What is Virtual Autism? || Sharing my story (क्या मोबाइल और टीवी से ऑटिज्म होता है?)

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  • Опубликовано: 19 янв 2025

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  • @showfashion9557
    @showfashion9557 3 года назад +7

    Actually Itne videos dekhe RUclips par, but Aapke videos dekhkar lag raha hai, ki ab mujhe correct direction MIL gayi

  • @anammohsin2493
    @anammohsin2493 2 года назад +74

    Hi... I found U and listened all the videos of Ur journey. It was like me telling all this. My son was born in 2016 like urz. By 2 he was making small sentences then we moved out of country and my world collapsed. I all had to offer my boy was screen. I had no help. So he just watched TV, tab and mobile all the time. By his 3rd birthday he was not the boy who he was at 2.
    Everyone started pointing out k ye marzi krta ha, sunta Nae ha etc etc. Later he was diagnosed with autism. Now at 5 years of age after lots of hard work (no therapy at all) he has started making sentences, started interacting and answering questions. But still he is behind his peers. Whenever I feel sad and disappointed I just say to myself "there is nothing love can't change" waqt dein apny bachon ko, be their eyes and ears... Sb theek ho jayega.

    • @MdShakil-kz8jn
      @MdShakil-kz8jn 2 года назад +4

      Anam how did you work on his understanding? My daughter shows aggressive behaviour if we ask her to follow instructions. Do reply

    • @manasagoli6414
      @manasagoli6414 2 года назад +1

      Mam.. My son facing same issue now. Please tell us tips how to overcome

    • @anammohsin2493
      @anammohsin2493 2 года назад +6

      Initially I grabbed his attention by tapping on his shoulder or slightly squeezed his hand so that he give me a little attention. When he used to look at me I said whatever I wanted to. Joint attention is very important or jb tk apka or bachy ka focus point same na ho tbb tk nothing can be done.
      He never pointed on anything so to teach him I used to tap on the thing. Gradually he started pointing too. Whenever he demanded anything from me by dragging me I used to repeat that word several times till the time he started using that word.
      Sbsy zruri chez bachy ki dunia mein enter hona ha. Wo apko kbi attention Nae dega unless u come to their level and bring them to urz.

    • @anammohsin2493
      @anammohsin2493 2 года назад +1

      @@MdShakil-kz8jn aggression is escape behaviour. Let Ur child show aggression and don't get bothered by it. Jb bachy ko lgta ha k hmary shout krny sy rouny sy parents ko koe fark Nae prr rha tou finally they give up.
      Dr Laura mize proved to be God's help for me. Follow her on you tube. I applied every tip she gave and they all helped me a lot.

    • @MdShakil-kz8jn
      @MdShakil-kz8jn 2 года назад

      @@anammohsin2493 so helpful! Thanks anam for help.

  • @ecopluspestcontrol1673
    @ecopluspestcontrol1673 2 года назад +4

    Same filling ma'am maine bhi yahi galti Kari hai mobile de kr n ab afsos ho rha hai bs kb wo din aayenga k wo mujhe mamma bolengi aapko dekh kr thodi himat mili hai thankyou 🙂

    • @mehakjan2280
      @mehakjan2280 10 месяцев назад

      Ap apka baby kesa hai bolta hai samjhata hai

  • @supriyadoke859
    @supriyadoke859 2 года назад +17

    Thanku so much mam....even i made a same mistake...i gives a lot mobile n ipad to my 4 yr child...till now he didnt call me mumma...i feel so bad...but all was my mistake...bcoz of so much screentime he never involved with us.....but now i have decided to follow all ur instructions ....thanks a lot

  • @autismblessing486
    @autismblessing486 3 года назад +17

    Super जल्द ही हम सब पेरेंट ये जंग जीत लेंगे बस बिना थके अपने बच्चे का साथ देना है

  • @jawadgrafixline
    @jawadgrafixline Год назад +1

    InshaAllah ap ka beta zaroor boley ga... app apni koshish continue rakhen... mera beta bhi abhi tak verbal nahi howa hy ham bhi bht koshish kar rahy hen.... ap ny theek kaha k screen time is very harmful to these kind of kids......

  • @kviswanathan3051
    @kviswanathan3051 2 года назад +10

    My grandson aged 4 years also has mild problems. 2years the schools were also closed. Praying that he gets well soon. Thanks for your advice. 🙏🙏

    • @kviswanathan3051
      @kviswanathan3051 11 месяцев назад

      ​@Amina90982Thank you for sharing this medicine. Hope all children benefit.

    • @Happy.kids.964
      @Happy.kids.964 10 месяцев назад

      How's your son now

  • @dhanashrikhalipe8265
    @dhanashrikhalipe8265 Год назад +1

    Thanks a lot... proud of you...keep making such videos on autism...we get inspiration... thanks a lot

  • @khanyanikhushbu3137
    @khanyanikhushbu3137 3 года назад +62

    Maine bhi yahi mistake ki hai.meri beti 3.9 year ki hai .1 month pahle hi doctor ne bola ki autism hai,aur maine screen time zero kar diya aur uspar kam karna start kar diya aur sirf 1 month me hi usme bahut sudhar aya hai.inshahAllah hamare bacche jaldi hi recover ho jayenge

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  3 года назад +6

      Bilkul honge... Ap give up mat kariyega bilkul behtar hote hi jayenge har roz

    • @shahrukhsheikh8252
      @shahrukhsheikh8252 3 года назад +1

      Insha allah

    • @sangeetabhardwaj104
      @sangeetabhardwaj104 3 года назад +2

      Mem aap ne kiya sab tritment kiya jo bolne lga aap ka bchha mere bete bhi pahle sab bolti the achank sab bolna bhul gye bhut presan rahte mem plz hem pH to bilkul band kr deye h

    • @abdullahsdiary3591
      @abdullahsdiary3591 3 года назад +1

      Insha Allah. Same thing happening with my child .

