The title would be changed to “is it okay to fall in love in a gay bathhouse?” Or “that time I fell in love in a gay bathhouse” lol. I’d probably be an isekai anime as well.
Ugh literally love this video. Totally agree that society weaponizes shame to make ppl feel like being themselves and having sex is wrong, talking abt and sharing stories of queer life is so so important ❤
OMG, you guys are amazing! Love the candid discussions on the “scene” in Japan. It’s interesting to hear about the cultural differences of these spaces, and happy to see you guys dispelling the stigma of visiting these venues.
We're in a You Tube rut... watching the same channels over and over. So I don't know how it happened but thankful we finally found you both! So enjoyable! So accepting! So "out there." I'm especially grateful that the You Tube censors allow you to do your thing! I don't know how you do it but so glad you produce these videos. Many, many warm thoughts go out to you both.
I have never heard similar things happening in the Lesbian community, but I figured there may be just things I don't know. I will try to find some women who would be happy to talk about what goes on!
Glad my algorithm brought me to your channel! Very interesting indeed. I'm from Canada but have been living near Monaco forever. In Canada I used to manage gay bathhouses for 13 years, just so you know, men of all nationalities would play the sleeping game in their rooms to various extents as well. ;)
Love the idea of a guide. You might also consider a service where you make suggestions of places to go based on the experience someone wants. Basically a guide book, but you'd be able to make current suggestions and tailor them to what they're looking for. The benefit of this service would be A) you could make current suggestions so people don't end up somewhere that has closed or changed since the guide came out and B) the kinky board game kinda gay doesn't end up at club where people do something they're not comfortable with.
Okay I need one of y’all as a guide to take me to these places next time I visit. So many different places and I didn’t know about the locker key thing. I did guess the sleeping thing when I went, I was more successful when I was “sleeping” haha
Hilarious! It’s so fun to watch you guys talking! It reminds me one of the dirtiest hattenba in Tokyo, where I could learn some new kind of human being.
How awesome. Only just found you and this has been so enlightening. I ve always viewed Japan as very hidden gay culture so it’s great to know there are places. Lots by the sound of it.
I laughed so hard at the "crocodile" comment. I've never been to a bathhouse here in the USA but I have heard so many stories from friends. The crocodile is definitely what happens.
Bathhouses aren't just for cruising. The one time I went to one (in Dublin) was with a guy I'd met on Grindr. We'd chatted on the app, and met up in person, and kissed a few times, and had our hands down each other's pants, and even had lunch together, but we had nowhere to hook up. He had roommates, and I lived well outside the city and commuted in. So we went to a bathhouse together. We weren't a couple. It was a good time.
This part about sleeping is interesting. I went to one with a friend, and after I finished and was waiting for him, I went to a corner and was just lying down resting. However, some people went to me to try to start something and I had to keep saying "I already finished and I'm just waiting for my friend", while actually thinking "gee, isn't lying down with my eyes closed a sign of 'I don't want to do anything'?". I'd never guess this was instead an invitation for people to try doing things...
What is the name and address of the bar with hattenba characteristics you are discussing? Also, what is the name and address of the actual Hattenba? I'm planning a trip to Tokyo.
So.. post-covid... I'm gonna need to know where the good Fundoshi night is... And also as a MISIA Stan, I need to go with you guys to this bar, just on principal. Love the channel
You guys are great! I lived in Tokyo many years ago and you taught me a thing or too. You guys seem fun to hang out with. I go to Tokyo 3times/year from montreal
I just got back from Japan. Wish I had found this video sooner. Would've loved info about those bars you went to. I did have fun with a couple of guys but a naked game place would've been amazing
Last time you mentioned Morning Musume, now it is Misia’a My Everything. Brings back lots of memories of my first few Japan trips in early 2000s. Oooops! Did I just revealed my age? Haha.
Perhaps this is a stupid question but do they have protection at these bathhouses? I hear Japan has a pretty big STD problem so I just wanna know everyone is staying safe 😅
Great video, very informative!! loved it, and I expected both of you to have stories like this anyways, that's what happens in places like those mentioned.
@@TokyoBTM lolol that's that thing! I don't have many really, LGBT life in the Caribbean is ...different...I'll be more than glad to do a voice interview if you ever want to do those for videos :D
Love the videos guys...... i am planning on visiting Japan next year and staying in Shinjuku..... and your videos are making my stay there a lot more relaxing as i will be traveling alone..(i never found love.. lol). Maybe i will see you guys one night...
