not only the quality of what you surround oneself with but also the way you project yourself and treat others around you. Have a fantastic week👍🙏😎
I always look forward to your videos because they are so relaxing and peaceful. I love a elegant home even though I do not have a lot of money. I shop estate sales , yard sales and flea markets to find some great buys. Neoclassical style is my favorite and I love art for my walls. Thank you for making such wonderful videos.
I’m following you from France since a year, first by curiosity then with more and more pleasure. I’m a grand mother of 75 and you remind me of my son easygoing way of life. It seems easy but it is not. Thanks to show us how you stand for kindness with smile, that’s the only way to be happy
Each time I watch your videos I am speechless at how lovely you are. Every point you make is so thoughtful, articulate, and inspiring. I must say I wish we could all be having lunch with you on that nice table setting
I love you! I’m not afraid to say that because life is short and I’m older! Your videos are joyful and always elegant. I can’t wait to see what you do next. Stay well.
I am a 72 year old mamaw that has been married to the same man for 52 years so far and hope to have many more. i grew up in the hippy era and alway loved all people. I enjoy your videos so much. You bring me calm peace when i watch your videos. Will never experience what you have experenced but live a little of that threw your videos. May God bless you as he has me. sara from Tennessee USA
I have two beautiful granddaughters . One is a doctor and the other is in college for a degree in foreign language. They both called me mamaw which is a common name for grandmother in the USA.
I love your definition of elegance, you made me think of my aunts (who have now passed), they embodied this similar kind of grace. Thank you for reminding me!
Enjoy your weather as much as you can. I saw you working in your Courtyard Garden and grieved; we have snow already in Western Canada 🇨🇦. My wife and I went to attend a Birthday Party of one of her dear High School friends last evening and ended up enjoying a quiet meal out for ourselves, as we hadn't checked our messages that the Party was canceled due to the bad roads. We had driven into town on the backroads and avoided the slick pavement of the Highway. We turned the situation into a Romantic Date Night. A little preseason Christmas Carols on the snowy drive home, and the effect was magical. Have a great week, Nicolas. Your Italian Tan is golden! A
And that's why I love you Nicolas, you're a truly kind young man always inclusive and appreciative. What a helpful video, I will watch this one again and again!
I must admit, I tragically lost my brother. I've been suffering from insomnia. People say I have a relaxing voice. Nicolas your voice is so kind and soothing. Listening to Nicolas voice helps me fall asleep. I have to listen to previous videos otherwise I want to stay awake to watch.
My goodness, I almost passed up this video when it was recommended to me. I had preconceived notions about the content and/or creator (as I’m from a very religious, blue-collar area of the Midwest), and I’m so glad I clicked this video. We all could learn so much from you, Nicolas. You inspire me & you are so eloquent in the way you advise your viewers. Truly artful & tactful & such a great display of interpersonal skills. Bravo!
As a poor artist, I have worked hard to live well on less. If one cooks from fresh, simple ingredients and chooses a good, value wine, one can eat beautifully for very little. Similarly in other aspects of life, the right, thoughtful choice can create an elegant affect without spending a lot.
*🌸it's all about being clean, tidy, and having great appreciation in how you do things ~ your soft voice and elegant presentations gives your vlogs a certain ZEN🌸*
Hello Nicolas. I truly enjoyed this elegance video. I like your definition of not only elegance, but life and how you live it. You are so right about being kind, putting on a smile and just be nice to people is very attractive. Just feeling good in your place and having it the way you want it. Looking forward to your next video.
Nothing brings more joy than a little something elegant for your home .. We all want our homes no matter big or small to be just right for us & bring totally joy & happiness .. Love Mandy from Zimbabwe ...
Something about your work feels like reconnecting with an English way of life. Over here in The States, many of us yearn for ancestral and cultural, national fulfillment. Someday I hope to visit or 'return' home. Your offering is something I have searched for, and finding a practical primer/discourse on English and British culture; thus an fellowship met. God Bless you, Nicolas Fairford.
I’m also an American to whom the English lifestyle is very appealing. At times everything feels rushed, careless and ugly here. I’ve always tried to “live a beautiful life”, strictly for myself and others in my home.
Aw Nicolas, I'm in tears, that last part of your video just got me chunking, it is just so true, it doesn't mean anything if you're not kind, well said, I just love your videos. And you don't have to be rich to be elegant either which is great! The simpler the more elegant, thanks again for a wonderful video, I am hooked on them all, never tire of looking at them, I'm sure you're going to do well with the sale! Have a fab (& elegant!) week. Xx
How I agree with the lighting ! It's the nr 1 lesson students get in Interior Design schools : never a single source of lighting, especially from the ceiling, but lots of lights spread over the room. Lately we've been invited to a manour, the party started pleasantly in the lounge, alas the dining-room was lit with only one large ceiling chandelier, granted a sumptious one. But : it ruined the atmosphere and ...aged faces ! Couldn't wait to return to the lounge for coffee, where thankfully lovely Asian shade lamps were creating a cosy atmosphere.