    • @sanakausar7232
      @sanakausar7232 2 года назад +2

      @@aforautism6808 mai b out of India rahti hun family se dur…or lockdown me meri beti ne b bht screen time use kiya koi option hu nhi bach rha tha k kitna usko kis chiz me engage krein😢 3 saal ki huyi to uska screen time band kr di hun fir b wo socialize nhi hoti jb k ab hum wapas india aa chuke hain sirf usi ki wajah se….everytime she is singing rhymes..kuch aisi tips btaiyega k uski singing ki adat khatm ho jaye

  • @ishatpreetkaurcheema6033
    @ishatpreetkaurcheema6033 3 года назад +10

    I made the same mistake time to time, still doing it, always wanted to stop. Thank you for bringing it yp

  • @user-sonam0816gunu
    @user-sonam0816gunu 3 года назад +8

    Thanku so much didi...Meri halat khrab thi ...plz pray my daughter ki jldi thik ho jye

  • @gayatripradhan9439
    @gayatripradhan9439 2 года назад +3

    Tq didi, you are alert all the parents who are involved to their child in screen.

  • @womenfitness9992
    @womenfitness9992 2 года назад +3

    Aap bilkul bi pareshan mat ho baby aap ka inshallah achha hoga mai be is dard guzar rahi hu😔

  • @anjugupta6906
    @anjugupta6906 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank u so much mam... Apki ye video dekhkar mujhe samjh aaya ki same chij mere bachhe k sath huyi... Maine bhi humesha use screen diya bachpan se taki mai apne kam nipta sku... He is diagnosed Autistic and ab mujhe use chize sikhane me kafi problem aa rhi h.. he is 8 yrs old or ab humne uski therapy start ki h isse phle maine use ghr pe hi bhut kuch sikhane ki koshish ki h or uski sari learning lagbhag viraj ki trh hi h.. I mean wo khud se apne bhut sare kam kr leta h nhana, potti jana clean karna kapde b phn leta h bt shirt k buttons or shoes nhi phn pata.. speech me bhi 2-3 words me bol pata h jaise khana chahiye nhana hai etc. Meri prblem ye h ki ab maine uski therapy start ki h to mujhe ye samjh nhi aa rha ki mai unke sath kaise co-ordinate kru.. I am confused

  • @juveriyanaquib1777
    @juveriyanaquib1777 3 года назад +34

    I have totally stopped screen time and i see his attention and speech and interaction improved a lot

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  3 года назад +4

      U will see a great difference within coming six months

    • @asharanikumura4261
      @asharanikumura4261 3 года назад

      Same

    • @deepaksharma-fz7np
      @deepaksharma-fz7np 3 года назад +1

      How old was your son/daughter and for how long did he/she watched screen...please also tell how long it took to see the change....

    • @poonamsingh2244
      @poonamsingh2244 3 года назад +1

      Kitne month me attention aya tha apke bache me aur speech

    • @shaisypadmanabhan4032
      @shaisypadmanabhan4032 2 года назад

      How did you bring that change in ur son. Wat all new interventions you did to divert him. How long did it take for ur son to change. Very curious to know.

  • @EVS_FOR_ALL-teachingexam
    @EVS_FOR_ALL-teachingexam 11 месяцев назад

    I have twice maine dono ko bht bachaya h Phn se bacho ko . Fir bhi 3 hrs tak dekhte hi h vo.

  • @pacman7959
    @pacman7959 3 года назад +16

    I observed this and understood it when we got our first iPad in 2013. I didn't know the word back then but I tried to put a stop to it immediately. Also children exhibit drug addiction like symptoms too. When you ask them to come is the iPad they start fighting arguing. Don't feel like doing anything. Feel depressed. Seriously so not bring an iPad into your life if you can

  • @Jaspreetkaur-mj9js
    @Jaspreetkaur-mj9js 9 месяцев назад

    Thanks mam for this video...today this video cleared my doubt...i did the same mistake and were not aware about autism...now i did screen time zero ...nd within 2 days i saw some changes in my child....its true🙏

  • @eldrincorreya7828
    @eldrincorreya7828 3 года назад +22

    Hi my son is also having the same thing.we had recognise this issue seriously in 3.9 years.we completely stopped giving mobile phone and I make him to stay in my house were my brother son is there, during that time itself a little changes has been happend in my son's character and then we have given therapy. According to her advice I tried him to make communicate with other by going for trip as well as outing and all. After 2 months huge changes can seen in my son's character. He started to speak in 2-3 words and also started to play with kids.

    • @shrutivis2700
      @shrutivis2700 3 года назад

      @Eldrin Correya How's your son now? Is he started talking?

    • @manasagoli6414
      @manasagoli6414 2 года назад

      Mam.. my son gave same issue now. Could you please tell us some tips

    • @eldrincorreya7828
      @eldrincorreya7828 2 года назад +2

      @@shrutivis2700 now he speak all his needs in a sentence itself. Got good eye contact and main change is now he is correcting his mistakes when we give correction during communicating. Also he do all the commands which we have given to him

    • @reena7856
      @reena7856 2 года назад +2

      @@eldrincorreya7828 hello I too facing same problem... but he is age 1.5 .. virtual autism curable?

    • @eldrincorreya7828
      @eldrincorreya7828 2 года назад

      @@reena7856 definitely if it is a virtual autism it will be curable since your son's age is 1.5 years old.

  • @shamimkhan2388
    @shamimkhan2388 10 месяцев назад

    Mam your videos are really helpful... Thank you so much for sharing your journey!

  • @poonamj80
    @poonamj80 3 года назад +11

    Thank u so much foe this video, I have done this same mistake :( I felt like u r reading my mind

  • @syedanusratjahanafreen1579
    @syedanusratjahanafreen1579 11 месяцев назад

    Yaa allah.. Same ab mein face karre hi hu..
    Keyse thik hogi yea... Ab woh 3 years now
    Thank you...

  • @ruchisingh3125
    @ruchisingh3125 2 года назад +3

    My story is same.. I guilt every time I pick laptop to do my office work. Why I didn't notice my kid when I was doing office work or household duties.. why. Please tell from where you took speech therapy and OT. I am taking therapies but he is not picking up more than 3 -4 words.

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 года назад

      Hello ruchi no therapies for viraj we are doing everything at home just took 36 sessions initially out of anxiety but then accepted the reality and started everything at home which worked out fine and still working with him at home only.. all the things are shared in autism therapies at home playlist and activities playlist ❤️

    • @ruchisingh3125
      @ruchisingh3125 2 года назад +1

      @@aforautism6808 I agree.. nobody can do this job better than us parents.

