HOW TO INDUCE LABOR NATURALLY | (12 hrs later she was here)!

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  • @heyshayla
    @heyshayla  2 года назад +8

    LINKES PROMISED:
    The 3 videos I watched to naturally induce labor:
    What is the miles circuit: ruclips.net/video/FS5ywrKZSns/видео.html
    Things to avoid when doing Miles Circuit: ruclips.net/video/BnbGiMdwsCY/видео.html
    THE FULL MILES CIRCUIT: ruclips.net/video/UQ1jKbvyER4/видео.html
    Spinning babies, know your baby's position: www.spinningbabies.com/pregnancy-birth/baby-position/
    Hypnobabies "Come out baby" Track: www.hypnobabies-store.com/product/come-out-baby/?ref-hyp=shaylachristine
    Carrier: www.heyshayla.com/sakurabloomyt

  • @kaylinharris8214
    @kaylinharris8214 2 года назад +119

    Five centimeters dilated at 38 weeks and I went right from my 38 appointment to labor and delivery! 🤣 had my babe the next morning! ❤️ Also, my baby shot out! (Fetal ejection) LITERALLY shot out! 🫣 Thankful for a better experience this time around and for an amazing midwife who was there with me!

    • @LillyOfTheValley8
      @LillyOfTheValley8 2 года назад

      Oh my gosh! Did you tear?

    • @ItsBrittany.
      @ItsBrittany. Год назад +2

      So you barely pushed pretty much?

    • @christengardner1466
      @christengardner1466 Год назад +1

      Hope im that luck next month 🤞

    • @emmanuelaemejuru7190
      @emmanuelaemejuru7190 Год назад +1

      Omg was there anything you did to encourage the dilation and quick delivery?
      With my first I tried so many different things and I still had to be induced and due to not dilating even after the induction, she ended up being born at 42 weeks

    • @christengardner1466
      @christengardner1466 Год назад +1

      @@emmanuelaemejuru7190 that's literally my worst nightmare 😩. My first was born at 37 weeks and I'm not sure when this kid will come out lml. But I'm thinking about trying natural ways to induce

  • @pitounesky7604
    @pitounesky7604 2 года назад +16

    First time mom here! 40w+1d today. Yesterday at my doctor's appointement, I was 3.5 cm dilated and 70% effaced. Baby is supposed to be in a good position, head on the cervix. I've been dilated for more than 2 weeks, but I can't feel either my Braxton-Hicks. Tried rasberry leaf tea, yoga ball, sex, mopping floor, Miles circuit, etc. I had a membrane sweep yesterday. A few cramps last night but not much. Can't wait to meet my daughter hopefully within next couple of days! 🥰 (My mom had to have 3 inductions... I'm crossing my fingers I will give birth without an induction. 🤞)

  • @adrianasofiaz
    @adrianasofiaz Год назад +42

    Due today! Thanks for this straight to the point no fluff video. 🙌🏽 Gonna give the mile circuit and baby come out a go this morning. It’s time to come out baby! 🎉

    • @vibewithtoro
      @vibewithtoro Год назад

      How did it go?

    • @adrianasofiaz
      @adrianasofiaz Год назад +7

      @@vibewithtoro good in the sense that I had my term baby within 48 hrs! But not so good in that my water broke (micro tears) by the afternoon with no contractions by 24hrs so we went to the hospital to confirm what the small leaks I'd been experiencing were. They confirmed and I had to be induced that night. 22hrs later baby was born with a somewhat complicated delivery. Because it had been so long of my water breaking, my placenta had begun to decay which gave me a fever at around 8cm dilation which continued to increase by 10cm... at which point baby's heart rate was consistently elevating so it became imperative to get her out ASAP. To complicate things further, her shoulder got stuck on my pelvic bone, and baby ended up catching my fever and had to stay 5 days in the NICU for a round of general antibiotics to tackle the fever. She is now 10 days shy of 3 months though and doing well. All in all I did enjoy this video and am by no means saying not to do it!!

    • @4cats2008
      @4cats2008 Месяц назад

      @@adrianasofiaz Wow. that was some traumatic labor & delivery! Thank God both of you came through all that ok!!

    • @adrianasofiaz
      @adrianasofiaz Месяц назад

      @@4cats2008 aww thank you so much!! My mini me is now a year and a 1/2 and I am grateful everyday!!

  • @irene9062
    @irene9062 2 года назад +76

    I went on a 40 min hike and then the FULL Miles circuit that evening and that encouraged baby to make his appearance the following morning! This was my second child born at 39 + 5!

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  2 года назад +1

      👏👏👏👏

    • @ashleyvick4411
      @ashleyvick4411 10 месяцев назад +2

      You have a lot of energy haha!

  • @alyssahull1363
    @alyssahull1363 Год назад +14

    I'm 36 weeks today and just stumbled across you channel. I'm so happy I found your videos before baby boy gets here. As soon as you said the thing about 80/20 cloth diapering and keeping it real I was hooked. I need all the advice I can get but let's be real, I know I'm not going to be perfect and I'm okay with that.

  • @carolines3953
    @carolines3953 2 года назад +850

    Thank you for not recommending castor oil. I was 41+4 with my first and my midwife gave me 8oz of castor oil to chug (I was 0cm/0% and scheduled for medical induction the next day.) Six hours later, I had the worst pains I’ve ever experienced til then and since, 90 seconds apart lasting a minute from the start. I had a massive bleed in the toilet (it filled the bowl). I seriously thought I was dying. We went to the local ER (not the birth center where I was supposed to go). Castor oil had caused placental abruption, which caused 2-hour precipitous labor. Baby passed meconium and was having heart decels. He was delivered in under ten minutes but we could have lost him. Never went back to that midwife. Have since had two normal, gradually building labors and am expecting #4 soon. Please don’t take castor oil. And if you do, 2oz is a maximum.

