How To Know if a Filipina Really Likes You

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  • Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
  • Does my Filipina really like me? This is the most frequently asked question that guys email me about. So I wanted to make a video about this burning question that seems to me on most guy's minds.
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  • @SmartGirlPhilippines
    @SmartGirlPhilippines  25 дней назад +6

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  • @JohnBham
    @JohnBham 23 дня назад +8

    Having been in the Marines back in the early 80's, of course I have my Filipina story :D
    Stationed in Okinawa, my unit went to Subic Bay for a few months. Eventually met a pretty Filipina in a bar in Olongapo, like every other Marine in my unit. She was nice, and after seeing her in the bar a few times I took it a step farther and we hooked up. Shortly after, we made a deal- if I kept her stocked with groceries and such, she would keep me 'taken care of'. After a month or so of this, my young self (early 20's) started to think this might be better as a permanent arrangement- so I decided to ask her to marry me. I got a modest ring and went to her place. She wasn't there but got home a few minutes later, all out of breathe and terrified at seeing me. She said, "You have to go NOW!" I told her I didn't understand, but I had something I need to talk to her about- she was in a panic. "YOU have to GO!" I got her calmed down and she said some Navy ships were coming into port the next day- I already knew it, so no big deal because she was my girl and I was taking care of her. "No! You don't understand- my HUSBAND is on one of those ship!" She was already married to a US Navy sailor. SONOFABITCH! I packed my sea bag and headed down the street toward the Naval Base. A lot of other Marines were doing the same thing. I'd call across the street, "NAVY?" and the Marine on the other side would shake his head "Yeah, F U". Of course I wish I had known, but in the end no harm no foul, and I ended up with a good story to last the rest of my life. I often wonder, though, without any bitterness at all what happened to Sally and what she's doing now, 40 years later.

  • @jerry_fishguy
    @jerry_fishguy 24 дня назад +11

    I have been in a LDR with a Philippina for a year now. I have sent her some support money but she has never asked. I always offer cuz I know she has very little. She is a cute simple province girl so I know anything I help her with is highly appreciated. She always thanks me and tells me how grateful she is. She never lets me forget that. She always makes time to chat and for video calls. She has even sent me a couple care packages with Philippine only goodies. I always wondered if she truly likes me. Listening to Irish has helped me understand my girl's words and actions. I can truly say my girl seems to really be into me due to her actions. Thank you for all your insight Irish! ❤

    • @mrg09211976
      @mrg09211976 23 дня назад

      Sucker you and dozen other guys are doing it.

  • @Juanvaldez-u5j
    @Juanvaldez-u5j 25 дней назад +26

    Hi Irish, I'm very old, and married for almost 60 years. To the same woman, 😁 Sometimes she likes me and sometimes she does not. She scolds me occasionally but tolerates me most of the time. Ignores me or hugs me from time to time. We have 4 daughters and 2 sons, so she liked me a lot at least 6 times. I don't have any answers for why this is. I just know that when I'm without her, I can't wait to get back with her, and she will tag along with me every chance she gets, I like that very much. I have no other place to be, and neither does she, so we will hang out together for the rest of our time. Paalam maganda.

  • @lovinglife8988
    @lovinglife8988 25 дней назад +13

    It's entertaining to watch your videos, you are funny, cute and knowledgeable 😊

  • @UrbanSipfly
    @UrbanSipfly 18 дней назад +2

    Lolol, at chatting across the internet to find out the curious question if your Filipina likes you!
    Back in 1989, my Filipina long-distance girlfriend and I did not have the luxury of the internet. We relied on snail mail (postaged stamped letters) to find out the inevitable...
    My penmanship I have to say has improved over the years...😅

  • @FolarinOjutiku
    @FolarinOjutiku 22 дня назад +1

    Thanks!

