My son introduced this song to me he told me Mom you should listen to Fantasia Lose to Win after 11 years of trying to make it work with his father he and this song, gave me the strength to walk away
Girl, good for you! That means that your son is watching you and paying attention to what mama allows in her life. I tried to help my mother years ago and she paid me no mind and stayed. My stepfather, in the end, left her for a much, much younger woman/girl. Now she and I have a fractured relationship because I witnessed too much sad and depress days from her. I moved on. So dont make the same mistake with your son like my mama made with me. If he is old enough to understand you deserve better, you are old enough to understand that you do too. Kids are watching. An unhappy mother makes an unhappy son. Dont make him unhappy because of your love of no good man. You got a good man that loves you: your son!
This brought tears to my eyes. I walked away and never looked back. I had to set an example for my daughters. Your son was and is a blessing. You got this!
+isis1969 im in the process of walking away with a 1 year old daughter and another daughter on the way. Its hard. But God is my strength and his promises are stronger than the hurt I feel.
+Pinkbuttons ! (Adonijah&Amanda22) You stay strong. Whatever the reason is, you are making the best decision. We have to love our children and ourselves enough to make the change. I will keep you in my thoughts. We all get that wake up call and have to answer it.
Listening to this song give me the strength to walk away from a relationship that was not worth fighting for and I feel so strong and happy right now thank you Fantasia❤❤❤🙌🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🥰
Sometimes what we consider a loss is actually a BLESSING IN DISGUISE!!! Just another way of God protecting us when we are blinded by love or what we think we want!!!
I just discovered this song today and it has been on repeat for HOURS! This truly hits when you’re actually going through it. Left a toxic relationship and now met someone that treats me so much better ♥️
This song speaks volumes to me. Went through this in my marriage. But I found the strength to leave and it was so hard but I made it. I found myself in a relationship with someone who truly cares and I found true love. So the lyrics are so true to life. Anyone going through this don't give up on yourself and accept what's not right for you.
You know i thought i was loosing when i walked away from a fifteen year relationship but it took almost three years to realize that I won and found the man of my dreams and expecting my first baby . You will always come out on the top .
Sometime in relationship you have to think with your head, not your heart, then you can see the picture better, when we think with our heart, we can't see the bigger picture...
Lord knows I needed to hear this song today. Just broke up with a person who I thought really loved and cared for me. It hurts when a relationship that you really want to work out...doesn't. I fought hard for my relationship, but it takes two people to make it work. I know it is going to hurt a while, but it's okay. But like Ms. Amazing Fantasia said, "sometimes you gotta lose to win."
I heard this song for the first time live last night. She song her heart out in this song, touched me and my fiancé’s heart. She even started crying while singing it. Such a beautiful song, sung by a beautiful soul❤
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Listening to this as I lay in bed in the sleeping arms of a new man that treats me right and reminiscing about hearing this song and crying when I first heard this song 2 years ago that woke me up to leave a guy who was using and disrespecting me. Thanks, Fantasia!
This song made me feel better when I wasn't happy with my ex. I moved on and have a new man that is treating me right. We shouldn't settle for less and deserve someone who will treat us better.
This song gets me so emotional 😢... still listening in 2024.. alot of men hurt some really good women.... the part that hit me was when she said" some of you know what feels like , caught up just in his life font want to try again thinking what's the difference "😢😭
Ive been there done that...when your in that state of mind dont nothing seem to matter anymore...ive damned near lost my mind trying everything to make it work..things just got worse...but honey i went to My God and asked him to deliver me from all my pain and troubles and never look back...he answered my prayers...GOD IS GOOD YALL AMEN🙏🙏🙏🙏
2021 and this is still beautiful. Fantasia is definitely winning now. Blessings to her, hubby, and the new baby💜. I’m looking forward to my own winning that’s coming. 😊
Rutendo Mujuru I had to take a X-Ray of myself on the inside first. Had to ask God to clean me up and I was fed up with Toxic So call friends and my life style which did not include my heavenly father. That was years ago. I Repented and started gaining True Knowledge to who I am and my role as a woman / Holy Woman. My life changed and I have been married to a holy man who taught me so much regarding the Holy Bible Kjv and more. We dated for 2yrs and married 13yrs. I had a lot of mess in my life that had to be DUMPED. YAH ( God) sent me my husband and it was a long hard struggle thru first 3-4 yrs but we did it 😀🙌. I guess you can say " That's The Way Nature Planned It". I am 10yrs older than he is and we love each other very much. Much Respect for my husband 💪👍✊. Your time will come. Just work on yourself inside and out. Inside first 💯. Men require and demand RESPECT FIRST / LOVE. Something I had to learn.
Keep your head up baby. Remember that GOD makes no mistakes! Whatever it is that you are going through is just a test of your faith. Hold on tight when prayers go up blessings rain down. Your season is on the way or may be right in front of you. Be still and let him work.
She wrote this for me. Im crying listening to it. I'm at the end of my rope. That's it for me. I've never felt more ugly, unappreciated, unappealing, and unloved in my entire life. I'm going to lose, and hope I win again...
You a strong black woman and you very strong and it a reason why you are going through what ever it is because God have better plan for your life put him first and seek him and watch what happens. God Bless u!!!
