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Foolishness, Zero... Foolishness.
Stg 😭😂
Not downplaying it, but life’s always been brutal for everyone and everything. Humans exist in a relative context as social animals, so even though things may appear materially better, that is not how the world is seen, rather it is seen through comparison of peers. The modern world is bleak, but history is filled with horrific acts, we are lucky that we never had to go through. There were men who stormed the beaches of Normandy, dying alone. That doesn’t mean you’re always going to feel good because it could be worse, that’s not how people work, just don’t have a unique victim identity, I think it will be detrimental if you think you’re uniquely persecuted. Life has never been fair for everyone, it’s a battlefield of resources and competition.
Only reassurance is that we aren’t alone in this
@god8348 Except the battlefield is way worse than it was back in the 80s
May I introduce Earl Silverman
Earl escaped a violent, abusive wife but was unable to find any support resources. Only ridicule from the police and redirection to "anger management" services.
"As a victim, I was re-victimized by having these services telling me that I wasn't a victim, but I was a perpetrator," Silverman told the National Post.
This led him to found MASH (Men's Alternative Safe House) in the early 2000s, and "Family of Men", a support helpline for male victims. Sadly, in 2013 after long struggle with ongoing ridicule and lack of funding he closed the shelter in eventual bankruptcy. Earl committed suicide shortly after.
He is the poster child for the inherent struggle in trying to actually do something to answer these challenges.
That has got to be the most depressing thing I've heard in months.
No one can scam money from a mens shelter
brutal
That's absolutely heartbreaking. Thank you for sharing.
Well, this species is fucked and always has been fucked
The fact that this video is #25 on youtube trending is telling a lot.....
how do you check that?
@IAmKing67yeah i would love to know that to
BASED
No shit Sherlock
"Getting their needs met" yeah, I'm sure everybody that exclusively watches porn would agree that it's a great substitute for human interaction, emotional support, and genuine love.
Its hell, ive lost all motivation to do anything in my freetime other than debate people on reddit and play terraria all day, but i do go to the gym so i guess its alright bro....
Your hand will never, leave you.....unless you lose it in some, Industrial accident...
Yeah for sure man! None of us feel empty inside at all🫠
Emotional support you can get from a therapist, human interaction you can have with close friends or family, and "genuine love" is just horseshit. It's amazing on how you who seek the petty and pathetic power dynamique that relationships are try to outsource on how you are just ape-like horny braindead idiots who will submit for every dogshit just for a ten-second-lasting orgasm.
It is not something deals with your needs, when you actually meet girl even someone who is a friend with benefits. You’ll find yourself quickly that you aren’t watching porn as much as you used to.
dating apps are humiliation ritual
So is just dating in general for most 😂
Society as a whole is a humiliation ritual for men. Even here where I am.
That's exactly how I started to describe interacting with women in general 😂
Genuinely. The woman I'm with now cringed at hearing that I used dating apps.
Don’t forget scam as with people on their and in its own way.
"Don't approach unless she "explicitly tells you" that she wants you to approach."
Thanks school, because that's how human interaction works...
the unspoken rule is "unless the feminine find you desirable, do not speak or approach the feminine. you are unworthy of love or value or affection unless the feminine finds you desirable. they will allow you the delusion that somehow you can offer tribute and compliments to earn such favor but all gifts are tribute and completely not binding the feminine in any way. if they find you pleasing, you make have love. if they do not, there is no appeal.." and well, when 90% of guys are told just to shut up and go away, they shut up and go away. and now the women are complaining they're not getting tribute and validation anymore and the guys who are attractive are treating them poorly. shame.
Lmao
this is literally the cornerstone that nobody wants to talk about. our entire generation of men was raised specifically to NEVER approach women at any circumstance, and to be abjectly horrified of making a woman feel uncomfortable or unsafe under fear of complete humiliation or worse
Men do what women thought they wanted them to, women most affected
@-Ano-Ano- the real problem isn't the expectation. not making other people uncomfortable? fine.
Except that every single girl's line as to what is uncomfortable is different and more than a few have their line deliberately ridiculously oversensitive as a way to get attention and power. you say something 90% of people will consider innocent and harmless and becky flips her lid into a big public meltdown for the attention and spotlight.
After a few of those encounters, you realise that the whole thing is just gaslightning and BS. they leave the rules vague and make up terms like "microaggression" to just decide unilaterally that you're a bully and a bad person.
It's emotional sadism because they all can decide AFTER the fact if they're offended or not. and wow, who would have thought that the hot attractive guys get the pass while everyone else gets the boot.
Nobody wants to admit the truth that their idealistic bullshit doesn't work.
Yeah the majority of people are selectively deaf
Psych2go is always various jargon filled statements about whatever video topic that rarely hits deeper than the cover of the book they have an ego about their knowledge and don’t restate things when proven a previous statement is factually falsehood if you hear “hey there psych2goers” take everything you heard following that with a grain of salt and suspect as it was not knowledge They took much time checking the validity of.
All the idealism in mens dating is always about either 2 things:
1: exploiting men and hyping them up to be someone elses tool. The tradcons and stoics are bad for this. They don't talk about what its like to be a man, merely try to use men insecurity and lack of affection to try and trick into being better wage slaves and parodies of old stereotypes. A man is always a series of roles that they can use. Not a person.
2: 20 year out of date blue pill advice that lives purely in the hopeful side. This tend to be advice like "Be yourself" and "just treat her as a human" and the problem with these is not that they propose these things, but that they are phrases sput out purely to platitude men alot online and not talk about the issues they are facing. It creates a cover that if somethingi s wrong, the men who are complaining are the ones who broke the program and not that this advice may need an open and equal environment to operate .And men have been saying for 20 years straight now that this blue pill advice DOSEN'T work BECAUSE the dating dynamics are not equal.
A good example when I was younger. Is that if you said "hey, we're meant to be equal. Why aren't women ever approaching men and why are men always paying for things?" which is a sensible question and the answer was always some moralising, pretentious phrase like this. That for even mentioning a male grievance where you want the relationship to be more equal and maybe be given things or shown the same level of effort sometimes that you were somehow shallow, or greedy, or sexist or failing to treat women as human.
Before the term "Creep" and "incel" were loaded bullets anytime a man did anything to suggest he shouldn't be begging on his knees for womens approval. It was "who hurt you?" when men spoke out about the weird and strange pick and choose dynamics the dating world was in. If women actually committed to the egalitarian world they suggested they wanted all the time, things would be fine. THis stuff would of been fixed long ago.
But instead we've seen the dating world descend more and more into apathy, conflict or pure transactional mind games because a massive swathe of women make it clear they are out to benefit from the pros of egalitarianism but avoid the negatives and obligations of it - having to act as the pursuer or role men have done - strangely, they'll never whisper that mens obligations are hard in any form and that if we experience any issues with them we must not be real men.
It's all a con game and the reason the gender wars have ruined the net is NOT because of social media. It's because we've seen men be a rock women squeeze to ttry and get everything they can and socially bully to get them back into conformity. WHich is what blue pill is. It's just about shutting men up and getting them back in line with false promises of hope. Then when these men lose all hope and nautrally crash out ,they get pointed as having always been ugly, neck beard, incel, loser sexists because they showed anger and despair at being endlessly manipulated, rejected or milked dry 0 in the bad way - I garuntee you, if women chastised this hypocritical behavior i nthier own ranks instead of bending themselves into pretzel to defend it. THings would be a LOT different.
If you separate the idealistic from the bullshit, it actually makes perfect sense. For instance, women should be educated on how not to get r*ped, and men should learn basic manners when it comes to asking for consent, but also women shouldn't be scared of sex because it's not feminist and "reinforces the patriarchy." Women should be able to become ceos if they qualify, but both men and women don't need to all spend their lives working. Someone's got to take care of the kids, so the people who want to do that the most, female or male, should do that. Caretakers will probably skew female, but men should be able to raise kids too, females don't have magic child raising powers. Who pays at a restaurant should be negotiated, there's a lot of factors there as far as who orders what and who has more money. The quiet part never said aloud in this video was "women need to settle" I think this is a problem on both sides, and also a problem with the economy, and the fact that people don't have time to socialize anymore. People shouldn't be tricked into dating and marrying someone who's being fake to boost their likability in an unsustainable way, and the people who have a pie in the sky ideal of their soulmate should just not date, or lower their standards. Standards will be lowered when people act like themselves and cause a sort of inflation in the dating market. The people who don't get a date because they didn't lower their standards will die alone, their bloodline will end with them, and less picky people will replace them. Lack of relationships and the existence of this dating inflation problem only exists because of people lacking the time to meet people in real life and go with the best option they meet face to face. Relationships are not ideal with the real life dating method, but the alternative is going extinct and having the few hundred people with "unproblematic" personalities repopulate the earth. Hitting on people in real life should be normal but not excessive. What is considered "excessive" is determined by the most amount of times you are willing to get hit on by a gay guy, and the least amount of times a woman is willing to get hit on by a guy to prevent population collapse. The gay to guy formula is to reduce male insufferably, and the woman to man formula is to stop population decline and collapse due to female pickiness. Real feminism is equalizing the suffering where women take most of it. Through getting rid of this inequality, you can also get rid of some of men's problems as women start finding themselves in the same situations as men. Hopefully people will be more concerned with low salaries if more women are in the workforce for instance.
