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What does a wife look like question is a red flag for me. The fact she doesn’t know should scream stay away
It matters especially to educated black man because we have to prove ourselves every second of the day. So you're appearance is a reflection of him. And to fight to prove your worth and how you're not a stereotype is very important. So it's sad to say that white women understand this more than black women.
Well hey If it barks like a dog, walks & looks like a dog. What does she expect us to think of it. You’ll always be treated according to your appearance🤷🏾♂️
LOL. We don't want to BRAG about a woman's job. We want to brag about her being wifey material.
@@cmonson1 but does any woman today know what wifey material is, or even care?
Yes, there are a lot more female professionals. There are way more female entrepreneurs than ever before, but there's a lot more discord too.
Ma'am to paraphrase Dave Chappelle you may not be a 304 but if you wear a 304s uniform you gonna be treated like one. It's a simple fact of life.
I could have said it better myself I remember that stand up too had me dying laughing 🤣
Absolutley !!
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"NO, your not a whore, but u do have on a whores uniform!"🤣🤣🤣
😂me sitting here about to write the same thing
Basically, a 304 is mad that educated men are smart enough to avoid 304s LMAO. You can't make this shit up.
Yeah and once this continues for 10 more years those women are 30-40 single moms who are independant and strong and all that but not a man in sight that wants that. And that's men's fault again. And so they go through life from the one victim opinion to the other.
U r so true. The "fun girl" might be ok "for now",but long term u can't take her to a function or to meet mom.
Remember, they are all qweens.🤣
@@ms.ark_sfc facts
@aMiFiii h0€
She likes fine nerds, but went out of her way to become what those fine nerds will never take seriously. 🥴
Facts
Big facts
She likes their ability to provide, not them.
Interesting perspective.
Anyone here think she dated any "nerds" before she hit 25 or became a single mother? She probably just saw an episode of Big Bang and thought "I need a man like that" .
She went to college but chose to be a stripper. Then cries she wants a husband that will accept that. Let’s not forget he has to give her kids. 😂
Assuming she's not a single mother already
bruhhh
All these chicks look like the bout to sign a Brazzers deal. This generation of women have a obsession with erotica
@@ukuduku No....it's just a quick and easy path to fame and stardom and supposedly a "career" with lots of money. OnlyFans makes like a billion dollars a year. Why work your ass off when your ass can do the work for you?
@@jamesneese7663 which I stand correct. Instead of signing a Brazzers deal they're making the porn themselves. Most of only fans accounts from women are full on hardcore porn videos of them getting blown to smithereens
A wife looks respectful, honorable, humble, and finally presentable
Gee. I wonder why those college educated men don’t want 304, thirst trapping, fakeup, fake hair, tattooed, loud, and CC riding women out here? Truly a mystery ☕️
Yeah my thoughts exactly, why they only want sex if i look like a whore and act like one ^^
Good Coffee ☕️
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Boggles the mind
I wonder why 🤔
WIFE is a look. If you don't have it, you can't be one.
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@@ComposedSage75 there are a lot of guys that would want to marry these types of women, but because those guys are from the hood ... it's how the roles are reversed the hood guy date up and a professional man dates down 😂
I look like a wife and got wifed up at 20, I wear my hair naturally, when I get my nails done they are short and painted, I get lashes that are natural looking and not bird wings, I work out daily, eat healthy and can cook.
I look and act like a woman that a man would want to bring home to his family not just for fun.
I can be fun but that's for the bedroom only.
Teach them teacher.
There you go, it's all a mater of choice! Lots of women take themselves out of the "wifey material" market and don't even realize it
thankyouuuuuuuuu
Bless you for real
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The irony of a woman complaining about men that she desires doing to her what she and loads of other women do to men that desire them that they have no interest in is just incredible. 😲
All the karma to em fuq em they wanna disregard you the man as human in total unless your benefitting them thats why their objects to me equal trade of course
Hood boys love her ,she rejects them
@LAST ACTION NƎGRO I hear what you are saying.
Lmao pretty much #facts
That’s why it’s hard for me to take this seriously lol. The same way women could care less about dudes dating issues and how they will write off whole portions of men for stuff like their height, is exactly
how I feel about what this girl is saying. Boo hoo.. you get passed on by smart guys cuz of how you look🤷🏾♂️Meanwhile women pass on all types of men for way less
Why is it that women judge men based on looks but when men do it to women now it's a problem 🤔🤔🤔🤔
Cuz double standards and delusion
Rules for thee but not for me
Exactllllyyyyyyy
That part!