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  2 года назад +30

      😮

    • @SageMamoo
      @SageMamoo Год назад +131

      8oz!!!! 😳😳😳😳😳😳 that is absolutely ridiculous!!! 1 tbsp max!!! But 1 tsp is better. Poor baby

    • @victorianeal9369
      @victorianeal9369 Год назад +69

      Thank Jesus you’re both okay!! I’m so sorry you had to go through that

    • @deannaharmon2885
      @deannaharmon2885 Год назад +33

      Crazy!!! I was told only two tablespoons, that's insane I'm so glad baby and you are safe.

    • @LightieeT
      @LightieeT Год назад +81

      I did castor oil my first baby and went into labor within 4 hrs… I only had a spoonful wth was your midwife thinking ????

  • @Piperamberandbailey9204
    @Piperamberandbailey9204 Год назад +35

    37 weeks and couple days and been feeling immense pressure down there she’s definitely trying to engage into that position. Been having some lower back pain as well feeling pretty rough, thanks for your video

    • @Sophiasisi
      @Sophiasisi Год назад +2

      I'm 37 weeks too right now 🙏🏼 wishing you and baby the best ❤️❤️

    • @kelseyjade248
      @kelseyjade248 Год назад +2

      I was just in l&d and got sent home. I’m 37 weeks and several days. I was contracting 3 mins apart but I was only 2 cm. I was there for two hours and they checked me twice. Said I wasn’t progressing. I have been having bad cramping, pressure in my private and butt, ligament pain, and severe back pain. They told me when I can’t talk or walk to go in. If my water breaks to definitely go in, and they will have to do something because about 72 hours it’s a risk for infection.

    • @sharnittahawkins170
      @sharnittahawkins170 Год назад +3

      @@kelseyjade248wow… that was me literally yesterday. I’m 3cm though. They sent me right on home. 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @Peepspaint
      @Peepspaint 10 месяцев назад

      @@sharnittahawkins170 same boat today, i got my cervix measured at 3 cm and im 37 weeks, but she told me any day can pop. been eating dates for over a week and hopefully get delivering before December 10.

    • @florencekideba82
      @florencekideba82 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@kelseyjade2481:41

  • @themindsetmother
    @themindsetmother Год назад +59

    “Im really tired today, does this mean I’m going into labor?” - me 5 minutes ago😂

  • @marieneu264
    @marieneu264 2 года назад +120

    I didn’t feel contractions with either of my daughters, but I was very nauseous and puked so much that I became dehydrated and had to go to the hospital with both. Due October 15th with both, went into labor and had both on September 30th! Two girls, three years apart, exactly!

    • @paytonlindquist3545
      @paytonlindquist3545 2 года назад +3

      I’m due October 16th and my son was born September 30 2020!

    • @marieneu264
      @marieneu264 2 года назад

      @@paytonlindquist3545 maybe you’ll have two kiddos with the same birthday like me! Best of luck, no matter what due date you have! ❤️💕❤️💕

    • @alexadams2886
      @alexadams2886 2 года назад +3

      My due date is Oct 14, I’m excited for him to come but love having him inside.

    • @marissarogel7542
      @marissarogel7542 2 года назад +1

      aww happy birthday to ur babies 🤍

    • @marieneu264
      @marieneu264 2 года назад +1

      @@marissarogel7542 Thank you! 12 and 15 today! ❤️

  • @maki9396
    @maki9396 Месяц назад +4

    I feel like you'd be fun to have coffee with cause you made this serious topic funny.

  • @katelyn1384
    @katelyn1384 2 года назад +16

    I laughed out loud when you said water breaking is a sure sign. Mine broke 72 hours before my son was born. 😅 Love this, Shayla!

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  2 года назад +2

      What?!!!!

    • @needyheartsclub5577
      @needyheartsclub5577 2 года назад +8

      Is that dangerous?? I’ve read that you should go to the hospital immediately after it breaks.. did you have to be induced or did they let it happen naturally??

    • @cecilliachi
      @cecilliachi 2 года назад +2

      Lol I hear you. Mine was 42 hrs after 😅

    • @katelyn1384
      @katelyn1384 2 года назад +7

      @@heyshayla 😂 yes! I had a home birth and my midwives were supportive of going as long as baby and I had no signs of infection and our vitals were great. They were supportive of me going to the hospital for an epidural/meds if I wanted but I wanted an unmedicated homebirth so badly and never even honestly considered it! (Obviously I would have if baby or I were in trouble but everything was great). 24 hours is actually just kind of an arbitrary number that hospitals tend to set but there's no real scientific basis for it. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I'm so glad I listened to my body ~ my birth was trauma free and beautiful! Looking forward to my second in January...although I'll be honest I'm hoping for a bit shorter. 🤣

    • @katelyn1384
      @katelyn1384 2 года назад +7

      @@needyheartsclub5577 I had a planned homebirth with midwives, so I called my midwives when it broke in the middle of the night and they came and checked in with me the next morning. We monitored me for signs of infection and kept an eye on baby's and my vitals, and my midwives were completely comfortable with waiting as long as it took my body and as long as I wanted to. I wasn't induced either, my water broke naturally at 40 weeks and a few days. He was born at 41 weeks exactly! There's actually no evidence to suggest that there should be a set time limit for every woman to give birth after her water breaks. I personally also took immunity supports during labor to lower my risk of infection. ☺️

