Do you want LASTING love with your dream girl? You'll LOVE my FREE masterclass because lays it all out for you! 🔥 Watch it here now 👉 coachmelannie.com/masterclass/ 💭 P.S. What surprised you the most about this video? Tell me in the comments!
I am not saying this to try to flirt with Coach Melanie. Having an attractive woman like her giving out this advice and being personable about it is such a huge Help. If I had this 25 years ago I wouldn't have picked the wrong woman twice. 2 divorces.
Like and friend zone don’t sit easily with me in the same sentence. Being in the friend zone and not liking it. But bees and bubbles help. Everyone needs bees, bubbles and a giggle now and then.
Melanie, serious question. Can I marry you? I'm to old trust me but you are adorable!! One of the BEST personalities and lovable ladies online!! God Bless you ten fold!
FRIEND ZONE, LIKE and GIGGLE. The one that surprised me the most is where she would "freeze up" when I walk into a room. That's interesting. Thank you for another informative video. May God richly bless you 🙏 and I hope you're having a great weekend.
It really is kind of an interesting sign! Easy to miss but super powerful. Thank you for your support! 🙏 I hope you had a nice Father's Day! God bless!
Giggle. This nurse at work always hugs me whenever she arrives on the unit. She does it only when I’m the only around. One time she called out my name as she knew I was in the adjacent room. I responded by calling her name as I passed by. Saw her smile and bite her lower lip(she had her back somewhat sideways and probably wasn’t expecting me to pop up that quick).
Girl in the gym has given me all these signs.... She gazes through mirrors & distances, avoids me at 3ft distance, Saw me & freaked out at the elevator and took the stairs 5floors down.... The issue is she comes with her Husband/ boy friend/ Friendzoned guy , i don't know who.... Despite that she still STARES at me... and when i catch her eyes she looks away OR gets touchy with her partner Also I haven't seen her talking to a single woman in the gym... but only men This has been going on for 3months now to this day i never understood her! she even gets jealous if i am with my friends in the gym... She is the Strangest woman I have ever seen... and we don't even know each other but she acts as I'm her Ex
Friend zone. I think I’m finally coming out of the dreaded friend zone with a long time friend. I’m hoping and praying that this is a promotion from this awful zone. Giggle. 😂
Hi Coach Melannie!!! Thanks for the tips, sometimes we could see those signs and think she is being nice and friendly. ---------- When the girl you LIKE puts you in the FRIEND ZONE, you could cry or just GIGGLE.
OMG this video really helped!!!! I have some co-workers who have repeatedly make eye contact with me and I thought it was just something weird. Thank you Melanie!
I had to giggle when I thought about how simple some of our body language can really be. We miss so much when we are only paying attention to ourselves, right? Thanks for more of your awesome insights. I plan on checking out the Master Class. As a widower after 28 years of an awesome marriage, I'm suddenly thrust into the dating scene again. Man, have some things changed. But...I'm excited for what God is going to do during this next phase of life. Thanks for helping me with the transition!
I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s. It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others. But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm. Because of that I feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, even when I did manage to get a girlfriend. So yeah even while I did have a girlfriend, I still felt like an incel. I don't see myself ever getting over this, it will be a pain and wound for the rest of my life. And I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times over the years I have hated being born male, because I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has this mindset, that men have to do everything in dating and relationships and seduction. Yes I know tons of people say what's the point of being angry and depressed over what didn't happen in the past or not? Well I'm entitled and I have a right to my mindset, I believe it's always been part of human nature or just the human psyche to always be sad and depressed or angry and resentful over good things that they wish happened to them in the past but didn't. I know I'm not afraid to admit I have had these thoughts, and I'm sure other guys have thought this way, we feel that if we had been born a woman, we would not have been single that long. Probably because women just have to exist and they are guaranteed attention and options from Men, that requires no skill or no social dynamics, no game or no seduction. Guys, men, have to know or learn all of these skills, behaviors, talk a certain way, behave a certain way, act a certain way, walk and stand a certain way, breathe a certain way, have a certain lifestyle, because leading or taking the lead is something that is behavior based, skill based, think a certain way, and many more things, that i either don't know or forgot. Women just have to exist and breathe and they are guaranteed attention, options, that doesn't require any learning or skill development, it mind boggles me and makes me annoyed when people say women need skills to succeed in dating. One person I remember I heard said that women need game as well which I thought was the stupidest thing I ever heard. So ya I still feel like an incel for all time despite managing to get a girlfriend eventually, and I still get irritated and annoyed whenever people and society say that men have it better than women do in the human mating game.
