making friends as an adult is hard…moving out my hometown + fake friends |

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  • Опубликовано: 5 ноя 2024

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  • @THEREALCHOLEY
    @THEREALCHOLEY  3 месяца назад +8

    I hope you enjoyed!! comment more chit-chat topics for my next video 💞

    • @starlove2647
      @starlove2647 3 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing your story about finding new genuine friends. Congratulations!

  • @Healedbyher
    @Healedbyher 3 месяца назад +13

    girl no I don’t even look at you as a influencer, just a genuine soul that I love to support/watch & that’s why I don’t agree w everything is content, bc meeting somebody should be genuinely getting to know them, not straight business … I wouldn’t do business w anybody else who’s energy is off

  • @PsLoveJane
    @PsLoveJane 3 месяца назад +7

    I feel the same way about the struggle with making friends here that’ll be my family. Everyone is so toxic now.😢

    • @THEREALCHOLEY
      @THEREALCHOLEY  3 месяца назад +1

      yess girl i hate it 😭😭😭

  • @aura-wellness
    @aura-wellness 3 месяца назад +7

    So glad you posted this. I’m definitely like you once I get a weird/bad vibe I tend to fallback. I’m 30 and I’m a new mommy too my daughter just turned 1. I literally have 3 friends and I’m still actively building these relationships but I don’t have a BEST friend which I really desire but just waiting for. I am grateful all my friends are Moms but I haven’t really met other Mom friends yet whose children are close to my daughter age. It feel is like is it me? lol am I the issue? I think I’m great but just look you I want deep friendships. I want friendships that I know I won’t be judged and that person is a safe space and considers me a safe space. I’m praying it comes and I know God will position me! Loved loved loved this video ❤

    • @THEREALCHOLEY
      @THEREALCHOLEY  3 месяца назад

      exactly you dont get those feelings for no reason! I be thinking the same thing...like do I got to work on something or whaaa?!
      but yes our deep friendships will come soon 😭🤞🏽

  • @_rayafterhours
    @_rayafterhours 3 месяца назад +3

    This is exactly what i needed me drinking my peppermint tea for my period cramps/ allergies + watching my girl. Love me a lil chit chat❤🫶baby you didnt amazing with this chitchat even tho its not ur ususally content i loveeee itt def would love moree

    • @THEREALCHOLEY
      @THEREALCHOLEY  3 месяца назад

      yess relax and vibe with meee 🫶🏽✨ but thanks girlll can’t wait to have more chats with yall!

  • @TaurusVibezz20
    @TaurusVibezz20 3 месяца назад +1

    You’re so beautiful inside/out I love watching your vlogs. So happy for you and blessings to you and your baby/family!!! I just bought everything for your natural dewy makeup look I don’t wear foundation and don’t love makeup. You are fabulous in every way! Ty for being you and I absolutely love this vlog so very True!!! ❤❤❤❤

    • @meditationmama70
      @meditationmama70 3 месяца назад

      I don’t wear or use it. Lmk if you like the combo and if it’s easy to apply.

  • @diyashajones
    @diyashajones 3 месяца назад

    I feel the same way about LA, I went on a work trip with my husband for my birthday recently and the way I was so spiritually drained it took me a WEEK to get back on track when I got back home. I felt so zapped, having that intuition is so important!

    • @THEREALCHOLEY
      @THEREALCHOLEY  3 месяца назад +1

      omg yess the energy there is just so draining. but everyone's experience is different. have you ever looked into astro cartography?

    • @diyashajones
      @diyashajones 3 месяца назад

      @@THEREALCHOLEY I’ve just recently heard about it via tik tok & it made so much sense to me. There was a website people mentioned but I didn’t really understand it. How much of it do you know about? I definitely spiritually feel better outside of the US in warm places. Bermuda had my heart when we went, it’s just so expensive.

  • @talkswithtaty8595
    @talkswithtaty8595 3 месяца назад

    The bundlesssssss😍 link them!! I have locs but been thinking bout combing them out!

  • @brianalarise
    @brianalarise 3 месяца назад

    yes more of theseeeee!!! ❤❤❤❤ i haven’t even watched yet but i know ima love it

  • @puntitee
    @puntitee 3 месяца назад

    I feel you so much in this, I could see you and a fellow Atlanta RUclipsr @KennedyJ as friends honestly. What's crazy is that you are a Leo and she is an Aquarius which makes you guys opposites, which is perfect in a friendship and you need that balance. As a Leo, you need the Aquarius energy and Aquarius needs the Leo energy to complete each other. What's also crazy is in her last vlog she ended by saying she doesn't feel like she has friends that pour into her a certain type of encouragement energy, and in this video, you are saying that what you desire is to want to pour that loving energy into a friend and that's why you're excited for you son. Which just shows how beautiful you are. But yes I say all of this to say I can see you guys meshing very well.

  • @skepticbb93
    @skepticbb93 3 месяца назад

    To describe the path is merely to see the path.
    To know without knowing is to walk the path.

