Hi, I'm still here. Thanks for letting us know how you have been and where have you been. I just wanted to let you know (hopefully this makes you a bit happy) that I started watching you videos during a really emotional tough time in my life, and they gave me soooo much comfort and assurance. Didn't solve my issues but it helped find a path to emotional peace. Thank you for that. I will be here when you come back to the channel, but take all the time you need to be ready. Also, thank you for being caring about your audience and giving us an update. All the love to you ❤
Yes that feels very good to know. I'm glad I was able to help in some way. I know many times in my life I have needed other people to feel some kind of relief and comfort so I'm very happy to give that back to others.
Ryan.. We all struggle but that does NOT negate our knowledge and doesn't make us "less than" in any way! I just found you today and I loved your video about Anxious attachment and how to start dealing with it... which I am starting to apply right now!! So thank you so much for what you have done in the past and I am "anxiously" lol awaiting more insightful videos that are to come!
I love your honesty, you are so genuine and such a beautiful soul. So glad I found your channel. I hope that you find the answers you're looking for, and I also hope you heal from all of the hurt caused and the apologies you never got from shitty people. (Excuse the language but, I couldn't think of a different way to explain). Easier said than done, because I can't do that myself. Not sure how to heal myself at the present time, so you are not alone! Thank you again for sharing this, you've helped more than you know.
For me, it was acceptance which helped the most; stopped fighting the situation; just allowing myself to be; just allowing myself to feel what I felt. Easier said than done but it worked. Look further into it, if you’re interested.
Hi Ryan, I just found your channel, after being terribly anxious for a few days after my partner went back to their shared apartment after lockdown. Your 2 videos on anxious attachment were so precise and well thought, I think you may have saved my relationship from my own potential self sabotage. Listening to your videos made those feelings dissolve as I realized the delusion I had let myself slip in to. Not many people have that power so please continue the channel, I hope everything you're dealing with will work out soon enough.
Oh my goodness. Wonderful to see you again. Life's experiences are what it's all about. The life explored is a life time process. Keep going on what works for you. Most importantly, be kind to yourself. From Rotorua, New Zealand.
true.. we are just a bunch of people who are educating ourselves, we know there´s something not ok with our behaviors but the fact that we are working to achieve that goal of improving ourselves. thank you for sharing what has worked for you.
You're definitely not the only one! I can feel very alone sometimes because my life is very routine and I don't have people close to me. But there's people everywhere having a hard time. We'll figure it out!
Man I just found your channel yesterday and one of your videos helped me a lot. Watching this, I just hope you don’t doubt yourself and your abilities and hope you don’t put so much pressure on yourself to put out content that is 100% perfect since perfect does not exist. I think you have a lot of helpful information you put out there and even just your honesty is admirable and resonates with many viewers. I hope you see your value and wish you all the best!!
Are you ok? I just subscribed to your channel. I see your newest videos are from a couple years ago so I'm just wondering if you are ok. You haven't posted a video for a couple years. Hope you are ok. Your insights are genuine and you gave me some information on a topic I was curious about. So I typed my curiosity in the search bar on RUclips and one of your videos was in my search results.
So ges.lad you are back! I have seen all of your videos and I think you have so much to offer all of us in the way of guidance and compassion. I am waiting patiently for your updates.
I am having a hard time too. It's hard to imagine things will get better sometimes. You take your time. Be gentle with yourself. It's good to see you again.
I'm definitely going easy on myself. I always tell others the same thing. Eventually this time will pass and hopefully looking back it will provide a lot of lessons and insight.
You have helped me a lot with your videos Ryan. I've learned about myself and people around me because of your videos. I'll be happy to see more of your videos in the future, when you feel you are ready.
Josh, and Trevor here if remember us. Lmao. But nice to hear from you, we all were wondering how you have been. That’s okay to not have all the answers right away. They sometimes hit later in life. Take care and take the time you need to.
