Doctors React To Shocking Sex Stories

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  • Опубликовано: 9 июл 2022
  • Sex Sent Me To The ER is a TLC show where actors re-enact actual medical emergencies that occurred during sex that resulted in an ER visit. It's cringey and incredible. Because the medical issues are so sex-focused, I decided to bring in an expert, Dr. Renal Malik, and Urologist and RUclipsr who specializes in sexual health! While the content of this video may be highly sexual and mature in nature, I think it's valuable information and we shouldn't shy away from talking about our sexual health, because it's just as important as everything else. In particular we talk about testicular torsion, penis pearling, getting your genitals stuck in a vacuum, the risk of nitropaste, ovulation, pop rocks in your vagina, calling the fire department to remove a metal ring, popsicle's burning your groin from being too cold, chastity belts, and an unstoppable 3-hour orgasm.
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Комментарии • 2,9 тыс.

  • @RenaMalikMD
    @RenaMalikMD Год назад +16774

    Thanks so much for having me! This was so much fun!

  • @waddles8927
    @waddles8927 Год назад +9957

    I love how the show tells all of these funny stories about how these ridiculous accidents happened through sex
    And then we just cut back to the two doctors professionally analyzing the situation
    Truly they are professionals

    • @LyrixNChill
      @LyrixNChill Год назад +151

      I have to believe there are some bloopers reels that made the cutting room floor. They are way too reserved throughout this crazy episode

    • @malin6594
      @malin6594 Год назад +143

      @@LyrixNChill I think they wanna make sure to not shame any of these people who have like sex accidents and not shame kinks too in that matter. Cause it already comes along with a lot of shame and seeing doctors making fun at these stuff would not be helpful. As a doctor you want people to be comfortable enough to see a doctor when smth like that happens. Not like doing self surgical with a hammer on your genitals instead. I am glad that they stayed more serious for this video.

    • @graealex
      @graealex Год назад +9

      Okay, you people here need to realize that every single person in that show is a paid actor, nothing actually happened, and everyone is on in it.
      There is literally no possibility of actually shaming, and the patients slash actors basically admit to things that have never happened.
      On the other hand, they are somewhat making fun of people that actually have had these kinds of accidents, by having people pretend these situations, which is basically coming from the fantasy of the authors of the show. Particularly the unnecessary details. Like what relevance did it have why the guy was wearing the chastity belt for example.

    • @LyrixNChill
      @LyrixNChill Год назад +27

      @@graealex Yes… I think most everyone realizes these are dramatic reenactments of sex stories from the E.R. It’s part of the fun. Newsflash, the Avengers and Infinity Wars isn’t 100% historically factual either

    • @LyrixNChill
      @LyrixNChill Год назад +10

      @@malin6594 oh absolutely, they have to keep their professional decorum on camera. They are working professionals with real life patients watching this… I can just imagine the jokes to be had when the cameras AREN’T running or maybe they just keep them in their head

  • @wolfy336
    @wolfy336 Год назад +3280

    The way Dr. Rena Malik talks so bluntly and confidently about this stuff really takes the awkwardness out of the situation that I feel should be there. She must be great when talking to her patients! I'd feel a lot more comfortable with someone as straightforward as her.

    • @savednorwegian
      @savednorwegian Год назад +38

      True, I agree, many doctors would learn lots from her

    • @TerryProthero
      @TerryProthero Год назад +37

      Absolutely. I think what she said is very true about people making it more awkward than it needs to be, because they aren't straight forward about it.

    • @hypercrow9563
      @hypercrow9563 Год назад +12

      Some things make absolutely no sense, sex is literally THE ONE THING that keeps our continued existence, why the hell would it be awkward? Once you start actively thinking about it, it makes humankind as a whole look stupid

    • @death2boredom338
      @death2boredom338 Год назад +5

      Monetization wise though 😂

    • @tridibmondal9148
      @tridibmondal9148 Год назад +4

      I don't know why some guys think its rare we aren't blunt about this. Doctors deal with way too much of these that they aren't embarrased or ashamed.

  • @thebestpickle
    @thebestpickle Год назад +1317

    imagine if you're in the hospital and you hear "a popsicle is not a sex toy" coming from the room across the hall

    • @pixurumaa
      @pixurumaa 11 месяцев назад +54

      i'd probably assume that i was hallucinating

    • @TigerLily12345
      @TigerLily12345 10 месяцев назад +31

      ​@@pixurumaaI'd assume I was dreaming and just go back to sleep

    • @Potatomanisgreat
      @Potatomanisgreat 5 месяцев назад +11

      I'd die laughing

    • @isabellahart35
      @isabellahart35 4 месяца назад +4

      👀👀👀

    • @acelovesdiyschristopher7023
      @acelovesdiyschristopher7023 4 месяца назад +4

      ​@@Potatomanisgreatimagine if the other person heard u tho. Itd still be hilarious but id feel so bad if I was them. I'd still laugh tho.😂

  • @safam5947
    @safam5947 Год назад +4969

    I appreciate them having the maturity not to laugh or be shy talking about this stuff educationally. It should be done more.

    • @saschamayer4050
      @saschamayer4050 Год назад +230

      Well they ARE doctors, practicing medicine. 😋
      On the other hand, I had a biology teacher who could'nt talk about sex ed without getting a deeply red head. 😅

    • @itsytyt5192
      @itsytyt5192 Год назад +6

      Vf

    • @KikiChan_007
      @KikiChan_007 Год назад +91

      With them being doctors, it would be weird if they were shy and awkward about it

    • @cleargreen123456789
      @cleargreen123456789 Год назад +31

      @@KikiChan_007 and if they laughed(/mocked the situation), it could deter people from going to doctors with something like this

    • @PetCactusA_HarmlessLittlePrick
      @PetCactusA_HarmlessLittlePrick Год назад +12

      .."the maturity not to laugh"... I wonder if there were more outtakes from this video compared to others on this channel.🤔

  • @angrychickadee4456
    @angrychickadee4456 Год назад +4696

    I second the importance that "men always want sex" isn't something we should teach women and girls! It creates unrealistic expectations in relationships and can be dehumanizing to our partners

    • @TrashCanBoiBoi
      @TrashCanBoiBoi Год назад +308

      As a guy I'll add to this. It is true that we want sex sometimes, but it's not all the time. Thank you for this comment

    • @felvkitties8
      @felvkitties8 Год назад +171

      True some people are asexual meaning they are fine medically but aren't interested in adult fun time. They show love in other ways :). Too much importance is placed on that one thing in our society. I mean you probably not going to be doing it when you 80 anyway so you better have more in common than just that lol

    • @KaitouKaiju
      @KaitouKaiju Год назад +142

      It isn't something you should teach anyone tbh

    • @buttssanchez6763
      @buttssanchez6763 Год назад +169

      @@felvkitties8 I mean it's not even that extreme all the time. Sometimes guys just aren't interested at the moment. Contrary to what society might say, no, guys are not always angling for sex at every moment of the day.

