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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024

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  • @mochafit42
    @mochafit42 3 года назад +945

    She knew that her son was failing, that's a lie.

    • @elainevankat5353
      @elainevankat5353 3 года назад +37

      Thank you!!! Absolutely she knew...

    • @granitemoss1451
      @granitemoss1451 3 года назад +61

      I think you;'re right. She knew, she just didn't know the school would ban him from prom for it!

    • @NeishaNee13
      @NeishaNee13 3 года назад +40

      Exactly! Like he was getting A’s & B’s and all of a sudden at the end failed.

    • @sheenasaffold5422
      @sheenasaffold5422 3 года назад +5

      Agreed!

    • @ellarose1974
      @ellarose1974 3 года назад +24

      A DAMN lie. And how you going to try and get it overturned? How is she fighting to get him to go when he isn't passing the major subjects. Wow! I am a teacher and the parents know way before that their child is failing.

  • @blinkxx3240
    @blinkxx3240 3 года назад +1184

    Now she know damn well she should be more aware of her son’s academic status smh. Eat that 200 and make his ass work it off after he gets out of Summer school.

    • @elainevankat5353
      @elainevankat5353 3 года назад +29

      Absolutely agree! Well said.

    • @manthony777
      @manthony777 3 года назад +8

      Daryl, lololololol

    • @embbermoon3381
      @embbermoon3381 3 года назад +12

      Preach!!

    • @Misty8097
      @Misty8097 3 года назад +35

      Unless he was borderline failing the entire time, I find it difficult to understand how one test would cause him to fail two subjects. Maybe she held out in the hope that he would still be allowed to attend.
      However if it went down how she said that the school called the day of...that's pretty messed up.

    • @virgo7956
      @virgo7956 3 года назад +2

      🗣🗣🗣🗣

  • @MatthewSmith-lr8bm
    @MatthewSmith-lr8bm 3 года назад +504

    $200 should be the least of her worries.

  • @sonidelray
    @sonidelray 3 года назад +346

    Judge did the most she know the lady called her mam out of respect not to be rude

    • @gan-ban6083
      @gan-ban6083 3 года назад +38

      I know, what a jerk

    • @virg0_lem0nade
      @virg0_lem0nade 3 года назад +16

      nah i think she was being rude on purpose and that's why the judge picked up on that. she was trying to cut her off and "correct" the judge and Milian was already irritated with this dumb case in the first place lol

    • @mrshappilymarried1
      @mrshappilymarried1 3 года назад +40

      Exactly,,she does too much. I watch the show but would never ever go to her court...

    • @baharrisonful
      @baharrisonful 3 года назад +34

      Right I’ve heard ppl call her miss and she answered gtfoh

    • @lionelluva
      @lionelluva 3 года назад +39

      I agree. It wasn’t that deep for the judge to say all of that.

  • @os4305
    @os4305 3 года назад +407

    For most middle and high schools, anyone failing two or more subjects aren’t allowed to attend prom unless the student brings their grade(s) up in time. This isn’t brought up last minute, it’s told to the student a series of times before the prom; why his mother didn’t know about his grades is unknown. However, it is not the defendant’s fault, this is a frivolous lawsuit.

    • @sebastianabsolution655
      @sebastianabsolution655 3 года назад

      milian really doin borin, stale cases as of late. she must really have a i need attention syndrome. this case is soooooooooo uggggghhhh.🙄🙄

    • @tropiclush89
      @tropiclush89 3 года назад +18

      @@sebastianabsolution655 it's small claims court...

    • @sebastianabsolution655
      @sebastianabsolution655 3 года назад +1

      @@tropiclush89 indubitably, but still.

    • @lescobar195
      @lescobar195 3 года назад +14

      The son must not have told his mom, and maybe even hid any notices about his bad grades.

    • @thegentlemansmith5411
      @thegentlemansmith5411 3 года назад +4

      @@lescobar195 I remember that lamo, only time I'd check the mail growing up is around report card time 😆😆😆

  • @alicia10h
    @alicia10h 3 года назад +435

    I'm trying to understand why she would be more involved in planning a middle school prom date than knowing whether or not her son is passing his classes...Priorities are ALL Wrong!!!!

    • @Ladysugarshaft
      @Ladysugarshaft 2 года назад +35

      And she sounded like she was getting ready for the prom too! 😩😂 I think she mentioned getting herself ready so she could take pics. lol How she excited about her son’s prom, but not his grades?!? Smdh

    • @alicia10h
      @alicia10h 2 года назад +3

      @@Ladysugarshaft 😂🤣🤣Right🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @elvickRULES
      @elvickRULES 2 года назад +5

      She’s built different 🤷‍♂️

    • @larhondaodomph.d.4614
      @larhondaodomph.d.4614 2 года назад +2

      She's trying to be involved in her son's school. She was probably getting more involved because she knew her son was not doing well. She's probably involved in much more.

    • @larhondaodomph.d.4614
      @larhondaodomph.d.4614 2 года назад

      See it was a last minute test!

  • @Tifjef069
    @Tifjef069 3 года назад +256

    I wisssshhhhhh the defendant was able to bring his teacher as a surprise witness....like SURPRISEEEE SHAWTY I called and sent home notice that your son was failing way before prom 😒😂😂😂

    • @shakeiabollar5904
      @shakeiabollar5904 3 года назад +25

      I called the principal and she knew the son was doing poorly numerous meetings I wanted to keep it classy and not further embarrass her on national television

    • @CarlaWalters
      @CarlaWalters 3 года назад +8

      🤣 Nice idea but teachers can't expose confidential info about students, then that teacher will get sued. (I'm a teacher.)

    • @SweetCammieEyes1
      @SweetCammieEyes1 2 года назад +2

      @@shakeiabollar5904 I wish to attain your level of poise. Much respect Queen for not further embarrassing her on national tv. She was wrong for even bringing this to tv

    • @mindymiljour4672
      @mindymiljour4672 2 года назад

      Top comment for a reason. There's no way no one knew before the day of prom.

