I just had my first baby via c-section a month ago and I said 2 weeks into recovery that baby 2 would be delivered the same way. I hated being pregnant and your videos about your lackluster experience really helped me get through it. I also have a strong support system that is making recovery a breeze. If I went into natural labor I would be okay otherwise cut me open and keep it rolling. Praying all goes well with your delivery. Also, my husband and I only wanted two biological kids so just like you it isn’t a concern.
Thanks for sharing your opinion and decision. It seems you have above and beyond medical support that most VBAC women don’t have, that would help you and the baby even if a VBAC went negatively for you both. As a C section mom myself who is trying for a VBAC, all of your fears are what make VBACs so much harder because we have so much trauma and fear to work through. At the end of the day of course it’s your decision. I suppose I’m just hear to tell you to not give up on your dream of a vaginal delivery. I know I won’t be giving up on mine. I hope all goes well.
Ali, eu te compreendo perfeitamente. Eu sou médica, não obgyn, e estou grávida do primeiro bebê. Porém, minha família tem um grande histórico de distócias, infelizmente. Nós, sendo médicas, tenho a impressão de ser mais difícil passar por esse processo, porque sabemos especificamente o que pode dar errado e não podemos ignorar ter esse conhecimento. Por outro lado, como pacientes, precisamos ter fé e ter pensamento positivo. Estou na mesma vibe que você. Se eu entrar em trabalho de parto, com dilatação e progressão: aceitarei um lindo e maravilhoso parto vaginal. ❤ Mas ao menor sinal de complicação e risco: aceitarei uma linda e maravilhosa cesárea. 😅 Que Deus nos guie para o melhor caminho pros nossos filhos. 😊❤
My doctor seems very hesitant to tolac/vbac for me. It’s frustrating because I saw your last video and it seems like I’m the perfect candidate for one. PLUS I have a blood clotting disorder which is why I’m even more grsidtsnt to do another c section. I don’t know if I should switch doctors or what? I’m only 15 weeks but I’d like to start discussing it more seriously after 20 weeks. Any suggestions on how to deal with a stubborn doctor?
I love how you mentioned your faith in Jesus. We make our plans, but the Lord determines our steps.
I pray that you have a safe delivery! 🙏
I just had my first baby via c-section a month ago and I said 2 weeks into recovery that baby 2 would be delivered the same way. I hated being pregnant and your videos about your lackluster experience really helped me get through it. I also have a strong support system that is making recovery a breeze. If I went into natural labor I would be okay otherwise cut me open and keep it rolling. Praying all goes well with your delivery. Also, my husband and I only wanted two biological kids so just like you it isn’t a concern.
Thanks for sharing your opinion and decision. It seems you have above and beyond medical support that most VBAC women don’t have, that would help you and the baby even if a VBAC went negatively for you both. As a C section mom myself who is trying for a VBAC, all of your fears are what make VBACs so much harder because we have so much trauma and fear to work through. At the end of the day of course it’s your decision. I suppose I’m just hear to tell you to not give up on your dream of a vaginal delivery. I know I won’t be giving up on mine. I hope all goes well.
No matter which way he is born I pray you are all safe and healthy ♥
I love how you explained your decision making process. Good luck and can't wait to hear the news of your son being born💙
I’m so sorry you don’t like being pregnant! Honestly though I get it, I’d be worried sick all the time too.
Makes perfect sense to me. God bless you & your baby 👶 boy!
Ali, eu te compreendo perfeitamente. Eu sou médica, não obgyn, e estou grávida do primeiro bebê. Porém, minha família tem um grande histórico de distócias, infelizmente.
Nós, sendo médicas, tenho a impressão de ser mais difícil passar por esse processo, porque sabemos especificamente o que pode dar errado e não podemos ignorar ter esse conhecimento. Por outro lado, como pacientes, precisamos ter fé e ter pensamento positivo.
Estou na mesma vibe que você. Se eu entrar em trabalho de parto, com dilatação e progressão: aceitarei um lindo e maravilhoso parto vaginal. ❤
Mas ao menor sinal de complicação e risco: aceitarei uma linda e maravilhosa
cesárea. 😅
Que Deus nos guie para o melhor caminho pros nossos filhos. 😊❤
My doctor seems very hesitant to tolac/vbac for me. It’s frustrating because I saw your last video and it seems like I’m the perfect candidate for one. PLUS I have a blood clotting disorder which is why I’m even more grsidtsnt to do another c section. I don’t know if I should switch doctors or what? I’m only 15 weeks but I’d like to start discussing it more seriously after 20 weeks. Any suggestions on how to deal with a stubborn doctor?
Can you try membrane sweep to encourage spontaneous labour? Or is it not allowed till after 38 weeks anyway...
I feel the same. I told my MFM I'm happy to TOLAC with spontaneous labor. Otherwise I'm great with a scheduled csection.
I agree with you. My daughter in law had a uterine rupture. Not fun.