    • @arthurgarcia7775
      @arthurgarcia7775 Год назад +66

      Men don't want sex all the time, yeah maybe when you're in your teens and early 20's the testosterone is high, and that they may think of it more than others that are older than them lol, when you get older and in a relationship, you start getting anxious trying to think of what to watch while enjoying your food that is getting cold quickly lol. If you're newlyweds I will say that the adult fun time is normal for like 3 or 4 times a week, but that fizzles out to like 2 or 3 times a week, to once a week, to about once a month. If you manage once a day you've got high estrogen for women and high testosterone for men lol

  • @madi574
    @madi574 Год назад +728

    I'm so happy that PGAD is being discussed! It was always so embarrassing for me growing up so I never talked about it with my doctors. When I did, they had no idea what was wrong until they learned about PGAD. It was such a relief to finally know what was going on after years of tests and potential diagnoses that never quite fit. Hopefully this will help people get diagnosed or bring awareness :)

    • @metzli5797
      @metzli5797 Год назад +24

      Do they have effective ways to manage the condition now? I remember seeing a documentary that included the condition many years ago and the women suffering from it just seemed completely defeated.

    • @kimothy996
      @kimothy996 Год назад

      @@metzli5797 not really. There is still no cure, and there’s still a severe lack of knowledge around PGAD especially within the medical community. A few people find relief, most haven’t found their own cure at this time. There are around 25+ known causes of PGAD, including anti depressants like SSRIs (I know they talked about most losing sexual desire which happens. Very few do result in causing PGAD. Oftentimes it can result from coming off of SSRIs, especially when rushed off of these meds).
      If anyone reading this thinks they have PGAD or some other sexual dysfunctions, pls see a specialist. You have no reason to feel embarrassed for treating these kinds of conditions. Cost is a barrier, however so few docs are properly educate in sexual dysfunctions that often times you have to pay completely out of pocket for proper medical advice and treatment.

    • @kellyhoward6941
      @kellyhoward6941 Год назад +16

      @@metzli5797 It's a really complicated issue; there can be many causes. IMO (which is not an uninformed opinion), much of the defeated feeling comes from the fact that it's almost impossible to find people (including doctors!) who don't make fun of it & say things like "I wish I had that, sounds great, what are you complaining about!!" It not only can totally screw up every aspect of your life, it can be incredibly painful. Some causes (like cysts or tumors on certain parts of the spine) can be taken care of. It can be almost impossible to determine the cause, tho, which makes it really iffy about finding treatment.

  • @TJrcTX
    @TJrcTX Год назад +900

    I love how someone with the name “Rena” is an urologist. So fitting.
    For those who don’t get it: the kidneys are part of the renal system which the tie into the urinary system

    • @Comicwriter232
      @Comicwriter232 Год назад +36

      and they misspelled her name as "Renal" in the description! oof

    • @savednorwegian
      @savednorwegian Год назад +16

      I got it, its funny. She knows her field tho and has great understanding of mens issues which I admire and is quite rare in my opinion (imo)

    • @savednorwegian
      @savednorwegian Год назад +2

      @@Comicwriter232 Lol thats true, hilarious

    • @siddharthreddy8980
      @siddharthreddy8980 Год назад +3

      Well renal specialists are technically called Nephrologists and they are quite different from Urologists. So not very fitting if you think about it.

    • @Kece89
      @Kece89 Год назад +1

      @@Comicwriter232 And it's still not fixed 🤣🤣

  • @1snivy10
    @1snivy10 Год назад +5275

    The acting in this show is ridiculous, but I love the conversations it starts. Sexual health is important and it's important to talk about it! It's also important to talk about how there's nothing embarrassing or wrong about sex, even the most extreme kinks. Safety and consent are #1.

    • @hawaiianwater1913
      @hawaiianwater1913 Год назад +66

      Yeah as long as the baby factory is clean and stuff then you should be fine

    • @ricecooker7037
      @ricecooker7037 Год назад +21

      Tbh I know a guy that’s into chastity because he’s into being controlled.

    • @jackpfefferkorn3734
      @jackpfefferkorn3734 Год назад +69

      Safe, Sane, and Consensual is like the holy trinity of kink. Most of the people on the show were 1 for 3!

    • @kurotsuki7427
      @kurotsuki7427 Год назад +25

      And lube! Lots of lube!

    • @Mama_Bear524
      @Mama_Bear524 Год назад +17

      I was going to say!! Terrible acting but good for having conversations

  • @terrafirma5327
    @terrafirma5327 Год назад +3213

    My ex-wife coerced me and I had no idea it was happening because of our culture. Years later I realized it was sexual abuse and it happened very often. Guys don't always want sex and I was being verbally/emotionally/physically abused as well by her, so my libido was not there. However there was an expectation, and since I didn't want sex she would go into a spiral about "I don't think she is sexy", crying and accusing until I did it.
    Don't treat men like tools. Also, don't treat women like objects. We are all human...

    • @canesugar911
      @canesugar911 Год назад +72

      To be fair you should have told her that you weren't into it. Because yeah, sexual relations are a part of marriages.

    • @terrafirma5327
      @terrafirma5327 Год назад +206

      @@canesugar911 I was Mormon and I couldn't say that... I'm not Mormon anymore.

    • @canesugar911
      @canesugar911 Год назад +25

      @@terrafirma5327 i meant tell her you are not sexually interested like at all and not just "not in the mood".