Producing a gay bathhouse guide would be a full time job, if you intend it to be up-to-date year after year. Plus you would need VERY good maps given the fact that most streets in Japan are un-named, not to mention the warren that is Shinjuku and Kabukicho. A guide to etiquette and what to expect might be part of it. But first you have the writing of it, (and how could you write about a place without visiting it?), then publishing it, and then distributing it. (Hello, what happened to my life?) Best to stick to RUclips videos perhaps?
Gotta say, as a straight dad who happened upon this channel while looking for the recent Ch4 UK gay bathhouse doc, these vids do give a fascinating insight into a Japan I had no idea about despite living here for 20 years! Cheers! Not sure what to do with this knowledge other than impress colleagues with my worldliness at the next company nomikai, though!
I've went into so many bathhouses in Japan and didn't know about all the position of the bracelets.. thats why I got paired with wrong people all the time LOL. I must take notes!
You two are AMAZING! Just adorable! I LOVE it that you talk in your frank way. Just like we talk. And to be sure: tomorrow I'll be moving to Japan for good! ha ha .... oops. only now I finished the video ... YOU are facing rejection???? I don't believe one word of it!
I don't know put key on wrist endicate top or bottom..I just put on my left side because my comfort..I don't put on ankle.. sometime on my right hand because tired on left hand..thats why I see people avoid me when I approach them because my wrist key..
That “dark time” sounds hilarious! imagine an unsuspecting gay gaijin sitting at the bar and suddenly the lights dim and “ your everythinggg!!!! “ starts playing Hahahaha
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This was interesting and entertaining. 😃 I know a gay couple who are now married and have been together for over a decade, and they met in a bathhouse. They are professional, well educated guys, so all different types of people go to bathhouses. I believe you can meet "dateable" people almost anywhere.
Just discovered your channel the other night and enjoying the content. Question: do gay bathhouses in Japan allow tattoos? I have many all over my body and curious if I’d get to participate at any venues or not? I’m from NYC and I’ve been to bathhouses all over the world. Brazil has hands down the BEST I’ve everrrr been to thus far fyi. Cheers boys xx
First of all thank you for your video, especialy the funny story of the pool full of lub. I plan to go visiting Tokyo soon with my husband and I'm not sure he would appreciate these sort of places. Could you recommand places you can go as a gay couple. What about onsen ? Does it exist for gay people ?
Please check out our Top 7 video for sentos/onsen info (not like sexual bathhouses, but just a place where gays go to bathe). As for places that are good for gay couples, we also talk about a famous bathhouse in Shinjuku (at the end of the video). That would be couple-friendly I think!
Very nice subject to talk about. I went to this bathhouse in Sao Paulo / Brazil. I think it's the biggest and most famous. It's a nice experience but like you guys have said, I'd like to have more time talking as well. And the face rejection topic is so sad ): I felt the same hahaha But it is ok. I'd love to have this experience in Japan as well.
I was in Rio in 2019 at the bath house there and it was okay...I don't know if you really need to speak the language in order to get more interaction but I kept getting play from more tourists than I did from anybody from Brazil...
Are you guys just friends? I've never been in Japan but hoping to go in 2022. I love your chats. I'm from America gay and out since I was18. I'm very attracted to Asian's especially Japanese guys. I learned a lot from this video .I'm learning some Japanese but quite frankly it's hard to learn but I'll just keep practicing . Thanks for posting new videos. Stay safe and have fun. ;)
omg you brought me back so many memories.... I wanna go back so bad to Tokyo and the crazy hattenba hahaha I'm surprised none of you talked about bukkake tho 😂 😂 ...anyway thanks for sharing and spreading love & acceptance ❤️
I love how open you guys are to exploring new places! The way you present it is so informal too, like having a conversation with some friends. Stay safe while you're exploring so you don't get the 'rona (the virus or the beer :-p)
FunFact: Writer Gore Vidal met his long-term partner, Howard Austen, in a NYC bathhouse in the 50's. Also, I just stumbled on this channel. Love your banter
This was interesting and informative. I lived in japan in the late 90s and didn’t know how to access bathhouses or any facility that was gay friendly! If I come back for a visit post pandemic, is there more information for gay visitors?
Not gonna lie but I've been to various .......hattenba, like the one in Shinjuku but this is the first I heard about the where you put your locker key indicate your preferences XD. Hattenba always make a good stories.
wow...This has been an education. I didn't realize that such a huge gay culture existed in what seems like a very conservative culture. Thanks for sharing!
