You say she is obsessed with her appearance, but when I've watched you, all you talked about is her body and how it compares with other women's bodies (i.e, FullRawKristina).
Yep, it’s disturbing and it’s weird to say she’s obsessed when he’s obsessed with skinny, if she already had an eating disorder being with him made it far worse and she’s in bad shape now.
if all of what he's saying is actually true then that's fkd up. when he was talking about hitting each other and stuff. and scratching and whatever. that is 100% not cool
+Poseidon Cichlidon true well I don't watch him this is probably the only video I watched till the end but idk he seems sincere I'm not just gonna jump to conclusions and say that he's doing this for sympathy because you never know. Like if it was me and I was telling the truth and people were saying that I'm just doing it for sympathy that would make me feel like shiiittttt.
He was just writing to you without you writing back? Some might call that an emotional affair even if you didn't touch him. Or maybe I'm not understanding it correctly?
Damn Harley, I honestly have never liked you. But for the 1st time EVER, I believe you, I feel for you, and (never ever thought I'd say this), I sort of respect you for actually being REAL!
I was a subs and was unsubs Without knowing, it is not the first that happens to me and I wonder why; just to say that such video would not make me subscribe, no disrespect :)
If he was not crying, I bet people would not take him seriously, what he says is so "déjà vu", gosh relationships end up being hard "work". 10 years is often a breaking point, not 7 like people think. I bet internet couples must say "ohhh that won't happen to me on youtube no way !! Not like them" until.... YOutube is a hard drug, it is.
You guys are supposed to bring out the best in each other, not the worst. It's too far gone and it is not good for your health, mentally and emotionally. As for her also. You both deserve to be happy, without eachother.
Most RUclipsrs are the loneliest people of all, the camera ends up being their addiction and everything in their life is about that rush when they press record and upload a video, hoping to get views and likes...meanwhile the very few happy and content people in life are busy enjoying themselves and would never consider publicly discussing their most inner personal thoughts with complete strangers thru and anonymous social platform. In the end, they all think they are getting rich or at least making a decent living off of their revenues online, but in a few years when that all ends, society will have to deal with tens of thousands of people living thru life like absolute zombies who will be a danger to all of us. Sad to see how the social experimentation of the internet has optically ruined so many innocent people's lives.
this is the most courage I have seen in a man, to actually show these feelings & admit that there was some abuse in the relationship. Men are too scared to say that they have ever suffered any abuse. Heartbreak is real. It will get better. I always saw you as a man with passion & convictions, right or wrong, you say it how it is. It's not a weakness. Cry it out. Hope you find a better person in the future.
Durian, my son is abused by a woman. She mentally abuses and it is a mess. I had to step back from my relationship. My heart goes out to you for the abuse.. We are all usually partners in abuse. She has let down a lot of people long before any of the latest events. Keep on moving on!!!!!!!!!
Harley, you may not read this because you have thousands of comments. But my heart really broke for you. Even you saying, "First world problem" makes me sad because your reality is your reality and downplaying or invalidating your pain isn't ok. I've watched a few of your videos and you definitely have strong, opinionated persona, but seeing your tears and pain in this video was heartbreaking. I'm really sorry that you've experienced this pain and I pray you find peace and joy and healthy relationships that perpetuate peace, grace, joy, and kindness in your life.
It's 50 50 they both have their version of the truth. I feel sorry for Harley he has lost the women he loved. He needs a little love right now he really does. ☝ 😉🌷🍉🌷🍎 Time for Harley to show the online world what a good guy he is No more trolling and threatening other youtubers. You will find a good women who cares for you soon Harley. Just be cool, you still have a lot of people who want to hang out with you. You still have a lot of fans who still like you. I myelf am not taking any sides and I'm Not part of the RT4 cult. Harley and Freelee you both have your strengths and weaknesses time to move forward ☝🍒🍉✔
I think a lot of people that have very popular youtube channels might have narcissistic personality disorders before or even as a result of becoming so successful. All these stories I hear about fans meeting youtube ''idols'' and they are rude unless you look a certain way or can advance them further. So, if any of these you tube ''celebrities'' are rude if you meet them don't be upset just feel sorry for them. I do. X
Real followers and fans will stay harley. You will always be my role model and my daily inspiration. I read your ebooks over and over again and watch almost the same vids every day. I appreciate your actions and passion for the community so much. Keep going!
Anika R No!! You Aren't Stupid. It's An Elastic...To Stretch The Skin. Not Like Rubber Bands...But,Basically It Freezes The Skin Flat And Tight...To Where Your Skin Stretches Smooth. And If Used To Much Can Cause Damage. Because You're Constantly Stretching Your Skin. And Freelee AKA Leanne's All About Only Putting Natural Things In To Her Body. Just Like Her Breast Implants. She's Such A Hypocrite.
Jaysus Harley WTF?? It seems you and Freelee are better off without each other. I feel sorry for both of you. Are you sure Freelee is not on steriods at it seems like roid rage? It's good now get this toxicity out so you can both start to heal. Kudos to you for not striking her in the face even when she did the same to you. Apologies accepted as we never were naive enough to believe Freelee was full natty though her heart is in the right place, so is yours. Take a relationship vacation and take time for yourself to just become the man you want to be.
My daughter has been living in Dublin for 2 years. I picked it up from her so I guess you're right lol its an Irish thing :) Ps some steriods don't make you huge if you use them sparingly. They can be used to cut and get lean :)
Harley, it will take time but you will feel better. Its better to break up and move on and find someone who would really support your life than stay with someone pulling you down. Women dont think hitting men is abuse.
Great to see how you bounced back from that toxic relationship harley you've got a much nicer girl and you still bang out loads of great videos, respect mate!
And to all of Durainrider haters I have one thing to say to you. Yes he has did so dumb things but some times you just need to get over it and see when people are having a hard time you should be nice to them.
maybe he should apologise to all the people he's accused of being on steroids with ZERO proof. But that's OK because their fair game if their not vegan. It didn't work like that.
