Sis you spoke a word on here!!! I think it’s a great idea to get a condo. People don’t understand the full effect of maintaining a home period and you never want to be House rich and cash poor. I can’t wait to see what you do cause if it’s anything like your fashion we’re in for a treat!!! Congratulations again!♥️
Brittany you should not feel embarrassed about purchasing a condo, not many single women are capable of such a great accomplishment. I bought my first place when I was twenty one and I've never rented another place since. It was a fixer but I jumped in and learned how to do a few things to improve it. You will be thrilled when you do your taxes next year and get your mortgagee interest deduction too! If you can get yourself to a place where you can save for your next place but keep your last and rent it out , and can do that a few times, you will have a nice little nest egg when you are ready to retire!
I never knew there was a negative stigma for buying a condo. I always thought it was a wonderful choice for ppl who wanted to own but, without the extra stress that comes with a house. So happy you stepped out of yourself and accepted what God had for you 😊 a lot of ppl wouldn’t nor admit they needed to humble themselves! Many future blessings to you!!!! 💜
Congratulations my dear Brittany. I got my first property at age 30. You are so wise and so humble. Be always proud of your accomplishments! You are a role model. I am in my 40s and I admire you.
Girl, you sound like me. I will soon be closing on my condo. My SFH fell through. My son will be a freshman and I prefer him to stay in his district. I never considered a condo. But, as you say God is in control. I’m a single mom, will be starting my Master’s this fall, working 2 jobs. I also asked my closing cost and got it. My mortgage with HOA dues is the amount I paid in my apartment. I sacrificed for 2 years, moved back with my parents and I’m 38. Trust God is in control, we just have to trust the process.
LaToya Marie Congrats honey...something I did..sacrificed & moved back home with parents for 2 years and it will be 2 years in my condo November of this year....
Tajae J I needed the encouragement. This process has been so stressful for me but, I’m glad I sacrificed. I want my son to always admire the fight in me to provide him with a better life.
I bought my house last year I was 32 like you I wanted a townhome but God opened up the flood gates I ended up purchasing a new construction 4 bedroom single family home. The maintenance isn't bad at all it comes with a warranty any problems I call DR Horton. I do however mow my own grass but I enjoy yardwork. Congratulations on your purchase!
daise19 see I’m about to be 20 and deciding on condo or house... crazy part is ima allergic to grass so I break out bad that’s the only thing stopping me but I might have to work around it
I purchased a SF home 8 years ago and let me tell you...home repairs/maintenance, yard work, snow removal and again repairs/maintenance is TOO MUCH for this chick! I’m trying to stay put until my son finishes school...we have 4 years! I will sell my house, downsize to a condo or TH in a gated community with HOA fees so that I can have hassle free living.
I love the way that you acknowledge God...then know that He got you just keep Him first. The blessings of the Lord makes it rich and add no sorrow. Be Blessed can't wait see what s next❤️
Loved this video!! You made great points! I think when i buy my first home it'll definitely be a condo. I like the security, being single. Woo i love what you said, you made the right choice for you without thinking about others! I think too many ppl get caught up buying what everyone els is buying. I love your place 💕
Congrats doll! Great info. I really wanted a condo initially, but the condo fees here in the DC /Northern VA area are crazy (400-900 per month). I decided to increase my budget and get a Townhome. I just closed 60 days ago! I don't believe as a single woman, a single family home would have been the best move for me. Awesome, awesome video!
Nothing better than having something of your OWN 💰🗣😌🙌🏾 I am 23 and I definitely feel like Condo living would be great for me I don’t have any kids so I wanna purchase a Condo within the next year or so time to MANIFEST thank you for this video sis ❤️
I am a 28 y.o single woman. No kids. I want to purchase a town home by myself but just the thought of getting everything started gets me overwhelmed. Im still saving money and talking about "one day..." ughh
xVvix xnNix Do not get overwhelmed. I find that women are the best at home buying because we never overlook the small details. Girl , live your best life. Do not allow fear or apprehension to stop you. It starts with a list( you can do that today).
The thought process is more overwhelming then the actual process. Just make sure all of your ducks are in a row, credit, money, tax returns, all your recent W-2's and check stubs. Also, make sure your bank accounts are straight.. don't open any new credit. You got this!
My advice is don't jump on the first thing you see and don't settle you will have some Realtors getting annoyed at all the houses you've looked at but that's when you remind them that it's your money on the line and your responsibilities financially and if they still give you attitude get rid of them and get another realtor trust me take ya time
Congratulations on the purchase of your first home..you have to do what's right for you...no one's going to be paying YOUR bills except you...it doesn't matter what others think or have...there is great potential in your home...well done
Hmm 🤔 ...you just gave me a new idea! I'm 26 y/o, single with no children, and I hate the idea of renting and fear buying a whole house. Buying a condo may be perfect for me during this era of my life. Thanks so much for sharing this. Congratulations on owning your first property 😊 ...Subbed!
Congrats! This is so encouraging! I am currently a single and have a 4 year old daughter. We have been looking at homes for about 3 months, here in Atlanta. So I more than understand your statement about being from the city and can barely afford to live in it! It is amazing to see women moving into their own property and not waiting until they are married. I love it! God bless and I can't wait to see how you update your new place!
Yes Lord! Won't he do it!!! Congratulations!!!! 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 When it's Gods will it just works out! I can't wait to see the decor in your new home I'm sure it'll be beautiful
Love seeing your perspective on the housing market as a fellow young black female entering her 30's. I think the housing across America is very overpriced and they're predicting a bubble bust soon. Great video ..girl I'm in the same boat I'm single with no kids 28 and really want a townhouse too
Im in the process of buying my first home... at first i was STRONGLY against condos/townhomes because i'm afraid of noisy neighbors, but condos/townhomes literally have everything i want. Before watching this i had no idea you lived in Nashville, I do too! I'm glad this showed up in my search
Thank you for sharing, I'm moving to Texas next year. I'm beyond excited, I won't purchase a house until I live there for at least 2 years. I needed to see this coming from a single women. I'm single, daughter is in college, I'm ready to move onto the next chapter.
Sis, l will be closing on the condo I'll be getting in mid to late June and coming across this video has only confirmed that the decision I made was the right one! You truly spoke to me! God's blessings to you always.
