As a man too, because you know what happens to men who try to share their true feelings and their emotional side, they soon realize exactly why they weren't sharing it in the first place
I don't think like that. A lotta ppl really work on themselves. Also, there are ppl who are shit but still in a relationship. Ain't supporting them. Just saying. You always have to work on yourself
REALL we only think about what we can get, when in reality when you think about what you can give, that is when the universe gives you what you want tenfold. but that is when you have that pure intention without the ulterior motive of gaining or taking something. think what you can give, without the desire/ulterior motive to take in return. give to give, not give to take. obviously it should be an equal balance relationships are a 2-way street, but don't only think of yourself. make your friends and loved ones feel special, imporant, loved. they want the same things that you do, after all.
tell them everything trust me its better than letting it accumulate and it will cause more harm than it should , i dont promise anything about their response but i wish someone told me to do so earlier, and i wish you a happy life regardless of their unswer . good luck .
Let them know, release yourself of this burden, the suffering you may endure as a result of rejection is nothing compared to the suffering of perpetual anxiety
i met the love of my life the next day after letting go of people who made me feel like genuine love was too much the world is so much prettier than we often let ourselves see
Everywhere i look i see couples kissing, hugging and being happy. Meanwhile I'm here all alone wondering why i somehow can't have that or even friends for that matter, while remembering every time i got rejected or ignored and every friendship that just evaporated, wondering why they all seem to want to avoid me(?) I've heard so many things at this point that I really don't know what to believe and feel completely lost... "Oh it's your looks, oh it's your social skills, oh it's your height, oh it's your confidence, oh you don't talk enough, oh it's your money, your aura, your whatever..." I'm getting to a point where it's becoming increasingly difficult to actually believe it will happen, all the while I'm forced to watch all the people i grew up with find it so effortlessly... Sometimes i can't help but feel someone or something is playing a cruel joke on me....
thats so unfair mate i acc hurt for u so bad, i think when ur somewhere like that no matter how fucked up and unjust the situation is you need to stick with what you have, which is yourself. Even if when u go outside and everything u see seems to be working against you or you get rejected or fucked over, the one thing you can control is yourself right? liking and even loving yourself is hard when ur lacking external validation, but that means that when you finally get there itll be all the more true, and you won't need to worry about it collapsing if someone leaves your life, cause you made it yourself, and it's something that, even nowadays, not many people have. You're infinitely more valuable than your money or social skills or looks because you're a person and a life that can't be wasted. Don't wait for someone else to make you live it. And i promise what comes after is better than temporary happiness, it's contentment. And that lives forever and will nurture you through any other hardships you face, which im sure you'd have the strength to push through anyway. idk i just really wanted to reply and let you know that you're worth a friendship with yourself. Im a serial waffler i hope that made sense but idk how to word it any better. anyways love u stay safe mate
What @cherryantacids said was brilliant on its own, but I could add some rare or original knowledge that isn't readily apparent: Other than you get to keep all your own good memories without others distorting them or projecting negatively against what you know to be true. Also, my best lasting memories of relationships, friendships and love interests, never needed any of the things conventional ""wisdom"" throws at you. I didn't need money, clout, credentials or success for them to happen and many people who have those things, unfortunately never had or felt any of the things I have experienced or lived through. Truly though, I think people who don't appreciate others are the ones who are found lacking in humaneness and a proper sense of ethics. If I have been able to turn enemies good, how is it that others can't even do the same with people who aren't even hostile or diametrically opposed? In this way, I have come to realize that most fixate on the wrong things from the outset. A common example is being asked "What do you do?", as if the whole of one's life experiences beyond it can be irreversibly reduced to how they make their money... if any. None of my loves asked me this, and it's considered poor etiquette to do so if the conversation isn't already about mutual fields of expertise or gathering references for potential networking. Speaking of which, people can find each other on meetup. Since there is no excessive checklists of prerequisites unless a group is using it in that way. You are sure to eventually form bonds with whoever you share hobbies or interests with. So consider checking that out. 🤷🏻 Besides that, make your own "mind palace" for sanctuary in your head to recoup and your best memories will paint internal decorations more vivid than whatever misery may be out in the world. And you get to carry that beauty within you as something foundational to who you are, as something that begins to shine outward. Once you build yourself up enough, you become even more resilient against what others say or do. Their flawed perspectives shouldn't be allowed to overwrite the good & unique aspects of how a person really is.. as we are our own exceptions, not our common failings. And the next time you see your reflection, see yourself as someone else you were looking at and ignore anything you don't like, as if it doesn't matter at that moment; to focus on anything good until it positively alters your perspective. It doesn't have to take long, but it counters all sorts of dismorpha, even if it's projected from other people or "beauty standards". Since the gracefulness of beauty comes from an internal source, so it's already there somewhere, you just have to acknowledge it in yourself. Plenty of pretty people lack a sense of their own beauty without considerations like this, yet everyone has some kind of endearing qualities that are hidden from, even from themselves. Express yourself in a good mirror(cameras can lie) and you'll begin to notice them, as well as the ones that don't fit who you are on the inside, eventually shedding what doesn't represent you. And the expression of rose tinted glasses originates from good actual things, you just have to remember to use them on yourself from time to time. The Penrose Wave Function Collapse in quantum physics proves that some aspects of reality, is entirely subjective. And the context of several of my life's work demonstrably confirms that. In other words: the essence of what that Edith Paif song about living a life "in pink", is correct. So make what you will of yourself, since it's not the canvas you chose, but the palettes you paint with.