Freelee is not crazy. She just real smart. Freelee grooming a young man to get a vasectomy that he was unsure of. In ten years he will regret it. He will say to him self, all for a rich sugar mama.
lol wtf this has nothing to do with a vasectomy. Why are you so obsessed with having a kid anyway when there are billions of kids who don't have clean water.
She has certainly become a narcissist. And she can never admit fault, so I can see her continuing to throw out inflammator bullshit. She's a serious internet troll and bully, and her intefnr fame has certainly changed her for the worse. Hang in there and know that we believe in you.
This is why you got all my support. Thanks for changing my life and thanks for being 100% real. When I met Freelee in june I kinda had this feeling that she was fake and didn't even want to be there and attend those daily q&a's. Idk. We need more peeps like you!
I'm not a Harley fan, but I must say this is the first real video I've seen on this channel and I think this is much more the direction you should be going in from now on. Keep it real and stop the trolling.
Dear Harley, i am so sorry to hear of your breakup with Freely and to see you in so much pain. I remember how terrible i felt after my breakup with my very first boyfriend after ten years. It nearly dstroyed me. I just want to give you a big hug and tell you that i have always liked you for beeing yourself and speaking your truth. It shines through to me that you are a good person, that you wish others well and that you care deeply about life, people and the whole world. I wish you all the best. Lots of hugs, lots of rest and lots of sleep. Take care, Love Nats :)
I rarely leave comments but was inspired to tell you: people don't look up to people who are good at putting on a show, people look up to people who are brave enough to put out what's really in their hearts and the rawness that comes with that. That is true inspiration, seeing someone doing the best they can with where they're at. My love goes to both of you to take the lessons your relationship was intended to cultivate and to remember there's no sides in this play of life, just differing perspectives🙏🏽
You believe DR is this good at acting yeah? A guy you most likely think is an idiot and a fool and basically, an overall shit human being yeah? Yet, you think he is THIS GOOD at acting? Just stop for a second and review the information that is staring you in the face. Or don't, whatever.
All you have to do is calculate how old she is and then look up pictures or videos of people that have gotten botox injections and you should be able to notice that she has infact had botox injections. At the very least, you should be able to admit that much. If not, then let's just agree to disagree. I don't formulate my opinions based on emotions so in my book, facts matter and a the face of a woman nearly 40 years old, that spends a lot of time in the sun, does not look like her face even when you account for her diet. Again, look at her videos and watch her make faces. Look at videos from 2013 when Hale suggest she first started. Also, What difference does it make to you? I mean, let's think about this for a second. You saw my comment and it must have done something to you to such an extent that you just had to drop a reply to it instead of say for example, making your own separate comment. That is a fact. That is what you did. But why? Especially when you consider that there are so many other comments on this video that you could have replied to. Again, you have every right to think whatever you want. It is your mind after all. It just strikes me as odd, that's all. Good luck to you, Bruh.
Damn. I think this might be the first time I've actually felt your humanity through the screen Harley. Even though you're hurting, showing your vulnerability is the right choice for you- it connects you with people on a human level, and all the other shit falls away. All past disagreements I've had aside, I'm truly sorry you're going through this and I hope you heal and find peace. When you come out on the other side you'll be a stronger man.
This is real, sure, but that vast majority of what he put out over the years was not. The dogs on the street could tell Freelee was a manipulative bitch.
Not haters. I've been following Harley since he was raw and loved him. But after reading the way he was expressing himself about young women at the TFF I'm no a little disgusted. My comment will soon be deleted. Just go read them for yourself on FL's tumblr. And keep in mind, I am not a FL fan
Love you man, this is real. Off to the gym right now and drinking a big smoothie because of your daily inspiration. Keep your chin up and be the example that you want to set. You haven't let anyone down
Ummm this isn't right. yes it's possible that you two both were bad to eachother but it's not anywhere possible that you are a victim in this. If you watch Freelee's videos in the past you can see you portraying abusive behavior towards her (not physical but definitely emotional) through out your whole relationship people pointed out how abusive you were. You're bitter because you were dumped, so you are making shit up like you always do.
I have never looked up to you more Harley, there is no way that speaking out about abusive relationships could let us down. In my eyes you are stronger than ever today. Fall back into the support of your friends and keep pushing through this bullshit.
Can everyone stop fucking leaving mean comments. Like its not your problems to judge & it probably takes a lot to put your emotions out on the Internet.
Who cares who's right or wrong! You're both better off not being in this toxic relationship! I wish you love and healing and peace of mind. Thanks for your honesty
It makes me so incredibly sad to hear this. You are such a kind man who only tries to help people and all people do in return is lie about you and slander your name. I hate that things between you two have come to this point. I wish you could both be happy. It sucks when people change from how you used to know them. You don't deserve this kind of treatment.
man... this sucks. I feel so bad for him... he is really hurting. I have gone through this same shit before, problem is most guys give their partners the benefit of the doubt and don't call them out of their shit... on their lies, or whatever.. so it's actually worse and blows up. I hope this guy will move on and find a new love and be happy again. I don't know him, i am not a subscriber, i just saw it on my recommended RUclips videos... i just genuinely feel for this guy. I know the feeling he is experiencing and it is brutal... shit I could never have made a video like this... he is a strong dude, which gives me hope he will pull through this and be alright! God bless you durianrider!!
DUUUUDE !!! this is the first full vid ive seen of u and i 100% believe u. I love Freelee for getting me off meat but ive ALWAYS hated the full on "fuck fuck fuck" and clapping coz I know that's what manipulators do at the very least and I dont even wanna think about what it would be like to date and argue with a person like that. BTW im aussie so the accent doesn't get in my way of seeing the person behind the voice. I can see your tears are from feeling foolish for staying, not because u want her back. I feel for u man!!