Great nuggets of advice. For those still hunting for a home, I will also say that whatever amount your bank approves you for, try to stay way under that amount.
My first purchase was a condo and I didn’t like it. It was mainly because I’m from the country in Texas and I am use to yard work and being outside putting in work into the house. The condo association fees were ridiculous....An extra $300 PER MONTH and all they did was upkeep the grass and pool. Those fees would increase each year as people moved out. I now own a single family home and I love it. It all depends on where you are purchasing your home. I finally moved back to Texas and made my purchase and I love it!!! It’s all about what you want!
It’s like that’s where I live. Very much a sellers market. I got out bidded too. That’s why I went new construction the competition is too much. I couldn’t compete with people it was too stressful. And I love my house. There is nothing wrong with buying a condo. I think that’s what the young hip people do. Like u said ur in the home ur supposed to be in. ❤️
Thanks so much babe! I know I spoke to you about it a while ago. I was inspired when you purchased. I am very pleased with my decision especially now that I know this is where I'm supposed to be!
Congratulations! Peace surpasses trying to keep up with society’s standards of “LIVING” enjoy your new space and I can’t wait to see how you style your home!
Omg girl god puts people in our lives for a reason. I’m 29 and literally the last few months have been thinking that I want to purchase. This video just popped up and I’ve never seen your page before. And you a plus size blogger and a Sista!! Ima have to watch all your videos!!! Congrats on your new purchase!!
I'm currently looking to purchase a home, initially I wanted a single family home but like you said now I realized I can afford only a condo. Everything you said about getting outbid and all was to a T. But I'm going to pray on it. Thank you so much for this video! This is exactly what I needed rn
Girrrrl you up here preaching!!! I just came in the comment section to give my offering 💰💰💰💰💰 Great Success to you, keep on shining 🔦💡and Congratulations 🎉🎈🎊
Congratulations!!! 😁😁😁 I also have a condo. I purchased my condo when I was 26 single and child free. I'm now ready for a single family home or townhome. My HOA management company drives me nuts with their rules and fees.
DO it, I was in same boat, garden style condo and I hated it, people above me and next to me, and constant stomping above me, will never buy this type of condo again! Switched to single family home and I am MUCH happier, more work, but that ok, I like yard work.
There is nothing more gratifying than owning your own home. Congratulations on your purchase! For me, the biggest plus is that you can paint it any color you want (love yours, btw) and absolutely make it your own! You have many good points on your decision to purchase a condo. I can't wait to see your other videos on the before/after look!
I'm 25 and I live at home too, my parents said I can stay with them as long as I like, I love my parents we get along just fine, but I did study abroad in Japan and I stayed by myself and it made me want to live on my own, I want to move out next year but I have to pay some things off and I want a better paying job. I don't have kids so things are easier for me.
My 1st time watching your video and congrats to your new purchase! I could do relate to this video. I purchased a townhouse at 30 as well......I'm in my late 40's now. I had all these ideas of what I wanted and it was a different story when I actually started looked. I had to go to the opposite in of town in the suburbs......and I was a true city girl. But I prayed, purchased and am so happy and blessed. It's an older building and I need cosmetic changes desperately. I just took my time and did one room at a time. I'm still here 17 yrs later. Lol you're an inspiration to young women. I'll be checking out your home decor videos. 😊
I know this video is 3 years old but it’s right on time. I’m a graduate student looking to buy after graduation and I’ve always wanted a townhome as a single women with no kids who currently lives with parents. This is so good!!! Love this!
I’m starting my process this year and I will never never feel embarrassed I’m a single woman 28 this year no kids and no man! I’ll be the second homeowner in my family ❤️
Thank you so much for posting this video, this is so me and I'm currently going through the same process. Your testimony brought tears to my eyes because I seen me through your video. I appreciate you.
congratss siss 👏🥳 all glory to God!! This encouraged me to continue to trust and surrender to Him and His will for me in this process- cant wait to hear about the many blessings and endeavors He'll take you on in the future!!😉
Hi, Brittany love ❤ your video. You made a lot of sense when you compared a single home cost -vs- a condo/townhouse cost. You're right there is a big difference in the amount to owning and maintaining the up keep of a house -vs- condo (or townhouse). A house you are totally responsible for the repairs, landscaping and other stuff. Whereas with a condo ( or townhouse) you pay a monthly fee for snow removal, grass cutting and trash clean-up. So, that's a plus if you're a single woman (or mom) and you don't have anyone to help you with those type tasks. And the amenities ( use of : pool, community room, park, playground, gym room, etc.) far out way paying for membership individually. It make sense to look at what options you have and which one will save you money in the long run. Great video loved it. Thanks for sharing. 👍👍👍
Thank you so much for being bias & honest about your journey. I'm in a my journey now and I'm excited about my first purchase at 29! Congrats on your wins & more to come !
I am so proud of you, this is such a big accomplishment especially buying on your own. Nashville sounds like Oakland, CA right now. I completely understand feeling like your dream of buying a home in the city you were born and raised in would never come to fruition. Gentrification has completely made the market in Oakland unattainable for many of the city's natives. Somehow, i was able to purchase a single family home in this market 18 months ago. I, just like you, truly believe that Divine Intervention played a major part me finding my home and perfect lender. Unless other people are willing to pay your mortgage, the opinion of others does not matter. Congrats.
Same problem here in the UK. Villages have become desirable to the London elite, they buy holiday homes out here and barely live in them, meanwhile we who were born in these villages are having to leave to find houses because we've been out priced. I'm pretty gutted I won't be living in my home village probably ever xx
Congratulations!!! (The same real estate explosion is happening here too in Richmond, VA! A realtor-relative said it happens every 40-50 years. And yes, it does price out homeowners, via higher taxes, i.e., older residents)
My husband and I have been looking for our first single family home in a crazy sellers market in the greater Sacramento area. Offers keep being denied, we even tried one 15k over asking price. I have been praying so much- our apartment lease is running out of time. I told my realtor I want to give up- last night We found an apartment style condo that we love the layout etc we are viewing Friday , I never thought we would look at that style home. I started feeling so embarrassed if we loved it and got it... I found your video this morning and am feeling so blessed I did. Even if we don’t go that route: this is so inspiring! It makes so much sense and you’re not going to be “house poor” which is our goal! To still have $ to travel and live! I really felt the need to just tell you all of this which I never do on youtube haha! But seriously wanted to say thank you for making such an honest raw video!
