What a great man. He didn’t shout, he isn’t aggressive just calm and composed. Please leave and don’t look back. Someone worthy of your love is somewhere waiting for you!😢
The girl was also calm, she dint try to lie about her feelings... she was torn apart.... -she clearly says this was her first love, who seems to have been convincing her that he has changed. But the current boyfriend rescued her when she was down, beaten and hurt... -took her in with her pregnancy..., cleaned her up, and cared for her. So it may not have been easy to just open up and confess the confusion, lest she hurts him. She is a victim torn apart... -lets not wholly condemn her.
Benjamin Zulu once said that don't marry a pregnant woman.She may accept you just because she is desperate.Marry a woman with a stable mindset who knows what she wants
To those condemning marrying a lady with a kid,we are here to prove to you that some of us moved and have never looked back and nothing will ever make us look back!!!!We found love elsewhere and we are happy....so kama uliland kubaya dont categorise us all💯
But all single mothers are prostitute in hiden dark. For a single mother being able to pay bills when hiding in prostitution does not give her a medal. Single mothers do. They have foodie man rent man service man bills man etc. We know it
Losing someone you love because of disloyalty is so painful. I lost sbd thatway but then I found purpose in being a full time RUclipsr and since I started my channel, life has been so good to me. My channel name is finding ian
Bro take heart.. these creatures are heartless sometimes.. all shall be well. You did your part, let God judge the rest. This lady will regret this for the rest of her life. Going back to a toxic man, will even make it worse. Big man stevo make sure you give us a follow up of this.. pls
Big man Stevo, from your shows I have learnt that 90% of relationships are fake. People are deceiving each other. Please start a dating channel for all the good people who discover they have been living a lie with their so called spouses. I have realized that kumbe there are actually good men out here in the wrong relationships😢
Simply put, this weak man has no standards. Confusing mercy for love. That is someone's wife her heart has always been there. But if you have money and time to waste on her who is she to refuse? Thank you for being compassionate to her but time has come for her to go where she belongs. She never forced you to love her, and she has never loved you. Accept and move on without her. BMS has helped you big time.
@@megadun2610 he hasn't lied..he put it kinda harshly but it's true..he only felt sorry for her..I doubt he was in love himself...he felt so sorry for her he even took her in ..so sad...angemrudisha tu kwa mamake badala ya kumweka
Women, regardless of how good you are to them, they always find away back to their toxic exs. They get emotionally attached to their abusers. It's like they miss the toxicity. They have some inexplicable belief that the abuser has changed.
Na Kibe akisema muachane na single mums mnadhani ni fala. The baby daddy will always walk in and out of her life whenever he wants.. Sasa ona captain ameunia aki try to save a sinking ship..
Never prioritise someone who treats you as an after thought. Bro you have been nice to her, which she didn't appreciate, just let her go, there is someone better out there for you.
First love... BS He's changed... BS She's still caught up with her ex nonsense, she needs to move forward ASAP. Never give a man who assaults you the chance to get back into your life, he's not worth it.
Just because you've weakness towards somebody, it doesn't mean they've weakness towards you as well 🤔, lemmy put it in the way, some of you have weak spot for other people yet they've a wicked spot for you 😢😢
Nilikua nataka nikuhurumie but i remembered ladies loves those guys who beat them, and again a relationship where the lady is suffering will last long. So look for your woman bro huyo ni wa kelly.
Ungratefulness, the wickedness of huma heart! Nothing's so painful than falling in love with a woman whose heart and mind is on their first love, make love to her and hear her screaming his name...that's the sign!