I understand all that or people say love yourself and this and that i do all the time but then i realised i want a relationship not need one so i’m basically desperate so i realised you need to live your life without searching for one and the right person will come looking for you not the other way around sort of i don’t chase i attract vibe
It's easier to love when you where born from it, but if you're born from survival, damn it's so hard to recognise love in any ways. You always think of just surviving. I hope one day I'll also feel how to really be loved by someone.
Totally resonated to this, thank you. Growing up and being surrounded by toxic family members, it’s hard to find love while you’re also healing yourself. It’s a sad reality.
I am almost 29 in a few months. For the past 2 months, I've been in severe depression to the point of disassociating and feeling like "I've lost me." I never had romantic experience and always feel dissatisfied with life because dreams are the only ones keeping me company. After watching this, I remembered something I wrote on my life journal sometime ago. In that moment, I felt warmth and fulfilled because the writing is filled with love from me to my own self. And I've realized that no one can ever love you as hard and as complete as yourself. The "me" that I've lost has returned to me, and I am loved. I've written another love letter on my book, the excerpt is: ...I really do love the you who loves you.
I did dare to be a hopeless romantic, that turned out, well, let's just say not quite like I hoped. And now I'm so drained and hurt and scared I cannot be brave anymore. I just can't. I'm still trying but I can't.
i hope in return u become that hopeless romantic for your self n the ppl who u gave your love to were js the wrong ones who don’t appreciate what a good soul n being of a person you are. it’s not your fault it didn’t work out but if that’s who you are naturally, there is no shame in loving that way. many ppl feel and love differently and your way is not wrong from theirs. as a hopeless romantic i do feel ur fear but if u feel drained or hurt it’s bc we forget to give that same love to ourself when giving it. plz bring happiness to yourself, your soul, and your energy bc i believe hopeless romantics have the most beautiful pure love in the world. 🫂
It’s gonna be okay. You’ll will go through this. I think you can still be a romantic, just do it with healthy boundaries. Being love is not only appreciating every single joy like this video has said, but imo being love is loving yourself enough to acknowledge that you deserve better. From this, you will know the difference between people who genuinely care and love you and those who don’t. Just don’t allow the world and the bad people in it to suck your joy; be even more loving and appreciative despite of it.
This video really touched my heart. I will be entering my 20s this year and this is the exact sort of mentality I wish to implement in my life. In my teens, I hated everything around me but now as I've started to enjoy the little things in life, I appreciate life a little more everyday. it makes me even more happy to know people with this mindset exists as well so thank you
the music, the videos, the authenticity, your soft voice, the aesthetic, the happiness and the message ... I really needed this today, thank you so much, this is beautiful 🤍🌷
nearly cried watching this, tysmmm i'm not concerned about romance, but as someone who cant seem to find purpose in life this video really taught me how to appreciate others and show love to them thanks for helping me get a grip again 🧡
Today I saw my crush with another girls and got rejected the week before and felt hopeless. Years of no boyfriend but I’ve been making self care a hobby and this no joke made me cry
That was sort of me 2 years ago i had a crush on my guy best friend for 2 years and he was oblivious about it and he invited me to hangout with him and a girl and told me they were dating i basically third wheeled their date and that day my heart broke i went home and cried my eyes out all night. At the same time he never knew i liked him and i never told him so it wasn’t his fault but still being his friend it hurt more after 2 months i distanced myself and hung out with new friends and never talked with him again 2 years later i’m fully healed and over him. It does get better
"If you want to find real love, become it, become love" is something i never understood completely and ofc i'm scared too. Like loving a person without knowing it is being reciprocated or not, that constant state of confusion, and fear of getting hurt, being in that place is very scary to me. I lost many people like that. Just becoz i cannot fully love others, or even love myself. But i don't wanna be in half love, or be half loved. I crave that pure, passionate love which u will never get bored of or be scared to lose. I'm trying more. To be more vulnerable, to love and understand people more and see positive in everything. This is hard, but i believe its worth it. I hope atleast. This video is really very beautiful to see this kind of people exist.
In a world/society where romantic love is constantly pushed in our faces (and sometimes the relationships shown arent even healthy..!) this video is so soo refreshing! Im always telling my friends & my circle there needs to be more emphasis on friendship love, family love and of course self love. For anyone feeling like an oddball for choosing to stay single, or simply being single because you cant find the right person , YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!! and remember, being happy alone is much better imo, than a toxic relationship or one where you end up constantly in conflict with your partner. Yet if you are looking to fall in love someday (e.g. little ol' me definitely is😆) i think this video had the most beautiful way of putting into words, how that can happen to us ❤️ Thank you for creating this beautiful reminder!
