I love how Jonathan has no filter and he’s so honest. I think that’s what makes them so good together. That Anna needs his honesty. I aspire to have a love like this.
Jonathan forced to say “being intimate” I laughed out loud 😂😂😂 I’m so glad you left that in the video. This video is great. Thanks so much for sharing. 💖
As someone who suffers from anxiety and clinical depression, I would also like to know how Anna helps Jonathan with his mental health. In fact I would truly like to see a video addressing how Jonathan deals with anxiety and depression. It could help so many people.
@@coolmom9266 wow. Nice to know that the people this video is about are still wasting their time. Why don't you invest your time in something productive rather than writing nasty comments about people you don't even know.
I really appreciated how Jonathan mentioned how Anna's healthy body image/mental state has improved her reaction to the mundane, everyday things like him not taking the bins out when he says. It's important to remember that tackling the hard self-reflection rewards you in the little aspects of life.
I'd like to hear Jonathan talk more about his issues with depression/ADHD. He's not been as outspoken about his issues but touched on it in this video.
Mad respect to Jonathan for being such a strong and constant support to Anna. (And obviously to Anna herself--you're such an inspiration girl) Its not easy being on either side when either you are struggling with something like this or your partner is. I have been on both sides personally and sometimes I think it's harder watching someone you love so much go through something so tough and having no idea how to 'fix' it. You have to learn there's no 'fix', just to be there for them which is really difficult 💕
It is such a relief to find a lighthearted video talking about issues like this. Everything has been so stigmatized and people shy away from talking about it and feel like crying every time because it’s so “heavy”. Honestly, it’s much better to remove the stigma and realize that having these issues is not the end of the world. Everyone feels so alone and everything feels so severe and awful at times. But people don’t realize that tons of others go through the same thing. Yes, it is awful and hard to go through something like this, but I feel like it makes it worse when people make it out to be like this horrendous experience that should traumatize you every minute of your life. And this goes for every issue like addiction, mental illness, etc. It’s an aspect of our life and we have to live with it, we know there’s something wrong and it really doesn’t help to avoid it like the plague or make it into such a severe topic. It just makes so much worse and makes you feel so ashamed and hopeless. The biggest help Jonathan did, I think, was be your support. He never shamed you and he didn’t act like it was the end of the world. He knew it was just something you had to deal with, an aspect of your life. You don’t need anyone pressuring you. You just needed someone to lean on and talk to and be there no matter what. We all need this energy in our lives honestly. Our issues don’t define us. We should be able to laugh about it, talk about it. I feel like that would help a lot more people recover rather than teaching them it’s such a severe thing.
I DIED when they both said “being intimate” because they said it so differently 😂 I love you two! So happy that you two are able to tell y’all’s story so openly!
I love the relationship you have. I know it’s not perfect, no relationship is. But I love how much you 2 support each other and always be there for each other 🥺❤️
Oh my god! I can’t stop laughing!!! When Jonathon was talking about downing the boxes of Pringles!!!! I showed it to my husband and he found it so funny too. As a former bulimic I can totally relate - and my poor husband put on so much weight when he first met me too- for exactly the same reason Jonathon did. It’s nice to be able to laugh now at such dark times. However, this video also made me cry so much as it hits so close to home and brings back a lot of not so many distant memories. When i pluck up the courage to talk about my ED on my channel I’m definitely copying your idea and doing a video like this with my husband! Thank you for being so open and honest- and just being you! It’s amazing to watch and really touches my heart! Love you Anna! And Jonathon! 😘😘😘😘
I love Anna. But we all want a husband like Jonathan LOL. How sweet he is. And I am sorry you went through all of that, Anna. I am going through a sort of same thing.
Lilian so true! I’m sad to hear you’re going through the same thing I hope you’re either in recover or will go through recovery many more people are here and willing to help than anyone knows!
Isabel Raper well mine is nigh as bad as what Anna went through. I am an emotional eater, but I can lose the weight as the stress is over. But it's ever fun. Thanks for your sweet words.
Jonathan is like a strong pillar in Anna life he is not big with words but I know for sure Anna would not in be without him being so understanding and patience.i applaud you so much Jonathan your humour always brings a smile on my face .
as a 22 year old who has struggled with body dysmorphia/disordered eating since i was a child, i am so so SO happy your children have you both as their parents, they really are in such good hands💖
I struggled really badly as a 15-18 year old teen (I still struggle but I’m more aware now as an adult) and when I started dating my current SO at 17 he knew nearly immediately about not only my ED but my self harm and depression/anxiety. He struggled with it at first, I mean he’s a fixer and he couldn’t just fix me. But over the first 2 years of our relationship I gained nearly 40lbs and while that set me back a lot it was also something to be proud of because he made me so happy, he made me comfortable and while that didn’t fix the problem it gave me a safe haven someone I wasn’t afraid to show the bad. Now we’ve been together 6 years and I’m trying to slowly lose weight healthily and he understands how hard of a process that is. I’m so glad you have Jonathan Anna because he seems to really get you and understands that it’s not something that one can just cure, EDs are life long and we will always have good and bad times. ❤️
Please never ever stop this RUclips thing Anna and Jonathan! I am watching you since Emilia was born and I never missed a Video! Love your personality’s so much! It always feels like a very good friend is talking to me ❤️ lot’s of love from Germany❤️
This video.. you can see and feel the love between them! They've supported eachother through everything and have come out stronger! ♥️ So proud of you both! ♥️
“Oh I remember the muffin” 😂😂😂 this is so honest, actually my favourite video you have done together. I think when you suffer with an ED it’s so lonely, this is like coming out of the tunnel at the other side with the light and I’m sure it’ll help many others as it has me xx
Mature audience will totally understand Jonathan! Simply being honest is very much appreciated at this time....I love that you both are honest to us! God Bless your family
i'm happy to see jonathan supporting you and being there for you and loving you in any shape or weight you are! he's not judging or bringing down,just there for you and that's so refreshing to hear!