Shit... I wrote that before 7 minutes , before u even said u had to use force on her and that's it... no man would admit that if not true. Shit. If ya need a mate that doesn't know your ex ... hit me up for a chat on FB - Crissy Sims
My Tip to everybody, including you Harley! DONT SHARE TOO MUCH PRIVATE STUFF! Don't make everything public on SocialMedia! Take some weeks or months off, meet people in private - no mobile phone etc ;) Anyway. I think you will grow a lot by all this ...!
I think Harley gets comfort when he shares things like this. What I'm worried about is the response video freelee will be making. She's going to call him a liar and twist everything that nobody will know who to believe.
i feel like we live in an age where the most obvious and common sense advice is now like gold... because the whole smartphone epidemic kills our natural intuition.
She really really does seem like the type to be the abusive one...I've been around abusers enough to see the signs. I mean listen to what she says at the end. she even flashed her muscles lol. nobody cares when the guy gets abused like"he's a wimp" "if he ate meat he would be able to fight back" bs! a girl CAN abuse a guy and it's not okay any more than a guy hurting a girl.
So sorry for what you've been through. No one deserves to be abused physically or verbally. I hope you can recover from your experience and come out a better person. Thank you for all your hard work in this movement!
hey mate, subscribed to your videos about 6months ago when I started cycling. Really good and honest advice. keep your head up bud most of us have all been through it. Anytime you want to come to the UK Southwest Dartmoor way. Give me a shout. Sending good vibes.
although i don't always agree with what you say. I always thought you true to yourself and everyone else that follows you. Life will get better and we will still be here to support you!
honestly dont worry i followed you both but truthfully only YOU were the one that was giving real practical scientific advice. We can all see that freelee is now up her own ass........she might be going through a midlife crisis. YOU HAVE DONE SO MUCH THUS FAR AND YOU STILL HAVE ALOT TO DO ON THIS EARTH. KEEP ON SHINING.
I know exactly what it feels like to get a slam on the head out of nowhere. From my dads knuckles. He could have been in another part of the house, and in a flash, like a terrorist attacking heat-seeking missile, he would attack blaming me for something... for breaking some sort of rule I didn't even knew existed. He's been dead now for over 20 years, and I am 68. I still have ptsd from it, but not as much. We all love u Harley. You deserve better and you will find better in due season.
I'm a criminology student here in Spain and one of the things we learn about facial gestures it's that when the person is remembering something and telling the truth they roll their eyes to the right whereas if they look to the left they're thinking about what to say / lying and he has been looking to the left almost every single time (remember, on camera right is actually left) Also anyway, someone who bashes or "exposes" the cosmetic procedures of his ex girlfriend and even tries to play the victim as if he was some kind of angel well.. let me tell you that THIS right here indicates you have been abusive towards her. You did it in the past, you keep doing it know. How immature, what a shame!
You actually have it backwards. Looking to the right is when the person is said to be lying because looking to the right means you are accessing the left side of the brain. If you are looking to the left you are accessing the right side of the brain to access a memory of something, thereby telling the truth. All of that aside, this bit of misinformation has been debunked time and again. The latest study was in the UK by Richard Weisman. No one knows why it is still taught but I promise you it's false, a myth.
You have our full Support Harley. Your Passion and Advice has Helped changed thousands if not millions of lives. I'll keep you in my thoughts and Prayers for you to overcome this quickly and be filled with peace again. God Bless
Hey bro I have never wrote a comment on any channel at all befor but I decided to on this video, you have personally helped me in my life with the addictions I have had amongst other things I am by no means a vegan but I have been eating better because of you and also worked on my addictions because of you and a few other people but you as far as I can see are as honest as they come and I greatly appreciate that I wish I could do something for you anyway stay strong and let's battle through this together.
I've noticed when men call women on their lies, the women will always sacrifice people that love or care about them. With marketing everything is based on a lie cause that's just the nature of money. Your right when you say that fame and money brings out the evil in so many people out there. I'm am losing hope however trying to find honesty in and inspiration within relationships in a general sense. I can't seem to find it, we almost have only 2 seprate choices in life: Money or Love and people can't have both. You didn't let me down at all Durian, you are still and always will be an older role model to me. You and Freelee have changed my life for the better. I don't care about steriods or botox, I care about you and freelee as a spirit, life is short and this life is not the only existence to make a difference. For example if I can't find romance in this money driven reality then I have the afterlife to look forward to.
I'm so sorry this has happened to you and that everyone is turning against you. It seems you are pretty shaken up and rightly so. Know that while many people might turn against you, I am here for you and I stand by your truth and honesty.
While that person is being sexist, I think many people don't feel love. I even questioned in a recent vid if most people's experience of love is real, or just using people to feel happy.
literally nearly brought me to tears. whether it's her fault or yours that doesn't matter. a relationship ending is the hardest thing in the world whether for the best or not.
What part of this video made you think this in anyway was his fault? If some body walked up to you punched you in the side of the head and said "well i dont know if it's your fault or mine so..." would you think that person was in their right mind? My point is it very much does matter, if you are living with someone that physical assaults you then you need to call the police.
@@jordanbeales9749 You are right. Harley and Freelee were a YT construct to push veganism and 'introduce' new YTbers to the public. When they're job was 'finished', so were they...
Just wanna say there are still plenty of us here who care about you and want to keep supporting you. I've had major issues over the past year and a half with people close to me being dishonest, manipulative and disloyal, so I kinda know what it's like. The most important thing is to hold on to who you are, which I know is far easier said than done when it feels like your life has been torn apart. Look after yourself not only physically but mentally, be kind and compassionate to yourself. I really hope things get better for you.
I never really comment on videos, but seeing you in tears telling your story makes me sad for the both of you. I can remember watching you two back a few years ago when you lived simply & had the van. Another relationship that failed & lying and consumerism played a part.
