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  • We're Struggling... Got pretty emotional in this one. Thanks so much for watching and hoping you have an amazing week :)
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  • @vollblut-mama
    @vollblut-mama Год назад +48

    Our Kids will Always be our Babys!! 4 ever! Not Impossible how old they are. Best wishes from a German Mom of 6♥️

  • @marymavrich8331
    @marymavrich8331 Год назад +22

    I cried with you guys but I am a grandma right now which is a blessing. I get to step back in time and watch my granddaughters play, snuggle, and things I took for granted. Enjoy this time with your little ones but I hope you can realize that it just keeps getting better. I have two adult daughters that are my best friends and I get to help them with their children and they appreciate my wisdom.

  • @chrissiedcohen
    @chrissiedcohen Год назад +19

    Aww, this was sweet to share your raw emotions. My kiddo is turning 20 years old this summer. I want to tell you that every stage is new & exciting (not just when they are littles). Always be interested in what they are interested in…it strengthens the bond of the relationship. 💕

  • @lisabeal8615
    @lisabeal8615 Год назад +94

    My daughter turns 37 on Saturday and I literally just cried my heart out. It seems like yesterday she took her first step. We couldn't wait for her to sleep all night or be potty trained.... and then in a blink of an eye she's turning 37! Enjoy every moment, every snuggle, every question.
    God bless you and your beautiful family.

    • @sweeting9609
      @sweeting9609 Год назад

      Oh, buddy, I feel your pain...😢

  • @nicole.stanhope
    @nicole.stanhope Год назад +3

    I’m over here bawling, looking at my 15 month old fast asleep, without a care in this world…
    Every time he says or does something new I feel like he’s just slipping through my fingers and when I think I start to know his patterns he keeps growing and changing and I can’t cope some days and I just hold him and give him kisses and he hugs me, and I hug him. I close my eyes and I breathe and focus so I can always remember what these cuddles feel like and what he smells like so I never forget… I’m a SAHM and work from home and he went to the church daycare during the sermon on Sunday. His first time doing anything like that, and he made friends and didn’t shed a single tear for us. He waved and shouted “bye-bye” at the teachers and his friends and all throughout the church until we got in the car, and then he said “no-no…” and started getting teary eyed and rubbed his eyes… I felt happy that he did so well and made friends, but also sad that he didn’t miss me like I missed him… 🥺
    I swear I just had him yesterday, or so it feels like… And now we’re discussing trying for baby number 2 this summer… I feel a whole mix of emotions, because I miss the newborn stage but also worry that I can’t give my sweet boy all of me if I have another. 🥲

  • @beckyhowarth4359
    @beckyhowarth4359 Год назад +9

    aww I love you guys 🫶 I get this so much. I feel like crying every time one of my grown up kids leaves after coming to visit honestly but on the plus side you get to see your kids grow into adults that you’re so proud of with their own lives, jobs, children etc and I promise you this is just as amazing as when they are little. Sending hugs 🫶❤️

  • @BratKat904
    @BratKat904 Год назад +22

    As a mother of 4 adult children, yes, I did go thru an “empty nest” period. Especially so because I am divorced and am alone with no husband. BUT then the “Grands” (grandchildren) started coming along, and my whole WORLD was BEAUTIFUL and JOYOUS again!!! They make me feel young again, and my relationships with my adult daughters have grown SO MUCH CLOSER because of it! I now have 3 young Granddaughters-ages 5, 1 1/2, and 10 months old. And I now understand how life is just a continual cycle of LOVE! ❤ God bless.

  • @Just-wiggling-thru-life
    @Just-wiggling-thru-life Год назад +7

    Awe bless y’all. Love your hearts 💕! As a mama of 4 sons that are now 26, 25, 22 and 19 I will say empty nesting is an adjustment and trust me with a 19 yr old in college we are still adjusting BUT it’s also a full circle moment. You get to reap in all the rewards of seeing what you helped these kiddos become. AND let me tell you everyone always says grandkids have a special place and a special kind of love~~not better just different and unique~~I could never understand it until I could and wow just wow they aren’t wrong! And then on top of that to see your babies raising babies whew 😅 it is a precious thing. 🥹 Your feelings first off are yours but you are also NOT alone!! There is a specialness in each and EVERY phase of kiddos growing up. Now I relish in the fact that I get to be their best friends!! I don’t have to disciplined, do homework, make them go to bed when they don’t want to etc apparently I’ve always been the cool mama which is new news to me btw 😂but now I get to be the ultimate cool 😎 mama and just be a best friend and trust me young men or not hubs and I are their best friends! They call us about anything and everything. There is NO topic off the table! Can you even imagine that?! I mean we always encouraged this open chatting of course but teenagers are still teenagers to a point but now every topic is game and I feel so blessed they come to us with their biggest struggles but also their biggest triumphs. Makes me feel like we just might have done something right. 🥹 🥰 Relish in these moments but don’t forget how beautiful the future is also…different kind of beautiful but man is it just mind blowing how amazing it is also! Big ole hugs 🤗 and lots of love ❤️ and always always prayers 🙏🏻