Queen i had one to break my heart well shattered me so bad till all i did was dranked myself till the point of no return ...i was finish so o thought but lo and behold God stepped in and changed all tht and that happened to me the year of 2016 i were healed...God put all the pieces of my shattered heart back together...the end of 2016 November the man that did'nt realized that he had a good women came back begging now most well a lot of women know we fall weak but i fell weak to a point...my wall was built thicker than Donald Trump wall😂 but i still talked to him to all alone not wanting to go down that road with him again....i FORGAVE HIM AND NOW TO THIS DAY HE IS MARRIED TO SOMEONE HE IS UNHAPPY WITH BEGGING ME TO COME BACK HOME UMMMM NOPE I TOLD HIM YOU SHOULD HAVE KELPT ME WHEN YOU HAD ME...SORRY NOT SORRY😁😜
@@krystingrant6292 it's ok to be scared that can be a good sign you will stick by your decision. If you were numb it might be easy to go back to the situation. Js
Fantasia needs to do a live album. A live album is long overdue. Fantasia is one of the best live performers of this generation. She commands the stage. She sings with so much passion and soul.
This is motivational baby! No matter what you going through..love, grief, loss of a job, financial hardships or health issues. You are going to be ok and going through a trial but you will Win! You gotta lose to win again. I had forgot about this song but found it today. ❤️
Had to give him up 11 years ago after all the beatings and mind games. Left with my pregnancy but today i am healed, have 2 degrees, have a fantastic job and most of all a beautiful son. Sometimes letting go is the best
I’m here after I’m ending my 9 year relationship .. been on repeat always loved this song but now I’m using this song to move on and heal ! Thank you ❤
Right I went through it for 7yrs once after I was tired of feeling like a recording or basically used when he came home an didn’t see me in the house with he’s house key on the table he knew it was over
The same here, keep yourself busy and build yourself up. Make your dreams and yourself #1. Never chase no penis, remember they need us more than we need them. Learn how to be by yourself especially in this time of ascension aka Aquarius age, don't let men makes u vibrate low and I have to realize that man is the devil in a physical form against woman. Eboni k Williams made a comment that men will sleep with you and hate u in one breathe and it's the truth. Carry on with your life. A man who is vibrating high won't use or break up with a woman he's knows she's the one, or use her. Many men out here are plane devils who live off women energy after they have conquered our feelings. I have learned this the hardest way. Ain't no real love since that so called love is spelled backwands as evol, live/evil, so clearly they are feeding off our energy when they use us and then dumps u for another. Don't even beg or call him, put him on the block like he never existed in your life. Try dating out your race, black men will lead u on only to be dumped abd abused.
Talk about it Fanny. I didn't lose a thing...I just got rid of the loser. I was the fool for awhile, but the joker played his hand one too many times. My heart is full of joy now that I that fool is out of my life. Time healed all those scars. He now realize what he lost and that he can never get it back. He had the nerve to ask me if we could give it another chance and my response was "There is no chance in hell that I would ever take you back." I did thank him for opening my eyes so that I could see that I was too good for him. All I have to say is I am smiling now. GOD IS GOOD!
That's how I feel but it's hard in the beginning to not go back but I always knew what was up but I thought things would change but no more boo boo the fools here
I wonder how much better off we would be if we put the same amount of energy into ourselves, (being healthy, wealthy, and happy), as we do in these relationships. Man ole man we would be the shit
And I love when the message is about anything but relationships. It's not the only thing you lose to win. Losing,quitting jobs, changing fields, getting sicknesses and overcoming it to value your life, getting evicted then becoming a home owner, getting fired and starting a business, repentance and giving your life to God. Changing friendship circles.etc and etc.
Everytime I’m in my feeling no matter if it’s relationships related or not I most def get a vibe .. blessed to have these songs to help and knowledge me thru this wicked place we call life ❤❤💯😤💪🏾😊
Reading comments and listening to this song at the same time is giving me so much strength to move on from a relationship that is just toxic. You all are motivators.
I remember my first time hearing this song. I was driving in my car and I burst into tears listening to my life's love story. Thank God I didn't crash...
loose to win is the definition of my life! when you behold something and you don't appreciate it , you shall loose it! however with strength and beauty this graceful warrior will win again!
This made me understand my wife’s feeling . This song made me break down . We almost separated w 3 kids . That was 3 years ago . We’re better than ever . When I see Fantasia I wanna thank her so much .
This made me cry. We living in some sad times. And people need to realize we don't have long on this earth, so whoever you're with, stick it out. Because it's even sadder when you're in this crazy world alone. Peace and blessings. May God continue to bless you and your wife.
So a song helped you understand someone else's feelings when if you as a person should have been more concerned with her emotional well-being before you even stepped your foot out the door to think about marriage .🤔
@@problems9739 I’m so glad that you fought for your wife and your marriage! This world tell men and women it’s ok to give up everyday!… if they aren’t happy or just feel like it anymore and the best one do what’s best for you movement 🤦🏽♀️ me and my husband are separated right now his choice and when I saw your comment I broke down because where most ppl see this song as saying it’s ok to walk away I see it as you did. Stay fight and sometimes you have to lose to win your marriage again! Blessing to you and your family❤
I love her so much..This was me..A man can really allow u 2 b scared 2 move on..U will NEVER know what a good man feels like until u had a bad one..God is soooo Good
Kimberly I like your statement"You will never know what a good man is until you had a bad one" Amen Amen and I'm still trying to adjust to the wonderful man that I have because he is just that...Wonderful!!!
This song opened my eyes and helped me to make a decision to leave someone toxic and no good for me. It motivated me to move on from him because I deserved way better and he was not worth it. Thank you Fantasia. I had to lose to win again.