    • @terrafirma5327
      @terrafirma5327 Год назад +255

      @@canesugar911 I don't think you understand. I was expected to be a parent and be sexually active. I was a brainwashed servant of the great Mormon dogma. I've grown since then. Getting married at 21 was not great, for many reasons

    • @canesugar911
      @canesugar911 Год назад +52

      @@terrafirma5327 okay so i particularly choose to reply to your comment because you mentioned "culture". Because we(where I'm from) have a culture where sex before marriage is not advised and sex during a marriage is a spousal duty. And denying your spouse sex without valid reasons are grounds for divorce and annulment. I have seen that happen. Also average age for marriage is 19. So there is that expectation. Parent or not. Im not American btw.
      Anyways it seems that you are no longer part of that sect. Good for you.

  • @emmadowell3526
    @emmadowell3526 Год назад +77

    Mortician here. For that last clip, wakes and funerals at the home of the loved one used to be very common. They don't happen nearly as frequently, but still occasionally do.

    • @susanmcavoy9213
      @susanmcavoy9213 2 месяца назад

      I'm 71 now but when I was about 13/14 a friend asked me to go to the city to her grandmother's funeral, needless to say I was uncomfortable and shocked when I saw her in her living room in a coffin. 😱

    • @FM-lt1hz
      @FM-lt1hz 2 месяца назад

      Here in ireland wakes are very common! The funeral happens very quickly after the death, and usually the body is kept in the home the day before the actual service for close family to pay respects. That's been my experience anyway.

    • @gemh89
      @gemh89 Месяц назад +2

      ​@@FM-lt1hzScotland, too. Funeral is sad, serious, sombre time- wake is drinky celebration of their life time

  • @lauraelliott6909
    @lauraelliott6909 Год назад +76

    I used to disregard medical advice about protecting your skin while using ice packs. I have chronic neck pain and use ice packs daily. One time, I not only used one without a cloth between it and my skin, but I was re-using an instant cold pack (the kind you have to pop a membrane inside so chemicals will react and get cold instantly). They specifically state not to refreeze them, but I still did it because they were extra cold and stayed cold way longer. Well, sure enough I did get frost burn on the back of my neck. It was painful, red and swollen. Over the next week or so, the skin got crusty and peeled off. I never tried that again. Live and learn.

  • @nbt1856
    @nbt1856 Год назад +3242

    So glad to see doctors discussing SSRI’s and the decline in sex drive, mine went away completely. I also couldn’t… reach my final destination 😅 I switched and it’s been so much better since!

    • @sleepyote
      @sleepyote Год назад +104

      I can't reach it either because of meds, but still have a regular sex drive. It's frustrating af lol.

    • @MixR700
      @MixR700 Год назад +71

      I got the really wicked combo of increased drive without being able to "arrive" which put in a very bad mood on Cymbalta lmao

    • @nbt1856
      @nbt1856 Год назад +45

      It is incredibly frustrating isn’t it? I could carry on and sometimes I would get there but it wasn’t quite the same as before and it really upset me, which ironically impacted my mental health.

    • @shyteeth
      @shyteeth Год назад +22

      @@nbt1856 same here, except also just really low libido. it's also put a lot of strain on long term relationships for me as well. it's been like 6 years though and different medications either haven't helped much or only made it worse lol, at this point i've just kind of accepted that it's just probably something i won't get to fix for a really long time and intentionally haven't dated anyone in years with only occasional superficial hookups. the only thing that's helped at all is taking wellbutrin at the same time as my SSRIs but i also think its made me kinda crazy lol :/

    • @zerobatsu
      @zerobatsu Год назад +1

      Glad you figured it out. It’s so Annoying.

  • @mdroberg
    @mdroberg Год назад +1791

    The vacuum cleaner thing happened to a guy who came into the ER when I was about 7 and there for a sprained ankle they thought was broken. Mom was trying desperately to keep me oblivious while trying not to laugh hysterically.

  • @mayanorman2905
    @mayanorman2905 Год назад +241

    Ugh so glad you’re reacting to this! One of my favorite medical shows of all time. Hilarious and surprisingly informational.

  • @SammiJB94
    @SammiJB94 Год назад +51

    8:17....the screams from the actor were killing me LOL

  • @LJStability
    @LJStability Год назад +1314

    PSA from the hospital. Please don't be embarrassed to tell us about this stuff. It may be extremely odd to tell a doctor but that's what we are here for. We are more worried about you getting an infection or something serious. Once those are taken care of, we can laugh with you at the situation. Just be careful out there!

    • @furbait3442
      @furbait3442 Год назад +8

      *the embarrasment of talking about your private parts drops down to 0* for real do you legit expect people to be more open about the one thing they are most private about?

    • @uwskie8672
      @uwskie8672 Год назад +68

      @@furbait3442 well it's either that or chop chop goes that dong

    • @TunaPetunia456
      @TunaPetunia456 Год назад +51

      @@uwskie8672 "Chop chop goes that dong" I'm dead 💀

    • @cleargreen123456789
      @cleargreen123456789 Год назад +1

      What if they don't want to laugh at it ...

    • @reaper2604
      @reaper2604 Год назад +2

      @@uwskie8672 why you gotta say it like that😂

  • @SanC224
    @SanC224 Год назад +2551

    I really appreciate the fact that Dr. Mike reacted to this show, since sex is considered such a taboo in many regions of the world. I hope many fans like me would learn something new today and wouldn't repeat the mistakes those fellows in the show did. Thank you for the video😸

    • @chickensandhorses5682
      @chickensandhorses5682 Год назад +39

      @@GlorifiedGremlin I don't know. At least where I'm from in the U.S.A, most people think it's taboo to talk about. Although in lots of places I'm sure it's even worse.

    • @hawaiianwater1913
      @hawaiianwater1913 Год назад +2

      @@GlorifiedGremlin Yeah americans dgaf what doctors say about sex lmao at least here in Texas

    • @furbait3442
      @furbait3442 Год назад +3

      What? What does religion has to do with this? It is not "taboo" to make people keep certain things a "secret" and in private.

    • @furbait3442
      @furbait3442 Год назад

      What do you mean taboo? It is not considered taboo it is considered rude. Only mentally unstable people talk about those things openly.

    • @naolucillerandom5280
      @naolucillerandom5280 Год назад +13

      @@furbait3442 they said REGION
      Also religions like to get really personal and specific about how to do the "top secret" stuff.