Huyu dame atakuja kuregret baadae..acha arudie jamaa we move on tafuta dame mwingine huyu soon atakuja kutafuta BMS. you mean huyu dame akija kwa huyu jamaa hakujua ako na mtoto na ako na baba 🤔walai amejiconfuse kabisa baba mtoto wake hamtakii mazuri 😢
Huyu dame ni mjinga pia mimi fast love wangu naniko na watoi wawili na yeye siwezi hata mpea time ya kubonga na yeye nko na 15 years nahata siwezi taka kujua yuko ama hayuko na Sina haraka ya kudate Tena
Ati he was my first love, alinipatia mtoto…. My foot, you find a man who cares about you taking care of another man’s nonsense and you let it go like that😮😮😮
Have never seen or heard a caretaker husband getting old with that woman,,,, never pretend to be loved by any woman whose baby daddy is still alive unless you miss to die early,,,,now I understand what Ev. Ezekiel preaches
As long as a girls EX is still alive more so if they had a kid together , dont be proud as a man put your trust on her 30% the rest keep for yourself Huruma ni estate Dont marry juu unaonea mtu huruma
The girl was also calm, she dint try to lie about her feelings... she was torn apart.... -she clearly says this was her first love, who seems to have been convincing her that he has changed. But the current boyfriend rescued her when she was down, beaten and hurt... -took her in with her pregnancy..., cleaned her up, and cared for her. So it may not have been easy to just open up and confess the confusion, lest she hurts him. She is a victim torn apart... -lets not wholly condemn her.
Wanawake wenye mko na wanaume wazuri please mnawapatanga solo gani please.Ama inafaa kutembea wapi ndio uwapate because me nawaonanga Tu hapa you tube na wakienda hivo🤔🤔🤔🤔 Please God do something to us who needs such guys in our lives 🥲🥲Huwa siamini na wada Kama huyu.Sasa huyu anatakaje Kama anaona huyu guy hafai??????
Mamaaa your hell as just started on earth just go back inakaa umemiss vayolence plus toxicity Sanaa😂😂😂😂 Respect to you bro accepting someone akiwa na bol heshima joh,,,, thank God umejua mapema just goooooo
People who use others don't really care about human existence, ni kama wanyama. But she will be the same way to the other dude and the other dude may be toxic also. When you hear someone say their ex was very bad and they have nothing positive to say about them, ogopa halafu toroka.
If you don't respect yourself then expect it from nowhere If you can't control yourself then no one can, or the world can in a negative way Be wise, stop doing things that can hurt your close cycle!
Mtu alee mtoto wake ,mtu ajishughulishe na Mambo yake ...hio ingine huwezi elewa....pole na asanti..... sometimes being a good Samaritan has its advantages and disadvantages.....
Adi sijawahii elewa mbona watu hucheat 😢😢,mm siezi entertain my X ati coz ya watoi wake, my X was my 1st love akaniachia watoi wawili 2day mark 12 yrs adi number zake Sina n vile nilienda ilikua hivyo, huyu mama Sonia Achana na yy, bado atazidi kukucheza, umesikia amesema huyo ndie baba mtoi wake na ni 1st love wake, God will bless you with a nice woman 🙏
If at all I can get to meet that ex of this lady, I can congratulate him warmly ju sasa ameona mtoto amegrow anataka ampee wa pili na yeye pia aede alelewe na mwanaume mwingine huko nje. Young lady, little knowledge is very dangerous.
Next sasa itakuwa worse... If mwanamme Amekuwa akikuchapa and you find someone who accept you with your kid then he loved you..... Hapa u have lost mama.... The man thought u were going to kudindimia but now since anaona your progress he as come back to destroy you in the name of amechange....u have lost the best guy mama
Kabla uchukue mtu akona mtoto fikiria Sana..more so kama bado uko chini ya 50years. Mi nimejaribu kuona kama itaeza for almost a year but my brothers in skin color, haiezekani io shughuli. You will always to be second man to the woman after the child's father na utakua kama prop. Wasichana ni wengi..sana
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Men should learn about taking care of their parents and siblings back at home, not strangers in the name of love😢
I agree.
Add volume ❤❤
True
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Always take care of yourself, hii ingine ni upuzi.
