Helping your wife with house work doesn’t mean she’s disrespecting him. That’s how it’s supposed to be. She’s not a maid. Me I am a man and helping a woman I love is a must.
I do everything at home, cleaning, paying rent and buying groceries /foods, i have nothing i can't do at home but i have found it that ladies take you for granted once you open up to help these ladies
Claire and Santa, surely you've nailed it. He and she got to work jointly and totally complement each other in this capitalism era. Naffe abasajja tusilika naye ebimu bitumenya nnyoooo
Claire (lady in black at the back) very well said I like the fact that your impartial unlike your other friends... nandi kuwereza ka xmas present wabula.. electronic gift card oba👏👏🤙🤙
I’m enjoying the conversation with these Beautiful Souls..Have seen Brains here 👌👌 Even Next time Madam #Flavia we need these ladies bateseza bulungi 😊👌 Naye waliwo ankubye patange ☺️
The way am enjoying the show😘😘🔥🔥 OMG It's a matter of understanding each, banange nze omusaja eyosobola I don't have problem with him, but if we are sharing bills my dia don't even think of okusajalata .tweyambe yambe ekyo kigwe .
loved these ladies when they were giving their views by the way start bringing such topics, thanks so much there was something to learn out of it but those men who like women to hell with them.
Good show Flavia! Please invite African women and men on MS Teams or Zoom for a deep discussion or debate. Things are far more different abroad than in Uganda.
This is really good to educate Ugandan couples.they don’t know that they have to be on the same page like invensting for themselves and their generation.women have a say (akasente kekyikyala) which makes men helpless and hopeless in marriage.ending up to everyone doing on her or his own.
The ladies are balanced in their reasoning. i think the behavior of men and women in marriage is hell bent on the culture shocks that each of them faces in America as opposed to Uganda.
I want to give more clarification on this topic flavia.There are three types of relationship.(1)is where a man and a woman peacefully agrees to share responsilities 50/50 i mean, if awoman breastfed in the morning a man bottle-fed in the night, if a woman washes dishes, the man has to do the same.they have to pay rent together and the list goes on...the duration of this marriage me and you i don't know.... (2) is when a man takes responsibilities of everything to his family which has everything what that man desires from his family without complaining and living together peacefully.....this allows a woman to have time for her family and respect to her husband and even if this woman is working she will not strain to hard to provide for her family but only to give a helping hand to her husband.... (3)is when a woman works too hard to provide for the family. In hear the man is the helping hand to this woman so this turns out that a woman is the head of the family and i assure you this man will never gain any respect as a man.Men suck to take care of, they are like babies so with this working woman will never fulfil both or if she trys so hard her soul will bleed filled with anger,sadness and so on and that's where the war begins so,these are men putting blame to women mbu they are bad, don't respect men and more.So,my advise goes to both Men and women know yourself and what you want before any relationship to avoid these unnecessary complains and harming each other.And my last word to men, please, stop being so lazy, work so hard to retain your respect in a relationship or before embarking on that journey.you are mean't to look for money.You have all the chances, time, energy than a woman to look for money.Money and respect is everything to a man..
Flavia mukwano praise God, Flavia mukwano I would like u to help me and get me a contact of Miss Chief Mable in Michigan thanks as am waiting for ur reply mukwano
BANANGE BAKAZI BANANGE OBUFUMBO MUKISA ABANTU BELONDALONDANYO BWOLIBERA OMUKAZI OMUKOZI ENYO ABASAJJA BAKUTYA BWOBA OMUNAFU NAKYO KIBAMENYA NAYE OMUNTU BWABA ALINA KYAYAGALA ALINA OKUFIRILILA POINT EBERE AMERIKA OBA AFRICA TWO PEOPLE MET ON THE WAY ITS GODS MERCY TO MAKE IT
i passed through the worst wen the man brought me to the US, i was not supposed to work,he paid his bills but remember i have a family at home that i used to care for,abakazi ssi babbi naye nabasajja sibangu,i started working by force,is that nkujogga, men here are bad
@@namubiruhope4175 Yes,i got a group of ladies that where passing through the same but staying in different states,we helped each other out,i had to go back to uganda ad rest abit then came back with i know my rights slogan, many women keep quite for the sake of culture naye the men ohhhh
@@DIASPORACONNECTUG We worked out on the issues when i went back home then came back with the i know my rights slogan,women are suffering out there ad i wonder wen bloggers come out ad say abakazi bebulaya bajoga abasajja
Very true, there men who are women, omusajja akuzalamu a banna nga tasobola kubalabilira, tayagalo kola, talina mukwano yadde nga amagezige gonna gagwera mu bigere. And those are the one that complain inti abakazi babajoga. There few men these days Flavia.
