Thank you Lord for taking me out of a deceptive marriage who was never committed and had a plan all along. If you have unresolved trust issues, past hurt, resolve them before dragging your baggage into someone else's life. Only God can fix the broken spirit not a mate.
I’m Speechless. 2019 was the year my whole life burned to the ground. Every person in my life including blood, are out of my life. Toxic abuse and 50 years of it are DONE. This sermon has given me answers to the painful ongoing questions of “what’s wrong with me? Why can’t I be loved? Why am I alone?” God has taken out the rotting trash. God forgive them, forgive me and please do a work in me and bring me a new life full of YOUR people who are good inside and won’t seek to hurt me anymore.
I have been praying for this kind of preaching and teaching here where I live. Until God sends him or her, I pray Rev. Howard-John Wesley will continue to post his sermons on you-tube. Thank you God and Rev Wesley
I thank you God for separating me from the relationship that I had. I know it was very Painful but God was with me and I now realize it was God who broke my relationship. Thank you Pastor Howard John Wesley, You are anointed by God. I am one of those been changed by your preaching. I will meet you in Heaven. Thank you.
this was an awesome word with so man golden nuggets! Thank you Pastor. This isn't just for break ups, but family relationships, friendships, even at work...Gotta learn to be a peacemaker.
This was the story of my life. Thank God I was delivered out of this e emotionally abusive relationship. This entire sermon was word by word what I just went through... praise God for deliverance praise God for this message!
What a powerful message sometimes we allow people to come on to our lives that literally or used by the devil to destroy us or to take us out of God's will
YES YES YOU ARE TALKING TO ME IM SO CLOSE TO LET GO OF THIS MESS I LET'S MYSELF AND TO LONG IM SO TRYING TO LET GO SURRENDER ALL THINGS NOT IN GOD WILL TEACH ME HOW TO LET'S GO SURRENDER AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN
Ouch! Such a convicting and powerful word! Touch to chew on indeed because the dissolution of relationships is one of the saddest things, but such an important lesson to grasp!
and I (meaning God) will give you (meaning us) pastors according to mine heart, which shall feed you with knowledge and understanding. It's been awhile since I've been this excited about God's word. Thank you for reviving my spirit!!!!
Pastor Wesley sometimes your enemies show you who really isnot you friends and to get to your destiny you sometimes need that enemy to help you get to that next level. Amen
Yes, like the young man Joseph that was sold info slavery by his brothers who jealous of him, accused of rape by potiphers wife, he was jailed for no reason, Joseph became second in command.
1/28/20 at 12:08 am God is so kind, compassionate, and magnificent he woke me up after crashing from the stress of my job and a season of companionship of many Lots to tell me that it is over. God is hear and he loves and wants the best for us if we will listen and obey.
Why do people deceive us with these feel good messages...GOD allows evil to happen in our lives to punish, to repent, to trust HIM in it....Sometimes, GOD will allow you to MISS your whole destiny and be in the wilderness....take it from me...then again people like me is IGNORED!!!
I would like to attend this Church Weekly🙏Great Spiritual Food📖May God Restore unto him Double for what he gave out and Great Blessings for him and his Family🙏💥💃🌝
Scripture clearly teaches anyone who divorces and remarries while their covenant spouse is still living (with the exception of fornication) is an adulterer or adulteress (Matthew 5:31-32; Matthew 19:3-9; Mark 10:2-12; Luke 16:18; Romans 7:2-3; 1 Corinthians 7:10-15; 1 Corinthians 7:39). Additionally, scripture clearly teaches in order to receive God's mercy one must repent or they won't inherit the kingdom of Heaven (1 Corinthians 6:9-10; Luke 13:3). God saves anyone who genuinely repents. Repentance has two elements: Confessing AND forsaking our sins. Proverbs 28:13, says: "He who covers his sins will not prosper, but whoever confesses AND forsakes them will have mercy." Remaining in an adulterous remarriage is not repentance. The liar has to repent and stop lying; the thief has to repent and stop stealing; the homosexuals have to repent and stop committing homosexual acts; and the adulterers and adulteresses (including those in adulterous remarriages) must repent and stop committing adultery. Sharing the scriptural truth about divorce and remarriage infuriates people who are supposed to be followers of Christ. Jesus's words regarding this issue anger his alleged followers like no other topic. Perhaps, it's time to obey Jesus Christ, and to begin believing He means what He says. Most importantly, ALL sins are unforgivable without repentance...including remaining in adulterous remarriages. According to the clear, easy to understand words of scripture: Jesus most definitely sends unrepentant adulterers and adulteresses to hell.