    • @mindymiljour4672
      @mindymiljour4672 2 года назад +1

      @@SweetCammieEyes1 are you kidding me? You are the ultimate troll victim. For your own protection, get better at determining when something doesn't make sense. Don't get me wrong, the actual litigants do search their videos and comment on them often but if you actually think the school would share anything with a non parent you are extremely naive. And I say that fully believing that mother knew beforehand.

  • @DeeluxyLife
    @DeeluxyLife 3 года назад +770

    I don't think she was trying to be rude when she said " ma'am " to the Judge. She seems very sweet! Wish her well 💕

    • @johnathanpatrick6118
      @johnathanpatrick6118 3 года назад +42

      Some judges don't like to be called sir or ma'am, to them it's a sign of disrespect. Even more so in the cases of miss and mister -- many if not most or even all judges despise litigants addressing judges by those titles.

    • @DeeluxyLife
      @DeeluxyLife 3 года назад +9

      @@johnathanpatrick6118 I understand

    • @chrislblevins
      @chrislblevins 3 года назад +162

      I was thinking the same thing. I can understand a simple correct, but she was very rude when addressing her. Ma'am is normally a sign of respect and highly regarded. I'm sure she didn't know.

    • @DeeluxyLife
      @DeeluxyLife 3 года назад +59

      @@chrislblevins I totally agree with you. It's a form of respect. She wasn't being rude.

    • @likeliterally7077
      @likeliterally7077 3 года назад +57

      @@johnathanpatrick6118 judge judy doesn't mind being called ma'am

  • @AdrianaHernandez-rg9mc
    @AdrianaHernandez-rg9mc 3 года назад +724

    What kind of Mother does NOT know her children's school grades?? Don't buy it!!! She knew!!

    • @JamieM470
      @JamieM470 3 года назад +17

      "They didn't give me no heads up. If they would've, I woulda never put no money towards the limousine..."
      It's difficult to do well in school when you don't learn proper grammar at home. I want my children to do better in life than I did. I think most people want that.
      It's sad that he's already failing in school. It's harder for him than for a lot of people. I hope he works harder to do better.

    • @mariyaa111
      @mariyaa111 3 года назад +7

      EXACTLY what I just commented!!

    • @leetakamiya
      @leetakamiya 3 года назад +3

      I believe they’re called litigants.

    • @kenyettaready
      @kenyettaready 3 года назад +4

      You asking what kind of mother? A woman like my aunt. That's who. That heffa didn't know and still doesn't know a thing about her own children. Does she care? Heck no.

    • @alexiswalton8953
      @alexiswalton8953 3 года назад +6

      They give a heads up all year round and she knew that is sad she put her son through that🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @DeeluxyLife
    @DeeluxyLife 3 года назад +265

    I'm sure she knew her son's grades wasn't up to par. One test isn't going to drop you down an F ....... She's salty with everyone but her son

    • @bloodlustfulincubus440
      @bloodlustfulincubus440 3 года назад +14

      It depends on where his grades were at and how many points the test was. I had more than a few tests in high school where, if you failed that single one, it would be devastating for your grade.

    • @kevinwilliams3668
      @kevinwilliams3668 3 года назад +10

      Nope as a former teacher it depends on how the test is weighted. For instance homework could be 25%, in-class participation is 25%, and the test could be 50%, so if you fail or get a low grade on the test then you can fail the class or be in danger of failing the class. So yeah if a kid is in class and does the homework but the test isn't until a week before prom and the kid bombs on the test then guess when the Mother finds out, right before the prom. It sucks because it is so late in the semester. This happens but most teachers (from what I remember) try to avoid this very scenario because of situations like this one.

    • @Ty.S93
      @Ty.S93 3 года назад +5

      One test can if you’re barely passing.

    • @quirkya909
      @quirkya909 3 года назад +2

      One test most certainly can drop your grade waaaay down. In one of my high school classes, our last test of each quarter was worth 70% of our overall grade….(we did not have homework in that class, so we didn’t get homework grades)! The test took 2 days to complete, it was a 50 page packet. My in class work, I got straight As, the first test of the year, dropped my grade down to a D+…needless to say, I worked my ass off the rest of the year to get my grade back up to a A+!

  • @khiadaniels8451
    @khiadaniels8451 3 года назад +206

    ALLLLLLLLL schools regardless of grade level give progress reports and/or communication via email or phone. Teachers will definitely have a paper trail.💁‍♀️💁🏾‍♀️🤫

    • @kimberlyhampton5332
      @kimberlyhampton5332 3 года назад +15

      Yep! This is 2021....they have all kinds of electronic notice for grades....she tried it though.

    • @embbermoon3381
      @embbermoon3381 3 года назад +7

      Yes ma'am, here we get progress reports and the report cards are not too far behind, I just don't see how she didn't know.

    • @jocelyne2634
      @jocelyne2634 3 года назад +1

      Yup!

  • @The.Wellerman
    @The.Wellerman 3 года назад +815

    Worried about prom when you need to be worried about your son failing school. SMH

    • @os4305
      @os4305 3 года назад +24

      My thoughts exactly. Additionally, with school protocol, MOST schools alert the students whether they are eligible to attend prom or not; anybody failing two or more grades is NOT eligible, the school doesn’t wait until last minute.

    • @mine4532
      @mine4532 3 года назад +18

      Misplaced priorities

    • @The.Wellerman
      @The.Wellerman 3 года назад +20

      @@os4305 Exactly, she knew her kid was failing school but didn't think there would be consequences for it.

    • @looknbakatu
      @looknbakatu 3 года назад +6

      @@mine4532, You are ON POINT!!! LOVED! Your comment!

    • @dark8prince201
      @dark8prince201 3 года назад +18

      I worked in the school district before some parents do have this mentality. Thousands of dollars for prom but don't have money to pay for summer school(350.00)a semester

  • @Designergirl961
    @Designergirl961 3 года назад +718

    I was a teacher and we are in constant contact with parents about their kid’s grades. She knew he was failing and chose to ignore it

    • @alifan3285
      @alifan3285 3 года назад +23

      It’s not fair to say she ignored it. None of us knows what kind of repercussions were in place for her son due to his failing grades.