  • @mahen434
    @mahen434 Год назад +1

    I am an atheist, but now you are like a god-like figure to me, thanks for giving me a big hope!!!

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  Год назад

      pls dont say that ❤️🙏 i am just trying from my end so i can help someone in need 🙏🙏

  • @zahraali7905
    @zahraali7905 2 года назад +10

    I did the same mistake. And after stopping screen time I saw a lot of improvement in my son.

    • @amriksain7227
      @amriksain7227 2 года назад

      Kitna saal ka baby hai ..aur kitna time ho gaya screen zero karte huwe?

    • @zahraali7905
      @zahraali7905 2 года назад

      I still give him 1 hour screen time in a week . And I make the screen time interactive for him

  • @ruqqiasyed3715
    @ruqqiasyed3715 8 месяцев назад

    I have great regards for your efforts. Informative and touching

  • @IAS505
    @IAS505 2 года назад +3

    Thank you so much dear, may God bless you all 🥺❤️

  • @parulsaxena7229
    @parulsaxena7229 Год назад +2

    I can relate. Pls keep on creating video's.

  • @manishasoam771
    @manishasoam771 3 года назад +3

    Hi Ina m feeling same guilt.. mera beta 4.6 bahut visual le rha h aajkal fingers ko shadow me dekh kr touch ka b issue h abhi thoda..wht can I do? Rudi ka 2yrs of age me mild sym k sath diagnose hua tha bt starting me therapist ne bahut bewkuf banaya so abhi nonverbal hi h kuch sound start hui h ab..2.6 yrs se therapies le rhe h yaar..pls help us🙏

    • @sehrishsheheryar9104
      @sehrishsheheryar9104 3 года назад +2

      Plz screen time zero karo slowly in 15 days.. u will see a drastic change ...as i do...
      Give time to ur child play with him with ball and toys daily ..increase his seating time and eyecontact ...and sit with him on table chair just like in school and teach him colouring drawing abc etc ..flash cards to increase his vocabolary ..once increase his vocabulary to 600 words atleast ...then he will start talking ..i promise u ...
      Since i have start doing these things my child is start talking plus behaving normal plus she is more happy now .. i swear and these are those things which i have learnt from expert advices..so plz take it serious...no body can change ur child ...mom is the best therapist...do check videos on sitting time...eyecontact...

    • @poojajain98
      @poojajain98 3 года назад +2

      @@sehrishsheheryar9104 Hello, my son is 2.7 year old. He has Autism. He was exposed to screen even before 1 yr old. There was less play and more screen time. There was hardly any eye contact. No response to name. He was flapping his hands, toe walking was there and side glancing. He was obsessed with bottle pictures and few pictures from books. Doctor told us these autistic features triggered due to lack of stimulation. We started with Infant stimulation therapy and now zero screen time. Now slowly showing some improvement like eye contact and name responding is increased. Sitting tolerance is also improved. Just started pointing at very few pictures. Babbling a lot these days .Still not sure whether this is virtual autism or classic autism. If it's Virtual, can it be cured with therapy? Whether all sensory issues resolves with proper therapy. Please guide

  • @showfashion9557
    @showfashion9557 3 года назад +1

    Maine Aaj 10 pm se start kiye Aapke videos dekhna, aur abhi tak mai dekh rahi hu

  • @Neelam_Ji
    @Neelam_Ji 2 года назад +7

    My daughter is 2.5 years old. Up to 2 year she watched lots of cartoon but from last 3 month we completely banned mobile's screen. Now she don't need mobile screen. My question is In how much time her understanding will increase and she starts to speak. At present she sometimes randomly says papa, mumma only

    • @keerthi4441
      @keerthi4441 2 года назад

      How is ur child now any improvement?

    • @Neelam_Ji
      @Neelam_Ji 2 года назад

      @@keerthi4441 No Improvement, As usual but I hope her understanding will increase with passage of time, Hopefully she can talk more in coming future.

    • @keerthi4441
      @keerthi4441 2 года назад

      @@Neelam_Ji she maintains eye contact and name response? Are you giving any therapies, what did doctor say

    • @nipajannatul3949
      @nipajannatul3949 Год назад

      same here, he talks a lot with nonsense words like gigga, diya, kiya,

    • @mohitsekhawat634
      @mohitsekhawat634 Год назад

      @@nipajannatul3949 age?? And other symptoms?

  • @philthy1312
    @philthy1312 Год назад +1

    My 20 month old son was watching two movies a day minimum and is way behind in his development. I’m trying to limit it to 1hr a day MAX!

  • @MomLifeAndBeauty
    @MomLifeAndBeauty 3 года назад +7

    How long does it usually take for the screentime effects go to after stopping completely?

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  3 года назад +5

      It ranges from 1 to 3 years.. If u see changes within a month then ur child can cope up within an year but again regular engagement is very much required

    • @afsahfarooq710
      @afsahfarooq710 3 года назад

      I feel like my toddler's brain still works fully only when he sees the screen accidentally eg. when I am using my phone. I don't know what it's called he hasn't been seen a professional yet

    • @reena7856
      @reena7856 2 года назад +1

      @@aforautism6808hello mam..sorry I couldn't understand ur language.. what autism affects ur baby virtual or classic..whn u diagnosed it? Mam.. I m also face same prblm .. my baby is 1.6 months now...he watched to much of ryms since age 6 month...I stop screen time last 6 weeks .. I can see some changes in his behavior .. but eye contact and name calling response still poor.. isn't curable? Mam how long its take time?