  • @Jess_Smith0903
    @Jess_Smith0903 2 года назад +72

    “If you are watching this, that probably means you are this close 🤏🏻 to having a baby..”
    Me, not even pregnant, watching this attentively 👀

  • @Annisatisa
    @Annisatisa 3 месяца назад +7

    I was 39 weeks exactly when the doctor asked me “u wanna get induced today?” i was shocked and said no…then I came home feeling shit cause I reaally wanted the baby to come out naturally. That day I did my prenatal yoga to naturally induced labor, I ate pineapples (no idea if that helped), did nipple stimulation and was being intimate with my husband for 2 times🤭🤭 then 2h later I started going into labor and the baby came out 21h afterwards

    • @coszniczegozerowaste8671
      @coszniczegozerowaste8671 10 дней назад

      Sex is good to induce labour naturally

    • @MrsSyamoneVlogs
      @MrsSyamoneVlogs 9 дней назад

      Woooooow taking your advice now lol cause baaaaaaby!!!!! I’m 39+4

    • @Annisatisa
      @Annisatisa 9 дней назад

      @@MrsSyamoneVlogs good luck ! My baby was out 39 weeks 4 days ☺️

  • @abigailfertal2678
    @abigailfertal2678 2 года назад +34

    I'm a pediatric SLP and literally 4 days before my son was born I had a kid run off during a session and I had to hustle and run after them! All of my co workers were so concerned, but honestly staying so active and sitting in the floor with the kids all the time couldn't have hurt. And I really think red raspberry leaf tea helped prepare my body too!

  • @AzyTheKitty
    @AzyTheKitty Год назад +1

    This is the most relate video about birth I've seen. My first one, I lost my mucus plug when i didnt realize when, then at 37weeks appointment, my midwife induced me as i already 2cm dilated. My water broke at night, and baby born at 3am. Easy one.
    The second one, with all this back pain, heartburn, and a lot more spot in pain in my body, which I have never felt with my son, and she's almost 40weeks, not engaging, even with all the yoga stretches I used to do with my first, nothing works, pineapples, dates, yoga, and all the workouts, walking, being active and whatever. Its been a week since my first dilation, I used to have a 5:1:1 contractions, and its gone the next morning, and no more painful contractions up till now.. a week.. i mean, a week?! This is kinda surprising for me. I didnt even want to be induced any more as it is really painful back then

  • @drownzi
    @drownzi 9 месяцев назад +3

    i’m 3 days overdue 😭😭😭 i’m soooo impatient!!!!

  • @jaimejames1036
    @jaimejames1036 Год назад +10

    You’re so funny! I love your energy, plus super helpful tips💕

  • @mjs22
    @mjs22 Год назад +4

    Yes nipple stimulation worked for me... I used my breast pump for a hour each side and then the next day baby came

    • @shannongray5271
      @shannongray5271 Год назад

      What kind of breast pump did you use? I only have a silicone handsfree passive suction one, so you think it’ll work? I had one that was given to me but it was kind of old and broke when I tried to use it.

  • @LilyMUTINY
    @LilyMUTINY Год назад +5

    Seriously what would I do without Shayla! 40 weeks & 1 day currently. Baby come quickly!
    Dates
    Red raspberry leaf tea
    Sex
    Curb walking
    Hypnobabies
    Nipple stimulation
    Miles circuit

  • @reellifewithlove4411
    @reellifewithlove4411 2 года назад +3

    Early gang!!!!! 🥳🥳🥳 Hey Shayla!!!👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾

  • @angelbaby9750
    @angelbaby9750 Год назад +1

    I have been at 4 cm now for almost a week and I feel like my labor has stopped and started so many times. I am so beyond frustrated at this point but my Dr won't break my water!!! I know that if she did it would kick my labor in! It did with my first born. This momma is so beyond done it's not even funny anymore! I am doing all the things walking, curb walking, pumping, sex, raspberry leaf tea, stairs and it's feels like nothing is working!😭

  • @chinadoll4373
    @chinadoll4373 Год назад +4

    I am currently 40weeks, baby head is engaged however my cervix is closed. I need to get this cervix open, this is my first baby

  • @danielleford9953
    @danielleford9953 7 месяцев назад +2

    First timer here, you are hilarious!!!😂

  • @melissabatz-z5s
    @melissabatz-z5s Год назад +2

    I felt called out when you mentioned googling everything 😂

  • @nancycoolen9264
    @nancycoolen9264 Год назад +1

    I'm now 3 days past my due date and trying everything I can to induce labor naturally, bc otherwise I get induced next week - which ofc is not preferred since I want natural as possible. Gonna try the miles circuit, love this video thank you.

    • @kratakrata3641
      @kratakrata3641 10 месяцев назад

      @nancycoolen9264
      Does it work for you or not?

    • @nancycoolen9264
      @nancycoolen9264 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@kratakrata3641 the miles circuit didn’t work for me but acupuncture did! I went for a session and the night after I went into labor

  • @Lauraphoid
    @Lauraphoid 2 года назад +2

    Due date friday - perfect timing!

  • @angelicabianca631
    @angelicabianca631 2 года назад +28

    I’m 37 weeks 4 days, baby is super low, perfect position, and I’ve been having contractions that vary in intensity and timing for 3 days now. They go away when I got to sleep but damn in the evening they are sometimes pretty intense. This is my second baby so I’m so nervous that this one is going to just arrive so quick we wont have time to get to the hospital… my husband is so nervous he took his vacation time early which I thought was great but now he’s just stressing me out even more lol

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  2 года назад +2

      Hahaha such an exciting and confusing time!!!