  • @dr.kikipsychnp5731
    @dr.kikipsychnp5731 Год назад +55

    I was an ER nurse, and we had a patient come in who ended up having to have surgery in her vagina because we cannot stop the bleeding that was happening. The whole time the patient told us that it was because her partner was “” large“. Obviously, that was not the case, but she refused to tell us actually what happened. Let’s just say that we have all seen some stuff go on and come into the ER especially things that have been inserted.

  • @journeysoutloud1990
    @journeysoutloud1990 Год назад +90

    I've actually had a ovarian cyst rupture while having sex. That wasn't really pleasant. To be honest that and having my vaginal walls clamped down on my partner was one of my couple of horror stories.

    • @plague_doctor0237
      @plague_doctor0237 Год назад +4

      God that's so painful

    • @sydneykasahararuns
      @sydneykasahararuns 5 месяцев назад

      I had one once, And its ruptuerd when I was in the middle of a XC race for state championships lol :/

    • @anablackwood6141
      @anablackwood6141 4 месяца назад +1

      Yuck I'm so sorry. I have endo so I understand pain but geez...I imagine a cyst was SO much worse

  • @51Saffron
    @51Saffron Год назад +710

    I had a friend who worked in a European ER, and she said the excuses for how things got there was very creative.

    • @terrafirma5327
      @terrafirma5327 Год назад +68

      Leaving us hanging? No examples?

    • @MuddyPigg
      @MuddyPigg Год назад

      @@terrafirma5327 Usually it's, I slipped and fell on it. ' It ' being lubed up and covered with a condom. Or fell in the shower and that bottle just slipped up there.ect.

    • @evilsharkey8954
      @evilsharkey8954 Год назад +101

      “I was getting ready to take a shower, and some one left it laying around, and then I slipped and fell on it, and it just went right in and got stuck”

    • @itsytyt5192
      @itsytyt5192 Год назад

      Bv

    • @savednorwegian
      @savednorwegian Год назад +7

      @@terrafirma5327 Oh, just let your imagination run wild. Im sure you'll think of something hehe

  • @Maxwellish
    @Maxwellish Год назад +1089

    i’ve always thought it was odd that parents never tell kids the correct terminology for their body,
    it leads to shame, embarrassment, and it’s just silly.

    • @mirjanbouma
      @mirjanbouma Год назад +150

      Not only that, if a child tells someone that [family member] did something to their [stupid euphemism], that child will not get help, while it's the victim of SA. There's a story circulating about a girl who complained about her uncle touching her "cookie"... Yeah. 😢

    • @itsytyt5192
      @itsytyt5192 Год назад +1

      Jh

    • @katherinep708
      @katherinep708 Год назад +24

      yeah, they probably were affected by cultures and (outdated) norms. glad it's changing now though.

    • @jomac841
      @jomac841 Год назад +17

      @@mirjanbouma 100% this

    • @michaelbriggs3787
      @michaelbriggs3787 Год назад +28

      @@mirjanbouma I feel like all parents shouldn’t be shy to tell their kids about what the right terminology is, the parents shouldn’t be embarrassed themselves to tell them I understand it’s normal to be shy to tell them but you shouldn’t be scared to tell them and again it’s normal to feel uncomfortable telling them but you shouldn’t be scared to tell them

  • @julianneburns8584
    @julianneburns8584 Год назад +11

    Thank you so much, both of you, for talking about medicine online! I am SO grateful to have trustworthy sources present information in a way that I understand!! I feel like I understand so much more about my body and my overall health than I probably ever would without people like you!!

  • @Jessandahai
    @Jessandahai Год назад +5

    I love the way they talk so openly with no awkwardness

  • @abyssoftus
    @abyssoftus Год назад +575

    Dr. Mike, you need to have "Ask a Mortician" on the show she can answer many of your after-life care questions. Funerals in the home used to be very common and some people still prefer to go that route.

    • @mirjanbouma
      @mirjanbouma Год назад +21

      Yes! I'd love a Caitlin & Mike collab

    • @autumnshaymartin
      @autumnshaymartin Год назад +28

      @@mirjanbouma they have collabed before! you can find it if you search "caitlin doughty dr mike"

    • @mirjanbouma
      @mirjanbouma Год назад +7

      @@autumnshaymartin thanks!

    • @jennytaylor3986
      @jennytaylor3986 Год назад +13

      Ah yes, I actually came to say this. He's had her on the show before, but it'd be good to see them talk about this kind of thing. Love Caitlin Doughty : )

    • @HSMfanatic17
      @HSMfanatic17 Год назад +3

      @@autumnshaymartin Thank you!

  • @d-jet8568
    @d-jet8568 Год назад +288

    The amount of secondhand pain I felt through this video is unreal

    • @viltrumite_mario
      @viltrumite_mario Год назад +2

      @ D-Jet same! 🤢

    • @Jay_0605
      @Jay_0605 Год назад +6

      Right. It was so painful lol

    • @sorayashahi
      @sorayashahi Год назад

      I had to stop at 5:30. It was too painful.

    • @emilyjuicy023
      @emilyjuicy023 Год назад +2

      Ya I had to cross my legs to avoid clicking off the video

    • @heya4530
      @heya4530 Год назад

      Yea same😊

  • @itoshiibaka8267
    @itoshiibaka8267 Год назад +4

    Thank you for saying that men don't always have to want sex or make themselves look strong. Everyone will be happier if we all speak openly about our needs and wants and respect each other.

  • @clairejones624
    @clairejones624 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for this collaboration! Dr. Rena Malik did a couple of collaborations with Mama Doctor Jones (Dr. Danielle Jones) as well.

  • @michaelbutler1619
    @michaelbutler1619 Год назад +575

    I’m genuinely surprised that none of the clips you reacted to included somebody with a foreign object stuck in their butt. I had a firefighter EMT classmate in college, and 9/10 of her calls were for something being stuck up there.

    • @timb2895
      @timb2895 Год назад +12

      He made a video about that

    • @BlackCatsAndCorgis
      @BlackCatsAndCorgis Год назад +72

      They also always "fell on it".