  • @lovebeaches4255
    @lovebeaches4255 Год назад +33

    This video made me cry. My son's childhood went by like the blink of an eye. He is 25 now and moved out of the house. He is successful in his career, which I am very thankful for. Thinking about all the beautiful memories we shared is a daily thing. I love him so much. I would give anything to have one more day with him as a baby. His childhood days were the best of my life!

  • @matthitjametzger2436
    @matthitjametzger2436 Год назад +4

    Thank you so much for your openness, for showing yourselves so vulnerable and real, I’m crying with you and I love how you are as a family so much! I’m 19 anfragst how I imagine it for myself one day❤️Don’t worry, they will always be close to you💕

  • @twylahcampbell2277
    @twylahcampbell2277 Год назад +8

    All children grow up. You are documenting everything that is happening during their childhood years and you can go back and literally relive the moments. We older generation didn’t have this luxury so we rely on our memories. I don’t live in the past wishing my children were little again, I’m living in the present and cherishing every moment making memories of their adulthood and loving my grandchildren growing up. My oldest son has now been dead longer than he was alive. My 2nd grandson only lived 6 months. What if’s and why’s are not where I chose to live because it’s hard enough to live in the present when you’re sad. Live for today. Love for today. Laugh today. Share today. Remember today. Because when your tomorrow suddenly doesn’t come, you will have to rely on all your “todays” to get you through to the next tomorrow.

    • @rruth82
      @rruth82 Год назад

      Wise words. So sorry for the loss of your son and grandson. x

  • @laurarivett5931
    @laurarivett5931 Год назад +67

    Today is my due date with my first baby and I’m not gonna lie I’m scared and nervous about this huge change coming in my life. But then the last half of this video…I’m crying along with you guys, but with positive feelings that maybe I’m about to actually start the best years of my life. Thank you for the gift of a new perspective ❤❤❤

    • @gloriamariasavva2822
      @gloriamariasavva2822 Год назад +10

      Safe delivery!! Wish you the best for you and your baby🥰☺️

    • @EmpathBonz
      @EmpathBonz Год назад +5

      Sending Angels to surround and protect you and the baby.😘

    • @deannacolella9136
      @deannacolella9136 Год назад +1

      Wishing you a safe delivery and a lifetime of joy with your family!

    • @Basbhat
      @Basbhat Год назад +1

      Congratulations 🎊🎉🎈🍾!!!! So happy for you!! Hope all is well and went well with your delivery!! Congratulations on your new baby love!!! ❤️❤️🥰🥰

  • @brittanycarriere9423
    @brittanycarriere9423 Год назад +13

    This made me burst into tears! An actual reality check that this momma and every momma in the world needs to see! Can't wait for my kids to get home from school to snuggle and love on them! 🩷 Thank you!

  • @madeleinelemieux
    @madeleinelemieux Год назад +27

    You two are amazing parents and I know those two will always love you with the infinite love you have for them. They will grow up to be so close and as long as you just live in the moment it won’t be a dream it will be a memory ❤

  • @kelcielomas1888
    @kelcielomas1888 Год назад +11

    This made me cry and i dont even have kids. You guys are great parents and those kids are gonna. Love you know matter what age! Lars you inspire me cause i feel like we are very similar on how we act and im 31 as well. I love you guys and you inspire me to be a good parent and enjoy life as well!

  • @koalakecil6802
    @koalakecil6802 Год назад +3

    I was just thinking of this as I drove my daughter to work while she was not feeling well, and it brought back memories when she was this happy little girl running around freely and being happy and I miss that little girl. Literally she’s the same person but that little girl will always be in my heart. Embrace every moment

  • @waffleman8673
    @waffleman8673 Год назад +20

    Hopefully, once the children are all grown up, they’ll have babies of their own and you’ll have new little ones to love and cherish ❤❤ love how transparent you are ❤️❤️

  • @cherylhumphrey5693
    @cherylhumphrey5693 Год назад +11

    You guys have me cring. 😘 Those are many years away. Don’t be sad because every day, every year is a beautiful memory. Yes one day in the far away future you will look bad snd say wow I wish i could do it again. But, You are still going to be making a lot of memories everyday. Love you guys so much you are wonderful parents!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @AlessiaFrancesca
    @AlessiaFrancesca Год назад +11

    It's so crazy you posted this video. I just spent last night looking at me son's baby book crying my eyes out looking at his first picture when I delivered him, his lil foot prints, lock of hair, his first school drawing, ect. Cherish the Precious Moments and Memories that you make each and every day💙🩷🩵🩵

    • @tv-xi1xq
      @tv-xi1xq 7 месяцев назад

      yeah what should i do ?