    • @rajwinderkaur1107
      @rajwinderkaur1107 2 года назад

      @@reena7856 same here dear

    • @reena7856
      @reena7856 2 года назад

      @@rajwinderkaur1107 what's ur baby's age.. did u consult the doctor..my baby is improving

  • @purple3111
    @purple3111 Год назад +2

    Hi all,
    My daughter,before 2.5, she was perfectly alright.. used to speak a few words and was a happy kid.. covid time changed our life.. she started to watch lots of tv.. because of covid situation, we never took her out to play with other kids.. we were so scared if she got covid.. coming to the current situation, we enrolled her in a daycare 3 months back.. but she is not interested in playing with any kids.. she likes to be around her caretakers.. she speaks very minimum words.. doesn't follow any commands .. if I call her name, she won't respond .. but if I call her name along with her favorite food name,then she looks and comes towards us... poor eye contact also.. we stopped her screen time to zero around 3 months back (same time she joined playschool).. she totally adjusted with it.. but she is in her own world without following any commands or not using language for her needs.. she never asks any questions like what or why? May be she doesn't know it at all.. we are starting her speech therapy.. waiting for the admission.
    I was so worried and did her analysis.. and the result is saying mild autism.. I'm planning to resign my IT job and focus only on my daughter..somewhere my mind is saying she may have virtual autism.. because she can remember lots of images from her books and answer me, though..
    Could you please let me know. What do you think.. is it virtual or classic..
    I'm really sorry for such a lengthy message.. I hope you can understand my situation.. Thank you so much for every single piece of advice..

    • @capricon6113
      @capricon6113 Год назад +1

      Go for assessment

    • @hkaur6299
      @hkaur6299 Год назад

      I am also a software developer that's my email id is like this....I have same symptoms like your daughter have.. doc also said me same...

    • @meenusaharan9023
      @meenusaharan9023 Год назад +1

      looks like virtual autism. Stopping screen time and interacting with child will help to fully cure in 1 year or so.

    • @purple3111
      @purple3111 Год назад

      @@meenusaharan9023
      Thank you.. thank you so much.

    • @medicalguideawareness8889
      @medicalguideawareness8889 10 месяцев назад

      Your daughter improved? Is she verbal now?

  • @Iluvmydogs128
    @Iluvmydogs128 Год назад +6

    My daughter went from not responding to her name at all, using side eye and not pointing using an index finger and only saying 2 word at 21 months and to responding to her name 10 out of 10 times, pointing and saying over 60 words at 24 months all from significantly reducing the iPad time

  • @preetijaiswal766
    @preetijaiswal766 2 года назад +1

    Knowledgeable video and Don't worry very soon your child will call you mummy .

  • @acmilan1890
    @acmilan1890 2 года назад +16

    Indeed True, my daughter is 6 now and unfortunately we did same mistake to give her mobile and i pad since before her 1st birthday and I am pretty sure that is a main cause of ASD. Now we have reduced screen time which is effectively working and we can see quite good outcomes. Please parents try to engage your child as much as you can which is very very helpful to develop understanding.

    • @RenuSharma-qu5eu
      @RenuSharma-qu5eu 2 года назад +1

      Ab kaisa h apka bacha

    • @rashidaparveenca
      @rashidaparveenca 2 года назад +1

      please share how you have handle ths problem

    • @acmilan1890
      @acmilan1890 2 года назад

      @@RenuSharma-qu5eu overall she is fine, but we need to really work hard on her speech. She is now on Ecolilia and single word communication.

    • @RenuSharma-qu5eu
      @RenuSharma-qu5eu 2 года назад

      @@acmilan1890 to kya use autism h

    • @RenuSharma-qu5eu
      @RenuSharma-qu5eu 2 года назад

      @@acmilan1890
      To kya use autism h

  • @navlimr9133
    @navlimr9133 Год назад +1

    My distant 12 years old nephew’s screen time is 12-14 hours. He misbehaves when he is disturbed while watching. There is no way out we can work on him. He studies in boarding from past 2 months but he when he comes home he follows the same routine and yes he is mild autistic, doesn’t chew any food and eats only diluted rice and dal.

  • @tabassumzaka7098
    @tabassumzaka7098 2 года назад +3

    Hi mam....
    Same story here...intact completely same,my son too was born in 2016 he is of the same age,same issue,...he is very brainy...he remembers things a year behind also..but lack behind in speech....after watching ur videos I stopped giving him screen to zero which was earlier 8 to 10 hours a day...after that I can see improvement in responding to name and eye contact..but little bit he became aggressive, and hyperactivityis also more after that,when he is at home he is fine but gharke Bahar he is uncontrollable.....but phir bhi I can manage,I just wanted him to start to speak after that all other issues may be controlled.....what can I do to start him speak...

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 года назад

      Check activity playlist and therapies at home playlist

    • @tabassumzaka7098
      @tabassumzaka7098 2 года назад

      @@aforautism6808 ok thank you

    • @neetisaxena6520
      @neetisaxena6520 2 года назад +1

      I m facing same problem..my child is hyperactive..ghr k bahar to he runs without break .

    • @keerthi4441
      @keerthi4441 2 года назад

      Same with my kid her hyper activity increased after screen removal, how is your kid now is it virtual autism for your kid or classic one? Please reply

    • @aishabaangi8929
      @aishabaangi8929 Год назад

      ​@@neetisaxena6520 same mera baby bhi aisa he kar raha hai... toh abhi apka baby ka kaisa improvement hai... plz reply

  • @kavitamahour74
    @kavitamahour74 2 года назад +1

    Thank you di apki videos dekhi mujhe bohot help mili

  • @ThePulsedance
    @ThePulsedance 3 года назад +5

    Hi Ina, start commenting on the environment as well. Comment everything in the environment and surroundings.
    Has three steps-
    1. Tell the child- THIS IS A SHOE. THIS IS A SHOE.
    2. Fill in the blanks- THIS IS A..... THIS IS A...
    3. Let the child tell you... Show me the show. (No prompts)

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  3 года назад +1

      Thanks pallavi i will do this.. I am sure this will work like other tricks you hve earlier advised

    • @ThePulsedance
      @ThePulsedance 3 года назад

      @@aforautism6808 hahaha not tricks. These are the skills, techniques, strategies- whatever you may wanna call. Not trick.

    • @aroramohit81
      @aroramohit81 3 года назад +1

      Will you please share your contact information.
      We need help for our 3 year boy.
      My email id is luckymohitarora@gmail.com
      WhatsApp 7743096874

    • @ThePulsedance
      @ThePulsedance 3 года назад +1

      @@aroramohit81 sure. You may contact on me on 882626642 and Instagram - @BodiesSpeak

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  3 года назад +1

      @@aroramohit81 please check the description box on one of my videos session on autism with Phsycologistpallavi

  • @poojavishnoi5963
    @poojavishnoi5963 7 месяцев назад +1

    Hello mam mere baby ko autism diagnose hua hai middle hai Abhi vah 2 year ka hai kya kya karna chahie jisse improvement Ho usko

    • @hamarichhotisiduniya7467
      @hamarichhotisiduniya7467 7 месяцев назад

      Aap ghar me khub bate karo age kam h badi jaldi recover hoga mere bete 3 years pe pta chala avi 6 month se t.v.phone sab band kar di bahut improve kiya h...

