Paris Bennett Admits He Murdered His Sister to Punish His Mother | Psychopath with Piers Morgan

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  • Опубликовано: 1 июл 2019
  • Piers Morgan ventures behind bars for an extraordinary encounter with diagnosed psychopath Paris Bennett, a man who is more intelligent, more cunning and more manipulative than any criminal Piers has met before. Catch up now on the ITV Hub: bit.ly/322PihF
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  • @SadButKindaRad
    @SadButKindaRad Год назад +872

    I hope no one ever forgets that he SAd his baby sister and even told people that every time he stabbed her he got more pleasure. What an absolute piece of trash

    • @Annabellethedoll666
      @Annabellethedoll666 5 месяцев назад +22

      Yes a lot of people be forgetting that

    • @Texas214
      @Texas214 3 месяца назад +13

      Wow I never knew he had S.A her i just thought he stabbed her.

    • @AfraidMonsters
      @AfraidMonsters 2 месяца назад +13

      what.... why didn't they ever mention that in these vids?? even the inside edition one where they just said everything he did. didn't know that

    • @thegingerbreadgod1312
      @thegingerbreadgod1312 Месяц назад +2

      Tbf I think it’s also sad for him because he can’t help the way his brain works. He lacks emotions. It’s hard to put yourself in someones shoes because to do that you would have to have no empathy like him. He’s essentially an empty vessel.

    • @achmed2pac
      @achmed2pac Месяц назад +4

      Holy Bible: Mark 13:12 ''Brother will betray brother to death, and a father his child. Children will rebel against their parents and have them put to death.''i Tell you the Truth JESUS is REAL🙏💯❤He Healed me!and JESUS Loves us! You don't have to believe my words but ATLEAST Believe the Holy Bible the Word of God!💯🙏Much love

  • @Sahbay
    @Sahbay Год назад +844

    Someone like him should never have seen the light of another day, let alone have a mere 40 year sentence. Despicable.

    • @lol-kx1bs
      @lol-kx1bs Год назад +25

      fr and when he talks about it you cant even see an ounce of sympathy in his face, yet people who experienced just seeing the scene teared up.

    • @arafatobare4184
      @arafatobare4184 Год назад +1

      Are you an alien

    • @godsrevolver9737
      @godsrevolver9737 Год назад

      Psychopathy is a mental Illness. Do you that that like you'd treat schizophrenia?

    • @bgi384
      @bgi384 Год назад +9

      Everyone deserves forgiveness

    • @Sahbay
      @Sahbay Год назад +20

      So you'd let this guy babysit your kids?

  • @Rainbow_Kiddd
    @Rainbow_Kiddd Год назад +1116

    He's nuts. Didn't even have a reason to murder his sister. He's made up this idea in his head that he was neglected and he simply wasn't. He can't give any example of what his mom did to make him feel "left out" as he says. Please never let him out of prison.

    • @eh1702
      @eh1702 Год назад +76

      There was a documentary once where his mother’s mother was interviewed. Astonishing interview.
      She said she thought Paris was very like herself (and I think she mentioned she saw it in her own father) that although she was “socialised”, she was aware that she didn’t have the same feelings as other people. She said all of this very coolly, almost casually.
      Her daughter, Paris’s mother, seems to have somewhat surprised her by growing up just like other people.

    • @BlackStar-hy1iy
      @BlackStar-hy1iy Год назад +30

      ​@@eh1702
      Those traits were passed down

    • @BlackStar-hy1iy
      @BlackStar-hy1iy Год назад +12

      ​@@eh1702
      Socialization prevented a violent outcome nature vs nurture.

    • @ayanlehassan-gp3pq
      @ayanlehassan-gp3pq Год назад

      He's arragerant n maybe jealous nut job

    • @fionnryan-dockrill5636
      @fionnryan-dockrill5636 Год назад +55

      He’s a psychopath, there’s a complete lack of empathy and conscience. A person with psychopathy will prioritise them selves and only themselves. All psychopaths are narcissists and it’s literally impossible from them to prioritise or concern for anyone but themselves. Having a sister probably felt more like a threat than anything else to him. I’d also take him saying he loved his sister with a grain of salt because his interpretation of love is drastically different to yours or mine since it’s physically impossible for him to feel it.

  • @gamingpriests
    @gamingpriests 10 месяцев назад +207

    Just a little update for those wondering, his mom cut all contact with him in 2021.

    • @antepa112
      @antepa112 6 месяцев назад

      The only reason why she cut contact with him is because he is in a relationship with a girl who was planning a shooting

    • @merryem68
      @merryem68 4 месяца назад +6

      Really?

    • @dhehebbrnrnfbr1301
      @dhehebbrnrnfbr1301 Месяц назад +3

      Where did you read this?

    • @char2304
      @char2304 10 дней назад

      Leftist ex junkie mother with 2 kids to 2 different fathers made a big mistake by loving him and putting her new son at risk

    • @fernandohenriquepereiracha9996
      @fernandohenriquepereiracha9996 5 дней назад

      your mother no longer wants to visit, for reasons there is no more maternal connection... it is despicable to know that your children annihilated blood from your blood

  • @ArkadianDream
    @ArkadianDream 11 месяцев назад +437

    I worked in a prison for a year, there was a separate ward for sex offenders, pedophiles and domestic abusers. He reminds me of so many young men i got to know there, but my brain still gets tripped up by them. You're watching someone trying to mimic another human to get something they want, and it's so obvious but you still, somehow, want to try and see if you can connect, get to that basic spark of human bonding that usually happens theough empathy......but the wiring is simply not there

    • @petegonad
      @petegonad 8 месяцев назад +20

      That’s really interesting, I bet that’s a job you probably shouldn’t do too long.

    • @SRBOMBONICA86
      @SRBOMBONICA86 5 месяцев назад +20

      Yes they imitate humans ,but they simply are not there ,its very bizzare

    • @freddiefurter
      @freddiefurter Месяц назад +2

      I don't know if I'm mimicking or not.. I don't know if my need to express the fact that I don't know is also a mimicking act. I do feel love, though, I'm sure I do. I have empathy too but it's bicycling and selective. I could cry from guilt if I step on an animal but hurt people and not feel guilty. I'm so confused. Anyone else confused?