While I don't agree with family vlogging and chose to unsubscribe from SacconeJolys a few years ago, I always admired you Anna and your content on your personal channel. So glad to see you back in my subscription box and making such important content that I'm sure is not always easy to make. I think your candor in speaking about your eating disorder will help many others walking the same path!
I loved everything about this. The honesty, the positivity and Jonathan’s hilarious lack of filter that made this feel like we are all friends hanging out.
It is such an important subject to keep in the public awareness.. You as a couple sharing how this impacted each of you and as a couple is so important. You never know who might be browsing and really NEED this frank and honest chat. THANKS!!
IF YOU GUYS HAVE/HAD ANY DOUBT OF IF YOU'RE DOING GOOD ON RUclips... TRUST ME AM SURE ALL OF US AGREE, THIS AND THE CONTENT YOU GUYS ARE PUTTING OUT IS SOOOO GOOD!! ❤️❤️ ITS GONNA HELP SO MANY PPL, AND IS SUCH A BEAUTIFUL THING TO SEE YOU GUYS BOND SO GOOD. LOVE IT!! AND IT'S BEEN SP TOUGH, BUT YOU GUYS GOING SO GOOD 😭❤️❤️ SO PROUD OF YOU
Such a helpful and important video! I struggle with an eating disorder and have shared this video with my boyfriend, whilst its important for me to not feel alone during my recovery journey it is also important for the ones closest to us to not feel alone. Thank you as always for sharing
You have no idea the impact you cause in people , you are amazing and you have a very important place in my heart, I ve been watching you for 7 years, I’m 20 now , so that’s means that I have grown up with you , thank you for getting we trough the hardest and also the most beautiful moments❤️
So interesting to hear Jonathan's perspective. My sister-in-law suffered(s) with Bulimia and when I first met her, I immediately saw the signs. One night when both of us were alone I offered her help and offered to help her find a therapist. Regardless of what I tried to do for her, her recovery was on her time. For years she would relapse, but I feel good that she knows I care and was always there for her. Like Jonathan, it is hard thing to watch from the outside, especially after you realize what is going on and knowing that they are doing more harm to themselves.
Michelle Gallegos you’ve said two things that are key to recovery from an ED or some kind of addiction. You can offer all the help in the world, but the person has to be ready to make changes and get help. The best you can do as a support person is be there and continue to offer positivity and help when you can.
I have been watching you both since the Cork / no children days and I am so thankful and appreciative of how you speak on these tough topics. As a mental illness / ED sufferer, this gives me hope. Thank you immensly for this open and raw discussion. I know the podcast things is being done a lot at the moment but you 2 would be perfect for it. I admire you both so much, Jonathan’s approach is really the best approach I could ever wish for - letting the sufferer figure it out on their own but whilst remaining supportive, understanding that recovery needs to be their own decision and kinda let it run it’s course. I said this years ago and I say it again now ... I really hope I meet someone like either Jonathan or Anna for my partner. You’re both just such genuine, kind-hearted people 💕
I love Jonathan's perspective on this whole topic and just his thoughts on not judging others when we all have our own issues...so awesome to have that in a partner..reminds me of my husband 💗
I love Jonathan's answer about how Anna is a happier person now and the examples he used (taking out trash without getting angtsy). I think sometimes ppl expect signs of recovery to be shown in grand gestures. It's actually visible in the little things.
This was honest and beautiful! I hope everyone in whatever season of life they are in, watch this video and strive to find someone who brings out the best in themselves like the both of you do. You shared a great message in this video and everyone I’m SURE wants the same. The end of that video cracked me up so much because Jonathan’s simple honest comment came across so funny, but it really is that simple right?! Love the person you are with and WANT for THEM the happiness they deserve with no strings attached💕
Anna your parenting choices are very similar to mine. My children have always known that if they ask me a question I will give them a truthful and age appropriate answer. I have so many books, all at different age stages explaining sex, pregnancy, puberty, periods, relationships, sexuality, pornography (I have children’s books explaining the dangers of pornography) , contraception, alcohol, drugs and gender (and so many more topics) and my children even now at 10 and 13 always come to me before going to google/ asking friends etc. My 13 year old son recently thanked me for being open and honest, he says it shocks him that his friends parents have never talked about the things we have talked about since he was a toddler (bearing in mind that I never deliberately taught any of the above, I was just open, honest and truthfully prepared when they asked me the hard questions). Both of my children are nonchalant and have no embarrassment in asking the ‘embarrassing questions,’ I am really glad they feel able to ask me - the alternative was asking friends or searching online and finding material that is just not appropriate for children to be watching! Obviously I would rather my children stay innocent - and I have found that my children are actually more innocent than their peers - they are more innocent because they are having their curiosity met in a way that isn’t exposing them to images/ videos that they are not old enough to process! They know that I will never judge them and that there is nothing they could do that would stop me from loving them ! Both of my children know the actual meaning of all swear words and yet neither of my children swear - they have been taught the meaning and therefore are more considerate about insulting others.. My 10 year old daughter came home last week saying two girls in her class were saying ‘you are a virgin, that is so pathetic - you are such a baby!’ My daughter turned round and said ‘Do you actually understand the meaning of the word virgin? Yes, I am a virgin - I’m 10 years old - if you are not then someone should be going into jail as that’s disgusting’. The idea that 10 year old girls are going about saying that they are not virgins is horrifying! But then tik tok could be responsible 🙈🤷🏻♀️ thankfully my kids have zero interest in social media at the moment.