  • @hariclia
    @hariclia Год назад +15

    My darlings its all going to be alright. We all go through these stages. Keep strong and enjoy every minute you are beaughtiful parents and you are going to make a lifetime of wonderful memories.
    Love you all ❤❤❤❤

  • @birgitkarstens140
    @birgitkarstens140 Год назад +3

    Thanks you so much for sharing this with us, for your sweet and emotional feelings and your beautiful warm hearts - I cried with you.... enjoy everything with your kids and just be happy ❤ ❤lots of love and hugs from Germany ❤❤❤❤

  • @joycewilson3787
    @joycewilson3787 Год назад +3

    You guys are the greatest parent's. Your kiddos are just precious and I know it kills you to watch them leave their wide eyed innocence behind and move to the next stages, but alas, grow they must. You are changing and growing and aging also. Here's a perspective from an elderly mother of a handicapped middle aged man. He will forever be mentally age 13 or 14 . I am full of fears for him. He has worked at menial jobs all his adult life, does'nt drive. Must have help with important decisions, etc. Oh darlings be glad they are growing up. Rejoice in each stage. They go from you, but they will return to you when you need them. You are leading them well. God bless and keep you and your munchkins.

  • @avetaisolarossa9952
    @avetaisolarossa9952 Год назад +5

    Your reaction was so honest and sweet! I am a first time mom to a baby girl who is just two months old and I get emotional at every inch she gains m, at every onesie we put away because she grew out of it...time flies so fast!

  • @jenniferbradley5747
    @jenniferbradley5747 Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing so vulnerably and so transparently the raw emotion of that moment. It's beautiful. Keep soaking in every sweet moment that God has given you and entrusted you with these precious children. 🩵🩵🫶

  • @RSSmama065
    @RSSmama065 Год назад +7

    Cherish every single moment!! My sister lost her 2 year old daughter unexpectedly on 12/20/2022. She went in to wake her for daycare and she was gone😭 I’ve never taken another moment with my own kiddos for granted again since then. I spend every moment I can with them because you just never know. Hold your babies tight

  • @wendiruppe9468
    @wendiruppe9468 Год назад +3

    So wonderful that you got the opportunity to stop and appreciate what you have while in the moment. I loved every minute of my children’s young lives and have many regrets about going back to work when they were young. But, I will tell you this: you will love and adore your children at every age. Each age brings something special and new.

  • @marir6872
    @marir6872 Год назад +4

    You could always homeschool :) So many groups on Oahu. I’m sorry about pregnancy taking longer than expected. I have all sorts of gaps with our children and the different age gaps have their pros and cons. I felt like I was never told how fun it is to bring home baby to older siblings who understand more. I hope it happens for you soon!

  • @kimberlysmith7311
    @kimberlysmith7311 Год назад +13

    Okay yes it goes fast but you guys are always cherishing every minute , so when you look back you won't need to be sad because you can look back and know that you cherished every day and made it your best life!!! ❤❤❤❤😂

  • @gingerleamcwow435
    @gingerleamcwow435 Год назад +3

    Well that woman had me bawling, lol. My babies are 19, 18, & 8. My oldest is moved away to college & we only get to see her every 3 or 4 months. And my middle one will soon follow. I was always a person that thought, "Im getting my fill of the baby years. No WAY i will miss everything." But that's a big fat lie. I'd go back in a second and do it all over again. I'm only 38 myself but now I find myself wondering, when will they make me a nana!?!? Lol. Soak up every moment you can.

  • @MarciaLeeful
    @MarciaLeeful Год назад +1

    This is definitely why I watch your videos because my kids are gone and I get to watch your sweet little ones and it makes me smile. My girls are 35, 33, and 29. All are on their own and all are wonderful and doing well but I miss them! Waiting to be a grandma!