“It’s ok to fall in love in a bathhouse” sounds like a light novel title.
Danielle Steel novel! hahah
A light novel with sticky pages.
@@TokyoBTM I wanted to hear more about the older white guy, lol. ;p
The title would be changed to “is it okay to fall in love in a gay bathhouse?” Or “that time I fell in love in a gay bathhouse” lol. I’d probably be an isekai anime as well.
My book on Amazon is called "Bathhouse Babylon The Good, The Bad and the Horny." lol
You guys are so candid I love it- I literally feel like you can't get this anywhere else everyone is so reserved on RUclips
Thank you for that! It reminds us to be ourselves!
Ugh literally love this video. Totally agree that society weaponizes shame to make ppl feel like being themselves and having sex is wrong, talking abt and sharing stories of queer life is so so important ❤
OMG, you guys are amazing! Love the candid discussions on the “scene” in Japan. It’s interesting to hear about the cultural differences of these spaces, and happy to see you guys dispelling the stigma of visiting these venues.
Thank you so much for the above and glad to hear you enjoyed it! Hopefully we can create more sex positivity!
I’m Japanese. The video makes me sick !!
I need a Tokyo BTM booklet with all your gay advice in Japan 🙏🏽
We should start getting to work on that!
Let us know when it drops 💫 Love your videos!
@@TokyoBTM Given how many gay people and tourists go to Japan.
I am sure it would sell well.
You could make even make a series.
Thank you!
That is a good idea
We're in a You Tube rut... watching the same channels over and over. So I don't know how it happened but thankful we finally found you both! So enjoyable! So accepting! So "out there." I'm especially grateful that the You Tube censors allow you to do your thing! I don't know how you do it but so glad you produce these videos. Many, many warm thoughts go out to you both.
I went to the bathhouse in Osaka when I was there. As a Puerto Rican in Japan, I felt special 🤣🤣
Darn i wanna go
We wanna go too!
Los japoneses quedaronse locos jajajaja
Because: you ARE Special! Respectfully yours Gregg Oreo Long Beach CA Etats Unis
Your videos are so interesting, I love how open you guys talk about these kind of topics!
Thank you! We try our best to be open and candid!
I really found this so entertaining and informative.would Love More of these honest raw conversations🙏🔥❤
More to come!
Thank you for sharing different perspectives. It is really enjoyable to watch. I like how you convey the stories.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Stupid
Interesting conversation! That is definitely a gay boy thang. I don't see many lesbians having this kind of fun! Thanks for sharing the details!
I have never heard similar things happening in the Lesbian community, but I figured there may be just things I don't know. I will try to find some women who would be happy to talk about what goes on!
@@TokyoBTM YES PLEASE!!🥺
I would totally buy your book ! It would help to avoid wasting time and possible embarrassment
I've wasted so much time, but now you don't have to! haha that can be our selling line!
Omgggg! You gave it away with the dark room song! Loved the old venue~
Maybe we'll have a new song next time ♪
I loved the way you guys talked about these topics! Congrats from Brazil!!!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Glad my algorithm brought me to your channel! Very interesting indeed. I'm from Canada but have been living near Monaco forever. In Canada I used to manage gay bathhouses for 13 years, just so you know, men of all nationalities would play the sleeping game in their rooms to various extents as well. ;)
Oh this happened in Canada too!?
@@TokyoBTM Oh yes, was quite the usual.
You two are absolutely hilarious! I wish i had gay friends like you guys to talk to about stuff like this 😊
I'm pretty sure ankle bracelet means: house arrest...
You just killed me😂😂😂😂
Lol
BAHAHAHA
Hahahaha glow in the dark house arrest bracelets 😂
I think thats an ankle monitor lmao
Love the idea of a guide.
You might also consider a service where you make suggestions of places to go based on the experience someone wants. Basically a guide book, but you'd be able to make current suggestions and tailor them to what they're looking for.
The benefit of this service would be A) you could make current suggestions so people don't end up somewhere that has closed or changed since the guide came out and B) the kinky board game kinda gay doesn't end up at club where people do something they're not comfortable with.
That is a great idea! Thank you for the suggestion! Maybe you'll see a full-blown service sometime soon! hahaha
You two are so great! Fabulous stories - loved it!
Thanks for joining us!
Okay I need one of y’all as a guide to take me to these places next time I visit. So many different places and I didn’t know about the locker key thing. I did guess the sleeping thing when I went, I was more successful when I was “sleeping” haha
Hopefully we can get a guide out before Japan reopens!