Aww i'm so happy you stumbled across my video at the right time! Regardless of what you choose to buy, just make sure you and your husband are happy with it. No outside noise matters! So happy you felt encouraged watching this!
Congrats on purchasing your condo! My heart sings when I hear you speak of how you sought the lord in prayer and listen and walked in obedience when he responded to you. But God!!!!!!!
Omg our stories are similar! I just moved into my house last month and I also got hardwoods for the low low this month!! Congratulations!! Thank you for sharing your story!!!
Love the video! I know you said people are comparing the prices of homes in Nashville to NY,. No comparison! I’m from NYC, you get a lot more in other cities for your money than Ny..... We are one of the most expensive cities to live in in the USA!
So proud of you following God’s will for your first purchase babe. You are so right about when we listen to God and obey how the blessings come pouring in 💗
Brittany I PocketsandBowsTV I’m single too and at first I was looking for a house or townhouse and I was like wait a minute.. I don’t have kids or a man, lol. I rented a condo before and love all the amenities especially a doorman. So that’s what I want again. I’m going to have to rent just a little bit longer. Hopefully not to long I don’t have anyone to live with. I been on my own since I was 14 when my mom passed. I’m 38 now. I did have a fear of buying and being committed but just like you said.. I was throwing away money. This one condo I rented 1300 every month and had to move when my landlord decided to sell. I tried to buy it but it was toooooo overpriced! Wasn’t the right timing so I know God will bring me the right home. 😊 thank you, random question but are you a Libra or a cancer? I’m into astrology and it’s just what I’m picking up. I’m a cancer and tend to meet a lot of Libra’s. Lol
@@lifeisbeautiful9455 omg I'm 14 and I'm wondering when I get out of high school or college is a condo a good place to buy and rent and what's the difference between buying a house
I'm struggling with the decision right now. I'm a single male no kids and almost 40. I've always lived in a house. I don't like the thought of HOAs and neighbors on all sides up and down. But I've seen some Conds and Townhomes that are very nice.
Bless your home. I'll buy if I move out of state because in NY- forget it. A new co-op, not even a condo is selling for $855K plus maintenance on my block which is becoming gentrified. And I am in Brooklyn.
You can find co-ops in Brooklyn under $250K especially if you have the 20% down payment most of them require. I agree though that you get more house outside of NY for less money.
OMG I got chills watching this. My story is similar especially in the fact that my townhouse “fell into my lap”. When I walked into the model home, I had no idea that I would begin the process of buying that same day. Im extremely happy for you, I can’t wait to see what’s to come.
I love this. Its interesting to hear your perspective and the process of choosing a home to buy. I'm 30 as well, I'm interested to buy a condo, I've always viewed condo's as the perfect first home for young people lol.
You made a great choice! As a fellow nashvillian, preparing to buy, I often thought of condo living. One, because I’m from NY and everyone lives in apartments. Two, like you said, Nashville is MAD expensive now. You made an amazing investment and I cant wait to see your decor vids!
Enjoyed this video. Congrats & A huge thank you for speaking candidly and expressing your thoughts of condo vs Home. I agree with all that you stated. A resident in NYC, it is rough with the asking prices for the matchbox that you get. Love that you said "I Am Proud of Me" All orchestrated by God will align. Blessings
I had a cute little condo in Miami, FL it was 860 square feet, lived there for 9 years until I moved to central Florida last year. Got a buyer in 7 days. I redid the kitchen cabinets and the master bathroom. I changed all the light fixtures, painted and decorated to my hearts content. I absolutely loved it. I got many compliments and even the exterminator who sprayed the building said nobody’s apartment looked like mine. It was always so clean. Yes, I was single and tired of paying high rent for something I wasn’t going to own. Great video. Congratulations on your new home. I also love to decorate.
Hoping to have my own condo within the next two years 🙌🏼 taking the time this year to save and get some stuff together financially. Then maybe start actively looking beginning on next year. This video helped me a lot. Thank you! 🖤
@@PocketsandBowsTV Finally bought my own apartment. Thanks for sharing once again, it's great to have some information from young black women regarding realistic financial goals.
See, I am 25 years old and still living with my mom. Ive NEVER moved out on my own because I've seen so many people struggle. She's helping me get my own condo and your doing EXACTLY what I want to do!! Why spend so much money on something that won't be yours in the end and will run you broke!? Loved watching this!!
Thank you so much for this incredible video! I've been searching for a home, and have been so anxious and torn about whether to choose a single-family or condo. I am a young, single female, and I am so grateful I stumbled across your video at this time in my life. Your journey really spoke to me, and it made me realize there is power in waiting for the right home. I started out the exact same way--I wanted a townhome, wood floors, a natural setting, and garage. I jumped to make offers on a few condos because the good options wouldn't last more than two days, but they just didn't feel right and I'm grateful now that I was outbid by cash offers at full price. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I'm so happy you found the perfect home!
Congrats doll! I'm glad you're finding peace within the home buying process. It's been about 10 months since I purchased my town home and I'm just getting to that mental place where I'm realizing where God wants me to be is where I'll be. My mortgage is less than the apartment I was renting, and just like you said, you can never get that rental money back. Whereas when you're paying a mortgage, you're essentially living in your investment. You're paying for something you OWN. And don't feel bad about buying what some may consider an "apartment". You own that, boo boo. And it works for you! And if you decide one day it doesn't work for you, you can sell it and hopefully profit. You're not stuck. None of us are stuck. All is well. :-) xoxo
Keep sharing this testimony! I’m currently looking for a condo and this video came up and it was exactly what I needed to hear. I pray that God continues to align your path. Blessings!
I love how you talked about the Lord guiding you. ❤ and getting what you needed and not what would please others. Amen ❤ First time watching... #NewSubbie❤ Proud of you too!!❤
Am currently in the process of buying a condo. I wanted a house or town home but I had to humble my self and get a condo. Glad I found these video because I definitely needed to watch it.