  • @rekhayadav3737
    @rekhayadav3737 3 года назад +4

    Mam, Thank you so much. apki is video se mere bht sare doubt clear ho gaye hai. Maine bhi same galti ki hai. Screen exposure bht tha mere baby ko.

  • @shallusharma2751
    @shallusharma2751 3 года назад +2

    😘😘😘 for Viraj nd special you dear ❤️

  • @devidasdandge9114
    @devidasdandge9114 3 года назад +4

    Konse age me viraj ko autism Diagnosis hua hai? Thanks mam your explanation is very good and genuine.. Viraj jaldhi hi thik ho jayega

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  3 года назад

      Viraj jab 3.10 ka tha.. Thank u so much for sending blessings

  • @archanamorbale5377
    @archanamorbale5377 2 года назад +1

    My son is 2.3 month,mai use khana khilate time vedio dikhati hu,but abhi nahi dikhungi lekin wo 1 bar steps ya chalne laga to wahi karata raheta hai,usko waha se hatana bohot problematic ho jata hai,bohot rota hai,vedio ke bina khana khata hi nahi hai

    • @archanamorbale5377
      @archanamorbale5377 2 года назад

      Wo abhi tak bolta nahi hai,sirf mummy,papa, rhymes Jo sunta hai wo upar dekhate idhar udhar dekhate gungunata hai,but properly pappa ko pappa nahi bolta ,tata byby ye bolta hai

    • @RenuSharma-qu5eu
      @RenuSharma-qu5eu 2 года назад

      @@archanamorbale5377 doctor ne kya btaya

  • @Awesomeite4life
    @Awesomeite4life 2 года назад +3

    Ma'am, I am new to this channel. Where are you based? I am based in Mumbai and my baby who is almost 3 has been diagnosed autistic. Some symptoms of autism that my baby showed were:
    1: Tiptoeing
    2: Doesn't react to her name
    However, she is fairly active, plays with other kids, and loves swimming and playground sports.
    The doctor said that there's nothing like virtual autism which really made me question the diagnosis. My baby had irregular sleep patterns when she was with my in-laws and unfortunately that is where they used to hand her mobile to calm her down.
    Can you suggest if I should check with other doctors and whether you can recommend a good doctor in Mumbai. I am very scared.

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 года назад +1

      Pls watch my videos on toe walking and response to name both are available in the playlist autism therapies at home.. and no clue about mumbai dear.. u need to go to a developmental pediatrician and get the diagnosis done first hand without delays

    • @Awesomeite4life
      @Awesomeite4life 2 года назад

      @@aforautism6808 Thanks, will surely do that.

    • @akhila7309
      @akhila7309 2 года назад +1

      Hii..my 3 years old son diagnosed with mild autism.we stay in mumbai.we have consulted Dr Roopa srinivasan in vashi and Dr Sandeep kamath in govandi (it's a very small clinic).

    • @prabukrishnamurthy3490
      @prabukrishnamurthy3490 Год назад

      ⁠@@akhila7309please how is your son doing now. Hopefully you are seeing lots of improvement? Is he in a therapy?

  • @zainmoin2457
    @zainmoin2457 2 года назад +2

    Exactly same case form my side. 2 days before my child is diagnosed with virtual autism. Please give me some possible solutions to overcome this problem.

  • @stutipanigrahi6642
    @stutipanigrahi6642 2 года назад +6

    Hi!! I have been watching your videos.... Very informative and I wish I had seen earlier....My daughter is 2.5 now with same problem... She was developing normally and hit all her milestones till 2 ... Interacting with us normally... She had some screen time but not much.. I saw completely lost within just 4 weeks time due to excessive screen mostly TV and change in environment where not much people were there to play with... I wish I could go back and turn the time

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 года назад

      Dont worry stuti...just zero the screentime start working with her she will cope up with the time she has lost

    • @reena7856
      @reena7856 2 года назад

      @@aforautism6808 I couldn't understand ur language..can u tell me which autism affects ur baby?when u diagnosed? How is u baby now?

    • @keerthi4441
      @keerthi4441 2 года назад +1

      Is she maintaining eye contact

    • @vanitameena7883
      @vanitameena7883 Год назад

      Hw is ur daughter now pls explain

    • @stutipanigrahi6642
      @stutipanigrahi6642 Год назад

      @@keerthi4441 sorry I had not seen ur msg.... my daughter still has difficulty in maintaining eye contact

  • @VANDANAVERMA-r2b
    @VANDANAVERMA-r2b 7 месяцев назад

    Mam aapke baby konsi age se therapy par rkha or itne time tk rkha plz mam reply

  • @harpreetrait3260
    @harpreetrait3260 3 года назад +6

    Yes thanks for sharing, when full time working we repeat those mistakes but yes so worried now too

    • @afsahfarooq710
      @afsahfarooq710 3 года назад +3

      please stop his screen time immediately and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. it's only your hardwork and struggles are going to heal him good luck

  • @ambreenasif2939
    @ambreenasif2939 9 месяцев назад +1

    My baby is 2 years old. If i stop givibg her mobile now so it will be helpful or not?