Wow just wow.... i hav nevr seen such video in youtube... just loved it... keep it up bro....
Hilarious! It’s so fun to watch you guys talking! It reminds me one of the dirtiest hattenba in Tokyo, where I could learn some new kind of human being.
Hahaha which hattenba was that...? Yea, there is a whole hidden side of people that sometimes comes out at these places! Glad you enjoyed!
Just discovered the Channel and love it already, a big hug from Argentina.
Glad that you like our channel :)
How awesome. Only just found you and this has been so enlightening. I ve always viewed Japan as very hidden gay culture so it’s great to know there are places. Lots by the sound of it.
More than meets the eye!
You BOTH are so ooo Fun! These bath houses sound like Theme party venues. Tokyo 2023 for me
Lots of fun venues to check out!
“My Everything” remix GOT ME DEAD I know exactly which bar you’re talking about!!
HAHAHAHA it is a fun time!
Which bar is it 🥲 I wanna go and see, you know, just check it out lol
This was so candid I love it so informative
Thank you! 😂
Another great video! I wish I’d known about the left-right wrist protocol with I visited Tokyo last time!!
Now you do!
I laughed so hard at the "crocodile" comment. I've never been to a bathhouse here in the USA but I have heard so many stories from friends. The crocodile is definitely what happens.
Crocodiles in the States too?
Thank you for the information! Well done.
Thanks for watching!
Bathhouses aren't just for cruising. The one time I went to one (in Dublin) was with a guy I'd met on Grindr. We'd chatted on the app, and met up in person, and kissed a few times, and had our hands down each other's pants, and even had lunch together, but we had nowhere to hook up. He had roommates, and I lived well outside the city and commuted in. So we went to a bathhouse together. We weren't a couple.
It was a good time.
Just found this channel. Actually really like it you guys make me want to visit japan :)
When I going to Tokyo for travel! It would be great to have you two as tour guide!😄😄!!!love your channel ♥️♥️♥️
Thanks so much! Glad you are enjoying it!
I learned a new word today. I love hattemba! Btw, I would totally buy your guide. I needed it for my trip to Tokyo in 2019.
Maybe 2022 then!
@@TokyoBTM ❤️
This part about sleeping is interesting. I went to one with a friend, and after I finished and was waiting for him, I went to a corner and was just lying down resting. However, some people went to me to try to start something and I had to keep saying "I already finished and I'm just waiting for my friend", while actually thinking "gee, isn't lying down with my eyes closed a sign of 'I don't want to do anything'?". I'd never guess this was instead an invitation for people to try doing things...
Interesting right?
What is the name and address of the bar with hattenba characteristics you are discussing? Also, what is the name and address of the actual Hattenba? I'm planning a trip to Tokyo.
This was really interesting and entertaining. I love seeing how gay culture differs in different places.
Glad you enjoyed!
Ur contact nmbr ......ur country name
Hiee sweet
Loving your videos and I *need* that mug! 😍
It's super cute right?
Hloo sweeet.......how r u.....
Hie sweet how r u
Thanks guys that was so informative! Love your channel!❤
haha you definitely need to visit a hattenba sometime
It’s interesting to know different bathhouse culture from different places around the world!
You guys are my new faves! ❤️
Aww we are someone's favourites! So nice to hear! I hope we won't let you down!
Really really enjoy your videos! Keep them coming! 😘
Thanks so much! Tell all your friends! haha
So.. post-covid... I'm gonna need to know where the good Fundoshi night is... And also as a MISIA Stan, I need to go with you guys to this bar, just on principal. Love the channel
Check out our top 7 video - we talk about it again there!
You guys are great! I lived in Tokyo many years ago and you taught me a thing or too. You guys seem fun to hang out with. I go to Tokyo 3times/year from montreal
Welcome from Montreal! Hope you'll visit again soon!
Love u guys!! Just subscribed. 😘
Thanks for subbing! 😘
I just got back from Japan. Wish I had found this video sooner. Would've loved info about those bars you went to. I did have fun with a couple of guys but a naked game place would've been amazing
Last time you mentioned Morning Musume, now it is Misia’a My Everything. Brings back lots of memories of my first few Japan trips in early 2000s. Oooops! Did I just revealed my age? Haha.
Perhaps this is a stupid question but do they have protection at these bathhouses? I hear Japan has a pretty big STD problem so I just wanna know everyone is staying safe 😅
Great content guys. Greetings from Sweden.