I’m the same. And I totally respect you as a parent! My 20 month old is a little chatter box for her age and has recently questioned why her older brother doesn’t talk (he has autism). She’s been telling me for a while “Arlo not talking” and I have always replied with “no, not today!” But recently she asked why and I explained to her in the most age appropriate way I could “Arlo has autism which means he doesn’t know how to talk yet” and she took it brilliantly. She’ll come to me everyday and ask “still autism?”. The more educated she is the better, and as she gets older and all the things you mentioned above get asked, I’ll approach it in the same way. Lovely to hear Anna and Jonathan feel the same way with theirs. X
I have obviously not got any clue who you are but I have the upmost respect for you. You are/have raised your children wonderfully, keep doing what you are doing ❤️
Lyza Morcombe thank you for your kind reply! Your little girl sounds precious and reminds me so much of my daughter at that age! My son is also autistic. I am fortunate that my son has a great vocabulary and verbally has always been advanced. Do you use pecs (picture exchange communication system) or do you have an iPad app that allows your son to choose options (communicate that way)? Or have you tried learning baby sign language/ makaton, (I used the tiny talk signing program with both of my babies- alongside the word books) There are several books aimed at teaching siblings about autism. They really helped us explain why our son would get overwhelmed/and why she needed to let us calm him and not risk herself. Thankfully my son hasn’t had a meltdown in years- he tends to suffer more with shutdowns if he is overwhelmed. My son and daughter are best friends now and my daughter is fiercely protective of her big brother.
Ami Stewart thank you - I suspect that sometimes they may have preferred that I wasn’t so honest 🙈- but given they continue to ask these questions I have to assume that they prefer the truth to the false truths that the internet can teach them. I just hope it continues - it would be my worst nightmare that my son or daughter made assumptions about sex off the internet/ particularly from porn 😨
My daughter was affected by my eating disorder even though I never thought it did. When she was 7 she started wanting to eat cucumber and lettuce dipped in vinegar one piece at a time. She started not wanting to eat lots of things and I realized it was because of my constant food restrictions and constant dieting, saying I was fat when I wasn’t. She was a skinny little kid and it made me realize what I was doing. ...........I learned to hide it better then. 😥😢. Then I went to therapy and I’m fine, have been for over 20 years. I should maybe add I was brought up by parents who had addiction/personality problems that affected me from a small child to when I went through therapy. Anyway, just writing this because though She is only 7 , she has been watching you eat all her life, she may not be able to articulate what the problem was but she would have seen . Isn’t she the one who won’t eat lots of things? Not blaming Anna, I know you would never do anything to hurt any of the kids, I never in a million years would do anything to knowingly hurt my kids but it did hurt her. Thank you for doing this, it took guts on both your parts. 🥰🙋🏼
My Mom had an eating disorder and I remember the first time I noticed I was 8. It affected me in all kinds of ways I won’t go into but kids do know way more than you think they do. I’m glad you’re doing well Anna. You’re a beautiful person inside and out!
You have been and still are my favourite couple 10 years on. Jonathon really does set the bench mark for the kind of love I know I also deserve and Anna you are the ultimate woman. You’re real, honest, hilarious and feisty but you’re also so soft and feminine. I honestly can’t thank you both enough for helping me keep hold of the hope that genuine unity can happen with the right person xx
I love when y’all have these real conversations about real issues. You shouldn’t have to sugar coat things in order to make other people happy. You guys are an inspiration to so many people!
This gives me hope, because while I dont suffer from an eating disorder I have been struggling with depression and anxiety. My bf of 5 years has been great and its great to see after 12 years ur relationship is so strong even while having a recovery journey! Thank you for sharing this Anna! Im sure its helpful and inspirational to alot of people!
I love that you are speaking about this! I also really struggle with an eating disorder and I am so happy to know you are doing better, Anna is SO brave to talk about this publicly and her recovery is so inspiring to me. I hope to be in recovery like her one day. 💖
You are such a together couple.....a perfect fit and I totally can see that you’ve just grown closer the longer you’ve been together🙏 xxx Great vlog. Very honest and I’m sure it will help a lot of people 👏 xxx
I love these types of videos!! You’re such a resilient and loving couple! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings in such a realistic way! Eating Disorders and addictions are so complex and I hope I get to experience a relationship like yours someday. I’ve learned so much from you two and you and your family have been such a light for me in my darkest days. I hope you’re having a great evening xxxxx 😘
Whenever i watch the two of you guys talking, I cant help but marvel at the (most likely) amazing lives and relationships ur children are gonna have because of your views and approach to life. Wishing you all nothing but happiness always ✨
Anna I love that you’re so brave opening up about this. I’m grateful you have, even though I haven’t been through that but I am happy that you recovered and trying to make a difference to change men and women’s perspective on their bodies when they’re internally suffering. You are all beautiful and I need to take on my own message and you’re as well❤️❤️❤️
This was a really down to earth and honest discussion about a heavy topic, which I think goes to show that we all have our own issues, and we don’t always know the right thing to do or say, but when you love someone you stick it out and try your best to support them❤️
I see so much of my husband in Jonathan. Anna, you are so lucky to have Jonathan, he is so supportive of you and it really shows in this video. I agree with you both on giving kids honest answers when they ask, my 20 month old has started to question why her older brother is different, I didn’t think I’d have to answer for a while (she’s very advanced for her age - ahh!). You and Jonathan are brilliant parents and it comes across when watching the children. It feels so good to see you looking so happy Anna. Sending you all the positive hugs ❤️
I’d like to say thank you to Anna and Jonathan for everything they’re doing in this community! I was 11 when I started watching your videos(it was even before Emilia was born) and I could barely understand English! And here I am 21 y.o. sitting here watching this video and being able to understand everything you are talking about. I went through a lot of things during last 10 years but I always had this amazing example of your relationships by my side. You inspire me so much and you both are doing a great job sharing your experience with us and I’m so thankful to be able to grow up watching your incredible family!