  • @wolfgangstimmel8048
    @wolfgangstimmel8048 25 дней назад +5

    How to know if she really likes you - Easy - Sleep with her in a King Size bed.
    If she sleeps next to you and stays at arms length - bad sign.
    If she sleeps close enough for you to touch - good sign.
    If she sleeps with you entwined like an octopus - she really, really likes you.
    I was seeing a girl I for several months here (she worked so only had 1 day off a week).
    By the time we went to a hotel for our 1st overnight, we already had a strong attraction.
    As we got into bed, she took one of the pillows, threw it on the floor, and asked if we could share a pillow. That night, and every night since, has been like sleeping with an octopus. Sometimes I wake up in the morning and feel like a pretzel - but it is all good. I had her quit her job and move in with me. We lived together for 2 years before getting married. I took her to the states a year later. We toggled between the PI and US over the years. She is a dual citizen now, so we can travel anywhere. We've been together 15 years now and live in Cebu.

  • @AMindShaper
    @AMindShaper 25 дней назад +5

    Great info, thank you!
    Respect!

  • @geraldmatthews5054
    @geraldmatthews5054 25 дней назад +2

    Thanks for the refresher lesson, I learnt most of them in my youth... 💯❤️👍

  • @SWILLEntertainment
    @SWILLEntertainment 25 дней назад +3

    another awesome video. Thanks, Irish

  • @adjusted-bunny
    @adjusted-bunny 25 дней назад +21

    I know she really likes me because she is smiling at me and says "I'm Irish".

    • @mrgilok755
      @mrgilok755 24 дня назад +5

      She's smiling at you thinking about dollars 💵 that's all. 😂

  • @QuiVaALaChassePerdSaPlace
    @QuiVaALaChassePerdSaPlace 21 день назад +1

    Imagine the mothers came into the picture and machine-gunned some flaws of their off-spring while on video call and boom - we were language interpreters for the two parties. The girl says her mother likes me. My mother says she really likes the girl and she wants a grandchild. How do we know if the in-laws really like us? How do we know if our parents really approve or disapprove the "courtship"?

  • @UncleWobby2024
    @UncleWobby2024 24 дня назад +2

    Excellent insight Irish.....I can say for all men here we are all in love with you, your smile and joy that comes out of all your videos. UncleWob from Iloilo City.

    • @uwinsome
      @uwinsome 16 дней назад

      I love her the most ...lol😂

  • @thomasclancy4502
    @thomasclancy4502 25 дней назад +2

    Irish is right again. Great information!!!

  • @goofyjohn6191
    @goofyjohn6191 24 дня назад +1

    All things change over time. People will change their mind and everyone must love enough to set each other free.always follow your dreams for your own well being.

  • @vn6714
    @vn6714 23 дня назад

    LOVE YOUR COMMON SENSE APPROACH THANK YOU IRISH YOU DEFINITELY ARE A SMART GIRL

  • @ripwff7502
    @ripwff7502 22 дня назад

    Great video, Irish.

  • @DillonJansz-k9d
    @DillonJansz-k9d 21 день назад

    Thanks for the great advice I've been stung before so this was really informative

  • @biform13
    @biform13 18 часов назад

    Thank you again Irish.
    Your episode that broke me was, "Dear Foreigner, start living."

  • @titansalmons8076
    @titansalmons8076 25 дней назад +1

    How are you today Beautiful ? Love your videos. Always good info. Thanks ❤

  • @JoeDMailman
    @JoeDMailman 23 дня назад

    Irish, you're doing a good job. Salamat po!

  • @Robert-One.Italian
    @Robert-One.Italian 25 дней назад +3

    Awesome video Irish!! You're amazing and perfectly beautiful.. 🌹🏆🌹

  • @phambo1tp
    @phambo1tp 23 дня назад

    You are very beautiful and smart. Thank you for the insight on Filipina.