    • @madisonjane9865
      @madisonjane9865 2 года назад +3

      It sounds like you might be experiencing prodomal labor. I had this the last 3 weeks of both my pregnancies. Both went overdue (41+1 and 41). Highly suggest just resting and do your best to ignore it.

    • @babybc8810
      @babybc8810 2 года назад +5

      Omg! I feel you! My partner also is not working because we were possibly going to have a c section yesterday but he is driving me nuts lol 😂 I’m sure he thinks I’m driving him nuts but I don’t think so hahaha. It’s so painful, & I just want this baby out already lol

    • @KingskidAsh
      @KingskidAsh 2 года назад +2

      @@madisonjane9865 lololol

    • @loretta2539
      @loretta2539 Год назад +1

      same here and I'm currently 40 weeks and 4 days. Last night had maybe what felt like intense contractions so I decided to go to sleep when they weren't bothering me and hoped to get rest before they jolted me awake. nothing, gone and I'm still pregnant. be trying everything for the past three days (now 4) and I don't want to be induced. It's making me mad that all the women in my family all had theirs on the due dates, 100% natural while I'm looking at possibly being induced, I worked alot and I thought that would help but nope.

  • @shivaniakhil5934
    @shivaniakhil5934 Год назад +6

    This was so much fun to listen to. Your way of taking is so relatable. Seemed like was listening to a mate! I'm 5 days away from being 40 weeks let's hope it comes soon!

    • @2k2012
      @2k2012 Год назад +1

      I’m 3 days away from 40 weeks with my second, first was at 38 weeks and 5 days so I was expecting the same 😅

    • @shivaniakhil5934
      @shivaniakhil5934 Год назад

      @2k2012 best of luck for your delivery! I'm loving having 2 little ones- highly sleep deprived but loving it lol

  • @cosplayqueen4316
    @cosplayqueen4316 Год назад +2

    Sometimes with the plug to it comes out in smalll bits so you can never notice it’s gone

  • @weekendnomad5038
    @weekendnomad5038 Год назад +5

    The LAST thing on my mind is sex my belly is so tight and uncomfortable 🤣🤣

  • @jennandserg
    @jennandserg 10 месяцев назад +1

    Do you want to be friends? Haha. I loved this video! Straight to the point, thank you! 🥰

  • @j_dups
    @j_dups 6 месяцев назад +2

    the only way i know im having braxton hicks is the physical hardening of my belly while its happening

  • @laylaluna2376
    @laylaluna2376 2 месяца назад

    40 weeks + 5 days and the anticipation is killing me. I also haven’t rlly felt pain from contractions. Just a tightening like you mentioned. I was thinking it’s cuz I’m used to painful periods 😫😫
    Rlly hoping baby comes out soon but also nervous cuz I’m a first time mom

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  2 месяца назад +1

      You’ve got this!! I think only feeling the tightening means high pain tolerance 💪💪

  • @haliefaith35
    @haliefaith35 Год назад +1

    Shayla: If you are watching this you are probably about to give birth
    Me: Not even kind of pregnant

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  Год назад

      😂😂👏👏👏👏

  • @reyno6826
    @reyno6826 6 месяцев назад +1

    40 + 5 days. I've been in false labor twice. Trying the miles circuit today. Heres hoping

  • @isabel8965
    @isabel8965 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you😊 you re so funny. Im gonna try the circuit 😁🤞

  • @jordanlusk-hunt7917
    @jordanlusk-hunt7917 6 месяцев назад +1

    With my first I went in for an induction at 4cm dilated. Everyone was shocked and kept asking if I felt anything and I was like um yeah about 2 days ago I had contractions throughout the day but they stopped and werent that bad. I felt nothing until they broke my water at around 6cm and then the contractions came and didn't stop more than like 30 seconds in between 😅

  • @nahbilaharriette1789
    @nahbilaharriette1789 2 года назад +2

    I'm currently 38weeks and keep feeling the Braxton Hicks but no mucus plug.... I'll just hold on till 39weeks if no progress I'm gonna get induction .

  • @YolandaMLopez
    @YolandaMLopez 2 года назад +6

    Yeah those contractions you couldn’t feel are your Braxton hicks. Lol it’s a tightening feeling that then loosens. And it’s not painful. I felt those from 36 weeks in both of my pregnancies. They happened usually during a walk.

  • @sugarbabydelightsab
    @sugarbabydelightsab Год назад +1

    Love the video. You are hilarious 😊

  • @yunggrlshady6762
    @yunggrlshady6762 5 месяцев назад +1

    Im 39w8 days am i was dilated 2 1/2 cm and baby head station -2. No loss of mucus plug no water breaking i never felt Braxton hicks. Just ALOT OF PELVIC PAIN AND LIGHTNING CROTCH and my back breaking 😭😭😭😭

  • @jenwylie4093
    @jenwylie4093 2 года назад +12

    I had no Braxton hicks either. I just suddenly went into labor, water broke, and 3 hours later I had a baby in my arms. I swear it was from eating dates for the last month!

    • @fatou4326
      @fatou4326 Год назад

      How often did you eat dates?

    • @jenwylie4093
      @jenwylie4093 Год назад +1

      @@fatou4326 I usually blended up 2 or 3 in my morning smoothie. Give it a try if you are pregnant!!

    • @fatou4326
      @fatou4326 Год назад

      Sounds good. Is it a specific type of date you ate? But Thank you! I appreciate it.