I've been watching you both for 10 years now, and seeing the journey you guys have been through and the growth between the two of you has been incredibly heart warming. Your children are in capable hands.
love love LOVE these open and honest and unfiltered convos with you two. i know no relationship is perfect, but for years now i always think about how if i am ever married i hope to have the same amount of support, understanding and love that you two have. honestly the most amazing duo. you guys are so strong and i am so happy you have each other in times when you needed it the most
This is a really good video Anna! Love these type of videos too! Just shows how perfect you are for each other 🥰❤️ and I hope I find someone like you have. Super proud of the journey you been on and I know if the kids go through anything, you will be there for them ❤️😂
WOW, I don't think I have ever seen a Q&A addressing the husband/significant others point of view regarding a eating disorder/addiction. Very open and honest! Well done you two!
This was so good. Thank you Jonathan and thank you Anna for being so open and honest. I’ve definitely noticed you seem happier. You sharing your journey with us has really helped me. I started gaining weight over the last few years and have just felt so awful about my changing body. You’ve really helped me sort through those feelings and start accepting my body and learning to love it again.
It's clear to see how much the both of you have saved each other and given each other pure happiness. Jonathan chill attitude is just the best and making jokes about the serious things in life too is such a good thing to do. Xx
Great video! Always appreciate Jonathan's lack of a filter bc it's real. (& hilarious) I like the rawness of this video and how it shows an honest relationship. Good job talking through a tough subject.
Hi Anna! I just want you to know you look wayyyyyy better now than you ever have! I mean you’ve always been gorgeous but you look healthy now. It’s funny because we’re the same age. I’ve always been 90lbs up until I hit 31. Now I’ve gained weight and although it’s been tough with such a big change, you make me realize the compliments I’m receiving now aren’t just trying to make me feel better. We just really do look healthier, brighter, happier. Thank you for sharing your story as you have.
I absolutely love the personal talks. It feels like being welcomed into a friendship. My son is 14 and we’ve had to start conversations on bodies and food and the difference between healthy and destructive diets. I would have never thought to have that conversation any younger than that. I do know that when I explain my flaws and experiences he sees me as human and a safe place. Thanks for the incites.
I find this really sad, and really admire Anna for being so open. EDs are about control, and I think this has been evident of Anna’s personality. For anyone who is having difficulties I’d highly recommend Emma Woolf’s book Letting Go x
Long time viewer but I rarely comment. As a ED sufferer I have to say a big thank you for this video. It was refreshing and comforting to hear you both speak about this topic. Also put a huge smile on my face 😊
I found your RUclips when I was about 15 watching your the style diet videos and have been watching you and the vlog channel for years (I am 25 now)! Firstly I can’t get over how much I see Emilia in you in this video and secondly it’s really nice to see how supportive Jonathan is of you! It’s so clear he adores you 😍💕
I'm dying at the vagina comment 😂😂😂 This video was really informative and goes to show that being with the right person you will overcome anything whether that be, on yourself, your own personal issues or whatever it is. You guys are amazing parents . 💓
As someone who runs weight management and eating disorder programmes, everyone's story is different. I admire you immensely Anna for being honest. The difference on video between when you had Amelia and now is so much more positive. I hope you continue with ongoing health and happiness. I tell everyone at the start of my weight management programme...I'm not so interested in your weight, I am interested in your health.
I’m ready for an Anna and Jonathan podcast that’s more adult friendly!!
Yes! A podcast would be amazing! Like adults only podcast
Hahaha yess!
That could be good fun
Yessss, I would love that!!!!
OMG PLS PLS PLS YEEEESSS PLSSS
This was an incredibly honest discussion, Jonathan is such a strong person and clearly cares about Anna so much
I love how Jonathan has no filter and he’s so honest. I think that’s what makes them so good together. That Anna needs his honesty. I aspire to have a love like this.
Jonathan forced to say “being intimate” I laughed out loud 😂😂😂 I’m so glad you left that in the video. This video is great. Thanks so much for sharing. 💖
I would like to see you answer questions how you help Jonathan with his anxiety and depression issues...
As someone who suffers from anxiety and clinical depression, I would also like to know how Anna helps Jonathan with his mental health. In fact I would truly like to see a video addressing how Jonathan deals with anxiety and depression. It could help so many people.
I’d love this a lot. Anxiety is so difficult to manage.
@@coolmom9266 wow. Nice to know that the people this video is about are still wasting their time. Why don't you invest your time in something productive rather than writing nasty comments about people you don't even know.
@@pinkywave2995 right! Also I think is necessary to talk about mental health in males. It's not talked that much and is soooo important.
I agree. He mentions his demons a lot through their video and he may like to talk about it x
I really appreciated how Jonathan mentioned how Anna's healthy body image/mental state has improved her reaction to the mundane, everyday things like him not taking the bins out when he says.
It's important to remember that tackling the hard self-reflection rewards you in the little aspects of life.
Wau, Jonathan's words we should all remember: How can anyone judge anyone, when we all have flaws.
Yes! That’s very important to remember for all of us. 😊
Loving the content you’re putting out Anna, love how real and honest it is. Proud of you always💗
It's Emily Rose yes Emily xx
Agreed! I’m loving the mature videos versus like beauty hauls.
I'd like to hear Jonathan talk more about his issues with depression/ADHD. He's not been as outspoken about his issues but touched on it in this video.
Mad respect to Jonathan for being such a strong and constant support to Anna. (And obviously to Anna herself--you're such an inspiration girl) Its not easy being on either side when either you are struggling with something like this or your partner is. I have been on both sides personally and sometimes I think it's harder watching someone you love so much go through something so tough and having no idea how to 'fix' it. You have to learn there's no 'fix', just to be there for them which is really difficult 💕
I LOVE HOW PERSONAL AND REAL AND RAW YOU GUYS ARE!!!