Or they're just grifting like psych2go talking about issues that they don't understand and sometimes cause themselves just to make a quick Buck on ad revenue
The real problem is that humanity is just deeply poisoned as a whole right now. This is only really one part of it. It's fucked up.
At this point, an alien invasion half-life 2 style will fix things, lmao
It's a world by men for men, btw, that's the best part. You know damn well mommy and grandmommy didn't occupy some or even half of all leadership and decision making positions in society back in the good ol days. Gender is the least of your problems...Just something to think about.
@SandwichGamesHeavy When enemies are simplified to be black and white, unity is much easier. What happens after is the hard part.
@SandwichGamesHeavytrue but they couldn’t even get nasty because of the combined stasis field, so we’re not getting laid either way 😂
@dray1195 ...that's true, but...
Sometimes, I agree with Dr. Breen: when humans do not think about _that_ , their minds are clear and that means that, as a species, humanity will be able to do research without any distractions.
...still bad, though.
On a bright side, imagine what happened as soon as the suppression field was destroyed?
You'll also notice: they all ask "What's going on with men?" and yet none of them actually LISTEN to men, who have been saying this stuff for years. The few times anyone brings a man into the conversation, he's shut down and talked over.
decades, red pill is 25 years old now.
The stigma against men...
They don't want to actually solve the problem. They just want the clicks and licks and content. Because solving the problem requires taking some flavor of accountability for poisoning the well for decades.
They don't want to listen. They want to talk.
Real im so done with western women I’ve gone full mahito evil geto mode
I used to think this was all in my head
You're not alone, my friend
I did too. I've had all my beliefs about dating confirmed and validated by these kinds of videos and stories.
@EricRogersCoaching
It's crazy how addictive and damaging pron is.
I don't even really find it enticing anymore, and yet I STILL go into a trance and open up a few dozen tabs of it on goddamn autopilot, ruining my self-esteem plus sleep schedule, like goddamn clockwork.
Damn it all.
@mirceazaharia2094 Sin feels like freedom until you try to quit.
@mirceazaharia2094same man, it’s difficult to rid yourself of this vice. We most continue trying however.
For me it's how my mom treats my dad and I don't want that.
So real
Can relate.
Exactly this. My father’s personality became providing/spoiling and my mother’s was entitlement and problem making. There marriage became a modern one at the drop of a hat. The monetary issues she caused and how my father would love being a martyr. But then get angry at the kids because she shows no affection despite how many goalposts moved at a time at her behest, the insanity of it all.
I fear that my nature is similar to my father’s. I have studied my father I know. This cannot be me.
If I could describe them I would say my mother is a pretty box with a rattle snake in it, and my father is the guy who didn’t want to look the gift horse in the mouth. Strange how so many terrible marriages start off with “she was the most beautiful woman I’d ever seen”.
Honestly I think a much more reliable research explaining everything is Calhoun project, after baby boomers was when everything went downhill, parents aren't parents anymore and its heavily bleeding into their kids but theyre also known as the most narcissist generation they will all use the excuse of "kids are born evil"
For me, it's how my dad treated my mom, and I don't want to become that.
I find it absolutely disgusting how they have to add a disclaimer in front of men's mental health videos. Feminism did huge irreversible damage to society as a whole and channels like psych2go are just adding oil to the fire. Thanks for speaking up for us i really appreciate it.
I think feminism did pretty alright
dont you want women to have equal rights too?
This isn't a mental health video. Not having a relationship shouldn't have an effect on your mental health, and if it does, then watching a video to reaffirm that expectation is not a great idea.
Thank you. Feminism is a revolting oppressive movement, evident by the name itself.
@perfectce-11 the need for love is something that all humans are born with, and society often reminds us that you are not loved/valueable if you do not have a significant other. This causes insecurity, and negatively effects those who dont have their perfect partner.
That's why China Gov more worried about unmarried men than expired women
Men get blamed, ignored, and ridiculed for being abused. People always assume he is the problem. It's victim blaming.
Because this is how women are conditioned to become manipulative of men. Women could not exercise what was once (and still is) widely considered to be their right to reproductive choice without Plan B: scapegoat a man. If it's your choice, and I advise against it, why am I responsible when my advice is ignored? Because women know men will just bear the projection and gaslighting with stoic resolve until they are ground down into nothing. And the funny thing is that some women can never get their story straight. A woman can operate on whatever bullshit they are told to do by a man just to abandon any shred of agency. Meanwhile, she passively appeals to male authority whenever it suits her taste or to curry favor. Discrete abuses of power by proxy are still abuses!
The same as women telling if they got raped for dressing whatever they want it would be men’s fault for having those bad intention… I found it contradicting.
-Yes, there will be men like that and I would apologize for having them in our world.
And not alone taking about men suffering when women doesn’t care because they have to go through social expectation or period. (Carrying a 100 vs carrying 1 but x200 amounts and I’m not saying men suffers more than women, but alot of suffers people usually not put on the list because it’s the thing they experience differently and dare to apply the same weight on others)
-And no, it’s like you dressing up as Hitler cuz you like the style and expect everyone to not judge you?
Thus, they normalize doing or wearing inappropriate things too much, and call us out when we said it’s too far or we’re oppressing their freedom as if they don’t hate or judge whoever men or women when it’s not their expectation or have their egos stroked.
No one wants to admit them wrong, the world already fallen apart when everyone just play the victim card instead of having responsibility and be better, then blame us who suffers from their actions that we’re not better.
@Steve_PlasmaComparing fashionable attire to the ideology of national socialism and oppression of der letzte Mensch is probably the gayest thing I've read today.
@howwitty and toxic masculinity continues to carry it
@howwitty the fact you're using gay as an insult in 2026 is pathetic. You need help.
I do not click on ANY "mens problems" videos anymore bc its me giving them clicks for them to continue to blame sht on us and then make it about womens "needs" again
and i know for a dam fact that the guys who say this shit would might implicitly think you are the problem and not elaborate (or even a harsher insults: a p*ssy or any hurtful term that canbe also derogatory-ly refer to a gay man backin the day :P )
All they do is blame you for suffering
It’s disgusting
@leechlung fellas, is it gay to want to be emotionally stable and have a support structure that doesn't blame you for problems caused by others?
Hell yeah, boycotting.
Same. It’s either this or some men leeching off modern men’s insecurities and telling that you should actually treat women like trash and we all shall return to the “traditional” setting where women weren’t allowed to speak up about anything THAT NEVER EVEN EXISTED. It’s like people who actually take this problem seriously and try to fix things to make our society better actively get muffled
as a girl i always think about how other girls talk about how sexist men are when my own gender is becoming more sexist to men at this point, i genuinely feel bad but even my sister and mom thing women arent equal with men.
I understand you're sister and mother cuz there is some unfair inequality between men and women. But some of it is just biological differences in averages. Studies have found that women tend to be on average far more sympathetic than men. and men are far more interested in objects and things. compared to women(again on average), that fact alone entirely explains the disparity of women in the STEM fields. It may also contribute to other things because sympathy ain't such a great thing to have in a lot of other fields. Another thing is the intelligence bell curve, taken from IQ tests it's been found that the average man has more intellectual diversity, that does not mean that the average man is more intelligent but that there are more men on the extremes of intelligence. Take NASA 65% of their workforce is male dominated, they just naturally end up being men cuz they're more men at the extremes. That also means that if there's any place with a lot of dumb people you can bet most of them are also probably men. Prison maybe? I don't know. it's crazy out there, Good luck with whatever you got going on.