  • @jasonking6892
    @jasonking6892 22 дня назад +1

    Expat lives in Colombia 🇨🇴 same issues here 😅😅

  • @JomilHussainBarbhuiya
    @JomilHussainBarbhuiya 25 дней назад

    Excellent job

  • @cellis5111
    @cellis5111 25 дней назад

    Sound advice for many situations

  • @StevieB-123
    @StevieB-123 23 дня назад

    Well Irish,
    I think you offer good advice and this goes for men and women anywhere on the globe.
    Steve😊

  • @Stagger-One
    @Stagger-One 25 дней назад +1

    Most excellent adventures 😄

  • @davidhaylett1810
    @davidhaylett1810 25 дней назад +1

    It’s simple guys, a Filipina likes you if you have money, she wants to marry you if you have a lot, especially if you are an old SIMP who will give her and her family money. Does she love you as a person ? No, if the money dries up or you get sick she’ll take off .

  • @jorgecasamiquela1186
    @jorgecasamiquela1186 25 дней назад +1

    I have a crush 😍 on the Smart Girl

  • @mv0697
    @mv0697 23 дня назад

    Very contradictory

  • @John-d5k7c
    @John-d5k7c 25 дней назад

    Excellent video!! Is a good thing to compliment her a lot ?? Telling her beautiful she is and so on ??

  • @The_Archvile
    @The_Archvile 23 дня назад

    Ma'am Irish,I definitely need a 1 on 1 advice for my situation 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @WilzEggs-vq2sh
    @WilzEggs-vq2sh 25 дней назад +1

    Okay

  • @joelb099
    @joelb099 20 дней назад

    you are so smart.. I bet you , you are already taken by a foreigner.. He's a LUCKY guy, Irish.

  • @Beau007us
    @Beau007us 25 дней назад

    Your advice is sound! I like it!!

  • @Nordic_Sky
    @Nordic_Sky 25 дней назад +5

    A Filipina called Irish telling jokes about a rabbi. Seriously, you can't make this stuff up.

  • @markw96789
    @markw96789 24 дня назад

    Thank you for your input. Btw you are beautiful

  • @thudor1
    @thudor1 25 дней назад

    Good tips as always, Irish! The only drawback was that the thumbnail caused "Science Fiction Double Feature" to play in my head.
    Now THAT'S a novel way to trigger an earworm!!😂

    • @w0zy
      @w0zy 24 дня назад

      But do Filipinas know how to do the "Time Warp" ?

  • @jayganzhorn5140
    @jayganzhorn5140 21 день назад

    What about LDR.

  • @mrozboss
    @mrozboss 25 дней назад

    Maganda Irish 😊

  • @Jelle0-05z
    @Jelle0-05z 25 дней назад

    Nice🎉

  • @TDP1988
    @TDP1988 24 дня назад

    I'm actually hoping to marry a philippino woman one day . Because I can tell they take relationships seriously. An they are so calm an sweet .

  • @firstjohn3123
    @firstjohn3123 25 дней назад +2

    Answers:
    #1 : Doesn't throw a brick at you.
    #2 : Doesn't hit you in the head with a brick....
    #3 : Uses your money to buy everything under the sun....except bricks ..😂 👍

  • @kennethsmith8134
    @kennethsmith8134 24 дня назад

    I had one who has an issue being with me in public in pi. She is concerned about what people of pi is thinking about the two of us.

  • @xm47ecr36
    @xm47ecr36 25 дней назад +1

    Irish is awesome 😎😎😎😎

  • @vasiliskarkalas
    @vasiliskarkalas 24 дня назад +1

    send me a dating website please, I wanna date a Phillipino girl. I'm traveling to Phillipines next Week.

  • @tednewlander8113
    @tednewlander8113 15 дней назад

    First rule of fight club. Don’t talk about fight club😂😂

  • @Wuestenwiesel
    @Wuestenwiesel 22 дня назад

    Remove money completely from the equation...
    Its the safest and cheapest way to date not only Filipinas.
    You can pay for dates and take her to trips and maybe later move in with her. She dont need to pay rent if she takes care of the house chores.
    If this upgrade in lifestyle is not enough then she is free to go.
    Never give money or pay her bills.

  • @johnr1348
    @johnr1348 25 дней назад

    You are a Beauty Irish!