Nicolas You are such a sweet soul,! Beautiful inside and out! Your wisdom and thoughts on elegance is way ahead of your young age! I hope life is good for you and brings you all the love you give out to everyone! You are for sure a reincarnation of many many generations passed! God bless you sweet boy! Just a loving Nana! 🤗♥️🇨🇦❄️❄️❄️
"Elegance is for everyone" is absolutely true. Money does not give elegance what does give is the possibility to buy expensive things, that is all. Would interesting a sale page.
So true about kindness, what the world needs now is more love not hate and then elegance will be abundant not just in material things but in our actions and spirit.☮️
Hi Nicholas. I am in bed due to illness most of the time. I love the way you decorate, I love your voice and just seeing your video made me feel good. I'm inspired to clean up and make my home elegant too. Thanks 😊
Morning Nicolas another lovely time with you. We live in such a rushed world with no time to smell the roses. Your channel brings great joy to so many people. So thank you for sharing your days…the elegance of simple pleasures. Carole 🧚
What an interesting video Nicolas. I really liked the topic of how to dress elegantly and how to invest your money in things that highlight elegance, such as good shoes and good accessories. I am an elderly person with a not big budget and I cannot buy very expensive clothes, but I can from time to time invest in good shoes or a handbag, scarves and fashion jewelry that help me make the most of the clothes I already have in stock. But this summer for example, I gave my clothes made of synthetic fabrics and bought everything made of linen and very elegant, it was a good investment that will last me. Please keep bringing videos with these topics. I love them and they educate me. Thank so very much.
You have always been a polish, elegant man… I have always admired you class and style. Keep doing what you’re doing and teaching others how to be pure class…
Nicholas, you are so correct about buying good shoes. Not only do they last and still look great, they are repairable when things like heels wear out. Cheap shoes often do not have the quality leather that can be repaired. Even just replacing a heel on a cheap shoe is impossible because of the shortcuts often taken in its construction.
Lovely, as always. You are inspiring Nicolas. You know, I have a comfortable home with many lovely things. The issue is I believe I have to much. When I have guests over, they always say that "they just love walking through looking at all of the eye candy." However, I have come to discover that more is not always better. This vlog has prompted me to make a change. I have decided to go through one room at a time and remove what I feel is to much. It may take a while but in the end I will be much happier. Thank you for your inspiration. Also, I am like you Nicolas, there is nothing I dislike more than overhead lighting. Since I was young, I never felt comfortable in a home where they used over heads. My home is a home of lamps, large and small. Candles and soft jazz.
Well done Nicolas, best advice I've ever heard was when you said to just be nice. You are a very elegant young man and so wise beyond your years. Love your style and I look so forward to your videos each week. Thank you for sharing yourself with us.❤
Nicolas, why has a suitable mate not turned up in your life? You are a catch on so many levels. You should be sharing this elegant life not only with us, but also with someone that hugs you at night and caresses you tenderly when you need love and support through the times that challenge all of us. It is my deepest hope that your Prince Charming comes to share with you!
@@cecilyerker hopefully you are right. How do you know things will eventually happen on some time frame that is predestine to take place? Sometimes things do not materialize in our lives because we do not put in the effort needed to have them just show up. You seem to be able to see into the future or am I mistaken?
Nicolas, I've just watched your Vídeo and I was surprised that someone lives and share "elegance" when we see the opposite everywhere. I love that way of life, too. I had to subscrive. I'm from PORTUGAL
Once again, Thank You Nicolas!!! It's always better to invest in shoes because they expand your wardrobe. Clothing doesn't need to be fancy. Keep your wardrobe with very basic Navy or midnight blue, brown / beige and hunter green with classic silhouette and accessorize. As we say here in NYC its not really about who you're wearing, it's about how well you can arrange and re-arrange your rags.
All your videos are so calm and refreshing. Always taking the time to slow down and enjoy the beauty. I literally feel my body relax take a deep breath. Your great for people with a hectic life. Self care and self love. ❤ we need more of that.
Nicolas, you are the example of class, soft spoken, thoughtful and kind. Class comes from deep inside and cannot be bought. Everyone can develop class. Just TRY .
When one conducts themselves respectfully, with consideration to to others, there is an elegance. You, dear Nicolas, exude such. Your home is a lovely reflection of yourself. ❤. P.s. your selling page will be much appreciated 🎉
This was beautifully done, and I absolutely believe we need more of this in our lives. I’m 50 now, but when I was in my late teens my sister said something to me that I never forgot - buy classics, and buy the absolute best quality you can, then take care of it properly. It’s better to spend $200 on a well made, classic color cashmere sweater that you care for diligently (although it’s not hard) and will have for 50 years, than to buy something trendy (tacky), disposable and synthetic at Sears for $20, knowing it will go in the trash in a year. Martha Stewart was almost under-rated for how well she could teach people how to home-make well. I translate all that advice to furniture, linens. Later she made another good point which is instead of accumulating junk (plastic, etc) to use, and heirlooms to store, it’s better to acquire high quality items and USE them. When she passed away, at 39, her whole house was an object lesson to me. Her kitchen pie safe had lovely silver, china. All antique, bought inexpensively at estate sales and auctions. Same goes for most of her furniture. And they were ALL she used. I inherited her pink and green Limoges plates and silver tea service, as well as fur collars, gorgeous clothes, antique linens. All of which I use constantly and will BE ABLE TO for the rest of my life because they’ll never *not* be elegant. People don’t value this aspect of their elders - most of my furniture is reclaimed or antique, and all my dressers were my grandparents solid hardwood and will last forever, as well as some mid-century lamp finds. Stores, at least, still sell decently beautiful lamps, but antique stores have so many treasures. It’s hard, in an over-populated, under-compensated world, to live an elegant life - but there are choices anyone can make to elevate the quality of their life, over the quantity of their junk, for sure. What’s sad about over-population is that it’s made things like real down, and fur, frowned upon. They’re natural. The one major thing that makes them now bad is the 6 billion extra people who might want them.