‘The answer is to become it.. be the love you wish to see’ that’s so beautiful wow I truly believe so many people are full of love and if they express this then love will naturally find them
I’m 23 and this video hits me❤️ thank you so much for these pure feelings and deep thoughts I used to love fearlessly and recklessly until it all became quite messy with me being surrounded by those who can hardly understand me or see me “me” and I was about giving up but this video, oh this video of yours I wish you all the best, thank you🥺
this was one of the best videos i have seen. everything was articulated so gracefully and everything you say is so incredibly true! i love your mindset and outlook
i've been struggling with feeling empty and unloved. this really helped me realize that the love i'm seeking is within myself. thank you for sharing this perspective!
Was feeling down in the dumps about the lack of love i've had in my life, and being a hopeless romantic makes it so much more impactful. But this video genuinely provided me so much comfort and made me smile. I love the message and so many quotes which really resonate with me. So thankful I came across this video ❤
I had a crush on my online friend within 6 Weeks i told him that i love him. It scared him so much because he still not over his ex. But i just confessed my feelings without any fear, then he started distancing me thou am aware of the consequences but to be in love is the most beautiful human experience complete self annihilation...ur heart beat for that persons wellbeing..he distanced me it was hard for me to accept then it opened beautiful ways in me to love more and fall in love with lifeee.... I always love u cutiee❤️
When you fall sleep but wake up with this voice and message its just love . She remind me one of my cousins that have such a charm character n a lovely Soul. I wish eveyone in comments a lovely rest of life. ❤
The fact that is such a young person who is sharing this profound message made the whole video so much more pure to me :') This was poetic, beautiful, and (hopefully) true. Thank you
I didn't expect to cry to a random video that yt recommended but that's basically what happened lol. It appeared exactly when I most needed, very nice video!
i don’t know yet how to listen to music even though I don’t have someone. Every song is about love. And I love music so much, I listen to everything ALL the time. I’m embarrassed to even say it, but I kind of let myself get really obsessed with someone this year just so I could feel these things. And listen to my songs “properly”. When I was only ever attracted to her in the first place, it turned into something so emotionally destructive, especially when she strung me along but didn’t want me back. My point is, I appreciate this video deeply and I want to focus on the love I can control now (myself). However I don’t have a solution for music yet.
"Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind". Girl, that is so deep and true. I think this has become one of my favorite videos on the whole internet. It portrays what I've been told a thousand times to the point of getting sick of it (work on yourself first and love will come), but in a much meaningful and beautiful way, and that is JUST what I needed. Thank you very much for this, and I hope everything that watches this video and/or reads this comment becomes love, just as you said.
I love this so much :’) You put into words what I love to feel, It’s such a beautiful thing to see the world through a rose colored lens. I think there are so many wonderful things in the world and I love all the different people I’ve met. It’s mostly internal for me though. I want to express my love more outwardly, to let the people I love know I love them. The way you written and directed this video is top tier. There is something so magical about it, thank you ♡
seeing her parting away hurts. tried reaching her multiple times but doesn't work out. it hurts like hell. now practicing letting her go. everything belongs to this nature and i should accept whatever is given to/taken away from me. ik for sure, one day things gonna be alright. peace.
This made me cry sad tears and happy tears. Because while it made me face my loneliness it also reignited a hope at finding real love and peace from myself. I will start tomorrow with a kinder and brighter love in all around me.
This truly came at the right time. I was on the verge of a mental breakdown earlier because of my complicated relationship with a guy. Having thoughts like what if this fails, what if he cheats, what if I won't find love again, what if I'll never find someone like him. This video just reminded me that at the end of the day, no matter what happens, love will always find its way back to me.
Found this video randomly at 3am(ofc i did) and it really opened up perspectives i never knew existed, helped me open those doors that seemed so impossible to open in my mind, to accept myself wholeheartedly and to express my emotions freely. Thanks for this video, kind stranger ❤
Thanks for making this video, I’ve going through a really rough time atm (rough breakup and struggling with relationships with people I care about) and this is really inspiring. I’m going to try be the love I want to have ❤
I can't express how refreshing this is. I've been trying to live by everything expressed in this video to a certain extent, I was starting to think I was alone in this, that I'm on a fools errand. A heartbroken twice, I felt my capacity to love limited. But... i see now the reason I feel stagnated is because I haven't been loving as much as I thought. That there is more I can love, everything. Without fear, and without hesitation, I'll love everything till my dying breath.
As someone who wears their heart on their sleeve and would describe themselves as an "overfeeler", while being a hopeless romantic, this video hits hard. Thank you ❤
There used to be a time when I would wish and dream hopelessly for love...not anymore...i dont even feel like living to be honest...i am even afraid i would end up getting disappointed if i wish and dream for love...i sound pessimistic...but...i am in a really dark place and...there seems to no hope.
"Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." what a beautiful line...every time someone likes this comment, I will be reminded to come back to this
I’m going through a hard time rn with this girl I spent over 3 years with. We’ve been through so much together from living in a bedroom together, seeing other people, arguing and even feeling empty towards each other sometimes. I love her so much and I was so thankful that she made my bed feel less empty. She wants her independence though, she wants to experience her life and make her mistakes and have her triumphs. I understand all of that and I want to love her as a person even if I can’t be with her ever again….
“You are too young for me” is so weird being told that at 31 but at this age I also learned not to rush anything and keep myself very busy. It’s weird how every time I’m in tunnel vision somebody comes crashing in, this time I have this forever feeling with her but I know I have to be patient.
this might’ve been the best video i’ve seen in a long time. so raw and just truth, while also being so inspiring. thank you, this was a beautiful watch.