Anna you’re truly an inspirational person and actually so is Jonathan. You both are amazing. And I love your honesty!
It is such a relief to find a lighthearted video talking about issues like this. Everything has been so stigmatized and people shy away from talking about it and feel like crying every time because it’s so “heavy”. Honestly, it’s much better to remove the stigma and realize that having these issues is not the end of the world. Everyone feels so alone and everything feels so severe and awful at times. But people don’t realize that tons of others go through the same thing. Yes, it is awful and hard to go through something like this, but I feel like it makes it worse when people make it out to be like this horrendous experience that should traumatize you every minute of your life. And this goes for every issue like addiction, mental illness, etc. It’s an aspect of our life and we have to live with it, we know there’s something wrong and it really doesn’t help to avoid it like the plague or make it into such a severe topic. It just makes so much worse and makes you feel so ashamed and hopeless. The biggest help Jonathan did, I think, was be your support. He never shamed you and he didn’t act like it was the end of the world. He knew it was just something you had to deal with, an aspect of your life. You don’t need anyone pressuring you. You just needed someone to lean on and talk to and be there no matter what. We all need this energy in our lives honestly. Our issues don’t define us. We should be able to laugh about it, talk about it. I feel like that would help a lot more people recover rather than teaching them it’s such a severe thing.
I DIED when they both said “being intimate” because they said it so differently 😂 I love you two! So happy that you two are able to tell y’all’s story so openly!
I love the relationship you have. I know it’s not perfect, no relationship is. But I love how much you 2 support each other and always be there for each other 🥺❤️
Oh my god! I can’t stop laughing!!! When Jonathon was talking about downing the boxes of Pringles!!!! I showed it to my husband and he found it so funny too. As a former bulimic I can totally relate - and my poor husband put on so much weight when he first met me too- for exactly the same reason Jonathon did. It’s nice to be able to laugh now at such dark times. However, this video also made me cry so much as it hits so close to home and brings back a lot of not so many distant memories. When i pluck up the courage to talk about my ED on my channel I’m definitely copying your idea and doing a video like this with my husband! Thank you for being so open and honest- and just being you! It’s amazing to watch and really touches my heart! Love you Anna! And Jonathon! 😘😘😘😘
I feel like the friendship dynamic between Emilia and Eduardo, Alessia and Andrea mirrors their parents. It's so sweet.
I love how he is so intuitive to her. He knows her so we'll and puts in the effort to REALLY KNOW HER. Well done. Y'all are an inspiration
We are all looking for someone like Jonathan caring and compassionate 💕💕
I love how honest Jonathan is but also very respectful and protective at the same time x
Its lovely that you can speak so openly and honestly about such a personal subject. It was really interesting to hear Jonathan's point of view too. 💜
I love Anna. But we all want a husband like Jonathan LOL. How sweet he is. And I am sorry you went through all of that, Anna. I am going through a sort of same thing.
Lilian so true! I’m sad to hear you’re going through the same thing I hope you’re either in recover or will go through recovery many more people are here and willing to help than anyone knows!
Yeees I swear I want a husband like him. I love that they laugh so much in their relationship, its just actual GOALS 🥰❤️
he's an absolute angel, they both are
Isabel Raper well mine is nigh as bad as what Anna went through. I am an emotional eater, but I can lose the weight as the stress is over. But it's ever fun. Thanks for your sweet words.
Jonathan is like a strong pillar in Anna life he is not big with words but I know for sure Anna would not in be without him being so understanding and patience.i applaud you so much Jonathan your humour always brings a smile on my face .
as a 22 year old who has struggled with body dysmorphia/disordered eating since i was a child, i am so so SO happy your children have you both as their parents, they really are in such good hands💖
I struggled really badly as a 15-18 year old teen (I still struggle but I’m more aware now as an adult) and when I started dating my current SO at 17 he knew nearly immediately about not only my ED but my self harm and depression/anxiety. He struggled with it at first, I mean he’s a fixer and he couldn’t just fix me. But over the first 2 years of our relationship I gained nearly 40lbs and while that set me back a lot it was also something to be proud of because he made me so happy, he made me comfortable and while that didn’t fix the problem it gave me a safe haven someone I wasn’t afraid to show the bad. Now we’ve been together 6 years and I’m trying to slowly lose weight healthily and he understands how hard of a process that is. I’m so glad you have Jonathan Anna because he seems to really get you and understands that it’s not something that one can just cure, EDs are life long and we will always have good and bad times. ❤️
I was expecting this video to be super heavy and a little tense but I was CRYING with laughter the whole time omg so good! Thank you for your honesty
this video made me realise how lucky anna is. she really does have an amazing support system, they're a cute team.
this was a great idea... also the "you can't say that here" to then leave the clip in was hilarious
Please never ever stop this RUclips thing Anna and Jonathan! I am watching you since Emilia was born and I never missed a Video! Love your personality’s so much! It always feels like a very good friend is talking to me ❤️ lot’s of love from Germany❤️
This video.. you can see and feel the love between them! They've supported eachother through everything and have come out stronger! ♥️ So proud of you both! ♥️
“Oh I remember the muffin” 😂😂😂 this is so honest, actually my favourite video you have done together. I think when you suffer with an ED it’s so lonely, this is like coming out of the tunnel at the other side with the light and I’m sure it’ll help many others as it has me xx
Mature audience will totally understand Jonathan! Simply being honest is very much appreciated at this time....I love that you both are honest to us! God Bless your family
Anna your content now vs ten years ago is so honest and who you really are inside. Sparkly and bright. You’re such a strong woman.
i'm happy to see jonathan supporting you and being there for you and loving you in any shape or weight you are!
he's not judging or bringing down,just there for you and that's so refreshing to hear!