    • @Designergirl961
      @Designergirl961 3 года назад +35

      @@alifan3285 I didn't imply that she didn't take action against her son. When I said she "ignored it" I was speaking about the fact that she knew he was failing and still put the deposit for the limo. Maybe she believed her son would get his grades up before prom and that didn't happen.

    • @alifan3285
      @alifan3285 3 года назад +12

      @@Designergirl961 fair enough Sandra. Thank you for the perspective.

    • @tjneverdefeated4394
      @tjneverdefeated4394 3 года назад +47

      My child’s teachers NEVER contact me about her grades. I’m usually staying on top and contacting them! And they usually take their slow time entering grades. Most are never on time and I have to keep calling about 0’s listed for work done. It’s ridiculous. But there are websites and apps that allow parents to keep up. This parent should’ve known.

    • @Coolkem1
      @Coolkem1 3 года назад +22

      I’m absolutely sure she knew his grades but maybe did not realise he would not be able to attend prom

  • @rubenmejia9020
    @rubenmejia9020 3 года назад +115

    10:40 "Your personal problems don't justify a breach of contract." My new favorite quote, I'm going to use this more often.

  • @looknbakatu
    @looknbakatu 3 года назад +237

    i'm a stickler on certain things, listening to the plaintiff, education isn't a priority with her; more about appearances.

    • @NeishaNee13
      @NeishaNee13 3 года назад +43

      She was getting ready the day of so she could take pictures. Like it was her prom

    • @Tosha22
      @Tosha22 3 года назад +22

      I wasn’t going to go there.... but since you did.😂

    • @carmenmcintyre2229
      @carmenmcintyre2229 3 года назад +2

      @@NeishaNee13 Yup, because she said when she got the call she was at the mall buying an outfit for herself for the prom just to take pics in.

    • @blacclivesmatter4637
      @blacclivesmatter4637 3 года назад +5

      Yup. Soon as I saw her dress I was like "here we go with the BS". Who dresses like that to court? An attention seeker

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 2 года назад

      @Brad James They call that mutton dressed like lamb, that dress was for a younger woman who doesn't have flab hanging out. She's trying so hard to hook some guy.

  • @Rita_was_here
    @Rita_was_here 3 года назад +152

    I’m with the judge and defendant . It doesn’t sound right that they would wait until the day of or even before prom. She knew his grades weren’t good. Either that or she didn’t care.

    • @trulenciamosley5093
      @trulenciamosley5093 3 года назад +2

      First of all she over paid how you gone put twins in car ...3 way split...and she got a deal for 2 limos that's why she didn't know how much she paid...HE WOULD HAVE BEEN RIDING AROUND WITH THE LIMO DRIVER ,ESCORTING THE TWINS...IJS

    • @cutipieeva
      @cutipieeva 3 года назад

      @@trulenciamosley5093 Did we hear the same thing? She paid $200 deposit but she paid $275 for the remainder of the limo they split. She then paid for the 2nd one. But my thing is if it’s a deposit so I do feel that she should give her something because her son couldn’t go but to think about it, If her son was only going then she would have still lost that deposit because he wasn’t going.

  • @Shawna79
    @Shawna79 3 года назад +344

    She didn't know he was failing just like she KNEW her dress wasn't for court 🤣🤣 it's a nice dress though (for a cookout)

    • @samanthalewis2710
      @samanthalewis2710 3 года назад +22

      Wish I could “like” more than once 🤣

    • @sashahamlet3659
      @sashahamlet3659 3 года назад +51

      If she had put a blazer on it would have worked. In my opinion

    • @sarannec1282
      @sarannec1282 3 года назад +10

      *WOW, MY SENTIMENTS EXACTLY* It's all about momma, and she could not be bothered about her son's grades. Who gets dressed up to take their kid to Jr. High prom??? It's about the child, not mom and her dress....

    • @sarannec1282
      @sarannec1282 3 года назад +21

      @@sashahamlet3659 no, not really. It was too tight, short, and thin-- not for court at all.

    • @temishawillis4795
      @temishawillis4795 3 года назад +16

      She out shopping for her outfit to take him to the prom smh WTH! All this is ridiculous for a SPRING FORMAL! This is not a prom.

  • @Grovel007
    @Grovel007 3 года назад +172

    How the hell is your kid failing school and you don’t know about it? Last time I check they have several parent teacher meetings through out the year.

    • @elainevankat5353
      @elainevankat5353 3 года назад +7

      Absolutely true! The judge is so stupid to be (getting mad at the school!). 🤦‍♀️

    • @therepublic7470
      @therepublic7470 3 года назад +7

      @@elainevankat5353 Well I'd be mad at the school to if they called on prom day to tell me my child couldn't go.

    • @MrStudo67
      @MrStudo67 3 года назад +10

      Parent teacher conferences are even a thing of the past. They still have them, but the schools and teachers have so many websites and apps now there is absolutely no reason not to know how your kids is doing in school. My wife and I both get messages nearly everyday from the kids schools and teachers!

    • @grizzlyg4008
      @grizzlyg4008 3 года назад +13

      Class dojo, powerschools, and other apps that track your child's grades daily. There is no excuse.

    • @embbermoon3381
      @embbermoon3381 3 года назад +3

      @@grizzlyg4008 So true! Not to mention, schools even have texting now so nope, no excuses!!

  • @ayefo7800
    @ayefo7800 3 года назад +163

    There's no way if she's checking his grades all the time that she had NO CLUE her son was doing terrible enough in his classes to be denied prom. And then you don't want to pay because YOUR son got HIMSELF banned from prom?? Lady, STOP!

  • @mzche1999
    @mzche1999 3 года назад +43

    Prom in middle school? That's part of the problem. I'm in education at the high school level and there are ALOT of parents who put more energy into prom than graduation. It's amazing how many of the kids at prom aren't on track for graduation.

    • @mrsthegreatfall
      @mrsthegreatfall Год назад +3

      usually a middle school prom is just referred to as the 8th grade dance

    • @mzche1999
      @mzche1999 Год назад

      @@mrsthegreatfall In many places, it is billed as junior prom.

  • @myshanamakisi6063
    @myshanamakisi6063 3 года назад +31

    You didn't know your child was failing...😒. Really?! Stop it ✋🏾
    If he's failing, he shouldn't attend. Get your priorities straight.