This was so beautiful. Needed to hear this today. I also have the same beliefs as you but the cold dating world somehow managed to suck it out of my system. I am a hopeless romantic and i shall continue to be so and find somebody someday who matters. Thank you for this beautiful piece. 🌻✨💖
I just turned 18 and this thought of not having a boyfriend or being a relationship scares and pressurises me..... like there have been 2 instances where I was in a talking stage with a guy and whenever we were about to get into a relationship backed off because I don't know why i was kinda scared but on at the same time is also pressurized me ....I am feeling down since many days ....I am not getting out of it but when I watched this video it made me feel at ease....i watched this video when it was uploaded and it was suggested to me but after 3 weeks right now I couldn't find this video at all I was searching for this and thankfully I found this video after a long time...... I am writing this comment so that whenever I watch this video in the future I can remind myself that it gets better.... it does....
I guess I’m just writing this for myself but I been giving myself self love forever now and I still feel a vacancy in my heart. I want to love somebody and I want somebody to love me. I don’t know how long I can keep focusing on myself for.
This is beautiful❤ I had a breakup recently, and I am devastated she left me, coz I loved her a lot, so in the end it was painfully hard when she said "You are not the man I loved all this time".
this made me feel things I haven't felt in a long time, Idk how to explain it. It's making me feel a lot of things that I can't express into words. I love you
I normally don't comment under videos but i truly think this one deservrs it. I often find myself wondering how i should feel about telling people how much i love them and this video made me realize there is no harm in telling someone how you feel. It's not in our command how we love or who we love, but only the way we act on our feelings. In the past i never told anyone how i felt and it bites me everyday, and now i still find it difficult, but as you said, i have to let love find its way to me. Thank you for this beautiful video
I'm abstolutly stunned by what you said, it's so beautiful, you bring back hope to me while I'm going throught a comple relationship, I just gave up on love because he didn't love me anymore or in the good way with the time. I'm so hurt. But thank you for your word, I'll try to love life, myself, the others even if it make me ''weak''
I did this when i was feeling lonely in my teen years, In my country (🇺🇦), Unfortunately, people are increasingly sad and hopeless with each passing year. A compliment on an older man literally made him smile so bright, I just love love!! After always trying to show my people how much love is around, now i'm married with the man of my dreams, soon 3 years!!
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As a lonely and emotional hopeless romantic, this kinda hits
We will get this ❤
Yup
As a man too, because you know what happens to men who try to share their true feelings and their emotional side, they soon realize exactly why they weren't sharing it in the first place
@@blackbullet4254 yeah, true
same fr
"Those who mind don't matter and
those who matter don't mind."
Truly a nice quote
Jessie j song
in another universe, i'd love to be your best friend
why not this one
@@nalbinalbii888 Aww just for you to know, If you ever want to come to Argentina, you have a friend here
@@Val-sx4je idk if u meant to reply to me but that’s so sweet
@@Val-sx4je🇦🇷❤️
and in this universe i would like to be your friend
“be the love you wish to see” this>>> as long as im alive. i know the love that i wish for exist
Yes, this is so true
in an era where people say "how to make a man/woman fall in love" and all those romantic or love rules, finally i find this one. thank you so much.
"You can never say the wrong thing to the right person" omg that's soo beautiful😭😭😭
Um akchually you can 🤓☝️
that one hit for me too.
@@Nyxar-2077 that's not what they meant and you know that, i know exactly what they meant
But what if I tell them illegal stuff
i dont understand.
Everybody wants the ideal partner, Nobody ever thinks to be the ideal partner
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I don't think like that. A lotta ppl really work on themselves. Also, there are ppl who are shit but still in a relationship. Ain't supporting them. Just saying. You always have to work on yourself
REALL we only think about what we can get, when in reality when you think about what you can give, that is when the universe gives you what you want tenfold. but that is when you have that pure intention without the ulterior motive of gaining or taking something. think what you can give, without the desire/ulterior motive to take in return. give to give, not give to take. obviously it should be an equal balance relationships are a 2-way street, but don't only think of yourself. make your friends and loved ones feel special, imporant, loved. they want the same things that you do, after all.
"you can never say the wrong thing to the right person." 🥺
"sharing your feelings without fear." literally makes me feel like i need to let them know instead of hurting this bad
tell them everything trust me its better than letting it accumulate and it will cause more harm than it should , i dont promise anything about their response but i wish someone told me to do so earlier, and i wish you a happy life regardless of their unswer . good luck .
Let them know, release yourself of this burden, the suffering you may endure as a result of rejection is nothing compared to the suffering of perpetual anxiety
Let them know dawg, don’t live life in fear it prevents you from doing so much.
❤❤❤
Rejection pain is better than the pain of never knowing. So tell them, even if you’re scared it’ll go wrong.
i met the love of my life the next day after letting go of people who made me feel like genuine love was too much
the world is so much prettier than we often let ourselves see
I’m so happy for you 🥹
Share more of the story ! Sounds really nice ❤
“be the love you wish to see” that just inspired me so hard
Everywhere i look i see couples kissing, hugging and being happy. Meanwhile I'm here all alone wondering why i somehow can't have that or even friends for that matter, while remembering every time i got rejected or ignored and every friendship that just evaporated, wondering why they all seem to want to avoid me(?)