Sad for you guys. I hope you both spend some time on yourselves because I see so much light in you guys. It sounds like the relationship was fairly toxic especially near the end, just know healing is around the corner. xx
This is the side of you people want to see, and I respect you so much for this video. The truth will always reward you! I am so sorry this has happened to you. She is terrible for treating you this way, no one should be treated like this
Nothing can ease the sadness or pain that you're rightly feeling. I'm sorry meanness happened to you, no one should be abused in any way for any reason. I hope you're able to heal your heart, mind & spirit and eventually forgive everything that's happened, not for anyone's same except your own. Your inner peace is most important. I wish you well with everything. This video was heartbreaking for me to watch, I wanted to be there to hug you & let you know that things will be OK, it's not your fault..
Honestly, I understand why she would get botox. We're all human and we're all insecure sometimes and I don't think it's that big of a deal. What I don't think is okay EVER is lying or treating your partner disrespectfully. Yes, we make mistakes, but when it's an ongoing problem the relationship really isn't healthy anymore. I think it was best for both of you to end it. I hope you can both get over your hurt feelings and pride and move on.
Sasha Well I guess it is if you look at the definition. "conforming to a standard" I am glad not to be normal. Seeing that it is subjective to the majority. Not the minority.
+youandme.vegan ♥ She has lied to her subscribers too, Botox is tested on animals, it goes deeper than her romantic relationship, and speaks to her hypocrisy and lack of character.
Freelee was caught cheating with a banana
Haha
lost it
now thats the only story I belive
bahahahahaha
gives new meaning to the phrase 'carb the **** up'?
You say she is obsessed with her appearance, but when I've watched you, all you talked about is her body and how it compares with other women's bodies (i.e, FullRawKristina).
Yep, it’s disturbing and it’s weird to say she’s obsessed when he’s obsessed with skinny, if she already had an eating disorder being with him made it far worse and she’s in bad shape now.
She's been using Botox. He acts like he just found out that she been smoking crack chill out
hahahahahaha
She hit the Wall. Maybe want a Child...
These are some of the most awkward cycling tips I've ever seen.
lol!
Too soon.
lean over here i have a tip for you
Oh snap
That's funny.
Wow. I actually felt for him. Never thought I'd see the day
same
lol
if all of what he's saying is actually true then that's fkd up. when he was talking about hitting each other and stuff. and scratching and whatever. that is 100% not cool
Poseidon Cichlidon LOL true !
+Poseidon Cichlidon true well I don't watch him this is probably the only video I watched till the end but idk he seems sincere I'm not just gonna jump to conclusions and say that he's doing this for sympathy because you never know. Like if it was me and I was telling the truth and people were saying that I'm just doing it for sympathy that would make me feel like shiiittttt.
Are you filming this on a calculator
Robert Bugeja on a banana
What the...😂 a calculator!
When a relationship is based on looks and superficial things of course it's not stable
He was just writing to you without you writing back? Some might call that an emotional affair even if you didn't touch him. Or maybe I'm not understanding it correctly?
so at the end of the day she preferred a different type of banana
Cucumber FTW!
Was watching old vids...this comment is brilliant.🍌
40 nanas a day
😂
Yo that was below the belt. Still ded tho 😂
if botox is ever marketed to men they should call it Brotox
Classicre best comment 😂
LOL
Lol
this is the best random comment I've read like ever.
Should start the business m8
Damn Harley, I honestly have never liked you. But for the 1st time EVER, I believe you, I feel for you, and (never ever thought I'd say this), I sort of respect you for actually being REAL!
AND I'm liking one of your videos for the first time ever!
he has been in an abusive relationship, it'll take some time to heal, but he'll bounce back
***** i knew freelee was an abuser and she's not even vegan!
We are and Freelee keeps bring up other women's name into this mess. Do you think they wanted to be outed by Freelee. SMH
you like seeing a man at his weakest and most vulnerable you sick bitch
Who else thought this was gonna be a clickbait troll
I'm absolutely baffled that it isn't clickbait, holy shit
+Thatyoutubeguy You're gross
Amanda Dalbjörn
and You're mad, lol
+Thatyoutubeguy I'm not the one telling random girls to get naked. Good luck dude, you're so going to succeed. *cough*
To be fair, he has a guy in a mask as his profile picture. What did you expect from the basement dwellers of the internet?
Moral of the story guys, don't do botox if you want your relationship to last.
New Chap hehe
😂
Sure many ladies wish that was true but the world has been telling us the opposite sadly
I'm not a hater anymore, resubscribed. This time, I believe you. Don't cry buddy, you gonna be fine.
Thanks bud, I knew you had my back. I love you.
+Gods_ Assassin Ur funny!
I was a subs and was unsubs
Without knowing, it is not the first that happens to me and I wonder why; just to say that such video would not make me subscribe, no disrespect :)
If he was not crying, I bet people would not take him seriously, what he says is so "déjà vu", gosh relationships end up being hard "work". 10 years is often a breaking point, not 7 like people think.
I bet internet couples must say "ohhh that won't happen to me on youtube no way !! Not like them" until.... YOutube is a hard drug, it is.
Honestly they're both pathological liars
Can't agree more 👍😁
She's been Beating on him throughout their relationship...
Exactly. I do NOT believe these tears. But not her either.
I feel like this was just a toxic relationship. Both of them are better off.
The thing is no one cares when men are abused in relationship and its fucking ridiculous!
freelee needs to be taken down
You're right some people do care but the majority don't. But yes I agree I worded it wrong..
+durianrider fake account, everyone report him
You guys are supposed to bring out the best in each other, not the worst. It's too far gone and it is not good for your health, mentally and emotionally. As for her also. You both deserve to be happy, without eachother.
I do care - but I see your point.
It's usually laughed at
Bless your heart. I'm sorry you were hurting. I hope you are doing better now...
Dragging grievances out in public is narcissistic, childish, and classless. WTF is wrong with these RUclipsrs?
It's an outlet and one that pays well.
Most RUclipsrs are the loneliest people of all, the camera ends up being their addiction and everything in their life is about that rush when they press record and upload a video, hoping to get views and likes...meanwhile the very few happy and content people in life are busy enjoying themselves and would never consider publicly discussing their most inner personal thoughts with complete strangers thru and anonymous social platform.