While I don't agree with family vlogging and chose to unsubscribe from SacconeJolys a few years ago, I always admired you Anna and your content on your personal channel. So glad to see you back in my subscription box and making such important content that I'm sure is not always easy to make. I think your candor in speaking about your eating disorder will help many others walking the same path!
I loved everything about this. The honesty, the positivity and Jonathan’s hilarious lack of filter that made this feel like we are all friends hanging out.
It is such an important subject to keep in the public awareness.. You as a couple sharing how this impacted each of you and as a couple is so important. You never know who might be browsing and really NEED this frank and honest chat. THANKS!!
I love these sorts of chatty videos, they’re my favourite ones to watch!
IF YOU GUYS HAVE/HAD ANY DOUBT OF IF YOU'RE DOING GOOD ON RUclips... TRUST ME AM SURE ALL OF US AGREE, THIS AND THE CONTENT YOU GUYS ARE PUTTING OUT IS SOOOO GOOD!! ❤️❤️ ITS GONNA HELP SO MANY PPL, AND IS SUCH A BEAUTIFUL THING TO SEE YOU GUYS BOND SO GOOD. LOVE IT!! AND IT'S BEEN SP TOUGH, BUT YOU GUYS GOING SO GOOD 😭❤️❤️ SO PROUD OF YOU
Such a helpful and important video! I struggle with an eating disorder and have shared this video with my boyfriend, whilst its important for me to not feel alone during my recovery journey it is also important for the ones closest to us to not feel alone. Thank you as always for sharing
You have no idea the impact you cause in people , you are amazing and you have a very important place in my heart, I ve been watching you for 7 years, I’m 20 now , so that’s means that I have grown up with you , thank you for getting we trough the hardest and also the most beautiful moments❤️
The HONESTY is so refreshing!!
So interesting to hear Jonathan's perspective. My sister-in-law suffered(s) with Bulimia and when I first met her, I immediately saw the signs. One night when both of us were alone I offered her help and offered to help her find a therapist. Regardless of what I tried to do for her, her recovery was on her time. For years she would relapse, but I feel good that she knows I care and was always there for her. Like Jonathan, it is hard thing to watch from the outside, especially after you realize what is going on and knowing that they are doing more harm to themselves.
Michelle Gallegos you’ve said two things that are key to recovery from an ED or some kind of addiction. You can offer all the help in the world, but the person has to be ready to make changes and get help. The best you can do as a support person is be there and continue to offer positivity and help when you can.
Jonathan and Anna are both so amazing, individually and together. Love how Jonathan answers the questions truthfully and with no filter. Great video!!
'I love a good project' Jonathan 2020 😂😂 dead bless u twoo
Omg that was soooo great 😂
I have been watching you both since the Cork / no children days and I am so thankful and appreciative of how you speak on these tough topics. As a mental illness / ED sufferer, this gives me hope. Thank you immensly for this open and raw discussion. I know the podcast things is being done a lot at the moment but you 2 would be perfect for it. I admire you both so much, Jonathan’s approach is really the best approach I could ever wish for - letting the sufferer figure it out on their own but whilst remaining supportive, understanding that recovery needs to be their own decision and kinda let it run it’s course. I said this years ago and I say it again now ... I really hope I meet someone like either Jonathan or Anna for my partner. You’re both just such genuine, kind-hearted people 💕
I love Jonathan's perspective on this whole topic and just his thoughts on not judging others when we all have our own issues...so awesome to have that in a partner..reminds me of my husband 💗
I love Jonathan's answer about how Anna is a happier person now and the examples he used (taking out trash without getting angtsy). I think sometimes ppl expect signs of recovery to be shown in grand gestures. It's actually visible in the little things.
Thank you. Kids and teenagers need to be taught that it’s okay not to be okay, we’re not perfect. You’re such a positive normal role model xx
Johnathan’s outlook is so Irish, just get on with it the best you can, sin é! I love your relationship, ye are so caring and supportive of each other.
This was honest and beautiful! I hope everyone in whatever season of life they are in, watch this video and strive to find someone who brings out the best in themselves like the both of you do. You shared a great message in this video and everyone I’m SURE wants the same. The end of that video cracked me up so much because Jonathan’s simple honest comment came across so funny, but it really is that simple right?! Love the person you are with and WANT for THEM the happiness they deserve with no strings attached💕
Anna your parenting choices are very similar to mine. My children have always known that if they ask me a question I will give them a truthful and age appropriate answer. I have so many books, all at different age stages explaining sex, pregnancy, puberty, periods, relationships, sexuality, pornography (I have children’s books explaining the dangers of pornography) , contraception, alcohol, drugs and gender (and so many more topics) and my children even now at 10 and 13 always come to me before going to google/ asking friends etc.
My 13 year old son recently thanked me for being open and honest, he says it shocks him that his friends parents have never talked about the things we have talked about since he was a toddler (bearing in mind that I never deliberately taught any of the above, I was just open, honest and truthfully prepared when they asked me the hard questions). Both of my children are nonchalant and have no embarrassment in asking the ‘embarrassing questions,’ I am really glad they feel able to ask me - the alternative was asking friends or searching online and finding material that is just not appropriate for children to be watching! Obviously I would rather my children stay innocent - and I have found that my children are actually more innocent than their peers - they are more innocent because they are having their curiosity met in a way that isn’t exposing them to images/ videos that they are not old enough to process!
They know that I will never judge them and that there is nothing they could do that would stop me from loving them ! Both of my children know the actual meaning of all swear words and yet neither of my children swear - they have been taught the meaning and therefore are more considerate about insulting others..
My 10 year old daughter came home last week saying two girls in her class were saying ‘you are a virgin, that is so pathetic - you are such a baby!’