Great video, very informative!! loved it, and I expected both of you to have stories like this anyways, that's what happens in places like those mentioned.
What are your side stories? ;)
@@TokyoBTM lolol that's that thing! I don't have many really, LGBT life in the Caribbean is ...different...I'll be more than glad to do a voice interview if you ever want to do those for videos :D
Sounds good!
We just discovered you!!! We love your channel :) hope soon we can travel to Japan, is one of our priority.
Thank you for joining us! Hope you can visit Japan soon!
Very interesting. New to the channel and have enjoyed your open, candid, playful presentation.
Thank you! We were a bit nervous but it worked out!
Love the videos guys...... i am planning on visiting Japan next year and staying in Shinjuku..... and your videos are making my stay there a lot more relaxing as i will be traveling alone..(i never found love.. lol). Maybe i will see you guys one night...
I'm sure you'll run into us somewhere!
Their off-screen footsie was adorable. Let us see those toes tussle next time! 😅
Loved this video guys 😁❤️❤️❤️
Your support means so much
Producing a gay bathhouse guide would be a full time job, if you intend it to be up-to-date year after year. Plus you would need VERY good maps given the fact that most streets in Japan are un-named, not to mention the warren that is Shinjuku and Kabukicho. A guide to etiquette and what to expect might be part of it. But first you have the writing of it, (and how could you write about a place without visiting it?), then publishing it, and then distributing it. (Hello, what happened to my life?) Best to stick to RUclips videos perhaps?
Yes, this is why we haven't started yet...it's a daunting task!
Gotta say, as a straight dad who happened upon this channel while looking for the recent Ch4 UK gay bathhouse doc, these vids do give a fascinating insight into a Japan I had no idea about despite living here for 20 years! Cheers! Not sure what to do with this knowledge other than impress colleagues with my worldliness at the next company nomikai, though!
YAS to the guide! And YAAAASSSS if you guys are doing a tour of the bars/hattenba/etc lol
Good to know! We better start working on it...hahaha
I've went into so many bathhouses in Japan and didn't know about all the position of the bracelets.. thats why I got paired with wrong people all the time LOL. I must take notes!
I hope your visits go more smoothly now!
Someone forwarded this vid to me and I LOVE IT! It's so interesting and educational! Thanks for sharing!
Thank you for watching it and thank you to the person who forwarded it to you! It's so nice to hear!
You two are AMAZING! Just adorable! I LOVE it that you talk in your frank way. Just like we talk. And to be sure: tomorrow I'll be moving to Japan for good! ha ha .... oops. only now I finished the video ... YOU are facing rejection???? I don't believe one word of it!
Sweet of you to say!
Hey, just wondering the name of the board game cafe? Heading to Japan soon and like the sound of it. Loving your videos.
Watched this so many times. You are hilarious! I think actually is a great idea to create a book/guide with your recommendations for foreigners 👀
haha we just dont have the time to do it yet
you guys are hilarious... I had to subscribe.
Thanks for the support!
Haha I just left a comment on another video and then found this 😊 tell us where these places are!! I’d buy your guidebook lol
What is your type?
I don't know put key on wrist endicate top or bottom..I just put on my left side because my comfort..I don't put on ankle.. sometime on my right hand because tired on left hand..thats why I see people avoid me when I approach them because my wrist key..
It has happened to me too!
Really good information to know when I go to Japan. Thank you :]
Our pleasure!
Hiee sweet
Ah, yes, that wonderful feeling of lower self-esteem after leaving the hattenba. Gotta love it 😔
ughhhh, I definitely hate that feeling, but I learned to be unbothered. "not interested? thank you, next!"
your problem if you seek validation and self worth from external sources x
@@mwamussa lol, Musa's not wrong hahahah!
Hey, you guys are so much fun! I'm planning a trip to Tokyo in July. Can I hang out with you guys?
First time and enjoyed it both awesome
I need names of places, schedules, etc lol
See you Friday nights, Tokyo Bottoms 😉 😉
Hahaha let's overrun that place, looking for love!
That “dark time” sounds hilarious! imagine an unsuspecting gay gaijin sitting at the bar and suddenly the lights dim and “ your everythinggg!!!! “ starts playing Hahahaha
It is really a sight to behold
that Sauna in Toronto there’s only at Church and Wellesly 🤣 Steamworks
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Thank you for all the positive energy! Keeps us going strong! ❤️
If we ever get around to doing a book, please grab a copy! It would be a fun read I bet!