So a song helped you realized that you had been abandoning your own emotional-well being and probably physical too for a person just a person just like you .🤔🤧
I love him but all he do is cheat on me hang out with his friends after 7 yrs 3 kids all I wan for him to watch his kids at night wild I’m at work be he wouldn’t do that I have beg him watch his kids.I’m tired
One of the most slept on songs by oe of the most slept on artists as far as album sales and chart rankings go. This should have been a #1 Hot 100 Single
This song speaks so deeply, it touches my soul because it is ME! When you love someone so hard you try and push pass anything because of love. But you know exactly what you should do and don't.
I totally understand the lyrics of this song... If a relationship is falling apart at it's seams but you're in so deep (you love too deep, too much; too strong,) that it requires more than yourself to do what you know is best, sometimes you just have to take courage within yourself, and dig deep and find that courage to lose and let go of what you truly want, know or have grown too familiar with (the two of you,), to give that person time to truly reflect on what he's really not been appreciating. It's a big risk and a gamble at times knowing you want to salvage things and/or that your heart is still very much in it. But sometimes it may just be exactly what is needed or required "to win" (-win in the sense of either to win it all back and things turn out as you originally desired; you guys being together and you are better appreciated, or to 'win' in the sense of having found your inner strength to realize your inner worth and walk away knowing fully within your self and with the positive and right self concept that you TRUELY DESERVE Better and ought to be treated better than that. So you wake up from the lie and illusion of the situation in the present relationship, to truth that you are worth it, can start a new beginning, and you don't have to accept the BS, and you are/become/ end-up stronger for it in the end.)
going through this right now :( Fighting for a relationship to work but thats not on his mind. I know there may be better out there, but starting over is so hard :'(sighh
Guuuuuuurrrllllllll tell me about it...my current situation with my husband.....im fighting and he's running....I'm trying win his heart and he is trying win the heart of another woman....that's y I'm on this channel for encouragement....like u say it's just soooo hard
I am a Mother, NOT a "baby mamma", I am Woman, NOT a peice of property. I am beautifull, because I KNOW what it means to be ugly, I am Strong, cause I KNOW what it mean to be weak, I have feelings, but there NOT for you to walk all over, I may get down and have my limit, but thats LIFE I live & learn. I'm human & that's all I can be. I am A Chantee Spurling , Nothing more & Nothing less, Love me as I am or watch me as I leave. 👌♥
You are a beautiful strong woman I’m old school but I watch Tayler talks yall are awesome keep going god bless your entire family New Orleans 👍Louisiana 🎶🎶🙏🙏
I remember listening to this song again and again after my ex got married behind my back apparently it was an arranged marriage. I did everything gave everything to this person there wasn't anything I wouldn't do. After I left I honestly thought I would never find anyone ever ever again I was emotionally traumatized but after some 2 years of healing and getting my shit together and working on myself a beautiful man from the inside and out truly showed me what true love really means and I can say I'm happily married now have been for 3 months..this song has truth sometimes we don't know in that moment why bad stuff or people in our lives are being so shitty always know you deserve love. never settle for less and that there is AlWAYS light at the end of that tunnel Always!!!
@@almightywallace thank you so much 😊 I hope your heart heals soon cry if you need to cry but don't keep crying being sad because my dear life is too short to be living life in sadness I hope you have family and friends who love you and support you I promise you will be okay and you will come out stronger and wiser you're special person is out there waiting for you
I'm thankful each one of my storm's, for they've made me a stronger woman. ""Losing doesn't always mean your a loser, sometimes there's a bigger prize awaiting you"" Let the river of life wash away the dirt of others and get back up and remember the lessons..
I use listen to this song every day on night. But was afraid of what people would say. It’s better to lose than to be sorry. At the end of the day your the one who will have to live with the pain and cover it up.
Losing to my addiction on June 11, 2018 made me win... Jehovah thank you father.... Feels good to be drug free
Amen
Thank GOD for freedom from all additions 🙌
That’s amazing!
Congratulations just continue to put God 1st
God bless you🙏🙏🙏
My son introduced this song to me he told me Mom you should listen to Fantasia Lose to Win after 11 years of trying to make it work with his father he and this song, gave me the strength to walk away
Girl, good for you! That means that your son is watching you and paying attention to what mama allows in her life. I tried to help my mother years ago and she paid me no mind and stayed. My stepfather, in the end, left her for a much, much younger woman/girl. Now she and I have a fractured relationship because I witnessed too much sad and depress days from her. I moved on. So dont make the same mistake with your son like my mama made with me. If he is old enough to understand you deserve better, you are old enough to understand that you do too. Kids are watching. An unhappy mother makes an unhappy son. Dont make him unhappy because of your love of no good man. You got a good man that loves you: your son!
This brought tears to my eyes. I walked away and never looked back. I had to set an example for my daughters. Your son was and is a blessing. You got this!
+isis1969 im in the process of walking away with a 1 year old daughter and another daughter on the way. Its hard. But God is my strength and his promises are stronger than the hurt I feel.
+Pinkbuttons ! (Adonijah&Amanda22) You stay strong. Whatever the reason is, you are making the best decision. We have to love our children and ourselves enough to make the change. I will keep you in my thoughts. We all get that wake up call and have to answer it.
I'm 13 and gave told my mom to listing to this as well cause she going through sum wit my step dad and it helped her
She sings the hell outta this song..hot damn 😍😍
Kiss my
Yessssss girl sing it
better than Beyonce
Classic song. Love you tasia❤
"When you've been broken, you feel like no one can fix it" I felt every part of that! It's so true.