What a great man. He didn’t shout, he isn’t aggressive just calm and composed. Please leave and don’t look back. Someone worthy of your love is somewhere waiting for you!😢
The girl was also calm, she dint try to lie about her feelings... she was torn apart.... -she clearly says this was her first love, who seems to have been convincing her that he has changed. But the current boyfriend rescued her when she was down, beaten and hurt... -took her in with her pregnancy..., cleaned her up, and cared for her. So it may not have been easy to just open up and confess the confusion, lest she hurts him. She is a victim torn apart... -lets not wholly condemn her.
The understanding of the man plus calmness is just over 50%
Be willing to go it alone
Be willing to lose people
Be willing to experience pain
Be willing to be uncomfortable
Be willing to make sacrifices
Correctly spoken 👏
you always a comrade,thumbs up
Thanks for hitting the nail on the head always Patricia.
❤❤❤❤absolutely
I love this....I needed to hear this today....thank you❤
The unpopular truth is that very few women leave and forget their toxic bad boys. Very few. Nice guys learn the hard way.
Bro,people like you don't happen often.Never forget about how rare you re💪👏🙌
True ..I agree
Benjamin Zulu once said that don't marry a pregnant woman.She may accept you just because she is desperate.Marry a woman with a stable mindset who knows what she wants
Exactly
Benjamin Zulu adherents are well equipped to handle relationship matters. That man BZ is God sent to this generation.
Never take a lady from a toxic relationship.. She will be using you to heal and get back to her man
Ongeza volume. Damaged goods returned to sender.
Eish! There's just a way you've put it 😂
Not all,and if so where are broken ones taken to
@@kristayawa862 Someone else should suffer not you
WORD.
This Guy is very Humble may God grant you with a honest person
My heart is broken !!!! I wanna just hug him !This brings so many memories up I know what he is feeling!! The trauma is forever 😢😞💔💔
It hits hard
Pole sana Ali
Hugs
hugs
Don't be afraid of loosing people but be afraid of loosing yourself by trying to please everyone around you 🙏🏼💯🤔🙄😒😏😶😑😐🤨
Losing*
Very true 😂
true
Perfectly said
A great point there 👌
This Dude is the Most Humble, Patient , Down To Earth Kenyan Iv Seen.....Wueeeh Bro Good Things are Coming Your Way, Focus On You
This guy is a gentleman ghai!!!his momma raise him good..I hope my daughter will get such person when time comes
I feel for boychild aki huyu mschana ata regret San si Rahisi kupata mtu atakuchukua na ball na akue caring
To those condemning marrying a lady with a kid,we are here to prove to you that some of us moved and have never looked back and nothing will ever make us look back!!!!We found love elsewhere and we are happy....so kama uliland kubaya dont categorise us all💯
Wait until he comes back rich and changed trust me you'll have a different narrative. The way you'll leave your current ata wewe hutajua
Exactly, tell them gal, some of us moved on, we are even ready to change our kid's birth certificates to eliminate the donors name from our lives.
But all single mothers are prostitute in hiden dark. For a single mother being able to pay bills when hiding in prostitution does not give her a medal. Single mothers do. They have foodie man rent man service man bills man etc. We know it
Pewa soda Kwa bill yangu😂😂😂😂
@@alexkamau5221 spot on, bro. Point.
It hurts alot when you trust someone blindly and that someone proves that you're actually blind.
This guy is a gentleman 🤠 so calm....may he trace his true love 😘😘
The way she got her is the problem, that's the character of the woman she will never appreciate and change as well.
Losing someone you love because of disloyalty is so painful. I lost sbd thatway but then I found purpose in being a full time RUclipsr and since I started my channel, life has been so good to me. My channel name is finding ian
lazima nifike uko🏃
Ufff
I will subscribe 😊
Nimesubscribe😊
@@rebeccaomambia7988 Thankyou so much dear
To be a step dad is to be a caretaker, you're not the father. Lessons learnt 😊
Most pple don't understand that they think if marrying gal wth child is bng mature they say they hv find a true bt she there to b healing.
😂😂
Nkt all pls...but maybe most..we have genuine single ladies me being 1...