Absolutely beautiful ❤ vlog. when I clean my dishes at night it’s like putting everything to bed so that in the morning the kitchen is ready for me; ready for another relaxed beautiful new day.
I recently moved, or downsized as they say in the States, from a 3,000 sq. ft. home on a large estate, to a 1500 sq. ft. home on a somewhat small urban lot Necessities for this new move were a beautiful landscaped yard, Uniqueness in the presentation of the home, and a peaceful quite neighborhood. I think I found these things, and didn’t break the bank and was able to buy without a mortgage. My😅 new home has enormous floor to ceiling windows, a large fireplace, beautiful oak floors, and a large uniquely tiled original 1950’s bathroom. It has a small private landscaped back yard, but a very large front yard area with many perennial flower beds. By Not having to care for a huge home and yard, I have been able to focus on a more cultured..as you say..Elegant way of living…. I think it is really important to care about the way one approaches a lifestyle. I think it makes me a more interesting person, and I really don’t care if someone else thinks it foolish, because for me…I love it💗💕 I am a collector of antique china and silver, and not having the space to display it now, I created a sort of butlers pantry in a large U shaped walk-in closet. Now, I can still enjoy all my pretty things, without it looking cramped and over collected… it does look elegant displayed along the shelves in this space…and it is my little treasure trove….sorta like your expensive shoes….
Classic NF, so calming and beautiful and of course...elegant. This is where you really shine, the voice overs with the calming music, recipes and advice.
You've just given some of your best tips, ever!! I always notice shoes and handbags. And... I think those items always denote a person of style. I loved your tips for an elegant home. And you are so right about lighting and scent! So... I really enjoyed today's show. Thank you.
There is nothing more lovely to me than "simple elegance." This is what I think you bring and I love it... It's easy, it's relaxed and filled with charm.
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I got one of those
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Sales, son. Yes please. Really looking for Wedgewood and even bone, though tea is among my priorities, also blood pudding and a tip on some legit bangers.
Yes i got one and i didn't respond
Very true indeed!! Thank you so much for sharing!!!
Nicolas I am a 65 yr old woman. I recently retired 9 months ago. I find living in elegance is a choice and gift you give yourself and others as the come into your home. I was watching you preparing your lunch which I do every day I am home. Using my beautiful dishes, lighting candles, place mats and cloth napkins add such a special touch. I love playing gentle soft music in my home all of the time. It makes me feel that home is a place of beauty and relaxation. I shop at many fine stores but love estate sales, consignment stores, and like shops to find unique pieces to add to my home. It is a joy to find treasure, bring it into my life, and giving it new life instead of it being destroyed. I also shop for designer clothing at resale shops, it is amazing what you can find some new articles of clothing w/tags still attached. You are absolutely right you don,t need a lot of money. I love your videos so much, and find you so very inspiring. I truly look forward to what you share in 🎉each post you bless us with. Be safe, happy and healthy. 💐
So true.
Well said Nicolas. Yes, why not set up a selling page, but not just for us. Establish something on a wider platform and let us know how to find it. I have been getting ready to downsize and as I sell things on FB marketplace because it’s easy, I tuck the cash away for something special. It’s risen to a nice sum. I did have one more expensive item that bumped it up.
You sound like a beautiful lady.
I am 68 and I used to be like you, buying art, dishes, cutlery, furniture, linen, etc. Then suddenly I realized that when I die, at any moment, these items will be taken over by servants and neighbours. My kids live abroad and they dont have the interest or reach to have any control over my possessions. So is there any purpose?
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That's your stuff, you enjoy it! What happens after that? Does it matter? Those beautiful things are meant to be enjoyed by the owner, you, until you pass away, that could be until you are 70 or 80 or 90. I visit friends and family and see if they appreciate beautiful things, my sister loves pearls. I'm giving her my pearls when pass away. Those special people that appreciate and will take care of those things, those are the people that will get those items. Pass it forward.
Nicolas, I am getting married today and you are the person I wanted to hear speaking as I got ready for this beautiful day. Your kindness, voice, elegance and advise are all so appreciated. Thank you for all that you do to brighten our days!!...xoxoxo
I hope you have a wonderful day! Wishing you a lifetime of happiness X
Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Congratulations!! 💒
Congratulations. Best wishes for a happy life.