Flavia, greetings and much love to you and all that you do. Back to topic. The answers to your questions are 2 basic things:: 1. Bwogenda ebulya mbwa, …. 2. Self understanding and self appreciation 3. Man and wife MUST create their own culture in their home. Ebya “Supposed, supposed, supposed.” Bisudde amaka manji. What works in one home does not necessarily work in another.
We help out women,but I was married to a Jamaican. These women have trauma from their childhood. They never got help to heal their trauma, now they destroy men's lives due to this. It's beyond men's control. I took care of my house, took care of my kids. I wanted a family more than anything but she wanted to have her cake and eat it. Am single and take care of my kids in a healthier environment. Until I find a woman who is on the same page. I would rather be single till the right person comes along.
When a man and woman live together as a couple and both are working, it's fine to support each other financially. Forget about the treatment back home. Please organize a zoom meeting for men and women.
Hi dear Flavia greeting u, 4m I hated love coz women if they get money oh they changed their behaviors so I don't know that love is still there in the world this day byakutemesa nosiikamu maso I mean just get lady for one day and move on obuffumbo bwebulaya tebusoboka 4me I made trusted ladies but kyebatusizako I don't think nti love ekyaliyo in this world I love you, dear thanks
Lots of love Mirembe Suzie my fashionist. All I can say about the topic is ; men should know women are born of the same womb as them. They grow same so I wonder why men think they are above women yet we are all the same. A part from the sex. They are energetic compared to women. Meaning they would be the ones doing a lot.
Kyemuva temuggya kukulakulana ngamudda mu "it's his responsibility". Bakyala mukole nyo muyambagane muvve mukwewussa, I am with you Claire and Santa, a household should be joint, muvve mu byokulinda mbu omusajja yasasula bills, get your funds together and work jointly, you will have a peaceful marriage. Stop overburdening men bakyaala and being lazy. Wano kubulaaya you need to work hand in hand in order to not overstress one party. You don't lose your womanhood if you help, stop it Flavia. And women mulekeraawo okwesiba mu unhappy marriages please move on and hassle for yourself and your kids.
Hello madam Flavia thanks for da work u do we appreciate 🇺🇬plzz Am here in Dubai but am requesting if possible to get me number for Affande Gen megadi ,I need some advise from him plzz
Lady in black has great maturity n the best thing is, she's really cute !!!!!
The lady in black has a mature reasoning capacity I love the way she reasons
The lady in back is on point her reasoning is very good
That black beautiful lady behind has mature reasoning
Lady in black has balanced maid bambi God bless you.pastor Herbert
That lady in black has a well balanced mind. There are always two sides to the coin.
We men we need to be flexible, helping your partner with house work doesn't mean disrespecting
Well said Joseph
👍👍
Another feminism victim. Thats y you paid dowry to wash plates in your home. Aaaah woman sorry man
Well said
Some men are fools
I really love Claire Santa's comments the lady in black at the backseat big up
I like that Lady in black 🖤🖤🖤. Thank you
Helping your wife with house work doesn’t mean she’s disrespecting him. That’s how it’s supposed to be. She’s not a maid. Me I am a man and helping a woman I love is a must.
The lady in black is the best with smart minds 👏
Omukazi yanjoogela e Chicago😢 Irene wanjooga!
🤣🤣🤣 sori bruh
I do everything at home, cleaning, paying rent and buying groceries /foods, i have nothing i can't do at home but i have found it that ladies take you for granted once you open up to help these ladies
Claire and Santa, surely you've nailed it. He and she got to work jointly and totally complement each other in this capitalism era.
Naffe abasajja tusilika naye ebimu bitumenya nnyoooo
Have these two beautiful ladies ❤
Nice to see Claire.