Thank you, I'm also amazed that it's usually the "so morally correct, no sexism" gang who are jumping at every opportunity to let their latent sexism out because everyone sees it's okay to be sexist towards men, I've been bearing it for very long but it's been getting really boring to see it for a decade on social media and that the same women get constantly played by bad boys while shitting on guys that are kind or nice or reliable all the time, now I can't even look at women the same way, I only see the problems with them but there are a few like you who's worth sacrificing for.
Thanks. We truly appreciate that! Just don't go hating yourself or anything.
I was looking for another girl to say this but honestly idk why girls hate men...
@The_yippee_queen Honestly, the women who are hellbent on hating men constantly just pick bad men and get played by them. I've occasionally heard women say "tall guys are evil" and only in the past few years I figured they say it because they kept being played by attractive tall men lol.
You know when you normally have a long list of requirements to match, but all goes out the window if a guy is really attractive and she's really attracted to him, he can get away with cheating even and he'll live rent free in her head as that really attractive ex she'd jump on if he said sorry.
Pick better men, that's the solution. But as long as fboy behavior is what's rewarded with sex, men are figuring out that that works while being a gentleman and listening to women for majority of them gets you the opposite of success.
That's like if us men were to pick women entirely based on looks alone and would be shocked that the really hot women are crazy and be hellbent on calling all of them crazy because we only pay attention to the hottest ones. It just sounds like a crazy example because we can't just go with the hottest chick on a whim, but women can pick the hottest, most successful men, even if for just sex. Those men are also aware and they refuse to take mid women for more than sex.
Imagine you're attending an AA meeting and it's your turn to talk about your issues while the group listens. Just as you start talking someone else stands up and shouts "But I have a drinking problem too! Why aren't we acknowledging what I've been through!?"
THAT is what it's like trying to talk about men's issues in the modern era.
all women are narcissistic in nature. they have to put themselves first and treat everyone else around them as playthings in their story. the only people who might be real are their kids. maybe. Everyone else is just a supporting character. So, yes, if there's a woman in the discussion, she's going to make it all about her. she can't help it. so just don't have discussions with women. men only. talk it out. then act.
That's a really good analogy, especially as in such a situation the group exists to be mutually supportive.
then they will call you a biggot and misogynist while trying to shame you into silence. do not let them. HTe time for tolerance is over. it was always a scam.
I've seen plenty of podcast clips where men belittle and talk over women. I've seen others where men talk about "issues" that boil down to "I want women to do everything I tell them to do without complaining". Being an asshole is not exclusive to one gender.
@DeepFriedOddish You did exactly what he said in the comment broski. We know you have issues too we never said you didn’t why do you feel the need to get defensive if you know not everyone is a bum you can just chill and listen sometimes
We spend our whole life grinding to BE CONSIDERED to impress a hypothetical woman that doesnt even exist....?
I don't
Yep! That's the case for most of us, unfortunately.
Who is we
But why do you do that, if you actually don't want to?
See, this makes you put on a mask of disingenuousness and women subconsciously smell that from yards away.
Nobody is his true self anymore and it's not even really their fault, since they never learned how to reflect.
Good therapy teaches you exactly that, self reflection. Finding your true self.
Tho getting good ones is indeed pretty tricky these days.
@GreenTeaViewer that is the correct answer
11:30 I'm sick of their obsession with therapy; they treat it like some kind of reeducation camp you're sent to in order to have the correct political opinions uploaded to your brain
Absofukknlutely.
Therapy is a scam and ANYONE who promotes it is either an idiot or one who profits from it.
what about free therapy where they get a salary??
shouldn't they be incentivised to help me then
If your a young guy, get a boxing coach, not a fucking therapist.
My favorite part of therapy was thinking to myself. Why am I doing this, I need to stop acting like a woman.
Women claim to be worried about creeps, but they'll go googly eyed the moment they see a murderer with face tattoos and flood the prison with love letters.
haha true
as long as they're attractive.
I see this alot on social media
No amount of egalitarian propaganda will change the default settings of the women
True, though thisbdoes suffer from the goomba fallacy
My mother adopted these feminist ideas, and it cost her her 20-year marriage.
She stopped doing things around the house because she started to see herself as a slave (my father would leave home at 7 am and arrive at 9 pm every day).
She would yell at me to hit her during fights, just so she would "call the police" on me, I was 17 years old.
Now I'm 21 and I haven't seen her in almost a year, since I moved in with my father, and she keeps sending me messages like "please don't abandon me," but I can't bring myself to see her. I hate this life, I wanted so much to be able to love my mom.
Sorry for that brother
If she has abused you then you should never go back to her she lost her chance to be your mother a long time ago.
that's messed up I'm sorry you have to go through that , but i doubt these ideas just appeared on their own out of nowhere , they're like software ,and their required hardware is narcissism , especially the way you described her behavior , please be aware they can be manipulating and SEEM kind at times but that's not their true nature or intentions
Block that number bro.
covert narcissist? not every mother is worthy of being called that. If she can't talk to you without distressing you, don't feel bad about having no contact, you owe her nothing, parent's care should not be conditional
Even conservative creators get it wrong, I know a lot of them say "get a wife and have kids" but they leave out that part where finding the one doesn't quite work out 99% of the time.
i despise the cuckservatives more every day. everything about them is hebraic i'm tired of seeing it.
They're typically stuck in a "just world fallacy". It worked for them or they know it worked for the grandparents, so they keep parroting it without thinking further if at all.
Conservatives were always the problem in the first place, they made it so that "we" are in shit right now. Putting more value on people based on their race / sex / ethnicity / religion was what created it all. What did you expect when you said that women had to be impressed and put on pedestral because they were women ? That's conservative talking point, it is patriarchy. It is the poison that made this all even exist. But now men aren't in a position of power like they once were, so it looks bad for them, because women kept their "price to be won" status. This should have been destroyed at the same time as "men being better" and "men having power over women"
I felt this one right to my soul. Most will act like finding someone is like buying a gallon of milk. Even the Church will look at you like "Something is wrong with you, everyone else found it" and act like you never try. It's especially exhausting that you now need two incomes to be independent.
@Oliver_As_If it's not exclusively conservatives, liberal ideology wiggled its way into the home, and of course conservatives slowly bled ground over time pretending nothing happened.
i see giga chads that are ripped on youtube and get inspired lol
I'm like "I want to be like that" I never will be but it's cool to think about
Exactly.. this is probably how most men feel looking at gigachads - they see an idol, a role-model, someone to look up to, someone they want to become.
The idea that men feel like crap looking at gigachads, as the psych2go video claims, is absolutely 100% coming from a woman, not a man. It's projection.
Women are always jealous of eachother's looks and beauty, they are the ones pushing the anti-beauty movement in culture and the mainstream, and it all comes purely out of jealousy and laziness. Instead of looking at other women, feeling inspired by their beauty and work harder to improve themselves, they'd rather put eachother down, bring the beautiful ones down to their level.
Nahh I am looking at femboy as role model.
Yeah it makes me get active lol
@Razor-gx2dq you can work out
My father cant even enter the same state as me, because my mom left him and demanded child support that he couldnt afford. His choices are going to jail (because nobody could ever afford this shit), or running away. I will never let that shit happen to me.
if he cant afford child support maybe then it was a bad idea to have a child u cant afford in the first place? raising a child isnt cheap u know. u are talking about ''this shit'' like it is a ring with a diamond (that isnt nessesary but forsed to have)
@МихаилТитов-ф7н you're assuming that the father was stupid enough to not foresee how much it would cost him to have a family and children, as well as that the child support cost him as much as having children in a family would have, which it never is because the state pays itself a part of the child support money, and the woman is incentivized by the state to take more money because of this, and both get away with it because it is socially acceptable
@almantuxas, but didn’t child like, need this money to live? The wife didn’t abandoned the child so she has to spend a lot of time and money on child
@МихаилТитов-ф7н go to the front lines please
@МихаилТитов-ф7н but the father didn't abandon the child initially, either; the mother initiated the divorce and had the child awarded to her by the courts. by the fact that child support was awarded, it means that the wife would have be incapable of supporting a child by herself, which begs the question, would it not have been better for the child to stay with the father if finances were so important?
Its just as bad when youre in a relationship and still feel unseen and alone. Rather be single with peace of mind intact and blood pressure normal.
Absolutely! Feeling lonely beside someone is more painful than just being alone.
It's better to be alone than with the wrong person.
This is so true. I was with a woman who drove me up the wall with her complete inability to appreciate anything I was doing for her. Get this: I was forgoing necessary bills so that I could pay for her half of our rent. I didn't tell her, because she was going through a mental breakdown. When I finally managed to get us out of the situation that was causing her mental breakdown, she found out about the financial sacrifices that I made for her: she got mad at me. No gratitude. Anger. Last time I will ever stick my neck out for a woman.