In the end, they all think they are getting rich or at least making a decent living off of their revenues online, but in a few years when that all ends, society will have to deal with tens of thousands of people living thru life like absolute zombies who will be a danger to all of us.
Sad to see how the social experimentation of the internet has optically ruined so many innocent people's lives.
And yet, you watched it.
Ha ha ha
Well they’re vegan for starters.
backing you 100% Harley
cool ;)
Then you are an incredibly gullible person
Go to freelees Twitter
You're the realest person in this community.
this vid looks like it was filmed on a calculator from the 90s
Botox is tested on animals ...... congratulations freelee you played yourself
Been there done that. It will take a while to heal. Don't go back to her Brah.
Sounds like you really loved her at one point... but sometimes good things spoil... PRESERVATIVES FTW
lol this is awesome
3 sides to every story. his side, her side, and the truth.
You've been really unkind to people. Suffering teaches compassion. Much love.
To whom?
Nah that’s crazy talk. He’s helped many.
This is really sad. You can tell he was genuinely heartbroken over it.
I love them both. Both are awesome people. They've helped me get into veganism. 😘❤❤🌿🌿
@if you replied you gay Is that an invitation?
No
Simp
this is the most courage I have seen in a man, to actually show these feelings & admit that there was some abuse in the relationship. Men are too scared to say that they have ever suffered any abuse. Heartbreak is real. It will get better. I always saw you as a man with passion & convictions, right or wrong, you say it how it is. It's not a weakness. Cry it out. Hope you find a better person in the future.
Durian, my son is abused by a woman. She mentally abuses and it is a mess. I had to step back from my relationship. My heart goes out to you for the abuse.. We are all usually partners in abuse. She has let down a lot of people long before any of the latest events. Keep on moving on!!!!!!!!!
true. that´s really sad. :(
What about when men lie about suffering from abuse? How should we handle that?
and you haven't done the psycho routine to scare her? c'mon now
Sarah Bucket what is that routine? ;)
Harley, you may not read this because you have thousands of comments. But my heart really broke for you. Even you saying, "First world problem" makes me sad because your reality is your reality and downplaying or invalidating your pain isn't ok. I've watched a few of your videos and you definitely have strong, opinionated persona, but seeing your tears and pain in this video was heartbreaking. I'm really sorry that you've experienced this pain and I pray you find peace and joy and healthy relationships that perpetuate peace, grace, joy, and kindness in your life.
Lara P im so very sorry:( this brought back every feeling i had when the same thing happen to me. i realy feel for him....
I hope he sees this! It will make him feel better for sure!
Lara P Aa
OK i believe Harley. i don't hate freelee but my respect for her has diminished and my respect for Harley has been restored.
agreed
It's 50 50 they both have their version of the truth. I feel sorry for Harley he has lost the women he loved. He needs a little love right now he really does. ☝ 😉🌷🍉🌷🍎 Time for Harley to show the online world what a good guy he is No more trolling and threatening other youtubers.
You will find a good women who cares for you soon Harley. Just be cool, you still have a lot of people who want to hang out with you. You still have a lot of fans who still like you. I myelf am not taking any sides and I'm Not part of the RT4 cult. Harley and Freelee you both have your strengths and weaknesses time to move forward ☝🍒🍉✔
Why?
You don't understand? Awww
Gerry gold, you believe this bullshit? You think he's a nice guy?
I just don't understand. Just because you broke up shouldn't give you the right to leak out private information about each other.
are you fucking serious dude? she broke his fucking heart and it's HIS business too. stfu
I think a lot of people that have very popular youtube channels might have narcissistic personality disorders before or even as a result of becoming so successful. All these stories I hear about fans meeting youtube ''idols'' and they are rude unless you look a certain way or can advance them further. So, if any of these you tube ''celebrities'' are rude if you meet them don't be upset just feel sorry for them. I do. X
Real followers and fans will stay harley. You will always be my role model and my daily inspiration. I read your ebooks over and over again and watch almost the same vids every day. I appreciate your actions and passion for the community so much. Keep going!
is botox even vegan
Chemically and how it's made, yes, but it's heavily tested on animals, so I wouldn't say that it is
Juvederm is not tested on animals.
Monika Kalecinska Brandon Quinn okay thank you
NO!! Botox is an unnatural chemical...to tighten up the wrinkles in your skin.
Anika R
No!! You Aren't Stupid. It's An Elastic...To Stretch The Skin. Not Like Rubber Bands...But,Basically It Freezes The Skin Flat And Tight...To Where Your Skin Stretches Smooth. And If Used To Much Can Cause Damage. Because You're Constantly Stretching Your Skin. And Freelee AKA Leanne's All About Only Putting Natural Things In To Her Body. Just Like Her Breast Implants. She's Such A Hypocrite.
Just when you thought RUclips drama was only for millenials....
Jesus I normally troll this guy but I legitimately feel sorry for him. Hope this'll all pass for you.
Jaysus Harley WTF?? It seems you and Freelee are better off without each other. I feel sorry for both of you. Are you sure Freelee is not on steriods at it seems like roid rage? It's good now get this toxicity out so you can both start to heal. Kudos to you for not striking her in the face even when she did the same to you. Apologies accepted as we never were naive enough to believe Freelee was full natty though her heart is in the right place, so is yours. Take a relationship vacation and take time for yourself to just become the man you want to be.
Are you Irish?
I'm South African not Irish :)
I'm Irish and it's a very Irish thing to say "Jaysus" lol
lol steroids. have you seen how tiny she is?
My daughter has been living in Dublin for 2 years. I picked it up from her so I guess you're right lol its an Irish thing :) Ps some steriods don't make you huge if you use them sparingly. They can be used to cut and get lean :)
he would be cuter if he had botox too
Like totally true!!!