This is an old video, (I just discovered your page) but let me tell you it’s is one of the realest videos I ever seen on you tube! I’m a single mom of two boys and I’m thinking of purchasing a condo. Born and raised in NY, it’s so expensive here whether it’s renting or purchasing. It is out of control. It’s very discouraging. I’m giving myself three years to get it done. I’m going to pray on it hopefully he will guide my steps.
This was so timely and helpful! Im going through the same process in the Chicago market. Like you, I felt like buying a condo was not like buying a “real” home. I had to look at my options based on where I’m at in life right now. I’m trying to decide between two condos and I am definitely seeking Him for guidance 🙏🏽. Congratulations and I will be watching for more helpful tips!
It’s definitely a sellers market in Indiana too. A house will go up for sale one day and three days later it’s sold . Then next thing you know the person who bought it is renting it out for 3x the mortgage
I'm a new subbie. I love your energy I was drawn to that and your sense of style. IN this video you spoke a word that I truly can relate to I have been through the exact same thing as far as being in perfect alignment with the will of God. When you are in perfect alignment with his will whatever your setting out to do will be done effortlessly, no stumbling blocks no bumps, no wrong turns. Everything will just flow, when that happens you know that your move is ordained by God himself and he is providing you with the best of the best. So I thank God for you being obedient you being faithful you maintaining your prayer life and listening to what God is saying to you and how he's directing you because that is how it goes. When you have issues and you find yourself struggling to try to do things that you want to do, should be a red flag that maybe this is not for me and maybe I need to step back and listen and wait for my clearance to move in another Direction
Sis I am you! I’m 30 and looking for a place to live. Thought I was gonna get a house and after showings I’m looking at a condo. Whew I’m deaf gonna pray for God to lead me. I appreciate this video so much thank you ❤️
this is confirmation to be more open minded about where God might place me. I think we often times let the idea of what other people think influence our decisions & stray us away from what God has already told us. I love the point you made about how owning a condo wasn't what you wanted initially. But look at you now, you own property, you made a great investment, you're in a safe environment & where God has placed you it lines up with your financial wellness. HALLELUJAH !!
I'm really glad you made this video. I really want to buy,but after I pay off my home those HOA fees will always be. I know the HOA can be a good thing,but that's a struggle I may have to deal with. I live in South Carolina and these HOA fee is almoat a mortgage payment.
Those HOAs are precisely why, I purchased a SFH... my neighbors are cool & thete is a long established block club of older folks, I adore... good job on whichever one you decide... moral: just decide! ❤
Congrats on becoming an homeowner!! You did what was best for you & God saw fit for you to get it!!! All things done with God in mind will be of abundance!! Can't wait for decor haul & interior styling videos (hint hint)
I am so happy for you! You inspired me. I myself and seeking to purchase my first home and I agree it’s a sellers market and I reside in Texas. But I’m definitely taking my time and listening to the Lord and praying for direction so I can make the best decision for Me!!! I can’t wait to see your home updates!!! 🤗🤗
Sis you spoke a word on here!!! I think it’s a great idea to get a condo. People don’t understand the full effect of maintaining a home period and you never want to be House rich and cash poor. I can’t wait to see what you do cause if it’s anything like your fashion we’re in for a treat!!! Congratulations again!♥️
Thank you!!
Brittany you should not feel embarrassed about purchasing a condo, not many single women are capable of such a great accomplishment. I bought my first place when I was twenty one and I've never rented another place since. It was a fixer but I jumped in and learned how to do a few things to improve it. You will be thrilled when you do your taxes next year and get your mortgagee interest deduction too! If you can get yourself to a place where you can save for your next place but keep your last and rent it out , and can do that a few times, you will have a nice little nest egg when you are ready to retire!
Thank you so much! This is definitely something that I'd love to do :)
Yesssssssssss!! For the wisdom of becoming a landlord trying to teach my five kids how to invest and not toss money out of the window
Exactly
Thank you for sharing. That is a testimony and give hope for everyone who choose to be blessed.
“When you listen and let him guide you, he will provide” 🙏🏻
AMEN!
This is Huge!!!! Congratulations! A friend once told me that if the process is not smooth God is not in it. God was all in this process. #church
Amen!
So true.....Congrats Brittney....going on 2 years in my new home....God was all in it!...Amen
Mind you I bought a condo also😊
Thank you that's great advice.
@Tajuana Trone true
I never knew there was a negative stigma for buying a condo. I always thought it was a wonderful choice for ppl who wanted to own but, without the extra stress that comes with a house.
So happy you stepped out of yourself and accepted what God had for you 😊 a lot of ppl wouldn’t nor admit they needed to humble themselves! Many future blessings to you!!!! 💜
Thank you so much!!
Congratulations my dear Brittany. I got my first property at age 30. You are so wise and so humble. Be always proud of your accomplishments! You are a role model. I am in my 40s and I admire you.
Awww thank you so much! I'm humbled by your comment!
Girl, you sound like me. I will soon be closing on my condo. My SFH fell through. My son will be a freshman and I prefer him to stay in his district. I never considered a condo. But, as you say God is in control. I’m a single mom, will be starting my Master’s this fall, working 2 jobs. I also asked my closing cost and got it. My mortgage with HOA dues is the amount I paid in my apartment. I sacrificed for 2 years, moved back with my parents and I’m 38. Trust God is in control, we just have to trust the process.
Beautiful! Congratulations!
LaToya Marie Congrats honey...something I did..sacrificed & moved back home with parents for 2 years and it will be 2 years in my condo November of this year....
Tajae J I needed the encouragement. This process has been so stressful for me but, I’m glad I sacrificed. I want my son to always admire the fight in me to provide him with a better life.
Trust me, he will....I have to boys...1 graduates this year and the other last year......
LaToya Marie Are your HOA fees Tax deductibles?
thank you for this. when you said you prayed on this i teared up. god is so good.
Yes he is! Thanks babe!!