Better to dwell on a roof than to live with a quarrelsome woman.
@EricRogersCoaching I remember it wasn't even with a love interest. Just a friend. I didn't feel particularly lonely or hurt by it, but it reaffirmed a tough idea of it.
I asked him one odd and miscellaneous question, it's something I do to people I consider close to throw them off with something that I see as innocent, peculiar and interesting as asking "why is the sky blue?". Something silly, but something that I view as a piece of me.
In the middle of the question he stops, pulls up his phone and says "hold on this weird girl's asking me for something", he replied the message and forgot about my question afterwards.
This idea of "deal with it, that's how friendships usually are, you're just desperate for attention." when bringing up the need of constantly talking between friends and not being silent for ages; when not liking the idea of taking an eternity to reply to a single message (or straight up, never doing it); when questioning how even the busiest of people can find the time to talk to someone, but a friend who has plenty of time can't. It's something that I think has similar effects as the ones that you brought up: seeing authenticity as redundant, being burned out after trying and trying and not accomplishing anything, etc.
Even between men, we push ourselves to the mindset of the silent burden.
100%
women get mad when men talk about women's experiences but women talk as if they know what it's like being a man all the time.
its wild dude.
The death of contemporary feminism is the complete lack of male perspectives. We've done so much for female liberation, it's high time to do something about male liberation as well.
@sqweed653 Feminism was always this man hate. It's just hijacked womens liberation as a narrative to get what it wanted. They do the same thing with the concept of "equality" while saying the most sexist, unegalitarian things one can imagine. It's not a mistake or a happenstance. They've actively hated and belitted and campaign on the zeitgeist for men perspective and presence to be considered a tainted and foul thing. It's just they had to progress bit by bit. There is no "modern day feminism" problem and this fantasy is what allows the lizard to detach it tail and start all over again every time.
@sqweed653Feminism was poison from the start, and it’s founders were human garbage.
They say we shouldn't talk about abortion because we aren't women than they talk about masculinity
@sqweed653 no i dont want their "liberation"
It’s really cool that ill never own a house or have a family
👍
Society when it’s my turn to be an adult.
Actually for me it's heaven, kids are annoying
It genuinely will be an interesting time when the all the boomers are pushing daisies. Unheralded will be the generation of the ignored with all the voting power. But will we use it after 40 years of gaslighting and beating us into submission? I'm here to find out.
your choice
Everyone keep hyping this video up; this guy addresses the issue everyone is afraid to confront.
It's even more frustrating when everyone around you-family and friends-get into relationships or find partners as if it's nothing, making you feel like there's something wrong with you. But then, upon closer inspection, you realize they just latch onto the first person who talks to them and aren't truly interested beyond the fact that the person is of the opposite sex and finds them attractive.
yea. thats reflective of the valuation of your decisions (law of equivalent exchange type beat haha). If i latch on to the first person who talks to me and am just happy that someone of the opposite sex is attracted to me, i must accept that the situation i find myself in will be the level I will settle at! At the same time, if I want a "high value woman" who ticks all of my boxes, I have to also accept that it may be like finding a needle in a haystack! We cannot apply macro cultural issues to an individualist perspective. These points made can all be true (ex. the dating market is bad because women have been pursuaded through social media about men are evil etc.) and all of this rhetoric, we must also understand that this is not an issue that can be solved at the MICRO level, there must be a consensus shift around this idea to have a meaningful effect in the "men are done" situation. In the mean time, adapt and tailor your goals and outcomes to what is available, and if that means you dropping out of a relationship all together, it is unfortunate, but a definitely possibility that is of your own choosing. Noone owes you anything but you owe it to yourself to choose whats best for you.
That only makes me feel like I am missing out
It's pretty easy to get into a relationship at least for me, but finding meaningful relationships is almost impossible. I'd rather be alone than in a miserable relationship.
There's nothing wrong with doing that. As long as you have the same thoughts on marriage, kids, and religion, everything else doesn't really matter as long as you mind them attractive enough going into it and they aren't abusive. Love isn't a feeling, love is two people having complete, self-sacrificial devotion to one another. You can love anyone, anyone can be your soulmate as long as both of you are willing to put in the work. Every single person has flaws, talk to them about it, and work to fix your own.
All you have to do is be patient, there's nothing wrong with being happily single. Do what you love and makes you happy, and try to do healthy things for yourself and no one else. Limit the corn, work out for you, eat right, stop with the sugar, do a hobby you love, spend time with friends, drink water, spend time outside. God bless you
I kind of get that. Some relationships I have witnessed are what people would call toxic, if they had insight to see what their partner is doing. But it's not always as clear, and I guess it is easier to see it from the side at times, because there are no moral qualms to find that person suspectful.
At least I wouldn't tolerate those behaviors and actions from someone I'm supposed to be in a relationship.
The other group I have seen are basically "we are together, but we aren't doing anything together" kind of people. They aren't doing any couples things together, they never mention anything like that either. I know some may be very private, but if you have lived with some of these people you would know if they actually did something together.
These people aren't complete strangers to me.
Youve see the word "misogynist" every day
Youve likely never even seen the word "misandrist" before
Oh i have. It is just that the word misandrist has been used to make fun of those who say it but not those who ARE IT. I wonder why hmmmm
Because it’s not important, nobody is dying to misandry.
@hisayasae ok bot
@hisayasae So we just ignore all the male suicide caused by an entire society of misandry. You are the problem.
@blastchaos4286 Actually, it's caused by not addressing mental health because when people talk about with men, they turn it into a culture war. From both sides, btw.
The Psych2Go video mentions 3 reasons why men are not dating: unattractiveness to girls, porn, and digital burnout. The last two are consequences, not reasons, they are the symptoms of a disease. And in the part where they mention that most girls qualify most men as ugly, they never mention that maybe they have unreasonable expectations, they call that the 'attractiveness gap' to avoid framing it in a bad way, totally trying to avoid blaming women at any cost.
Thank You.
Same shit is always thrown out there on the Christian end. Most always discuss symptoms while blaiming men for everything yet never addressing whamen.
That because video like Psych2Go made by people that already winning in life. As in have a stable relationship, have deep connection with friends or too young to know true loneliness.
PsychGo is a channel ran by a Woman, all I have to say. I am not saying all Women are innately stupid or their opinions don't matter, merely implying that its a Woman lecturing Men on why they are losers not meeting Women's standards. This obviously makes no sense as an actual Man.
@BlazeGamerZX It wont last, they will taste the bite of reality eventually.
The irony when they said the 'attractiveness gap' when one wet wipe would smudge off half their face and lower there rank by six or seven points.
This honestly helped me understand what's happening in my life a lot better. Multiple girls I've dated always looked down on and mocked "Incels" and I always secretly disagreed but kept my mouth shut so they wouldn't get pissed at me. I never really understood why women are difficult to start relationships with, but it does make alot of sense, the cultural demonization of men in USA / Europe.
O dude..that channel also pisses me off i completely understand
Seeing a jacked dude is more motivating than depressing.
It got me to the point of actually working out. :d
Literally lmao
It is true. That meme about fellow gym bros admiring you more than women had more merit than it seemed.
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And that's the difference!
Yeah him saying that it must be a script written by a women is dead-on.
men are suffering; women most affected
Nailed it
-men all offing themselves
media: oh the poor women
"Men are failing and that's a HUGE problem for women" -Brett Cooper
men are suffering because of themselves. cry about it
@lIl-bs4oerepeat that to yourself more often
Something that frustrates me as a woman is how almost all of my female peers say they hate all men all the time. It's s/xist and dehumanizing. I think it's insane how so many women are so quick to label every man as a misogynist and creep simply for being a man without even getting to know them! How do they not realize they're being just as bad if not worse than actual misogynists by hating all of one s/x just because they were born that way? Radical feminism has gone way too far and gotten to the point that masculinity as a whole is seen as a bad thing. I also think this is why we have more feminine men nowadays because masculinity is unrightfully shamed. There is nothing wrong with being a masculine man. It drives me crazy especially because my best friend is a man and I hate how it's like expected of me as a woman amongst my female peers to hate men by default. Like no, that's my best friend... And he's a good person. Stop trying to tell me he has some secret ulterior motive simply because of his s/x.