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"Elegance is for everyone." What a marvelous quote! ❤
Thank you so much x
My thought exactly, Denise! And Nicolas is elegance personified - a breath of fresh air in today's world.
Such a beautiful thought. You don’t need to be rich, it’s a mindset and approach to dealing with people and things
And how the Italians have made it a way of life. Every nook and cranny serves up a beautiful surprise.
Unfortunately alot of folks don't believe that. Less is more. The Back Area evokes Memories of Paul McCartney's First Home after The Beatles became successful.
I think we crave this lifestyle because we are so fed up with how the World is currently. Watching your videos makes me feel like I am dreamily in another world that is both comforting and somehow familiar. It’s almost like a beautiful meditation and reminder to enjoy the moment. ❤
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My thoughts exactly!!😊
I agree 🙂
@@markaralvin7919 Dude you wrote the exact comment to another woman. You are suspect bro!☝🏾☝🏾🤔
We all deserve beauty and reject the ugliness and evil enveloping our world. It’s so nice when we can take something so simple and make it so special, beautiful and elegant ☺️
"Elegance is a mindset. It is taking the time to be present in your life and do all things in a way that is going to enrich it, so that even a mundane task, like sweeping leaves, becomes a moment to enjoy and to cherish." Beautiful definition.
Thank you - I'm so glad you liked this!
Agreed!
Beautiful
Yes and so relatable as i was sweeping leaves earlier 😁
I have to share this its very beautifully said.
You always make us feel welcome in your home and life. Wear kindness like a garment and you’ll always be elegantly dressed. 💙
Love love love this quote.
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Isn’t Nicolas a wise soul for his young age? He includes us, but never makes his audience feel as though we’ve fell short before we get started. Ty you for all your content. He’s pure in heart, class, and character. ❤️
Thoughtful comment - thank you!
Nicolas is a true gentleman.
Nicolas you are the ÉLÉGANCE !
Very nice the way you explain talk the way you open our eyes for what do we really need to do be and live elegant . Perfect thank you
He is such a a delight ,,,im just enthralled by him
This was the first vlog that I actually teared up. I do not like eating alone. I use distractions with my meals instead of enjoying what I have prepared (not so elegant). I will change this immediately as you taught how. Thanks Nicolas. You a beautiful, elegant soul.
If you don't like eating on your own, look up Tim Janus on youtube, its stunningly beautiful scenery with gentle music which you could play
@@Motherhubbard170 Thank you- I will.
I checked Tim Janis out. Wonderful and calming scenery and music. Thank you for the tip.
I understand because this my experience. My heart goes out to you. We are not alone.
@@Motherhubbard170lol. I know who Tim Janus is! I met him once, made him dinner back in 1987 he was dating my best friend at the time. A very classy guy too 😊
Your parents can be very proud of the young man they've raised, and the young man can be very proud of all he's accomplished so far. I'm looking forward to watching you soar.
So kind - Thank you!
I agree. Nicolas has a bright future.
Elegance is for everyone… I like that
I have always thought that too ❤
I'm in old age now. But many years ago I knew a young man very much as yourself. He did everything to the best. He was in the closet for many years. I would often think of how his life could of been better if he had been free to be his true self.
I love this quote... "You can live an elegant life by making everything that you do your own beautiful moment." Such a lovely sentiment. Be aware of what brings you joy and savor every task and moment. Thanks for reminding me that I need to practice slowing down and being quiet and relaxed.
There is a saying ....”Money cant buy you class”. I would say the same of elegance, Nicolas you are elegant without the expensive clothing or most expensive home decor. You have great taste and moreover a beautiful heart. Thank you for this lovely video.🌹
Well said❤
3 Ways Nicolas Has Taught Me To Be Elegant:
1. Always have fresh flowers 💐 in the house.
2. Using my good dishes even when alone. Right now, I’m using my Thanksgiving dishes and next month I’ll switch to my Christmas dishes.
3. Afternoon tea ☕️ is an elegant ritual.
It's nice that you took the gift of the measuring spoons in the spirit in which it was intended rather than take offence. That's real class.
Of course, it was so kind x
beautiful place
“Elegance is for everyone” is such a gracious statement from the extraordinary gentleman that you are. It so perfectly captures what your channel is about. If you write a home & lifestyle book that should be your title. Thank you so much for inspiring so many to live a pleasurable, peaceful, thoughtful and beautiful life with even the simplest examples of elegance.💗💜♥️
I'm probably in the small percentage of women that hate clothes and shoe shopping. I shop when I need certain items of course but I rather shop for things for my home. This was a very elegant video and always so relaxing!!
I’m in your category 😊
Thank you so much x
Me too. If I find somethint I buy a few items of it. 😄 If possible in different colours. But I also love to shop for my home.
Lol, I'm really glad to hear I'm not the only female that doesn't care for clothes and shoe shopping. Lol
I’m with you. I love shopping for home items which I find much more fun than shopping for shoes or clothes.