  • @elshaddainwokedi3556
    @elshaddainwokedi3556 2 года назад +1

    I loved your video, thanks.

  • @starralley8274
    @starralley8274 2 года назад +3

    I'm 42 +2 days last I was checked was 41+ 5 days and was 3 cm and 80% effaced but baby is so engaged she's pushing on my cervix. I did a membrane sweep cause I'm trying to avoid induction. I've tried sex but she's just being super stubborn lol. I have tried the 30 minute miles circuit and nothing. I'm going to try the 90 minute one and hopefully that will get things going.

    • @4cats2008
      @4cats2008 Месяц назад

      When did u finally deliver and did u have to be induced?

    • @starralley8274
      @starralley8274 Месяц назад

      @@4cats2008 i delivered at 42+4 days and no. I went into labor naturally at home

  • @jasminedavis1919
    @jasminedavis1919 Год назад +1

    Love your personality 😂

  • @jaymaxine
    @jaymaxine Год назад +1

    I’m 40 weeks today and due today only 1 cm dilated I’m going to try the video they’re going to induce me on the 12th if he doesn’t come I don’t want that ☹️☹️

  • @reyno6826
    @reyno6826 7 месяцев назад +1

    I lost my mucous plug 4 weeks before I had any of my babies.

  • @matthews32
    @matthews32 2 месяца назад +1

    I am 32 weeks I was feeling a lot pain last night it is not bad now but I want to know is because I'm getting near that's why I feel this way I would love to know can someone please tell me ❤

  • @victoriajimenez7064
    @victoriajimenez7064 Год назад +2

    At my 38w5d appointment, my doctor did a membrane sweep- I am now 39w1d pregnant so I’m guessing that didn’t work. She also suggested nip. stim. with a breast pump- have been doing that for 3 days and nothing. I also been trying to have s** every so often and nothing. Tried curb walking and nothing. I don’t wanna go over my due date. He has 6 days left until I’m 40 weeks and I already feel desperate🥴 The doctor did mention that his back is towards my belly so I don’t know why he doesn’t wanna come😂

    • @cuteXpuffy
      @cuteXpuffy 11 месяцев назад

      So what happened

  • @vajethananthakumar3351
    @vajethananthakumar3351 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you xx

  • @nataliepharand8325
    @nataliepharand8325 Год назад +1

    My belly started to drop I'm about 30 wks now !! This is my 5 th every pregnancy was a little different .

  • @chelsbolin
    @chelsbolin Год назад +3

    I'm 41 weeks and do not want to be induced.

    • @liaddy5966
      @liaddy5966 Год назад +1

      i’m 40wks & 2 days they want me to get induced in 4 days but i don’t want to honestly 😢

    • @chelsbolin
      @chelsbolin Год назад

      @@liaddy5966 if it’s not a medical emergency, don’t. If the induction is not necessary for your health or babies, don’t. I ended up going into spontaneous labor at 41 and 2 days. However, I did do acupuncture for natural induction and labor started same day of it, not sure if that’s what gave my body the push. I read that for first time pregnancies, spontaneous labors start around 41 and 2-3 days. The OBs don’t really tell you this for some reason. If you do agree to induction make sure they evaluate you to determine how likely induction would be successful for you, there’s a score they give I forget what this method is called. And when it’s labor time (continuously move!) to help labor progress.

  • @KittySwrive
    @KittySwrive Год назад

    You’re adorable❤ ❤❤❤❤

  • @cuteXpuffy
    @cuteXpuffy 11 месяцев назад +2

    6:51 what website is this?

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  11 месяцев назад +1

      Heyshayla.com/hypnobabiesyt

  • @iannicollette
    @iannicollette 2 года назад +2

    Idk why I end it up here when I’m 29 pregnant, already dilating, and trying to keep the baby in. The exacto opposite, doing some rest because my contractions are on and off and it is too early

  • @csanchez3961
    @csanchez3961 11 месяцев назад +1

    Lol I wasn't interested in sex until I was told it will help the baby come out

  • @ashleytroyer3709
    @ashleytroyer3709 2 месяца назад +1

    I’m 9 days past due 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨HELP

  • @DivergentMindsets
    @DivergentMindsets 2 месяца назад +1

    She so funny lol

  • @TressaMulder
    @TressaMulder Год назад +1

    Sex works when both parties get to finish.

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  Год назад

      Totally an orgasm can help induce labor too 👏👏👏

  • @lisaharder8402
    @lisaharder8402 Год назад +1

    39+5 weeks pregnant and soo tired of being pregnant

    • @hbbram90
      @hbbram90 Год назад

      I’m 38+4 & I feel you🥲 even worse I have been at 2cm dilated for the last month😣

  • @astritdiaz8517
    @astritdiaz8517 Год назад +1

    lollllll you are so funny.

  • @shannongray5271
    @shannongray5271 Год назад +1

    So nipple stimulation is mentioned, how do you do it? Just rub away at your nipples? Lol cos mine kinda hurt

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  Год назад

      Totally or a breast pump!

  • @jenn6517
    @jenn6517 Год назад +1

    Currently 40 wks 3d
    If she is not born by tomorrow I have an appointment monday for C-section.
    Which I would like to avoid getting but Im starting to give up.
    I get mild contractions here and there that come and leave and come back the next day or so.
    I went passed 40 weeks with my other 2 kids but induction was an option. Something I dnt have this time around.

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  Год назад +1

      Heyshayla.con/hypnobabiesyt also has a “baby come out” audio

    • @jenn6517
      @jenn6517 Год назад

      @@heyshayla thank you!