Because if A.W.F.U.L.s didn't have double standards they'd have no standards at all
I think, as a very far left member of the youth. Everyone has it bad, women and men, and we need to get rid of things like pron as its a blight onnour society, its a tumor that cant go away. Too many "feminists" push people away from their equal rights movement because the loudest minority is crazy, i agree that gender gaps are a big problem and such, but it is just not working for either side, both are getting angry, the culture war is getting worse, and people still cant get along, for gods sake, were all equal, most od this shit is a social construct that just oppresses everyone. Everyone is miserable.
Do you fight back against your female peers when they push the radfem agenda? It's not enough to just tell men you hear them.
As a guy, I don't have a problem with it if women feel like they need to make assessments of men based on low quality evidence in order to stay safe. I just want women to acknowledge they are not omniscient, and maybe look for cases where they can improve their judgment and find men who've been overlooked. That's the way women should be trying to find partners if they haven't been successful on the dating market, looking for guys who are great but who other women overlooked. Instead what happens is a kind of dogpiling effect where being alone is evidence someone deserves to be alone. And the end consequence is that men do end up not developing their skills as far as they would if they were successful, but it's all a self fulfilling prophecy, and women are so confident that hurting someone until they break proves that the hatred was justified all along.
Men also face public shaming or lawsuit even tho his intentions are genuine but the girl label him as creep
There's a meme circulating that depicts a ridiculous-looking jester dancing for a queen with the caption, "How it feels to text a girl." I relate to that, hard. After cold-approaching every woman who's caught my eye over the last couple years, and getting a number or two only to be unceremoniously ghosted, I can only describe the charade as a humiliation ritual.
So for now, I'm just working on myself, hoping I can eventually make myself attractive enough to stand out and draw women to me without having to fight for every scrap of attention. I know there are guys out there who are getting girls---I mean, they have to be dating SOMEONE. I just have to figure out who they are and reverse-engineer whatever they're doing, right?
I think you get a lot more success in working on yourself until you catch women's eye. A LOT is basic like wearing clothes that fit, decent posture... maybe finding some style that works for you, and seeking authentic interests of yours so you can be yourself and be seen being so. Being comfortable and gracious and well-groomed is also good for women to know that you follow social rules and graces, that they can say hello and leave safely, that you will not obsess over them...
If you can have pleasant interactions with strangers and if peers, adults, elders or kids are polite or friendly to you based on your appearance you are likely on right path.
You probably want connection & understanding so it is important to try to be yourself and live with integrity according to your values, so you can pursue excellence in your interests and the compatible women will be able to see you in your element.
And just doing pushups, pullups, basic exercise makes a lot of difference.
If you can make a random person feel comfortable or amused, you can do the same with others you are more interested in.
If you want a family then being diligent and prudent with economy, stewardship, ambitions, industry etc are important, along with basic physical capability to... basically look like you could fight a dog or pick up and carry a woman from danger.
Some of that, a lot, is instinctual. To look mature, strong, useful, kind, loving, healthy & socially well-received relate to tasks of raising healthy family.
Recommend looking for celebrities with your basic body / face type and loosely copy some of the outfits that look good on them, mainly basic fundamentals.
hah yes Ive seen that meme and I think of it often in relation to dating in general. I really do feel like a jester dancing for an entitled queen.
I'm sad that you're experiencing this, but I hope it helps knowing that it's not just you.
Yea, I really don't understand modern women's choices in men. They're usually effeminate, meek dudes, or stupid, mildly attractive meat heads. I dont get it.
@jayvander7156 That's a ton of free advice-I appreciate you taking the time!
Your last point about learning from celebs with similar faces/body types is ingenious-I never thought of that, but it makes sense. I'll definitely give it a go. ✊🏻
@EricRogersCoaching I can do effeminate if that's what it takes-I've got something of a pretty boy look I can lean into 🤣
But seriously, thanks for replying to my comment. I really enjoy your videos-your warmth and usual optimism are quite infectious. 🙏🏻
I mean people are not really entitled to others.
So it's not good to expect that people will.
And don't really assume that looks are what people are looking for.
I mean it is part of what people are looking for, but it's not everything.
I've dated less than normally attractive guys, but I liked their personalities most
There is no secret or big technique, it's just being a decent human being,
You got to be who you are,
and that will attract folks.
If it doesn't attract people, then it just means those connections would have never worked out to begin with.
But yeah working on yourself is great
Chinese men are banned from corn and the society has the same horrible birth decline; Japanese men(and Western Men) watch corn and the society has the same horrible birth decline.
I don't think corn is the problem at all.
it's the symptom, not the problem. The true problem was feminism, and dating culture
China is like this because of the one child policy and also even if corn is banned it can still be accessed without much hassle
@Personontheinternet4598 the one child policy ended in 2015
@inyu00That wasn’t a long time ago and the effects very much still persist
@inyu00 due to the one child policy there are more males than females due to chinese society prefering boys so though it ended the effects will exist for decades to come
It cracks me up how much people don't realize this detail: Suggesting that pr0n is even something that COULD be used to "get needs met" or "take the place of a relationship" is acknowledging that the quality of the options is absolute garbage. They are telling on themselves! If pr0n can replace you, then you need to make yourself better. What can you do that the video on my computer cant? WILL you do any of those things?
Bros spitting facts
You're absolutely right!
"If pr0n can replace you, then you need to make yourself better."
haha excellent point!
Yea they hate those videos because they refuse to be something a man actually wants, yet don't like it when men stop giving them attention. Madness!
The bar is below the ground, and they complain that this is too much work. Remember "Mankeeping"?
How do I do that if all of these women read 8ft werewolf smut novels? I'm barely able to call myself 6ft and you want me to be 8? GGs bro 😂
I love it when women say bare minimum when they aren't doing anything like anything
How come Psych2Go can say prawn but you can't? Does the algorithm treat them differently?
Psych2Go is more ideological and trying to be all "love and empathy" without actual substance
Love without wisdom.
@MasterWuugway What lack of god does to a mfer.
True, I hate them
And *that* is a symptom of their underlying beliefs.
I would rather be slapped in the face with a brutal, cold truth than have it placed in a separate room while someone feeds me random fluff that means nothing
There's a funny phenomenon i've noticed with Tinder/Hinge as of late, i get women making the first move more than ever (still minuscule mind you), but the moment you respond it goes back to the man having to carry the conversation and "impress"
Most of us are at the point we don't even want to bother even with women engaging first, it's all so fake and artificial.
I vaguely remember news of some apps rolling out bots that start the conversation automatically and handing it off to the user when replied to. Might explain your experience.
I think there's some shift happening where significant amount of men are taking a step back:
a) older guys having experience and growing tired of women so they start focusing on themselves and their hobbies
b) young guys who are becoming more passive compared to older generations or too addicted to corn.
In result women have become more agressive (because they can't really handle being single) yet will still default to the ages-old programming of having to be "fought for" and "earned".
Curious times are coming, aren't they?
"entertain me, jester, if you are good you may get another low effort text response to try entertaining me again", ugh.
@ozziegggyeah the yes/no answers and brief sentences when I'm going out of my way to make time for this genuinely made me sick of the whole thing, I'll stick to hoping I make a random connection IRL
I always hated Psych2go and I am so glad we are finally getting this.
Yeah,Psych2go almost feels like whoever runs that channel lives in their dream world where everything is safe.
Psych2go was salt on wounds, gaslighting algorithms
@B@BlitzBrawlerTheir target demographic is people who want to feel special about themselves. To look for some kind of informal diagnosis.
Dr. K is no different in my opinion. This might be a hot take but after watching like 2 of his videos, my first impression was, of course , that he's just a kind, heartwarming therapist that genuinely tries to help everybody. But after watching a few more and seeing those insufferable thumbnails that he uses, I realized that he doesn't really care about men's problems, he just uses those problems for his grift, to endlessly milk this problem and create endless amounts of content out of it where he can just spew water for hours and fence sit as much as he can, never blaming what truly deserves the blame( like feminism). Instead, he just ragebaits his viewers by basically saying "get gud bro" and clickbaiting them with those horrendous thumbnails.
@BlitzBrawler thats most therapy brains
Psych2Go needs to see this video and fix their mistakes
I love when people say "go outside and have a real relationship with a woman" like bro I've been trying.
I’m tired boss
Gotta find a Woman, first. Most are grown ass girls.
I hate trying to impress women that have written me off before even meeting. Dating in a large city for me has been horrendous.
I definitely know the feeling!
If I see an attractive guy online, I immediately think I want to be like them, at the very least it gives me the motivation to become better.