  • @adriennemarie5076
    @adriennemarie5076 Год назад +1

    Beautiful video from start to finish. I love your family 💕 I feel the SAME WAY. I have 2 sons. One is 31!! The other is 16. My 16yr old still hangs out with me, hugs me, loves to spend time together. I'm so blessed by this!! My 31yr old is getting married! I cried😥 with you both & understand your feelings. You lil boys are gorgeous. Enjoy every moment with them. Even when they get older, they will want to be with you, if you've created those strong family bonds. God bless you all 🤍💗💙🕊️🌴

  • @ysaxxx
    @ysaxxx Год назад +4

    when my little sister was only a baby, i really wanted her to grow up quicker, but now that she's 3 going on 4, looking back at her baby videos make me wish i never wished she could talk and walk already. so please josh and lars, enjoy your babies' childhood as much as possible.❤

  • @shonnamay8331
    @shonnamay8331 Год назад +1

    Nothing wrong at all with waiting on another baby.
    You have those babes who are so young and need your attention .And Energy😊
    I had 9 children and spaced them 31/2 apart. It worked great , but what worked for me may night be what another wants, I get it.
    But each was able to play independently and not needing all my attention while I nursed and cared for a newborn.

  • @Adam_r_Johnson
    @Adam_r_Johnson Год назад +1

    I give you this quote from a wise turtle that relates to your guys' feelings and here it is "there is a saying, yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery but today is a gift, that is why its called the present "- oogway

  • @dancergirls
    @dancergirls Год назад +2

    We are praying for you guys💛💛

  • @KnoYourWorth
    @KnoYourWorth Год назад +2

    Never worry. Stay close always. One day it will change however they will always always need you. You’ll make new memories and have even better times as you watch them grow into responsible men. Oh the best is yet to come! Enjoy every minute of your blessings!!!

  • @dylanross5930
    @dylanross5930 Год назад +3

    That clearly shows how much they love there kids wish I could meet them

  • @suelovell4229
    @suelovell4229 Год назад

    You guys are so sweet. My youngest is 25 and I do miss when they were little. It was so amazing everyday. But we're still making memories just different ones. And you have each other to share in them.

  • @chris4370
    @chris4370 Год назад +1

    Not gonna lie my boys wear the crap out of me! They can be very frustrating and overwhelming but I ALWAYS take time to enjoy them and appreciate the ages their at because I know it wont last and even in the toughest of times I know I'll miss this when their older!

  • @suseq949
    @suseq949 Год назад +1

    Aww, I know how you’re feeling. Like that woman I’d do anything to go back to my 4 year old and two year old. My now 29 year old is planning her wedding! She’s still my little pumpkin and her face is still her little baby face to me. But, yes it’s like a dream. Be happy and enjoy every minute as you have been. 😊

  • @karlabateman234
    @karlabateman234 Год назад +3

    Indi will be your wild child no fear just jump right in! Cru is more cautious! His face looked scared at first at the lesson but after time he did well! U should def do lessons for him 😊

  • @carolynturk-hu7je
    @carolynturk-hu7je Год назад +1

    Nothing else matters! Enjoy every second. We lived life enjoying every moment. My husband was the best husband, the best Dad, he is our love.
    He died at 43 yrs young when our son was 4 yrs old, cancer. Our time was 6 3/4 years married, 7 3/4 years brought together by God. We lived... be in the moment, don't sweat the small stuff, we always said I love you, showed love, enjoyed being a family, our memories will last till we can be together again..... that's LOVE!

  • @laurahogan3247
    @laurahogan3247 Год назад

    Omg 😭 tears at work right now 🤣😁 I totally relate my son is about to be 13 and OH MY GOSHHHH I just stare at him and cry remembering my birth down to his first smiles and steps etc you have EVERY RIGHT to feel this way in fact you're FOREVER going to feel this way it's the bitter sweet of parenthood BUT just know they are forever your babies. There's this book I read and still read to my little daughters "I'll love you forever I'll love you for always as long as I'm living my baby you'll be" BEST BOOK EVER. I love how beautiful your family is and I pray for more babies and love to come. Thank you for literally being the best family on RUclips ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ourblissfulhaven
    @ourblissfulhaven Год назад +3

    This is me everyday when I think about our girls growing up. 🙈🥺🥺 Love this video! ❤️

  • @rainbyrne691
    @rainbyrne691 Год назад +3

    Your just the best parents I hope you have a baby soon you deserve it
    💗💙💙💙💕

  • @Smiling-1982
    @Smiling-1982 Год назад +4

    You will have beautiful memories with your grandkids!come on.stop crying.live for today not for tomorrow cause no one knows what will happen in the future.dont lose your time with negative thoughts.im mom of 3 now my 4th and I'm trying to live today with my kids.tomorrow no one knows.only God.

  • @nikkilovesrocks
    @nikkilovesrocks Год назад

    Well, wasn't expecting a full breakdown in my kitchen at 8am but here I am. I have 3 children 23,22,&20 boy girl boy. I was a stay at home & they went everywhere with me. We spent so many days at the beach, running to the store, & everything in between. I miss my little kids. They're all grown now & still here at home with my husband & I. It just doesn't make me miss the little kids any less. The innocence that is childhood is sooooo precious & beautiful! Love you guys for sharing this ❌⭕️❌⭕️Hugs & Cheek Kisses Beautiful family!