The presenter's thinking and mentality is so myopic . The lady guests are upright and with good intent
Both partners need to be open to each other , help yo partner share everything that brings peace in your relationship
baano bankolede,i wish my fiance can listen to this.
Ate for all your safety bambi mwandituziiza this meeting nga temuli mu kuvvuga motoka. Katonda abakuume. bano abakyala abattelemu obwangu.
Gals lots of love so happy 100% with all yo points respect comes both ways
I have enjoyed and learn something thanks to you all
Wamma nze bwemba silina manyi gafumba my hubby can cook ,he can do everything ngasazeewo naye tebamulagira,,,i just thank the lady who raised hım 🙏🙏
Claire (lady in black at the back) very well said I like the fact that your impartial unlike your other friends... nandi kuwereza ka xmas present wabula.. electronic gift card oba👏👏🤙🤙
Her reasoning capacity is at high level ❤❤
These ladies are so understanding..bt as a man personally helping ma woman is something i would love to do
good conversation but it makes more sense when one person speaks at a time.
Nalina omukazi e Uganda 🇺🇬 yali akola,nganange jiya nganfuna olusifuna kinene lumunangenda nenfumva emere ,nejoza ebintu nengenda okuyiya, olwadako nalina okugenda, okuyiya,safumba nesuwani sazoza,ngabwomanyi nezinja nakafera, netise yangamba kimukamwake owaye ebintu wabireke ani?okuva olwo sadayo kumuyamba, bweyafulumanga tugendafena, netwukanira kupaka,nengenda kubyange,natandika okubyeyoleza,kati abana abo kyebogera ebimubitufu,nsinga nafuna omukazi omukwabo obufumbo bwanditerede,mbakonedemu!!!!!!!I love you ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡☆☆☆☆☆☆☆♧
I also agree with Claire
Thnx u swt
Point clear cic claire
Flavia Okoze ekibozibozi mu motoka. Naye Women in diaspora are not easio.
These ladies are tough
I really love the way these ladies analyze their issues concerning relationship. Thank you so much guys. I love you all.
I’m enjoying the conversation with these Beautiful Souls..Have seen Brains here 👌👌 Even Next time Madam #Flavia we need these ladies bateseza bulungi 😊👌 Naye waliwo ankubye patange ☺️
Aliwa hajji?? Webale kusiima ssebo
Thx for the show flavia❤️
Thanks for the show Flavia, am joying the show soo funny 😄 😆
Banange Flavia noonyako nange nina emboozi neene
Woow so beautiful ladies ❤
The way am enjoying the show😘😘🔥🔥 OMG
It's a matter of understanding each, banange nze omusaja eyosobola I don't have problem with him, but if we are sharing bills my dia don't even think of okusajalata .tweyambe yambe ekyo kigwe .
First here, am watching, I think it's all about want to be equal
Thank you Flavia and your girls
Flavor I wish am a friend to Klear, Bambi she is so understanding
thank you guys for the discussion
loved these ladies when they were giving their views by the way start bringing such topics, thanks so much there was something to learn out of it but those men who like women to hell with them.
@claire #Keep winning gal. Looking great 👍
Thnx u so much pretty og carol 💓 you
Good show Flavia! Please invite African women and men on MS Teams or Zoom for a deep discussion or debate. Things are far more different abroad than in Uganda.
Thank for bringing Suzan eyali omutunzi wange kutumideko
I have always been asking myself this question 😅
Great episode. Keep up the great work.
I love this program.. much love from home Uganda.. I hope am the first to comment
Thank for the show 😂😂😂😂😂FLAVIA
This is really good to educate Ugandan couples.they don’t know that they have to be on the same page like invensting for themselves and their generation.women have a say (akasente kekyikyala) which makes men helpless and hopeless in marriage.ending up to everyone doing on her or his own.
Flavia, please organize a debate between men and women of African origin to that we can exchange ideas.
Abakyala bank mbagadde. Bogera mazima bambi
I like the way these ladies express their views.
BUT Claire your dialect humbles any man
Indians are the richest and the most educated in every country they go to. This is because of their family unit.
