The dark truth about "kindness"

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  • Опубликовано: 1 июн 2024
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Комментарии • 98

  • @BellaaOmer-dxbusauk777
    @BellaaOmer-dxbusauk777 2 месяца назад +12

    im muslim but i love jewish teaching with you much respect sir for u

    • @dymondzncurlz
      @dymondzncurlz 2 месяца назад +4

      Our Same Father Abraham. Blessings and peace to you.

    • @dudefrombelgium
      @dudefrombelgium 2 месяца назад +1

      Our Torah predicted the advent of the Jewish and Islamic nations. It tells that one nation will be large and another nation will be small but with much power. This is the Islamic countries and Israel. When these two have completely consolidated an learn to work together then the world will know a new era of peace and godliness.

    • @dorandacolbert5973
      @dorandacolbert5973 2 месяца назад

      ​@@dudefrombelgiumsome believe the large nation is America.

  • @FortitudineVincimus
    @FortitudineVincimus 2 месяца назад +5

    Help others not for a reward, help others because it's right and just.

  • @vl2378
    @vl2378 2 месяца назад +2

    "people who serve others...it's as if their world is bigger...the more you serve people, the bigger your world gets in general"

  • @MyKey1642
    @MyKey1642 2 месяца назад +14

    Everyone needs a Rabbi, without them the world is lost.

    • @user-uc8sr7ly6b
      @user-uc8sr7ly6b 2 месяца назад +2

      If you can't be your own Rabbi, then you are lacking the essential character to please God.

  • @valariesusan52
    @valariesusan52 2 месяца назад +8

    When a child does something bad we let them know its bad and the child now has a guide line.The parent forgives the child because they learned from their mistake.That is also how our father in heaven is.He forgives.,knowing we are a better person for it.But if we keep making the same mistakes over and over we are not learning and what goes around comes around. The longer it takes to come around the greater punishment it will be. Be square with world.Let your pillow be a place of peace..Let it be a place of prayer...Dont chase what or who you love because they will run from you.

  • @Dogfish1975
    @Dogfish1975 2 месяца назад +5

    Thank you, Rabbi. A lot of great points in a society in which people put their needs and interest ahead of others too often.

  • @emoran5875
    @emoran5875 2 месяца назад +9

    Thank you Rabbi…

  • @rebeccacastillo4789
    @rebeccacastillo4789 2 месяца назад +9

    Thank you Rabbi Friedman

  • @garyseeseverything8615
    @garyseeseverything8615 2 месяца назад +5

    Thanks so very much rabbi Friedman

  • @NIF18
    @NIF18 2 месяца назад +9

    This is so good! The interviewers questions are on point!

  • @pawemajsterek3343
    @pawemajsterek3343 2 месяца назад

    ❤ its important what's is in front us and what is behind.
    Tehilim 51,5

  • @JeanMarcelino-qr9ju
    @JeanMarcelino-qr9ju 2 месяца назад

    Honest, kindness, goodness being abused is not necessary no One is Good only He who made everything ❤❤❤❤

  • @zodjenkins2595
    @zodjenkins2595 2 месяца назад +4

    We don't know we are tired until we feel it, sometimes we know it too 😛

  • @pgman5416
    @pgman5416 2 месяца назад +4

    Very wise and impressive responses, Rabbi. It was a pleasure to listen to you.

  • @Christopherurich33
    @Christopherurich33 2 месяца назад +8

    Thank you wise Rabbi for this information this was very helpful and important for me too hear

  • @mariebarrett7177
    @mariebarrett7177 2 месяца назад +9

    Wow that was deep but your insight is amazing mr rabbi friedman as usual!! 💜

  • @experiencemystique4982
    @experiencemystique4982 2 месяца назад +3

    Maybe I'm wrong, but serving is obeying...serving God, thé only One we must serve, is obeying Him.

  • @heatherpreiss7369
    @heatherpreiss7369 2 месяца назад +2

    better to help when there is a need, people who want are never satisfied❤🙋‍♀️

  • @stevenpetty6680
    @stevenpetty6680 2 месяца назад

    Short of a full story from my uncle the reward is doing right

  • @oculusisnevesis5079
    @oculusisnevesis5079 2 месяца назад +5

    this guy is a very good psychologist! 2 good men

  • @ridasz7954
    @ridasz7954 2 месяца назад +4

    תודה רבה ❤

  • @mariebarrett7177
    @mariebarrett7177 2 месяца назад +3

    This guy needs to strengthen his character.. he will cause he is searching for answers! God bless him!