  • @Rusty-h9c
    @Rusty-h9c 22 дня назад

    I have no Idea

  • @lot6129
    @lot6129 25 дней назад +6

    She swallows and does not spit it out, a keeper

  • @PingYmsum
    @PingYmsum 25 дней назад

    If she gets on top of you...😊

  • @68chewy
    @68chewy 25 дней назад +1

    If you'll excuse me, I have to go break off an online chat, lol.

    • @FarangBish
      @FarangBish 25 дней назад

      hahaha on to the next!

  • @swift3072
    @swift3072 25 дней назад

    Thank you for the helpful video. Question here. I bought two mug cups to give a Filipina girl. Is that OK? I'm asking because I was told giving cups means bad luck in a certain culture and i know very little about the Philippines culture.

    • @lucdrouin4653
      @lucdrouin4653 24 дня назад +1

      I am not a Filipino, but this is my answer: if she is not materialistic, she will like the attention, irrespective of she likes the gift or not. Otherwise, run! Your gift is a test.

    • @swift3072
      @swift3072 24 дня назад

      @lucdrouin4653 t y. It totally makes sense 👍

  • @smferreiro2610
    @smferreiro2610 25 дней назад

    I was going to share this video... and then I remembered that I shouldn't talk about it because it defeats its purpose!

  • @jims.1917
    @jims.1917 2 дня назад

    Morena Morena I likes 😍😍

  • @13sfountain
    @13sfountain 22 дня назад

    I know I’m speaking for me and a few other guys that like a Filipina her name is Irish. What do you think?

  • @virenjoshi
    @virenjoshi 23 дня назад

    How to know she is testing you a lot in LDR via Facebook Messenger?

  • @cindygordon5242
    @cindygordon5242 22 дня назад

    I don’t wish a partner, but wish to move and experience the Philippines

  • @Jonasbarbury
    @Jonasbarbury 25 дней назад

    You'll find her on your door step with her suitcase

  • @Mark-wv6sg
    @Mark-wv6sg 25 дней назад

    😂👍

  • @UrbanSipfly
    @UrbanSipfly 18 дней назад

    How do you tell if your Filipina likes you? 🤔
    My 34 year old marriage would definitely be in trouble if I didn't have the necessary information to know the answer about my Filipina's feelings for me.
    Within my marriage to my Cebuano Filipina wife it would a clue to where I stand in position to her feelings to me if I had to ask her what she put inside the Lumpia as I may have never tasted that or those ingredients before! 😮

  • @mrgilok755
    @mrgilok755 24 дня назад +1

    There's no love so just forget about that one. And if you want to know if she likes you. Then it's all about the kwarta pera money. Hay naku pinays 🙄

  • @gordonleakey6830
    @gordonleakey6830 25 дней назад

    I am still on the fence if she the real deal . The phone has ben Problems Over the last 3 months I have dated her. I know she has it least six different accounts with tiktok and facebook . And she got mad at me when I were going. 3 days later was on a date site. Can I call the honor about it? She just tries to ignore the question, doesn't Answer any of my questions so i'm getting a little fat up

    • @Rizadianco
      @Rizadianco 23 дня назад +1

      Red flag, especially she's ignoring your question.

  • @mrg09211976
    @mrg09211976 23 дня назад

    She is smiling after seeing your wallet

  • @goofyjohn6191
    @goofyjohn6191 24 дня назад

    After a good long life I will only seek friends, anything else is pure foolishness.

  • @Breakinlines
    @Breakinlines 24 дня назад

    No Money No Honey! Tell her you're bankrupt and see if she still likes you!

  • @ronaldfrazier1715
    @ronaldfrazier1715 20 дней назад

    Hi Irish darling ..I just have 1 question for you...Don't take this the wrong way...For the Record I don't care if you are married or have a boyfriend ..I know I am too old for you anyways.. But You are an incredibly beautiful smart woman...I just want to know how OLD are you...That's all I need to know cause You are a Very smart Girl

  • @777nannerz
    @777nannerz 24 дня назад

    Sound a lot like Orion at the end of the video. haha.