    • @captainahab5522
      @captainahab5522 Год назад +17

      I always wonder how did people deal with things getting stuck before proper healthcare

    • @luvahadowsdolls
      @luvahadowsdolls Год назад +30

      LOL yes, my dad does ambulance calls and they get a few like that, usually from the same dude. When it came down to a pickle jar they had to explain that if it broke he could sever an artery and bleed out. Hopefully he switched to silicone...

    • @michaelbutler1619
      @michaelbutler1619 Год назад +23

      @@luvahadowsdolls The worst call my classmate got was for an apparent opioid overdose. When she got to the house, she was greeted by a distraught housewife who led her and the other EMTs to her 50-something husband. He was comatose, had his pants and underwear around his ankles, and had an empty oxycontin bottle shoved up his butt. After a squirt of naloxone up the nose, a trip to the ER, and some IV fluids, he was brought back to his home angry at them for sobering him up. When they asked why he stuck the empty bottle up there, he said that he stole it from his neighbor, and wanted to hide the evidence.

  • @meowmix8610
    @meowmix8610 Год назад +674

    Wondering what people think …I had a dr a couple years ago diagnose me with HIV without running an HIV test. Sat me down and told me and my friend. It was bad and I was upset. He then ran the test to confirm, and it was negative. I went from him saying I was dying of aids because of a specific pneumonia, to just fine and discharged. I was baffled for weeks. 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @eb4676
      @eb4676 Год назад +142

      Should report that doctor.

    • @meowmix8610
      @meowmix8610 Год назад +4

      @@eb4676 not sure where 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @samiraperi467
      @samiraperi467 Год назад +38

      Certain infections are typical on people with weakened immune response, e.g. AIDS patients. I wouldn't say you're *fine* if you have pneumonia of any kind, but at least you don't have AIDS.

    • @kaylapayne1427
      @kaylapayne1427 Год назад +41

      @@meowmix8610 Doctors are registered with colleges to maintain their license. Not sure where you live but, for example in Canada we have "The College of Physicians and Surgeons" if you call the equivalent of this where you live, you can file a complaint.

    • @udubeats4543
      @udubeats4543 Год назад +33

      Report that doctor to the hospital and to your state's (or outside US your country's) medical board.

  • @amittoren2448
    @amittoren2448 Год назад +16

    4:53 KILLED ME HOLY JESUS

  • @Ava-zq9lk
    @Ava-zq9lk 8 месяцев назад +14

    I've never been embarrassed by this stuff, because my mom is a nurse so it was always Vagina, uterus, not cutesy names like hooha or private parts. If there were any concerns, they were openly discussed. It kind of shocked me when my friends wouldn't talk about their periods or hid their pads/tampons. Like I would be complaining about my period and they'd say "keep your voice down! Do you want the whole world to know that you're on your period?" And it just confused me so much haha

  • @bridgetolivant5296
    @bridgetolivant5296 Год назад +561

    watching Dr. mike makes me want to be a doctor.. but then i remember i don’t have the patience or social skills for it lol. he’s got such a genuine & kind soul. keep up the good work man! :)

    • @Spook-y
      @Spook-y Год назад +8

      And I have extreme anxiety from seeing blood, which is why I want to be a dentist instead.

    • @mariamalafifi6286
      @mariamalafifi6286 Год назад +2

      And I am blind, which prevents me from being a doctor.

    • @chickensandhorses5682
      @chickensandhorses5682 Год назад +1

      @@Spook-y I'm glad you're finding a career that you would love!
      Do keep in mind that dentists do often see at least some amount of blood (from bleeding of the gums, for example).
      And doctors don't always see a lot of blood. While being a resident or in med school, you likely have to perform surgeries and blood draws, many other medical careers don't deal with blood on a day to day basis.
      I totally understand though. While I'm not very scared of blood, social communication stressed me out. I also have a phobia of medical things that have to do with my mouth, as I had a traumatic operation (that I don't believe was done in the way it should have) and now am scared of going to see the dentist, orthodontist, etc. (And joy, I'm getting my wisdom teeth out this summer...)
      Good luck! You've got this!

    • @chickensandhorses5682
      @chickensandhorses5682 Год назад +6

      I can totally relate. I wish I could be a doctor (for humans) but I have terrible social skills (diagnosed with autism and social/general anxiety disorder)
      I don't have a lot of patience, unless it's one of the few enjoyable things for me.
      Luckily I'm planning to work somewhere in veterinary medicine, which while it will surely be stressful, it hopefully will help to be caring for animals, which are my passion.

    • @Spook-y
      @Spook-y Год назад +1

      @@chickensandhorses5682 I don't mean from the gums I mean like seeing blood go through tubes and just the smell of the buildings aswell

  • @g3orgge788
    @g3orgge788 Год назад +123

    Doctor Rena is so professional talking about stuff most people would laugh nonstop at.

    • @Mama_Bear524
      @Mama_Bear524 Год назад +12

      Because she’s a doctor

    • @reallymanas
      @reallymanas Год назад +6

      @@Mama_Bear524 and that's what doctors do..

  • @deletedOM
    @deletedOM Год назад +5

    I recently started watched your videos, and me and my father watch them together. All of a sudden, I realize when I play your videos when I’m in my room, my bird chirps along and watches them with me! Didn’t let Tango watch this video though, she’s too young.
    Keep it up! Love your content!

  • @susanmcavoy9213
    @susanmcavoy9213 2 месяца назад +3

    Those people are insane!!! Great show!

  • @Saimeren
    @Saimeren Год назад +192

    You should have this lady on more often. Do more of these, this was fun.

  • @Koroistro
    @Koroistro Год назад +118

    This made me remember, I got circumcised at 27 because of phimosis (foreskin so tight the glans can't get out), It was a fairly routine operation, that went well.
    However, for two or four night - given that during sleep spontaneous erections happen - the stitches were so tight that I was in wailing pain.
    Luckily for me, the stitches didn't rupture, however doctors shouldn't dismiss patient's concerns, my post-surgery attending told me that "nobody had ever complained" about post-surgical pain, and that made the experience so much worse.
    Please when you have concerns, and somehow doctors are dismissive, do insist, don't assume that they necessarily know of every possible scenario. In my case it was because my girth was on the upper five percentiles, nobody asked before the surgery, nobody inquired about my question after that.