She ain't never lied!! Sometimes giving up is winning!!
Ebony Painter That was deep.
Ebony Painter yep
That right
i know i won!
Ebony Painter that's right
THIS IS ME!!!! SHE HELPED ME MOVE ON FROM A 8 YEAR RELATIONSHIP
NOW I AM WINNING 💪💪💪 THANK YOU FANTASIA!!!!
London Spark u go girl
London Spark she helping me to 8 years for me to and its over
Go gurrl!
Stay strong
I'm so proud of you
You might have lost then but You winning Now, Thanks be to GOD
Listening to this song give me the strength to walk away from a relationship that was not worth fighting for and I feel so strong and happy right now thank you Fantasia❤❤❤🙌🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🥰
Me too
Its true bin there done that💔💔
I really wish I had your strength. Still contemplating...
queen of hearts not in the caedrs 4 me $
Martha Monyela Girl, there is always a rainbow after the rain. Close the door to Mr. Wrong, so that Mr. Right can come on in.
Sometimes what we consider a loss is actually a BLESSING IN DISGUISE!!! Just another way of God protecting us when we are blinded by love or what we think we want!!!
Sometimes those disappointments can be a blessing in disguise
💯💯💯💯
Definitely!!!
Best comment!!!!
@@humbleshana5136 for real💯
So true go through your healing in your own time and keep your head up... it’s go be okay 👌🏽
2024 and this song still hits to the soul. Love yourself first and always!
Losing a love you thought was the one after so many heartbreaks is the hardest thing.
Yessss...
Yes it is
😫💯
Tamara Cooks you hit the nail on the head
That’s like being abandoned as a young 🧒 kid
This song, this woman deserves so much more attention!
She can out sing so many.
She sure do. Play this song over and over.
Still my favourite even in 2019 😍😍
Who's with me??
me
Yes sis
Natasha Kapapa me
Me this my favorite song I playing this all night and day until it get good
Me
I just discovered this song today and it has been on repeat for HOURS! This truly hits when you’re actually going through it. Left a toxic relationship and now met someone that treats me so much better ♥️
Wow
Can't build with toxic people stay single
This song speaks volumes to me. Went through this in my marriage. But I found the strength to leave and it was so hard but I made it. I found myself in a relationship with someone who truly cares and I found true love. So the lyrics are so true to life. Anyone going through this don't give up on yourself and accept what's not right for you.
CheriCheri thanks this is what I needed I filed for divorce today I'm tired of him mistreating me
CheriCheri I sorry babe you all the best as the song said gotta lose to win
I'm going through the same thing.. listened to the song before doing my divorce papers!! And a calmness came over me!
My current situation I was so scared. I'm so happy to be free
I'm here praying for that day when I gather the strength to leave
You know i thought i was loosing when i walked away from a fifteen year relationship but it took almost three years to realize that I won and found the man of my dreams and expecting my first baby . You will always come out on the top .
HalleluYah!💯🔥
My honey purpose to me from 12years ,but he really didn’t mean it.He said you’ll never find another guy like me.Well Well! I found somebody better.
Praise God!!
@@ToYAHofZion144 ++q+
Wow 😳 I love your story
You can feel the pain and hurt in this song. The passion in her voice and the storyline in her lyrics are unmatched!!!!! LOVE THIS SONG!!!!
This song still hitting hard in 2023 and will forever hit hard ❤
for sure
Yeah
✊🏾✊🏾
Truth
Most definitely ❤
This is a girl that went through so much and came out on top so proud of her .💔💔💔💔
Love it
This song helped me regain my self worth during a toxic 3 year relationship and thank God because you saved my life. Thank you Fantasia
dealin wit it
@@lakishajohnson172 hopefully you are going to be out of the toxicity 🙏🏾
This woman is epic , talented, stunning and naturally beautiful beyond degree
After being in abusive relationship for 25 yrs I stayed single for 6 yrs and prayed to god now I’ve met my twin flame ❤
THIS SONG WILL NEVER GET OLD NO MATTER WHAT YEAR WE IN ❤️🤞🏾💯
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2022
Sometime in relationship you have to think with your head, not your heart, then you can see the picture better, when we think with our heart, we can't see the bigger picture...
so true
+Meme Rosario that is so true
+Renee Hestick yes
+Hannah Rollings SHOUT OUT TO ALL THE PEOPLE WHO KNEW SHE SAMPLED THE "commodores-nightshift".....
so true
Lord knows I needed to hear this song today. Just broke up with a person who I thought really loved and cared for me. It hurts when a relationship that you really want to work out...doesn't. I fought hard for my relationship, but it takes two people to make it work. I know it is going to hurt a while, but it's okay. But like Ms. Amazing Fantasia said, "sometimes you gotta lose to win."
Mira Kings stay bright the devil gives you perfection but god give you a tought lesson for the next
I heard this song for the first time live last night. She song her heart out in this song, touched me and my fiancé’s heart. She even started crying while singing it. Such a beautiful song, sung by a beautiful soul❤
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are yall still together?
love this song. i had to get to a place where my focus was loving me more than someone undeserving. letting go never felt so good.
Listening to this as I lay in bed in the sleeping arms of a new man that treats me right and reminiscing about hearing this song and crying when I first heard this song 2 years ago that woke me up to leave a guy who was using and disrespecting me. Thanks, Fantasia!
This song made me feel better when I wasn't happy with my ex. I moved on and have a new man that is treating me right. We shouldn't settle for less and deserve someone who will treat us better.