  • @coriemay3841
    @coriemay3841 Год назад +1

    This video destroyed me!!!! My babies are 24 and 20 now and im sobbing over this. They're both moved out and I didn't realize how much it bothered me until this video!!! It feels like a dream, like a far away memory. It's so sad because they're just gone. I still talk to them daily and see them all the time, but I miss the days of going to the park or the zoo. Kissing their owies, making their sandwiches into little shapes. Omg, I'm bawling again. Anyways, cherish your babies because as they say the days are long but the years are short, so very short. LOVE watching your family. Thanks for sharing them with us. ❤

  • @gregorybrown9432
    @gregorybrown9432 Год назад +9

    I know exactly how that woman feels. It does feel like a dream and that you never really lived it. Then something amazing happens. You hold your grandchild in your arms for the first time ( identical twins) if your really lucky and every lost memory comes flooding back into your life again. The feel of them, the scent, the warmth is a moment relived and not forgotten. Our son and daughter in law waited 17 years to have children so we never expected this gift. Sometimes the best time of your life goes by without you ever even realizing it then you grow older and find out they just may be ahead of you yet.

  • @WildSmile70
    @WildSmile70 Год назад +1

    Live in the moment ❤

  • @tyreesetjjoyner1995
    @tyreesetjjoyner1995 Год назад

    Much love and support to you. Continue on your road on getting the diamond crystal play button

  • @sayonikadas6908
    @sayonikadas6908 Год назад +2

    U both really made me emotional... Heyy I am a big fan of both of u . I am from India .. I am a girl of 18 bt I really seen my parents were growing older and older .. parents are really a huge of blessings in our life ... Thanks Josh and lar .... Urs video are really motivational and inspiring in my life... u really made me emotional🥺❤️❤️🫂😭😭... Love u cru and inde ... And I pray to God that he will give u the strength and happiness in ur life ... Inde and cru are really lucky to have parents like both of u... and lots of love 💝💕❤️🫂❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @supitchayapornadams8088
    @supitchayapornadams8088 Год назад

    The old lady video hit me! I have 3 kids and they're not even big yet they are like 2,4 and 5 but I have been looking back pictures when they were tiny babies. Gosh I miss those little faces little body so much!

  • @Ann-so6vl
    @Ann-so6vl Год назад

    My kids are 22, 24 and 26. I never thought they would grow up. But they do. May the Lord bless you today as you live on your sweet children. You’ve put so much love into them. They will always love you. Growing kids up is magical.

  • @reese.wunder
    @reese.wunder Год назад +1

    I cried watching you guys cry🥺

  • @afaolguin9845
    @afaolguin9845 Год назад

    You two are great parents, parents don't get any better than this. Yes time goes by so fast and they grow so quickly. I have one son and he is 35 and does not want any children because of the way the world is today and the way it is going. I've always wanted grandchildren and I used to get mad when he said he didn't want any kids. One thing that's good that he is a boy or a male and the fact that he doesn't want any kids is that a man can always produce in most cases babies so he might still change his mind but I really don't think he will and I've become all right with. I did want more children but it just did not work out that way and if I had had a daughter also then the possibility of having grandchildren would be more likely. Enjoy your children as much as you can and I can see that you are. As time goes by and they get older there will always be something exciting going on with them as they grow. You will become so proud of them when they graduate from high school. I feel for you because it is heartbreaking looking back. So try to look ahead in a positive way and soon before you know that you will become grandparents. Also when you become grandparents you will be older and a lot more tired and you will think and tell each other could you imagine having these little ones full time now? You won't have the energy anymore and you will learn to appreciate you and each other's as in your husband and your wife's time alone and the peace and quiet when your boys come and pick up their kids from Grandma and Grandpa's house. Yes you're going to always miss the time when your kids were little but you're also going to appreciate the time you have alone with each. God bless you and I pray that you and your husband will soon get pregnant and I pray for a healthy baby and may God bless you with a little girl☺️💘

  • @christyemmons7279
    @christyemmons7279 Год назад

    I've felt the same way as that lady in 😭that video my kids(I have 3)are grown but I have 2 grandsons 😁 & they are the my new found 💕 joys!! When I was in the thick of trying to raise 3 little ones all 2 years apart, I didn't have the amazing support 💓 you have as a from your husband but I did have the an Awesome Mom & Nannie (my grandma) although he was there! Cherish every moment every moment, every little minute because it really does seem like you blink & they are grown!! I'm Sending💌 Y'all Lots Of Prayers 🙏 & Blessings 💕 In JESUS 🙌 Mighty Name Amen!!