I love how Nicolas spends time cleaning and beautifying his outdoor dining table....then sits on the steps :)
Nicolas, you're a gem. Your parents must be so proud to have such a lovely son!
Thank you so much x
I must agree what a beautiful young man I would of loved a son like you thanks for making such wonderful blogs so inspiring 💕💕💕💕
This comment, speaks volumes about you as a parent. If you aren't one, you should be.
I know I have said this before Nicolas , but your lovely videos are so calming in a world filled with chaos ! They're a reminder to us to take a moment to savour the beauty of life ..thank you .
Nicolas, thank you for this most inspiring video. I love your approach to living an elegant life. It's not about wealth, but having a mindset of bringing out the best in the most simple and mundane situations each day. You set a wonderful example for your viewers. You are so genuine, humble, and inspirational. On a gloomy and rainy day in New York City, you brought a ray of sunshine. Continue to be yourself. Your warm and inviting personality is what attracts viewers to your channel. God bless, Robert
Ich kann nur zustimmen! Besser kann man es kaum ausdrücken.
I'm so happy to hear that - Thank you!
Loved this video. I so agree that elegance isn’t about wealth but believe it is about intention, gratitude, and mindfulness. I learned valuable lessons from my dear German friend in Germany ( I am in America) about how to make the everyday special. It wasn’t expensive things but a simple candle lit at breakfast, cup and saucer instead of a mug, taking time to savor whatever is in front of you, a friend, a sunset, a peaceful moment.
Right on Nicolas!!! I agree with you 150%." Elegance is for everyone". I would never mistake you for a pretentious, uptight person. Your kindness of heart and spirit shines through. We use to say," his parents raised him right." Sincerely.
In einer Welt von Kriegen, Streitigkeiten und Hass sind deine Videos wie ein Ausflug in eine friedliche, schönere ubd bessere Welt. Vielen Dank für deine wunderbare Arbeit.
Wunderbar
Hello Nicolas I'm from India. I grew up on romantic novels before I post-graduated in accounting. Your videos take me back to a world of elegance and graceful living, away from the din of life on a fast lane. Thank you for rhe beauty you spread through your video posts. God bless you.
Nicolas, I've had such a rotten day at work today. I'm in Australia and I work in an educational environment 🙃. My days had been rough and emotionally challenged. Then today, instead of doing work after hours, I decided to watch your video. Thank you for calm countenance and humility, coupled with your soothing voice. Thank you for making me feel better.
Watching and listening to Nicholas makes one just want to try harder…to do better. Always a good thing. 😊
I’m 66. I find that keeping your own home clean and tidy (whether an apartment, house, RV, or condo) is imperative. Do the dishes, make your bed, set an elegant table for meals, savor what you have and live within your means. You are educating many. 🥰❤️
Nicholas! I just love you. My life is a stressful whirlwind and I’ve been very depressed. I’m going into work an hour later than normal, so I took the time to watch this. It was just the peaceful, pleasant, inspiring moment I needed. Thank you. I will try to keep this feeling as I go about my day. 💗🙏🌸
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Nicholas your lovely video reminded me of the most elegant lady i ever knew. She had spent years in private service she walked almost silently, her voice like yours soothing.
Her home was simply furnished but of quiet good quality nothing screamed for attention. Thank you for bringing my day to a calming end filled with happy memories..
I love your patio, your style, your voice, your hair...thank you Nicolas. Your channel is like medicine for me🤍
Just woke up in Australia and watched this. I feel really calm and relaxed. Although I live here I watched and missed my old uk home. The crunchy winter leaves. I felt relaxed watching you sweep the leaves and make food and arrange flowers.
I’m getting out of bed now to elegantly put on my tea and toast. I’m going to sit in the garden and eat. Watch the birds and start. My day. Your right it is a mindset. I may put on a nice dress today to and some beautiful purfume. A bold lip. It’s about feeling good.
Living well and enjoying quality time with REAL friends. You remind each of us the joy of maximizing the elegance of living well. Keeping it simple and BEAUTIFUL.
I love how relaxing and thoughtful your content is :) It‘s great company on some nights where you feel a bit overwhelmed with life :) Thank you!
I need this video today. Stressed out and unmotivated so, I can watch you dear friend 😊
My pleasure! Thank you!
I agree with you. Having an elegant life doesn’t mean to be pretentious or ostentatious. It has to do more with not only the quality of what you surround oneself with but also the way you project yourself and treat others around you. Have a fantastic week👍🙏😎
I always look forward to your videos because they are so relaxing and peaceful. I love a elegant home even though I do not have a lot of money. I shop estate sales , yard sales and flea markets to find some great buys. Neoclassical style is my favorite and I love art for my walls. Thank you for making such wonderful videos.
I’m following you from France since a year, first by curiosity then with more and more pleasure. I’m a grand mother of 75 and you remind me of my son easygoing way of life. It seems easy but it is not. Thanks to show us how you stand for kindness with smile, that’s the only way to be happy
Such wonderful advice to be a kind person to live an elegant life! I love that! It is so true! You are a very kind person, Nicolas.
Thank you!