Janae Happy for you and so so true! Settling with someone is the worse!
Wow, that is me right now. Every word you said, I felt.
Thanks Tasia!!!
Great job girl this song is so moving. Anyone who has been through this will feel this to the core....
I've lost so much this year, but God is going to help me win again!!!❤
Yes he will
Yes ma'am.
indeed he wiil.
Amen
Be strong
This song gets me so emotional 😢... still listening in 2024.. alot of men hurt some really good women.... the part that hit me was when she said" some of you know what feels like , caught up just in his life font want to try again thinking what's the difference "😢😭
This lady is anointed.
When you're going through it you can feel this song in your gut.
Yessssss, but honey when I come out of that state of mind....MY GOD!!! I'm a force to be reckoned with. Coco flavored HOT ICE. Js
@@cocovernon8394 Yaassssss hunny...Blessings to you for sending motivation my way sis🤗
Yesssss
Ive been there done that...when your in that state of mind dont nothing seem to matter anymore...ive damned near lost my mind trying everything to make it work..things just got worse...but honey i went to My God and asked him to deliver me from all my pain and troubles and never look back...he answered my prayers...GOD IS GOOD YALL AMEN🙏🙏🙏🙏
Ukr😭😭
Most underrated video out there... her voice is full of power and angelic... take us to church my Queen (Quite Unique in Every Essence of Nature)
Currently losing but I know I’ll win again! Can I get an Amen?!
Amen
AMEN
Amen
Amen!!!❤
Amen
Ladies know your worth!! You are “Queens” expect nothing less than the moon
Ice Man thanks brother we appreciate
Thank you.
Thank you so much
Ice man on behalf of all the women thanks😘
Thank you bro.....❤
i have lost so many times when will it be my time to win??? sighz only God knows
he's got u covered
sometimes you gotta lose to win again....#SoTrue
Shanika McFarlane Faith sister
Shanika McFarlane..... everything will be good in GODS tym
I am praying and holding the faith
I would never put nobody before you again God
Amen🙏🏾
I Swear I Felt This In My Soul. Amen😔
👻
Amen
In The Name of Jesus, I felt them Words “I WOULD NEVER PUT NOBODY BEFORE YOU AGAIN GOD”🙌🏾🙌🏾😭🙌🏾🙌🏾
Believe it or not this song helped me get through a heartbreak. I’m winning in 2024❤❤❤
God is good my sister keep smiling and keep the faith
@@junniegilchrist8059 ❤️
Same here
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Definitely possible
2021 and this is still beautiful. Fantasia is definitely winning now. Blessings to her, hubby, and the new baby💜.
I’m looking forward to my own winning that’s coming. 😊
Claim it🙏🏾
😌Hi💜😎🌷🔥♥️♥️😍💖💖
2022 and it sounds so new and fresh. Cheers to the queen.
@@simonegordon6004 you deserve it more than anyone
Congratulations to you Fantasia.
Lord am tired of singing this song for comfort every time please may i get a win this time around
Amen
You will
zvichaita
Rutendo Mujuru I had to take a X-Ray of myself on the inside first. Had to ask God to clean me up and I was fed up with Toxic So call friends and my life style which did not include my heavenly father. That was years ago. I Repented and started gaining True Knowledge to who I am and my role as a woman / Holy Woman. My life changed and I have been married to a holy man who taught me so much regarding the Holy Bible Kjv and more. We dated for 2yrs and married 13yrs. I had a lot of mess in my life that had to be DUMPED. YAH ( God) sent me my husband and it was a long hard struggle thru first 3-4 yrs but we did it 😀🙌. I guess you can say " That's The Way Nature Planned It". I am 10yrs older than he is and we love each other very much. Much Respect for my husband 💪👍✊. Your time will come. Just work on yourself inside and out. Inside first 💯. Men require and demand RESPECT FIRST / LOVE. Something I had to learn.
Keep your head up baby. Remember that GOD makes no mistakes! Whatever it is that you are going through is just a test of your faith. Hold on tight when prayers go up blessings rain down. Your season is on the way or may be right in front of you. Be still and let him work.
She wrote this for me. Im crying listening to it. I'm at the end of my rope. That's it for me. I've never felt more ugly, unappreciated, unappealing, and unloved in my entire life. I'm going to lose, and hope I win again...
You will win again.
You a strong black woman and you very strong and it a reason why you are going through what ever it is because God have better plan for your life put him first and seek him and watch what happens. God Bless u!!!
You will get more than you lost.
We need an update
You've already won.
😔 man dis songs is so powerful ❤
fucken one of the dopest tracks of her_this women is real, i love her!!!
real talk
felicity ntanjana that right
Black queen priceless 💎💎💎💎💎
I really like the song
YES. YES. YES. 🙌👑🙌
"Maybe it a take someone else, to show me better. But I don't wanna leave you". 😥🤧😩😭😢🤞 Felt that part in my soul. And that entire last verse. 🤧🤧🤧😢
And as she sang that verse, I was readying this comment..on God.double shocking to my gut!!
After all these years,this song still hits differently 😢
I cry every night over this boy I'm tired of fighting for this relationship😢
Then stop. Its not worth losing yourself.
So where are u now?
