Never hesitate to dump a partner who betrays you. This story is another demonstration of why you shouldn't bother confronting a girl after she lies to you. Just dump her immediately, walk away and never look back, no confrontations arguments or seeking the truth or confessions. Just dump her immediately, walk away and never look back
🎯🎯 110% agreed........she isn't fully transparent in a serious relationship. No need for confrontations. Just disappear. This is why I say NO COHABITATION/NO MARRIAGE/NO PROCREATION........makes it much easier to make a rapid clean break.
That's why men shouldn't date until they've reached outcome independance. If he knew he had many other prospects interested in him, he wouldn't have stayed in a miserable two years relationship, he wouldn't have tolerated lacks of respects, he would have had the strength to have a spine and boundaries, and who knows, she probably would have behaved better in the first place anyway.
His one mistake? Two years and he said she treated him poorly the entire time, dating her was the true mistake, he stayed with her despite that just not to be alone, lacking a spine was the original sin.
OP was the only one 'taking it slow'. She was juggling multiple men and using her 'neurodivergence' as an excuse for the long periods of no contact. I doubt there's even a conference. More like a semi-annual girl's trip to stay wasted and get laid for 2 weeks away from anyone who might recognize them. OP has been the only one in the relationship the entire time. And he wasted more time by confronting her. He should have just ghosted her and chalked the whole thing up as a lesson learned. There's NO WAY he'll ever get the truth from her.
I wouldn't say 'weak' as much as inexperienced or uninformed. OP (and ALL men) need a father / older brother / friend to pull them aside and teach them how to deal with women. NOT how to be a masogynist a-hole, but how to respect himself and set boundaries for BOTH he and his partner. Most of all, how to recognize and walk away from women like this.
@@Direwolf216 I agree but if he's inexperience or lack of guidance makes him weak . He needs to learn self worth and also how to treat and be in a relationship with a good woman.
Reading the teaser in the thumbnail, I would simply tell my GF, once she said that, she moved herself from the Relationship Folder into the "For Recreational Purposes Only" folder.
1. They were never together. He only thought they were. 2. Anyone who uses things like "neuro divergence" as an excuse is a walking, talking, cheating red flag waiting to happen. Dude needs to grow up and take some accountability for allowing a pos to walk on him for so long.
If this is how she treats someone who she supposedly loves, she will find herself bouncing from relationship to relationship.
OP did the right thing by breaking up with her. She didn’t seem serious about OP and was treating him like a placeholder!
I was thinking the same thing.
Never hesitate to dump a partner who betrays you. This story is another demonstration of why you shouldn't bother confronting a girl after she lies to you. Just dump her immediately, walk away and never look back, no confrontations arguments or seeking the truth or confessions. Just dump her immediately, walk away and never look back
🎯🎯 110% agreed........she isn't fully transparent in a serious relationship. No need for confrontations. Just disappear. This is why I say NO COHABITATION/NO MARRIAGE/NO PROCREATION........makes it much easier to make a rapid clean break.
That's why men shouldn't date until they've reached outcome independance. If he knew he had many other prospects interested in him, he wouldn't have stayed in a miserable two years relationship, he wouldn't have tolerated lacks of respects, he would have had the strength to have a spine and boundaries, and who knows, she probably would have behaved better in the first place anyway.
She doesn't love you, OP. You were a "placeholder." Work on yourself and prove she screwed up by treating you poorly.
When youre in a relationship, your business is now youre bf/gf business. Its up to them if it matters or not
He should have never cried in front of her. A big mistake.
His one mistake? Two years and he said she treated him poorly the entire time, dating her was the true mistake, he stayed with her despite that just not to be alone, lacking a spine was the original sin.
If you're scared to cry in front of your woman then you're a p---- and bad at picking the right woman.
Why not ? He was breaking up with her, so who cares if she lost respect seeing him cry ?
OP was the only one 'taking it slow'. She was juggling multiple men and using her 'neurodivergence' as an excuse for the long periods of no contact.
I doubt there's even a conference. More like a semi-annual girl's trip to stay wasted and get laid for 2 weeks away from anyone who might recognize them.
OP has been the only one in the relationship the entire time. And he wasted more time by confronting her.
He should have just ghosted her and chalked the whole thing up as a lesson learned. There's NO WAY he'll ever get the truth from her.
Dude just sounds weak . Too scared to confront her . Shes bad at texting . None of your business . Probably his first girlfriend.
Sure she definitely isn't manipulating
Exactly my thought. It is clear that she doesn't respect him
I wouldn't say 'weak' as much as inexperienced or uninformed.
OP (and ALL men) need a father / older brother / friend to pull them aside and teach them how to deal with women.
NOT how to be a masogynist a-hole, but how to respect himself and set boundaries for BOTH he and his partner.
Most of all, how to recognize and walk away from women like this.
@@Direwolf216 I agree but if he's inexperience or lack of guidance makes him weak . He needs to learn self worth and also how to treat and be in a relationship with a good woman.
Let's be honest that he is a weak man
She ghosted you now you should ghost her right back. Move on move on and there is no looking back.
Reading the teaser in the thumbnail, I would simply tell my GF, once she said that, she moved herself from the Relationship Folder into the "For Recreational Purposes Only" folder.
People treat you the way you let them. You teach them how little respect you deserve by letting them stay in your life.
Brook no transgressions!
😂 Talk to your father. Why take her out, or confront her without witnesses?
I bet this weak man went back
Cried and gained weight. No wonder she didn’t respect him.
1. They were never together. He only thought they were.
2. Anyone who uses things like "neuro divergence" as an excuse is a walking, talking, cheating red flag waiting to happen.
Dude needs to grow up and take some accountability for allowing a pos to walk on him for so long.