Lol. You can always tell these stories come from another place outside of the West. You say any of that to a western woman and she would divorce you before you even spit out the words "I am the husband, do as a I say".
All Apple text stories come from Japan. First made for a Japanese audience then translated and with Western names tacked on. Ron? Think more like Reiji 😄
It's heart breaking that this very common, especially in the western countries. If a person does care for them, other capable family members almost never step in to give the caregiver a break. I can understand that some people won't care for their parents if they were abused, have substance use disorders or other things along those lines. But that's usually not the case.
Jill, you should have divorced Ron the moment he went back on his promise. Ron doesn't respect love or value you, he's treating you as a servant. Question why didn't Ron get his sister to care for her parents? Lauren is a two faced hypocrite. They're HER PARENTS. Ron and Lauren parents are paying her because they choose too, neither of you have any say. Have fun caring for your OWN parents.
He sounds like a mouthy teenager instead of a husband. The audacity of trying to foist his parents on his wife. He seriously needs the back of her slap hand. Those poor parents have two useless kids.
I don't feel sorry for op. She slow she allowed herself to be treated that way by her husband. She is a doormat with no backbone at all. No woman should be that spineless to her husband.
Love Ash her voice so much!!! Hope you will use her voice so much more instead of those creepy over the top voice actors who making a story endless long with al kind of annoying lol or ither annoying stopwords....!! Love and Kiss from me from the Netherlands
I wouldn't of paid Ron any mind.. he wouldn't help her take care of her parent's --- but have the nerve to demand she takes care of his parent's?😕.. that is one sided as hell. I would've told Ron to get off them drugs & get bent. He's talking nonsense. she's crazy as hell to even spend 1 second taking care of his parent's. I treat people how they treat me.. he wouldn't help me or even go with me to take care of my parent's.. no way in hell I was taking care of his parent's.. not my responsibility not my problem. They aren't her parent's. It's Ron' s and his sister's responsibility to take care of the people that took care of them. His wife have no obligation or duty to quit her job to take care of their parent's. Those are the two most selfish individuals. They didn't care about anyone but themselves. They only thought about themselves and how thing's might affect them. They couldn't care less about their parent's needing care. They cared even less about the wife working 24/7 to take care of their parent's. It was all about them
This story is from Japan. OP made the mistake of marrying an only son. Japanese mothers warn their daughters not to marry a first or only son because in addition to moving into the family home you will be expected to take care of his parents when they get old. A man doing housework? LOL. Before marraige his Mom will come over and do it . After marraige it' ll be wifey. There's a reason why so many Japanese women aren't getting married and the birth rate is falling fast.
Sad that their kids arent willing to take care of their parents and dump it on the daughter in law. Their own kids arent willing to spend the time or money (for a nurse or nursing home) to "waste" on them, dtr will take care of them if she is paid for it.
This makes me so frustrated This had the potential to be a story with a nice strong protagonist... But OFC she just did as she was told She should have divorced him the SECOND he started with the 'I'm your HUSBAND so what I say woman' bull
@@Sparky102970 Japanese story. Japanese wife is supposed to be submissive to her husband. Japanese mothers warn their daughters not to marry first or only sons because you will be expected to take care of his parents when they get old. Unless you can escape.
@lindasavelle1731 This statement says a lot about the aweful misogynistic society that is Japan. It's disgusting and every story I hear reminds me what an aweful society those poor women live in.
@@Sparky102970I read a report not too long ago that Japanese women are divorcing their recently retired husbands because they can’t stand them being at home bossing them around.
I wonder if Ron and Lauren know that people with dementia who are otherwise healthy can live for as long as 10 years? They probably don't. Since the parents can still talk, even if they do not make sense, they will have to care for them for 5 more years.
Story was pretty believable until the ending. In the U.S. there are facilities for Dementia. I know, because my dad spent the last 3 years of his life in one. In Ohio by the way. The staff is trained for that specialty!!
Here where I live, memory care assisted living facilities don't kick people out because they are too difficult to care for because of their dementia. They are qualified and equipped to care for people with these issues. People aren't kicked out unless it's a type of facility or independent living community that doesn't have the supports needed and will try to get them into a better placement facility. It doesn't matter when a person was placed in a facility either. The facility can handle specific issues or they can't.
Agreed. My mother died from Alzheimer's. They have memory facilities and have wonderful tools to make the residents feel at home while being safe. I never had to use one because I had older children (adults) who helped me. I also had the summer off at the very end and she died peacefully at home.