Unless the biological father is late or out of picture completely
Dem ako na mtoi hutulia tu just because of that kid, every woman have alot of respect to the man who introduced her to motherhood
I like how this man is composed,,,, honestly hurting an innocent blood who truly loves you will God's wrath walk away from you really???
Sorry boychild. She still loves him even if he was toxic ne harsh. Run a Way bro.
Run away from such a person
The girl know exactly what is going to happen...
Good people exit..this man is one in a million
Walk away, don't beg her, let her go and stay with that guy
May the Almighty see this guy through this difficult situation.
Bro take heart.. these creatures are heartless sometimes.. all shall be well. You did your part, let God judge the rest. This lady will regret this for the rest of her life. Going back to a toxic man, will even make it worse. Big man stevo make sure you give us a follow up of this.. pls
Big man Stevo, from your shows I have learnt that 90% of relationships are fake. People are deceiving each other. Please start a dating channel for all the good people who discover they have been living a lie with their so called spouses. I have realized that kumbe there are actually good men out here in the wrong relationships😢
Simply put, this weak man has no standards. Confusing mercy for love. That is someone's wife her heart has always been there. But if you have money and time to waste on her who is she to refuse? Thank you for being compassionate to her but time has come for her to go where she belongs. She never forced you to love her, and she has never loved you. Accept and move on without her. BMS has helped you big time.
Plain "bitter" truth
Why are you talking like someone who is not engaging their brain in this thinking exercise
Well said
@@megadun2610 he hasn't lied..he put it kinda harshly but it's true..he only felt sorry for her..I doubt he was in love himself...he felt so sorry for her he even took her in ..so sad...angemrudisha tu kwa mamake badala ya kumweka
@@lucyauma3257 True
Women, regardless of how good you are to them, they always find away back to their toxic exs. They get emotionally attached to their abusers. It's like they miss the toxicity. They have some inexplicable belief that the abuser has changed.
Very true
Women are loyal to their emotions that's just it
Never ever give sympathy love to anyone, they'll heal and leave you wounded
You've nailed it kabisa 😂😂😂😂atarudi tu kwa hio njambazi
@@kevinskiiceman4904 absolutely, mercilessly and shamelessly after using you as comfort
Yaani it's the calmness in his voice 😔There is a better person waiting bfor you ...
Na Kibe akisema muachane na single mums mnadhani ni fala. The baby daddy will always walk in and out of her life whenever he wants.. Sasa ona captain ameunia aki try to save a sinking ship..
What a loyal man uyu Dem n mjinga manze c Mungu anionekanie Kaa huyu please 🙏🙏🙏
Si mjinga, hawezi elewa😂😂😂😂
Women aren't loyal to your sacrifices, they are loyal to their feelings.
Ukweli mtupu
Unfortunately any decision made out of emotions are usually the wrong ones.
That's why this guy should divorce her to let her follower her feelings
What a freaking naked reality😂😂😂
I see you're a loyal agba-fan from Twitter😊.
Ukipata mtu ako na mtoi hujui anataka help ama love, watu km Hawa ndo wanafanya single mothers tunakaa wabaya 😢
Never prioritise someone who treats you as an after thought. Bro you have been nice to her, which she didn't appreciate, just let her go, there is someone better out there for you.
Kenya please remember to leave room for disappointment if your in a romantic relationship because life imekua ngumu sana kenya
Hauwezi convince nugu asali ni tamu kuliko ndizi😂
Not Kenya all women are the same coz all looking for help
That's how they think. What she feels. What she wants. All of them.
Let's getting on! We keep learning hear. Moto still: loyalty is the 🔑 and love only isn't enough
Ladies if your husband leaves you with a child and luckily upate mwenye anapenda mtoto wako respect him and forget about ex completely
I hope I'll find one. Not jokers
Aki jamani hawa maboy humble hupatikanaje, yaan nkiona watumikishwa ivo na hawa masheitani 😢
Another reason to avoid single mothers completely 🤚
Yes,wengi lazima wakiona huyo mtoto aliachiwa na x,anakumbuka yeye,so naona tu wengine hawajajifunza chochote,Wacha wakae single,man ur caretaker
This lady is confused she doesn’t know who she loves but i see her regretting losing this current guy
First love... BS
He's changed... BS
She's still caught up with her ex nonsense, she needs to move forward ASAP. Never give a man who assaults you the chance to get back into your life, he's not worth it.