Ughh...me too I teared up so bad
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I bought my house last year I was 32 like you I wanted a townhome but God opened up the flood gates I ended up purchasing a new construction 4 bedroom single family home. The maintenance isn't bad at all it comes with a warranty any problems I call DR Horton. I do however mow my own grass but I enjoy yardwork. Congratulations on your purchase!
daise19 see I’m about to be 20 and deciding on condo or house... crazy part is ima allergic to grass so I break out bad that’s the only thing stopping me but I might have to work around it
Congratulations 🎉 I closed on my home and I’m so happy I chose a new build
I purchased a SF home 8 years ago and let me tell you...home repairs/maintenance, yard work, snow removal and again repairs/maintenance is TOO MUCH for this chick! I’m trying to stay put until my son finishes school...we have 4 years! I will sell my house, downsize to a condo or TH in a gated community with HOA fees so that I can have hassle free living.
I was just wondering if I wanted to tackle a SF home as a single person. You just answered my question!! Thank you...Townhome w/HOA it is! :)
I love the way that you acknowledge God...then know that He got you just keep Him first. The blessings of the Lord makes it rich and add no sorrow. Be Blessed can't wait see what s next❤️
Loved this video!! You made great points! I think when i buy my first home it'll definitely be a condo. I like the security, being single. Woo i love what you said, you made the right choice for you without thinking about others! I think too many ppl get caught up buying what everyone els is buying. I love your place 💕
Thanks babe!! I really appreciate that! I think getting a condo or townhouse is the way to go for women who are single with no children.
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Congrats doll! Great info. I really wanted a condo initially, but the condo fees here in the DC /Northern VA area are crazy (400-900 per month). I decided to increase my budget and get a Townhome. I just closed 60 days ago! I don't believe as a single woman, a single family home would have been the best move for me. Awesome, awesome video!
Thank you so much! And that is awesome! Congrats on your new home!
Brittany I PocketsandBowsTV Aww thank you so much doll!! 🤗
VA homes are affordable
I like the fact that you are being so real about your home buying process. God bless!
Thank you!!
Your skin is a dream! I can't stop staring at how perfect and luminous it is!!
Oh wow! Thank you!
Black don’t crack sis
Yes! It's the skin for me!
@@xochxrry6857 mines do I have ance everywhere lol I'm 14 tho
I was just noticing that too 😍
Nothing better than having something of your OWN 💰🗣😌🙌🏾 I am 23 and I definitely feel like Condo living would be great for me I don’t have any kids so I wanna purchase a Condo within the next year or so time to MANIFEST thank you for this video sis ❤️
I am a 28 y.o single woman. No kids. I want to purchase a town home by myself but just the thought of getting everything started gets me overwhelmed. Im still saving money and talking about "one day..." ughh
xVvix xnNix Do not get overwhelmed. I find that women are the best at home buying because we never overlook the small details.
Girl , live your best life. Do not allow fear or apprehension to stop you. It starts with a list( you can do that today).
thank you :)
The thought process is more overwhelming then the actual process. Just make sure all of your ducks are in a row, credit, money, tax returns, all your recent W-2's and check stubs. Also, make sure your bank accounts are straight.. don't open any new credit. You got this!
Good luck!! U can do it :)
My advice is don't jump on the first thing you see and don't settle you will have some Realtors getting annoyed at all the houses you've looked at but that's when you remind them that it's your money on the line and your responsibilities financially and if they still give you attitude get rid of them and get another realtor trust me take ya time
Congratulations on the purchase of your first home..you have to do what's right for you...no one's going to be paying YOUR bills except you...it doesn't matter what others think or have...there is great potential in your home...well done
Hmm 🤔 ...you just gave me a new idea! I'm 26 y/o, single with no children, and I hate the idea of renting and fear buying a whole house. Buying a condo may be perfect for me during this era of my life. Thanks so much for sharing this. Congratulations on owning your first property 😊 ...Subbed!
Thank you so much! I'm glad my video gave you a new perspective!
Congrats! This is so encouraging! I am currently a single and have a 4 year old daughter. We have been looking at homes for about 3 months, here in Atlanta. So I more than understand your statement about being from the city and can barely afford to live in it!
It is amazing to see women moving into their own property and not waiting until they are married. I love it! God bless and I can't wait to see how you update your new place!
Thank you so much!! Happy searching!
Yes Lord! Won't he do it!!!
Congratulations!!!! 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
When it's Gods will it just works out!
I can't wait to see the decor in your new home I'm sure it'll be beautiful
Thank you!!
This is your first property...you can rent the property out (make money). Keep your eye on the "prize." God is awesome!
Love seeing your perspective on the housing market as a fellow young black female entering her 30's. I think the housing across America is very overpriced and they're predicting a bubble bust soon. Great video ..girl I'm in the same boat I'm single with no kids 28 and really want a townhouse too
Im in the process of buying my first home... at first i was STRONGLY against condos/townhomes because i'm afraid of noisy neighbors, but condos/townhomes literally have everything i want. Before watching this i had no idea you lived in Nashville, I do too! I'm glad this showed up in my search
Thank you for sharing, I'm moving to Texas next year. I'm beyond excited, I won't purchase a house until I live there for at least 2 years. I needed to see this coming from a single women. I'm single, daughter is in college, I'm ready to move onto the next chapter.
Did you end up moving?!
Sis, l will be closing on the condo I'll be getting in mid to late June and coming across this video has only confirmed that the decision I made was the right one! You truly spoke to me! God's blessings to you always.
Aww congratulations!!! So happy you enjoyed my video :)
Great nuggets of advice. For those still hunting for a home, I will also say that whatever amount your bank approves you for, try to stay way under that amount.
My first purchase was a condo and I didn’t like it. It was mainly because I’m from the country in Texas and I am use to yard work and being outside putting in work into the house. The condo association fees were ridiculous....An extra $300 PER MONTH and all they did was upkeep the grass and pool. Those fees would increase each year as people moved out. I now own a single family home and I love it. It all depends on where you are purchasing your home. I finally moved back to Texas and made my purchase and I love it!!! It’s all about what you want!
Very true! Most single family homes here have an association fee if they are in a subdivision, but the newer the home the less the fee.
It’s like that’s where I live. Very much a sellers market. I got out bidded too. That’s why I went new construction the competition is too much. I couldn’t compete with people it was too stressful. And I love my house. There is nothing wrong with buying a condo. I think that’s what the young hip people do. Like u said ur in the home ur supposed to be in. ❤️
Thanks so much babe! I know I spoke to you about it a while ago. I was inspired when you purchased. I am very pleased with my decision especially now that I know this is where I'm supposed to be!