    • @SomeBody-ce3gq
      @SomeBody-ce3gq 7 месяцев назад

      I feel sorry for you but also admire your thick thing 😂

  • @MirceaLazar
    @MirceaLazar 2 месяца назад +1

    Love it! Such insightful understanding of our psycho-emotional conditioning!

  • @fluffycak3s
    @fluffycak3s Год назад +39

    My bf and I tried a new position with sex and it ended up popping my ribs very badly. Had to go see a doctor and I was blunt and honest with them. " Bf and I tried something new in bed, new position, here's the situation of what happened and that is why I am here now." Said that but with more information since the doctor was a surgeon and needed to know EXACTLY what happened to make a proper diagnosis.
    Needless to say, I needed a 2nd opinion. Went to a walk in clinic and they sent me for xrays and went through a breathing test to make sure the lung wasn't punctured or restricted in anyway. Im happy to say a Doctor at a walk in clinic saved my life at 16 y.o, and I'm glad one was able to help me again at 25 y.o. Im currently 26 now, recently smashed my thumb in my vehicle door... Might lose the nail *BUT A DOCTOR HELPED ME BY GIVING A TETANUS SHOT AND RELEIVING THE PAIN, better to be safe rather than sorry*
    * *GO GET A 2ND OPINION IF YOU CAN* * here in Canada, its a different Healthcare system then the USA.

    • @assetaden6662
      @assetaden6662 Год назад

      So you went for a 2nd opinion without getting the diagnosis? Uh...

  • @chubbybunny6975
    @chubbybunny6975 Год назад +279

    My favourite episodes of this show were the couple that tried to melt a 5 pound gummy bear to use like hot wax, and the wife got 3rd degree burns all over her chest, and the older couple trying to spice up their sex life by putting a cordless bullet vibrator in the husband's butt where it obviously got sucked right up into his GI tract, while trying to not let their teenage son know what's going on despite them being in the ER.

    • @CraftyVegan
      @CraftyVegan Год назад +46

      It’s so weird when people don’t get that melted sugar is hella hot… and with candles, you still need special soft soy wax candles instead of paraffin or beeswax candles so you don’t get 1st or 2nd degree burns from the wax.

    • @HSMfanatic17
      @HSMfanatic17 Год назад +11

      Aww, poor guy. I'm confused as to how a vibrator gets sucked up into the GI though- my ex had to actively block it from coming out of me.

    • @Psilomuscimol
      @Psilomuscimol 2 месяца назад

      ​@@HSMfanatic17. Wasn't long/deep/shaped right for you

    • @Psilomuscimol
      @Psilomuscimol 2 месяца назад

      Also because butt toys need a large base

  • @mr_mid_night
    @mr_mid_night Год назад +65

    Being asexual (I don’t experience sexual attraction towards anyone) I know many male ace’s that I’ve interacted with online who’ve really struggled because of the stereotype surrounding men always being in the mood so thank you for shedding some light on that briefly on their behalf!
    (Also, sex isn’t everything but ace’s can and still do enjoy it even if it doesn’t mean anything to us in the way it does to people who feel sexual attraction, so I wish some people would be more understanding and cut ace’s who enjoy sex a little slack when it comes to the being in the mood department).

    • @Criner05
      @Criner05 5 месяцев назад +1

      Do you believe asexuality is a spectrum? Like someone is only attracted to someone if there's a romantic interest? I personally believe asexual means absolutely no sexual attraction ever of any kind. It'd kinda be like calling yourself an atheist but you believe some religions are true while others aren't.

    • @edithgruber2125
      @edithgruber2125 3 месяца назад

      ​@@Criner05 people often confuse sexual attraction with sexual desire / libido. Asexuality describes the absence of attraction to anyone but these people can still experience sexual desire, just not focused on any person. Masturbation is an option or having sex with a partner despite not feeling the same attraction as your partner but you still enjoy the physical side of it.
      Then there is also a spectrum of asexuality that describes different ways people may still feel attraction to others in some circumstances. They are usually grouped under the umbrella of greysexuality, e.g. some people only experience sexual attraction after establishing a close emotional bond with someone. That's called demisexual. Then there are also people who experience attraction but only as long as it isn't reciprocated. As soon as they get a reaction from the other person, their feelings disappear. That's called lithosexual. In recent years, the understanding of human sexuality has increased significantly and there are many new categories on the greysexual spectrum that describe people's experiences better. You can find more online, if you're interested. AVEN is a good place where to start.

  • @hanakokunsimp5477
    @hanakokunsimp5477 Год назад +45

    The kids that watch dr mike 👁👄👁

    • @Therian649
      @Therian649 Месяц назад +2

      𝓨𝓾𝓹

    • @tallulahxsa
      @tallulahxsa Месяц назад

      This video should probably be age restricted 😂

    • @vince_kelley
      @vince_kelley Месяц назад

      @@tallulahxsaI was about to say, like why is it not?

    • @StrawberryStation223
      @StrawberryStation223 5 дней назад

      Fr like, “ what’s sex?”

  • @Buzingle
    @Buzingle 4 месяца назад +1

    Amazing vid Mike as always!

  • @tttITA10
    @tttITA10 Год назад +16

    7:59 - This girl is too happy in seeing the fire department.

  • @pmbluemoon
    @pmbluemoon Год назад +54

    I have to say, it's oddly refreshing to see people be non-judgemental to our human follies. Thank you for this video, I love that show and this was interesting to see how you react!

  • @m.5748
    @m.5748 Год назад +1

    Very Interesting Video!
    Enjoyed Both Dr's discussing the Medical ⚕ DX'S and TX'S,
    and the actors were comical!
    Thanks!

  • @savednorwegian
    @savednorwegian Год назад +2

    This and these reenactments were to silly and awkward to me but Dr Malik is a very professional and good doctor

  • @loldoll97
    @loldoll97 Год назад +36

    I’m happy that people watching this are mature.

  • @amitybostaph3085
    @amitybostaph3085 Год назад +79

    Doctor Mike, your videos like this talking about how to be comfortable with your doctor had made me be able to see my doctor as someone I can be comfortable, and able to speak to normally about my sexual life and truly made an impact on my overall comfort at the doctors office thank you!