Is Christine Nampala single? Thank you.
am in love with the conversation for sure## thanxs to u flavior
Caire u are right.
Mukyala Matovu Claire,thank you oteseeza bulungi eri ffe abasajja.Flavia good job.Claire webare.
Bbanange Santa webare
Gals u look so amazing
Hello dia
Nze jangala kufumira muchala❤
Siri na mukazi
The ladies are balanced in their reasoning. i think the behavior of men and women in marriage is hell bent on the culture shocks that each of them faces in America as opposed to Uganda.
Now I agree with caleir
Respecting each other!
Flavia, please come back to Uganda.....we miss you bambi...you're a class apart .
bambi ka Fanta Claire kalabika bulungi, koogela bulungi and she is humane. she sounds compassionate.
Lady in black ure no.1
It's true some men, don't want to work and women work, earn and pay all bills but still respect eachother and husband and wife.
I want to give more clarification on this topic flavia.There are three types of relationship.(1)is where a man and a woman peacefully agrees to share responsilities 50/50 i mean, if awoman breastfed in the morning a man bottle-fed in the night, if a woman washes dishes,
the man has to do the same.they have to pay rent together and the list goes on...the duration of this marriage me and you i don't know....
(2) is when a man takes responsibilities of everything to his family which has everything what that man desires from his family without complaining and living together peacefully.....this allows a woman to have time for her family and respect to her husband and even if this woman is working she will not strain to hard to provide for her family but only to give a helping hand to her husband....
(3)is when a woman works too hard to provide for the family. In hear the man is the helping hand to this woman so this turns out that a woman is the head of the family and i assure you this man will never gain any respect as a man.Men suck to take care of, they are like babies so with this working woman will never fulfil both or if she trys so hard her soul will bleed filled with anger,sadness and so on and that's where the war begins so,these are men putting blame to women mbu they are bad, don't respect men and more.So,my advise goes to both Men and women know yourself and what you want before any relationship to avoid these unnecessary complains and harming each other.And my last word to men, please, stop being so lazy, work so hard to retain your respect in a relationship or before embarking on that journey.you are mean't to look for money.You have all the chances, time, energy than a woman to look for money.Money and respect is everything to a man..
Nice jazz Flaviana✌.
Mwebalenyo mbakonedemu, nze Moses Bukenya Kazungu UK 🇬🇧
I have fallen in love with these two claires cos they intelligent and objective. Though nze sileta ndibotta from Uganda 😏Thanks for the show guys!
😄😅🤣🤣ndibotta indeed
@@cathyally8365 okitegera?? Those ndibotas are just users😏😏😏😏😂
Flavia mukwano praise God, Flavia mukwano I would like u to help me and get me a contact of Miss Chief Mable in Michigan thanks as am waiting for ur reply mukwano
Those men love slay queens nebatamanya nti slay queen anonya way out to her destination.
But some women also get smart wires and spend their money on them😂
BANANGE BAKAZI BANANGE OBUFUMBO MUKISA ABANTU BELONDALONDANYO BWOLIBERA OMUKAZI OMUKOZI ENYO ABASAJJA BAKUTYA BWOBA OMUNAFU NAKYO KIBAMENYA NAYE OMUNTU BWABA ALINA KYAYAGALA ALINA OKUFIRILILA POINT EBERE AMERIKA OBA AFRICA TWO PEOPLE MET ON THE WAY ITS GODS MERCY TO MAKE IT
Flavia okyalimu ekyalo kya Bukedde
__ Mujja ku kaddiyira eyo, era mifiire mu bwa nnakyeyombekedde !!! 😁kitalo.
Respecting each other
i passed through the worst wen the man brought me to the US, i was not supposed to work,he paid his bills but remember i have a family at home that i used to care for,abakazi ssi babbi naye nabasajja sibangu,i started working by force,is that nkujogga, men here are bad
Thanks for the aggressiveness ... working by force👍
Omg 😳. Do u mind sharing your story on camera??? Can locate u
Are you still married to him wabula such men batama
@@namubiruhope4175 Yes,i got a group of ladies that where passing through the same but staying in different states,we helped each other out,i had to go back to uganda ad rest abit then came back with i know my rights slogan, many women keep quite for the sake of culture naye the men ohhhh
@@DIASPORACONNECTUG We worked out on the issues when i went back home then came back with the i know my rights slogan,women are suffering out there ad i wonder wen bloggers come out ad say abakazi bebulaya bajoga abasajja
My agreement with my partner is that whoever is at home does every errands including dropping and picking.