I think he looks nice how he is
thats really mean, but true for all of us
Masabthach James well he isnt obssesed with how he looks so he wouldnt care enough to do that...
damn dude. just give it a few weeks and life moves on. time to put the past behind and make some new epic memories
Harley, it will take time but you will feel better. Its better to break up and move on and find someone who would really support your life than stay with someone pulling you down. Women dont think hitting men is abuse.
I'm a woman and I think it's abuse to hit a man, to hit anyone.
Woman here, hitting anyone is abuse, obviously.
I should say "a lot of NUTTY women dont think hitting men is abuse" clearly it is if its on-going
Great to see how you bounced back from that toxic relationship harley you've got a much nicer girl and you still bang out loads of great videos, respect mate!
And to all of Durainrider haters I have one thing to say to you. Yes he has did so dumb things but some times you just need to get over it and see when people are having a hard time you should be nice to them.
maybe he should apologise to all the people he's accused of being on steroids with ZERO proof. But that's OK because their fair game if their not vegan. It didn't work like that.
MrScion500 What are you trying to say?
omg I'm high as hell watching this is so sad I can relate do what Harley went through with the abuse freelees career is over
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Omg I just saw this it's crazy
Freelee is not crazy. She just real smart. Freelee grooming a young man to get a vasectomy that he was unsure of. In ten years he will regret it. He will say to him self, all for a rich sugar mama.
lol wtf this has nothing to do with a vasectomy. Why are you so obsessed with having a kid anyway when there are billions of kids who don't have clean water.
+robuzy coz those are 'others' kids.. some ppl want their own kids. get over it :)
She has certainly become a narcissist. And she can never admit fault, so I can see her continuing to throw out inflammator bullshit. She's a serious internet troll and bully, and her intefnr fame has certainly changed her for the worse. Hang in there and know that we believe in you.
No we don't
This is why you got all my support. Thanks for changing my life and thanks for being 100% real. When I met Freelee in june I kinda had this feeling that she was fake and didn't even want to be there and attend those daily q&a's. Idk.
We need more peeps like you!
I'm not a Harley fan, but I must say this is the first real video I've seen on this channel and I think this is much more the direction you should be going in from now on. Keep it real and stop the trolling.
Dear Harley, i am so sorry to hear of your breakup with Freely and to see you in so much pain. I remember how terrible i felt after my breakup with my very first boyfriend after ten years. It nearly dstroyed me. I just want to give you a big hug and tell you that i have always liked you for beeing yourself and speaking your truth. It shines through to me that you are a good person, that you wish others well and that you care deeply about life, people and the whole world. I wish you all the best. Lots of hugs, lots of rest and lots of sleep. Take care, Love Nats :)
Love you DR - and I also Love FL. Such a shame it has come to this. Im so sad for you both. xx
Thanks
Fake DR account, be on the look out
I rarely leave comments but was inspired to tell you: people don't look up to people who are good at putting on a show, people look up to people who are brave enough to put out what's really in their hearts and the rawness that comes with that. That is true inspiration, seeing someone doing the best they can with where they're at. My love goes to both of you to take the lessons your relationship was intended to cultivate and to remember there's no sides in this play of life, just differing perspectives🙏🏽
Man I love the raw honesty the tears the vulnerability you have, this is so awesome, don't delete this, it's so raw and authentic
This is exactly what I was waiting for.
The real...
You believe DR is this good at acting yeah? A guy you most likely think is an idiot and a fool and basically, an overall shit human being yeah?
Yet, you think he is THIS GOOD at acting? Just stop for a second and review the information that is staring you in the face.
Or don't, whatever.
All you have to do is calculate how old she is and then look up pictures or videos of people that have gotten botox injections and you should be able to notice that she has infact had botox injections.
At the very least, you should be able to admit that much. If not, then let's just agree to disagree.
I don't formulate my opinions based on emotions so in my book, facts matter and a the face of a woman nearly 40 years old, that spends a lot of time in the sun, does not look like her face even when you account for her diet. Again, look at her videos and watch her make faces. Look at videos from 2013 when Hale suggest she first started.
Also, What difference does it make to you? I mean, let's think about this for a second. You saw my comment and it must have done something to you to such an extent that you just had to drop a reply to it instead of say for example, making your own separate comment.
That is a fact. That is what you did. But why? Especially when you consider that there are so many other comments on this video that you could have replied to.
Again, you have every right to think whatever you want. It is your mind after all. It just strikes me as odd, that's all.
Good luck to you, Bruh.
Don't cry dad :(
I'm having trouble believing anything either of you say anymore.
And this is a private matter. You wouldn't post any of this unless it was for views/money. It's ridiculous.
finally someone said it
All of you that are happy to see this man's pain are in for the same thing down the road.
it sounds like she has a personality disorder
They both look instable
No she's a woman
I always thought she had narcissistic personality disorder
Lol I can agree with that, I am a woman myself.
Lmao these comments
Damn. I think this might be the first time I've actually felt your humanity through the screen Harley. Even though you're hurting, showing your vulnerability is the right choice for you- it connects you with people on a human level, and all the other shit falls away. All past disagreements I've had aside, I'm truly sorry you're going through this and I hope you heal and find peace. When you come out on the other side you'll be a stronger man.
durianrider this is why a fucking love you cause you are the realest person a live. ill always be watching
so true
me too. he rules
This is real, sure, but that vast majority of what he put out over the years was not.
The dogs on the street could tell Freelee was a manipulative bitch.
Not haters. I've been following Harley since he was raw and loved him. But after reading the way he was expressing himself about young women at the TFF I'm no a little disgusted. My comment will soon be deleted. Just go read them for yourself on FL's tumblr. And keep in mind, I am not a FL fan
Thanks i will love again.
Love you man, this is real. Off to the gym right now and drinking a big smoothie because of your daily inspiration. Keep your chin up and be the example that you want to set. You haven't let anyone down
Ummm this isn't right. yes it's possible that you two both were bad to eachother but it's not anywhere possible that you are a victim in this. If you watch Freelee's videos in the past you can see you portraying abusive behavior towards her (not physical but definitely emotional) through out your whole relationship people pointed out how abusive you were. You're bitter because you were dumped, so you are making shit up like you always do.