  • @priyahsabella4384
    @priyahsabella4384 3 месяца назад

    You are so Sweet!!! So genuine i love it! ❤️..! I definitely went through the same things with moving to a new state and becoming a mother. You are handling everything so Amazing 👏 ❤!++ Soo happy for you, I can literally feel the happiness in my heart! This little prince is so blessed!! Yayyy 😊 congrats!

  • @NS-ue9om
    @NS-ue9om 3 месяца назад +1

    girll your strong intuition gives me 12th house vibes. i wanna analyze your birth chart fr!

    • @THEREALCHOLEY
      @THEREALCHOLEY  3 месяца назад +3

      lol I was told to never give out your full chart to anyone 🫣😅 but my intuition does notttt play lol

    • @NS-ue9om
      @NS-ue9om 3 месяца назад

      @@THEREALCHOLEY that’s real! love your energy!!

  • @smiller0612
    @smiller0612 3 месяца назад

    Such a natural beauty🥰
    The new intro, I loveeee it

  • @chicago4961
    @chicago4961 3 месяца назад

    Chole is so gorgeous!! Girl I love your videos and the intro is so cute!❤️❤️

    • @THEREALCHOLEY
      @THEREALCHOLEY  3 месяца назад

      @@chicago4961 awe thank youuu so much ❤️

  • @kenskrew
    @kenskrew 3 месяца назад

    I cannot wait to meet you one day 🫶🏽 I love your aura so much!

  • @viacoat.2983
    @viacoat.2983 2 месяца назад

    Love vids like this

  • @jailathejem
    @jailathejem 3 месяца назад

    feel the wanting the family friends vibe heavy😮‍💨 so many nice people to talk to but lack depth or mindfulness to what friendship can really be. we will be blessed with the right ones around us eventually😌 but hopefully soon as fuck lmao

  • @Cee_af
    @Cee_af 3 месяца назад

    I love how you went from “alright yall im bout to go to bed” to “welp im bout to take my sew in down” lol
    Anyways love the vlog/chit chat videos! I feel like we having girl time forreal lol. Also i hope you do find some more good friends down there! The mommy friend you hung with seemed really cool 🫶🏾 glad yall had fun !

    • @THEREALCHOLEY
      @THEREALCHOLEY  3 месяца назад +1

      lol girl i get the most random bursts of energy 😂 but im so glad you enjoyed the video!

  • @aprilsochic
    @aprilsochic 3 месяца назад

    I feel the same way I am an adult. I have boys and I would love to connect with other moms that are moms in Dallas here as well.

    • @THEREALCHOLEY
      @THEREALCHOLEY  3 месяца назад

      felt! 😭 hoping we find our tribe soon girl!!

  • @kayf6961
    @kayf6961 3 месяца назад

    Girl I felt like we were friends lol yes, I love these types of videos. I’m trying to make friends too. Def harder but they’ll come when they do. As you said

    • @THEREALCHOLEY
      @THEREALCHOLEY  3 месяца назад

      aw yesss glad you get that vibe 🫶🏽 and yeah just hoping more long term ones come in the picture

  • @talkswithtaty8595
    @talkswithtaty8595 3 месяца назад

    Yeah. I think we might be soul sisters, I’m moving down south but not georgia. We should meet🤭 I’m the sameeeeeeee.

  • @destinythegay
    @destinythegay 3 месяца назад

    First like 😊 I clicked so fast 😂 I’m so happy you posted

    • @THEREALCHOLEY
      @THEREALCHOLEY  3 месяца назад

      @@destinythegay glad you’re backk🥰

  • @mayaalexandra_
    @mayaalexandra_ 3 месяца назад +1

    never clicked so fast

    • @THEREALCHOLEY
      @THEREALCHOLEY  3 месяца назад

      @@mayaalexandra_ purrrr ❤️❤️

  • @talkswithtaty8595
    @talkswithtaty8595 3 месяца назад

    Anytime you need to talk, I’m here genuinely and any questions feel free to hmu! I have two kids, my youngest is 7 months.

  • @Healedbyher
    @Healedbyher 3 месяца назад

    25:26 Weirdest thing is it seems like it comes out better when it’s raining (idk maybe it’s just me😂)

  • @kendall.olivia
    @kendall.olivia 3 месяца назад +1

    I'll be your friend, I volunteer in tribute 🙋🏽‍♀️

  • @elleavies1271
    @elleavies1271 3 месяца назад

    I pray you will I met my bestie here in Georgia I’m from Michigan she’s from Cali we’ve been friends since 2016

    • @THEREALCHOLEY
      @THEREALCHOLEY  3 месяца назад

      aw I love that for you 💞 there’s nothing like true friendship! I hope I find my people soon!

  • @Healedbyher
    @Healedbyher 3 месяца назад

    I’m so glad you didn’t move to la…iykyk

  • @meditationmama70
    @meditationmama70 3 месяца назад

    I use to second guess and or give 2nd and 3rd chances now NOPE

  • @MelloneeKecia
    @MelloneeKecia 3 месяца назад

    I clicked too fast 💨

  • @meditationmama70
    @meditationmama70 3 месяца назад

    I feel like you had the baby 👀

  • @nellej902
    @nellej902 3 месяца назад

    I love feeling we on FaceTime 🫶🏾