    • @johnathanpatrick6118
      @johnathanpatrick6118 3 года назад +1

      'When it comes to my kids, I don't pass the buck on anyone or anything!! I'm their (mom) and I know all!!' -- taken from Steve Wilkos

  • @franceslewis5729
    @franceslewis5729 3 года назад +18

    “I was running around getting myself together so I could go take pictures too…” I have a feeling she spent a LOT of money that day. Lol.

  • @KPbouj
    @KPbouj 3 года назад +108

    I would have got my $200 off his ass. That’s my initial reaction 😂 but in all seriousness she should have been know about his grades. Make him work it off in the yard and in them books. 1 test is not going to make him FAIL if his grades were average. Did she get her money back for the tuxedo and shoes as well? NO. Leave this lady alone ma’am.

    • @grizzlyg4008
      @grizzlyg4008 3 года назад +1

      He still a kid. Full blame goes to the parents.

    • @onepunch2310
      @onepunch2310 3 года назад +5

      @@grizzlyg4008 no. He’s not in 4th grade he’s an 8th grader and knows better. In 6th grade and up I was in charge of making sure I did my work. They’re not babies he’s a teen and knows how to do his work and turn it in.

    • @dramanot
      @dramanot 3 года назад +1

      @@grizzlyg4008 Full blame goes to him.

    • @SlashTheWeasel
      @SlashTheWeasel 3 года назад +3

      I agree with Grizzly. He's still kid but also why didn't his parents not know about his grades and usually that leads to talks with teachers and whatever else. His parents not knowing what was going on is puzzling. I put not just the kid but also the parents at fault on this.

    • @lisaparrey1343
      @lisaparrey1343 3 года назад +1

      I don't understand how people seem to think they should punish a child who is not doing well in school. Fair enough if the child isn't putting the work in, but some children are not good at academics. We are all different. I have post graduate university qualifications and yet I got good marks at school but could have got so much more but wasn't really mature enough until older, my brother has a mild intellectual disability and struggled at school. Both my kids had the ability to do well at school, but my youngest really needed more individual attention to achieve, the older one did better but could have put more work in and done better but she really struggled in some areas. Its not a blanket thing that it is the child's fault.

  • @Necee75
    @Necee75 3 года назад +10

    Seventh year Texas Reading Teacher here👩🏾‍🏫FIRST OF ALL...........a benchmark/test will only fail a student if the student was already barely getting by in the first place. Mom, ever heard of Progress Reports? It’s a mid-check in before actual six weeks report cards. We’re in a pandemic, all grades are online now. You can log in and check EVERY DAY. This is a classic case. That was a courtesy that the school called her because they could’ve let him get turned away at the door that night. The teachers probably got word about his *limo* plans. His mind was proactive about getting a date for prom, but not about running those numbers to see what score he needed to obtain on that test in order to remain eligible to attend. Math is important sir! That’s what kept you out of the prom. Boy bye👋🏾

  • @Lady.B0420
    @Lady.B0420 3 года назад +25

    In my house, there is NO Prom, sports, fun time at all, if your grades are crap. The mom should have known. Her fault

  • @jocelyne2634
    @jocelyne2634 3 года назад +63

    If I found out my child was failing his classes I wouldn’t have allowed him to go to Prom in the first place 😒

  • @HoneyBee0219
    @HoneyBee0219 3 года назад +54

    She knew before hand that he was failing. They do midterms and everything.Also they could’ve gotten dressed and taken some really nice pictures with everyone. It’s sad he missed out but he couldn’t gotten something cool out of it 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @grizzlyg4008
      @grizzlyg4008 3 года назад +14

      Use the money for a tutor. She had to know he was struggling at minimum

  • @thecheshirecat299
    @thecheshirecat299 3 года назад +22

    That kid didn’t just fail the last 2 weeks

  • @mrsa2you365
    @mrsa2you365 3 года назад +202

    If you don't know your child is failing then you're failing as a parent.

    • @elainevankat5353
      @elainevankat5353 3 года назад +6

      Thank you!!

    • @jackieagard537
      @jackieagard537 3 года назад +11

      I think she wanted a reason to be on Television in that dress

    • @granitemoss1451
      @granitemoss1451 3 года назад +11

      @@jackieagard537 She would look so much better in a moderate outfit and different hair and makeup.

    • @Tosha22
      @Tosha22 3 года назад +2

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @sugarbabysugarhoneyiced-t557
      @sugarbabysugarhoneyiced-t557 3 года назад +1

      Lol...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Classycaramel4
    @Classycaramel4 3 года назад +36

    Ok plaintiff BAWDYYY !! & defendant's skin is so beautiful...

  • @ninagaston35
    @ninagaston35 3 года назад +40

    She really tried to say she didn't know he was failing TWO subject. Miss if you don't go somewhere. Lol. Yall had an agreement it's not the ladies fault that your child was doing terrible in school. Have him do yard work and extra chores since he clearly don't want to study smh.

    • @Selfemployedmildautisticperfor
      @Selfemployedmildautisticperfor 3 года назад +1

      some ust arnt good at math though, and muc h of the math they teach in school is useless anyway its just something to fill a class teaching, and maybe he was doing good in all the other subjects n it seems there was a lack of communicatoin regardless of whose fault it was certinaly kids dont tell their parents everything yes yard work

    • @leetakamiya
      @leetakamiya 3 года назад +1

      @@Selfemployedmildautisticperfor Thank you for your post. I haven’t had as good a laugh in a long time. I have to assume you’re trolling anyone who passed fifth grade English.

    • @Selfemployedmildautisticperfor
      @Selfemployedmildautisticperfor 3 года назад

      @@leetakamiya h mm h this bounced to the top infact ive NEVER been called a troll a troll is someone trying to cause drama or saying the same thing under every commetn u can see this is the only 1 i commentedon ( only comment) infact i prefer to talk with people i kno wor have decided to let in my circle and so i rarely comment on youtube but someimtes i feel it , i was just stating my point of veiw uw i wasnt trying to be funny though , and if you havent luaghed that much in a long time ur not finding enough funny and fun and joy in life perhaps ?? the rest of ur comment makes no sense so lets not go there im with them though , he shoulda been able to go to his prom i guess he didnt graduate but thats graduatoin or i dunno just because he sturggled ina ccouple subjects im saying some subjects just arent for everyone or the way they teach it in the schools doesnt work for some but ive graduated hs and SOME college uni so ya

    • @leetakamiya
      @leetakamiya 3 года назад +1

      @@Selfemployedmildautisticperfor This comment reinforces my own comment.

