You know, if my wife was defending my daughter cheating on her fiancé/husband, calling it "just a mistake", that would immediately raise a red flag to me about my wife.
Yeaaaahhh. Pretty sure I'd start planning my exit strategy immediately. I'd go snooping too, but I'd be leaving even if I didn't find anything. Anyone who will defend cheating has either cheated in the past (and learned nothing, as is usually the case), is currently cheating, or will cheat in the future.
Exactly this. She cheated and then she immediately goes to gaslighting until she finds out how much the op knows. That shows a pattern of behaviour of a cheating liar. Sadly I know how this goes. Been there.............
"Cheating is not a mistake" is scared in my mind, cause I heard someone retort with "but what if she didn't want it, like what if she regretted it." I realized that part of the problem is that our society has disassociated the difference between comcent, regret, and S.A. so much that they expect a hoe to he treated as the victim.
yeah if she was manipulated so easily, how long before another group of friends tells her to open her marriage or hide it better. it's crazy that so many women say it was just an accident that it will never happen again, i didn't know leaving a bachelorette with some random guy and having sex with him could be construed as an accident
I don’t get this perspective. If she’s a cheater don’t you want to know as soon as possible? I’m all for letting her go out whenever and wherever she wants. If she’s faithful she won’t cheat regardless, if she’s a cheater your lack of rigidity will cause her to get sloppy and eventually you’ll catch her. Win-win.
Just talk to her about it. If you don't feel too comfortable with strippers, mention the same to her, see if she's worth your're love and be worthy of hers
They can't, that's the thing. Sister saying "women should go all out on that night"(The Bachelorette party) clearly says how she, and people who use that opportunity to cheat, feel about marriage. They feel like it's restricting. They know they're bound to someone, when they don't want to be.
what a selfish person. they cheated and get found out, then imstead of owning the cheating, they go into suicidal/depression mode and try to make the partner as the victim again. you dont get the choice, girl. stop being a coward and put blame on the partner. own your evil action, and live with it forever. you dont get the right to commit suicide or get into depression. stay alive and bear your sin!
Why do people always think that a bachelor/bachelorette party gives them grounds to “have fun before they’re tied down”? Did you not get “tied down” when you chose to become exclusive with your partner? Like make it make sense to me. Any “casual fun & freedom” you had ends the moment you choose to commit to someone else, unless you both agree on an open relationship. Another thing I noticed is, why does nobody EVER care about the hurt party when a cheater is exposed? WTF is everyone so dead set on shoving the cheater and their victim back together? Does nobody understand the mental ANGUISH the cheated spouse is feeling, it’s always “Aw, we understand your pain, but your partner is crying, so they’re obviously in more pain than you. You should come back and comfort them.” Imagine sitting and thinking about all the years WASTED and everyone seems to care more for the cheater!
Amen, brother. I know what both OPs went through. I picked up a bottle and have been getting sick, I've been drinking so much and sleeping with every woman I can. My cheating ex ruined me. I dont want to get married anymore, and I don't know how I can move forward. I still hit the gym and got closer to my goal weight/phsyique... but sometimes I hit the gym drunk and high off drugs. I wear a sweatshirt with the hood over my face. I'm just hoping it gets better, and I can learn to trust another woman in the near future.
Should have said to sister and ex, now you and your/her friends can force her on a new guy and leave me the fuck alone. No don't ever give them closure when they cheat
You know, if my wife was defending my daughter cheating on her fiancé/husband, calling it "just a mistake", that would immediately raise a red flag to me about my wife.
Yeaaaahhh. Pretty sure I'd start planning my exit strategy immediately. I'd go snooping too, but I'd be leaving even if I didn't find anything. Anyone who will defend cheating has either cheated in the past (and learned nothing, as is usually the case), is currently cheating, or will cheat in the future.
Yep.
If she did that its because she is preparing the excuses beforehand for when she does it herself
The other thing is the dad saying "I didn't raise my daughter this way."
The sisters were in on it, so shouldn't the subject be plural?
You only saw a small part of the convo, so you misunderstood*
Sends the rest of the pics: Ok you can finish lying now?....
Exactly this. She cheated and then she immediately goes to gaslighting until she finds out how much the op knows. That shows a pattern of behaviour of a cheating liar. Sadly I know how this goes. Been there.............