My daughter turned round and said ‘Do you actually understand the meaning of the word virgin? Yes, I am a virgin - I’m 10 years old - if you are not then someone should be going into jail as that’s disgusting’. The idea that 10 year old girls are going about saying that they are not virgins is horrifying! But then tik tok could be responsible 🙈🤷🏻♀️ thankfully my kids have zero interest in social media at the moment.
I’m the same. And I totally respect you as a parent! My 20 month old is a little chatter box for her age and has recently questioned why her older brother doesn’t talk (he has autism). She’s been telling me for a while “Arlo not talking” and I have always replied with “no, not today!” But recently she asked why and I explained to her in the most age appropriate way I could “Arlo has autism which means he doesn’t know how to talk yet” and she took it brilliantly. She’ll come to me everyday and ask “still autism?”. The more educated she is the better, and as she gets older and all the things you mentioned above get asked, I’ll approach it in the same way. Lovely to hear Anna and Jonathan feel the same way with theirs. X
Respect you greatly!
I have obviously not got any clue who you are but I have the upmost respect for you. You are/have raised your children wonderfully, keep doing what you are doing ❤️
Lyza Morcombe thank you for your kind reply! Your little girl sounds precious and reminds me so much of my daughter at that age! My son is also autistic. I am fortunate that my son has a great vocabulary and verbally has always been advanced. Do you use pecs (picture exchange communication system) or do you have an iPad app that allows your son to choose options (communicate that way)? Or have you tried learning baby sign language/ makaton, (I used the tiny talk signing program with both of my babies- alongside the word books)
There are several books aimed at teaching siblings about autism. They really helped us explain why our son would get overwhelmed/and why she needed to let us calm him and not risk herself. Thankfully my son hasn’t had a meltdown in years- he tends to suffer more with shutdowns if he is overwhelmed. My son and daughter are best friends now and my daughter is fiercely protective of her big brother.
Ami Stewart thank you - I suspect that sometimes they may have preferred that I wasn’t so honest 🙈- but given they continue to ask these questions I have to assume that they prefer the truth to the false truths that the internet can teach them. I just hope it continues - it would be my worst nightmare that my son or daughter made assumptions about sex off the internet/ particularly from porn 😨
😍love the honesty from Jonathan and how he was feeling. You’re an amazing couple and have gorgeous children and great role models
My daughter was affected by my eating disorder even though I never thought it did. When she was 7 she started wanting to eat cucumber and lettuce dipped in vinegar one piece at a time. She started not wanting to eat lots of things and I realized it was because of my constant food restrictions and constant dieting, saying I was fat when I wasn’t. She was a skinny little kid and it made me realize what I was doing. ...........I learned to hide it better then. 😥😢. Then I went to therapy and I’m fine, have been for over 20 years. I should maybe add I was brought up by parents who had addiction/personality problems that affected me from a small child to when I went through therapy. Anyway, just writing this because though She is only 7 , she has been watching you eat all her life, she may not be able to articulate what the problem was but she would have seen . Isn’t she the one who won’t eat lots of things? Not blaming Anna, I know you would never do anything to hurt any of the kids, I never in a million years would do anything to knowingly hurt my kids but it did hurt her. Thank you for doing this, it took guts on both your parts. 🥰🙋🏼
My Mom had an eating disorder and I remember the first time I noticed I was 8. It affected me in all kinds of ways I won’t go into but kids do know way more than you think they do.
I’m glad you’re doing well Anna. You’re a beautiful person inside and out!
I love Jonathan's perspective on things!
You have been and still are my favourite couple 10 years on. Jonathon really does set the bench mark for the kind of love I know I also deserve and Anna you are the ultimate woman. You’re real, honest, hilarious and feisty but you’re also so soft and feminine. I honestly can’t thank you both enough for helping me keep hold of the hope that genuine unity can happen with the right person xx
I love when y’all have these real conversations about real issues. You shouldn’t have to sugar coat things in order to make other people happy. You guys are an inspiration to so many people!
This gives me hope, because while I dont suffer from an eating disorder I have been struggling with depression and anxiety. My bf of 5 years has been great and its great to see after 12 years ur relationship is so strong even while having a recovery journey! Thank you for sharing this Anna! Im sure its helpful and inspirational to alot of people!
Love seeing you guys be so open, honest, happy and with a sense on humor! I’d love to see more of these chatty videos of you two 💜 love you guys!
I love that you are speaking about this! I also really struggle with an eating disorder and I am so happy to know you are doing better, Anna is SO brave to talk about this publicly and her recovery is so inspiring to me. I hope to be in recovery like her one day. 💖
Love the video, great job Anna 💓! I enjoyed seeing Jonathan’s perspective and how he answered the questions honestly.
Jonathan’s ‘yeah sure’ at the end.. 🙈 he meant ‘I love you no matter what, it doesn’t make you a different person’ but it came out so nonchalant 😂
ik I was like Ah Bless his soul :D
Liv Zieba at least we know what he means 🙈
Omg I was crying laughing at Jonathan. Y’all are amazing. I love you both so much. Thanks so much for sharing and being honest.
if anyone reads this I just want youth know that men can have eating disorders too not just women!
I totally love Jonathan for how mature and non judgmental he is ❤️
You are such a together couple.....a perfect fit and I totally can see that you’ve just grown closer the longer you’ve been together🙏 xxx
Great vlog. Very honest and I’m sure it will help a lot of people 👏 xxx
I love these types of videos!! You’re such a resilient and loving couple! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings in such a realistic way! Eating Disorders and addictions are so complex and I hope I get to experience a relationship like yours someday. I’ve learned so much from you two and you and your family have been such a light for me in my darkest days. I hope you’re having a great evening xxxxx 😘
Whenever i watch the two of you guys talking, I cant help but marvel at the (most likely) amazing lives and relationships ur children are gonna have because of your views and approach to life. Wishing you all nothing but happiness always ✨
kids are blessed to have parents as aware and understanding as you two
Anna I love that you’re so brave opening up about this. I’m grateful you have, even though I haven’t been through that but I am happy that you recovered and trying to make a difference to change men and women’s perspective on their bodies when they’re internally suffering. You are all beautiful and I need to take on my own message and you’re as well❤️❤️❤️
This was a really down to earth and honest discussion about a heavy topic, which I think goes to show that we all have our own issues, and we don’t always know the right thing to do or say, but when you love someone you stick it out and try your best to support them❤️
I see so much of my husband in Jonathan. Anna, you are so lucky to have Jonathan, he is so supportive of you and it really shows in this video.