I appreciate your message that “elegance is for everyone.” Thank you, Nicolas!
Elegance is candles and flowers fro no special occasion , just fro every day, because every day counts. Be Elegant every day.
Each time I watch your videos I am speechless at how lovely you are. Every point you make is so thoughtful, articulate, and inspiring. I must say I wish we could all be having lunch with you on that nice table setting
Hi Nicholas, I think having that selling page is a wonderful idea for your business. Hope it grows! 🌱🍀
I love you! I’m not afraid to say that because life is short and I’m older! Your videos are joyful and always elegant. I can’t wait to see what you do next. Stay well.
I am a 72 year old mamaw that has been married to the same man for 52 years so far and hope to have many more. i grew up in the hippy era and alway loved all people. I enjoy your videos so much. You bring me calm peace when i watch your videos. Will never experience what you have experenced but live a little of that threw your videos. May God bless you as he has me. sara from Tennessee USA
@@Wisdom-Nuggets-Tid-Bits Grandmother
I have two beautiful granddaughters . One is a doctor and the other is in college for a degree in foreign language. They both called me mamaw which is a common name for grandmother in the USA.
I love your definition of elegance, you made me think of my aunts (who have now passed), they embodied this similar kind of grace. Thank you for reminding me!
Enjoy your weather as much as you can. I saw you working in your Courtyard Garden and grieved; we have snow already in Western Canada 🇨🇦. My wife and I went to attend a Birthday Party of one of her dear High School friends last evening and ended up enjoying a quiet meal out for ourselves, as we hadn't checked our messages that the Party was canceled due to the bad roads. We had driven into town on the backroads and avoided the slick pavement of the Highway. We turned the situation into a Romantic Date Night. A little preseason Christmas Carols on the snowy drive home, and the effect was magical.
Have a great week, Nicolas. Your Italian Tan is golden!
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Nicolas very nice of you to do the way you do things. I am a 70 years old and I do exact the same, I'm alone but I do enjoy my elegant life.
I feel so calm watching you and listening to your voice. Thank you for sharing what you do with everyone.
My pleasure! Thank you!
And that's why I love you Nicolas, you're a truly kind young man always inclusive and appreciative. What a helpful video, I will watch this one again and again!
I must admit, I tragically lost my brother. I've been suffering from insomnia. People say I have a relaxing voice. Nicolas your voice is so kind and soothing. Listening to Nicolas voice helps me fall asleep. I have to listen to previous videos otherwise I want to stay awake to watch.
I am so sorry 😢about your brother 🙏 I lost my father a few months ago it’s very painful 😢I notice I alway do things to relax me
@@zeek4749 I truly appreciate that, Thank you! I'm 😔 for your loss too. 🌹🧡
My goodness, I almost passed up this video when it was recommended to me. I had preconceived notions about the content and/or creator (as I’m from a very religious, blue-collar area of the Midwest), and I’m so glad I clicked this video. We all could learn so much from you, Nicolas. You inspire me & you are so eloquent in the way you advise your viewers. Truly artful & tactful & such a great display of interpersonal skills. Bravo!
As a poor artist, I have worked hard to live well on less. If one cooks from fresh, simple ingredients and chooses a good, value wine, one can eat beautifully for very little. Similarly in other aspects of life, the right, thoughtful choice can create an elegant affect without spending a lot.
*🌸it's all about being clean, tidy, and having great appreciation in how you do things ~ your soft voice and elegant presentations gives your vlogs a certain ZEN🌸*
Hello Nicolas. I truly enjoyed this elegance video. I like your definition of not only elegance, but life and how you live it. You are so right about being kind, putting on a smile and just be nice to people is very attractive. Just feeling good in your place and having it the way you want it. Looking forward to your next video.
Thank you so much x
I love your simple none stuffy elegance. The videos you post are so calm and serene. Thank you
Nothing brings more joy than a little something elegant for your home .. We all want our homes no matter big or small to be just right for us & bring totally joy & happiness .. Love Mandy from Zimbabwe ...
Living is as you convey...BEAUTIFUL. Thank you sir. Thank you.
Not compmicated. Just being HONEST.
Something about your work feels like reconnecting with an English way of life. Over here in The States, many of us yearn for ancestral and cultural, national fulfillment. Someday I hope to visit or 'return' home. Your offering is something I have searched for, and finding a practical primer/discourse on English and British culture; thus an fellowship met. God Bless you, Nicolas Fairford.
I’m also an American to whom the English lifestyle is very appealing. At times everything feels rushed, careless and ugly here. I’ve always tried to “live a beautiful life”, strictly for myself and others in my home.
@@kimberlyperrotis8962 There's no substitute for fine living, best wishes in and among your pursuits.
I fully agree paying for quality shoes, coats and accessories. Another Sunday I would not miss with you!
Thank you for mentioning kindness. So many people don't realize it's true value.