I've heard so many things at this point that I really don't know what to believe and feel completely lost... "Oh it's your looks, oh it's your social skills, oh it's your height, oh it's your confidence, oh you don't talk enough, oh it's your money, your aura, your whatever..." I'm getting to a point where it's becoming increasingly difficult to actually believe it will happen, all the while I'm forced to watch all the people i grew up with find it so effortlessly...
Sometimes i can't help but feel someone or something is playing a cruel joke on me....
thats so unfair mate i acc hurt for u so bad, i think when ur somewhere like that no matter how fucked up and unjust the situation is you need to stick with what you have, which is yourself. Even if when u go outside and everything u see seems to be working against you or you get rejected or fucked over, the one thing you can control is yourself right? liking and even loving yourself is hard when ur lacking external validation, but that means that when you finally get there itll be all the more true, and you won't need to worry about it collapsing if someone leaves your life, cause you made it yourself, and it's something that, even nowadays, not many people have. You're infinitely more valuable than your money or social skills or looks because you're a person and a life that can't be wasted. Don't wait for someone else to make you live it. And i promise what comes after is better than temporary happiness, it's contentment. And that lives forever and will nurture you through any other hardships you face, which im sure you'd have the strength to push through anyway. idk i just really wanted to reply and let you know that you're worth a friendship with yourself. Im a serial waffler i hope that made sense but idk how to word it any better. anyways love u stay safe mate
@@cherryantacids Thanks...i hope i can turn things around soon.
What @cherryantacids said was brilliant on its own, but I could add some rare or original knowledge that isn't readily apparent: Other than you get to keep all your own good memories without others distorting them or projecting negatively against what you know to be true.
Also, my best lasting memories of relationships, friendships and love interests, never needed any of the things conventional ""wisdom"" throws at you.
I didn't need money, clout, credentials or success for them to happen and many people who have those things, unfortunately never had or felt any of the things I have experienced or lived through.
Truly though, I think people who don't appreciate others are the ones who are found lacking in humaneness and a proper sense of ethics.
If I have been able to turn enemies good, how is it that others can't even do the same with people who aren't even hostile or diametrically opposed?
In this way, I have come to realize that most fixate on the wrong things from the outset.
A common example is being asked "What do you do?", as if the whole of one's life experiences beyond it can be irreversibly reduced to how they make their money... if any.
None of my loves asked me this, and it's considered poor etiquette to do so if the conversation isn't already about mutual fields of expertise or gathering references for potential networking.
Speaking of which, people can find each other on meetup.
Since there is no excessive checklists of prerequisites unless a group is using it in that way.
You are sure to eventually form bonds with whoever you share hobbies or interests with. So consider checking that out. 🤷🏻
Besides that, make your own "mind palace" for sanctuary in your head to recoup and your best memories will paint internal decorations more vivid than whatever misery may be out in the world.
And you get to carry that beauty within you as something foundational to who you are, as something that begins to shine outward.
Once you build yourself up enough, you become even more resilient against what others say or do. Their flawed perspectives shouldn't be allowed to overwrite the good & unique aspects of how a person really is.. as we are our own exceptions, not our common failings.
And the next time you see your reflection, see yourself as someone else you were looking at and ignore anything you don't like, as if it doesn't matter at that moment; to focus on anything good until it positively alters your perspective.
It doesn't have to take long, but it counters all sorts of dismorpha, even if it's projected from other people or "beauty standards".
Since the gracefulness of beauty comes from an internal source, so it's already there somewhere, you just have to acknowledge it in yourself.
Plenty of pretty people lack a sense of their own beauty without considerations like this, yet everyone has some kind of endearing qualities that are hidden from, even from themselves.
Express yourself in a good mirror(cameras can lie) and you'll begin to notice them, as well as the ones that don't fit who you are on the inside, eventually shedding what doesn't represent you.
And the expression of rose tinted glasses originates from good actual things, you just have to remember to use them on yourself from time to time.
The Penrose Wave Function Collapse in quantum physics proves that some aspects of reality, is entirely subjective. And the context of several of my life's work demonstrably confirms that.
In other words: the essence of what that Edith Paif song about living a life "in pink", is correct. So make what you will of yourself, since it's not the canvas you chose, but the palettes you paint with.
I understand all that or people say love yourself and this and that i do all the time but then i realised i want a relationship not need one so i’m basically desperate so i realised you need to live your life without searching for one and the right person will come looking for you not the other way around sort of i don’t chase i attract vibe
@@Himmel23im also facing a similar situation but with family issues which isn’t helping me either.
This comment section is a treasure. I've not come across something like this since 2016.
“Those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind” beautifully said 🤌🏼✨
It's easier to love when you where born from it, but if you're born from survival, damn it's so hard to recognise love in any ways. You always think of just surviving. I hope one day I'll also feel how to really be loved by someone.
never really thought of it this way; very insightful
I get this. A vary special boy has taught me exactly that.
Totally resonated to this, thank you. Growing up and being surrounded by toxic family members, it’s hard to find love while you’re also healing yourself. It’s a sad reality.