Congratulations! Peace surpasses trying to keep up with society’s standards of “LIVING” enjoy your new space and I can’t wait to see how you style your home!
Thank you!
Can you make a video stating how you financially prepared yourself? Savings credit building etc?
Omg girl god puts people in our lives for a reason. I’m 29 and literally the last few months have been thinking that I want to purchase. This video just popped up and I’ve never seen your page before. And you a plus size blogger and a Sista!! Ima have to watch all your videos!!! Congrats on your new purchase!!
Aww thank you so much!!
I'm currently looking to purchase a home, initially I wanted a single family home but like you said now I realized I can afford only a condo. Everything you said about getting outbid and all was to a T. But I'm going to pray on it. Thank you so much for this video! This is exactly what I needed rn
Girrrrl you up here preaching!!! I just came in the comment section to give my offering 💰💰💰💰💰 Great Success to you, keep on shining 🔦💡and Congratulations 🎉🎈🎊
LOL Thank you!!
Congratulations!!! 😁😁😁 I also have a condo. I purchased my condo when I was 26 single and child free. I'm now ready for a single family home or townhome. My HOA management company drives me nuts with their rules and fees.
DO it, I was in same boat, garden style condo and I hated it, people above me and next to me, and constant stomping above me, will never buy this type of condo again! Switched to single family home and I am MUCH happier, more work, but that ok, I like yard work.
yes! I love that you followed God's plan! I can't wait to see the renovations you make to YOUR home!
Thank you!!
There is nothing more gratifying than owning your own home. Congratulations on your purchase! For me, the biggest plus is that you can paint it any color you want (love yours, btw) and absolutely make it your own! You have many good points on your decision to purchase a condo. I can't wait to see your other videos on the before/after look!
Thank you so much!
I'm 25 and I live at home too, my parents said I can stay with them as long as I like, I love my parents we get along just fine, but I did study abroad in Japan and I stayed by myself and it made me want to live on my own, I want to move out next year but I have to pay some things off and I want a better paying job. I don't have kids so things are easier for me.
My 1st time watching your video and congrats to your new purchase! I could do relate to this video. I purchased a townhouse at 30 as well......I'm in my late 40's now. I had all these ideas of what I wanted and it was a different story when I actually started looked. I had to go to the opposite in of town in the suburbs......and I was a true city girl. But I prayed, purchased and am so happy and blessed. It's an older building and I need cosmetic changes desperately. I just took my time and did one room at a time. I'm still here 17 yrs later. Lol you're an inspiration to young women. I'll be checking out your home decor videos. 😊
Thank you so much!!
Are we all just gonna ignore the fact that this woman should be a fucking role model, a model, and an advisor of sorts? So smart! Good for you!
Sis, I’m born & raised in Nashville too & when I tell you .... this video was a COMPLETE blessing! 🙌🏽
Thank you!! I'm so glad you enjoyed it!
I know this video is 3 years old but it’s right on time. I’m a graduate student looking to buy after graduation and I’ve always wanted a townhome as a single women with no kids who currently lives with parents. This is so good!!! Love this!
So Glad it was helpful!
Congratulations again, looking forward to “our” new condo journey 🤗
I’m starting my process this year and I will never never feel embarrassed I’m a single woman 28 this year no kids and no man! I’ll be the second homeowner in my family ❤️
Congratulations!
Thank you so much for posting this video, this is so me and I'm currently going through the same process. Your testimony brought tears to my eyes because I seen me through your video. I appreciate you.
Beautiful! Thank you so much!
congratss siss 👏🥳 all glory to God!! This encouraged me to continue to trust and surrender to Him and His will for me in this process- cant wait to hear about the many blessings and endeavors He'll take you on in the future!!😉
Hi, Brittany love ❤ your video. You made a lot of sense when you compared a single home cost -vs- a condo/townhouse cost. You're right there is a big difference in the amount to owning and maintaining the up keep of a house -vs- condo (or townhouse). A house you are totally responsible for the repairs, landscaping and other stuff. Whereas with a condo ( or townhouse) you pay a monthly fee for snow removal, grass cutting and trash clean-up. So, that's a plus if you're a single woman (or mom) and you don't have anyone to help you with those type tasks. And the amenities ( use of : pool, community room, park, playground, gym room, etc.) far out way paying for membership individually. It make sense to look at what options you have and which one will save you money in the long run. Great video loved it. Thanks for sharing. 👍👍👍
Thank you!!
I agree with you. Condos are a worthwhile investment, in this economy.
Amen!!! He will order your steps! ❤️
Yes he will!
Thank you so much for being bias & honest about your journey. I'm in a my journey now and I'm excited about my first purchase at 29! Congrats on your wins & more to come !
I am so proud of you, this is such a big accomplishment especially buying on your own. Nashville sounds like Oakland, CA right now. I completely understand feeling like your dream of buying a home in the city you were born and raised in would never come to fruition. Gentrification has completely made the market in Oakland unattainable for many of the city's natives. Somehow, i was able to purchase a single family home in this market 18 months ago. I, just like you, truly believe that Divine Intervention played a major part me finding my home and perfect lender. Unless other people are willing to pay your mortgage, the opinion of others does not matter. Congrats.
Same problem here in the UK. Villages have become desirable to the London elite, they buy holiday homes out here and barely live in them, meanwhile we who were born in these villages are having to leave to find houses because we've been out priced. I'm pretty gutted I won't be living in my home village probably ever xx
Congratulations!!! (The same real estate explosion is happening here too in Richmond, VA! A realtor-relative said it happens every 40-50 years. And yes, it does price out homeowners, via higher taxes, i.e., older residents)
My husband and I have been looking for our first single family home in a crazy sellers market in the greater Sacramento area. Offers keep being denied, we even tried one 15k over asking price. I have been praying so much- our apartment lease is running out of time. I told my realtor I want to give up- last night We found an apartment style condo that we love the layout etc we are viewing Friday , I never thought we would look at that style home. I started feeling so embarrassed if we loved it and got it... I found your video this morning and am feeling so blessed I did. Even if we don’t go that route: this is so inspiring! It makes so much sense and you’re not going to be “house poor” which is our goal! To still have $ to travel and live! I really felt the need to just tell you all of this which I never do on youtube haha! But seriously wanted to say thank you for making such an honest raw video!