    • @generaljo78
      @generaljo78 Месяц назад +1

      Interesting you should mention that because what is missing in this, is the reality that he SA’d his own sister and didn’t think they’d check. He’d also been watching some vile videos prior similar to his crime. I do NOT believe he did it to punish his mother, I believe he’s a dangerous perp driven by a sadistic need.

    • @generaljo78
      @generaljo78 Месяц назад +1

      @@freddiefurterHave you been tested for Aspergers or Autism? I’d suggest that the fact you appear to be worried about it, it is unlikely you’re anything like this personality type - they don’t worry, they don’t have concerns, they don’t care because they’re entirely void of feeling.

  • @elizabeth3064
    @elizabeth3064 8 месяцев назад +262

    His eyes are soulless - total lack of empathy in his eyes, just cold dark evil blackness. Absolutely terrifying. I’m worried for both his mother and young son when/if he does get released. She needs to move far away and stop contact with him as hard as that may be for her.

    • @summerbreeze3090
      @summerbreeze3090 7 месяцев назад

      I agree with you. Paris cannot be trusted. Easy for me to say, but I would have no contact with him...NONE. He robbed his mother of everything except her will to live and protect her young son. This woman is stronger than she or anyone gives her credit for. 🙏 🙏

    • @littleiodine9480
      @littleiodine9480 3 месяца назад +5

      I am scared for all humans with him out. Just my humble opinion but I believe his Mom would be the last person he would kill. He needs her for him just like she is now nomatter what. I believe he did what he did to Ella because she was small and convienent. It was his 1st slaying and rape, but definitely nowhere near his last. I think he is up for parole in right around a year.

    • @ethancleaver1464
      @ethancleaver1464 2 месяца назад +1

      He will be out in the next 5 years unfortunately

    • @tinadavies1572
      @tinadavies1572 2 месяца назад +4

      I really looked into his eyes as he answered/listened to each question, it was shocking to see the darkness in his eyes when you could see something triggered him and he had to consciously solidly hide what he really wanted to respond with. A dark dark soul that can be seen through his eyes, it gets right under your skin doesn't it. I am one of the most empathetic forgiving people you could meet but I really feel the death sentence it's all that should happen here. I don't feel he should walk this earth and his entire family are going to get the same fate as his sister if they let him out. I truly believe that. He is awaiting his freedom for more reasons than we would care to know. I bet he has fantasied about what he wants to do over and over again.

    • @angelbasham6631
      @angelbasham6631 Месяц назад

      ​@@ethancleaver1464thats scary

  • @laleona776
    @laleona776 Год назад +445

    He thinks he's manipulating everyone watching this; but most of us can clearly see him for what he is: a narcissistic psychopath! He should NEVER be let out. I'm surprised he's made it this long in prison- usually jailhouse justice takes out the trash, guess they missed one. Pity.

    • @zac1794
      @zac1794 Год назад +16

      You really missed the mark here. You writing this exact comment fuels his ego way more than u can imagine. Yes he is a psychopath and a narcissist, which is precisely why he priorities himself over anyone. He doesn't care if you 'know' or can 'read' him. Also he's in PC, stop watching prison shows and thinking it's reality...

    • @alexmcconnell844
      @alexmcconnell844 10 месяцев назад +13

      He wants you to be able to read him, to sympathize or empathize. That is how narcissistic psychopathy works. I’m a licensed rec therapist, trust me here…. He wants you to feel like you’re reading him.

    • @Jamie_A1
      @Jamie_A1 10 месяцев назад +16

      ​​​@@zac1794his ego doesn't really matter if he's kept away from society behind bars. Someone stating facts about him on a youtube comment won't change that.

    • @bexixx
      @bexixx 9 месяцев назад +10

      @@zac1794it’s not like he is going to see it and so what if he does people are free to express their opinion

    • @Xaimy_3777
      @Xaimy_3777 8 месяцев назад

      @@zac1794 What do u mean "he´s in PC, stop thinking it’s reality"? What do u believe? That he´s in a TV show n didn’t actually kill his sister or what did u mean by that comment, cause I can assure you that you are a du_mb bi!ch if u think it’s a TV show n not reality.

  • @qbcomicaddict2590
    @qbcomicaddict2590 Год назад +443

    The worst part is the sexual abuse. He should have grilled him on why he sexually assaulted her

    • @JReece3000
      @JReece3000 11 месяцев назад +80

      I imagine the only way piers Morgan was even able to get this interview was to agree to not asking him about it. For some reason he won’t open up about that part on camera. I guess even he knows how vile and demonic the act of r*ping a four year old is. But in her book the mom said that he eventually admits to constantly watching violent p*rn, sadism and things like that. He said he molested her that night and the more violent he was with her the more “violent” he became, culminating in killing her.
      He also goes into great detail about the killing. It was a tough read. Idk why they would ever even let him sniff parole. There’s no saving him.

    • @Angie-zk4ei
      @Angie-zk4ei 10 месяцев назад +10

      They didn't find any signs of s.a. It is said that Paris made that up after being imprisoned, as away to further hurt his mother.

    • @Angie-zk4ei
      @Angie-zk4ei 10 месяцев назад +5

      They didn't find any signs of s.a. It is said that Paris made that up after being imprisoned, as away to further hurt his mother.

    • @mambus2000
      @mambus2000 10 месяцев назад +15

      I just watched the documentary and there was nothing about sexual abuse in it.

    • @Alice-Not-In-Chains
      @Alice-Not-In-Chains 10 месяцев назад +5

      @@JReece3000what 📕? Folks saying no evidence.

  • @mimikins7748
    @mimikins7748 Год назад +263

    The devil doesn’t reside in hell. He walks amongst us.

    • @icarowsky
      @icarowsky Год назад +3

      😂

    • @NaNa-re3wc
      @NaNa-re3wc Год назад

      Satan doesn’t exist, just disturbed people with fucked up brains.

    • @baxterbunch
      @baxterbunch 8 месяцев назад

      @@Child-Of-God20exactly, he gets us to do his dirty work

    • @NickPalmer-vj6by
      @NickPalmer-vj6by 4 месяца назад +1

      🎯facts..

    • @In_DEPPTH
      @In_DEPPTH 26 дней назад

      I say this, ( background went to catholic school) Adam and Eve ate that apple and was supposedly casted in to hell where the had Cain and able ! In hell! We are all descendants of them. So where do you think we are? We are in hell. We did something we shouldn’t do up there and got sentenced for however long here. So if a child or young person passes away they have completed their sentence

  • @nikiTricoteuse
    @nikiTricoteuse 7 месяцев назад +44

    He looks like he has memorised the responses and reactions 'normal' people would give but, doesn't really know what they mean. My heart goes out to his mother. What an unimaginable thing to have to live through.