  • @himabindu7840
    @himabindu7840 3 года назад +12

    Same story I can totally relate with you I have seen a lot of improvement in his speech and behaviour without screentime

    • @manojnahar2744
      @manojnahar2744 3 года назад

      Apka bacha kitne year ka h mera 2ka h use kese sikhao

    • @safiyakhan1034
      @safiyakhan1034 3 года назад +1

      @@manojnahar2744 mera bachcha bhi Alhamdolillah 90 percent thik ho gya

    • @poonamsingh2244
      @poonamsingh2244 3 года назад

      @@safiyakhan1034 apka bacche ka bh screen time bhut jayda tha kya aur kitne month laga tha thk hone me please reply

    • @safiyakhan1034
      @safiyakhan1034 3 года назад

      @@poonamsingh2244 month nhi saalo lage

    • @poonamsingh2244
      @poonamsingh2244 3 года назад

      @@safiyakhan1034 ap apne bacche ke sath kya kya activities karte the therapy bh join karaye the kya please btaye na mai apni beti ke liye bhut presan hu yo abhi 2.3 ki hai screen time uska bh bhut jayda tha pahle uski speech bh ayi thi phir bnd kar di bolna

  • @parulshukla3745
    @parulshukla3745 10 месяцев назад

    Mam plzz help mera baby 3.3year ka h name response krta hai.. Atoz chota aa bada aa sab aata h use gk bhi aata h use uske sath problem h wo baithta nhi h aur agar kisi cheez ki zidd aa gyi use ex balloon phir use wo chahiye.. Itna rota itna jyada out of control ho jata h Mujhse handle nhi hota h phir mai marti bhi hu use.. Mai kya kru mobile dekhta h 😭😭😭😭

  • @teekshar914
    @teekshar914 3 года назад +3

    Pleas please add subtitle mam if possible
    I don't know Hindi if English it would be helpful even tamil

  • @MamtaSingh-e2i
    @MamtaSingh-e2i 10 месяцев назад

    Apka bacha kitne saal ka h..kya wo thoda vm nhi bolta..same prblm mere sath h

  • @shwetasinha455
    @shwetasinha455 3 года назад +4

    U r very hard working mom...

  • @neetatomar5133
    @neetatomar5133 10 месяцев назад

    Mam mere sath bhi same yhi hua hai 😢😢mera beta 3 saal ka hai but use jyada samjh nhi hai cheejo ko samjh nhi pata main bhut tention me rahti hun mam plzzzzzzz meri help kro plz. Plz plz🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @showfashion9557
    @showfashion9557 3 года назад +4

    Same I did same mistake,,, I engaged him with screen very much

  • @hinaparbin6780
    @hinaparbin6780 Год назад

    Mam plzzz reply karna reqst me😢😢😢 mera bacha 9 mahine se bat sikh gaya tha mama papa dada dadi nana ye sb ward sikh gaya tha 18 mahine ke bad o bat karna bhul gaya mama papa kuch nhi bolta usko nam bulane se v nhi sunta hai screen time v 0 kardiye o or nhi dekhta bolta v nhi h mbl k liye eye contact v karta hai bas bolta nhi or kuch sunta nhi avi uska 2 year hone ku 1 mont baki h kya karu mam boliye plzzzzzzzz😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @husaynvlogs1366
    @husaynvlogs1366 2 года назад +4

    I live in Canada my baby was born during pendemic time due to extreme weather here and lockdown conditions he had lot of screen time till his age of 2, now his condition is he is not responding to name and don’t interact with other kids love the swings he like to sit on swing for hours, his Pediatrition said he is not by birth autistic but going towards autism from last 2 weeks we cut down the screen time to zero, he started eating without screen time I took him out for walk he started noticing things but now he always demands to go out bht bht did krta h ghanton Rota h isko kaise trigger karon any suggestions he is 2 year old he speaks very few words he loves rhymes which I sing with him he tries to immitate me

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 года назад

      U really need to give maximum outdoor exposure

    • @Mehakji2321
      @Mehakji2321 2 года назад

      Buy indoor swing, buy exercise baloon for him. Engage him in physical activities.

    • @PriyankaSingh-ob2vn
      @PriyankaSingh-ob2vn 2 года назад

      How is ur baby now?

    • @husaynvlogs1366
      @husaynvlogs1366 2 года назад

      @@PriyankaSingh-ob2vn he is much better now starting to understand things it’s a bit easy to distract him now he is 2.5 year old now he still cries for things but like not for hrs

    • @keerthi4441
      @keerthi4441 2 года назад

      Same here with my baby.we live in Canada too, we stopped giving phone and tv trying to interact with her, but she is not maintaining eye contact and some other autism signs like flapping hands.she hardly gives eye contact and when she gives will say few words. Iam really worried how to cure her. How is ur baby now is he speaking? Did you gave any therapy

  • @ashishsinghgalgotia
    @ashishsinghgalgotia Год назад

    Mam mai aap se ek bar baat karna chahta hu।।।plz meri ek beti hai।।।Mai usko leke bahut concerned rahta hu।।।mam plz meri beti attention deti hai।।par wo hand flap karti hai thoda bahut।।।।par bolti nahi।।। ishare bhi Kam karti hai।।fan on kar deti hai।।।ac dekhti hai।।apna naam samjhti hai।। अक्षर भी बोलती है।।मेरे पापा बोलने पर पापा बोलती है।टाटा करने पर टाटा बोलती है।।दो साल की होने वाली है पर बोलती नही।।।। खुश होकर हस्ती है।।पर कई बार मैं बहुत चिंतित रहता हूं।।mam plz ek bar aap se baat karni hai।।plz meri bahut help ho jayegi situation ko asses karne me aur time se solve karne me plz mam plz

  • @arorala
    @arorala 3 года назад +4

    I did the same with my child...now I am in depression 😞

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  3 года назад +1

      Hi lalit.. First dont be depressed its a journey that we are into and we have to be of sound mind to make our child capable.. Also if u are not feeling good can you please watch my video autism has a cure it will help ur mental state currently 🙏

    • @aishamehmood2457
      @aishamehmood2457 3 года назад +3

      nhi depression mein nhi jana... do work hard for ur child... in shaa Allah everything will better with ur time.. with ur work hard

  • @copy2u
    @copy2u Год назад

    I did same mistake my son is 2.4 year old now from last 30days his screen time totally stopped now he started playing with toys n maine usse toddlers school mai bhejna suru kar Diya hai

  • @nusratjahan-pzdhfj
    @nusratjahan-pzdhfj 3 года назад +5

    Eye opening 4 me as a parent

  • @meghapraveenhota7218
    @meghapraveenhota7218 Год назад +1

    Hi
    I really want to know before 3 days my daughter she is diagnosed with autism i am really worried ,did viraj had eye contact because my daughter she had very less eye contacts. We have stopped screen time and even we are taking her to the therapist