  • @mounikakasthala2807
    @mounikakasthala2807 Год назад

    The man is such a pure soul

  • @Ilovecheems891
    @Ilovecheems891 Год назад

    You guys are the best love God bless you guys ❤

  • @msnola915
    @msnola915 Год назад

    That TicTok was nothing but the truth‼️ My kids are 40 and 38 and I never stop missing their little faces and their little voices‼️ Now, nothing in my house moves and it's a lonely and quite season now...... but God‼️ Love your hearts guys and your beautiful family🥰

  • @beelo383
    @beelo383 Год назад

    I cannot share anyone's pain of what's it like seeing your kids grow up, for I do not have one myself, but if I did, I would probably feel the same. Putting yourself in self-doubt will affect your children mentally and physically, so do your best to find positive things about it. Your children will one day look back at this and say wow, I am lucky to have parents who were vulnerable but loved, cared for, nurtured, and provided. Do what you can now rather than what will happen in the future. Your boys will learn to find a woman thanks to the gift of a mother. Your boys will learn to treat their woman thank to the gift of a father. I can guarantee that those memories will be back sooner or later, not with your children but with your grandchildren. Both of you are great parents, both of you will be okay, and both of you will be loved by them and their children. Thank you for sharing your vulnerabilities. Thank you for sharing your story with us. Thank you for being kind, loving, and good parents.

  • @samanthanigrelli-barriento1421
    @samanthanigrelli-barriento1421 Год назад +3

    I cried right along with you! Such a powerful message! Can't wait to go home to my babies and squeeze them

  • @Gingerjenna17
    @Gingerjenna17 Год назад +2

    All my love xxxxx

  • @beckyklepper315
    @beckyklepper315 Год назад

    That video...she's absolutely right. My oldest son just bought a car. My youngest is training to be a first responder.
    Just love them. Even when they make you crazy...love them.

  • @lilyofthevalley5586
    @lilyofthevalley5586 Год назад

    I know exactly how you feel!

  • @misslora3896
    @misslora3896 Год назад

    The older of my 2 children turned 35 yesterday, April 5th. I know the feeling very well of wanting to go back. More and more I find myself saying how much I miss it. It can feel pretty painful especially since I'm divorced and my children have lived far away their entire adult lives. And unfortunately, I missed out on the one and only grandchild I'm ever gonna have because they've lived in Alaska and Japan his entire life... He turned 13 last month. It's a terribly lonely feeling sometimes.

  • @rainbyrne691
    @rainbyrne691 Год назад

    Oh god iam crying so much because I know how you feel, mine have gone and I would give anything to take them to school again and be a family again
    My heart aches for you
    😢😢😢
    Be strong though because you really do have years! Of the best times to come 💙💙

  • @vickicervantes1817
    @vickicervantes1817 Год назад +1

    I wanted to watch you guys this, (I guess it's morning time right now.) You guys always get me smiling and happy. But yesterday my 2nd daughter called me & I was thinking oh o.k. she's on her way I'd better get ready. "BUT NO" She called me to tell me my oldest baby girl (the Lord blessed me with 4 beautiful daughters). Maria was in Emergency, she told me that she had a brain aneurysm. Maria is only 45 years old. They took her into surgery right away. During surgery when they shut off the blood flow on the side of her brain aneurysm, her other side also shut down Causing her to have a stroke. She is Paralyzed on the right side and she's still not out of the woods because she still hasn't woke up. She has 4 boys & 2 of the is still at home. Ages 16 & 14, I've been playing all night that Our Lord And Savior is with her, my amazing son in law, which he just lost his mom from a booster covid shot and his dad shooting himself. He told me mom I can't take it anymore. Maria & the boys is all I have left, I told him this mama is still with him & to hold on to everything he still has. When she was born she had her intestines on the outside of her, it's called Gastro skeeses. I didn't even see her till she was a week old. Now I don't even know if she's going to wake up from this surgery. It's true our baby grow up so fast. Hold on to your babies, love them all you can, give them kisses every night morning when ever you can, tell them you love them. Because you never know when the last time it's going to be that they will go be with Jesus. Please love them all that you can. You guys are extra special to this Mama, Grandma & Great Grandma, adding a smile and more blessings to my life everyday ❤😊❣Thank You

    • @standup2982
      @standup2982 Год назад

      I'm so sorry for what has happened to your daughter. Sending love to you and your family 💜

  • @lindagentile2380
    @lindagentile2380 Год назад

    For Every Birthday my daughter had it felt like I had 2... She is now 42 & I'm 64... Where did it go💔💔...
    Enjoy each & EVERY day...
    GBY ALL...🙏❤️💙💙💙🤗✝️

  • @EricaChristy
    @EricaChristy Год назад

    It really does feel like a dream😭My son is 20 he moved out 6 months ago and it's been so sad without him. It's like your not even a mom anymore cause they don't need ya ever second of the day. I would go back and do it all over again if I could.