Agreed 🥹💖
Agree but we will heal when we meet the right person , keep believin
Beautifully written, beautifully said! To love and be loved - and nothing else, beyond. God bless you.
Some people never find that special someone in their life and we have to be content with that.
I am almost 29 in a few months. For the past 2 months, I've been in severe depression to the point of disassociating and feeling like "I've lost me." I never had romantic experience and always feel dissatisfied with life because dreams are the only ones keeping me company.
After watching this, I remembered something I wrote on my life journal sometime ago. In that moment, I felt warmth and fulfilled because the writing is filled with love from me to my own self. And I've realized that no one can ever love you as hard and as complete as yourself. The "me" that I've lost has returned to me, and I am loved.
I've written another love letter on my book, the excerpt is: ...I really do love the you who loves you.
Bless you
I did dare to be a hopeless romantic, that turned out, well, let's just say not quite like I hoped. And now I'm so drained and hurt and scared I cannot be brave anymore. I just can't. I'm still trying but I can't.
i hope in return u become that hopeless romantic for your self n the ppl who u gave your love to were js the wrong ones who don’t appreciate what a good soul n being of a person you are. it’s not your fault it didn’t work out but if that’s who you are naturally, there is no shame in loving that way. many ppl feel and love differently and your way is not wrong from theirs. as a hopeless romantic i do feel ur fear but if u feel drained or hurt it’s bc we forget to give that same love to ourself when giving it. plz bring happiness to yourself, your soul, and your energy bc i believe hopeless romantics have the most beautiful pure love in the world. 🫂
don’t close off your heart to people romantic or not, with time it will get better, you can and you will trust in that I’ve been through it too.
same. i feel u stranger :’)
Sameeee 😢
It’s gonna be okay. You’ll will go through this. I think you can still be a romantic, just do it with healthy boundaries. Being love is not only appreciating every single joy like this video has said, but imo being love is loving yourself enough to acknowledge that you deserve better. From this, you will know the difference between people who genuinely care and love you and those who don’t. Just don’t allow the world and the bad people in it to suck your joy; be even more loving and appreciative despite of it.
04:19"Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind"
“Love passionately, love fearlessly, love love”
This video really touched my heart. I will be entering my 20s this year and this is the exact sort of mentality I wish to implement in my life. In my teens, I hated everything around me but now as I've started to enjoy the little things in life, I appreciate life a little more everyday. it makes me even more happy to know people with this mindset exists as well so thank you
4:07 “if they don’t like you back, they were never meant to be yours” 🧿
Why is your voice soooo soothing?? I felt like I was in heaven😭😭
the music, the videos, the authenticity, your soft voice, the aesthetic, the happiness and the message ... I really needed this today, thank you so much, this is beautiful 🤍🌷
i just can't imagine someday being able to trust another person on that level i've trusted her
nearly cried watching this, tysmmm
i'm not concerned about romance, but as someone who cant seem to find purpose in life this video really taught me how to appreciate others and show love to them
thanks for helping me get a grip again 🧡
Today I saw my crush with another girls and got rejected the week before and felt hopeless. Years of no boyfriend but I’ve been making self care a hobby and this no joke made me cry
That was sort of me 2 years ago i had a crush on my guy best friend for 2 years and he was oblivious about it and he invited me to hangout with him and a girl and told me they were dating i basically third wheeled their date and that day my heart broke i went home and cried my eyes out all night. At the same time he never knew i liked him and i never told him so it wasn’t his fault but still being his friend it hurt more after 2 months i distanced myself and hung out with new friends and never talked with him again 2 years later i’m fully healed and over him. It does get better
"If you want to find real love, become it, become love" is something i never understood completely and ofc i'm scared too. Like loving a person without knowing it is being reciprocated or not, that constant state of confusion, and fear of getting hurt, being in that place is very scary to me. I lost many people like that. Just becoz i cannot fully love others, or even love myself. But i don't wanna be in half love, or be half loved. I crave that pure, passionate love which u will never get bored of or be scared to lose. I'm trying more. To be more vulnerable, to love and understand people more and see positive in everything. This is hard, but i believe its worth it. I hope atleast. This video is really very beautiful to see this kind of people exist.
In a world/society where romantic love is constantly pushed in our faces (and sometimes the relationships shown arent even healthy..!) this video is so soo refreshing! Im always telling my friends & my circle there needs to be more emphasis on friendship love, family love and of course self love. For anyone feeling like an oddball for choosing to stay single, or simply being single because you cant find the right person , YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!! and remember, being happy alone is much better imo, than a toxic relationship or one where you end up constantly in conflict with your partner.
Yet if you are looking to fall in love someday (e.g. little ol' me definitely is😆) i think this video had the most beautiful way of putting into words, how that can happen to us ❤️ Thank you for creating this beautiful reminder!
I agree with everything you said here. This comment also helps as a reminder for me 💖
@@MiscellaneousOpal ahh I'm glad ! < 3
‘The answer is to become it.. be the love you wish to see’ that’s so beautiful wow I truly believe so many people are full of love and if they express this then love will naturally find them
this lit me on fire man. become the love you wish to see in your life and it will appear. that’s so simple and such a great way to approach it.