Queen i had one to break my heart well shattered me so bad till all i did was dranked myself till the point of no return ...i was finish so o thought but lo and behold God stepped in and changed all tht and that happened to me the year of 2016 i were healed...God put all the pieces of my shattered heart back together...the end of 2016 November the man that did'nt realized that he had a good women came back begging now most well a lot of women know we fall weak but i fell weak to a point...my wall was built thicker than Donald Trump wall😂 but i still talked to him to all alone not wanting to go down that road with him again....i FORGAVE HIM AND NOW TO THIS DAY HE IS MARRIED TO SOMEONE HE IS UNHAPPY WITH BEGGING ME TO COME BACK HOME UMMMM NOPE I TOLD HIM YOU SHOULD HAVE KELPT ME WHEN YOU HAD ME...SORRY NOT SORRY😁😜
Then stop. Aftee 4 years I did Thursday I'm scared but I know it's a blessing
@@krystingrant6292 it's ok to be scared that can be a good sign you will stick by your decision. If you were numb it might be easy to go back to the situation. Js
This song help me broke up with with my boyfriend after 7 years cause I know I could do better and I did 😍😍😍
Proud of you sis
I need that courage 😥🤷🤦
Don’t u want to be with him no matter what
❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽
@@sgl2k175 don't you ever think back you made a choice a decision dont you for that
Fantasia needs to do a live album. A live album is long overdue. Fantasia is one of the best live performers of this generation. She commands the stage. She sings with so much passion and soul.
I agree. ... to hear her vocals to a live band! No studio mixes!YEEAAASSS HONEY!
She does them I went one to one of her concerts and she did this whole album and some of her songs off the second to last album
Kayla Johnson
Fantasia have never done a live album or a concert DVD
+Joshua McDowell yea she did
Kayla Johnson
A regular concert and a live album is the not the same thing
This is motivational baby! No matter what you going through..love, grief, loss of a job, financial hardships or health issues. You are going to be ok and going through a trial but you will Win! You gotta lose to win again. I had forgot about this song but found it today. ❤️
This song is still hitting me deep in 2020. Know your self worth ladies! Don't be afraid to walk away and leave all the negative behind😢.
Learned this lesson many years ago...not again
@@MZLIBRA1969 Hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Love it
Thank you it's hard
Yes Jesus help me Over this hill
Had to give him up 11 years ago after all the beatings and mind games. Left with my pregnancy but today i am healed, have 2 degrees, have a fantastic job and most of all a beautiful son. Sometimes letting go is the best
CONGRADS!!!!
SMOOCHIES....
U SAID THAT PERFECTLY...
ONCE AGAIN....
CONGRADS....
SMOOCHIES....
I'm so proud of you sistar you are amazing and so strong ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
2022 Fantasia, this song is the only thing that speaks to my heart during these trying times. Thank You, from the bottom of my heart!!!!
I’m here after I’m ending my 9 year relationship .. been on repeat always loved this song but now I’m using this song to move on and heal ! Thank you ❤
Right I went through it for 7yrs once after I was tired of feeling like a recording or basically used when he came home an didn’t see me in the house with he’s house key on the table he knew it was over
@@kendralatta4530 what did u do to move on .. were you checked out before you left ?
The same here, keep yourself busy and build yourself up. Make your dreams and yourself #1. Never chase no penis, remember they need us more than we need them. Learn how to be by yourself especially in this time of ascension aka Aquarius age, don't let men makes u vibrate low and I have to realize that man is the devil in a physical form against woman. Eboni k Williams made a comment that men will sleep with you and hate u in one breathe and it's the truth. Carry on with your life. A man who is vibrating high won't use or break up with a woman he's knows she's the one, or use her. Many men out here are plane devils who live off women energy after they have conquered our feelings. I have learned this the hardest way. Ain't no real love since that so called love is spelled backwands as evol, live/evil, so clearly they are feeding off our energy when they use us and then dumps u for another. Don't even beg or call him, put him on the block like he never existed in your life. Try dating out your race, black men will lead u on only to be dumped abd abused.
Talk about it Fanny. I didn't lose a thing...I just got rid of the loser. I was the fool for awhile, but the joker played his hand one too many times. My heart is full of joy now that I that fool is out of my life. Time healed all those scars. He now realize what he lost and that he can never get it back. He had the nerve to ask me if we could give it another chance and my response was "There is no chance in hell that I would ever take you back." I did thank him for opening my eyes so that I could see that I was too good for him. All I have to say is I am smiling now. GOD IS GOOD!
God is great! Good for you my dear
That's how I feel but it's hard in the beginning to not go back but I always knew what was up but I thought things would change but no more boo boo the fools here
Marie Bai
I love ❤ this sonnng 🎅 loose to win 🏆 fall down 👇 but get on up 👆
Yes!! I just cut a loser off too! I'm so tired of and I'm so much better than mind games!
I wonder how much better off we would be if we put the same amount of energy into ourselves, (being healthy, wealthy, and happy), as we do in these relationships. Man ole man we would be the shit
This statement is so thought provoking.. thanks..I needed to read this 🤔🙄😌
So true
BAM💥
Words
And I love when the message is about anything but relationships. It's not the only thing you lose to win. Losing,quitting jobs, changing fields, getting sicknesses and overcoming it to value your life, getting evicted then becoming a home owner, getting fired and starting a business, repentance and giving your life to God. Changing friendship circles.etc and etc.
9 years later and this song still speaks to my soul!! 💔
Yesss
For real a positive and powerful song
Same.
This song 😢I lose to win
Everytime I’m in my feeling no matter if it’s relationships related or not I most def get a vibe .. blessed to have these songs to help and knowledge me thru this wicked place we call life ❤❤💯😤💪🏾😊
Factsss
Reading comments and listening to this song at the same time is giving me so much strength to move on from a relationship that is just toxic. You all are motivators.