Because there's 15 women for every 1 man. They know they will die alone or be a booty call.
She can’t understand that an educated corporate man needs to present a wholesome image to the world to get ahead?
He needs to show up with his wife to social/networking events and have her represent him. Her image is a liability not an asset to a clean cut man.
Big facts
Just like she wouldn't be caught dead at certain social events with nerdy dudes BEFORE they got their money up.
I JUST had to explain this to a "lady friend" who tried to guilt trip me cuz I'm uninterested in being anything more to her than FWB. She's a city girl at heart. Fashions herself like the young lady in this video. I'm 43, work for a major private security firm (also known as a Private Military Contractor) and have to maintain an image in my position. How would it look like showing up at a corporate gathering with you looking how you do? She got big mad at that and hasn't spoken to me since. Ain't no thing to me...it is what it is. Men of status have leverage to deny a woman who doesn't meet his standards.
Cant dress like a clown and then wonder why people expect a circus around the corner.
@@oz70nyc50 “How would it look like showing up at a corporate gathering with you looking how you do?”
That’s some strong black coffee with no sugar.
We want wives that can be good mothers to our children and introduce to our family. Not one that looks like a stripper. Simple.
Stay strong brothers 👊 💪
She is a stripper 😂 in Miami!
I'm 26 and this my mindset right now, I never look for a hot woman but a real woman that gonna build a family with, and that she knows her role and I know my role. Marriage and building family takes a teamwork, man and woman knows what they gotta do and if any of them needed support. Got it right away.
Facts
It is called class, that wanna be bratz doll can stay in the hood.
This is the attitude that men dont like , this so called brat attitude is so fake and lame, act your age your, 30+ not a child
@@oneskillpoint4669 all that damm makeup dont help,,, that s@#$t is witchcraft!!!!!
I'm White, and you are correct 💯..It matters to All Men
I'm Asian and I co-sign this message.
I am the son of west African immigrants and I believe this message of choosing a presentable wife.
I’m trans and I support this message
Men don't brag about the job their girlfriend/wife has. That's a woman thing. However, we would like it to be something respectable so we can respond without shame when someone asks what she does.
BIG FACTS
Amen!
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No we don't brag about it....but we don't want to have to hide it either...can't say oh yeah my wife is a stripper.
@@jerometruitt2731 exactly
Hearing Fun Girl Zone is just a rework of friendzone but they cant use friendzone because they already gaslighted us all about how Friendzone isnt real. It is only real when it affects them.
This is something that I don't get, after all these years black females wanted to be left alone and when it's finally happening, all they do is complain about why they don't get approached
BIG BIG #Facts
Cognitive dissonance
She literally gave herself Away it never fails lol. She’s hit the phase of being tired of being Dug out by Pookie and Chad and now she’s looking for the clown and simp. I’m Happy a lot of men are waking up
Agreed . They won't learn so men have to .
Her: "ohh, im wearing a fireman's uniform, but i dont understand why people keep asking me to help them put out fires"
I keep getting turned down for corporate positions just because I show up to the interview in sweats and a hoodie. It's like, just because I don't show up in a suit and tie they assume that I'm unqualified for the position. Like, why do they keep doing that?
hahaha
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Right!!! Lol ain’t that some bull!!! It must mean that are gaaay or hate their moms huh? Lol CAN’T be because of self.
hey OP you should lawyer up because i think you have a case here. didn't any these interviewers see your strong, independent male aura? did you tell them about your star sign and your degree in clipping toe nails?
so make sure you go home tonight, burn some sage and manifest that image in your head. you got this man; i believe in you and don't settle!
Really good example..!!!!😂👍🏾👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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Thank you sir
That old school meme where the black chick curves the nerd.. Then tries to holla at him after his come up..😂
Lol
THE old school meme 🤣
"BEAT IT CHICK!"
i feel like because us dudes don't have that rich guy or athlete look women always try to put us in a zone
They definitely do. If you don't fit either one of those archetypes, automatic friendzone
I'm an average man and even I would avoid women like this. Tats, tons of make up and strong attitude are huge red flags that I've learned to avoid cause I want a simple and peaceful relationship. With women what they look like is what they project they are.
Don't forget, the out of this world weave she's sporting...
I was just coming to ask, do guys here actually find this attractive lol... I already know she's masculine whenever I see wig/weave, crazy nails, makeup, lashes, tats, and or piercings,
Just like Rupaul, these women Have to go out in full drag to feel feminine because they are true men at heart
@@BnMGarage Normal guys won't find this thing attractive, and you're right that instead of looking like women they look more like drag queens. Heck these things probably have more makeup than a circus clown.