JEHOVAH GOD IN THE NAME OF JESUS THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH FOR THIS MESSAGE!! THIS IS THE WORD THAT I NEED TO CONTINUALLY HEAR DAILY! I have learned why you need GOD'S WORD daily. I'm ready to jump for JOY. Thank you HEAVENLY FATHER! I LOVE GOD FOR SETTING ME FREE FROM THE BONDAGE OF SIN!
Wednesday of 21st week, Catholic Daily Missal is Saint Monica. It is either most severe warning in New Testament or the 2nd. 2 thesswalonians 3 We command you brothers, in the Name of Our Lord, Jesus Christ, to avoid (shun) any brother who walks in a disorderly way (wanders from the Straight path. The gospel speakcs of white washed toms, filth & dead mens bones>
When it comes to Domestic Violence, you can't always use those peaceful tactics because abusers will use violence to control you. If you're in an abusive relationship get you instructions from God He will tell you what to do. I was in an abusive relationship, married to a pastor, so I know God will direct you. And I have been divorced for over 15 years , live alone for 10, until my youngest son left home and it is so freeing not to have to answer to no one but God. Amen
I'm thankful for this message that speaks to my current situation. You know it's got to be God when a message from 2012 is relevant to me in 2018!! Thanking God for you Pastor Wesley 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗💯💯💯💯💯
I love how all of your messages seem like they are just for me!! This is a true brother in Christ!! Thank you so much for posting this service online and I will be praying for you and your ministry!!
Thank you Lord for taking me out of a deceptive marriage who was never committed and had a plan all along. If you have unresolved trust issues, past hurt, resolve them before dragging your baggage into someone else's life. Only God can fix the broken spirit not a mate.
Kenney McCall amen!
GOD always sends a confirmation.
I wish I can go to this man church
I’m Speechless. 2019 was the year my whole life burned to the ground.
Every person in my life including blood, are out of my life. Toxic abuse and 50 years of it are DONE. This sermon has given me answers to the painful ongoing questions of “what’s wrong with me? Why can’t I be loved? Why am I alone?”
God has taken out the rotting trash. God forgive them, forgive me and please do a work in me and bring me a new life full of YOUR people who are good inside and won’t seek to hurt me anymore.
May the Lord bless you real good in 2021. Grow in God
Straighten your crown & shine. You are worthy
I wish I could send this to every female on this earth!!!!!! Praise Jah!
Voleta Chapman girl I am with you everybody really needs to hear this like you said every single woman
Amen.
Amen
2024 and I still feel the power in this message, I’ve listened to this sermon over and over again. I feel blessed this morning
I have been praying for this kind of preaching and teaching here where I live. Until God sends him or her, I pray Rev. Howard-John Wesley will continue to post his sermons on you-tube. Thank you God and Rev Wesley
instaBlaster.
He is amazing and your comment gave me more hope thank you.
This man is awesome! Been listening to his sermons all day. Such a blessing!! Where is this church?
Yes, he's awesome! The church is in Alexandria , Virginia.
Antoinette Nelson just discovered him today!! mind blown!
He's good.
Amen 👏🏾👏🏾
I thank you God for separating me from the relationship that I had. I know it was very Painful but God was with me and I now realize it was God who broke my relationship. Thank you Pastor Howard John Wesley, You are anointed by God. I am one of those been changed by your preaching. I will meet you in Heaven. Thank you.
God will always do you justice if you are the peacemaker. Halleluyah!!
this is an anointed preacher of God, beyond a shadow of a doubt.
this was an awesome word with so man golden nuggets! Thank you Pastor. This isn't just for break ups, but family relationships, friendships, even at work...Gotta learn to be a peacemaker.
Good message for young adults and older adults. I love the phrase, "avoidance is not deliverance".
This was a MEATY sermon. Got some great notes. Blessed and convicted. Pastor, thank you for not just preaching, but TEACHING the Word of God.
This was the story of my life. Thank God I was delivered out of this e emotionally abusive relationship. This entire sermon was word by word what I just went through... praise God for deliverance praise God for this message!
Felicia Wright same here!