I like your way of doing things.
Very true, there men who are women, omusajja akuzalamu a banna nga tasobola kubalabilira, tayagalo kola, talina mukwano yadde nga amagezige gonna gagwera mu bigere. And those are the one that complain inti abakazi babajoga.
There few men these days Flavia.
Flavia, greetings and much love to you and all that you do.
Back to topic. The answers to your questions are 2 basic things::
1. Bwogenda ebulya mbwa, ….
2. Self understanding and self appreciation
3. Man and wife MUST create their own culture in their home. Ebya “Supposed, supposed, supposed.” Bisudde amaka manji. What works in one home does not necessarily work in another.
Mazima bby gal
Wat of da culture u decently belong to from yo grand grand parents
This woman behind in black is very wise
Really wow
I like her alot
wawooooo ❤how are you Flavia
Fravia oyagala kusasuza bawo buli kimu naye oswadde bakunyonyodde ebyo byoyogera bikoma mukyalo Kampala.
We help out women,but I was married to a Jamaican. These women have trauma from their childhood. They never got help to heal their trauma, now they destroy men's lives due to this. It's beyond men's control. I took care of my house, took care of my kids. I wanted a family more than anything but she wanted to have her cake and eat it. Am single and take care of my kids in a healthier environment. Until I find a woman who is on the same page. I would rather be single till the right person comes along.
Here iam 🤣🤣🤸♀️
I support you 💯
"Rather be alone and be happy than be with someone and be unhappy", those are lyrics from the late legend Lucky Dube. R.I.P
@@catherinenahwera3835 am serious, I need to court, get to know you to build a relationship on a solid ground not sand.
Bambi
Claire onkoledde nyo 💋💋💋
Women earn alot of money abroad and become so excited it's their nature
Love you ❤Flavi
The lady in black gave a better and balanced debate thank u.
Claire looks familiar.......which schools did you go to?
Susan mirembe wow, alabika ebinyumira
Cleya nze Ndi ku side yo I have to sport my husband in everything ✍️✍️✍️✍️
I hv loved Suzan she is smart look for me suzan
Honestly some men not all of them have that ego “am the man” but not every man l think it’s all about communication and uu balance working shifts
When a man and woman live together as a couple and both are working, it's fine to support each other financially. Forget about the treatment back home. Please organize a zoom meeting for men and women.
Hi dear Flavia greeting u, 4m I hated love coz women if they get money oh they changed their behaviors so I don't know that love is still there in the world this day byakutemesa nosiikamu maso I mean just get lady for one day and move on obuffumbo bwebulaya tebusoboka 4me I made trusted ladies but kyebatusizako I don't think nti love ekyaliyo in this world I love you, dear thanks
A woman will never be a man and his respect period
Lots of love Mirembe Suzie my fashionist.
All I can say about the topic is ; men should know women are born of the same womb as them. They grow same so I wonder why men think they are above women yet we are all the same. A part from the sex. They are energetic compared to women. Meaning they would be the ones doing a lot.
🤣🤣mujooga
Kyemuva temuggya kukulakulana ngamudda mu "it's his responsibility". Bakyala mukole nyo muyambagane muvve mukwewussa, I am with you Claire and Santa, a household should be joint, muvve mu byokulinda mbu omusajja yasasula bills, get your funds together and work jointly, you will have a peaceful marriage. Stop overburdening men bakyaala and being lazy. Wano kubulaaya you need to work hand in hand in order to not overstress one party. You don't lose your womanhood if you help, stop it Flavia. And women mulekeraawo okwesiba mu unhappy marriages please move on and hassle for yourself and your kids.
Hello madam Flavia thanks for da work u do we appreciate 🇺🇬plzz Am here in Dubai but am requesting if possible to get me number for Affande Gen megadi ,I need some advise from him plzz
WOW - KIRABIKA OBADDE BUSY MWANA WAMAMA - KULIKAYO GYOBADDE?