  • @joewalsh4685
    @joewalsh4685 2 месяца назад +1

    Just like a good Mother and Father.

  • @elizabethbooth5446
    @elizabethbooth5446 2 месяца назад +2

    Thank you rabbi

  • @maryseidler5083
    @maryseidler5083 2 месяца назад +4

    Good Morning Rabbi so the action is the reward. Thank you

  • @akai.christo
    @akai.christo 2 месяца назад +4

    Thank you Rabbi Friedman!!💪✡️🙏♥️🔥

  • @janetwunder3000
    @janetwunder3000 2 месяца назад

    Rabbi Friedman, thank you for not smacking your lips and tongue, so it was a pleasure to listen to the discussion. Thank you again.

  • @stefanjohansson2395
    @stefanjohansson2395 2 месяца назад +6

    Thank you!!!

  • @mariebarrett7177
    @mariebarrett7177 2 месяца назад +4

    Hes hanging on to your every word! 💜

  • @user-hh9lf8rw3l
    @user-hh9lf8rw3l 2 месяца назад

    Thank you very much Rabbi. i watched this important video again.
    Higher happiness ( or purpose) comes from self-sacrifice of lower happiness. Then the united whole world will serve G-d. one in One serves One together.

  • @VYKTORYA7
    @VYKTORYA7 2 месяца назад +5

    Shalom from Ecuador, please Rabbi explain in a video the reasons of this terrorists to act the way they are doing with Israel?, I try to figure it up, but I just don't understand their way of thinking and acting. Am Israel Chai, thank you.

    • @NIF18
      @NIF18 2 месяца назад +2

      Check out the Rabbi's book about the war. I bought it on Amazon it's amazing

    • @NIF18
      @NIF18 2 месяца назад +2

      It's called "to win a war"

  • @MissAnn-xu9oo
    @MissAnn-xu9oo 2 месяца назад

    If there's no consequence, I don't care. That's a person without a conscience. - Rabbi Friedman

  • @priyankasamanta7542
    @priyankasamanta7542 2 месяца назад

    ❤ thank you Rabbi

  • @JeanMarcelino-qr9ju
    @JeanMarcelino-qr9ju 2 месяца назад

    Rabbi Manis Friedman like The Eagle

  • @user-hh9lf8rw3l
    @user-hh9lf8rw3l 2 месяца назад +2

    Thank you so much, Rabbi.
    G-d bless you and all the editors.

  • @ER24.
    @ER24. 2 месяца назад +4

    Great video Rabbi thanks so much for share your thoughts ❤

  • @user-uc8sr7ly6b
    @user-uc8sr7ly6b 2 месяца назад +2

    I serve my God, only by being kind in all things, when ever possible, or I sometimes fail, learning to try harder next time and I've learned to never expect a thank you, especially from a God that expects nothing less from me.

  • @Scriptv60
    @Scriptv60 2 месяца назад

    Hi Rabbi, I have been listening to you since I discovered that being Jewish was not being forced to go to shul once or twice a year. I don't understand Hebrew and my family was from, that generation that thought being Jewish was embarrassing. I never understood anything it is like all the good stuff is hidden. Maybe I just like magic. Maybe it is hidden otherwise. But I was in my late teens or in my 20. I found a small room full of your old tapes, disks, books. Every night I could not wait to begin listening to your voice but I didn't hear your voice I was told I had 2 souls it blew my mind. and all their is is G-d. No all there is is G-d. I got it. The 4 worlds, it was a gift as I am not smart. But I remember the gates and I remember being pushed, or I mean I felt like beginners luck, but still it was Madonna K. I was a plant that had been cut off. Sometimes I mention things I remember and people laugh at me I don't know why they don't feel in awe. The idea that the past, future is all the same. Thank you for doing what you do!

  • @josephnyongesa193
    @josephnyongesa193 2 месяца назад

    Baruk Hashem!

  • @user-zp8ee8oy7m
    @user-zp8ee8oy7m 2 месяца назад +3

    VERY GOOD QUESTION

  • @kennethbuckwalter3521
    @kennethbuckwalter3521 2 месяца назад +1

    Amen Rabbi… where do you draw the line if you’re one of those people who give too much?

