Scapegoating and blaming often happens in a dysfunctional society. Folks usually project their own trauma and undesirable traits onto a scapegoat. In making the scapegoat the problem; folks don't need to examine their own selves.
You can not avoid becoming a scapegoat of others because you have no control over their choices and actions. You can adress their shadows as kindly as possible, but as long as they choose to deny them and project them onto you there is nothing more you can do besides standing your ground in truth and love and seeking comfort in God.
❤❤!!!!!QUESTION!!!!!❤❤ A while ago some woman decided to go skipp my turn in the line and put her stuff on the counter while it was my turn. When I told her it was my turn she justified her actions by using her preganancy as an excuse. Basically turning the situation around and shaming me for not allowing her to disregard me. Even staff looked at me angrily and pointed me to the counter bext to it that has just become availeble. This whole situation was so triggering for me. I stood up for my rights and got shamed for it. I communicated in a respectful manner, but using my voice was pointless since they all kinda ganged up against me. What is this situation telling me? Am I wrong for getting angry when someone is playing me in such faul manner? What does this tell me about my own shadow? I think its important to stand up for myself. CAN SOMEONE HELP ME SEE HOW THE WISDOM FROM THE VIDEO IS APPLICABLE TO THIS SITUATION??? (especially what is said in the last part of integration)
Scapegoating and blaming often happens in a dysfunctional society. Folks usually project their own trauma and undesirable traits onto a scapegoat. In making the scapegoat the problem; folks don't need to examine their own selves.
This!
You can not avoid becoming a scapegoat of others because you have no control over their choices and actions.
You can adress their shadows as kindly as possible, but as long as they choose to deny them and project them onto you there is nothing more you can do besides standing your ground in truth and love and seeking comfort in God.
love your content!
Thank You for this I really needed this, god bless you.
This was a really well explained and informative video.
More on the topic of shadowwork please and especially on how to integrate the shadow.❤
Thank you for sharing the knowledge & wisdom it’s greatly appreciated 🙏🧠♥️☮️💯
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❤❤!!!!!QUESTION!!!!!❤❤
A while ago some woman decided to go skipp my turn in the line and put her stuff on the counter while it was my turn. When I told her it was my turn she justified her actions by using her preganancy as an excuse. Basically turning the situation around and shaming me for not allowing her to disregard me.
Even staff looked at me angrily and pointed me to the counter bext to it that has just become availeble.
This whole situation was so triggering for me. I stood up for my rights and got shamed for it.
I communicated in a respectful manner, but using my voice was pointless since they all kinda ganged up against me.
What is this situation telling me? Am I wrong for getting angry when someone is playing me in such faul manner? What does this tell me about my own shadow? I think its important to stand up for myself.
CAN SOMEONE HELP ME SEE HOW THE WISDOM FROM THE VIDEO IS APPLICABLE TO THIS SITUATION???
(especially what is said in the last part of integration)
❤Thank you❤
Integrating ❤
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