  • @Maddison_77732
    @Maddison_77732 Год назад +5

    So do you just share walking around in public places videoing your kids? So they just see mum or dad with a camera in the face while it’s family time? Why have another one if you just want to film it? I do t u sweat and family vlogging at all. You are going to miss it because you are continually putting a camera between them and you.

  • @anastasiacruz4629
    @anastasiacruz4629 Год назад +1

    Awwwh To MY Favorite RUclips Family. I am Wishing Ya'll Nothin But the Best of Luck in your Lives And Alota Love Laughter And Joy. Always Stay together And Stay Strong. ❤ I Love you All Soo Much Moore Godbless Ya'll ❤ Love AnastasiaCruz

  • @lilliapruitt6236
    @lilliapruitt6236 Год назад

    Precious! Remember to look back on this video.

  • @Ordainer30
    @Ordainer30 Год назад +1

    Everyone and everything needs to be like a memories my brother 😉 hold on tight we can reach the good end together ☺️😉. Live and enjoy life no matter what. I don't want to see the privileged people crying any more.

  • @fizzitube4151
    @fizzitube4151 Год назад

    U guys know that feeling cuz u mean it some times it's not the same for other families

  • @marhh6010
    @marhh6010 Год назад

    My oldest is graduating hs this June and this video got me emotional wich to go back just for a minute to fell his little cheek next to mine 😢 he’s not a showing my love kind of person lol is hard to see them grow up but I wouldn’t miss it for the world

  • @jadespade99
    @jadespade99 Год назад

    Why am I SOBBING

  • @aleciassurvivingthelossofa1705

    You are so right and because of who you are you going to enjoy every moment with your children that you can and your wife and you're going to look back and you're going to be proud so just enjoy it thoroughly and like you said we're all put up with some dirty diapers my kids are grown and I lost a child as well so I certainly know or feel that I think I know where you're coming from God bless you and just keep doing your best that's all

  • @nadinecote6482
    @nadinecote6482 Год назад

    When they are small, our children depend on us, we are their universe and they are ours. These moments are magical and precious. We live them through their eyes, discoveries and experiments of life. But I completely agree that all ages of our children are important because they always bring us happiness and pride. As I get older, these precious moments and memories shared with my now adult children become my strength in my everyday life. So be ready for many more beautiful moments to come. As you grow up and throughout their lives, your children will share it with you. Precious and magical moments, different certainly but just as important as those you have experienced so far. So get ready to cherish all that comes and goes 😍❤

  • @HaveyouLovedandbeenLoved
    @HaveyouLovedandbeenLoved Год назад +7

    ***My husband passed unexpectedly on March 17, 2020. Today Mark's 3 yrs since he went home. I became a widow at 40. I WOULD GIVE AWAY EVERYTHING I OWNED AND MY LEGS JUST TO GO BACK IN TIME TO RE LIVE EVEN THE TINIEST MOMENTS WE HAD WITH OUR KIDS. We always talked about how the best time in our lives was when our children were little. I would do it all over again in a heartbeat. Especially being older now and looking back, realizing how precious EVERY moment was including changing diapers and sleepless nights. I would take in every moment way more knowing what I know now. I have 2 grandchildren now. I love them dearly. But it's very different with grandchildren. Be thankful for all the ups and downs when your children are little. ON DAY YOU WILL BLINK AND THEY WILL BE ADULTS!*** After posting this I read other comments and so many people said the exact same thing I did. That goes to show how important it is that you take it all in and remember how blessed you are.

  • @tamisams3536
    @tamisams3536 Год назад

    Sometimes people can try to hard. Relax, have fun practicing. Love Your Family So Much...

  • @kristinsoames7625
    @kristinsoames7625 Год назад

    Be with them now, don’t grieve for the future it will be here soon enough. Take it from a mama of x 2 who are nearly in there 20s.

  • @jodiupchurch
    @jodiupchurch Год назад +1

    good monday

  • @caro5620
    @caro5620 Год назад +4

    it’s so good that you’re processing how special this time is. it actually makes me think you’ll have an easier time when they’re older because your so present and conscious now. it’s those parents who wish it away and have sitters 24/7 who will most definitely have it the worst. also you guys should watch boyhood!