  • @alexandersalazar9750
    @alexandersalazar9750 Год назад +339

    So he raped a 4 year old to make his mom mad? No. I think some inmates need to know a little more detail about this kids case in the prison he is staying.

    • @mimikins7748
      @mimikins7748 Год назад +11

      Agree!

    • @Plutolone
      @Plutolone Год назад +5

      She wasn’t raped I think? She was stabbed

    • @mking1592
      @mking1592 Год назад +64

      @@Plutolone she was stabbed and raped

    • @JakeKoenig
      @JakeKoenig Год назад +12

      Everyone knows what he did. It's a famous case. I'm sure he's permanently in solitary for his own protection. High-profile cases usually don't get put into gen pop.

    • @cemoihonay
      @cemoihonay Год назад

      ​@@Plutolone He watched violent pornography and proceeded to sexually abuse her whilst stabbing her. He enjoyed it.

  • @jamesmaguire9518
    @jamesmaguire9518 Год назад +149

    It’s terrifying that we have people that think like this around us everywhere

    • @rover5058
      @rover5058 5 месяцев назад +4

      Not exactly psychopaths but there are a lot more narcissists in society than the general estimation which is 30% but in reality it's 40-50%.

  • @jmfs3497
    @jmfs3497 Год назад +139

    Never let this person out. Lock up his maternal grandmother, too. Do not let these people into society. Not even general population of prison. These types of psychopaths do not "turn off" or "heal" their psychopathy. They only get more effective at causing harm.

    • @Annabellethedoll666
      @Annabellethedoll666 5 месяцев назад

      He’s eligible for parole in 4 years

    • @Zouka-sq9tu
      @Zouka-sq9tu 5 месяцев назад +2

      There are some rare therapies that could potentially heal them but even then it's not guaranteed it's like trying to do magic and shit

    • @KonstantinOtto-oe6sm
      @KonstantinOtto-oe6sm 4 месяца назад +1

      @@Zouka-sq9tuno psychopathy can’t be healed since you are born with it individuals can control ist since there are many psychopaths in economy which don’t commit crime but they also manipulate and can’t feel emotions. You are talking about sociopaths they could be treated but it’s very difficulty

  • @ninetwozer0407
    @ninetwozer0407 2 месяца назад +24

    To my, as a psychology student, these are the scariest type of people. No apparent trauma, extremely intelligent, and very well spoken. Everyone could know someone like and not realize how dangerous that person is

    • @jessieh600
      @jessieh600 28 дней назад

      Oh yes you can...it's in the small details...the devil is in the details...the eyes....their eyes..black pits.

  • @MRswavgav
    @MRswavgav Год назад +317

    He has such weird mannerisms and a type of chilling composure about his character. Being a psychopath is undoubtable, guy is a textbook case

    • @kingayy9267
      @kingayy9267 Год назад +30

      He's very smart.
      Saying all the right things to ensure he gets released as soon as possible.

    • @kingayy9267
      @kingayy9267 Год назад +20

      The worst kind of murderer: an intelligent, calculating one.

    • @zohrasid5802
      @zohrasid5802 Год назад +4

      Jail can do more to a man that u can evr imagine ..

    • @TheIkaraCult
      @TheIkaraCult Год назад +6

      the murderer is pretty chilling too

    • @mking1592
      @mking1592 Год назад +4

      @@kingayy9267 he's intelligent, but he'll mostly likely be back in prison at some point

  • @onelastchance648
    @onelastchance648 Год назад +61

    He should NEVER be released.

  • @andreasjohansson2490
    @andreasjohansson2490 Год назад +60

    He says: I love her, I loved her. But his body language says no. He shaked the head noo

  • @Gigibaby88
    @Gigibaby88 Год назад +148

    I feel like punishing his mother may have been part of his motive but I also think what seems to be left out & not talked about enough is that this was also a sevually motivated crime. He was watching extremely violent pornography right before the murder & he didn't just murder his sister he very VIOLENTLY SA'd her (and I mean the R word but in an extremely violent manner. He was literally killing her AS he SA'D her, it was one of the most horrific things I've heard in a true crime case esp considering her age and that this was his sister). He tried to cover up the fact that he'd SA'D her, *that* is the part he's truly ashamed of and that's what makes me think it was more of a motive than he's letting on. He didn't just want to kill someone, he wanted to r word them too at the same time and she was the easiest target for him. So horrific and messed up, I hope they never let him out.

    • @Angie-zk4ei
      @Angie-zk4ei 10 месяцев назад +2

      Where did you get that information? I've read a lot about this case and police reports mention that there are zero signs of s.a. on the body.

    • @marieh.316
      @marieh.316 9 месяцев назад +2

      ​​@@Angie-zk4eiif you go to the 'Murder of Ella Bennett' Wikipedia page, there's multiple sources for that information including a documentary.

    • @Angie-zk4ei
      @Angie-zk4ei 9 месяцев назад

      @@marieh.316 I watched the documentaries on this case as well as read the police reports (I found this case very interesting) and a police officer says there were zero signs off anything sxual on the body. They said he started saying he did that as a way to further t0rture his mother. I will read more info on this in case anything else was added later but as far as the evidence when I read it, there was none. He's just a psychopath who likes to make his mother suffer and he'll say whatever.

    • @absolutelynotarobot
      @absolutelynotarobot 9 месяцев назад +3

      I don't think he was ashamed at all, more so that he knew it's something that is much harder to spin when he does damage control on his image, it makes it waaay harder to come up with a motive and isn't as easy to charm one's way out of over time. People see humanity in murderers, they are able to forgive with time if they show remorse, at least had SOME reason in their mind, and might even show sympathy if they are mentally ill, but psychopaths who incestuously r@pe a child while slowly murdering them by stabbing them for no other reason than impulse and immense pleasure? That's a monster, it's impossible to see something else and he understood this - he was already a diagnosed genius by then.