  • @barbaramurray4951
    @barbaramurray4951 2 месяца назад

    Thank you. Unfortunately the scale dipped with wrong, not right. So I've been punished. Now it makes sense to me altho somewhere in my conscience I knew that judgment had to come.

  • @johnnieharo4098
    @johnnieharo4098 2 месяца назад +2

    I love this guy ❤❤❤

  • @user-ib1cg1xl6f
    @user-ib1cg1xl6f 2 месяца назад +2

    ❤❤ Thanks for the information.

  • @69waybetter
    @69waybetter 2 месяца назад +4

    Great videos

  • @paulatortora-tan4593
    @paulatortora-tan4593 2 месяца назад

    Doing for other people to the point where you lose yourself does exist, it’s called motherhood .

  • @user-cj1kz8jf4y
    @user-cj1kz8jf4y 2 месяца назад +1

    It's not depression. It's physical pain. Cough onset by a source. No flu no cold.

  • @neinkalando2519
    @neinkalando2519 2 дня назад

    Most people will only give free service to the types of needs they believe in and in many cases working people will not help the poor unless they are working full time

  • @valariesusan52
    @valariesusan52 2 месяца назад +1

    For every unjustable theft of your possesions was because of a return of someone more valuable. Material versus spiritual.2 sides of the coin.

  • @GS-mb1sz
    @GS-mb1sz 2 месяца назад

    Punishment is actually corrective action according to the person's ability to learn from the point of where they are currently. It is stronger and more volume of prior correction until they are able to turn themselves towards a better behavior where they can actually recognize the benefit over a period of time and understand better the benefits that is taking place and the character growth. Every person is in somewhere in that process of becoming better human for themselves and unto others. You've heard some say it's another day different face and the the same ol dung. That means you are starting to understand the repetition is trying to tell you to change your behavior, change your mind if you want a different outcome.

  • @fporretto
    @fporretto 2 месяца назад +1

    Of course the answer to the rabbi's plaintive "why" questions is *_moral relativism._* Once moral absolutes are banished, all that remain to be considered are the possible consequences of a contemplated action. But of course the rabbi knows that. The tragedy of our time is that so many refuse to see it.

  • @dbaargosy4062
    @dbaargosy4062 2 месяца назад +1

    being honest, I'm not going to watch this whole thing... but does the same dark Truth fit Lovingkindness all about it Make That Truth The Way Life Is God Savior?

  • @suneethamay3615
    @suneethamay3615 2 месяца назад

    Rabbi needs to buy some kindness if it is available for sale

  • @reginaldnowe8068
    @reginaldnowe8068 2 месяца назад +11

    Hell is when you live turned on yourself, in your mind, thinking about yourself, avoiding suffering, thinking about pleasures, and you feel lacking all the time, because you are looking for everything time to acquire something... and when you REALLY turn towards others, and because, you are looking for something to give, you no longer have a lack, you have too much... you reach paradise, you have so much power in you, you become a kind of adorable father to everyone.

    • @Pookabee
      @Pookabee 2 месяца назад

      Hell is avoiding suffering... Ummm

    • @reginaldnowe8068
      @reginaldnowe8068 2 месяца назад +1

      @@Pookabee psychic suffering...if you avoid it, you don't growth and never break the illusion of the fake self, made of fear.

    • @user-sw3nr9lx9z
      @user-sw3nr9lx9z 2 месяца назад

      So let us all suffer, it’s so empowering! )))
      What a great idea!

    • @reginaldnowe8068
      @reginaldnowe8068 2 месяца назад

      @@user-sw3nr9lx9z How old are you ? it's a very immature answer.

    • @arcadealchemist
      @arcadealchemist Месяц назад

      I server others but they are destroying my reality future by putting us in this period of socialism and take from the children.

  • @beckycavness481
    @beckycavness481 2 месяца назад +1

    Serving others is serving Hashem

  • @rachelLadyD
    @rachelLadyD 2 месяца назад +2

    some people genuinely served people their entire life, not for reward (material) there is always gold gathered there is always a reward that comes for goodness, GOD always gives gifts whether they are material or spiritual, one can be depressed by the cruelty and the relentless of the attack, the viciousness , where there is no acknowledgement of these wrongs, people can genuinely despair for good reason, serving others won't help if the others are unreasonable, it won't help them, it won't help you, it can be depressing being alone, knowing that there are attackers and lurkers who have access to all areas of ones society and who only wish to oppress and cause harm, then its ok to retreat or strike them the minute one sees their behaviour is insincere and inauththentic, devious or dangerous. Come on lets be real, there are many many reasons and some people have a litany of good reasons to not put oneself in danger for GODs sake. Because GOD wants this. Its depressing though, its not all roses, there is also times of extremities.