Same with my dad, who died of Alzheimer's in April 2019. My sister promised to never put him in a nursing home for any reason. However, her husband died in January 2017. Dad was 6' and Debbie is 5'3", so when he fell, she couldn't help him back up, and had to call 9-1-1. A person who's never been around dementia patients has no clue and, unless you have some qualifications, there's no way one person could look after two people with it.
Lauren doesn’t know what it’s like trying to care for a parent who has both dementia and cancer. In fact, caring for two parents with dementia might not be as challenging as to be caring for a terminally ill person with two life threatening and potentially painful illnesses.
He didnt force her to do anything lol. She had a choice and she chose to give him what he wanted. And why exactly does he have to shell out all the money, it sounds like they have their own. And there is no way she spent a year or more getting 2 hours of sleep every night. That's just not physically possible.
I'm so glad that most of the men here in America don't treat their wives like this, or should I say American men don't treat their wive's like this. And remember just because somebody speaks English it doesn't mean they are American.
I've stopped listening to quite a few story channels because they use those awful a.i. voices. It's like listening to robots pretending to be human. This one at least uses voice actors. And the stories are at least believable as well. I'd dump his a$$, but feel guilty about it. It's not the parents fault but he made the deal. MAKE him live up to it!
I'd be packing my bags after he said Shut Up the first time. . And telling EVERYONE why. . .
I'd be packing HIS bags.
You mean when men tell women to shut up and that theyre stupid useless women you don't just get hearts in your eyes for him and do everything he says?
Lol. You can always tell these stories come from another place outside of the West. You say any of that to a western woman and she would divorce you before you even spit out the words "I am the husband, do as a I say".
All Apple text stories come from Japan. First made for a Japanese audience then translated and with Western names tacked on. Ron? Think more like Reiji 😄
@@lindasavelle1731Correct. I love it.
There are enough of them, trust me.
Or just deep enough in country side where "traditional families" still exist. Remember there are political parties pushing for these values in West
After her stomach stopped hurting from laughing so hard
Love the voice actress 💐
He would have 1 time to say Shut up! Then I would hand him Divorce papers.
Shut up? Ron’s a real class act. Adios Ron.
If Not THE "I am the husband do as I say" the Last Moment He would have gotten any Response was the "shut Up"
Voice actress is very talented
If that were me Ron would've been involved in what my husband calls "furniture moving" ending in a trip to the "backyard "
So sad when the children refuse to look after their own parents when the parents looked after them since birth.
It's heart breaking that this very common, especially in the western countries. If a person does care for them, other capable family members almost never step in to give the caregiver a break. I can understand that some people won't care for their parents if they were abused, have substance use disorders or other things along those lines. But that's usually not the case.
There is an opinion, she could divorce him. Its the kids responsibility not the spouse. Good video
Option, not opinion.
An order from your husband…OMG!
Jill, you should have divorced Ron the moment he went back on his promise. Ron doesn't respect love or value you, he's treating you as a servant.
Question why didn't Ron get his sister to care for her parents? Lauren is a two faced hypocrite. They're HER PARENTS.
Ron and Lauren parents are paying her because they choose too, neither of you have any say. Have fun caring for your OWN parents.
Your - it belongs to you. You're - you are. Come on.
He sounds like a mouthy teenager instead of a husband. The audacity of trying to foist his parents on his wife. He seriously needs the back of her slap hand. Those poor parents have two useless kids.
I don't feel sorry for op. She slow she allowed herself to be treated that way by her husband. She is a doormat with no backbone at all. No woman should be that spineless to her husband.
Good speech Jill !!!!!!! Preach the truth
Time to give Ron his walking papers!
D-I-V-O-R-C-E!!!!
Love Ash her voice so much!!! Hope you will use her voice so much more instead of those creepy over the top voice actors who making a story endless long with al kind of annoying lol or ither annoying stopwords....!!
Love and Kiss from me from the Netherlands
I wouldn't of paid Ron any mind.. he wouldn't help her take care of her parent's --- but have the nerve to demand she takes care of his parent's?😕.. that is one sided as hell. I would've told Ron to get off them drugs & get bent. He's talking nonsense. she's crazy as hell to even spend 1 second taking care of his parent's. I treat people how they treat me.. he wouldn't help me or even go with me to take care of my parent's.. no way in hell I was taking care of his parent's.. not my responsibility not my problem. They aren't her parent's. It's Ron' s and his sister's responsibility to take care of the people that took care of them. His wife have no obligation or duty to quit her job to take care of their parent's. Those are the two most selfish individuals. They didn't care about anyone but themselves. They only thought about themselves and how thing's might affect them. They couldn't care less about their parent's needing care. They cared even less about the wife working 24/7 to take care of their parent's. It was all about them
This story is from Japan. OP made the mistake of marrying an only son. Japanese mothers warn their daughters not to marry a first or only son because in addition to moving into the family home you will be expected to take care of his parents when they get old. A man doing housework? LOL. Before marraige his Mom will come over and do it . After marraige it' ll be wifey. There's a reason why so many Japanese women aren't getting married and the birth rate is falling fast.