@romanceismygoal why do I get the feeling you're a normal-looking guy or just that your looks are not a problem, sadly I'm going to assume you're a virgin as well
Part of being a man is dealing with all the adversity with courage and dignity. It hurts but this is a flawed and unfair world. Just be the best you can be. I believe good things will come our way in due time. If it doesn’t work out then at least we tried. To be a man is to struggle, but we soldier on son.
Hi Coach Melannie. Awesome video, especially the 'giggle' section. You have the best, most infectious laugh I think I have ever seen on RUclips. Thanks for your videos and coaching advice, and please keep posting these videos. I was actually laughing too at the post-bloopers section. Hilarious, so many thanks! :)
FRIEND ZONE,LIKE,GIGGLE another really amazing video melannie all your videos have really helped me on how to read a womans body language and I am currently taking your masterclass and that has really helped me a ton and has really helped me boost my confidence level thank you for all that you do and for helping single men like me to learn,find,keep that amazing woman and have an amazing relationship with her GOD BLESS YOU MELANNIE
Thanks Coach, priceless content as usual. Thanks for all that you do to help us. I would certainly like to see more 'friend zone' videos as I often fall into that place alot with women, plus little understanding why I end up there when things were initially looking promising towards a relationship. Thanks Coach for being awesome as always. God bless you! ✨🙏✨
Freezing up? I thought it was fear. It certainly feels like it. Since leaving the Navy, openly practicing my martial arts, keeping mostly to myself, save for a couple of instances when I had to threaten grievous bodily harm to someone, I figured it was simply fear. The other signs, maybe here and there, but honestly, I'm one of those boring, nice guys, that women would love to use, so maybe. Something that came to mind. You probably don't care, because you are honestly far and away more knowledgeable and established, than this old nerd, from Texas, but in the event that you believe I comment constantly, to try to "debunk" anything, I'm not. What you put out is genuinely good, and it helps the phyche, to hear a positive message. There are many men out here, who are normal, who are productive, scandal free members of society, who never cheated on their women, who handle their business, and we're tired of being put down. I do present the opposite side, though. We don't just attract the woman that use and put us down. We sit back and observe, listen. They feel justified, and applaud each other, for treating the good men like garbage, while running open armed, to the abusive deadbeats. There are heaping piles of skepticism, out here. But truly, never stop. It's great to hear something different. May never happen for me, but different messages are healing.
About 30 percent of my imagination fits within the context of humor. That's the way it's been for so many years. In fact, I smile too much; so much so that I still wear a mask where I work even though I don't have to. My male coworkers seem to appreciate my jokes and funny stories more than my female coworkers. My sense of humor is all G rated. Am I doing something wrong?
Thankyou so much sweetheart. I. Crushing on my physical therapist who has this smile that lights me up overtime I see it. I know she feels the same way about me , but I don't know how to approach the situation since it's her workplace and my pt. Help please. I feel this is once a lifetime chance.
I know how will they act , and i guess you will say that they will show that they dont like you or that they dont care and some will show that they care , but thats not only women , thats how people act , for some they will act like they dont care but they care and some they will act like they dont care and they really dont care .