Felicia Wright AMEN 🙌🏽. Me too.
get the right people around you. Else you get it thru struggle
Amen
Let go and let God. God will direct your path, he will be a lamp unto your feet, he is a light in darkness. Blessed be the name of the Lord.
Allelouhiaaaa 😁 Glory to God!!!! This word goes perfectly with what I'm going through! God is alive and with us for reallllll! Glory! Glory! 👏👏👏👏👏👏😁
This word touched my soul. What a mighty man of God. Everything he said was real, right, and reasoning.
Had to watch again,I am in this season of life..Praise God
What a powerful message sometimes we allow people to come on to our lives that literally or used by the devil to destroy us or to take us out of God's will
Elizabeth Alvarez yep. I hear EVERY word you saying!
Thanks so much for great message. It is powerful for me. Bless you pastor Howard, from Serbia
I needed this tonight... my life right now
AMEN! EVERYTHING I NEEDED TO HEAR AMENNNNNNNNNNNN
Let it Go!! and Separate in Peace.
YES YES YOU ARE TALKING TO ME IM SO CLOSE TO LET GO OF THIS MESS I LET'S MYSELF AND TO LONG IM SO TRYING TO LET GO SURRENDER ALL THINGS NOT IN GOD WILL TEACH ME HOW TO LET'S GO SURRENDER AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN
I always love hearing your sermons
Thank you Pastor Wesley for that on time sermon. I needed to hear this inspiring message. God bless you!
Preach on pastor!!!!!
This is speaking to me, love the message!
I needed this Message right now! Thank you for sharing.
It’s the year 2020 and this word is STILL relevant !!!
2023!❤
Ouch! Such a convicting and powerful word! Touch to chew on indeed because the dissolution of relationships is one of the saddest things, but such an important lesson to grasp!
This word .... Wow so on time.... My enemy is busy scratching where there's no itch... I'm about to punch them in The Name of Jesus...
and I (meaning God) will give you (meaning us) pastors according to mine heart, which shall feed you with knowledge and understanding. It's been awhile since I've been this excited about God's word. Thank you for reviving my spirit!!!!
Thank you God is so good !!!
This word was just for me. Going through and this was right on time. Thank you Pastor. God Bless you and yours. I had to listen to this twice.
+Anointed Life I had it on repeat, for two days straight. I thank God I was the peacmaker even as my heart was breaking.
Pastor Wesley sometimes your enemies show you who really isnot you friends and to get to your destiny you sometimes need that enemy to help you get to that next level. Amen
Yes, like the young man Joseph that was sold info slavery by his brothers who jealous of him, accused of rape by potiphers wife, he was jailed for no reason, Joseph became second in command.
I listen ur sermon over and over again Im blessed through u and grown spiritually
It has been a blessing Pastor, may the Lord continue to bless and keep you.
I thank the Lord for this man of God.
What you say?? SPEAK lord
Very view preachers have messages that are life changing. This message is very life changing
8/27/22 at 77 and after Covid19 this Word is for me...I have got to let it go......Thank You Lord for this revelation and comformation.
Praise the Lord for this powerful and practical message that's something that I always avoid when trouble comes now I know how to deal with it....
1/28/20 at 12:08 am God is so kind, compassionate, and magnificent he woke me up after crashing from the stress of my job and a season of companionship of many Lots to tell me that it is over. God is hear and he loves and wants the best for us if we will listen and obey.
Sir, you know how to teach the word!!!
Why do people deceive us with these feel good messages...GOD allows evil to happen in our lives to punish, to repent, to trust HIM in it....Sometimes, GOD will allow you to MISS your whole destiny and be in the wilderness....take it from me...then again people like me is IGNORED!!!
Preach black man!!!
Thank you. I needed to hear this message today.
Wow!!!! Companionship vs Partnership 🙌🏾🙌🏾
He is awesome preacher found him when listening to john Gray . Would love to no were his church is located
It's in Alexandria, Virginia.
I think his church is in Virginia.......blessed man of God!!!!! Praise God!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He's on it!!!!!!! I totally agree!!!!!!!!!! Praise our Lord!!!!!!!!!!!
Excuse me , I am Juan And I am a studente ..I want to practice My english ..who want to practice with me ??
howard I know my brother had to be proud of you I am truly proud to say you are my brother son merciadee ems. Reynolds of louisiana
Still a relevant Word and a TIMELY reminder!
What an on time word.
amen that release is another step to trust In HIM committing our way to GOD . walk by faith not sight
💙💙💙💙💙😔
Thank you Father God for this powerful message.