Hope you followed through, honey. Nobody is worth your peace.
So true move on to a better life that worth it.
I do hope you too you walked away and happy with someone else or with yourself..self-love most Important
Do it better now that later🙏🏽
Am with you in that
2019 I'm Still Enjoying this Song.I 💘 this Song.a Beautiful Masterpiece.
I remember my first time hearing this song. I was driving in my car and I burst into tears listening to my life's love story. Thank God I didn't crash...
loose to win is the definition of my life! when you behold something and you don't appreciate it , you shall loose it! however with strength and beauty this graceful warrior will win again!
Sometimes you gotta lose to win 💜💜
This made me understand my wife’s feeling . This song made me break down . We almost separated w 3 kids . That was 3 years ago . We’re better than ever . When I see Fantasia I wanna thank her so much .
This made me cry. We living in some sad times. And people need to realize we don't have long on this earth, so whoever you're with, stick it out. Because it's even sadder when you're in this crazy world alone. Peace and blessings. May God continue to bless you and your wife.
So a song helped you understand someone else's feelings when if you as a person should have been more concerned with her emotional well-being before you even stepped your foot out the door to think about marriage .🤔
My husband (i'm on his phone) just stormed out
@@phoneiciatolmaire995 I’m still happily married ( 21 years ) Sooooo what were you saying ?? Bet your not married . Get off RUclips and go find love .
@@problems9739 I’m so glad that you fought for your wife and your marriage! This world tell men and women it’s ok to give up everyday!… if they aren’t happy or just feel like it anymore and the best one do what’s best for you movement 🤦🏽♀️ me and my husband are separated right now his choice and when I saw your comment I broke down because where most ppl see this song as saying it’s ok to walk away I see it as you did. Stay fight and sometimes you have to lose to win your marriage again! Blessing to you and your family❤
Who's still here in 2024❤
Meeeee🎉🎉
I’m still presence
meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Meeeeee
MEEEEEE
I love her so much..This was me..A man can really allow u 2 b scared 2 move on..U will NEVER know what a good man feels like until u had a bad one..God is soooo Good
Kimberly Harris-Elbourne so very true!!
Kimberly Harris-Elbourne amen
Kimberly Harris-Elbourne Amen sista!!
Kimberly I like your statement"You will never know what a good man is until you had a bad one" Amen Amen and I'm still trying to adjust to the wonderful man that I have because he is just that...Wonderful!!!
So true
This song opened my eyes and helped me to make a decision to leave someone toxic and no good for me. It motivated me to move on from him because I deserved way better and he was not worth it. Thank you Fantasia. I had to lose to win again.
So a song helped you realized that you had been abandoning your own emotional-well being and probably physical too for a person just a person just like you .🤔🤧
@@phoneiciatolmaire995 Learn to mind your business . Why are you replying and judging people ?
@@phoneiciatolmaire995 so this comment section made you realize how miserable you are in life and how talking shi makes you feel better? 😅🤬🙄
You comes first
Fighting to keep a UNHEALTHY VERY UNHEALTHY relationship😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣. This song HELPS ME TO MOVE ON!!!!
You have to
Amen☝️☝️❤❤❤
Neeeded this
Your right
I have been though a lot I just stayed to my self and went on with my life
The "Nightshift" sample is giving!! Huge Commodoer's fan. Love finding gems like this
😂 I was waiting for " Nightshift " Can't beat the music of the 80's!
this song really makes me cry cause it hits home its like she got in my head !
yes yes yes same here
This song is so true
This song hits different when you have to let go of someone you truly love
I love him but all he do is cheat on me hang out with his friends after 7 yrs 3 kids all I wan for him to watch his kids at night wild I’m at work be he wouldn’t do that I have beg him watch his kids.I’m tired
Sometimes we all got to lose to win again! We women are queens and we are strong and some men cannot handle that
Oily
Amen 🙏🏾
Seriously 🥺🥺💯💔
When you've been broken you feel like No one can fix it!!! 😞💔😢
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Big FACTS but, after listening to this I did!!
Nah the right one can always fix it
Who’s here in September 2024?
October 2024
November 2024
*Cause when you’ve been broken you feel like no one can fix it.*
That's me
My mood now 💔
It's a Doll's world! I no
AMEN!
TRUEEEE
Thank You God for being there and when i feel like i lost ,You are making it work together for my good.
One of the most slept on songs by oe of the most slept on artists as far as album sales and chart rankings go. This should have been a #1 Hot 100 Single
This song speaks so deeply, it touches my soul because it is ME! When you love someone so hard you try and push pass anything because of love. But you know exactly what you should do and don't.
I totally understand the lyrics of this song... If a relationship is falling apart at it's seams but you're in so deep (you love too deep, too much; too strong,) that it requires more than yourself to do what you know is best, sometimes you just have to take courage within yourself, and dig deep and find that courage to lose and let go of what you truly want, know or have grown too familiar with (the two of you,), to give that person time to truly reflect on what he's really not been appreciating. It's a big risk and a gamble at times knowing you want to salvage things and/or that your heart is still very much in it. But sometimes it may just be exactly what is needed or required "to win" (-win in the sense of either to win it all back and things turn out as you originally desired; you guys being together and you are better appreciated, or to 'win' in the sense of having found your inner strength to realize your inner worth and walk away knowing fully within your self and with the positive and right self concept that you TRUELY DESERVE Better and ought to be treated better than that. So you wake up from the lie and illusion of the situation in the present relationship, to truth that you are worth it, can start a new beginning, and you don't have to accept the BS, and you are/become/ end-up stronger for it in the end.)