    • @emilywright3454
      @emilywright3454 9 месяцев назад +7

      wasnt the mum a herion addict and the grandma murdered her husband

  • @AberrantSpectre
    @AberrantSpectre Год назад +49

    He's 100% faking it to increase his chance of early parol

  • @lr8763
    @lr8763 11 месяцев назад +80

    His grandmother is a sociopath . That poor little girl was in a world of terror and danger from day 1 . It’s truly horrifying to watch the documentary on this family and the saga that continues as mom had another child . Poor little Ella wouldn’t have had a hope in hell with these people . The mother and grandmother are as sick as it gets in family dynamics and mental illness. This story isn’t over . It would be interesting to know more about the grandmothers upbringing and parents. How far back this tragedy goes nobody knows, but clearly the other isn’t able or willing to save her only child now. She’s back with the grandmother. Sickening. How the documentarian could tolerate being in a room with these people without getting physically sick baffles me.

    • @Rissa89
      @Rissa89 10 месяцев назад +10

      Watching the doc now & I'm like what in the actual emotional abuse is this shit when the grandma says the mom wanted too much attention when she was younger. Yeah sounds to me like she wanted her MOTHERS attention which is 100% normal, esp bc it sounds like her mom was too busy living "her own life"

    • @nicolafarnhill2184
      @nicolafarnhill2184 9 месяцев назад

      Fucked up family. It's almost hilarious how the criminalogists and psychologists can sit there and say 'He's this and he's that.
      It's quite obvious Paris is a result of a shit show of a family. Alcoholic narcissists.

    • @Liam-zw1ek
      @Liam-zw1ek 6 месяцев назад +2

      The mother is likely doing the best she can in a difficult situation. It would be incredibly hard to talk yourself into hating your child indefinitely.

    • @esotericenigmamelaninshe1253
      @esotericenigmamelaninshe1253 Месяц назад

      Here we go with the Excuses for the real monster in this Story

  • @younes-lk5dd
    @younes-lk5dd Год назад +207

    No one can deny that piers Morgan has his moments of being a good interviewer

    • @MelMeltalks31
      @MelMeltalks31 Год назад +30

      He did some things right but missed the mark on some big questions in this interview. Didn’t mention the sexual assault or make him explain in words what his mother did exactly to deserve that punishment. He said he felt alone but HOW did he feel alone? That’s what piers should have said.

    • @mjowsey
      @mjowsey Год назад +8

      really? I must have blinked and missed it

    • @jessieleigh4841
      @jessieleigh4841 10 месяцев назад +2

      And this wasn’t one of them

    • @peterwhitey4992
      @peterwhitey4992 9 месяцев назад +2

      Meh. It's a completely pointless interview. It's just exploitation, because people love to see stuff like this.

    • @OpalLeigh
      @OpalLeigh 9 месяцев назад +3

      Piers really needs someone this bad to make him look good 😬

  • @mariachristofi4049
    @mariachristofi4049 Год назад +19

    His eyes are like that of a dead fish staring at you.

  • @floorfan7987
    @floorfan7987 Год назад +58

    If it was my child I would never talk to them again PERIOD !!!!

    • @JReece3000
      @JReece3000 11 месяцев назад +2

      I’m sure she feels guilt. His dad was a paranoid schizophrenic and it is believed that his grandmother (Charity’s mom) was a psychopath as well, she was just never diagnosed. She just showed an extreme lack of empathy to Charity, to the point where Charity intentionally became a drug addict thinking it would get her attention from her mom. It didn’t. And who knows how the drugs effected her pregnancy. She has another son now and he has a heart condition.

    • @Urcinamongurl
      @Urcinamongurl 11 месяцев назад +1

      Easy for u to say🙄

  • @andreabrava6899
    @andreabrava6899 Год назад +289

    I totally can relate with the mother. And I feel so sorry for her, its amazing she still has the strength to live.

    • @ReedJ50
      @ReedJ50 Год назад +28

      You can relate? You realize what’s going on right? 😂

    • @godnyx117
      @godnyx117 Год назад +35

      I don't feel bad for the mother but for the little girl.

    • @sharonthompson672
      @sharonthompson672 Год назад +17

      The mother was advised to leave him in the institution. She took him home.

    • @aleksandrac9335
      @aleksandrac9335 Год назад +3

      WTF?

    • @JakeKoenig
      @JakeKoenig Год назад +24

      The mother who was addicted heroin and coke throughout the son's life? And who know what else that hasn't been made public? You don't think any of that contributed to why the son is so screwed up? You ever seen the average day of a drug addict? Ever seen the environment they typically provide for their children?
      I feel sorry for the little girl Ella, and any other family and friends who loved her. The mom, not so much. She's a lot more at fault in this than the story tells.

  • @lizturner267
    @lizturner267 Год назад +121

    It surprises me that they didn’t include the fact that little 4 year old Ella was also r*ped as she was unalived. There is a documentary on the psycho grandmother too that explains but doesn’t excuse Charity not keeping Ella safe.
    They need to throw away the key on him.

    • @maddygreenb
      @maddygreenb Год назад +18

      Tf? It wasn’t charity’s fault the babysitter was supposed to be there but Paris convinced the babysitter to go home

    • @MelMeltalks31
      @MelMeltalks31 Год назад +1

      How the hell was charity supposed to know he would do that? You twitter analyst piss me the hell off so quick to judge and throw around blame shut up.

    • @Cinestudi0
      @Cinestudi0 Год назад +7

      What the fuck is "unalived"?

    • @lizturner267
      @lizturner267 Год назад +14

      @@Cinestudi0 RUclips’s algorithm doesn’t seem to like other phrased for m*rdered.

    • @Cinestudi0
      @Cinestudi0 Год назад +2

      Murdered?

  • @danielmcshane7611
    @danielmcshane7611 Год назад +16

    Whole family has personality disorders. Mom, grandma and him. Dangerous

  • @frasert8779
    @frasert8779 10 месяцев назад +23

    Literally everything he does in an attempted manipulation. It’s so clear he doesn’t believe a word of what he’s saying about how he “feels”. He got sexual gratification from what he did, got off on the sheer idea of what it would do to his mother, and had the forethought to try and come up with a cover story right after the fact.
    Many are capable of rehabilitation but not individuals like him. He will undoubtedly do something again. He admitted already that the anguish his mother had to live with forever was worth prison. This guy can only exist by inflicting pain and violence and should never be let out.