  • @Rajesha10
    @Rajesha10 2 года назад +1

    None of those things worked for me….I ended up having an emergency c-section

  • @beckyhankins7134
    @beckyhankins7134 2 года назад +2

    Me, trying to naturally induce so I can have the birth I want at a birthing center as opposed to at a hospital (cholestasis is awesome 🥲): *looking for something to watch while doing nursery*
    Shayla: *must’ve read my mind*
    Me: God bless 😱🙏🏻

  • @khsw8136
    @khsw8136 Год назад +1

    I’m 36.5 and 4cm and never had labour signs after they gave me morphine 😢😂

  • @chaelacastro6890
    @chaelacastro6890 9 месяцев назад +1

    We share the same name

  • @laylaosman4875
    @laylaosman4875 Год назад +1

    35 weeks and 5 days today…dates and semen say no more where’s my husband 😂😂

  • @lenak1438
    @lenak1438 2 года назад +5

    I would never try and induce labor unless it was to save my childs life. Your body knows what to do and it's in God's timing not ours. I'm currently 33 weeks pregnant and yes it's tiring and exhausting but when God wants my daughter to be born she will be born. Period. People stop ✋️ trying to play God. 🙄🤦🏽‍♀️😒

    • @victorianeal9369
      @victorianeal9369 Год назад

      Amen, that’s right

    • @ShariNicole16
      @ShariNicole16 Год назад +9

      You were too early anyway to even be watching this 😒🙄. This is for 38+ weekers.

  • @ashleyfoster1429
    @ashleyfoster1429 2 года назад +20

    Ok but sex in third trimester? How? 😅 I'm so uncomfortable all the time, can barely sit or lie down comfortably 😒

    • @shashannawilson5345
      @shashannawilson5345 2 года назад +5

      I cannot have sex at all its painful, my body hurts everything hurts.

  • @sarahdiess491
    @sarahdiess491 2 года назад +18

    I’m 38 weeks and seriously any little thing happens and I’m thinking “is this the start of labor 👀”, nope just wishful thinking 😭

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  2 года назад

      Hahaha right?!

    • @KSC_
      @KSC_ 2 года назад +1

      Girl same, I'm 36 weeks and I've been feeling restless, having the runs/loose stools this past week, more discharge and lower back cramps lately. I go for my 36 week checkup tomorrow so hopefully they give me an idea of when baby will come 🙏 getting really hard to get comfortable my back has been killing me

  • @MiVidaBellisima
    @MiVidaBellisima Год назад +15

    A lot of ppl mistake BH contractions for the baby balling up and pressing against the uterine wall 😊

  • @urlgaming1996
    @urlgaming1996 Год назад +10

    I want my baby out! Im so over pregnancy

  • @isabellelittle932
    @isabellelittle932 2 года назад +236

    I was 4cm and 90% effaced for over a week before labor started, then only had contractions for 2 hours before needing to push 😅 labor is wild and our bodies are amazing!

    • @meganc3090
      @meganc3090 2 года назад +5

      That's awesome!!! How did you know to get to the hospital in time? Did you time contractions or something?

    • @SageIsabella
      @SageIsabella 2 года назад +6

      THIS is the DREAM 💪🏻🙏🏻💕

    • @meganc3090
      @meganc3090 Год назад +15

      About the same thing happened to me. I was 4cm, 80% effaced, then the next day my water partially broke at home and I had a 2 hour labor, no time for epidural (but I had planned on not getting one anyway) and pushed for about 20 minutes. I got to the hospital just in time. The doctor didn't even make it in time to catch my baby. Nurses did it all.

    • @sukamayoutube2323
      @sukamayoutube2323 6 месяцев назад

      You're so lucky!!

    • @4cats2008
      @4cats2008 Месяц назад

      I was 3 cm & 100% effaced for 20 days before labor started. Labor was 2 hours and 3 pushes. So lucky. That was 41 yrs ago. Now waiting for that grown baby's 1st baby to come. She's 39+1 weeks. No cervical checks done these days (midwives) so we don't know where her cervix is at, but then again, it means nothing as some, like me, go weeks b4 labor, and other are 0cm when their labor begins! Yes our bodies are amazing!

  • @aliyamathiesen7290
    @aliyamathiesen7290 Месяц назад +3

    38 weeks and trying to induce myself cause I’m tired and fat 😂

  • @jessicasewell5956
    @jessicasewell5956 Год назад +85

    Thank you for the support. I'm 39w4d pregnant, and I've been walking & squating, curb walking, eating dates & black licorice and spicy food, drinking red raspberry leaf tea, and I've tried nipple stimulation. This is my first baby, and I'm 39 years old. I just watched a video yesterday about the miles circuit. But thank you for being reassuring that your baby will come when they're ready. I think I needed to hear this today.

    • @sherrimorrisondesign
      @sherrimorrisondesign Год назад +3

      How did it go? I’m 37 weeks and 39 years old, not trying to get baby out yet, but want to start preparing!

    • @jessicasewell5956
      @jessicasewell5956 Год назад +15

      @Sherri Morrison Nothing worked. I did one round of cervical ripening, which didn't work as well. I was still at 0cm dilated, and I was 41 weeks & 3 days pregnant when I went in for my second dose and was still completely closed. They were monitoring my baby's heart and noticed he wasn't handling my natural contractions well. His heart rate kept dropping. I had to have a c-section. But it wasn't an emergency c-section, so it was a very calm and good experience. Everything happens so fast. I think the best thing you can do is stay calm and not overstress when the baby is coming. Just make sure you are working with your doctors and monitoring your baby's progress. And advocate for yourself, especially in the hospital. Good luck!