Wow this is so real.. You said a lot..
Yes, so true
I totally honestly love this track; it's raw truth and it gets you at the core (-speaking for myself included)...
❤
If it makes you cry, cry, cry......whew chile!!!!🖤🙏🏾 Felt that in my soul!
What You @DustFreeQueen Ik The Fuckin Feeling Currently
Ikrrr
going through this right now :( Fighting for a relationship to work but thats not on his mind. I know there may be better out there, but starting over is so hard :'(sighh
me too....I'm leaving tomorrow...starting over after 4 years!
I feel you same here.... 😐
Kade Hunte same here
Same 😒
Guuuuuuurrrllllllll tell me about it...my current situation with my husband.....im fighting and he's running....I'm trying win his heart and he is trying win the heart of another woman....that's y I'm on this channel for encouragement....like u say it's just soooo hard
What a powerful message.
It doesn’t matter how old this sound is, once u get your heartbroken and u listen it, it’s like she’s speaking to you😩some word of advice👌
Shepherd's Chapel Network !!!!!!! Pastor Murray is an Anointed Servant of GOD who teaches the Word of GOD with Authority!!!!!!!
True
First time I felt a man and felt for lies and lust from him I final getting over him. If only I can face the truth that I still love him.
Very true in 2022
i really love this song who still listening to this ☝☝☝☝☝🙋🙌🙆
Sheniza Phillips meh
Sheniza Phillips I do
That really real
Me and u😍
Sheniza Phillips me it is a really nicr song
I am a Mother, NOT a "baby mamma", I am Woman, NOT a peice of property. I am beautifull, because I KNOW what it means to be ugly, I am Strong, cause I KNOW what it mean to be weak, I have feelings, but there NOT for you to walk all over, I may get down and have my limit, but thats LIFE I live & learn. I'm human & that's all I can be. I am A Chantee Spurling , Nothing more & Nothing less, Love me as I am or watch me as I leave. 👌♥
love this
beautifully said
I understand
💘 it well put
MUCH RESPECT. MANY OF OUR YOUNG WOMEN KNO NOT THE DEGREE OF YOUR UNDERSTANDING.
I just never thought I leave but I was forced to being neglected so long i was breaking my own heart
Well said
Same. It's time for better you deserve it.
Shout out to everyone that felt unfixable. It didn't break you it just bent you. Keep winning on purpose!!!!
Well said Ms. Jones. Blessings to you🙏🙌🙏
If I can't say a word I'm just gone wave my 🖐.
@@straighttalk4988 Blessings to you as well 💜
@@DJRenee Alright now!!! Amen
Thanks alot jones well wishes on ur end too🤗
Still listening to this song in 2016 but I still love it
but.
Makyah Hairston 2017 im still listening
Makyah Hairston listening in 2017
You are a beautiful strong woman I’m old school but I watch Tayler talks yall are awesome keep going god bless your entire family New Orleans 👍Louisiana 🎶🎶🙏🙏
This song is so beautiful. This whole is perfection . 😌
Album**
awesome song my first time seeing video.
Melissa
Facts 😞😞😞💯.
Manny Swinney 22
8 years later and this song still means so much to me. Thank you Fantasia
This song helped me thru a lot. I literally am at my best now. Thank God!
I don’t care what anyone says, this song is a GOSPEL song, nothing but a WORD..
🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
YES IT IS🙏🏾🙏🏾
She used that “Night Shift” sample in the RIGHT way! Love Fantasia so much ♥️
Yep for sure
Exactly..lol..on tha nightshift
True....👌
Was awesome though, she appreciates the classics ❤
I WENT THROUGH IT, LADIES KEEP YOUR FAITH IN GOD HE WILL SEE YOU THROUGH!!!
Lisa Brockenberry amen
Lisa Brockenberry And Men!
I remember listening to this song again and again after my ex got married behind my back apparently it was an arranged marriage. I did everything gave everything to this person there wasn't anything I wouldn't do. After I left I honestly thought I would never find anyone ever ever again I was emotionally traumatized but after some 2 years of healing and getting my shit together and working on myself a beautiful man from the inside and out truly showed me what true love really means and I can say I'm happily married now have been for 3 months..this song has truth sometimes we don't know in that moment why bad stuff or people in our lives are being so shitty always know you deserve love. never settle for less and that there is AlWAYS light at the end of that tunnel Always!!!
Sorry hope yu find love again
@@almightywallace I have I'm a happily married woman my our one year anniversary is coming up soon
That wonderful new I wish yu the best yur story touch me I know what yur going through
@@almightywallace thank you so much 😊 I hope your heart heals soon cry if you need to cry but don't keep crying being sad because my dear life is too short to be living life in sadness I hope you have family and friends who love you and support you I promise you will be okay and you will come out stronger and wiser you're special person is out there waiting for you
Thank yu
Went chu hell with my child father ... now I'm 10 times more happier with someone else i prayed for ❤❤❤❤I'm inlove ♥️
J Cole love yours ❤❤❤
I'm thankful each one of my storm's, for they've made me a stronger woman. ""Losing doesn't always mean your a loser, sometimes there's a bigger prize awaiting you"" Let the river of life wash away the dirt of others and get back up and remember the lessons..
I use listen to this song every day on night. But was afraid of what people would say. It’s better to lose than to be sorry. At the end of the day your the one who will have to live with the pain and cover it up.