Aww i'm so happy you stumbled across my video at the right time! Regardless of what you choose to buy, just make sure you and your husband are happy with it. No outside noise matters! So happy you felt encouraged watching this!
Congratulations! I’m so proud of you.!
watching pre-covid videos feels like a completely different era now
That’s crazy! In my city, NY, you can’t find any decent house for 300K. I need to move to Nashville. Lol
Congrats on purchasing your condo! My heart sings when I hear you speak of how you sought the lord in prayer and listen and walked in obedience when he responded to you. But God!!!!!!!
Omg our stories are similar! I just moved into my house last month and I also got hardwoods for the low low this month!! Congratulations!! Thank you for sharing your story!!!
What’s meant for you, Is meant for you! Blessed and highly favored!
Love the video! I know you said people are comparing the prices of homes in Nashville to NY,. No comparison! I’m from NYC, you get a lot more in other cities for your money than Ny..... We are one of the most expensive cities to live in in the USA!
Yea i could never live in NY. The dirt and the crowd lol. It's nice to visit though, but i'm always exhausted when i leave
So proud of you following God’s will for your first purchase babe. You are so right about when we listen to God and obey how the blessings come pouring in 💗
Thank you so much :)
This video was heaven sent! Thank you! I needed this. Been looking for a condo for a minute!
Awesome! So glad it helped :)
Brittany I PocketsandBowsTV I’m single too and at first I was looking for a house or townhouse and I was like wait a minute.. I don’t have kids or a man, lol. I rented a condo before and love all the amenities especially a doorman. So that’s what I want again. I’m going to have to rent just a little bit longer. Hopefully not to long I don’t have anyone to live with. I been on my own since I was 14 when my mom passed. I’m 38 now. I did have a fear of buying and being committed but just like you said.. I was throwing away money. This one condo I rented 1300 every month and had to move when my landlord decided to sell. I tried to buy it but it was toooooo overpriced! Wasn’t the right timing so I know God will bring me the right home. 😊 thank you, random question but are you a Libra or a cancer? I’m into astrology and it’s just what I’m picking up. I’m a cancer and tend to meet a lot of Libra’s. Lol
@@lifeisbeautiful9455 omg I'm 14 and I'm wondering when I get out of high school or college is a condo a good place to buy and rent and what's the difference between buying a house
I am older viewer and my daughter name is Brittany and so click with you and am proud that you purchased your 1st home and is pleased with it.
Yep! Gentrification at its finest. The same process is happening in Kansas City, MO.
I'm struggling with the decision right now. I'm a single male no kids and almost 40. I've always lived in a house. I don't like the thought of HOAs and neighbors on all sides up and down. But I've seen some Conds and Townhomes that are very nice.
Bless your home. I'll buy if I move out of state because in NY- forget it. A new co-op, not even a condo is selling for $855K plus maintenance on my block which is becoming gentrified. And I am in Brooklyn.
Sindyred oh lord 5 bedroom new homes for 300,000k in orlando florida
You can find co-ops in Brooklyn under $250K especially if you have the 20% down payment most of them require. I agree though that you get more house outside of NY for less money.
Look into Long Island
OMG I got chills watching this. My story is similar especially in the fact that my townhouse “fell into my lap”. When I walked into the model home, I had no idea that I would begin the process of buying that same day. Im extremely happy for you, I can’t wait to see what’s to come.
Yes!! I literally put in an offer and the next thing you know i was signing all of these papers and had a mortgage. I couldn't believe it lol.
I love this. Its interesting to hear your perspective and the process of choosing a home to buy. I'm 30 as well, I'm interested to buy a condo, I've always viewed condo's as the perfect first home for young people lol.
Thank you!!
You made a great choice! As a fellow nashvillian, preparing to buy, I often thought of condo living. One, because I’m from NY and everyone lives in apartments. Two, like you said, Nashville is MAD expensive now. You made an amazing investment and I cant wait to see your decor vids!
Enjoyed this video. Congrats & A huge thank you for speaking candidly and expressing your thoughts of condo vs Home. I agree with all that you stated. A resident in NYC, it is rough with the asking prices for the matchbox that you get. Love that you said "I Am Proud of Me" All orchestrated by God will align. Blessings
I had a cute little condo in Miami, FL it was 860 square feet, lived there for 9 years until I moved to central Florida last year. Got a buyer in 7 days. I redid the kitchen cabinets and the master bathroom. I changed all the light fixtures, painted and decorated to my hearts content. I absolutely loved it. I got many compliments and even the exterminator who sprayed the building said nobody’s apartment looked like mine. It was always so clean. Yes, I was single and tired of paying high rent for something I wasn’t going to own. Great video. Congratulations on your new home. I also love to decorate.
Thank you so much!
I know God lead me to this video! Thank you so much for sharing!!!
You are so welcome!!
I love the honestly. This came at the perfect time for me as I’m going to start searching again after taking a pause.
So happy this video was to encourage you! Home buying can be a daunting process, but you got this!
Hoping to have my own condo within the next two years 🙌🏼 taking the time this year to save and get some stuff together financially. Then maybe start actively looking beginning on next year. This video helped me a lot. Thank you! 🖤
@@PocketsandBowsTV Finally bought my own apartment. Thanks for sharing once again, it's great to have some information from young black women regarding realistic financial goals.
See, I am 25 years old and still living with my mom. Ive NEVER moved out on my own because I've seen so many people struggle. She's helping me get my own condo and your doing EXACTLY what I want to do!! Why spend so much money on something that won't be yours in the end and will run you broke!? Loved watching this!!
Thank you so much for this incredible video! I've been searching for a home, and have been so anxious and torn about whether to choose a single-family or condo. I am a young, single female, and I am so grateful I stumbled across your video at this time in my life. Your journey really spoke to me, and it made me realize there is power in waiting for the right home. I started out the exact same way--I wanted a townhome, wood floors, a natural setting, and garage. I jumped to make offers on a few condos because the good options wouldn't last more than two days, but they just didn't feel right and I'm grateful now that I was outbid by cash offers at full price. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I'm so happy you found the perfect home!