Question is, why would she want to be married to a selfish prick like him? Divorce is like a pot of gold getting away from the husband and SIL.
Sad that their kids arent willing to take care of their parents and dump it on the daughter in law. Their own kids arent willing to spend the time or money (for a nurse or nursing home) to "waste" on them, dtr will take care of them if she is paid for it.
This makes me so frustrated
This had the potential to be a story with a nice strong protagonist... But OFC she just did as she was told
She should have divorced him the SECOND he started with the 'I'm your HUSBAND so what I say woman' bull
For some reason, they don't like to write strong protagonists. Not sure why. It's maddening though.
It’s not really like that. She never left her job.
@@Sparky102970 Japanese story. Japanese wife is supposed to be submissive to her husband. Japanese mothers warn their daughters not to marry first or only sons because you will be expected to take care of his parents when they get old. Unless you can escape.
@lindasavelle1731 This statement says a lot about the aweful misogynistic society that is Japan. It's disgusting and every story I hear reminds me what an aweful society those poor women live in.
@@Sparky102970I read a report not too long ago that Japanese women are divorcing their recently retired husbands because they can’t stand them being at home bossing them around.
I wonder if Ron and Lauren know that people with dementia who are otherwise healthy can live for as long as 10 years? They probably don't. Since the parents can still talk, even if they do not make sense, they will have to care for them for 5 more years.
I like this story!
Story was pretty believable until the ending. In the U.S. there are facilities for Dementia. I know, because my dad spent the last 3 years of his life in one. In Ohio by the way. The staff is trained for that specialty!!
A little creative license, lol
Apple text story, from Japan.
Here where I live, memory care assisted living facilities don't kick people out because they are too difficult to care for because of their dementia. They are qualified and equipped to care for people with these issues. People aren't kicked out unless it's a type of facility or independent living community that doesn't have the supports needed and will try to get them into a better placement facility. It doesn't matter when a person was placed in a facility either. The facility can handle specific issues or they can't.
Agreed. My mother died from Alzheimer's. They have memory facilities and have wonderful tools to make the residents feel at home while being safe. I never had to use one because I had older children (adults) who helped me. I also had the summer off at the very end and she died peacefully at home.
Same with my dad, who died of Alzheimer's in April 2019. My sister promised to never put him in a nursing home for any reason. However, her husband died in January 2017. Dad was 6' and Debbie is 5'3", so when he fell, she couldn't help him back up, and had to call 9-1-1. A person who's never been around dementia patients has no clue and, unless you have some qualifications, there's no way one person could look after two people with it.
This title makes no sense. How the hell does someone make someone do something they don't want to without them willingly capitulating to the request?
Well written and well read. Good video!
Would not have told Lauren anything. Just bye!!
this guy is from the dark ages and I did not know text was available then
Lauren doesn’t know what it’s like trying to care for a parent who has both dementia and cancer. In fact, caring for two parents with dementia might not be as challenging as to be caring for a terminally ill person with two life threatening and potentially painful illnesses.
Why even enter this dance? Just leave the party. Same result in the end.
Sounds like a divorce
He didnt force her to do anything lol. She had a choice and she chose to give him what he wanted. And why exactly does he have to shell out all the money, it sounds like they have their own.
And there is no way she spent a year or more getting 2 hours of sleep every night. That's just not physically possible.
I'm so glad that most of the men here in America don't treat their wives like this, or should I say American men don't treat their wive's like this. And remember just because somebody speaks English it doesn't mean they are American.
2 very selfish people! Both pushed there responsibility off on his wife? BS!
Their
Thank you, Im terrible at English n I never know which (their) to use, now I know! Help without criticism, Kool.... I know, cool...
Sorry but I have rarely seen someone too hard to stay at a retirement home. They are used to hard and bizarre dementia pts.
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I've stopped listening to quite a few story channels because they use those awful a.i. voices. It's like listening to robots pretending to be human. This one at least uses voice actors. And the stories are at least believable as well. I'd dump his a$$, but feel guilty about it. It's not the parents fault but he made the deal. MAKE him live up to it!
boring
Ha ha