When I see a woman freeze up she was hoping you wouldn't show or you would show up depending . She could freeze up because she never knew you where going to be there and they are upset you are there and they are so mad they don't know what to say. Been on that end . There's she is looking for you so she can get out of a situation she may not know as many people there and knows you can get her out of trouble. Been there an instanting story about that. She was board and is looking for you so she is not as board or to get her out of there. Yes she might be looking for you because she wants to be with you but there can be more than that to.
Giggle Freezing means she is scared of me. Or of something else. It definitely is not because she likes me If she is nervous that's a sign she wants me to leave Moving towards me does sound like a good sign I'd agree on the hugging. Yes I'd like more content on friend zone But is she trying to catch my eye or keeping an eye on me because she feels unsafe? Pointing the body I would certainly agree with. Yes to those questions It is a great blazer I giggle when I get nervous too Looks like you do a long form video once a week. Is that correct?
I have a girl from work I think like me but she has never hugedme but I have made eye contact every day more than once and she says hi and goodnight every day I see her at work but I really don't want to get my feelings hurt cuzz it's happened alot over the past few years
What if there is months in-between each time that I see her, I don't understand why I am ghosted for so long? I become hopeless and depressed. Friend zone, and how to get out? Also ,"like"(But, during the ghosting I have met another on line. I want to be what they want as well, but its all scary because I hate rejection. I don't want toxic women! I tired of this its way too painful! And things that they say to you that make you feel bad about yourself. I never understood this and why they do this!)
Like! I have a question : so I met this girl online, we've been talking back and forth for over a month and now, she says she wants to be my girlfriend. Is it a red flag?
@coach, help me! I had a little fling with my mother's friend, who I ended up visiting at her home to see were it would go but I always felt she was hot and cold. Fast forward, nothing happened between us although I always made the first moves and finally called it quits. Now she comes over to my mother's house where I currently live with the pretext of visiting my mother but in reality to see me and that I notice her. She freezes and is nervous when she finds me home and I let her in or offer her a drink almost like there was nothing there between us. I actually make the first move to greet her or make a casual comment and she lights up and mirrors my body language but at this point it just became stagnant and as much as I would like to give her another opportunity and don't want to be used and have my time wasted
Do you want LASTING love with your dream girl? You'll LOVE my FREE masterclass because lays it all out for you! 🔥 Watch it here now 👉 coachmelannie.com/masterclass/
💭 P.S. What surprised you the most about this video? Tell me in the comments!
It's beautiful when you give me confirmation and confidence ♥️😃✅💯😊
Hugs and whisper 😁♥️✅
The unexpected Giggling
I don’t mind you rambling Coach Melannie.
I am not saying this to try to flirt with Coach Melanie. Having an attractive woman like her giving out this advice and being personable about it is such a huge Help. If I had this 25 years ago I wouldn't have picked the wrong woman twice. 2 divorces.
That’s ok she’s very attractive
She's not attractive, 5/10 tops
Giggling is the greatest stress relief
I don’t want a toxic drama queen Coach Melannie.
I love your giggle Coach Melannie.
Anyone else have a crush on our coach? 🥰
Like and friend zone don’t sit easily with me in the same sentence. Being in the friend zone and not liking it.
But bees and bubbles help. Everyone needs bees, bubbles and a giggle now and then.
I love your blazer Coach Melannie.
Giggle, friend zone, and like! Thank you Melanie!
I always giggle from your bloopers! Thanks Melanie. And please, do some videos about friendzone
Let's GIGGLE in the FRIEND ZONE.
Giggle in your always laughing Melanie lol
One word for female attraction.Proximity
Friend zone videos please 🙏. Really enjoying your bloopers especially your giggling 😅
Fine line between love and hate !!
very fine
Friend Zone...Like...Giggle
Thank you little Ms Giggles, you are awesome!
Melanie, serious question. Can I marry you? I'm to old trust me but you are adorable!! One of the BEST personalities and lovable ladies online!! God Bless you ten fold!