Im really tired of this decade, when do we stop hating on men just for the sake of hating on men
was with my ex for 20 years. If we had met in 2026 and not 2001 there is zero chance we would have gotten together or had 4 kids. sadly I was one of the guys tell younger guys "just try harder" until I became single and quickly learned what a shit show it really is now.
Well at least you gave the government a new batch of tax revenue generators 👌
The red pill is a suppository.
Broootal
Well at least your taste it, straight young one now is all thirst
What I find the most absolutely odd about those kinds of content is that they seem to be operating from an assumption that if men absolutely had no option for romance else than kowtowing to whatever demand was made by women, they would just rise to the occasion and """improve""". When real life fails to comply to such unrealistic expectations, then these videos pop up as both lamentations and veiled shaming campaigns.
They have been affirming since times immemorial that "men will screw anything", but never considered that "nothing" is a valid element of the "anything" set.
Good point, they do tend to talk about things in a way that suggests that they're waiting for their expectations to be met. They're not concerned about men actually having a problem or needing help, they just want them to stop having distractions between them and compliance. There is this kind of air of "I'll be here when you're ready to grow up and start acting right" about it, and even if there were no alternatives other than the hand and imagination then they'd _still_ find something else to blame.
Since times immemorial, issues like this usually lead to a societal collapse and the subsequent enslaving of women by men who no longer had to worry about the leashes other men held at the behest of women.
Your last remark is brilliant. 👏
It's the rat utopia experiment from the 70s. I said we were going through it back in 2011, everyone said I was crazy and that humans are too smart to fall for that shit. We've passed the behavioral sink already, welcome to the Die Phase.
yeah, shit really goin down
It’s a wrap
I love it when people think the proven thing wouldn't ever happen to them. "I have heard of it, I know how it would be" is what they say at times, yet I see they are already fallen for it. People aren't self aware enough.
The cult of freedom and its consequences
“its because there is no relationship to begin with”
nailed it.
Unfortunately, doing anything more than vaguely gesturing at the problem without confronting any foundational root causes would compromise people’s entire worldview. We’re so wrapped up in ourselves that we can’t even admit that any strongly held opinion we have may be fundamentally misguided, much less an entire belief system drilled into us since adolescence. Only those who face the brunt know, and of those people most bite their tongue in fear of being even further ostracized than they already are by default. Wishing you and everyone else the best
if I see a dude doing well for himself on social media, I feel inspired and motivated.
Don't hate, congratulate!
Not me, I see a guy full of shit and a low key simp
@derriklee287 woman mindset
@derriklee287that’s a majority of people that post about “success” and an “enthusiastically adventurous” lifestyle on social media. Anyone that posts on the internet for strangers to see is seeking validation. Simp is correct, or weak and gay. lol. I haven’t had social media for almost a decade now.
@derriklee287 g-g-g-GAY??
yup just get a job, just get a wife you just need to stop being lazy. Like wow I have never thought of this before what an amazing idea!
"Don't be ugly!" "Just stop it!"
Getting a wife is simple, just buy her a flowers and ask her out. It always works son
"Just take a shower bro!"
@John_Citizen_17 get a haircut and DO THE WORK
@John_Citizen_17lmao if u can't take a shower that's a u problem
They never ever mention the very real risks for men of legal consequences, public shaming and threats to employment that can result from an attempt to initiate a relationship.
Edit: or perceived attempt.
A channel you might find relevant is Alexander Grace.
or just from him existing in her general area.
and the likley reason women are a fastly growing demographic of people going to jail is yes, their violence in domestic disputes is finally being arrested, but it can be their emotional violence getting them either disorderly conduct, or criminal harassment charges and if they REALLY piss off the judge, such as being psychologically coiercive enough to send them to the psych ward, then coiercion and mental endangerment charges.
Though the more hidden reason they end up in jail, is that women are obviously in caretaking positions of trust for vunerable people and are likley to be public servants, due to the burecratic revolution empowering them to get society to avoid violence and restraining the army and police, so rack up official oppression, and injury to a child, disabled, or elderly person charges which are more commonly called abuse,neglect, and exploitation charges and that is where they get REALLY long sentences for things where used to, we refused to be believe victims when alleging toxic feminine behavior!
At 18:57, suddenly I just feel my whole life described to a T, how can a problem so widespread be so consistent among so many men, It's insane.
As much as I love this video all of this will literally come back to "Women have it worse stfu" no matter what the subject is and there'll be men defending that stance and taking a neutral stance instead of standing with their brothers
Oh yes. Feminism is the dominant belief for sure, they have the perceived moral high-ground because of it. But they'll have to kill me to get me to shut up about it
Neutrality is normal sometimes when you are tired of battling with another side that never gives up
Women control everything this is not a male thing
Some 15 years ago i suggested that men need to police other men and not women because policing women accomplishes nothing whereas policing scum such as Tates and other "closeted homosexuals", simps ,and delusional boomers will, and no violence is required simply ignoring and invalidating them at everything they do and say will suffice, we want them to make a mistake so we can have our casus belli.
Well we can always remind them about their privileges by taking them back
"Lack of options" yes exactly. Who made all the options disappear?
We’re all lesbian.
Sean Combs and Jeffrey Epstein
@oleg4209WTH
@oleg4209lmfaooo
@oleg4209 bro..... idc about those evil human beings.
Relationships should be easy. Why tf would someone want some difficult crazy making bs in their life when they have to work and pay bills?
Why do I have to chase a female to pay HER bills?
exactly! sooo whats the problem for YOU specifically?
@fr1gid790...No problem at all. 14 years in a relationship with no drama.
Yeah, I did eventually learn that relationships should be the more peaceful and calm types, not the performative stuff that you keep seeing.
I refuse to be in a relationship that’s “work”. That’s code for “entitled modern women bullshit”.
Just no.
This is why why Norah Vincent is such an important topic. She lived in the shoes of a man and couldn’t handle it. Even other women ridiculed her when she made her book. She was swept under the rug because her life proves an uncomfortable truth.
This 100% there are many videos from non-redpill channels, genuine dating gurus who say "I tried dating women and now I understand men"
It's not even about asking them to help out with chores they won't even accept you telling them to pick up after themselves like damn clean up your own mess
13:36 it's the equivalent of people saying things are getting unsustainably expensive and the media/government/corporations are saying "oh just get a better job". Getting a better job doesn't fix the system. The system is flawed.
There are no better jobs because even the better jobs don't pay enough for basic living. I'm not talking about splurging I'm talking about frugal living is hard to come by
When you mention "There is a societal flaw", the answer you always get is "Just overcome it for yourself and leave everyone else in the mud!" as if that was rational advice and not utterly psychopathic.
yes! so what can you do? what is the response to this in your opinion?
@dwight3555 I agree, they act like the statistics are not there. so past that point, what is the next move?
You are speaking a systematic truth but conditionally and situationally they are correct.
It's ironic, really. It's not that men are escaping reality. It's more that they're escaping the false reality proposed by endless, wrong idealogs, and substituting it with the only outlets that bring them closer to the actual reality.
Men aren't stupid. They're not weak. They know something is wrong, and they see it from literally every angle, and are desperately trying to escape this death grip that society is wholly bent on entrapping them with.
And I admit I don't fully get it.
The money came from those with intention to reduce the population, sometimes to specific groups even… when that got well out of hand (re: replacement rates) the pivot was opening borders to try to hastily correct the future worker to retiree ratio horror.
Tale as old as time, “good” intention and the following consequences.
Another lesson for the history books, like the sparrows of the Great Leap Forward… better to leave well enough alone when controlling populations.
3:55 I never had a real gf so… 🤷 😂
I used to be so scared of ending up like my mum’s uncle. He is 80, lived alone his entire life, never married and nobody knows if he’s ever had a girlfriend, he did decent in his career and owns his own bungalow and expensive car. Despite living single his entire life and living life on hard mode he still owns a home and doesn’t seem miserable at all whenever i see him, i can’t tell if he is just less conscious then other people and thats why he isn’t bothered or maybe he just doesn’t care. I hope to at least own a home by the time i’m 80 but it’s looking unlikely.
My mother's uncle was like this. Once my grandmother told me that he wanted to marry a much poorer woman and their parents didn't approve it, so apparently he decided to never marry at all. Had a nice carreer and seemed to have a good life anyways.
What's wrong with no getting married? Y'all overestimate marriage like a dream
I’m most likely gonna need to block psych2go
hey from germany. same shit in europe, especially western europe and with asia just look at the birth rates of japan and south korea. I realized that stuff that happens in the US also tends to happen a few years later all throughout the world.