Peter Ratcliffe True sociopaths can cry on comand.
I have never looked up to you more Harley, there is no way that speaking out about abusive relationships could let us down. In my eyes you are stronger than ever today. Fall back into the support of your friends and keep pushing through this bullshit.
Stay strong bro, much love. More time for some epic rides and footage
Can everyone stop fucking leaving mean comments. Like its not your problems to judge & it probably takes a lot to put your emotions out on the Internet.
Who cares who's right or wrong! You're both better off not being in this toxic relationship! I wish you love and healing and peace of mind. Thanks for your honesty
It makes me so incredibly sad to hear this. You are such a kind man who only tries to help people and all people do in return is lie about you and slander your name. I hate that things between you two have come to this point. I wish you could both be happy. It sucks when people change from how you used to know them. You don't deserve this kind of treatment.
man... this sucks. I feel so bad for him... he is really hurting. I have gone through this same shit before, problem is most guys give their partners the benefit of the doubt and don't call them out of their shit... on their lies, or whatever.. so it's actually worse and blows up. I hope this guy will move on and find a new love and be happy again. I don't know him, i am not a subscriber, i just saw it on my recommended RUclips videos... i just genuinely feel for this guy. I know the feeling he is experiencing and it is brutal... shit I could never have made a video like this... he is a strong dude, which gives me hope he will pull through this and be alright! God bless you durianrider!!
DUUUUDE !!!
this is the first full vid ive seen of u and i 100% believe u.
I love Freelee for getting me off meat but ive ALWAYS hated the full on "fuck fuck fuck" and clapping coz I know that's what manipulators do at the very least and I dont even wanna think about what it would be like to date and argue with a person like that.
BTW im aussie so the accent doesn't get in my way of seeing the person behind the voice. I can see your tears are from feeling foolish for staying, not because u want her back. I feel for u man!!
Shit... I wrote that before 7 minutes , before u even said u had to use force on her and that's it... no man would admit that if not true. Shit. If ya need a mate that doesn't know your ex ... hit me up for a chat on FB
- Crissy Sims
thts gross.... dont flirt with strangers on youtube...
Harley I'm having a hard time seeing you upset this way
And you are perfect for him. According to the text I read from him, he likes them young and dumb. Ready to clean his bedroom
Love you dude. "Nothing is permanent" the Buddha. Sending you love, courage and peace. This too shall always fucking pass
My Tip to everybody, including you Harley! DONT SHARE TOO MUCH PRIVATE STUFF!
Don't make everything public on SocialMedia! Take some weeks or months off, meet people in private - no mobile phone etc ;)
Anyway. I think you will grow a lot by all this ...!
The guy is open up let he do it, it is good for him, he is coming out as honest.
I think Harley gets comfort when he shares things like this. What I'm worried about is the response video freelee will be making. She's going to call him a liar and twist everything that nobody will know who to believe.
i feel like we live in an age where the most obvious and common sense advice is now like gold... because the whole smartphone epidemic kills our natural intuition.
She really really does seem like the type to be the abusive one...I've been around abusers enough to see the signs. I mean listen to what she says at the end. she even flashed her muscles lol. nobody cares when the guy gets abused like"he's a wimp" "if he ate meat he would be able to fight back" bs! a girl CAN abuse a guy and it's not okay any more than a guy hurting a girl.
So sorry for what you've been through. No one deserves to be abused physically or verbally. I hope you can recover from your experience and come out a better person. Thank you for all your hard work in this movement!
hey mate, subscribed to your videos about 6months ago when I started cycling. Really good and honest advice. keep your head up bud most of us have all been through it. Anytime you want to come to the UK Southwest Dartmoor way. Give me a shout. Sending good vibes.
Hy !
Take care of yourself, man. I'm throwing some positive vibes your way.
although i don't always agree with what you say. I always thought you true to yourself and everyone else that follows you. Life will get better and we will still be here to support you!
oh my god Harley STAY STRONG! Thank you for sharing, you have inspired me for years.
honestly dont worry i followed you both but truthfully only YOU were the one that was giving real practical scientific advice. We can all see that freelee is now up her own ass........she might be going through a midlife crisis. YOU HAVE DONE SO MUCH THUS FAR AND YOU STILL HAVE ALOT TO DO ON THIS EARTH. KEEP ON SHINING.
I'm so sorry you had to go through this
and this is for sure not first world problems
Someone is a sex doll if they don't have kids? Wtf? So is he if she's one.
Alex I don't want to have any kids when I get older. I guess I'm sex doll now and nothing more. Wow, how objectifying.
I know exactly what it feels like to get a slam on the head out of nowhere. From my dads knuckles. He could have been in another part of the house, and in a flash, like a terrorist attacking heat-seeking missile, he would attack blaming me for something... for breaking some sort of rule I didn't even knew existed. He's been dead now for over 20 years, and I am 68. I still have ptsd from it, but not as much. We all love u Harley. You deserve better and you will find better in due season.
Seeing you this upset breaks my heart. I hope you heal from this, and continue doing what you do! xoxo
I'm quite shocked you would share such intimate information - I'm not saying it's right or wrong, I just didn't think you had a sensitive side!!
I'm a criminology student here in Spain and one of the things we learn about facial gestures it's that when the person is remembering something and telling the truth they roll their eyes to the right whereas if they look to the left they're thinking about what to say / lying and he has been looking to the left almost every single time (remember, on camera right is actually left) Also anyway, someone who bashes or "exposes" the cosmetic procedures of his ex girlfriend and even tries to play the victim as if he was some kind of angel well.. let me tell you that THIS right here indicates you have been abusive towards her. You did it in the past, you keep doing it know. How immature, what a shame!