Exactly gravwolf
Type of chick that Laughed at the “corny nerd”, now want him to put a ring on it.
She likes nerds... Hahaha invite her on a coffee date and see how fast she ghosts you.
This is very true
They claim to like educated men or nerds, but always friend zone them! 😅😅😅
Women friendzone guys, guys fungirl girls. 😂😂😂
Facts. Pedigree is a thing. My parents will look at me crazy. No tattoos, no weave, no hood traits. They lame to us. I love it.
She is in the “I had my fun but I’m ready to settle down” type and she also told on herself by saying that
God forbid she changes her look to appeal to the right man, but the men have to change for her!?? FOH!!
1:40 Is she implying that hood dudes DONT "Fun girl Zone" her? Nah she was ok when hood dudes fun girl her. Now she wants the good dude to take her seriously and it aint happening. We dont wanna marry fun girls.
RIGHT! She gave her supple womb and best years to the streets and now wants the good guy to choose a 304 reclamation project over a nice girl
This is like me saying, "I can't believe the 'hood rats' aren't attracted to me - all I get are professional / corporate people who want to date me." Someone needs to get seriously real with this girl about her look if she wants to get into dating white collar, corporate professionals - the crowd I run around with. And that's not addressing her speech, diction, mannerisms or anything else. Those matter just as much. It's a package presentation. I was raised in it. The difference is clear. She doesn't have it.
This is not wifey material for a corporate man, she would never be accepted in this uniform.
100% facts
I’ve never experienced not being taken seriously by a man. You must really offer little to nothing for them to not pursue a relationship with you. 🤷♀️
Yeah but tbh you're more beautiful than her. Everything on her is fake.
I've found the #1 reason is his friend's had a thing with em, girls don't understand how much of a huge turn off that is in terms of wife material
@@cryptouk7985 what if they’re not really friends but know of each other?! Sort of in a situation like this now.
@@Rebecca.xoxoxo pretty similar , not as bad but ye it's kind of like the difference between walking on lego vs walking on glass
@@cryptouk7985 damn, no wonder things aren’t progressing after 3 months 😭
She's a fun girl at best.
Underrated comment 🔥🔥🔥
Back in the day, I dated a chick just like this. Non-conventional job, a lot of tats, and “super” woke. She got pregnant; we got married, and one year later, we started talking about divorce. Eventually, we divorced in year three, but it was over a long time ago. She played wife for six months, then became a completely different person. I’m glad these educated men are getting wiser.
What changes did you notice/red flags you missed?
Assuming you weren't part of the problem, why even get a woman like that pregnant? Better yet, marry her. She didn't "play wife" if you knew she was like this before you got her pregnant. You kinda set yourself up.
She's campaigning hard.
I seen this video previously and believe she was a skripper or OF exhibitionist chic. Can anyone say she will remain a "fun girl" for dudes.
Moving The Goal Post At It's Finest!!
*Goal Pole
People need to make peace with the fact that you’re not for everyone. What you choose to do with your life makes you more appealing to some and less appealing to others. She’s basically complaining about the consequences of her own actions and getting mad at others for having preferences.
Guys are using passports... They dont need to get on any Woman's page...
Every good person is not your person.
Facts! You are not for everyone at all.
I’m haitian I approve this message.🔥
Looks matter... She's got all that makeup on her face wigs/weave on her head I'm like what if you went missing and I have to give the police a description of how you look without that stuff... If everytime I see you you have makeup, wigs/weave, and contacts etc I wouldn't know how to describe you without it which means I won't be able to help identify you if something happens to you
bro bro..... that's soo true holy shiiiit i never thought of it like that
I just turned 40 at the end of September my wife is 26 she’s the 4th relationship and 1st marriage I’ve been in and I’ve hit well over 100 chicks use to have one for everyday of the week… I say all that to say this the four women I’ve been in relationships in 1. Never had kids 2. Never had tattoos and 3 never had nipples, lip, tongue or 🍑 piercings. I’ve never saw a women in those categories and remotely wanted or thought about taking them serious. One chick I hit off and on had kids and tats when I was getting married asked “why not me?” The mind set of these women are not a healthy ones that’s why I remember she told me about having a threesome with one of her home girls and thought it was cool, I’m not marrying no woman like that.
Then that leads me to ask the most important question.... how her friend look? Lol
I mean if you could get a bangin' sister wife situation... just sayin🤣🤣😂
@@aiscott1 🤣🤣🤣 sad to say bro she’s the only girl lol
well done sir 🎩
I hope you do appreciate your wife now because you don’t sound like great material either.