Feel you! Bin auch aus Dt. und habe überlegt genau das zu schreiben, was du geschrieben hast. Europa liegt nur wenige Jahre hinter den USA zurück.
Internet is the problem, all ideas spread too fast including bad ones, and general population of Earth some 2/3 of them are "worse than just stupid" appropriate word is a word that unfortunately is censored on RUclips, these creatures we are unfortunately forced to describe as human do not possess mental tools required to discern objective facts versus personal subjective interpretation, so when bad ideas come especially in a form of memeplex mind virus they spread without any resistance mutating as they go trough these "humans", making it near impossible to eradicate them, in other words "the genie is out of he bottle, and the first thing he did is smashing it into 1000 pieces" looks like unbridled unfiltered access to internet isn't as good as it was previously thought as underlying foundational assumptions turned out to be hogwash just as much as ideology which informed it.
Because its a globalist plan
@lordhater4207 I don't think so, the core problem is women effectively marrying the state as it usurps the protector and provider role from men. Women needing men as essential for the them to pair bond, and modern states have done everything they can to ensure women don't directly need men. The problem is female political power.
Why would anyone want kids in a world where they can't even afford to nurture them?
Thanks for making this video ❤
Even the dating apps are a struggle to get serious people who will actually reply
supposed only like 4% of guys are considered "attractive" enough to reply to by women. They only match one guy in 30. So, either be attractive or go home. Which is the point. women's standards for what is "attractive" is off the charts, leaving the vast bulk of men "chopped" or "ugly" or "creepers" because the women don't find them INSTANTLY attractive on sight. That's why guys don't cold approach because women are utterly unfriendly to guys that are not 9s and 10s.
In the old days, you could hang out with someone at school or at the mall or something and spend some time together in real space and show your value beyond being just attractive. But thanks to the feminism, there's no more public shared spaces that are not "no creeper zones"-- you can't approach at school, at work, at the gym, at the coffee shop, on the street, at the supermarket. WHERE IS IT OKAY TO APPROACH. (trick question! answer is "anywhere, as long as you're hot. nowhere if you're not")
And don't get me started about being all dolled up at places like clubs and bars. it makes them even more unapproachable and insufferable.
That's because nobody can take people on dating apps seriously
I mean, dating apps are inherently "for profit"... if they matched everyone who fit together perfectly, then they wouldn't have anyone to sell their services to.
I do not like dating sites, mainly for that reason.
Also i believe there were statistics about the ratio of women to men which is just... not great, so that also doesn't help
Even in dating apps? SPECIALLY in dating apps
There's alot of boxes to tick to even be considered...and they change. My ex for example after a year and a half said I don't see you as my forever..I need more of a provider. So no wonder guys give up. I haven't gave up but you just have to realise the game it all is which is the sad thing.
I feel that for sure. I hope you don't give up any time soon. It's bleak but I still believe there are some hidden good women out there, just like there are hidden good men.
@accurategamer7085but still not all it’s probably similar to sticking your hand in a pile of needles to find the straw but that straw is still their.
Damn that sucks. It probably actually is social media for her telling her that “if he really loved you then he’d grind to make sure you’re living in luxury.”
so now knowing this, how will you approach your next relationship?
"give me money and be me servile beast of burden, and I'll pretend to like you untill better option comes along"
22:53 Holy smokes, you nailed it. I've never heard someone articulate it quite that way before, but so accurately to how I feel about this.
Yeah bro fr they were taught ts in the media or something. Like dude it’s your ONE boyfriend just relax. Their solution is to keep trying other men and get used even more🤦
The worst feeling in the world is trying your best and getting almost nowhere.
💯
Psych2Go has the most insufferable voice
It's really about how you use the voice, that voice wouldn't be too bad if every sentence didn't have a "matter of fact" inflection
The soft quirky dirky uwu ass voice
@GXMenace She sounds like a smug therapist.
The word I was looking for was condescending.
@GXMenace it sickens me out so bad
@csupor1046 that ain't what you should be sickened by
My first clue that something was deeply wrong was in the earlier 2010s, when I came across a dating profile of a girl in the wild, where her primary picture was of her at a rally, holding a sign that literally said "my uterus is angry". I could not fathom why anyone would put this as the first thing they would show prospective dates - the starting point was one of animosity and adversarial anger. Things have only gotten worse since then. There are so many women like that; an unbelievable number.
Maybe by now she's made a TikTok crying about how lonely she is and wonders where the men have gone 😂
We youths call noble men like you "venerable ancients." I'm 20, my time being called "young" is not long for this world, but as I grow I will always look out for younger men as you have for us. We will save our people by hook or by crook. God bless.
Unc
I'm an 18-yo guy in nursing school who only has two friends (both from highschool) and has never even held hands romantically.
Nursing school is incredibly women-dominated. Nobody is willing to talk to me. I'm gay, so I'm not even attracted to women, but starting up a conversation is SO difficult because everyone I try to talk to gives me one word replies. This is the loneliest and most depressive I've ever felt in my life
there's a long standing reputation in real life and the internet that the medical sector has the WORST romantic and erotic relationships in any job market. doctors hooking up with nurses and patients while cheating, nurses hooking and and cheating, and general toxicity towards their partners not in medical. In your experience, would you say this is true?
@ugy8392 Its hard for me to give a direct answer because
1) I'm only a student in my second semester (5 total)
2) So far, I've only worked in a long-term care environment where there are no doctors on-site.
I can tell you for a fact that people here are extremely toxic and disrespectful, and people do bridge a gap between the men and the women workers. I have not met anyone who is divorced or has cheated, but I do know a couple people who are married and with children.
Our classes do make it incredibly clear that we are not allowed to give our socials, give gifts, or begin a relationship with our patients for at least 6 months after we have provided care. But on the other hand, the percentage of sexual abuse done by nurses compared to other types of abuse is quite high. Though neglect will always be the highest. Although im getting my diploma, I will not become a nurse, as I don't believe I will be able to handle this extent of toxicity for the rest of my life. It is that bad.
Good luck bro. You should try to find a community like a support group or around a hobby/thing you like. Online or in your local area, if you have the time for it and which ever is more convenient.
@four2410 I'm in a couple online hobby spaces luckily. I used to go to a local game shop and play card games every week, but classes are just too heavy to do that anymore. Thanks anyway man
"men are done cause nsfw, waifus, etc"
meanwhile women: nsfw books, movies, shows and more just being normalized as well as their behavior...
yOu don'T gET iT mY wEird InCel!!!! WomAAn sTuuuf Was SOOOO sTigMatAzed sO WE goNna oPenlY JERK foR low quality nsWf nOvEls in tiktOok
Ah yes, the so called “40cm sth sth of a 2 meters CEO muscular werewolf and a 4”11 foot maid girl”
They’re all bad
boy moms.
Bro I hate this so much on both sides because GENUINELY IT'S SO BAD FOR YOUR MENTAL HEALTH!!! (
I figured that voices like yours were on to something when I heard the voices that once asked “Where are all the *good* men?” suddenly shift to asking “Where are all the men?” a couple years ago.
I always hated the "Where are the good men ?" too they always existed and will continue to be they're just ignored or decided to focus their attention on people that deserve and reciprocate it. And the one asking themselves generally don't want a good man but a man who will tolerate all their behavior even if it's really shitty and humiliating for him without complaining even once
There seems to be this belief that men aren't trying to get into a relationship rather than men are trying and getting rejected. And it's not just rejection anymore, there's the public shaming, false accusations and the general disrespect men have to deal with. At some point it's just better to enjoy your peace.
its like there's a big red button that says "DO NOT TOUCH" and we've been told all our lives that we need to push the button. but everyone says that only wierdos want to touch the button. young men can't stop thinking about touching the button. the few times you see a button you go to touch it and it shocks the F out of you. After 3 or 4 shocks, you realize that you don't really want to touch the button anymore and you go find something else...anything else...instead. and here we are.
@Ezberron
Also if you don’t want to touch the button, you’re defective.
Chattering, maddening crowds.
Just make yourself a stable base, security, do things you like and build your world. Challenge yourself. Maybe even attempt mastery and competitive ranking.
@MarMarReeOh oh yeah. that's the best part too.
"eww, you want to touch the button? why can't you just keep your fingers in your pockets! my button my choice!" and then in the same breath...
"what? don't you want to touch the button? are you gay?" because they can't get free attention/stuff/food with the veiled promise of maybe if you "get lucky" you might get to touch a button...
(disclaimer: "Actual touching of the button is only valid for men that the button holder finds attractive and desirable. all other men are never going to touch the button, no matter how much free stuff they give.")