  • @TAGMZs63
    @TAGMZs63 5 месяцев назад +11

    He should never, ever be let out of prison. He will kill again, no matter what BS he spews to try to get out. Scary psychopath

  • @rubyred6954
    @rubyred6954 Год назад +51

    Usually psychopaths look like your everyday average person BUT this one is so evil he even looks like DEMON!!

    • @graduke1
      @graduke1 11 месяцев назад +2

      ....the shame has aged him. These guys that kill relatives know deep down what he does WAS wrong..and that's why they often look deranged!! He might have had weird mannerisms before but they will be compounded more by his heinous acts I think. The guy who bludgeoned his mother to death also had this cold demeanour..there is something clearly wrong psychologically and the aftermath psychologically isn't good for these guys isn't good. He should never be let out because he will never live with this shame. Criminals and psychopaths are in fact not the unfeeling creatures we think they are. They are very capable of feeling shame and feel sorry for themselves...thatcdoesnt mean he should ever be let out. These guys will do the same again...they are emotionally toddlers!

    • @OpalLeigh
      @OpalLeigh 9 месяцев назад +4

      Yeah, fortunately he’s really bad at pretending to be well. May he never be released 🙏🏻

  • @PositiveRaincloud
    @PositiveRaincloud 9 месяцев назад +40

    This just feels like someone who was the only child for a while, and got jealous of the attention his sister was getting, which took the attention somewhat away from him, and murdered his sister because of it. A true narcissist, and master manipulator.

    • @peterwhitey4992
      @peterwhitey4992 9 месяцев назад +2

      So not just someone who was the only child for a while, etc.

    • @absolutelynotarobot
      @absolutelynotarobot 9 месяцев назад

      Not just a narcissist, a psychopath. Diagnosed, if I've understood correctly.

    • @LuxMeow
      @LuxMeow 8 месяцев назад +1

      There’s much more to it if you listen to the interview, documentary. The Grandmother allegedly killing the Grandpa. Also being like him, showing him inappropriate things like pornography. Stated by the mother.
      The mother being on drugs throughout his childhood as stated by her. Paris saying Ella got a different version of his mother, the resentment etc. it gives you more insight than to just conclude he is only evil and a psychopath. He was stewing through out childhood before he did what he did. He needed an intervention long before.

    • @antepa112
      @antepa112 6 месяцев назад

      He is a psychopath and was born that way because his mother had a terrible childhood and took heavy drugs throughout her life as well as having multiple fathers of her children and even taking drugs while taking care of those same children. She was a terrible mother and she deserves the same amount of hate as he does, just like his grandmother who was a terrible mother to Charity as well. People need to stop this ignorant shit where they put literally every single ounce of blame on a 13 year old. Yes, he is a killer, but the reason his head is fucked is because of his roots and genes,

  • @luxurilinn5614
    @luxurilinn5614 Год назад +31

    When I saw Ella as a baby I just started bawling my eyes out 💔

  • @valariesamuel2887
    @valariesamuel2887 10 месяцев назад +25

    It was not to hurt his mother but to satisfy his sexual urge. He had to make up a story. After he raped her he got scared and killed her. He is a psychopathic liar and murderer!!

    • @abdou8535
      @abdou8535 9 месяцев назад +2

      Can you give me the source where you read that he raped her sister
      I wanna know more about the story

    • @padawin74
      @padawin74 Месяц назад

      He was killing her WHILE SAing her... brutal

  • @jozz7061
    @jozz7061 Год назад +28

    This is a terrifying individual.

  • @JS-jt5vu
    @JS-jt5vu 8 месяцев назад +11

    Why is nobody questioning the mother, she seems manipulative to me too, there is something off with her too...

    • @jessieh600
      @jessieh600 28 дней назад +1

      ..there sure is something that she's NOT telling.

  • @Bajanprince67
    @Bajanprince67 5 месяцев назад +7

    I love how his mom is there calling him out on his BS. Like how’d he feel left out? We can see the videos of him clearly being included. He’s full of crap.

  • @ariecho5073
    @ariecho5073 Год назад +32

    He wasn’t lying about feeling shame at about 0:30, but it wasn’t because he felt guilt or remorse about his actions, he hated that someone now had a negative opinion of him. ✋Just my opinion tho I’m not a psychologist, I wanna know what other people think 🤚

    • @antepa112
      @antepa112 6 месяцев назад

      No, you're just ignorant and stupid

  • @venanciomartinez5387
    @venanciomartinez5387 Год назад +25

    “ I’m completely estranged from who I was, and its as if your wanting me to peer through someone else’s eyes and catalogue their thoughts.”- Every human alive.

    • @1992jamo
      @1992jamo Год назад +6

      I was thinking it's scary that he can't apply simple empathy for other people. Empathy is trying to peer through someone's eyes and understand their thoughts based on what you know of them, and how you'd feel.

    • @coffeenoobie
      @coffeenoobie 4 месяца назад

      I was stunned that he didn't even have empathy for his past self.

  • @frasert8779
    @frasert8779 10 месяцев назад +28

    I’m sure it was partly to punish his mother (for no reason), but the level of sexual assault and torment he inflicted on his sister shows the real motivation behind it. Every word and facial expression from him is false and calculated, but he’s nowhere near as convincing as he believes himself to be. One of the most obvious I’ve seen tbh

    • @user-nr1gm5vt4b
      @user-nr1gm5vt4b 7 месяцев назад

      I see that too😢

    • @antepa112
      @antepa112 6 месяцев назад +1

      No you are actually pretty wrong. The thing with psychopats is that you can't really find a motive because there really isn't one. They just do it cause for them it feels like they have to do it. He is a psychopath and was born that way because his mother had a terrible childhood and took heavy drugs throughout her life as well as having multiple fathers of her children and even taking drugs while taking care of those same children. She was a terrible mother and she deserves the same amount of hate as he does, just like his grandmother who was a terrible mother to Charity as well. People need to stop this ignorant shit where they put literally every single ounce of blame on a 13 year old. Yes, he is a killer, but the reason his head is fucked is because of his roots and genes. I find it funny how people in the comment talk about how obvious everything is to them while there are probably 10 people who work with Paris calling him mentally sick and deranged and that one of the reasons for him being like this is his mother.