    • @sherrimorrisondesign
      @sherrimorrisondesign Год назад +6

      @@jessicasewell5956 thank you for sharing your experience. Just goes to show that anything can happen and plans don’t always work out. I have midwives and am going to have a home birth, but am prepared to go the hospital as well. Glad you were able to deliver your baby safely and calmly. Wishing you all the best!

    • @isabelprohaska5611
      @isabelprohaska5611 Месяц назад +2

      Gosh why are people trying to induce at 39 weeks? Speaks to the fear we instill in pregnant women…

    • @angelocean5556
      @angelocean5556 Месяц назад

      ​@@isabelprohaska5611 honestly it's absolutely driving me mad how uneducated 99% of women are about natural physiological birth 😢 I'm 42.2 weeks at the moment and I'm astounded at how impatient women are after they get close or pass their 'due date' 😮

  • @ebsh738rh5us
    @ebsh738rh5us Год назад +47

    Hey Shayla I LOVE your videos. You're funny, raw, down to earth, natural, eco conscious, minimalist or try your hardest to be, your price range for things isn't unrealistic like other videos with the same content, and most of all you don't add vomit inducing intros or music like other moms do with the same content. I already feel like puking I don't need that sparkle fluff crap, thankk youu 🙏❤

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  Год назад +3

      Hahahahah no thank you!!!

    • @misspee3707
      @misspee3707 7 месяцев назад +1

      "Sparkle fluff crap" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 oh wow

    • @edenelston7668
      @edenelston7668 5 месяцев назад

      😂 because pregnancy is hard enough, just talk to me like we're friends. Decidedly scrunchy! All about keeping it real❤

  • @mariarochellebalina9410
    @mariarochellebalina9410 Месяц назад +18

    Came up with this video. I am 38 weeks and 6 days today. Thank you for this I already did a lot exercises from 37 weeks and still nothing. This little boy is still very comfortable in his mommas tummy 😂 Pray for me to have a normal delivery 🙏

  • @brityoung93
    @brityoung93 6 месяцев назад +12

    41 wks and 1 day today! Been doing all the things except castor oil... going to do this miles circuit. ❤

  • @jules11yates
    @jules11yates 2 года назад +24

    Yes! Interesting and fun. You sound like a fun person to hang with. I am 39w and 3d with my 5th baby. Getting this baby out is all I can think about. I’m driving my hubby crazy. It’s not been a fun week with all my crazy emotions. Anyway! I appreciate your candor. Going to watch your birth vlog now.

    • @babybc8810
      @babybc8810 2 года назад +1

      Literally in the same boat and I’m also that far along lol. It’s been rough & painful & emotional of course. I just want this baby out!

  • @ashleybeazley
    @ashleybeazley 2 года назад +66

    Just want to clarify that it’s red raspberry LEAF tea that you should drink

    • @MidgardMother
      @MidgardMother 2 года назад +10

      Also, Red Raspberry Leaf tea is not a abortive, meaning it’s not going to cause labor.

    • @4cats2008
      @4cats2008 Месяц назад

      @@MidgardMother it didn't cause labor for my daughter, but it gave her horrible pains so she had to stop taking it. Took one day only. I wonder why the pain??

  • @swimsuitissue123
    @swimsuitissue123 2 года назад +69

    I ate the dates, used yoga ball, ate spicy food, walked, drank raspberry leaf tea, did spinning babies. even tried to loosen my own mucus plug but it was the nipple stimulation that definitely seemed to bring on contractions and pains for me.

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  2 года назад +1

      👏👏👏

    • @belle1406
      @belle1406 2 года назад +8

      If I may ask how did you loosen your mucus plug?

    • @shannongray5271
      @shannongray5271 Год назад +1

      How did you do the nipple stimulation?

    • @jadepr08
      @jadepr08 4 месяца назад +3

      Lucky you none of this or Seggs is working for me I’m going to be 42 weeks tomorrow

    • @jbb8261
      @jbb8261 3 месяца назад +2

      @@jadepr08yeah I went to 41+5 with my first after trying miles circuit, segs, dates, literally everything. I’m 39+4 today and I’m not doing anything but bouncing on my ball to keep baby’s position. That’s it. They come when ready.

  • @Ptr98
    @Ptr98 11 месяцев назад +10

    Nice video😊. Raspberry leaf tea does not induce labor. It tones the uterus for more effective contractions when the time comes, it softens the cervix too but it does not induce labour.

    • @4cats2008
      @4cats2008 Месяц назад

      My daughter tried the tea at 38 weeks and it keep her up all night in horrible pain so she stopped taking it, but she's eating dates. She's 39 wks now & having NST's and ultrasounds as she's 41 yr old FTM . She's under care of hospital midwives. No sign of labor yet & they've agreed to allow her to go to 41 wks. (she was born on her due date & I agree that baby usually will come when it's ready)

  • @amalyaharding5068
    @amalyaharding5068 2 года назад +13

    Literally tried EVERYTHING in this video and more and was stuck at 3cm for 4 weeks and had prodromal labour on and off for 3 weeks. Lost my mucous plug over a week before I was induced. Turns out baby was posterior and did not wanna budge.

  • @awakstein
    @awakstein 2 года назад +14

    My wife and I are trying things to induce naturally, she's 38+3 and she told me, the baby will come out whenever the baby is ready....amen to that lol

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  2 года назад

      Facts!! 🙌🙌

    • @isabelprohaska5611
      @isabelprohaska5611 Месяц назад

      Why on earth are you trying to induce at 38 weeks. People talk about risk of going over 41 weeks but that’s close to preterm. Lord.