I agree with you both on giving kids honest answers when they ask, my 20 month old has started to question why her older brother is different, I didn’t think I’d have to answer for a while (she’s very advanced for her age - ahh!).
You and Jonathan are brilliant parents and it comes across when watching the children.
It feels so good to see you looking so happy Anna. Sending you all the positive hugs ❤️
I’d like to say thank you to Anna and Jonathan for everything they’re doing in this community! I was 11 when I started watching your videos(it was even before Emilia was born) and I could barely understand English! And here I am 21 y.o. sitting here watching this video and being able to understand everything you are talking about. I went through a lot of things during last 10 years but I always had this amazing example of your relationships by my side. You inspire me so much and you both are doing a great job sharing your experience with us and I’m so thankful to be able to grow up watching your incredible family!
I've been watching you both for 10 years now, and seeing the journey you guys have been through and the growth between the two of you has been incredibly heart warming. Your children are in capable hands.
love love LOVE these open and honest and unfiltered convos with you two. i know no relationship is perfect, but for years now i always think about how if i am ever married i hope to have the same amount of support, understanding and love that you two have. honestly the most amazing duo. you guys are so strong and i am so happy you have each other in times when you needed it the most
Anna you’re such a support for me in my recovery, thank you so much for continuing to share about this.
He is the perfect man. So supportive. And a great dad to boot
This is a really good video Anna! Love these type of videos too! Just shows how perfect you are for each other 🥰❤️ and I hope I find someone like you have. Super proud of the journey you been on and I know if the kids go through anything, you will be there for them ❤️😂
Anna and johnathan are the most loveliest people xx 😀❤️
WOW, I don't think I have ever seen a Q&A addressing the husband/significant others point of view regarding a eating disorder/addiction. Very open and honest! Well done you two!
This was so good. Thank you Jonathan and thank you Anna for being so open and honest. I’ve definitely noticed you seem happier. You sharing your journey with us has really helped me. I started gaining weight over the last few years and have just felt so awful about my changing body. You’ve really helped me sort through those feelings and start accepting my body and learning to love it again.
It's clear to see how much the both of you have saved each other and given each other pure happiness.
Jonathan chill attitude is just the best and making jokes about the serious things in life too is such a good thing to do. Xx
Great video! Always appreciate Jonathan's lack of a filter bc it's real. (& hilarious) I like the rawness of this video and how it shows an honest relationship. Good job talking through a tough subject.
Jonathan is literally dad and husband goals
Love how you 2 have been able to sit down and talk about this to us especially when anna was so young but I am so glad she has jonathan to support her
Hi Anna! I just want you to know you look wayyyyyy better now than you ever have! I mean you’ve always been gorgeous but you look healthy now. It’s funny because we’re the same age. I’ve always been 90lbs up until I hit 31. Now I’ve gained weight and although it’s been tough with such a big change, you make me realize the compliments I’m receiving now aren’t just trying to make me feel better. We just really do look healthier, brighter, happier. Thank you for sharing your story as you have.
Jonathan's answers were so like my boyfriend's way of thinking. Honest and to the point. He just wants Anna to be happy. Great video!
I absolutely love the personal talks. It feels like being welcomed into a friendship. My son is 14 and we’ve had to start conversations on bodies and food and the difference between healthy and destructive diets. I would have never thought to have that conversation any younger than that. I do know that when I explain my flaws and experiences he sees me as human and a safe place. Thanks for the incites.
I find this really sad, and really admire Anna for being so open. EDs are about control, and I think this has been evident of Anna’s personality. For anyone who is having difficulties I’d highly recommend Emma Woolf’s book Letting Go x
Such a great raw honest conversation. Laughed a lot at Jonathan’s honesty and blurting out things randomly. Lol
I love that Jonathan cares so much and isn’t judgemental! I aspire to be in a relationship like yours xxx
Long time viewer but I rarely comment. As a ED sufferer I have to say a big thank you for this video. It was refreshing and comforting to hear you both speak about this topic. Also put a huge smile on my face 😊
I love how open and honest you both are.
I found your RUclips when I was about 15 watching your the style diet videos and have been watching you and the vlog channel for years (I am 25 now)! Firstly I can’t get over how much I see Emilia in you in this video and secondly it’s really nice to see how supportive Jonathan is of you! It’s so clear he adores you 😍💕
So brave to do this loving the videos that you have been putting out! Such a inspiration ❤️
I love everything about this video. The open and realness of it all is so helpful, whilst still being lighthearted and fun. Well done guys❤️
I'm dying at the vagina comment 😂😂😂
This video was really informative and goes to show that being with the right person you will overcome anything whether that be, on yourself, your own personal issues or whatever it is. You guys are amazing parents . 💓
❤️❤️❤️ I’m 4 years sober from Alcohol and 15 years from cocaine. So proud of you. The more you talk the stronger you will be. ❤️❤️❤️
As someone who runs weight management and eating disorder programmes, everyone's story is different. I admire you immensely Anna for being honest. The difference on video between when you had Amelia and now is so much more positive. I hope you continue with ongoing health and happiness. I tell everyone at the start of my weight management programme...I'm not so interested in your weight, I am interested in your health.