  • @tilapiadave3234
    @tilapiadave3234 25 дней назад

    Dangle date ,,,, hmmm Kok tease is what we call it

  • @mikec8057
    @mikec8057 25 дней назад

    You're not gonna help some of these guys. And furthermore, if you make it too complicated. People aren't going to listen. Some men need to just stay home and relax and enjoy their retirement.

  • @MichaelSchisler-jx3uc
    @MichaelSchisler-jx3uc 15 дней назад

    IS IT A GOOD IDEA TO HIRE HER AS A MAID WITHOUT BENIFETS SO YOU CAN SEE IF YOU ARE REALLY BOTH INTO EACH OTHER ❤😂🎉😢😮😅😊C.S.A. BABY

  • @jagman1209
    @jagman1209 23 дня назад

    How would I know if she is lying about her love for me. We are only 6,000 miles apart. Lol! She has for money twice and she always starts at $200.

    • @Rizadianco
      @Rizadianco 23 дня назад

      If she asks you for money, then run it's a big red flag

  • @bentisaksen2717
    @bentisaksen2717 24 дня назад

    You are cute and smart. Are you single?

  • @barrycairns5031
    @barrycairns5031 25 дней назад +1

    Are you single ??

  • @paulsmith2552
    @paulsmith2552 25 дней назад

    I have to disagree with your lies video.
    Not telling the truth about husbands boyfriends and children is deceptive,
    Not merely saving face.
    How could you ever trust someone who lies all the time 😢

  • @Justin_Arut
    @Justin_Arut 25 дней назад +1

    Sticking around after the green card is a good indicator. It's amazing how many guys are willing to take that risk.

  • @angelorosini4326
    @angelorosini4326 25 дней назад +1

    She needs to write an overall book on men and women how to figure women out haha. Because us men haven't never accomplished that feat lol.

    • @SmartGirlPhilippines
      @SmartGirlPhilippines  25 дней назад +1

      Haha! I'm working on writing my second book now. My first one will be released later this year. You can get on the waiting list for a free digital copy here: smartgirlphilippines.kit.com/black-book-of-game

    • @dave-d-grunt
      @dave-d-grunt 25 дней назад

      @@SmartGirlPhilippinesis there pictures?

  • @donaldsvnnh3161
    @donaldsvnnh3161 24 дня назад

    Men know when a Filipina, a Malaysian, a Vietnamese, a Japanese, a Korean, a Mexican, a African, a Chinese, a Canadian, a American, a Colombian, a Jamaican, a Australian, a Indonesian, a Russian, a Turkish, a Brazilian, a Puerto Rican, a Scottish, and when an American woman like or is attractive to them. STOP MAKING EVERYTHING ABOUT FILIPINA, FILIPINA, FILIPINA ! Filipinas are NOT THE ONLY FISH IN THE SEA.

    • @darkseraph-cf7kn
      @darkseraph-cf7kn 23 дня назад

      It is a channel about Filipinas. So she talks about Filipinas. Kind of obvious if you think about it. You might be in the wrong place. Don’t be that angry guy who can’t read a room and starts complaining. You can easy translate this advice to all women with complaining about it.

  • @olafseverin9181
    @olafseverin9181 25 дней назад

    Madam, why u say u were "Irish", though u obviously look Asian, and far not European?

    • @DavidBFox
      @DavidBFox 25 дней назад

      That's her name. "Irish "

    • @Amaranthuz
      @Amaranthuz 25 дней назад

      You could name your child Bulgarian if you wanted to.

    • @jeffreynolds8420
      @jeffreynolds8420 25 дней назад

      Her name is Irish

    • @deadon4847
      @deadon4847 24 дня назад

      Her name, dummy.

  • @thomasclancy4502
    @thomasclancy4502 25 дней назад

    Irish is right again. Great information!!!

  • @Mark-wv6sg
    @Mark-wv6sg 25 дней назад

    😂👍