  • @tinechris3086
    @tinechris3086 Год назад

    I try to make a lot of photos and videos of my kids in hope to remember that special moments, when i am old. But than i realized that i even NOW I Hardly remember the Time when they were 1, 2 or 3, 4 years old and thats only about 3-4 years ago. I am so sad to forget the Most wonderful Moments in my life and thats only because i Go through life without awareness for the Minute i am just in... Right now. But... I am working on it ❤️
    And it’s true, some times are Really Hard in that moment when you are in, but we will miss them one day... even the Dirty Diapers ... so lets try to be thankful for Every Single Moment of our life ❤️

  • @pearltoomer6392
    @pearltoomer6392 Год назад

    26 and 28 now, l am in tears can me and my husband get it right, can we turn back times, the many stupid little things that l believe was terrible and the good things, just enjoy life do not rush it.

  • @nicolehayse
    @nicolehayse Год назад

    I love you both I love how sweet Josh is to you as his wife I don’t have his best friend like I love seeing you

  • @sibergirl
    @sibergirl Год назад

    My youngest, and only daughter, will be the last to leave the nest when she gets married this August. I am an at home mom who also homeschooled. My husband and I are so excited for our daughter and love our soon to be son in law. Yet, I keep remembering when she was my baby, my little girl, and gosh, I’m going to miss her so much when I know I won’t have coffee with her in the mornings or give her a hug and kiss and tell her I love her as she goes off to bed. Why did it have to go so fast?

  • @marinase-rq3ho
    @marinase-rq3ho Год назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @kanakpreetkaur6520
    @kanakpreetkaur6520 Год назад

    Just live in the moment. Change is permanent and thats a part of life. it's just useless sobbing bout something thats not in your hands.

  • @miriamc1718
    @miriamc1718 Год назад

    I thought the ladies video was very lovely. I felt this was a message to show kids are a blessing. I have 2 children and at a young age had to have a hysterectomy. My kids are now teenagers and I would have loved to have had more children. I didn’t get that option. There are a lot of people out there who don’t get to experience what we have, or experience pregnancy. Sorry I just felt the reaction was a little strong. Yes it goes quickly but there is so much along the way to have and do with your kids. The milestones and different ages are beautiful to watch. Children no matter what age are amazing to be with. Just keep growing and making memories. We live in a wonderful technology era where we can document so much of our lives. The title of your video could have been said a little better too. You speak about getting pregnant again and so the start set up makes it seem like you experienced a loss of pregnancy. Thinking about your kids growing up isn’t a struggle. There are people who are truly struggling with life, illness, homelessness and many more things. I’m sorry I’m not trying to be negative this is just my opinion! We all see things differently that is all. I respect your decision how to react but I think I was just expecting with the level of how upset you both were, that something terrible had happened that is why I posted this comment. I hope the coming months for another baby go well. Thank you 🙂

  • @mrs.kingschild725
    @mrs.kingschild725 Год назад

    God loves you sooooo much !!!!

  • @melonimurphy9077
    @melonimurphy9077 Год назад +1

    😢

  • @marybillington8235
    @marybillington8235 Год назад

    Sorry but every parent goes through this. Time does not stop for anyone! Enjoy it while it last! Im 56 and my daughters are 23 and almost 14 and I’m not looking forward to the last one moving out and I still want my older one to come back home but you have to let them go and let them live their own lives just like you did.

  • @DecodingMedical
    @DecodingMedical Год назад

    I always worried about my kids future and i want to stay with my 5-years old twins as much as i can

  • @lifewithlarsandsusie8315
    @lifewithlarsandsusie8315 Год назад

    You two are so cute when you cry but I also wonder the backstory of Theresa. Did she only have one and is now single? Or a few kids and now grandkids? I was so crabby at the mess and crabby kids last Sunday that I was going crazy. I ran to my neighbors house to feed the dogs and her kids are moved out and she’s divorced…. It was so quiet there that I got sad at my attitude in my head and went home and welcomed my crazy house! But I really enjoy my house when I do get a rare quiet moment but we have a big family and I have been raising toddlers for 22 years now and I know I won’t miss it and if I do I am not helping out with my grandkids enough!

  • @EatWithB
    @EatWithB Год назад +3

    Me & my husband think about this all the time! It’s so sad that they grow so fast! 😢

  • @hariclia
    @hariclia Год назад

    😭😭😭❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏

  • @arabellasplace3823
    @arabellasplace3823 Год назад +2

    You will miss it so much, my baby just turned 30 today and she is married with a life of her own. It truly flies by love every minute, soak in all the hugs and little kisses. Love you all.

  • @empressada1591
    @empressada1591 Год назад +2

    Hello fam❤️❤️❤️