Hi Ryan, it’s nice to hear from you and thanks for your vulnerability. I hope you figure things out in your life. I know it can be such a rollercoaster but you should take some time if you feel like you need it to start your channel, although I feel like you can never be a total expert on these attachment topics because you are changing all the time and relationships do too. Wish you all the best 💕
No one is ever a complete expert, it's true. I just want to feel like I can be the most helpful in the way that fits who I am. I'm not there yet. But I'll get there eventually.
I really benefited from your old videos personally .. the were really knowledgeable and delivered with empathy.. it seems you hold yourself to an obscenely high standard when it comes to your channel.. my guidance is to not worry so much about the content of every single video you put out and every single detail in them... each video doesn't have to fully encompass the entire human experience for it to be enjoyable and useful 💝 .. I have a channel with some relationship guidance and personal growth guidance you may find useful for the issue you're dealing with (maybe.. I mean i don't know what the issue is haha).. the channel name is talkin teefs
Thanks Ryan, it sounds like you're going through a period of transformational growth. Don't ever feel pressured or rushed, this is your journey. We're here because we have similar questions along the road to healing and growth. All the best!
I sure hope this is transformational. It's very confusing! But I know once I get everything sorted out it will help me to help others. Thanks for understanding!
Hi, I'm still here. Thanks for letting us know how you have been and where have you been. I just wanted to let you know (hopefully this makes you a bit happy) that I started watching you videos during a really emotional tough time in my life, and they gave me soooo much comfort and assurance. Didn't solve my issues but it helped find a path to emotional peace. Thank you for that. I will be here when you come back to the channel, but take all the time you need to be ready. Also, thank you for being caring about your audience and giving us an update. All the love to you ❤
Yes that feels very good to know. I'm glad I was able to help in some way. I know many times in my life I have needed other people to feel some kind of relief and comfort so I'm very happy to give that back to others.
Ryan.. We all struggle but that does NOT negate our knowledge and doesn't make us "less than" in any way! I just found you today and I loved your video about Anxious attachment and how to start dealing with it... which I am starting to apply right now!!
So thank you so much for what you have done in the past and I am "anxiously" lol awaiting more insightful videos that are to come!
I love your honesty, you are so genuine and such a beautiful soul. So glad I found your channel. I hope that you find the answers you're looking for, and I also hope you heal from all of the hurt caused and the apologies you never got from shitty people. (Excuse the language but, I couldn't think of a different way to explain). Easier said than done, because I can't do that myself. Not sure how to heal myself at the present time, so you are not alone! Thank you again for sharing this, you've helped more than you know.
It’s nice to feel connected to someone who is growing in wisdom. Thank you for being there.
For me, it was acceptance which helped the most; stopped fighting the situation; just allowing myself to be; just allowing myself to feel what I felt. Easier said than done but it worked. Look further into it, if you’re interested.
Acceptance is always the beginning. I've had to do a lot of that. Still learning as I go...
Hi Ryan, I just found your channel, after being terribly anxious for a few days after my partner went back to their shared apartment after lockdown. Your 2 videos on anxious attachment were so precise and well thought, I think you may have saved my relationship from my own potential self sabotage. Listening to your videos made those feelings dissolve as I realized the delusion I had let myself slip in to. Not many people have that power so please continue the channel, I hope everything you're dealing with will work out soon enough.
Oh my goodness. Wonderful to see you again. Life's experiences are what it's all about. The life explored is a life time process. Keep going on what works for you. Most importantly, be kind to yourself.
From Rotorua, New Zealand.
Thank you! I've certainly had some interesting experiences 😅
true.. we are just a bunch of people who are educating ourselves, we know there´s something not ok with our behaviors but the fact that we are working to achieve that goal of improving ourselves. thank you for sharing what has worked for you.
I love you I don’t have any friends right now and I love you you are getting me through everything ❤️
Thank you for sharing. It is comforting to know that I'm not the only one struggling.
You're definitely not the only one! I can feel very alone sometimes because my life is very routine and I don't have people close to me. But there's people everywhere having a hard time. We'll figure it out!