This video single handedly was the MOST BEAUTIFUL video i have ever encountered
I’m 23 and this video hits me❤️ thank you so much for these pure feelings and deep thoughts
I used to love fearlessly and recklessly until it all became quite messy with me being surrounded by those who can hardly understand me or see me “me” and I was about giving up
but this video, oh this video of yours
I wish you all the best, thank you🥺
this was one of the best videos i have seen. everything was articulated so gracefully and everything you say is so incredibly true! i love your mindset and outlook
I am lowkey jealous of how well put and perfect this video is. I am also highly grateful for its beautiful message 🙏 Thank You ❤
i've been struggling with feeling empty and unloved. this really helped me realize that the love i'm seeking is within myself. thank you for sharing this perspective!
Was feeling down in the dumps about the lack of love i've had in my life, and being a hopeless romantic makes it so much more impactful. But this video genuinely provided me so much comfort and made me smile. I love the message and so many quotes which really resonate with me. So thankful I came across this video ❤
I had a crush on my online friend within 6 Weeks i told him that i love him. It scared him so much because he still not over his ex. But i just confessed my feelings without any fear, then he started distancing me thou am aware of the consequences but to be in love is the most beautiful human experience complete self annihilation...ur heart beat for that persons wellbeing..he distanced me it was hard for me to accept then it opened beautiful ways in me to love more and fall in love with lifeee....
I always love u cutiee❤️
" Those who mind dont matter and those who matter dont mind" this is beautiful, truly. Thank you ❤❤
When you fall sleep but wake up with this voice and message its just love . She remind me one of my cousins that have such a charm character n a lovely Soul. I wish eveyone in comments a lovely rest of life. ❤
You’ve got so much wisdom at your age. Keep going x
The fact that is such a young person who is sharing this profound message made the whole video so much more pure to me :') This was poetic, beautiful, and (hopefully) true. Thank you
I didn't expect to cry to a random video that yt recommended but that's basically what happened lol. It appeared exactly when I most needed, very nice video!
This is amazing. I love every single sentence you delivered. Your video is wonderfully made. Thank you ♡
i don’t know yet how to listen to music even though I don’t have someone. Every song is about love. And I love music so much, I listen to everything ALL the time. I’m embarrassed to even say it, but I kind of let myself get really obsessed with someone this year just so I could feel these things. And listen to my songs “properly”. When I was only ever attracted to her in the first place, it turned into something so emotionally destructive, especially when she strung me along but didn’t want me back.
My point is, I appreciate this video deeply and I want to focus on the love I can control now (myself). However I don’t have a solution for music yet.
"Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind".
Girl, that is so deep and true. I think this has become one of my favorite videos on the whole internet. It portrays what I've been told a thousand times to the point of getting sick of it (work on yourself first and love will come), but in a much meaningful and beautiful way, and that is JUST what I needed.
Thank you very much for this, and I hope everything that watches this video and/or reads this comment becomes love, just as you said.
I love this so much :’)
You put into words what I love to feel, It’s such a beautiful thing to see the world through a rose colored lens. I think there are so many wonderful things in the world and I love all the different people I’ve met. It’s mostly internal for me though. I want to express my love more outwardly, to let the people I love know I love them.
The way you written and directed this video is top tier. There is something so magical about it, thank you ♡
brb sending this to everyone i know because this is the most beautiful video i have ever seen
seeing her parting away hurts. tried reaching her multiple times but doesn't work out. it hurts like hell. now practicing letting her go. everything belongs to this nature and i should accept whatever is given to/taken away from me. ik for sure, one day things gonna be alright. peace.
"some people won't be able to handle your heart, and that's okay„ ☹️💗
after 21 years of being alone it feels like i'm not worthy of love
This made me cry sad tears and happy tears. Because while it made me face my loneliness it also reignited a hope at finding real love and peace from myself. I will start tomorrow with a kinder and brighter love in all around me.
"Love that is hidden is such a waste" really hit me hard. something knew I needed to hear that and it sent this my way. thank you for this video
This truly came at the right time. I was on the verge of a mental breakdown earlier because of my complicated relationship with a guy. Having thoughts like what if this fails, what if he cheats, what if I won't find love again, what if I'll never find someone like him. This video just reminded me that at the end of the day, no matter what happens, love will always find its way back to me.
"those who mind dont matter, those who matter dont mind" inspired me a lot
Found this video randomly at 3am(ofc i did) and it really opened up perspectives i never knew existed, helped me open those doors that seemed so impossible to open in my mind, to accept myself wholeheartedly and to express my emotions freely. Thanks for this video, kind stranger ❤
ayy same its 3 am for me rn
watching this was probably one of the most beautiful things i seen that it had made me cry thank u
Thanks for making this video, I’ve going through a really rough time atm (rough breakup and struggling with relationships with people I care about) and this is really inspiring. I’m going to try be the love I want to have ❤
That girl is THE GODDESS OF LOVE
I can't express how refreshing this is. I've been trying to live by everything expressed in this video to a certain extent, I was starting to think I was alone in this, that I'm on a fools errand.
A heartbroken twice, I felt my capacity to love limited. But... i see now the reason I feel stagnated is because I haven't been loving as much as I thought. That there is more I can love, everything.