Thank you for watching us! Our female audience means everything to us!! ❤️❤️
This was interesting and entertaining. 😃
I know a gay couple who are now married and have been together for over a decade, and they met in a bathhouse.
They are professional, well educated guys, so all different types of people go to bathhouses.
I believe you can meet "dateable" people almost anywhere.
Gives me hope!
Just discovered your channel the other night and enjoying the content. Question: do gay bathhouses in Japan allow tattoos? I have many all over my body and curious if I’d get to participate at any venues or not? I’m from NYC and I’ve been to bathhouses all over the world. Brazil has hands down the BEST I’ve everrrr been to thus far fyi. Cheers boys xx
First of all thank you for your video, especialy the funny story of the pool full of lub. I plan to go visiting Tokyo soon with my husband and I'm not sure he would appreciate these sort of places. Could you recommand places you can go as a gay couple. What about onsen ? Does it exist for gay people ?
Please check out our Top 7 video for sentos/onsen info (not like sexual bathhouses, but just a place where gays go to bathe). As for places that are good for gay couples, we also talk about a famous bathhouse in Shinjuku (at the end of the video). That would be couple-friendly I think!
Very nice subject to talk about. I went to this bathhouse in Sao Paulo / Brazil. I think it's the biggest and most famous. It's a nice experience but like you guys have said, I'd like to have more time talking as well. And the face rejection topic is so sad ): I felt the same hahaha But it is ok. I'd love to have this experience in Japan as well.
I was in Rio in 2019 at the bath house there and it was okay...I don't know if you really need to speak the language in order to get more interaction but I kept getting play from more tourists than I did from anybody from Brazil...
Guys this was just so light hearted and enjoyable, you make me want to visit asian countries. And I never travel.
Are you guys just friends? I've never been in Japan but hoping to go in 2022. I love your chats. I'm from America gay and out since I was18. I'm very attracted to Asian's especially Japanese guys. I learned a lot from this video .I'm learning some Japanese but quite frankly it's hard to learn but I'll just keep practicing . Thanks for posting new videos. Stay safe and have fun. ;)
I just subscribed, I have watched you guys a few times and I enjoy your chatter. Are you guys a couple?
omg you brought me back so many memories....
I wanna go back so bad to Tokyo and the crazy hattenba hahaha
I'm surprised none of you talked about bukkake tho 😂 😂 ...anyway thanks for sharing and spreading love & acceptance ❤️
So many themed nights! Maybe we should cover individual themed nights...
I love how open you guys are to exploring new places! The way you present it is so informal too, like having a conversation with some friends. Stay safe while you're exploring so you don't get the 'rona (the virus or the beer :-p)
Thank you so much for the positive support!
FunFact: Writer Gore Vidal met his long-term partner, Howard Austen, in a NYC bathhouse in the 50's.
Also, I just stumbled on this channel. Love your banter
We can find love then!?
Id buy your handbook!!!
Bath houses in the US are an endangered species. Had lots of fun in my younger days at the bath house near by.
I heard that apps have been killing them off!
Please do a handbook. Been to Tokyo and it's hard to find anything. Except Mr donut. I can find that hahah
Mr Donut is pretty amazing though
This was interesting and informative. I lived in japan in the late 90s and didn’t know how to access bathhouses or any facility that was gay friendly! If I come back for a visit post pandemic, is there more information for gay visitors?
Our channel is more information for gay visitors! haha
Meng ( Ming ?) is so handsome and you both seem like great friends to have
I need to know .... i need to know... where are thee places..??????????
I need that hatenba guide for my next time in Tokyo!
Still going through all your videos and learning so much about gay life in Japan oh my ❤😘✌🌈🏳️🌈🇯🇵
Wondering if you have posted a list of recommended hattenba to visit in ? :D
The bar with the pool and kotatsu closed last year.
So sad!!!
where is this hattenba? will visit Tokyo next week.. :) お願いします。
Fascinating vlog! Insightful 👍😉🇺🇸🌈
Thanks so much! Hope it was a fun watch!
what is this board game cafe you are talking about? Ever went?
What’s the name of the bar with the 3 kitty pools? That place sounds exciting
Not gonna lie but I've been to various .......hattenba, like the one in Shinjuku but this is the first I heard about the where you put your locker key indicate your preferences XD. Hattenba always make a good stories.
They really do! And now you know about the keys!
wow...This has been an education. I didn't realize that such a huge gay culture existed in what seems like a very conservative culture. Thanks for sharing!
YAAASS SIS IM LIVING!
Glad to help!