Man I just found your channel yesterday and one of your videos helped me a lot. Watching this, I just hope you don’t doubt yourself and your abilities and hope you don’t put so much pressure on yourself to put out content that is 100% perfect since perfect does not exist. I think you have a lot of helpful information you put out there and even just your honesty is admirable and resonates with many viewers. I hope you see your value and wish you all the best!!
Good to hear from you again, Ryan!
Are you ok? I just subscribed to your channel. I see your newest videos are from a couple years ago so I'm just wondering if you are ok. You haven't posted a video for a couple years. Hope you are ok. Your insights are genuine and you gave me some information on a topic I was curious about. So I typed my curiosity in the search bar on RUclips and one of your videos was in my search results.
So ges.lad you are back! I have seen all of your videos and I think you have so much to offer all of us in the way of guidance and compassion. I am waiting patiently for your updates.
Hopefully the wait won't be TOO long! Thank you for your kind words.
Thank you for sharing, you are genuine. Hope you find the answer.
Me too! Thanks for watching.
Hi i want to say i love you so much and i hope you get better every day stay safe
Hi Ryan, I'm a new subscriber here. I liked your method & videos as well. Keep up the good work👍
I am having a hard time too. It's hard to imagine things will get better sometimes. You take your time. Be gentle with yourself. It's good to see you again.
I'm definitely going easy on myself. I always tell others the same thing. Eventually this time will pass and hopefully looking back it will provide a lot of lessons and insight.
I just found your channel and it has helped me a lot with my mental health that I’ve been struggling with. Do you teach classes?
I've found your content really useful, especially about anxious attachment, and gay issues. I appreciate what you've offered. Thank you!
It's good to see you again! I look forward to your videos!
Thanks! 🙂
I just found out about you a little while ago. Thank you for being here. Sending love from Brazil. 🧡
Saludos a Brasil!
You have helped me a lot with your videos Ryan. I've learned about myself and people around me because of your videos. I'll be happy to see more of your videos in the future, when you feel you are ready.
I'm so happy to know that I've helped. 🙂
PS. Trust your journey. x
Welcome back!!! 🤗
Thank you!
Josh, and Trevor here if remember us. Lmao. But nice to hear from you, we all were wondering how you have been. That’s okay to not have all the answers right away. They sometimes hit later in life. Take care and take the time you need to.
Hi Ryan, it’s nice to hear from you and thanks for your vulnerability. I hope you figure things out in your life. I know it can be such a rollercoaster but you should take some time if you feel like you need it to start your channel, although I feel like you can never be a total expert on these attachment topics because you are changing all the time and relationships do too. Wish you all the best 💕
No one is ever a complete expert, it's true. I just want to feel like I can be the most helpful in the way that fits who I am. I'm not there yet. But I'll get there eventually.
Take all the time you need for you. We'll be here when you're ready.
Thank you for the support!
✌🐸 all the things..
Always the things. Peace
☮️
I really benefited from your old videos personally .. the were really knowledgeable and delivered with empathy.. it seems you hold yourself to an obscenely high standard when it comes to your channel.. my guidance is to not worry so much about the content of every single video you put out and every single detail in them... each video doesn't have to fully encompass the entire human experience for it to be enjoyable and useful 💝 .. I have a channel with some relationship guidance and personal growth guidance you may find useful for the issue you're dealing with (maybe.. I mean i don't know what the issue is haha).. the channel name is talkin teefs
I definitely keep a high standard. I just wouldn't be satisfied otherwise. But it's true nothing needs to be perfect. I'm happy my videos have helped.
Is he still making videos? 😢
Thanks Ryan, it sounds like you're going through a period of transformational growth. Don't ever feel pressured or rushed, this is your journey. We're here because we have similar questions along the road to healing and growth. All the best!
I sure hope this is transformational. It's very confusing! But I know once I get everything sorted out it will help me to help others. Thanks for understanding!