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  Год назад

      Viraj had poor eye contact and in autism kids lack eye contact

  • @kamalmann2211
    @kamalmann2211 3 года назад +3

    I am in same situation.. ruined childhood of my kid.. I cry every day now.. he is suffering because of me

    • @ThePulsedance
      @ThePulsedance 3 года назад

      Hey Kamal, I can very well understand how you must be feeling.
      Help is always around, for you and your child. Look for professional help.
      Sometimes, we need guidance that even our parents can provide, since the problems are new age, and they require a blend of old age & new age solutions.
      Minimise the screen time. No phones or tablets at all. You may show Television screen but only when you are supervising, and narrating, having a conversation with your child about whatever you are watching on tv.
      This conversational skill is completely absent when the child watches phone or tablet screen, and promoting Indiviual play and seclusion from social settings

    • @kamalmann2211
      @kamalmann2211 3 года назад +1

      @@ThePulsedance thank you for your kind words.. yes I am now doing everything in my capacity to support him.. but still I am at that initial stage where I constantly think that wish I had known better.
      I can do it. Mothers like Ina are an inspiration. Thank you for starting this channel Ina..

    • @reena7856
      @reena7856 2 года назад +1

      @@kamalmann2211 how is ur baby now? Is he improving?

    • @kamalmann2211
      @kamalmann2211 2 года назад

      @reena yes yes.. he has improved alot. We switched off TV and other electronic media completely. Communicating and playing with him alot. Giving him lot of time. All his virtual autism signs are gone now. He has been attending speech therapy sessions as well. He is still way behind in speech as compared to peer group but he is learning every day.

    • @reena7856
      @reena7856 2 года назад

      @@kamalmann2211 what's your baby s age? Can he understand everything? ..my baby also affected by virtual autism...so depressed..how long u cut the screen time?..

  • @MansiPatil-oz2md
    @MansiPatil-oz2md 7 месяцев назад

    Thanks for informing dear
    Good job

  • @keerthireddy4269
    @keerthireddy4269 3 месяца назад

    Same issue. How many months may it take for them to call us mummy? My kid is now 2 years old, and we started zero screen time for a week.

  • @kavitahanda2482
    @kavitahanda2482 3 года назад +1

    Maine bhi same mistake ki hai ..mere bete bhi all time lockdown mein dekhta tha ..hmne dyn nhi diya..vo bhi kch ni bolta ..ab maine bilkul hi bnd kr diya hai...pta ni kb tk hoga mera beta

    • @abdullahsdiary3591
      @abdullahsdiary3591 3 года назад

      Uski age kia hai ?

    • @kavitahanda2482
      @kavitahanda2482 3 года назад

      @@abdullahsdiary3591 3year hai

    • @abdullahsdiary3591
      @abdullahsdiary3591 3 года назад +1

      @@kavitahanda2482 kb sy screen off ki hai ap ny ? Kya effect aya hy bachy pe ?

    • @kavitahanda2482
      @kavitahanda2482 3 года назад +1

      @@abdullahsdiary3591 4 months ho gye hai bnd ki huye..bolta nhi hai kch bhi or dyn km detta hai.pehle tk tha lockdown ke time mera beta 1 nd half year ka tha..bs oske baad song hi sunta tha bs maine bhi dyn nhi diya or j aisa ho gya..

  • @mahwishmunawwar3368
    @mahwishmunawwar3368 4 месяца назад

    Mein bohot ziada pareshan hoon. Mera beta bilkul theek tha . Responsive tha phir sb ne screen dena shuru kar dia sb ne. Mana b karti thi . Ab us mein autism diagnose hua hai. Screentime khatam karny se kya ye theek ho jata hai

  • @reekhitasurajsrivastava6584
    @reekhitasurajsrivastava6584 2 года назад +1

    Mam aap bhut acha explain krti hain👍👍👍

  • @subodhmore1778
    @subodhmore1778 11 месяцев назад

    How is your child now it's been 2 years for this video

  • @sangram24patil
    @sangram24patil 2 года назад +1

    Hellow mam
    Mam mere bete ka screen time 3 se 4 ghante tha pure 1 saal ke liye jab woh 2 saal 3 mahine ka hua tab doctor ne bataya ki mere bete ko screen time ki wajah se autism hua hai. Ab woh 2 saal 6 mahine ka hua hai. Accupational therepy aur doctor ki treatment chalu hai par abhi tak woh response nahi de raha hai. Hum log bahut try kar rahe hai ki woh response de par koe fayda nahi ho raha hai. Mam please bataye ki woh kab tak reply dega aur kitna samay lagega use thik hone me.

  • @rumanhussain8415
    @rumanhussain8415 11 месяцев назад +1

    Virtual atijum totally thik ho salty ha plz ans

  • @mehakjan2280
    @mehakjan2280 Год назад

    My story plzz btaye ab mai kesay thik karon isay same apkay baby walay symptoms hai 😢 mujhy btaye mai kya karon

  • @amrutamurhade4664
    @amrutamurhade4664 8 месяцев назад

    Kab se start kiya tha viraj ne bolna

  • @asmakashif7010
    @asmakashif7010 3 года назад +1

    Viraj koi awaz nai nikalta kiya ya babbling kerta Hy ya nai ? Actually Mary Bata ko bhi issues hyn is liya pucha

  • @VANDANAVERMA-r2b
    @VANDANAVERMA-r2b 7 месяцев назад

    Mam mera 2.5 year ka baby h attention nhi deta h or bolta nhi h mene screen time bilkul zero kr diya h therpy start kr d jb se mobile bnd h wo bolta to h par smjh nhi aata meaningless word bolta h ..mam plz btao wo thik to ho jayega na

  • @tickoo7740
    @tickoo7740 2 года назад +1

    Mam mere bete ko concept of letters ye numbers colours yaad nahi rehta hai pls help me mam

  • @ritumishra5216
    @ritumishra5216 2 года назад +1

    Hi,my child is now 1 yr old is a very poor eater so I started showing Mobile to him so that he eats. Now he refuses to eat without mobile. Please suggest what to do. Rest he has started to walk and he keeps walking all the time

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 года назад +1

      Try to mute the sound of the video and rather u talk then gradually change the video to digital pictures and then stop

    • @ritumishra5216
      @ritumishra5216 2 года назад

      Thanks a lot. Loads of love to Viraj.