*Its always a frigging mistake to these idiots. CHEATING is not a mistake its a series of choices.*
Right? A “mistake”is falling for someone other than your spouse, a “choice” is choosing to act on those feelings.
"Cheating is not a mistake" is scared in my mind, cause I heard someone retort with "but what if she didn't want it, like what if she regretted it."
I realized that part of the problem is that our society has disassociated the difference between comcent, regret, and S.A. so much that they expect a hoe to he treated as the victim.
Is the sister and her friends married?
If so, you know that they all did this to their husbands.
"She cheated on her Bachelorette party by cheating" hmmm really now?
These reddit story channels are pretty lazy, so you shouldn't be too surprised.
The other cheating in different sentence but yeah it's a lil mistake
i think op’s first language isnt english.
He said "by cheating I don't mean striptease..."
yeah if she was manipulated so easily, how long before another group of friends tells her to open her marriage or hide it better. it's crazy that so many women say it was just an accident that it will never happen again, i didn't know leaving a bachelorette with some random guy and having sex with him could be construed as an accident
Mom probably cheated aswell
Hecc, even the grandma cheated including the cat
But for real, this is the reason I ain’t much of a fan of bachelor and bachelorette parties. I ain’t letting my girl have one to Avoid this.
Don’t be controlling. You should let her. It will show her true colors.
@@magnus19g8xc9fasho if she going to cheat u can’t stop her
If she cheats on you then, she will in the future. Better let her do it then and find out before.
I don’t get this perspective. If she’s a cheater don’t you want to know as soon as possible? I’m all for letting her go out whenever and wherever she wants. If she’s faithful she won’t cheat regardless, if she’s a cheater your lack of rigidity will cause her to get sloppy and eventually you’ll catch her. Win-win.
Just talk to her about it. If you don't feel too comfortable with strippers, mention the same to her, see if she's worth your're love and be worthy of hers
She had to "all the energy out before marriage" ..... So how can these types of people be Faithful for Entire life... How ???
They can't, that's the thing. Sister saying "women should go all out on that night"(The Bachelorette party) clearly says how she, and people who use that opportunity to cheat, feel about marriage. They feel like it's restricting. They know they're bound to someone, when they don't want to be.
She cheated already before bachelorette party.
what a selfish person. they cheated and get found out, then imstead of owning the cheating, they go into suicidal/depression mode and try to make the partner as the victim again.
you dont get the choice, girl. stop being a coward and put blame on the partner. own your evil action, and live with it forever. you dont get the right to commit suicide or get into depression. stay alive and bear your sin!
Why do people always think that a bachelor/bachelorette party gives them grounds to “have fun before they’re tied down”? Did you not get “tied down” when you chose to become exclusive with your partner? Like make it make sense to me. Any “casual fun & freedom” you had ends the moment you choose to commit to someone else, unless you both agree on an open relationship.
Another thing I noticed is, why does nobody EVER care about the hurt party when a cheater is exposed? WTF is everyone so dead set on shoving the cheater and their victim back together? Does nobody understand the mental ANGUISH the cheated spouse is feeling, it’s always “Aw, we understand your pain, but your partner is crying, so they’re obviously in more pain than you. You should come back and comfort them.” Imagine sitting and thinking about all the years WASTED and everyone seems to care more for the cheater!
"She cheated by cheating" mm yeah that's typically how it goes.
I swear I've seen this story showing everywhere.
Well, that's what happens when you watch one cheating video and now you see the same thing everywhere
Amen, brother. I know what both OPs went through. I picked up a bottle and have been getting sick, I've been drinking so much and sleeping with every woman I can. My cheating ex ruined me. I dont want to get married anymore, and I don't know how I can move forward. I still hit the gym and got closer to my goal weight/phsyique... but sometimes I hit the gym drunk and high off drugs. I wear a sweatshirt with the hood over my face. I'm just hoping it gets better, and I can learn to trust another woman in the near future.
Probs to the ex's mom.
How come something u do with your conscience ON could be a mistake??...🙄
Could you kindly stop the really weird pizza quote you’ve started doing? It’s not needed and just weird
Agreed it’s almost as cringe as some of these AI generated stories.
The first thing popped in my head was pizza causes heartburn WTF
disliking every video with annoying disclaimer
Women ☕️
Should have said to sister and ex, now you and your/her friends can force her on a new guy and leave me the fuck alone. No don't ever give them closure when they cheat