You actually have it backwards. Looking to the right is when the person is said to be lying because looking to the right means you are accessing the left side of the brain. If you are looking to the left you are accessing the right side of the brain to access a memory of something, thereby telling the truth. All of that aside, this bit of misinformation has been debunked time and again. The latest study was in the UK by Richard Weisman. No one knows why it is still taught but I promise you it's false, a myth.
You have our full Support Harley. Your Passion and Advice has Helped changed thousands if not millions of lives. I'll keep you in my thoughts and Prayers for you to overcome this quickly and be filled with peace again. God Bless
Hey bro I have never wrote a comment on any channel at all befor but I decided to on this video, you have personally helped me in my life with the addictions I have had amongst other things I am by no means a vegan but I have been eating better because of you and also worked on my addictions because of you and a few other people but you as far as I can see are as honest as they come and I greatly appreciate that I wish I could do something for you anyway stay strong and let's battle through this together.
I've noticed when men call women on their lies, the women will always sacrifice people that love or care about them. With marketing everything is based on a lie cause that's just the nature of money. Your right when you say that fame and money brings out the evil in so many people out there. I'm am losing hope however trying to find honesty in and inspiration within relationships in a general sense. I can't seem to find it, we almost have only 2 seprate choices in life: Money or Love and people can't have both. You didn't let me down at all Durian, you are still and always will be an older role model to me. You and Freelee have changed my life for the better. I don't care about steriods or botox, I care about you and freelee as a spirit, life is short and this life is not the only existence to make a difference. For example if I can't find romance in this money driven reality then I have the afterlife to look forward to.
I'm so sorry this has happened to you and that everyone is turning against you. It seems you are pretty shaken up and rightly so. Know that while many people might turn against you, I am here for you and I stand by your truth and honesty.
who's up with me ???
me too :-(
+Yeah,Right well you must've been messing around with the wrong females if you believe that.
While that person is being sexist, I think many people don't feel love. I even questioned in a recent vid if most people's experience of love is real, or just using people to feel happy.
literally nearly brought me to tears. whether it's her fault or yours that doesn't matter. a relationship ending is the hardest thing in the world whether for the best or not.
What part of this video made you think this in anyway was his fault? If some body walked up to you punched you in the side of the head and said "well i dont know if it's your fault or mine so..." would you think that person was in their right mind? My point is it very much does matter, if you are living with someone that physical assaults you then you need to call the police.
the hardest thing in the world i guess it would be the death or a son/daughter for a parent...
were you chopping onions?
agree I feel his pain, I've been there and vowed never to ever get involved with anyone ever again....
Exactly lost my sister 3 months ago.
Some of you guys are so delusional I swear, as if you believe this is the '100% truth'
Simon Baker Exactly, you just said it all in one sentence. Sums up who he is
@@jordanbeales9749 You are right. Harley and Freelee were a YT construct to push veganism and 'introduce' new YTbers to the public. When they're job was 'finished', so were they...
Ive been thru this several times man. The only thing that will heal you is time my friend. You'll get thru this I promise.!!
Just wanna say there are still plenty of us here who care about you and want to keep supporting you. I've had major issues over the past year and a half with people close to me being dishonest, manipulative and disloyal, so I kinda know what it's like. The most important thing is to hold on to who you are, which I know is far easier said than done when it feels like your life has been torn apart. Look after yourself not only physically but mentally, be kind and compassionate to yourself. I really hope things get better for you.
Either one of you guys are lying or you're both lying...
i think they are both honest and were both abusing each other
Abuse is NEVER okay and I'm glad you got away from that.
I'm 1000% sure he abused her himself lol
I'm so sorry for you. I see the amount of pain you are in. FUCK, this sucks. You'll heal soon
I never really comment on videos, but seeing you in tears telling your story makes me sad for the both of you. I can remember watching you two back a few years ago when you lived simply & had the van. Another relationship that failed & lying and consumerism played a part.
Sad for you guys. I hope you both spend some time on yourselves because I see so much light in you guys. It sounds like the relationship was fairly toxic especially near the end, just know healing is around the corner. xx
This is the side of you people want to see, and I respect you so much for this video. The truth will always reward you! I am so sorry this has happened to you. She is terrible for treating you this way, no one should be treated like this
lol @ the sad music at the beginning of the vid. this is an oscar-worthy performance, bravo
It's not your fault you got abused. You deserve better. Forgive yourself you put up with it. Better things coming your way.
Well done on being duped and manipulated and not doing your own research on this situation
Teebz 1000 giving him the benefit of the doubt... and even with research nobody will know except both of them
Watch Vegan Gains' video on this. At least he had actual proof and evidence of things
VeganGains is an oxymoron, what gains?
Mark Lowe thats actyally what's I said first when I heard about his channel xD
Nothing can ease the sadness or pain that you're rightly feeling. I'm sorry meanness happened to you, no one should be abused in any way for any reason. I hope you're able to heal your heart, mind & spirit and eventually forgive everything that's happened, not for anyone's same except your own. Your inner peace is most important. I wish you well with everything. This video was heartbreaking for me to watch, I wanted to be there to hug you & let you know that things will be OK, it's not your fault..
Honestly, I understand why she would get botox. We're all human and we're all insecure sometimes and I don't think it's that big of a deal. What I don't think is okay EVER is lying or treating your partner disrespectfully. Yes, we make mistakes, but when it's an ongoing problem the relationship really isn't healthy anymore. I think it was best for both of you to end it.
I hope you can both get over your hurt feelings and pride and move on.
So insecurity is normal? Please explain this to me.
+Witcherworks of course insecurity is normal
Sasha LOL OK. Sad world with such sad people.
Sasha Well I guess it is if you look at the definition. "conforming to a standard" I am glad not to be normal. Seeing that it is subjective to the majority. Not the minority.
+youandme.vegan ♥ She has lied to her subscribers too, Botox is tested on animals, it goes deeper than her romantic relationship, and speaks to her hypocrisy and lack of character.