@@claucemicro1080 BETA!
Women want to do whatever they like and still get the top Gs, but that ain’t happening. When women put on the magic city uniform, city boys know what time it is.
If she friendzoned me, I’d just bag her friends.
She better hope she doesn’t get caught in the rain with all that crap on her face.
They continue to shout louder about themselves they're not even pretending to listen to men
After she’s had her fun with all the Pookies & Ray Rays, she’s now ready for an educated man who she friend zoned in the past. Love how the tables have turned, it’s called karma.
These modern women try so hard to rewrite how reality works.
No man wants a “fun girl” for a wife or the mother of his children.
She likes needs because she, passed up THE nerds.
Nerds are also likely making good money. That’s what she wants. To retire and have the IT nerd making 250k to take care of her.
She hit the nail on head you’re damn right I don’t want no rough neck hood chick. And no I won’t give you a chance. Speaking from experience I’m not trying to come in after you already messed up your dating life. A lot of us nerd educated men weren’t your type back then so keep it moving.
Don't save her ,she don't wanna be saved
Hair-hat hooligan
- Tommy Sotomayor
Revenge Of The Nerds, College Educated Men and Men In General!
It's hilarious to me how entitled these women are. They believe they are owed marriage by men and blame them for not dating way down on their level.
Fun Girl = Friendzone in a Womans lense, I just learned something new, Appreciate it Chisha👍🏽💯
Ironic the same women who claims they dress a certain way to make themselves feel better and they don’t do it for men attention, are complaining that the way they look/dress isn’t attracting the man and they not looking her way. 😂
She’s a “Fun Girl”,,,,,Period!💯
You don’t get the person that you want without having something that they want. It’s just that simple.
More colors on her face than the MacBook Pro Liquid Retina XDR display color gamut.
1:20 OK... So show me one corporate executive with a tatted up wife... They want us to accept things no other group of men accepts. No. If your tatted up, you not a wife. You hit and quit.
"Men have standards and things they look for in women that I don't qualify for and that upsets me."
"...okay ...would you date a short man who's broke?"
"No, of course not. I have standards and things I look for in men."
"...what?"
Preach it, needs to be said and understood
I love how she brought up people judging other people that they don't know on their looks like it's a revelation
Well said, Chisha Zed… IT MATTERS…..
I'm sorry, but I can't date a woman with that much makeup on.
Too much make up!!! Can you really know whose behind the cake on her face!!
omega facts, what is she hiding, way too much makeup
These woman today really don’t get it .,, She is pretty but has the look of a gold digger. No one is trying too marry a potential street walker😊
Can't tell if she's pretty 🤔
Who really knows??? 👀 😆
Degrees do not equal intelligence
I was a computer engineer major at UC Davis and went into the city to try and get me a dime piece...but they laughed at me because I was engineer major and "corny." I ended up marrying an Austrian woman and now I'm the most hated man on my dads side of the family because I sold out. I spent 3 years trying to get a Sista they friend zoned me so much I was like whatever I talked to my girl the first time and in the first 10 min had the number got married in 2 years been married 14 years this year 4 kids. Now lets just hope I don't get screwed in the end but I got a plan if I do but she likes the feminine role a ton so I'm good for now.
The shock on our face when you list your degrees is not because we fear your education (not the same as intelligence). More like you put down that much money, wasted a lot of time over getting experience, and still do not have much going for you. Plus we all know that you'll dismiss anyone not on your so called level unless they are a chad.
She’s a stripper tho, so it’s not just a. “look” with her.
They love and embrace their image where it benefits them but hates it when it doesn’t. You gotta choose your path and take the good with the bad ladies.
The one thing my daughter's mother and I argued about was her hair. I won, she now rocks locs and they are healthy and long and my daughter loves them. I wanted her to understand how beautiful her natural hair was
Forehead hair! lol Fun girl is a look, attitude and lifestyle, so is being the girl next door.
"Protection style" is bs. It comes of as laziness when you can't wear your natural hair and let's not even talk about those bonnets out in public.
Bonnett bandits they are everywhere like roaches!
I was about to say that too funzone for us is friend zone.
Present yourself as a wife if you dont want to be treated as such.
Everything on you is what we determine how to go accordingly
CITY BOISSS 🙏🏿💪🏾
Imagine how it reflects on you when you show up to the office Christmas party with her.