  • @FlaKNMB
    @FlaKNMB 3 года назад +61

    Oh, man! This episode reinforces the fact that i'm from a different generation.

    • @bulls1222
      @bulls1222 3 года назад +3

      I know right

    • @temishawillis4795
      @temishawillis4795 3 года назад +3

      Whew!! You are so correct!

    • @sharonshulby2445
      @sharonshulby2445 3 года назад +10

      Oh yeah! My parents would have NEVER approved of me, as a 13 year old, having a date, limo, and a prom! Seriously! And we wonder why these kids are doing adult things as young teenagers! Outrageous!

    • @rezotydnic
      @rezotydnic 3 года назад +2

      Agree. Junior proms....crazy.

    • @itshk9427
      @itshk9427 3 года назад

      @@sharonshulby2445 bruh I swear 😂

  • @lionelluva
    @lionelluva 3 года назад +36

    The school would not just spring that up the day of prom. Either the mother knew or the son never told the mother he’s failing and has been warned in the past to get his grades up. If I was his mother, he would’ve worked off that $200 during the summer while attending summer school.

    • @MzPrettyDimplez
      @MzPrettyDimplez 3 года назад +2

      Schools will drop that bomb the day of, but if she was being vigilant she would've already known

    • @rezotydnic
      @rezotydnic 3 года назад +1

      My daughter had done well in school until her last semester. She started partying behind my back, sneaking out, jigging school, and I was notified every step of the way! We had some battles getting her head on straight and get her graduated. But the school was in constant contact with me and I with them.
      Unfortunately for her, going from an A student to just a passing C in last semester cost her the college of her choice. Oh well.
      Every action has an equal and opposite reaction. They're called consequences.

  • @latoyaboston3845
    @latoyaboston3845 3 года назад +22

    Put the same effort into getting your kid to pass as you did to get him to prom.

  • @Journeywithanna38
    @Journeywithanna38 3 года назад +80

    She knew her son was failing seems to me it was all about photos for social media.

    • @Dougie19xx
      @Dougie19xx 3 года назад +12

      EXACTLY!!! These parents care more about social media than the kids do.

  • @QueenRissa_34
    @QueenRissa_34 3 года назад +25

    The plaintiff knows she knew well before the prom?!! The plaintiff is lying....🤨🤔

  • @Mz.travelfoodie
    @Mz.travelfoodie 2 года назад +7

    You don’t fail a whole class from failing one test!!! That excuse she gave is questionable! 🤔

  • @melissalsmith883
    @melissalsmith883 3 года назад +30

    I’ve never understood why she gets so upset being called ma’am when I don’t believe any male judge would be upset being called sir

    • @vt-yp7yq
      @vt-yp7yq 2 года назад +4

      Good point.🤔

    • @lianmawii
      @lianmawii 2 года назад +6

      I know....and since when was addressing a lady as Ma'am considered inappropriate or disrespectful even for a presiding officer of a Court

    • @nancymorris9632
      @nancymorris9632 Год назад +1

      Out of respect, it’s Judge, not ma’am.

    • @loribryant884
      @loribryant884 11 месяцев назад

      Ma'am is better than miss. Lol 😆 🤣 😂

    • @dinahbrown902
      @dinahbrown902 11 месяцев назад

      @@nancymorris9632Respect? It’s a power hungry job. Just a person who went to school a couple years longer.

  • @morehyeshiahtorahlessons5545
    @morehyeshiahtorahlessons5545 2 года назад +3

    Your son should pay the money.
    Teach him accountability.

  • @wintermistique3399
    @wintermistique3399 3 года назад +52

    Defendant knew she was right with her pretty chocolate skin! lol

    • @shakeiabollar5904
      @shakeiabollar5904 3 года назад

      Thank you Beautiful God bless you

    • @MaiMaybe
      @MaiMaybe 2 года назад

      @@shakeiabollar5904 I hope you pay her 200$ back. Trifling.

    • @MaiMaybe
      @MaiMaybe 2 года назад

      You obviously broke too. It’s 200, when she really should have only paid 1/3 since it was 3 people in the car.

  • @prettyblkgyrl74
    @prettyblkgyrl74 3 года назад +166

    The defendant was giving me chocolate goddess realness 🥰🥰🥰

    • @WavyDominican2012
      @WavyDominican2012 3 года назад +4

      You're probably the only person she gave that to 🤣

    • @jackieagard537
      @jackieagard537 3 года назад +3

      @@WavyDominican2012 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Imissyoulou
      @Imissyoulou 3 года назад +29

      Yes, her skin is flawless. Simply BEAUTIFUL.

    • @marlenebeeks2981
      @marlenebeeks2981 3 года назад +19

      🌟That Melanin though 🌟Beautiful Black Goddess 🤎🖤🤎🖤

    • @csimes988
      @csimes988 3 года назад +19

      She is stunningly beautiful.

  • @The00Lisa00
    @The00Lisa00 3 года назад +17

    Plaintiff is lying 🤥 she knew her son was failing. Unless she never looked at a report card.

  • @marshallelliott8894
    @marshallelliott8894 3 года назад +17

    Plantiff wearing the heck outta that dress!

  • @MUVA718
    @MUVA718 3 года назад +7

    Ma'am. She's respectful woman. I've known her most of my life

  • @crimsonfirelily
    @crimsonfirelily 3 года назад +10

    Plaintiff is lying. Everyone with kids of this age know it! The mom just doesn't pay attention like a good parent does. They email weekly and call... It is not the Defendants fault at all.
    How sad to blame the Defendant.
    It is a contract case and not the Defendants fault. Plaintiff broke the contract. ✌

  • @galeheller3378
    @galeheller3378 2 года назад +2

    The defendants hairstyle is gorgeous.