I feel for this man, heal quick bro
Sorry boy child you're one in a million.
Once they walk away silently, no drama consider the game to be over, its done
Let her go back Ken. She misses the toxic life. She enjoyed it.
Cheating has become so normalised in the society tht pple act like loyalty is something to b proud of,when it should b a standard....
This is how people loose diamonds while chasing the wind,it's so sad
Just because you've weakness towards somebody, it doesn't mean they've weakness towards you as well 🤔, lemmy put it in the way, some of you have weak spot for other people yet they've a wicked spot for you 😢😢
Nilikua nataka nikuhurumie but i remembered ladies loves those guys who beat them, and again a relationship where the lady is suffering will last long. So look for your woman bro huyo ni wa kelly.
And when they decide to end their lives we blame the man?
Never take a lady with financial problems and from a toxic relationship.
Never marry when either party is in crisis
@@dorcasc8858 because isn't genuine
Back like u never left our king
Don't mix love and sympathy.
The outcome will be explosive
Ungratefulness, the wickedness of huma heart! Nothing's so painful than falling in love with a woman whose heart and mind is on their first love, make love to her and hear her screaming his name...that's the sign!
😅😅😅😅😅
Most people mess up something good by looking for something better just to end up with something worse
You will never find such a good guy.
once she has a child from outside you are a caretaker,boychould RUN !!
Naomba subscriber yako manze ❤️👌
The will learn the hard way.
Huyu dame atakuja kuregret baadae..acha arudie jamaa we move on tafuta dame mwingine huyu soon atakuja kutafuta BMS. you mean huyu dame akija kwa huyu jamaa hakujua ako na mtoto na ako na baba 🤔walai amejiconfuse kabisa baba mtoto wake hamtakii mazuri 😢
Huyu dame ni mjinga pia mimi fast love wangu naniko na watoi wawili na yeye siwezi hata mpea time ya kubonga na yeye nko na 15 years nahata siwezi taka kujua yuko ama hayuko na Sina haraka ya kudate Tena
Never date a woman in a relationship she was never yours she will go back to her toxic boyfriend 😂😂😂😂
Ati he was my first love, alinipatia mtoto…. My foot, you find a man who cares about you taking care of another man’s nonsense and you let it go like that😮😮😮
Huyu msichana amemiss kupigwa. Wacha aende akapigweee,,,auliwe atakuja kutwambia how good or bad it feels to be dead😢😢😢
Have never seen or heard a caretaker husband getting old with that woman,,,, never pretend to be loved by any woman whose baby daddy is still alive unless you miss to die early,,,,now I understand what Ev. Ezekiel preaches
Focus on yourself now bro,its gonna hurt and its gonna take time to forget but once you focus on yourself and making money,itapita bila hata kujua
As long as a girls EX is still alive more so if they had a kid together , dont be proud as a man put your trust on her 30% the rest keep for yourself
Huruma ni estate
Dont marry juu unaonea mtu huruma
😂😂😂😂😂
The girl was also calm, she dint try to lie about her feelings... she was torn apart.... -she clearly says this was her first love, who seems to have been convincing her that he has changed. But the current boyfriend rescued her when she was down, beaten and hurt... -took her in with her pregnancy..., cleaned her up, and cared for her. So it may not have been easy to just open up and confess the confusion, lest she hurts him. She is a victim torn apart... -lets not wholly condemn her.
Wanawake wenye mko na wanaume wazuri please mnawapatanga solo gani please.Ama inafaa kutembea wapi ndio uwapate because me nawaonanga Tu hapa you tube na wakienda hivo🤔🤔🤔🤔 Please God do something to us who needs such guys in our lives 🥲🥲Huwa siamini na wada Kama huyu.Sasa huyu anatakaje Kama anaona huyu guy hafai??????