    • @frasert8779
      @frasert8779 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@antepa112 The lack of self awareness here is palpable. Your general statements about psychopaths are conclusory, but being a psychopath is not dispositive of the traits you just listed, and to assert that it’s as straightforward as that is misleading at best.
      People are voicing opinions, you should be able to deduce that without the unnecessary qualification preceding every comment.
      Your comment was precisely what you claim to despise. You make concrete conclusions not only about his motivations (merely from certain characteristics that may or may not accompany someone diagnosed with psychopathy), but also as to the cause. We can’t know if environment would have changed him being psychopathic, but we do know he was the one who committed these acts. Many people have horrible upbringings and don’t rape and murder their sisters.
      People in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones…

  • @conscientiousobjector5988
    @conscientiousobjector5988 3 месяца назад +5

    When the video got to the end, I was still expecting to hear more. What a strange young man he is.

  • @Lolabear00
    @Lolabear00 11 месяцев назад +10

    40 years is not enough. He should never get out. If he does someone else is gonna die.

  • @Jackiepixie
    @Jackiepixie Год назад +15

    He just evades answering ! He’s evil ! Chills watching this. Even as a little boy he seemed weird

  • @Mogojoegotube
    @Mogojoegotube 11 месяцев назад +16

    Notice how he's faking empathy, you can tell with the way he constantly talks about "me me how I felt, that I was in trouble" etc. It's all about him not once was he talking about regretting or feeling bad for what he had done. It was all about him. Because he simply can't feel anything there's nothing there. Notice how he says "I don't know how to explain what love it" because he doesn't feel that emotion at all he can't describe something he's never felt. All he cares about is himself and I recon he took this interview with the goal of easing his sentence or something

  • @bellamelissa87
    @bellamelissa87 11 месяцев назад +12

    Holy fuck! This guy is literally terrifying! He absolutely will kill again if released.

  • @SeasideBandit
    @SeasideBandit 10 месяцев назад +16

    Those eyes are just stone cold. He should never be let out.

  • @leonnel5811
    @leonnel5811 2 месяца назад +5

    Piers is not smart enough to handle this guy.

  • @neontetra1000
    @neontetra1000 9 месяцев назад +24

    It seems to me from his mother’s testimony that he was the apple of her eye for many years , spoilt and lavished with love and then his sister came into the picture and took that attention away from him . He had the worlds worst childish hissy fit and killed her in retaliation and jealousy . The fact that he can be released in 8 years and live more than the second half of a lifetime is an insult to that innocent baby.

  • @allovdem
    @allovdem Год назад +32

    I feel he gets his psychopathic tendencies from his mother, something about her seems very, very off to me. She's giving off a very cold vibe, you'd think she was an outsider giving her opinion but it's her son that killed her baby daughter, really, really strange.

    • @peternielsen8601
      @peternielsen8601 10 месяцев назад +5

      Yep! I also noticed that something really is wrong with her. She is cold as ice, and she is even smiling while talking about it. Something is definitely wrong with her.

  • @Pablo-qv3ys
    @Pablo-qv3ys 11 месяцев назад +7

    This person is disgusting why don’t they ask him about the SA ..

  • @ldsdmariya
    @ldsdmariya 5 месяцев назад +9

    Many times, parent can create Monsters by how they raise them!!!
    1 thing I urge parents, Never make your older kids babysitters!!
    Take care of your kids until they are out of High School!!
    Don't leave your kids with family/friends!!!

    • @savinas9344
      @savinas9344 5 месяцев назад +1

      Take care of yourself in ur pregnant time cause it effect the baby

  • @sarah.j.777
    @sarah.j.777 9 месяцев назад +8

    What was his father like? Children can often end up exactly like an absent parent even if they never had contact with that parent.

    • @prima-luce
      @prima-luce 7 месяцев назад +4

      his father was incapacitated by his schizophrenia, but i don’t think paris took after him- seems his mother’s lack of warmth influenced his psychopathology more.

  • @babsbitches6225
    @babsbitches6225 Год назад +31

    the mother could have been next to that boy, loving him, for every second of his life but as a psychopath he will always feel alone and isolated because he will never be able to comprehend the love his mother did and does give him. there’s a wall there emotionally, of course he felt alone

    • @victorradial1179
      @victorradial1179 7 месяцев назад

      That the most ignorant shit i ever hear of

    • @antepa112
      @antepa112 6 месяцев назад +6

      Ah yes, what a great mom. Doing heavy drugs her whole life, having multiple fathers of multiple children and then neglecting them. And then when she found out something was wrong with her son she just kept neglecting it until this shit happened

    • @victorradial1179
      @victorradial1179 6 месяцев назад

      @@antepa112 your commment is on point

    • @ServalanFan
      @ServalanFan 3 месяца назад +2

      @@antepa112 Yes if she wasn't "neglecting' him she would have realised he was about to rape and murder his sister. I would have realised it and so would most people. Really it was her fault. He should be out of jail and she should be in there instead.

  • @martinranalli8572
    @martinranalli8572 11 месяцев назад +8

    He said he was drowning in shame is it even possible for him to feel shame as he is a psychopath? Tragic very bad😢 he should never be let out far too dangerous.

    • @graduke1
      @graduke1 11 месяцев назад +3

      HE will feel shame that such an outstanding individual is now locked up and looked down upon...remember these guys think they are special.
      ....above the rest of us! 😅😅

  • @freddielindus1882
    @freddielindus1882 Год назад +18

    When Pearce asks him what are your feelings towards your little sister, he goes well I can’t currently answer that. Well he clearly is incapable of feeling anything. he pretends he knows how he feels by describing how he feelings but quite frankly doesn’t understand them emotions. You can see it in his face that he shows nothing towards what he did. Also he says I realise that we’re taking about myself here and that gives me the impression that he’s there to talk about him self because he thinks the interview is about him. He sees himself as the dominant and intelligent one.

    • @graduke1
      @graduke1 11 месяцев назад +4

      We all think we are number one. Look at how most politicians act...in it for power and recognition...and often feel they aren't accountable to anyone. Psychopathic territory. This guy just did his psypothatic act as a child...in a fit of anger and rage...it is in all of us ..and it has broken him as well as his mother at the time- i imagine..but now the mother is intellectually rationalising the act...seeing him as a sick mentally individual...and now he is the one hurting. I have no sympathy.. he didn't think his actions through other than how his vile action would hurt his mother. Now he has to feel the lonely feeling of being despised by everyone..and he doesn't seem so happy now...Good riddance😅😅

  • @melindathomas21
    @melindathomas21 Год назад +8

    The grandmother is crazy as a bat herself

  • @brentwalk13
    @brentwalk13 Месяц назад +1

    It’s hard to imagine being a human and not being able to feel love.