What an awesome Pastor. This word is for me!!
Brother God bless you
Hallelujah, what a word my God (true word )
Listen to him every day
Thank you for this!!!!
Can I get on anywhere else to hear your words please let me know how
Awesome awesome Word!
Identify and deal with it!
Amen
Glory to God
Say it Doc...thnxu for sharing Camesha
I would like to attend this Church Weekly🙏Great Spiritual Food📖May God Restore unto him Double for what he gave out and Great Blessings for him and his Family🙏💥💃🌝
Great message!!!
I was done with him after he said the sin of the men of Sodom wasn't sodomy.
A Christmas basket for one of my neighbors
Okay!!! He preaching this!! Yassssssss
Scripture clearly teaches anyone who divorces and remarries while their covenant spouse is still living (with the exception of fornication) is an adulterer or adulteress (Matthew 5:31-32; Matthew 19:3-9; Mark 10:2-12; Luke 16:18; Romans 7:2-3; 1 Corinthians 7:10-15; 1 Corinthians 7:39).
Additionally, scripture clearly teaches in order to receive God's mercy one must repent or they won't inherit the kingdom of Heaven (1 Corinthians 6:9-10; Luke 13:3).
God saves anyone who genuinely repents. Repentance has two elements: Confessing AND forsaking our sins.
Proverbs 28:13, says: "He who covers his sins will not prosper, but whoever confesses AND forsakes them will have mercy."
Remaining in an adulterous remarriage is not repentance.
The liar has to repent and stop lying; the thief has to repent and stop stealing; the homosexuals have to repent and stop committing homosexual acts; and the adulterers and adulteresses (including those in adulterous remarriages) must repent and stop committing adultery.
Sharing the scriptural truth about divorce and remarriage infuriates people who are supposed to be followers of Christ. Jesus's words regarding this issue anger his alleged followers like no other topic. Perhaps, it's time to obey Jesus Christ, and to begin believing He means what He says.
Most importantly, ALL sins are unforgivable without repentance...including remaining in adulterous remarriages. According to the clear, easy to understand words of scripture: Jesus most definitely sends unrepentant adulterers and adulteresses to hell.
Thank you this so good a great blessing.
JEHOVAH GOD IN THE NAME OF JESUS THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH FOR THIS MESSAGE!! THIS IS THE WORD THAT I NEED TO CONTINUALLY HEAR DAILY! I have learned why you need GOD'S WORD daily. I'm ready to jump for JOY. Thank you HEAVENLY FATHER! I LOVE GOD FOR SETTING ME FREE FROM THE BONDAGE OF SIN!
Thank you for this message
Wednesday of 21st week, Catholic Daily Missal is Saint Monica. It is either most severe warning in New Testament or the 2nd. 2 thesswalonians 3 We command you brothers, in the Name of Our Lord, Jesus Christ, to avoid (shun) any brother who walks in a disorderly way (wanders from the Straight path. The gospel speakcs of white washed toms, filth & dead mens bones>
Amen the peace of the The Lord.
Preaching and teaching
One of my friends boyfriend don’t like me
When it comes to Domestic Violence, you can't always use those peaceful tactics because abusers will use violence to control you.
If you're in an abusive relationship get you instructions from God He will tell you what to do.
I was in an abusive relationship, married to a pastor, so I know God will direct you. And I have been divorced for over 15 years , live alone for 10, until my youngest son left home and it is so freeing not to have to answer to no one but God.
Amen
2022
I'm still waiting on God.
thank you!!!
I'm thankful for this message that speaks to my current situation. You know it's got to be God when a message from 2012 is relevant to me in 2018!! Thanking God for you Pastor Wesley 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗💯💯💯💯💯
Amen
Blessed are the peacemakers! Make peace❤️
Amen
Pastor is truly called and anointed. Since I was led to him I have been praying. This anointing gets steady warfare. Intercession from California.
Making room for better..❤
Power word from God. Thanks ps John. I enjoy and transform. Bless you, greetings from Serbia
my God!!!Amen
I am finding this 12/23/2021
thanks
Lord this is so true!
Thank you
I surly wish I had heard this Sermon many many years ago. I shall share it with every young person I know. God Bless you Pastor
Absolutely on point
I love how all of your messages seem like they are just for me!! This is a true brother in Christ!! Thank you so much for posting this service online and I will be praying for you and your ministry!!