Without fear, and without hesitation, I'll love everything till my dying breath.
As someone who wears their heart on their sleeve and would describe themselves as an "overfeeler", while being a hopeless romantic, this video hits hard. Thank you ❤
I've never heard love explained in such a hopeful and beautiful way, thank you
dude when CAS started playing I almost started crying 😭
This might as well just be the best video on the entire internet
Why is this video so wholesome 😭😭😭
this is genuinely so beautiful and comforting ❤️🩹
My brain just gained wrinkles
"Those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."
Really a nice quote. I added this to my note
My brain was trying so hard to concentrate on your voicie over that music but all I heard was apocalypse
omg this is the cutest and most inspiring thing i've seen in a while. It was just so beautiful and deeply touched me honestly
Once you start loving yourself, love comes easy to you, just take the first step. And I love it.
There used to be a time when I would wish and dream hopelessly for love...not anymore...i dont even feel like living to be honest...i am even afraid i would end up getting disappointed if i wish and dream for love...i sound pessimistic...but...i am in a really dark place and...there seems to no hope.
"Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." what a beautiful line...every time someone likes this comment, I will be reminded to come back to this
This was so intense that I ended up crying like there’s no tomorrow hahahaha
Can't believe I'm actually falling for this video
I’m going through a hard time rn with this girl I spent over 3 years with. We’ve been through so much together from living in a bedroom together, seeing other people, arguing and even feeling empty towards each other sometimes. I love her so much and I was so thankful that she made my bed feel less empty. She wants her independence though, she wants to experience her life and make her mistakes and have her triumphs. I understand all of that and I want to love her as a person even if I can’t be with her ever again….
“You are too young for me” is so weird being told that at 31 but at this age I also learned not to rush anything and keep myself very busy. It’s weird how every time I’m in tunnel vision somebody comes crashing in, this time I have this forever feeling with her but I know I have to be patient.
This is one of those videos you watch multiple times till it’s entrained in your brain
this might’ve been the best video i’ve seen in a long time. so raw and just truth, while also being so inspiring. thank you, this was a beautiful watch.
Okay but why is everything in there said so perfectly? 💘
This was so beautiful. Needed to hear this today. I also have the same beliefs as you but the cold dating world somehow managed to suck it out of my system. I am a hopeless romantic and i shall continue to be so and find somebody someday who matters. Thank you for this beautiful piece. 🌻✨💖
Thank you for reminding meม I have come to love my life and others again. I promise I will be kind to myself and others 😊
I just turned 18 and this thought of not having a boyfriend or being a relationship scares and pressurises me.....
like there have been 2 instances where I was in a talking stage with a guy and whenever we were about to get into a relationship backed off because I don't know why i was kinda scared but on at the same time is also pressurized me ....I am feeling down since many days ....I am not getting out of it but when I watched this video it made me feel at ease....i watched this video when it was uploaded and it was suggested to me but after 3 weeks right now I couldn't find this video at all I was searching for this and thankfully I found this video after a long time...... I am writing this comment so that whenever I watch this video in the future I can remind myself that it gets better.... it does....
First time being in your channel...I just wanna say thank you for this beautiful subtle gift that is very hard to find on social media these days ❤
I guess I’m just writing this for myself but I been giving myself self love forever now and I still feel a vacancy in my heart. I want to love somebody and I want somebody to love me. I don’t know how long I can keep focusing on myself for.
“the love i crave for exists because i am full of it.”
This is beautiful❤
I had a breakup recently, and I am devastated she left me, coz I loved her a lot, so in the end it was painfully hard when she said "You are not the man I loved all this time".
That's actually beautiful.
this made me feel things I haven't felt in a long time, Idk how to explain it. It's making me feel a lot of things that I can't express into words. I love you
dude when CAS started playing I almost started crying 😭
This is indeed pacifying for me. Thankyou dear for making me understand.❤ Lots of love😊
I normally don't comment under videos but i truly think this one deservrs it. I often find myself wondering how i should feel about telling people how much i love them and this video made me realize there is no harm in telling someone how you feel. It's not in our command how we love or who we love, but only the way we act on our feelings. In the past i never told anyone how i felt and it bites me everyday, and now i still find it difficult, but as you said, i have to let love find its way to me. Thank you for this beautiful video
No idea how this showed up in my home feed, but I love every part of it❤
THIS VIDEO MADE ME CRY SO HARD ITS SO GOOD AND REAL
I'm abstolutly stunned by what you said, it's so beautiful, you bring back hope to me while I'm going throught a comple relationship, I just gave up on love because he didn't love me anymore or in the good way with the time. I'm so hurt. But thank you for your word, I'll try to love life, myself, the others even if it make me ''weak''
She made me fall in love with life , doesn't matter how messed up it is.. it has beauty and love. THANKYOU LOVE
Never thought that would give me ghoosebumps.....very well written and directed
I did this when i was feeling lonely in my teen years, In my country (🇺🇦), Unfortunately, people are increasingly sad and hopeless with each passing year. A compliment on an older man literally made him smile so bright, I just love love!! After always trying to show my people how much love is around, now i'm married with the man of my dreams, soon 3 years!!
Love never fails, if it fails it was never love
beautifully crafted!!💫✨