Aw Nicolas, I'm in tears, that last part of your video just got me chunking, it is just so true, it doesn't mean anything if you're not kind, well said, I just love your videos. And you don't have to be rich to be elegant either which is great! The simpler the more elegant, thanks again for a wonderful video, I am hooked on them all, never tire of looking at them, I'm sure you're going to do well with the sale! Have a fab (& elegant!) week. Xx
I love how transparent you are about your budget, you're so humble and that's a noble virtue
How I agree with the lighting ! It's the nr 1 lesson students get in Interior Design schools : never a single source of lighting, especially from the ceiling, but lots of lights spread over the room. Lately we've been invited to a manour, the party started pleasantly in the lounge, alas the dining-room was lit with only one large ceiling chandelier, granted a sumptious one. But : it ruined the atmosphere and ...aged faces ! Couldn't wait to return to the lounge for coffee, where thankfully lovely Asian shade lamps were creating a cosy atmosphere.
Nicolas
You are such a sweet soul,! Beautiful inside and out!
Your wisdom and thoughts on elegance is way ahead of your young age!
I hope life is good for you and brings you all the love you give out to everyone!
You are for sure a reincarnation of many many generations passed!
God bless you sweet boy!
Just a loving Nana!
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"Elegance is for everyone" is absolutely true. Money does not give elegance what does give is the possibility to buy expensive things, that is all. Would interesting a sale page.
So true about kindness, what the world needs now is more love not hate and then elegance will be abundant not just in material things but in our actions and spirit.☮️
In this world where you can choose to be anything- choose to be kind. 💙
Hi Nicholas. I am in bed due to illness most of the time. I love the way you decorate, I love your voice and just seeing your video made me feel good. I'm inspired to clean up and make my home elegant too. Thanks 😊
Morning Nicolas another lovely time with you. We live in such a rushed world with no time to smell the roses. Your channel brings great joy to so many people. So thank you for sharing your days…the elegance of simple pleasures. Carole 🧚
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my daughter & I pray for you, Nicolas, before watching your pleasant programs.
What an interesting video Nicolas. I really liked the topic of how to dress elegantly and how to invest your money in things that highlight elegance, such as good shoes and good accessories. I am an elderly person with a not big budget and I cannot buy very expensive clothes, but I can from time to time invest in good shoes or a handbag, scarves and fashion jewelry that help me make the most of the clothes I already have in stock. But this summer for example, I gave my clothes made of synthetic fabrics and bought everything made of linen and very elegant, it was a good investment that will last me. Please keep bringing videos with these topics. I love them and they educate me. Thank so very much.
Amazing! Thank you!
You have always been a polish, elegant man… I have always admired you class and style. Keep doing what you’re doing and teaching others how to be pure class…
"Elegance is for everyone." Such an encouraging statement!
Nicholas, you are so correct about buying good shoes. Not only do they last and still look great, they are repairable when things like heels wear out. Cheap shoes often do not have the quality leather that can be repaired. Even just replacing a heel on a cheap shoe is impossible because of the shortcuts often taken in its construction.
Lovely, as always. You are inspiring Nicolas. You know, I have a comfortable home with many lovely things. The issue is I believe I have to much. When I have guests over, they always say that "they just love walking through looking at all of the eye candy." However, I have come to discover that more is not always better. This vlog has prompted me to make a change. I have decided to go through one room at a time and remove what I feel is to much. It may take a while but in the end I will be much happier. Thank you for your inspiration. Also, I am like you Nicolas, there is nothing I dislike more than overhead lighting. Since I was young, I never felt comfortable in a home where they used over heads. My home is a home of lamps, large and small. Candles and soft jazz.
"elegance is for everyone" absolutely beautiful words, cheers
Well done Nicolas, best advice I've ever heard was when you said to just be nice. You are a very elegant young man and so wise beyond your years. Love your style and I look so forward to your videos each week. Thank you for sharing yourself with us.❤
Nicolas, why has a suitable mate not turned up in your life? You are a catch on so many levels. You should be sharing this elegant life not only with us, but also with someone that hugs you at night and caresses you tenderly when you need love and support through the times that challenge all of us. It is my deepest hope that your Prince Charming comes to share with you!
All in good time. Everything will happen as it’s meant to.
@@cecilyerker hopefully you are right. How do you know things will eventually happen on some time frame that is predestine to take place? Sometimes things do not materialize in our lives because we do not put in the effort needed to have them just show up. You seem to be able to see into the future or am I mistaken?
Nicolas, your videos make me appreciate the simpler things in life ❤ Hope you have a great week!
I'm so happy to hear that!
Nicolas, I've just watched your Vídeo and I was surprised that someone lives and share "elegance" when we see the opposite everywhere.
I love that way of life, too.
I had to subscrive.
I'm from PORTUGAL
I agree 100% with you "How to Live an Elegant Life" philosophy. That is why I connected so much with this channel.
Once again, Thank You Nicolas!!! It's always better to invest in shoes because they expand your wardrobe. Clothing doesn't need to be fancy. Keep your wardrobe with very basic Navy or midnight blue, brown / beige and hunter green with classic silhouette and accessorize. As we say here in NYC its not really about who you're wearing, it's about how well you can arrange and re-arrange your rags.
One of your best videos yet Nicholas! Thank you for those lovely tips and wise words delivered so elegantly. Wonderful!