  • @brandonmoskos9149
    @brandonmoskos9149 3 года назад +10

    I have no idea my son is failing school! Lmao. Great parenting.

  • @MrInspirational43
    @MrInspirational43 7 месяцев назад +1

    As a public school teacher, I can reply that the mother angry with her son not attending a PROM at MIDDLE SCHOOL is the problem with this country! Schools will cya with every attempt to contact parents IN WRITING and EMAILS to inform the parents when their child is close to failing or failing. Numerous attempts are made to contact parents. It seems that MANY parents are more concerned about social skills with their peers rather than getting an education nowadays. This is one of the reasons why so many schools have students with severe behavior problems and coping skills. The schools also need to train students vocational skills for students who are not college bound to find a trade that they can excel in.

  • @Misty8097
    @Misty8097 3 года назад +20

    >Judge: "Are your kids still friends?"
    >Plaintiffs mom: 🤷🏽‍♀️
    I mean that shows how involved she is right there. I don't think she knew he was doing that badly till the very end.

  • @SlashTheWeasel
    @SlashTheWeasel 3 года назад +13

    My big thing with this case is why are 13 year old kids getting expensive limo?!!? This isn't senior prom even! Even for senior prom I would still question limo. But really you got that kinda cash to spend on one night?

  • @nmstep
    @nmstep 3 года назад +13

    I can tell by her dress being way too tight she knew her child was failing 🧐

  • @wooonthebeat
    @wooonthebeat 3 года назад +9

    Are you not allowed to call judges ma’am or sir? Lol I’m from the south and that’s a sign of respect.

    • @rockobill7637
      @rockobill7637 3 года назад +2

      yeah I'm not quite getting it...i'd think it would be a good thing...guess not

    • @timboslice9905
      @timboslice9905 3 года назад +1

      It depends on the judge and depends on that judge THAT day. “Your Honor” is more traditional for court. “Ma’am” or “Sir” is more casual in court. I guess the context is that, in court, the judge represents the court which lifts them above the normal casual way of addressing people. But like others have said, that should mean that Judge Milian can’t call litigants “sweetie” or “honey” either.

  • @AP-uo7sp
    @AP-uo7sp 3 года назад +28

    Do these women think they are Kardashians? 🤣 $475 limo for 3 kids. Use that money for a tutor!

  • @RooseveltAliWashingtonX
    @RooseveltAliWashingtonX Год назад +3

    Judge can call litigants, sweetheart, honey, etc. And she has becomes indignant when the woman respectfully, calls her ma'am! SMDH!

  • @timboslice9905
    @timboslice9905 3 года назад +11

    The defendant was gracious in that she could have shown where the school had provided HER with progress reports for her own kids that may have made the plaintiff look less credible.

  • @bridgetteknox8319
    @bridgetteknox8319 3 года назад +31

    My daughter's school has an app we use to find out daily activity. Grades, assignments, attendance. We also get emails daily. No excuses

    • @matthewwoods1016
      @matthewwoods1016 3 года назад

      I have Power School. I get notifications as soon as an assignment is graded.

  • @jennifersmith3401
    @jennifersmith3401 3 года назад +17

    Typical of today’s parents, their kids take no responsibility because their parents take no responsibility either!!

  • @jenniferpaladini6011
    @jenniferpaladini6011 3 года назад +21

    These days everything is online. As a former teacher, I had to constantly upgrade my students grades online. There is no excuse.

  • @jusmejaussyb8237
    @jusmejaussyb8237 3 года назад +6

    Hoochie mama dress and work flats..I can’t even

  • @mariyaa111
    @mariyaa111 3 года назад +20

    I’m sorry but what Mother is more invested in their child’s 8th grade dance/prom then their grades ?? She should have spent more time focusing on his school work!!!
    Side note... I can’t STAND when Judge Milian gets nasty and says shit like, “ did you just call me ma’am? It’s judge.” Get off your high horse MA’AM!🤣🤣

  • @greeksun369
    @greeksun369 3 года назад +33

    The plaintiff just wanted to be on tv.

  • @barbarabazin9570
    @barbarabazin9570 3 года назад +17

    I am teacher and mom and you should know if your child was failing a class she perfectly knew the the kid was failing.Did she see the report card? One test doesn't fail you a couple do. Good she didn't get anything.

    • @Tosha22
      @Tosha22 3 года назад

      Yes, she is right. That one test did fail him. What are you talking about? He had a strong 71 in that class and they would penalize him like that. 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @keyeviondavis9647
    @keyeviondavis9647 3 года назад +45

    Why does Judge Milian get so heated when she is addressed as Ma'am it's a term of Respect just as Judge or Your Honor would be?

    • @lollypop2310
      @lollypop2310 3 года назад +15

      This is the first time I've ever heard her get upset for someone calling her m'am. It's usually "miss" that pisses her off

    • @LYJmusic
      @LYJmusic 3 года назад +4

      I guess everyone is different. I had a professor that wanted me to call him Dr instead of Mr or Professor. Which I guess I get. He’d explain his degree status to me and how he didn’t like Mr or Professor.

    • @layahYasharahla
      @layahYasharahla 3 года назад +9

      It was the way she said it . It was like “sigh ma’am listen 👂 “

    • @shamellarmstrong7187
      @shamellarmstrong7187 3 года назад +4

      And what's wrong with ma'am 🤔

    • @GateKeeperShow
      @GateKeeperShow 3 года назад +7

      Because everyone is ma'am and everyone didn't go to school for over 10 years to become a Judge. It's a sign of respect for the profession, not just a person. Your mechanic is sir or ma'am. Your friend's parents are sir or ma'am. Judges are "Judge" or "Your Honor". You wouldn't call Joe Biden sir, you'd call him Mr. President.

  • @tonykershaw2246
    @tonykershaw2246 3 года назад +8

    The plaintiff is thicker than a Sunday's newspaper.

    • @ddnquestion1
      @ddnquestion1 3 года назад +1

      I forgot those, do they even still make them hadn't bought one in over n over 10 years, but back in the day they were gold! 💯

  • @delishme2
    @delishme2 2 года назад +6

    Apart from alleging she was blindsided by his grades 🤷🏼‍♀️ 😆 You are coming to court over $200 ? Take your cheap a## home. 🤯

    • @denisebeaudet81
      @denisebeaudet81 4 месяца назад

      I was wondering why this case was even happening. Waste of the Judge's time.