  • @reena7856
    @reena7856 2 года назад

    Mam at what age u diagnosed virtual autism in ur baby ?and how long it's take to recover? Rply me...I couldn't understand ur language

  • @izaankhan8018
    @izaankhan8018 3 года назад +1

    Thanku soo much mam viraaj😘😘😘😘

  • @shambhavipramod3251
    @shambhavipramod3251 2 года назад

    Hi mam...kya vertual autisum me bhi baccha verbal stimming karta hai kya..jaise ajeeb sounds nikaalna ..please reply karo

  • @ADYANTAGARWAL
    @ADYANTAGARWAL 5 месяцев назад

    Ma'am aap kaun se game khilati ho??? Mobile par ???

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  5 месяцев назад

      Ab koi games nai dete dear screen time zero hai bilkul . Ye video bahut zyada purana hai

  • @preetichaudhary8785
    @preetichaudhary8785 2 года назад +1

    My son is 2 years old...he understand everything he learn who I teach him....vah chijo ko pointing karke batata hai respond to name hai mumma papa family members ko finger se batata hai but bolta nahi hai kya ye speech delay hai ya autism ho sakta hai me samjh nahi paa rhi hu...

    • @StreetBuzzNews
      @StreetBuzzNews 2 года назад

      Consult doctor immediately. Spend more time with him and spend time in nature with him . Teach him 1 word. Speak in middle /center of head softly touching with mother's voice .

    • @anishkamal46tiwari10
      @anishkamal46tiwari10 2 года назад

      Pointing karta he to no problem
      Speech deley not autism

  • @sankk6994
    @sankk6994 Год назад

    M bhi 3.3 year tk mobile de diya mere bete ko abhi 1 month hone wala h bnd kr diya h thoda thoda improve ho rha h aage kya kru pls suggest

  • @gangandhillon2384
    @gangandhillon2384 2 года назад

    Mam kiya viraj abhi bilkul thik ho gya hai?????

  • @priyankasharma000
    @priyankasharma000 6 месяцев назад

    Same with my daughter.she is 5 yr old.I need your help to recover her.how i can contact you?

  • @kidsactivities6643
    @kidsactivities6643 Год назад

    Ma'am school m settle nhi ho pa raha hai, teacher n bola dusro ko push kr deta h , indirect teacher k Kahn h school mt vejiye ,ky Karu m 6 years ho gya h

  • @hjmm.2613
    @hjmm.2613 9 месяцев назад

    What level was your child when first diagnosed with Autism? What level is he now?

  • @kulsumkhan776
    @kulsumkhan776 2 года назад

    Mam aap kaha se h konse doctor ko dikhaya h aapne plz share me

  • @sheebakhan8609
    @sheebakhan8609 2 года назад +1

    Mam Mera beta 3 year ka h. Uska screen time bhot jyada tha lockdown se. usse pehle sb normal tha response to name chala gya eye contact chla gya or uska behavior bhot change ho gya. 2 month pehle se screen time 0 kr diya hai. Tbse uska eye contact 70% improve hua but name response nhi aaya . Mere bete ko mild autism daigonose hua hai Family me Mai or mere husband h. Jaha hm rehte hai vha social environment nhi hai sb log apne aap me rehte hai. Mujhe Kya krna chahiye plz

    • @vedanshmomfood1606
      @vedanshmomfood1606 Год назад

      Ab kesa h aapka baby

    • @sheebakhan8609
      @sheebakhan8609 Год назад

      @@vedanshmomfood1606 pehle se kafi improve hai but bolta nhi hai abhi kuch .

    • @vedanshmomfood1606
      @vedanshmomfood1606 Год назад

      Therapy de rhe ho kya aap

    • @sheebakhan8609
      @sheebakhan8609 Год назад

      @@vedanshmomfood1606 starting me krayi thi ab ghar pr hi kr rhi hu.

    • @purple3111
      @purple3111 Год назад

      ​@@sheebakhan8609same here.. may I ask, how's your baby now?
      Did your kid respond to name? Follow commands? Sit with you and play? How is the attention? Could you please compare before and after screen time to 0.. sorry for lots of questions.

  • @saptaparnamaitra7425
    @saptaparnamaitra7425 Год назад

    Thank you mam, I will stop screen time immediately. I mostly do it while trying to feed him. But it is not required he will eat anyways without tv, just its a bad habit

  • @nishantgupta3721
    @nishantgupta3721 3 года назад +1

    Kya hum eska homeopathy treatment kara sakte hai

  • @PoojaSharma-kt8mz
    @PoojaSharma-kt8mz 2 года назад

    Hii mam, apke bete me kuch fark aaya h. Mera beta 5 yr old h, vo abi tk bolna nhi sikha h. Apne apke bete ko speech therpy karvai to , kya vo bolne lag gaya h. Plz share krna.

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 года назад

      Hi pooja maine therapist se pichle do sal se therapy nai karwai hai viraj k pass meaningful words kafi time se hain use verbally express karna abhi nai ata bahut kam need base cheeze bolta hai abhi

    • @RenuSharma-qu5eu
      @RenuSharma-qu5eu 2 года назад

      Doctor ne kya bola apke bete ko

  • @kiranzaheer2955
    @kiranzaheer2955 Год назад

    Aslam alekum kesi ha ap
    Mera beta sarim 2.8 ka ho geya ha lakin betar NAHI hora😢😢😢 itni mehnat b kr rhi ho screen time kafi raha uska lakin ab screen time off kr diya ha lakin wo humari bat nyi sunta

  • @neelumperveen3823
    @neelumperveen3823 2 года назад +2

    Sister Keep working hard,one day u will see him doing every thing.

  • @OsinamYomso
    @OsinamYomso 3 месяца назад

    Mera 5yrs ka ladka avi v clear baat nhe kr pa raha hai chota age Mae bht screen time tha

  • @chandnisingh6510
    @chandnisingh6510 2 года назад

    Rhymes on the speaker can play? For listening and speaking

    • @aforautism6808
      @aforautism6808  2 года назад

      Yes you can but keep it limited and check if ur baby does not pick up echolalia.. if not then its fine