Your videos are inspiring and relaxing. Thank you for these wonderful lifestyle tips!
Thank you so much x
We love you Nicolas! Thank you for your calm, peace and love shining into the world.
All your videos are so calm and refreshing. Always taking the time to slow down and enjoy the beauty. I literally feel my body relax take a deep breath. Your great for people with a hectic life. Self care and self love. ❤ we need more of that.
I appreciate how hard this guys working like look at his face the tiredness and stress he works hard to make him happy
This is one of your best presentations! I enjoyed it immensely.
So happy to hear that! Thank you!
Nicolas, you are the example of class, soft spoken, thoughtful and kind. Class comes from deep inside and cannot be bought. Everyone can develop class. Just TRY .
When one conducts themselves respectfully, with consideration to to others, there is an elegance. You, dear Nicolas, exude such. Your home is a lovely reflection of yourself. ❤. P.s. your selling page will be much appreciated 🎉
Love your elegant home. Treating yourself as the most important person at every meal is such a great idea. Thanks for sharing and enjoy your week.
This was beautifully done, and I absolutely believe we need more of this in our lives. I’m 50 now, but when I was in my late teens my sister said something to me that I never forgot - buy classics, and buy the absolute best quality you can, then take care of it properly. It’s better to spend $200 on a well made, classic color cashmere sweater that you care for diligently (although it’s not hard) and will have for 50 years, than to buy something trendy (tacky), disposable and synthetic at Sears for $20, knowing it will go in the trash in a year. Martha Stewart was almost under-rated for how well she could teach people how to home-make well. I translate all that advice to furniture, linens. Later she made another good point which is instead of accumulating junk (plastic, etc) to use, and heirlooms to store, it’s better to acquire high quality items and USE them. When she passed away, at 39, her whole house was an object lesson to me. Her kitchen pie safe had lovely silver, china. All antique, bought inexpensively at estate sales and auctions. Same goes for most of her furniture. And they were ALL she used. I inherited her pink and green Limoges plates and silver tea service, as well as fur collars, gorgeous clothes, antique linens. All of which I use constantly and will BE ABLE TO for the rest of my life because they’ll never *not* be elegant. People don’t value this aspect of their elders - most of my furniture is reclaimed or antique, and all my dressers were my grandparents solid hardwood and will last forever, as well as some mid-century lamp finds. Stores, at least, still sell decently beautiful lamps, but antique stores have so many treasures. It’s hard, in an over-populated, under-compensated world, to live an elegant life - but there are choices anyone can make to elevate the quality of their life, over the quantity of their junk, for sure. What’s sad about over-population is that it’s made things like real down, and fur, frowned upon. They’re natural. The one major thing that makes them now bad is the 6 billion extra people who might want them.
"Be a nice person". That is very true Nicolas.
Thank you .
I always feel so warm and welcoming in your home with your videos. Elegance surrounds you. Thank you ☺️
Having met with this video means a lot to me .
You gave me reason to replace my measuring spoons! Thanks Nicolas! ❤️❤️
Nicolas, you are elegance personified! Thank you for sharing your kind, thoughtful wisdom with us.🙏🏻❤️
Absolutely beautiful ❤ vlog. when I clean my dishes at night it’s like putting everything to bed so that in the morning the kitchen is ready for me; ready for another relaxed beautiful new day.
I love this ❤
I recently moved, or downsized as they say in the States, from a 3,000 sq. ft. home on a large estate, to a 1500 sq. ft. home on a somewhat small urban lot Necessities for this new move were a beautiful landscaped yard, Uniqueness in the presentation of the home, and a peaceful quite neighborhood. I think I found these things, and didn’t break the bank and was able to buy without a mortgage. My😅 new home has enormous floor to ceiling windows, a large fireplace, beautiful oak floors, and a large uniquely tiled original 1950’s bathroom. It has a small private landscaped back yard, but a very large front yard area with many perennial flower beds. By Not having to care for a huge home and yard, I have been able to focus on a more cultured..as you say..Elegant way of living….
I think it is really important to care about the way one approaches a lifestyle. I think it makes me a more interesting person, and I really don’t care if someone else thinks it foolish, because for me…I love it💗💕
I am a collector of antique china and silver, and not having the space to display it now, I created a sort of butlers pantry in a large U shaped walk-in closet. Now, I can still enjoy all my pretty things, without it looking cramped and over collected… it does look elegant displayed along the shelves in this space…and it is my little treasure trove….sorta like your expensive shoes….
Classic NF, so calming and beautiful and of course...elegant. This is where you really shine, the voice overs with the calming music, recipes and advice.
Dear Nicholas, how wonderful that you say kindness is the most important thing of all, I completely agree xx
You've just given some of your best tips, ever!! I always notice shoes and handbags. And... I think those items always denote a person of style. I loved your tips for an elegant home. And you are so right about lighting and scent! So... I really enjoyed today's show. Thank you.
There is nothing more lovely to me than "simple elegance." This is what I think you bring and I love it... It's easy, it's relaxed and filled with charm.