    • @etoinedevries7583
      @etoinedevries7583 Год назад +3

      While I haven't had talks with my doctor about anything really personal like sex and genitals, I too feel more comfortable to open up to my doctor if I need to talk about those things.

  • @ophzlia
    @ophzlia Год назад +2

    the acting was so amazing in these episodes totally

  • @komiismywaifu7616
    @komiismywaifu7616 Год назад +12

    You can see Mike’s face drop with the lolly one 3:13

  • @Charlie-ib3du
    @Charlie-ib3du Год назад +30

    Lol, how you both laughed at the pun at 8:22 XD

  • @sufficientphrase7769
    @sufficientphrase7769 Год назад +58

    I've been on SSRIs my whole life. Very low sex drive. Enough that I was worried. Changed to a SNRI and NDRI combo for other reasons and Jesus Christ did that change. 😳 It got to the point where I was ALWAYS "in the mood" but after a couple months that calmed down. Sometimes it crops back up but it's not nearly as bad. This combo is the best thing that ever happened to me so I'm sticking with it.

  • @luvahadowsdolls
    @luvahadowsdolls Год назад +5

    Dr. Mike, I'd be interested to see you do a video on Olympic injuries (Kerri Strug, Elena Mukhina, Sang Lan) and breaking down why certain accidents happened.

  • @christinemassena
    @christinemassena Год назад

    Good vid !!! I love these reactions vids !! An as far as the funeral thing goes, the wakes and funerals used to happen in the home all the time back in the 1700s and 1800s. That's why, if you've ever noticed, a lot of the older homes will have 2 living or "parlor" rooms. 1 was usually reserved for occasions like receiving visitors or hosting a wake or funeral. While the other would be for more common uses.

  • @valeriefstewart
    @valeriefstewart Год назад +47

    Love this collab so much! Thank you Mike and Dr. Malik for hopefully helping your viewers realize that it's important to be open about our sexual health with our doctors.

  • @Kataang101
    @Kataang101 Год назад +7

    So surprised (in a good way) that you guys collabed! I love watching her videos too and to see her on here was a great treat!

  • @nizeafia7569
    @nizeafia7569 Год назад +3

    Yall are so calm talking about this stuff

    • @overthinker__
      @overthinker__ Год назад +1

      That's because they aren't 12 years old

  • @bagahbread
    @bagahbread Год назад

    This was a nice collab. I literally smiled when I saw her. Both have great channels

  • @16Pains
    @16Pains Год назад +71

    She was awesome. If you can feature her again, please do because she gives educated yet chill and personable vibes like you

  • @mcmaschio
    @mcmaschio Год назад +43

    My favourite RUclips Doctor in one video 🙌 … both of u inspire me to be a better health care worker and youtuber .. so thank you 🔥❤️

  • @sarahloveless1726
    @sarahloveless1726 Год назад +6

    0:32
    I got the impression that it was a condition of the 2 getting back together.

  • @kathrynmackin4461
    @kathrynmackin4461 3 месяца назад +2

    I know this video is from a year ago and I also know that it's a fun and silly reaction video but I just wanted to say that funerals or wakes in homes are common in a lot of different cultural traditions. In Ireland and Scotland for example (Ireland in particular), it's very common to host a wake in the deceased's home very soon after they've died to mourn and celebrate the life of the deceased. I just thought it was important to point out that different mourning rituals and traditions should be respected because different communities grieve differently just like individuals do

  • @Elisabeth_a
    @Elisabeth_a Год назад +99

    I love it how much effort he puts into his vids. Keep on going Dr. mike!👏

  • @monikaradzaj7407
    @monikaradzaj7407 Год назад +9

    Thank you for talking about PGAD. While I don't have it myself, it has been something that I've been very scared of for a long time (Why? I honestly don't know, but I think it has something to do with my anxiety making me think that I might catch rare disorders one day (It's complicated)). Talking about how rare it is and ways on how and why it happens does make me feel a lot more calm about it. At the end of the day, my heart goes out to all the people who have it. It's an absolutely distressing disorder and the fact that some doctors don't believe that it's real angers me so much.

  • @rosella5358
    @rosella5358 8 месяцев назад +1

    The fact that sometimes men don't want sex and that's okay needs to be talked about more.

  • @ookamihime9422
    @ookamihime9422 4 месяца назад +1

    Gosh I loved this show. This was our saturday family fun night where we would just watch these and feel better about our lives 😆

  • @gurbyturby8598
    @gurbyturby8598 Год назад +85

    Let’s all appreciate how we never never needed to know this but now we do. I love you dr mike

  • @treyb387
    @treyb387 Год назад +105

    Love Doctor Mike's videos, especially when he has a fellow doctor on for additional feedback. The only thing that makes it even more awesome is that handsome guy Bear

  • @gmanwrecker8127
    @gmanwrecker8127 Год назад

    Great Video Guys! If you guys were wondering what the Gigli saw is used for, it is used for limb amputations that would need a very prompt and acute action amputation (commonly BKA). The limb can be amputated in less than five minutes! Its very interesting though. I am a certified surgical technologist that woks for the Cleveland Clinic and soon to be RN, BSN! I really enjoy watching your videos and have learned from them every single time I watch one. Thank you for your entertainment, it brings me and others joy! Keep up the great work!

  • @taylorkat8614
    @taylorkat8614 Год назад +4

    I'm sure someone else has already said this, but the wake isn't a funeral! It's very common where I live in Northern Ireland, where family and friends gather in the home of the deceased to comfort the remaining family members before the funeral. Sometimes the body is on display too, depending on the cause of death. Hope this helps!

  • @xavieryukon76
    @xavieryukon76 Год назад +15

    What a collaboration!!! Thanks you two for this amazing video! 😊

  • @katiephalen3483
    @katiephalen3483 Год назад +5

    I appreciate the normality of your discussion. This was how I approached my kids when they had questions. Also, I would tell them I would always tell them the truth and if I didn’t know the answer I would find out.

  • @AlexBooks13
    @AlexBooks13 Год назад +3

    One of the reasons I get uncomfortable with discussing things like that is for example, that I and many of my friends and such were taught not to discuss that. Even saying we had periods out loud and not hiding pads when we needed to go change them was an Issue. It was just Not Done.
    Being trans, things were hard to discuss and my friends had to tell me to ask whatever and discuss everything because I was so uncomfortable discussing any changes that happened after I started testosterone

  • @PantherJaguar
    @PantherJaguar Год назад

    Dr. Malik in this episode? Best. Doctor. Mike. Episode. Ever!!!