  • @danyiheni2742
    @danyiheni2742 2 месяца назад +4

    Like mother, like son...

  • @strangesleepless
    @strangesleepless 11 месяцев назад +5

    Okay I am convinced enough that it's VERY VERY DANGEROUS to let him out.

  • @Hansseibold348
    @Hansseibold348 3 месяца назад +1

    How strong is this woman, his mom… to sit there listen to him, knowing he killed his sister, her daughter, and still be somehow able to keep her emotions together.

  • @nessmarroquin5717
    @nessmarroquin5717 3 месяца назад +2

    I grew up with someone who had been identified as a psychopath when he was a small child. Both of his parents had already been working in psych fields. They immediately got him the help he needed. He was on meds and in therapy. And ....he was a better person than most "regular" people I've met (yes even as an adult). That is rare, though, and he had a lot of privileges and resources immediately. But...imagine if EVERYONE had those resources and doors like that. These kinds of things might happen less.

  • @enough2715
    @enough2715 Год назад +8

    Hate that youtube censorship forces titles of videos covering this to not include the true horror of what he did to her. He's not just a murderer...he did far worse to her and he deserves nothing but the worst

  • @natalier7204
    @natalier7204 Год назад +6

    He reminds me of the kid in We Need To Talk About Kevin

  • @traianmtohotan7425
    @traianmtohotan7425 Год назад +20

    Why keep this person alive death penalty straight away

  • @AnnabelleJARankin
    @AnnabelleJARankin Год назад +4

    Out and out lying psychopath who should never be released - he is not afraid to kill for completely selfish reasons.

  • @ShadowMan64572
    @ShadowMan64572 8 месяцев назад +4

    Let me get this straight. He had TRIED to murder the mom already once, yet she tried to sweep it under the rug and leave him with a babysitter and that poor vulnerable child. I wonder why that babysitter was fine in that position, maybe because the mother NEVER even told them that her son was an unstable potential killer??
    Stupidity. Pure stupidity is what led to the long, drawn out, sadistic torture of a toddler. No sympathy towards the mother for me and any sympathy I see people vomit out towards her is maddening.

  • @nancybeingnancy3081
    @nancybeingnancy3081 4 месяца назад +8

    how is his very disturbed mother able to say that Paris should recognize her love?? "No brainer"?! the .. way his mother speaks shows true insanity

  • @SoulSeeker20
    @SoulSeeker20 Год назад +6

    Shame...meaning shameful for his actions, not guilt or remorse for his sister.

  • @JustMe-px9qy
    @JustMe-px9qy Год назад +8

    OMG…the world is a darker place than I thought. I have no words.

  • @Toby2017
    @Toby2017 Год назад +6

    Bro is straight out of a Criminal Minds episode.

    • @merryem68
      @merryem68 4 месяца назад

      Which one do you mean?

  • @nicolebutler7612
    @nicolebutler7612 3 месяца назад +3

    He has demons controling him

  • @mansoursadigi443
    @mansoursadigi443 Год назад +12

    😡🤮😡. Why would our system let criminals like them to ever go free knowing the extreme possibility of them committing other heinous crimes?
    We need to revisit our justice and judicial systems and overhaul them,
    😩😔😩
    🙏🏾🙏🙏🏿

  • @PersianPary
    @PersianPary 8 месяцев назад +2

    At first glance I thought it was about Jonbenet Ramsy and her brother!!! How desperately people need an answer to that horrible crime even after many years....

  • @irishmczeal9981
    @irishmczeal9981 Год назад +6

    I wouldn't be able to deal with him ever in life. He would ROT in prison. Couldn't have been me

  • @lovely6.
    @lovely6. 7 месяцев назад +2

    A lying person is neither clumsy nor scary. Rather, he is a liar and is not good at lying. We only hope that you get rid of this

  • @TheGokuSuperSayan3
    @TheGokuSuperSayan3 Год назад +36

    Yes. Why no comments? I just happened to know about this story 3 minutes ago and coming here and finding only 2 comments posted over the last few hours.. quite a coincidence!

    • @alaaeddine_ouattas
      @alaaeddine_ouattas Год назад

      Hahaha i didn't realise until you mentioned it

    • @violet4481
      @violet4481 Год назад +4

      same, I came here cuz I just saw his story on killer bites on fb.. but this video is from 3 years ago, yet the comments are all recent.. so strange..

    • @lu5423
      @lu5423 Год назад

      @@violet4481probably comment section just got enabled, guess it was blocked before

    • @violet4481
      @violet4481 Год назад

      @@lu5423 thats understandable, but still all of a sudden all these videos were suggested to people on various platforms so everyone came to watch them full thing on youtube.. so I am still kinda spooked at that fact..

    • @asdghaith
      @asdghaith Год назад +5

      The comment section was disabled until 4 days ago for reasons unknown

  • @ninakobidze4168
    @ninakobidze4168 Год назад +6

    where can I see the full interview?

  • @thenebbishroute
    @thenebbishroute 10 месяцев назад +22

    His mother was an addict. She was using drugs with two young children at home. She's not an angel, and no one has any idea how she REALLY treated her children. This is not to justify any of this horrible, disgusting behavior, but let's not pretend she was a good mother...

    • @x_bncc9559
      @x_bncc9559 9 месяцев назад +1

      you don’t know it as well

    • @zephyrusedward
      @zephyrusedward 2 месяца назад

      Charity works at my school, shes one of the greatest people I've met, she and her son Phoenix are doing well. Sure she has problems, but so does everyone, but she is always there for us.

  • @francinariske9896
    @francinariske9896 8 месяцев назад +3

    The mother can't understand why he doesn't comprehend her Standing by him, he's a ruthless pyschopath, she's an empathetic target.

  • @cemoihonay
    @cemoihonay Год назад +33

    Horrible, ugly creature. He should NEVER get out! 😡
    Every time he says the word 'felt' or 'feeling', he does it consciously, knowing he doesn't have any feelings except for himself!
    I don't believe he felt any shame and he's clearly a compulsive liar.
    I understand the mum but she really should just disown and abandon him - i don't believe he'd even care, beyond wanting to hurt her!
    She needs to disappear - witness protection.