  • @kayekaye08
    @kayekaye08 3 года назад +10

    She should spend more time making sure her sons work is right instead of petty cases for 200 damn dollars.

  • @AD-wv2ue
    @AD-wv2ue 3 года назад +8

    Defendant is gorgeous!

  • @lisajohnson521
    @lisajohnson521 4 месяца назад +2

    A child doesn’t fail a class over ONE test. She’s such a liar.

  • @niceness456
    @niceness456 3 года назад +5

    The public school system is horrible, but they aren’t the kind of bad to call you the day of Prom to tell you your child can’t go. That was definitely discussed ahead of time. She was just going to try to force him to go, and the call the day of from the school was to double down that her son couldn’t go. I’ve seen this happen before.

  • @xoZD
    @xoZD 3 года назад +17

    She either knew that her son was failing or she wasn’t checking on his grades

  • @skins2717
    @skins2717 3 года назад +4

    The plaintiff doesn't have a leg to stand on. Her son was failing long before she found out he wasn't eligible to attend his prom. She should have been more concerned about helping him to get his grades up. And I'm glad the defendant won as she presented her case well and is pretty cool ✊🏿

  • @msvee2455
    @msvee2455 3 года назад +6

    How was the son disappointed. He knew he was failing!

  • @pattysnacks6429
    @pattysnacks6429 3 года назад +18

    📌They send out progress reports to let you know what’s going on with your child. Something isn’t right. I think somebody wasn’t paying attention❗️

  • @claudettehamilton-corneliu1685
    @claudettehamilton-corneliu1685 3 года назад +2

    Live within your means...and you wouldn't have a problem.

  • @tashanapink7688
    @tashanapink7688 3 года назад +11

    Trust me it doesn’t come as a shock when a school denies a kid prom due to failing grades. The kids is warned a few times leading up to it. Mama was just lackadaisical as it pertains to her sons schooling and her son wasn’t being honest about his progress in school.

  • @barbarat5729
    @barbarat5729 3 года назад +11

    I feel like, I feel like, I feel like......
    The law doesn't care about you feeling it's unfair.
    She DOESNT "hear" herself.
    Lost cause.

  • @shannonsims3708
    @shannonsims3708 3 года назад +11

    The plaintiff had hella cheeks lol

  • @jenniejanine1976
    @jenniejanine1976 3 года назад +4

    This made me love this judge when she said, I have the same problem with the way my kids are spaced out. Then she said let me change that: it's not a problem it's a blessing. _Love it!_

  • @joycecourts7403
    @joycecourts7403 3 года назад +4

    The lady with the twins had the most beautiful eyes.

  • @optimisticrealismx5829
    @optimisticrealismx5829 3 года назад +1

    ATLEAST the big one is dressed appropriately for court room

  • @Dymsx86
    @Dymsx86 3 года назад +11

    She didn’t know he was failing? I don’t buy that at all. She knew he was failing.

  • @CeltycSparrow
    @CeltycSparrow 2 года назад +1

    I think that's the REAL truth. Her son was flunking his classes and the school deemed that because he was failing, he would NOT be allowed to go to Prom. His Mom, rather than RESPECTING this, chose, instead, to try to overturn it and that still failed. Its not the defendant's fault that her son couldn't attend the prom. SHE didn't stop him going to prom....the school did that to punish him for failing the classes. I understand he's disappointed, and it cost his Mom all that money for the tux and the corsage and the limo....but she should have been keeping a closer eye on her son's grades. And it even SOUNDED like the defendant was sympathetic to the Mom's problem and she was considering reimbursing her at least SOME of the money, but rather than being PATIENT....the Mom then THREATENS the defendant with a lawsuit....which is ridiculous, because NONE OF THIS is the defendant's fault, so why should SHE be out the money AND the limo for her daughter?

  • @senseimontenegro9703
    @senseimontenegro9703 3 года назад +10

    I don't like that JM can call litigants "sweetie" or "honey" yet she corrects them if they say "ma'am" which is considered very respectful. Smdh

    • @timboslice9905
      @timboslice9905 3 года назад

      You’re right. And she’s inconsistent with it on top of that. Sometimes it just rolls right off of her back. And other times she goes out of her way to emphasize that she should be called “your honor” or “judge”. I personally don’t like when people say “yes, judge”.

  • @DoubleDutchMedia
    @DoubleDutchMedia 2 года назад

    I think it was more of a moral thing for the plaintiff to think that she was going to get her 200 dollars back bc her son is not going anymore. In that case, the defendant didn’t have to refund or reimburse her, but morally she was going to give the plaintiff something back ( 100 dollars) when She could. The plaintiff messed it up for herself when she mentioned small claims court. But morally, that’s what the plaintiff was thinking.
    And correct I think I would’ve also had my son pick up some gigs in the neighborhood (dog walking/watching, pool cleaning, grass cutting) all summer to pay the 200 back.. so in that case he paid for his share on the limo that he didn’t get to ride in.
    & get them grades up boy!

  • @JSmith-ji7ms
    @JSmith-ji7ms 3 года назад +16

    Judge Millian, wake up. It's not like the kid didn't know the consequences of his failure ahead of time. Expectations were there and I am sure the teachers made that clear. Now it's irrelevant whether he got consequences on day of prom or before. He needs consequences. Bottom line.

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 2 года назад

      If you watch this show a lot she often smiles and goes easy on BW, instead of a judge she acts more like their psychoanalyst.

    • @spacepanda9037
      @spacepanda9037 Год назад +1

      Why does the judge need to wake up lmfao HIS MOTHER THE PLAINTIFF NEEDS TO WAKE UP

  • @Merveille.Ansiima
    @Merveille.Ansiima 3 года назад +1

    God bless everyone who is here

  • @cathylittleton7361
    @cathylittleton7361 3 года назад +6

    the plaintiff is making excuses for her son and not make him take responsibility

  • @Nayahpooh012
    @Nayahpooh012 Год назад +2

    The real problem is that she didn’t know her son was failing MULTIPLE classes until 2 days before prom. That’s her fault.