  • @amensoul1242
    @amensoul1242 2 месяца назад +2

  • @Georgia-Vic
    @Georgia-Vic 2 месяца назад

    There's no such thing,as an unselfish act! Whatever you do, you first spend a certain amount of time thinking about and preparing for it to occur.Then when you do it, if it doesn't fit into your preconceived ideas about it, you'll blame the other person for it!

  • @carriemaurer4363
    @carriemaurer4363 2 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @patriciaribaric3409
    @patriciaribaric3409 2 месяца назад +3

    Is there any chance Rabbi Friedman's books will be narrated for Audio Books?

    • @NIF18
      @NIF18 2 месяца назад +1

      Most of them are I think!

    • @patriciaribaric3409
      @patriciaribaric3409 2 месяца назад

      Couldn't find through Amazon.@@NIF18

  • @Dbenji29
    @Dbenji29 2 месяца назад +2

    Persian accent is a bit like Indian. :D

  • @jwinkelm88
    @jwinkelm88 2 месяца назад

    You listened

    • @jwinkelm88
      @jwinkelm88 2 месяца назад

      Instinct is different from intuition

  • @nickrobbins7704
    @nickrobbins7704 2 месяца назад

    Ha yeah but what if you enjoy serving people does that no longer count as service?

  • @marleneschoenfeld4939
    @marleneschoenfeld4939 2 месяца назад

    I stop and knock at every door but no one hears my silent prayer for I am dead - I am dead

  • @emilym6214
    @emilym6214 2 месяца назад

    Yes there's a thin line between kindness and not losing our sH*+. Match energy efficiently

  • @marleneschoenfeld4939
    @marleneschoenfeld4939 2 месяца назад

    Hell is where people deprive you of essential meds and they don't want me to live

  • @MikeHacker
    @MikeHacker 2 месяца назад +1

    To be happy you benefit from what you do for God is selfishness

  • @mariebarrett7177
    @mariebarrett7177 2 месяца назад +2

    This guy really needs answers lol bless him! He seems at his wits end!

  • @SharkSandwich451
    @SharkSandwich451 2 месяца назад

    Or the worst thing (in my view) is to give tzedakah to get validation.

  • @michaelanderson6456
    @michaelanderson6456 2 месяца назад

    No love. Not loving others, this is sin filled evil form on none entertain..hateful is not worthy of any form of public fund..like & reply ..your right if you agrer

  • @mathematicsandstuff
    @mathematicsandstuff 2 месяца назад

    Look, mate, just be careful with subliminal "influencers" especially avatar influencers while assuming "the adversary" holds a pretty elaborate very deep in conclusions, exhaustive, file about yourself *and* your entire m-clique :)). So if you apply mindfulness you're off the hook instantly!! Perfect mindfulness you're off the hook instantly...

  • @mariebarrett7177
    @mariebarrett7177 2 месяца назад +1

    Maybe the wife felt it wasn't genuine... It never comes a cross natural if its not authentic! X

  • @richellepeace4457
    @richellepeace4457 2 месяца назад +1

    I erroneously learned growing up in church that if I did something for someone when God prompted that it was his way of keeping A kind of score. Not a perfect balance but close. The biggest battle I've had with God was being good enough to use to protect others but not good enough to receive. This just created conflict. I no longer save drowning children, no more men dying in upside down cars, no more neglected children, no more wells in Sudan. Its not worth the internal turmoil. These requirements can be left to the corrupted officials that were protected when I was being destoyed. Live and let die, they might have lessons to learn, that was the excuse I was given....

  • @jimmysunshinebluesky4875
    @jimmysunshinebluesky4875 2 месяца назад

    On this one😊
    A woman (is to keep a man
    A man doesn't keep a woman
    2024 a woman doesn't need
    to keep a man..the state will
    Take care of all that ...
    Your son's are fooled ✌️😄

  • @adamreyes6503
    @adamreyes6503 2 месяца назад

    Don't seek your own will but the will of the father, King James Bible
    Every tree that bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire amen... I mean huh that's insective enough to do good right haha. I would say stop spending money on education about phycology your not learning to understand people's behavior your learning to manipulate people's behaviors js haha God bless John 3:16 NKJV 😊