    • @antepa112
      @antepa112 6 месяцев назад

      You don't know anything

    • @cemoihonay
      @cemoihonay 6 месяцев назад

      @@antepa112 Oh yes, and why do you say that? Are you him?

    • @antepa112
      @antepa112 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@cemoihonay I literally watched a documentary about it where they interviewed his mom and others close to them.

  • @LouieTheButcher
    @LouieTheButcher 7 месяцев назад +2

    This is very sad and unfortunate. I feel terrible for that family

  • @MementoMiri
    @MementoMiri Год назад +4

    It seems that lot of you put blame on the mother, not knowing that her addiction came from her own mother killing the father and getting away with it in the court...

    • @fr33bird.33
      @fr33bird.33 2 месяца назад +3

      Then she should not have had children until she did the work. Simple as that.

  • @neal5452
    @neal5452 Год назад +3

    His micro smiles came out very often.

  • @nicholew3569
    @nicholew3569 Год назад +25

    invalidating your children causes a lot of trauma. if your child says you hurt them don't gaslight them or tell them you can't possibly understand why. seriously.... just listen to your kids it's not hard.

    • @garywallace4440
      @garywallace4440 Год назад +4

      Yes but you must also teach your children the difference between feeling hurt and being hurt

    • @nicholew3569
      @nicholew3569 Год назад +2

      @@garywallace4440 or how about you just listen, validate and support your kids. this teaches them more than you could ever imagine but it ain't gonna happen when you have crappy emotionally immature parents Gary.

    • @garywallace4440
      @garywallace4440 Год назад +10

      @@nicholew3569 I have dealt with this and sometimes the kids turn out like this no matter the amount of nurturing or validation. Some grow up to want what they want at whatever cost. I have family members like him to a lesser degree (no taking of life) they had a wonderful upbringing but are still cantankerous self serving apathetic heartless people.

    • @frek175
      @frek175 Год назад +4

      ​@@nicholew3569 yes to a certain point. Like for example if your kid said hey mom i really want to burn down the house of the neighbour. Would you cherish listen and support that or would you say dont be dumbb think about how much hurt that would cause mooron?

    • @BlackStar-hy1iy
      @BlackStar-hy1iy Год назад +1

      ​@@nicholew3569
      The event - perception of the event - emotional response to their perception of the event.
      It's important to understand people through the above lens.

  • @valariesamuel2887
    @valariesamuel2887 10 месяцев назад +3

    Sick man. His mother should love him at a distance. Don't ever let him come near her and her other son again!!!

  • @chriskelley4530
    @chriskelley4530 2 месяца назад +1

    Did he just say he loved her with every fiber. Wow. I don't understand love

  • @gabriellemeadows1675
    @gabriellemeadows1675 11 месяцев назад +5

    He says he cannot say he knows what love is, then says “I deeply love my little brother phoenix” 🤔.
    My thoughts are though…. Had he of done this as an adult, as many do, he wouldn’t be landed anything more than a murderer 🤷🏼‍♀️….
    It’s only because he was a child was he called a psychopath.
    He is no doubt, but how many go undiagnosed.
    Do not let him near his family outside of those walls, he cannot define good from bad in emotion, and prison from a child has only made that worse.

  • @Isthatalliyah
    @Isthatalliyah Год назад +7

    This is just a shame

  • @AdaSuccubus1
    @AdaSuccubus1 Год назад +16

    His mom is odd too I'm sorry to say, she's so matter of fact about it

    • @garywallace4440
      @garywallace4440 Год назад +12

      Maybe she’s fried from the earth shattering reality that her child killed her child

    • @exessen1684
      @exessen1684 Год назад +2

      @@garywallace4440 Not fried enough to make money off of her daughter's violent assault and murder apparently

  • @chiefswife1212
    @chiefswife1212 2 месяца назад +2

    MONSTERS ARE NOT BORN THEY'RE MADE!!!!

  • @MrSolila
    @MrSolila 3 месяца назад +2

    The mom kind of has problems too. She is just trying to play the victim and say I was a perfect mom

  • @nicolafarnhill2184
    @nicolafarnhill2184 10 месяцев назад +3

    Monsters are created. Watch the mother when she says 'that hurts' she shows no emotion. To hurt another the heart must be closed. So how was his heart closed?

  • @TheDrnknmnky
    @TheDrnknmnky 3 месяца назад +1

    we live in a failed society if we keep monsters like this alive...

  • @bobbybostic7947
    @bobbybostic7947 Год назад +8

    Got to love Tick Tok…. I’m guessing most people here today saw the same clips I saw.

  • @lilidog124
    @lilidog124 Год назад +7

    We need to talk about Kevin…

  • @elithejeweller
    @elithejeweller Год назад +2

    Manufacturing flaw, recall on product. Send him back where he came from.

  • @foedeer
    @foedeer Год назад +21

    Hope this mother finds peace

    • @aleksandrac9335
      @aleksandrac9335 Год назад +3

      No

    • @triputu
      @triputu Год назад +3

      his mother was bad aswell don’t you wonder how he got this way? seems like she neglected him

    • @aleksandrac9335
      @aleksandrac9335 Год назад

      @@triputu bullshit . He was just born evil. Her only fault is not getting an abortion

    • @nell9400
      @nell9400 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@triputuwtf she neglected her daughter not him

    • @OpalLeigh
      @OpalLeigh 9 месяцев назад +1

      She lets her new son, Phoenix, talk to him on the phone like that could never backfire 🙄 he only m*rdered his sister.

  • @jazminmiller1071
    @jazminmiller1071 3 месяца назад

    Watching the clip of them when they were little reminds me of videos of me and my other brother and I feel so lucky to have a brother like him because Ella didn’t have a protector she was in danger and didn’t even know it

  • @harieljjohnson6444
    @harieljjohnson6444 Год назад +2

    Godbless ❤️ Ella straight into the Loving Arms you will be reunited ❤🕊

  • @redefinedliving5974
    @redefinedliving5974 8 месяцев назад +1

    i am holding my breath while watching this. its very suffocating

  • @farhanhaqueadhi6052
    @farhanhaqueadhi6052 Год назад +7

    Such a horrible person 😡

  • @enka420
    @enka420 3 месяца назад +1

    i wrote to him a while ago when i was in my edgy teenage phase, it was on a website where they pair you with a random inmate to be penpals so finding out THIS was the person i had been writing to was very surreal and i immediately cut off contact