  • @temishawillis4795
    @temishawillis4795 3 года назад +3

    That boy was flunking long before May 1st. ELA and Math that ain’t failing! That’s FLUNKING OUT. One test does NOT fail you and in both subjects.

  • @bhornannawindeedeigh5007
    @bhornannawindeedeigh5007 2 года назад +1

    How tf do parents not keep an eye on their child's academics- and especially in the 21st century when schools provide portals to online records for attendance, grades and other important services. It's preposterous. I ain't saying that dances aren't important, but the prom will be a distant memory once he graduates from college and moves on to make a life of his own. But try getting into college with less than stellar grades. It's highly competitive out there. In the end, grades are more important than attending a prom. Parents need to put into perspective the importance of attending classes and on their kids doing their best rather than snapping pics in front of a limo headed for a junior high or senior prom. It's that simple. Don't wait to check on grades until the last minute. Check weekly through the schools' online portal.

  • @joannalauricello6013
    @joannalauricello6013 3 года назад +12

    Most schools would not make one test affect a grade so drastically, unless he had a D and test brought grade to F, so we gotta let kid know your not going if you have either grade, again most schools do online grades, mid term grades calls home with D, F grades....at least I always let parents know and allowed enough time to make up missing work, improvement, also our school didn't tie events to grades, but if my kid had D, F they would not be going

  • @christinajackson7658
    @christinajackson7658 2 года назад

    From the perspective of someone who just got out of High School I actual do believe that the mother wasn't aware of her sons grades. During teacher and student conferences there were barely any parents through out my entire middle and high school years. After elementary school my mother didn't know about my grades or teacher conferences unless I would tell her about them so I do believe her on that part. Although, unless the defendant and the plaintiff had an agreement that the money was for BOTH children, I don't see why the defendant should pay the $200 back. I personally would have but it shouldn't be an obligation that she pays her back the money because her child wasn't able to attend the prom, it's the son's fault. And if the plaintiff was this invested in her child's education as much as his prom than maybe he would've been able to attend.

  • @josephconsoli4128
    @josephconsoli4128 3 года назад +11

    OMG, Jr. High prom? Caterers, limo, and dress/suit shops must be laughing all the way to the bank. What's next? elementary school proms? I didn't go near my HS prom. Tribalism BS.

    • @GateKeeperShow
      @GateKeeperShow 3 года назад

      I def had a 6th grade prom in 2000. Took a young lady named Janelle. My mom paid for a corsage she drove us to the school in her 1988 Nissan Sentra (2 seater so we had to climb in the back LOL) Good times.

    • @josephconsoli4128
      @josephconsoli4128 3 года назад

      @@GateKeeperShow A friend of mine that I still know went to our HS prom. The corny photo, the drinking, the joy ride to "get cigarettes" and other daring things of that nature - woo-hoo! I wanted to ask him if they did a dance around a fire with headdresses on afterwards. Ugggg.

    • @embbermoon3381
      @embbermoon3381 3 года назад

      Shidd if I do all that for Junior prom you ain't getting nothing but a rental car and a rented tux for the Senior prom and you best not get it ner' of em dirty.

    • @Jean0987654321
      @Jean0987654321 3 года назад

      I had a Jr High Prom too back in 2008. I never had one in elementary in 2005 tho thank fuck

    • @josephconsoli4128
      @josephconsoli4128 3 года назад

      @Ms.C No, I'm just a rebel without a cause. A pet-peeve is people living life by looking over at what the next person is doing to feel "normal". Anything good that comes out of life is due to someone stepping out of the box and doing what they decide is right. If everyone did that this, the world would be a fascinating place rather than brain numbing routine that we all follow every day. There's an old saying: "when you follow the herd, you step in a lot of s***".

  • @karenneill9109
    @karenneill9109 3 года назад +2

    My Mother was told the day of graduation thatshe wouldn't be able to graduate. This was in Finland where every child in the country graduating from highschool graduates, and the whole country stops and celebrates. My mother went to a Swedish school, and had a German background, but of course had to take Finnish to graduate. Her teacher loathed her, and marked her exam extremely harshly, and she failed. She was devastated. The school board and ministry of education got involved. That morning a re-analysis of her exam said she had not only passed, but with high honours (an A+). She was allowed to graduate, and the story hit the front page news. This was in the 50's, and apparently he couldn't get past her German last name. He was quoted as saying some VERY prejudiced views about Germans (recalling that the Finns were allied with the Germans in WWII, because they were both fighting Russia. The Finns hated that they had made a deal with the devil so as to not be annexed by Russia, and after the war the people tried to dissociate themselves from the Germans.).

  • @Hihihi-k9p
    @Hihihi-k9p 3 года назад +5

    I check my child’s grades every other day! Or every week. That’s being on top of things with your child. It’s called being a parent.

  • @Afshin.F
    @Afshin.F 2 года назад

    Once the judge said : I don't care about I hate the . Now she says she doesn't like , your honor is good lol

  • @llw53one
    @llw53one 3 года назад +5

    There was no clause in the agreement that said if one party can not attend then they get a refund. No mama! Not to mention the embarrassment that the young lady no longer had a date, smh

  • @hollyjames4622
    @hollyjames4622 3 года назад +2

    She is one of those parents who only be at the school to complain about sh!t... nothing else... no Involvement at all apparently with her child and what he does in school and his teachers! Like what the heck! This pisses me off.

  • @ravencherokee
    @ravencherokee 3 года назад +3

    She's lying like a rug!!!

  • @barbarareel71mom1son04
    @barbarareel71mom1son04 2 месяца назад +1

    Tha plaintiff obviously wasn't attending the parent teacher conferences or checking her son's grades to know he was failing. I also don't believe they informed her the day of the prom that her son was failing and unable to attend prom. She ignored the schools warning just like she ignored her sons failing grades and the defendants attempt to negotiate the agreement and give her $100. She comes across as wanting things her way or it's no way. I know she going to be a piece of work by that short, inappropriate dress she wore to court. I'm happy for the defendant and hope the plaintiff gets her priorities in order.