What did u end up choosing
You have a beautiful home and you are blessed hunti!! What God has for you is for you 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾 me shouting!
Thank you luv!!
Congrats doll! I'm glad you're finding peace within the home buying process. It's been about 10 months since I purchased my town home and I'm just getting to that mental place where I'm realizing where God wants me to be is where I'll be. My mortgage is less than the apartment I was renting, and just like you said, you can never get that rental money back. Whereas when you're paying a mortgage, you're essentially living in your investment. You're paying for something you OWN. And don't feel bad about buying what some may consider an "apartment". You own that, boo boo. And it works for you! And if you decide one day it doesn't work for you, you can sell it and hopefully profit. You're not stuck. None of us are stuck. All is well. :-) xoxo
Thank you so much babe! I appreciate the kind words!
I’m trying to convince my 27 yr old Niece to buy a condo too as her starter home.
Keep sharing this testimony! I’m currently looking for a condo and this video came up and it was exactly what I needed to hear. I pray that God continues to align your path. Blessings!
So Glad it was helpful! Good luck on your journey!
I love how you talked about the Lord guiding you. ❤ and getting what you needed and not what would please others. Amen ❤
First time watching... #NewSubbie❤
Proud of you too!!❤
Am currently in the process of buying a condo. I wanted a house or town home but I had to humble my self and get a condo. Glad I found these video because I definitely needed to watch it.
I'm with you girl. I'd buy a nice condo over a single family home.
We sound IDENTICAL!!! Congrats! I closed a few months ago on an apartment in NY so I feel you 100%.
Congratulations!!
Awwww. Thanks so much for sharing your story! Very inspiring.
Thank you!!
This is an old video, (I just discovered your page) but let me tell you it’s is one of the realest videos I ever seen on you tube! I’m a single mom of two boys and I’m thinking of purchasing a condo. Born and raised in NY, it’s so expensive here whether it’s renting or purchasing. It is out of control. It’s very discouraging. I’m giving myself three years to get it done. I’m going to pray on it hopefully he will guide my steps.
Wow, thank you! You will get it done!!
i wish i could scoop a bargain in new york city.. i will be 35 by the time i can afford something smh. pray for me girl
This was so timely and helpful! Im going through the same process in the Chicago market. Like you, I felt like buying a condo was not like buying a “real” home. I had to look at my options based on where I’m at in life right now. I’m trying to decide between two condos and I am definitely seeking Him for guidance 🙏🏽. Congratulations and I will be watching for more helpful tips!
Thank you so much! Good luck on your journey!
It’s definitely a sellers market in Indiana too. A house will go up for sale one day and three days later it’s sold . Then next thing you know the person who bought it is renting it out for 3x the mortgage
AlwaysTatiana Wow just WOW!!!! Save, save, save $$$$ yall!
I’m in Indianapolis and it’s disheartening. Everyone is in a bidding war.
Brit, you have preached a whole word!! Amen and congratulations doll!!
Thank you!!
I'm a new subbie. I love your energy I was drawn to that and your sense of style. IN this video you spoke a word that I truly can relate to I have been through the exact same thing as far as being in perfect alignment with the will of God. When you are in perfect alignment with his will whatever your setting out to do will be done effortlessly, no stumbling blocks no bumps, no wrong turns. Everything will just flow, when that happens you know that your move is ordained by God himself and he is providing you with the best of the best. So I thank God for you being obedient you being faithful you maintaining your prayer life and listening to what God is saying to you and how he's directing you because that is how it goes. When you have issues and you find yourself struggling to try to do things that you want to do, should be a red flag that maybe this is not for me and maybe I need to step back and listen and wait for my clearance to move in another Direction
Amen!! Thank you for this!!
Sis I am you! I’m 30 and looking for a place to live. Thought I was gonna get a house and after showings I’m looking at a condo. Whew I’m deaf gonna pray for God to lead me. I appreciate this video so much thank you ❤️
You are so welcome! You got this! Trust the process!
I am sooooo happy for you. God will give you the desires of your heart. ~Psalm 37:4
Amen!!!
Naturally Queening yess...Amen! Be blessed in your new condo!
this is confirmation to be more open minded about where God might place me. I think we often times let the idea of what other people think influence our decisions & stray us away from what God has already told us.
I love the point you made about how owning a condo wasn't what you wanted initially. But look at you now, you own property, you made a great investment, you're in a safe environment & where God has placed you it lines up with your financial wellness. HALLELUJAH !!
Exactly!! I love the way you put that!! And over a year later, I have built equity so I can do so much more!
I'm really glad you made this video. I really want to buy,but after I pay off my home those HOA fees will always be. I know the HOA can be a good thing,but that's a struggle I may have to deal with. I live in South Carolina and these HOA fee is almoat a mortgage payment.
Oh wow that's crazy!
Truth! On the coast of SC, we pay $250 month in HOA fees for a townhouse. I can't imagine what it would be for a single family home.
Yen Oak Yep.
Those HOAs are precisely why, I purchased a SFH... my neighbors are cool & thete is a long established block club of older folks, I adore... good job on whichever one you decide... moral: just decide! ❤
Simple Me I find if the HOA is high for the Association likely has issues.
Girl, you are speaking my mind! Nashville is booming. It’s mind blowing to see as a native.
Congrats on becoming an homeowner!! You did what was best for you & God saw fit for you to get it!!! All things done with God in mind will be of abundance!! Can't wait for decor haul & interior styling videos (hint hint)
I am so happy for you! You inspired me. I myself and seeking to purchase my first home and I agree it’s a sellers market and I reside in Texas. But I’m definitely taking my time and listening to the Lord and praying for direction so I can make the best decision for Me!!! I can’t wait to see your home updates!!! 🤗🤗
Thank you so much! And good luck on your journey
Amen! God is good!❤️Congrats😉
Thank you!
Brittany, you don’t know how much I needed this right now!
Aww I'm so happy my video can offer you some encouragement.
Congratulations you’ve convinced me I qualified for a condo 🙏🏾
Thank you!