I don't know when men will understand that you should never rescue a woman!
Seriously!!!
Relationship is becoming too toxic. Where do we go from here😳
Mamaaa your hell as just started on earth just go back inakaa umemiss vayolence plus toxicity Sanaa😂😂😂😂
Respect to you bro accepting someone akiwa na bol heshima joh,,,, thank God umejua mapema just goooooo
such a humble man
Emagine
Honestly babe girl unatoa nguvu wapi za kcheat guy Kaa huyu .... come on babe girl nkt😢
Stevo, if you don't advise this guy adeqiately, we may end losing him into depression, r even death. He is hurt to the core
Yaani she has the guts to say ‘ni baba ya mtoto wangu’ someone who has been beating her senselessly…. u will regret mwanadada
People who use others don't really care about human existence, ni kama wanyama. But she will be the same way to the other dude and the other dude may be toxic also. When you hear someone say their ex was very bad and they have nothing positive to say about them, ogopa halafu toroka.
Ladies ukipata mtoi na mtu na hajakuoa wacha kushida hapo move on with a person who loved yu ahki let's be serious and be faithful to one another
👍
Don't force people to love you,if they don't love you let them gooooo
Said it again
Men go through alot and it's the reality that ladies don't more on from their exs
If you don't respect yourself then expect it from nowhere
If you can't control yourself then no one can, or the world can in a negative way
Be wise, stop doing things that can hurt your close cycle!
We Comrade unapoteza kondoo wa Mungu Leo wameachana na church and u never know they minghty never go to church again ..
Men,
Always listen to Amerix and Kibe. NEVER marry a single mother.
Don't date/marry your neighbour's girlfriend/wife. Respect yourself.
Sisi ndio tuko 🤣
Some women love violence in relationships.Peace is not her portion 😣😣
Mtu alee mtoto wake ,mtu ajishughulishe na Mambo yake ...hio ingine huwezi elewa....pole na asanti..... sometimes being a good Samaritan has its advantages and disadvantages.....
This lady after loosing this gentleman he will come to regret later 😢
Another reason to avoid some single mothers😢😓😰💔
Bro wachana na hii nongwe ikangolewe meno na ivunjwe mbavu na huko... You will get someone you deserve
What a gentleman 👏
Such a humble I feel for him
I love the way stevo turns round searching for words in the phones
Adi sijawahii elewa mbona watu hucheat 😢😢,mm siezi entertain my X ati coz ya watoi wake, my X was my 1st love akaniachia watoi wawili 2day mark 12 yrs adi number zake Sina n vile nilienda ilikua hivyo, huyu mama Sonia Achana na yy, bado atazidi kukucheza, umesikia amesema huyo ndie baba mtoi wake na ni 1st love wake, God will bless you with a nice woman 🙏
If at all I can get to meet that ex of this lady, I can congratulate him warmly ju sasa ameona mtoto amegrow anataka ampee wa pili na yeye pia aede alelewe na mwanaume mwingine huko nje.
Young lady, little knowledge is very dangerous.
Next sasa itakuwa worse... If mwanamme Amekuwa akikuchapa and you find someone who accept you with your kid then he loved you..... Hapa u have lost mama.... The man thought u were going to kudindimia but now since anaona your progress he as come back to destroy you in the name of amechange....u have lost the best guy mama
The lady is a toxicity ADDICT. Leave her alone. She needs to return to her toxicity.
Kabla uchukue mtu akona mtoto fikiria Sana..more so kama bado uko chini ya 50years.
Mi nimejaribu kuona kama itaeza for almost a year but my brothers in skin color, haiezekani io shughuli. You will always to be second man to the woman after the child's father na utakua kama prop.
Wasichana ni wengi..sana
It’s painful but bro pick up your broken pieces and build yourself you will get a better lady
huyu dem ni mjinga sana!! arudi kwa huyo njangiri auliwe tu kabisa kabisa na kuchapwa..she will regret one day..bro run 🏃♂️ for your life😮