  • @rianmabuda10
    @rianmabuda10 Год назад +109

    I have always wanted Dr Mike to react to this😂❤️
    It's comedy gold

    • @someoneelse8295
      @someoneelse8295 Год назад

      dr mike said before "god bless women" according to your master tate thats not okay. you should unsub then

    • @rianmabuda10
      @rianmabuda10 Год назад +1

      @@someoneelse8295 how many Bugattis do you have??

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. Год назад

      Lmfaoo so true

  • @gooey-boop5520
    @gooey-boop5520 Год назад +40

    The acting in this show is just top notch

  • @joviraee
    @joviraee 11 месяцев назад +7

    14:20 “How is this show on air?”

  • @glenjennett
    @glenjennett Год назад +9

    Something I've experienced that I had never heard about before that was I would sometimes get these massive migraines during sex and the longer it continued, the worse it kept getting until I had to stop because it felt like if I didn't I would blow a blood vessel in my head. It isn't pleasant and I don't know how common it is, but it is something to watch out for.

  • @davidsports2214
    @davidsports2214 Год назад +4

    I've been waiting on my two favorite doctors and content creators to collaborate, and here it is!!! Loyal subscriber and watcher of both channels. This video was everything I hoped it would be. Engaging, informative, and full of laughs.

  • @dawnd670
    @dawnd670 Год назад +18

    12:33
    Usually funerals that happen in the deceased home would be what we call a "celebration of life." Its not exactly a funeral but over here its common when you cremate your loved one and usually everyone just says a few words and then reminisces on the times they had with the late loved one. Quite like a normal funeral but less formal..

    • @mirjanbouma
      @mirjanbouma Год назад +1

      Yeah it's okay that Dr. Mike is unfamiliar with it but the way he reacted... Dude you know people do stuff differently, right?

    • @dawnd670
      @dawnd670 Год назад

      @@mirjanbouma Yes of course. only informing since he said he wasn't sure how a celebration of life went.

  • @sheenadawn5976
    @sheenadawn5976 Год назад +1

    Dr Mike is my favorite doctor and boxer and RUclipsr to you Dr Mike

  • @clays1507
    @clays1507 Год назад

    Wow! Rena Malik joins! Awesome

  • @mechajason
    @mechajason Год назад +4

    YES Dr. Mike thank you for watching this because I’ll be honest with you when this came on every Saturday night back when it was on I never missed an episode

  • @Simsible_4
    @Simsible_4 Год назад +8

    Thanks so much for making videos! You inspired me to work myself up to medical school! I’m only in junior high, so I do have a long way before me but your videos really help make me optimistic!

  • @cevinhulsen8956
    @cevinhulsen8956 Год назад

    Hey Dr. Mike! Really love your videos! I alway wake up with a kind of cold that will last for about an hour or two. I don't know what causes it, I don't sleep with the windows open or with a fan. Could you explain what could cause that.
    Because of your videos I started to see how important CPR is, so started to learn CPR through a class organized by the (Dutch) Red Cross.
    Thanks Dr. Mike!👋😊

  • @ghostlyfigure
    @ghostlyfigure Год назад +1

    Dang I wish they have pics/footage

  • @ctsndgs16
    @ctsndgs16 Год назад +22

    I love how Dr Mike always manages to give medical info and be funny at the same time

  • @-Raylight
    @-Raylight Год назад +39

    The fact they called fire department lol. Good the boys already ready to help their homie!
    *"Just because you like it, doesn't mean you have to put a ring on it"* Good advice 😂

  • @TheSandboxMaster
    @TheSandboxMaster Год назад

    I love how they are so thoroughly educational, but you can still see a soul.

  • @Skilletgaming34
    @Skilletgaming34 Год назад +5

    I can't even tell how uncomfortable doctor Mike was when talking about this stuff 🤣

  • @TaimiAbarca
    @TaimiAbarca Год назад +6

    It's so awesome hearing about all the info and explaining even some pleasures that some people may have, and the ultimate diversity of just the whole video. Dr. Malik is awesome, love this duo!!!!!

  • @cantocraft
    @cantocraft Год назад

    Awesome collaboration!

  • @lovelyluisa_989
    @lovelyluisa_989 Год назад +8

    2:09 Priceless moment ✨

  • @miracleowen3262
    @miracleowen3262 Год назад +7

    I love seeing Dr. Mike's reaction to these kind of videos🤣🤣

  • @ChessDoctorsOrigins
    @ChessDoctorsOrigins Год назад +13

    Daumn what a treat. My 2 favorite doctors on the RUclipss! This was awesome to watch and its fun when you guys humanize anything sexually related. I know why people still have such a stigma around it all, but it is funny to me to think that people are this scared and embarrassed etc

  • @ryansenft3315
    @ryansenft3315 6 месяцев назад +3

    I would've loved to see Dr. Malik do "pee woop."

  • @413smr
    @413smr 2 месяца назад +1

    This just showed up in my feed and I watched for some reason LOL. Very informative. 👀

    • @chaoschaoschaoss
      @chaoschaoschaoss Месяц назад

      same, i- dont know why i watched this- um- i have chores to do ill see yall later :,)

  • @Helensrz
    @Helensrz Год назад +8

    I requested a long time ago for you to discuss PGAD, I was diagnosed with it and there is literally ZERO information or treatment to be found, even my gynecologist had to research it to diagnose me because she had no clue what was happening at first, I wish u could make a video with more info for those of use who have no information or recourse to help with this isolating and devastating condition 😞 The reason suicide is so prevalent is because it’s embarrassing, humiliating and there is literally no one to help. I hold on for hope that some day someone will give me any options that can help, but I can 100% understand and relate to this making u suicidal, I struggle every single day and have to talk myself into hanging on for another day, every single day. Unless u have dealt with this condition, you can’t understand or even imagine just how dark and horrible it can get, or how lonely it can be, and if u think it’s at all about fun or sex, it’s not, it’s actually almost painful and it’s debilitating, and very very embarrassing, I have become agoraphobic because of this condition, that’s how bad it can get.😔