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I was intentionally victimized by a narcissistic psychopath so bad I have PTSD. Every time I try to get help, I get blamed, people jump right into the narrative she set up. Nobody ever listens to me.
Censoring the words undermines the actions that are being spoken about
Blame youtube
Reversing correlation and causation is just par for the course, at this point. I'm 50. Things have absolutely changed. I met both of my ex-wives at work. Within the past ten years, I have had to deal with HR twice. Once for asking a woman who seemed interested out for coffee. And the second time for completely fabricated reasons by a woman I didn't even know existed. There's no way I could do what I once did now.
Wow that's insane. Thanks for watching and the comment. I'm sad you had those experiences
As for the women you didn’t know exist situation. I feel your pain. I’m retired now but the last professional environment I was in I was accused of SA and the big no-no by someone I didn’t even know. Luckily for me the place had good video surveillance so before I got arrested I asked my manager to pull the video and the cops cuffing me sat me down and we went through the footage of when the alleged SA took place.
@adingorunsfree1345this needs to be illegal. Or at least lawsuit worthy.
social media has given ever single women on the planet a inflated sense of ego to the point of all of them genuinely thinking EVERYTHING must involve them somehow.
37 yo here, divorced, live by myself, can easily hookup, but relationships... I don't think I can do that anymore.
the juice doesn't seem worth the squeeze a lot of the time.
Its all about money. I have had a couple of females just straight out ask what I do for a living before asking what my name is ffs. 💀
I always answer, "I would tell you, but then I'd have to kill you."
A few weeks ago I talked to an attractive female stranger in her 50s, the conversation flowed until she asked me what I did, when I told her she just walked away! Socially and educationally I was higher but economically lower. It IS about the money.
@funkyweapon1981 Is that you agent 007?!
To be fair, I've had that a lot. I've never had a high-earning job but usually they're just trying to start a conversation. Someone who only wants to know how much money you make is going to want to know more than just what job you do, and if they ask you what you do right at the start they're probably just fishing for something they can talk to you about, or ask you about. I once went to a party where almost everyone used 'what do you do?' as their conversation starter, but when I told them I was a student working in a pub it didn't seem to bother them.
Patriarchy is shit, isn't it ?
Why are we cold approaching gang 😭
Get ready to get filmed and labelled a creep everywhere on the internet. Happened to a guy I knew and he hasn't been able to live it down . It's been going on for 3 years ...
Good looking dudes will get away with it
They're also constantly complaining about porn, which men like, but never complain about erotic novels, which women like.
minotaur and Bear...?
@KNABI20
You gotta kodiak bear maxx to mogg those milking farm Minotaur bulls
@MarMarReeOh And then there's horse... I'm not sure why some girls are into that fetish.
They’re definitely both pornography, and both bad for your mental state if over consumed
@abzz007 I don't know if or how erotic novels are damaging. Perhaps through creating unrealistic expectations. But pornography is shockingly bad for the brain. It's hard to explain without going into detail but it's to do with the brain rewiring in response to it. Your brain literally shrinks. Look up your Gary Wilson's stuff if you wanna learn more.
Psych2Go is just an ASMR channel that whispers whatever troubled men want to hear, That's why they're so popular.🥀
lot of troubled men does not a healthy society spell.
I never wanted to become a misogynist
"We need more female CEO's"
They want absolute parody in the executive offices but they will NEVER drag and tie the rebar to build the executive offices. That's PRIVILEGE not equality!
It really is that Dune quote
"When I'm weaker than you, I will preach tolerance as that is your values. When I am stronger than you I will preach dominance because that is my value"
*parity.
@777Looper at this point everything they do is a parody
Facts
@ADepressedGuy-l1p its a good double entendre
Psych2Go had been sexist and marxist for years
Their mascots dont even have male or female traits... go figure.
Legitimately thought you were bigbunjeeeeee
I've had that suspicion.
How so
I unsubed from then when they made a video about “porn addiction”.
so, im 25, fairly good looking, straight out of a 5 year relationship that SHE initiated. before i always had shorter dating phases but always the same thing, the woman took interest in me, i accepted and shortly after they ghosted me. My recent ex cheated on me with a fat, unemployed guy that she is now dating. My older sisters said that i am very good looking and if we werent siblings, they would be happy to date me. so does every other woman, thats over 35. But for some reason women my age get interested, get to know me a bit and just ghost me. i even tried getting to know a woman that is way under my league. not attractive, fairly overweight and mentally unstable. i thoguht to myself "hey, she is very nice and i like her personality" so i tried to spend more time with her. yep... she started ghosting me.
all my female friends, that call me handsome and a man of dreams, but wont ever date me, seeing what kind of guy they seem interested in, im starting to think i should just also become very toxic and an asshole
Dang I always assumed that you were safe if the girl initiated things. Back to the drawing board it seems (and I'm all out of chalk)...
From my experience, they're all like that.
Of course, are they actually all the same? Probably not. But every single woman I've ever interacted with starts to detach and becomes increasingly colder and colder after about 3-4 months, whereas I was (or I thought I was) building something and getting more and more involved.
Because that's how a normal human being works and builds rapport in general. The more you spend time with someone, the more affectionate you become and you want to separate less and less.
Women, again in my experience, start out strong and distance themselves with time until they either cheat or just don't want to talk to you anymore.
Same with me
Your relationships were probably insufficiently tumultuous. Women ghost because they get “bored”, and they get “bored” because “boredom” is the word they use to describe phenomena such as “peace” and “stability”.
ok so lets tackle this properly. what kind of woman (one woman) would YOU want in a relationship with.
1:34 That idea popped in my head right before you even said a woman wrote that. I feel the exact same way
Unsubscribed from Psych2go ages ago, a lot of their advice is bogus and the agenda has been slipping in for a while now.
Everything I see for men is just them thinking that men work like women and therefore solve their problems the same way as women do. Therapy only works if you’re a woman which no one will ever talk about
I regret the hours I spend watching it
The insane part is they are never on guard for gigachads who always happen to be the creeps bad man they so desperately try to avoid.
I don't even really like pron anymore. Hell, I've never really liked the "normal" guy/girl stuff either, watching that just feels like sitting in the chair in the corner of the hotel room.
But even so, it's really strange and almost frustrating to hear that women believe we're just watching that stuff to avoid talking to them, as if we'd prefer to watch people experience love and pleasure instead of wanting the real thing. That just baffles me, why would I *willingly* choose an inferior imitation over real love forever?? The pron often the result of women not liking a man, therefore he resorts to watching these materials because he is unwanted and unloved.
Lets also talk about the porn that women consume, mainly the smut books that give them an unrealistic standard of men they want
"Love"?
Brother, nor porn or IRL consider sex to be anything of the sorts. It is merely an act which leads to gratification, and so, gets treated as nothing more than physical hobbie.
There is no "love", only libertine debauchery
@rafaelcastor2089
Human biochemistry disagrees.
@rafaelcastor2089no brother, you’ve lost the plot. Sex IS about love.
Mindless sex would just lead to the same empty feelings we get from corn. It’s love we want, I want someone I can trust and get old with…
@JustSomePunkYo It is not "I" who have lost the plot.
Reading comprehension is getting real bad if you can mistake a clear criticism on modern culture for anything else.
Just like the other fella, who brings up biochemistry based on how it works in a vacuum and totally disregards how the way porn and modern dating works completely subverts that system into doing *exactly* what i've been saying.
Thanks for calling out.
Yea I’m still hungry for sex
No social media except RUclips mostly for infotainment purposes, and no dating apps ever. I'll happily watch the world burn and die single.
Preach
Usually when it comes to these "What's Wrong With Men" conversations, especially with a panel, you can play BINGO. There's
1. But what about women? Or there's someway to hijack the conversation/spotlight away from men.
2. Professor Fuqwitz with an out of touch take or advice.
3. Playing it safe fence sitter.
4. Gay guy to throw the "secretly gay" accusation.
You'll may even get multiple of these in the same person.
They destroyed the bridge to success for men, and then ask why nobody is jumping across.
I was using a couple of dating apps at one point for almost a year; I had to stop because I decided my mental health was more important...
I especially hate the "as he should" thing they say. modern "feminism" is just sexism as an aesthetic/movement. yes, we should work towards making women equal to men in society. no, dumping every single responsibility on men is not the way to do it.
They've made it crystal clear we aren't equal, at all. They can't submit to reason= Humanity is Doomed.
They shouldn't be allowed to, power grab...