Those fake nails alone SMDH
way too much fakeup! what is she hiding
They not assuming shit. They don't want you. Its simple
holy sht i gotta clean my screen. so much makeup
We are too good to date them. 😊
Voice this heavily to the young girls in your life and provide them with the tools to love their natural self. Even if you men have to learn it to teach it to them do it. My dad uncles and cousins made fun of women and talked bad about women who had weaves and all these things you listed they talked bad about them to the point I didn’t even want that stuff on me.
I remember telling my mom I didn’t want weaves because I didn’t want to feel ugly with out them. I remember seeing all my older female family member have a boost of joy and confidence and all playing in the mirror after getting that fake hair in their heads. They use to put that crap in my hair and on my prom day begged me to wear fake hair and make up. I wanted to go natural for prom. As a teen I always wanted natural but the women in my life had no idea how to care for my natural hair. They would get my hair to grow but because they had no idea nor showed me how to care for my hair it was become damaged. Tell you people see to act as if child just know stuff . I don’t even remember anyone teaching me about shampooing nor conditioning my hair. I would go months with out washing my hair and walk around with a messed up weave on my head scratching my head. I had scabs that bleed . I was a teen and had no idea how to care for my head. I didn’t learn to was wash my hair once a week tell I turned 19 because by then I have money to learn how to care for my hair and looks. No one gave me shampoo and conditioner and said here this is your.
Men if your sick of it start with the young lady’s in your life. Buy the stuff for them and under the disrespectful mom going to have her hands in that young girls stuff. I can’t understand why black mothers are so disrespectful and ok with frustrating their daughters. A lot of women do not have daddy issues they have mama issues.
Lady’s fight to heal and get over that anger. This is your life and don’t waste it being angry, disrespectful and bitter like your mama.
Thank you for sharing your perspective
As a well earning Nerd... making 150k plus I'm not into all the tats and nose rings, long nails etc...
Damm she cute too...
I wanna see her without the makeup
Real men aren't controlling, we have standards. We're not gonna say it's ok to
• Wear bonnets in public
• Dress 👗 like a street walker
•Wear 🌈 rainbow colored wigs 👩🏾🦰👱🏿♀️
•Have 🕷 eyelashes
•Ghetto 💅 Fingernails
• Have a male bestfriend
OR
•Talk to us 🤷🏽♀️ any type of way
Not anti tat, but no face, neck, or chest/breast tats.
Same.. not too strict. Placement matters for sure.
Add huge back and thigh tats to the list.
@@bibishakikunioteko9945 FACTS!!
No tattoos no exception
imagine wanting to bring your girl around your family and not be judged too harshly.
Zero accountability whatsoever 🤦🏿♂️ You can't make this shit up .
This is a person who was tired of dating the same men and wants to have a switch so desperately,smh this one of them soft girl era tactics 😂
Whenever I hear somebody start a sentence with "I feel" I always discard everything that comes after that because at that point they have no regard for the facts.
Everyone goes on looks, what you look like is how you represent yourself and how people view you.
So if you look like a 304, that's how people will see you!
Just like a man dressed in a nice suit and shoes, he looks like money or someone who takes care of himself and business. Yes! We shouldn't judge a book by its cover, but it really tricky out there!😔✊
Let's be honest Hood men get all the woman
Look like a 304, Act like a 304, Smell like a 304, IT IS A 304
Don't even know if that is a woman
I had a friend that had a girlfriend who had a huge tattoo of a butterfly on her back. He was so scared of that, he just knew that it couldn’t work out with them.
Most guys, me included, want our wives to have a more traditional look, a tatted girl may be fun for the mean time, but she may never get the wifey status.
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Lmao bro he dodged a big bullet...any type of butterfly tattoo specifically is usually a sign of a girl being a huge 304
Your absolutely right about men wanting authenticity and modesty in wife material..
She's a SKRIPPER
I believe she is conflating intelligence with education. There are many people out there who don’t go to school and are very intelligent.
I'm a PHD 🤣 💀
all girl was the girl next door until they played the entitled card uno card with reverse.
"I like college educated men" "I like nerds" She SETTLES for college educated men and nerds.
"Don't like hood dudes" (Anymore)
This is what trying to cash out early looks like in many women who already threw it all away. She ain't trying to love who she finds, she's trying to find what she loves. She just wants someone who checks all her boxes. You know who else checked all the boxes? Steph Curry. Ayesha (dunno if I spelled it right) is prime example of not trying to love who she finds, but just trying to find what she loves.
You can be the guy that checks all the boxes and she's still going to choose attention from other men over you, and we already know what that comes with. That's what makes women like this a fun girl, not her tattoos. Nice misdirection. Not sure if it even needed to be said, but don't fall for this out in the wild. Get that passport.