    • @angelocean5556
      @angelocean5556 Месяц назад

      Why!? 🥴 Oh my god. People are utterly bonkers I've decided reading these comments section

    • @Angelyess
      @Angelyess 2 дня назад

      @@angelocean5556 I’m currently 34 weeks my midwife said I can start doing natural ways to bring on labour once I hit 36 weeks because my baby is measuring over 2 weeks ahead and if he doesn’t come before 39 weeks I’ll be getting induced at 39+1 as it’s medically needed, maybe don’t judge everyone when you don’t know what is actually going on in their pregnancies

  • @hannahthegolfer
    @hannahthegolfer Год назад +22

    I’m watching this in early labor that seems to have lasted for 2 weeks (due date is tomorrow) and I’m Jchillin’ at 3cm dilated and 100% effaced with no contractions and laughing so hard. I can relate to everything you’ve said 😂

  • @eldahernandezvilla1237
    @eldahernandezvilla1237 2 года назад +7

    I felt this intro 😂😂 I’m so ready for labor to start and anything I feel I ask okay is this labor 😂😂😂

  • @ratchschleuczynski9821
    @ratchschleuczynski9821 2 года назад +6

    I've never felt a contraction. My "contractions" all came in the form of searing white hot debilitating lower back pain. Which I was fully unprepared for.

  • @tiffanyrose9
    @tiffanyrose9 4 дня назад +1

    I lost my mucus plug and then my water broke 5 mins later.

  • @hannah1052
    @hannah1052 4 дня назад +1

    You can lose your mucus plug early & it will just grow back 🥴

  • @brittanyrosewatson
    @brittanyrosewatson 2 года назад +21

    I believe this totally works!!!! My first two were 13 and 12 days over and I tried everything except caster oil 🤣. I was desperate with my third baby and found out about the miles circuit. I did half of it one day, and a couple days later started it over and finished. I went into labor ON MY DUE DATE at 6PM and had her at 1AM (she's now 8 months old). So crazy!! I really believe it helped!! I will DEFINITELY be trying it again if we have any more kids.

  • @valeriegrace2144
    @valeriegrace2144 Год назад +18

    I love your personality. You’re like that friend I’d come to for both good birth/baby advice but also a good laugh and entertainment (which is a total compliment, trust me😅). 😂

  • @michaelaleach8195
    @michaelaleach8195 Год назад +3

    Basically if your body/baby isn’t ready none of these things will work. Frustrating but just part of having a baby 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @theclinefamily3601
    @theclinefamily3601 Год назад +84

    This is my third pregnancy and the first one I’ve done anything to get labor going. Things have been moving right along, much quicker than the other times. The tea, the dates, sex, nipple stimulation, all of that and walking all seem to be helping me continue to progress. Thank you for the info and encouragement!

  • @SuperRevelations
    @SuperRevelations Год назад +8

    I am currently 39 weeks and 3 days with my first. I have been eating dates for almost 2 weeks, walking and curb walking every day and night, keeping active in the garden and just ge erally getting out, sitting on a gym ball and doing some pelvic exercisis, pressing accupressure points, and having sex and stimulating nipples. Tonight i am going to try some pelvic alignment exercisis as well. Here's hoping tomorrow is the day! Or Sunday :) if not i am booked for an induction on the 5th of October. Praying it all happens naturally!

    • @lisabetramsey20
      @lisabetramsey20 Год назад +1

      My due date is October 5th
      Did you end up having baby??
      I’ve been eating dates and drinking raspberry leaf tea for the last month or so. I’ve also been living on the ball and doing pelvic movements everyday, multiple times a day. As well as taking walking in the evenings.
      How ya feeling momma??

    • @SuperRevelations
      @SuperRevelations Год назад +1

      @@lisabetramsey20 not had baby yet! But I had some pretty strong contractions and back pain last night so monitoring it today! Hopefully today is the day. How about you?

    • @brookemitchell2074
      @brookemitchell2074 Год назад +3

      Omg my “due date” is 10/2. Wishing us all a safe and quick birth!! Good luck, ladies

    • @hgjones4596
      @hgjones4596 Год назад +1

      October 4th due date here! 🙋‍♀️

    • @SuperRevelations
      @SuperRevelations Год назад +1

      @@hgjones4596 hopefully your bub comes on the date haha! Mine is stubborn and is already 4 days over 😆

  • @Megan_mena
    @Megan_mena Месяц назад +1

    What do I do if baby is already fully engaged and in anterior position? She’s been engaged in my pelvis since 36w. I’m 40w on fri. 3cm & 70% effaced

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla  Месяц назад

      👏👏👏 wait and talk baby out! You’re so close!!!

  • @NUZZIE.
    @NUZZIE. 8 месяцев назад +6

    You've got to be the dopest Ma on the tube. Instantly subscribed. And congratulations to you as well❤!

  • @kiwik2951
    @kiwik2951 Год назад +4

    I’m 4 days past due and I’m so over it. I’ve tried all the things since 37 weeks and nothing has worked. Feels like I’m going to be pregnant forever 😢

    • @cuteXpuffy
      @cuteXpuffy 11 месяцев назад

      Hey how did you do

  • @carissadyer390
    @carissadyer390 2 года назад +3

    38 weeks and 4 days, I’m 4cm dilated and literally doing everything I can to help start labor but nothing is working. I tried sex, walking, swimming, ball exercises, spicy food, nipple stimulation and still nothing I’m getting so frustrated because I want him out