*Too
FRIEND ZONE, LIKE and GIGGLE. The one that surprised me the most is where she would "freeze up" when I walk into a room. That's interesting. Thank you for another informative video. May God richly bless you 🙏 and I hope you're having a great weekend.
Absolutely brother, couldn't agree more... I was thinking the same. God bless you too! ✨🙏✨
It really is kind of an interesting sign! Easy to miss but super powerful. Thank you for your support! 🙏 I hope you had a nice Father's Day! God bless!
The Giggle Coach Melannie who rambles when she's stressed.
Coach Melannie is my favour coach on RUclips. Her energy and expressions are so good. So helpful!
Giggle. This nurse at work always hugs me whenever she arrives on the unit. She does it only when I’m the only around. One time she called out my name as she knew I was in the adjacent room. I responded by calling her name as I passed by. Saw her smile and bite her lower lip(she had her back somewhat sideways and probably wasn’t expecting me to pop up that quick).
Girl in the gym has given me all these signs.... She gazes through mirrors & distances, avoids me at 3ft distance,
Saw me & freaked out at the elevator and took the stairs 5floors down....
The issue is she comes with her Husband/ boy friend/ Friendzoned guy , i don't know who....
Despite that she still STARES at me... and when i catch her eyes she looks away OR gets touchy with her partner
Also I haven't seen her talking to a single woman in the gym... but only men
This has been going on for 3months now
to this day i never understood her!
she even gets jealous if i am with my friends in the gym...
She is the Strangest woman I have ever seen... and we don't even know each other but she acts as I'm her Ex
Toxic woman ways
Friend zone. I think I’m finally coming out of the dreaded friend zone with a long time friend. I’m hoping and praying that this is a promotion from this awful zone. Giggle. 😂
Hi Coach Melannie!!!
Thanks for the tips, sometimes we could see those signs and think she is being nice and friendly.
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When the girl you LIKE puts you in the FRIEND ZONE, you could cry or just GIGGLE.
I'm happy it was helpful! Thank you SO MUCH for your support and kindness 🙏🙏 I'll keep the videos like this coming!
There's no wrong time to giggle. Well there might be actually, but those times aren't typically things most people are going to encounter.
Friendzone, like, giggle.
I intend to join the academy very soon.. I look forward to what I'll learn..
I think i messed up!!!!!!
I was super nervous and didn't talk to her at all when she is giving me these sign🥲
OMG this video really helped!!!! I have some co-workers who have repeatedly make eye contact with me and I thought it was just something weird. Thank you Melanie!
I had to giggle when I thought about how simple some of our body language can really be. We miss so much when we are only paying attention to ourselves, right? Thanks for more of your awesome insights. I plan on checking out the Master Class. As a widower after 28 years of an awesome marriage, I'm suddenly thrust into the dating scene again. Man, have some things changed. But...I'm excited for what God is going to do during this next phase of life. Thanks for helping me with the transition!
Lots of great content and a lot of fun, had a bit of a giggle towards the end 😁😄
She hugs you every time she sees you.
I just want my DF to communicate with me better. Clear up some misconceptions. I want her to know no matter what ill be there for her.
Sadly there's over half that is toxic around 55 to 70 percent.
@@SunshineSuperstar I do agree with the 80% .
She could be freaking out because she is up set because she was looking to see you or not.
Hi Melannie I like your style an your positive vibes an your good looking.
Can you do a video on .... how girls act when they hate you, but love you and are confused af.
You are such a Sweetie...and That Smile ,is so beautiful.Thank you for caring like you do .Also for what you shed light upon.
I agree. But she'd look even more incredible with some eye makeup .
I’m an introvert Coach Melannie and I can be shy.
I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s.
It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others.
But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm.
Because of that I feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, even when I did manage to get a girlfriend.
So yeah even while I did have a girlfriend, I still felt like an incel.
I don't see myself ever getting over this, it will be a pain and wound for the rest of my life.
And I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times over the years I have hated being born male, because I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has this mindset, that men have to do everything in dating and relationships and seduction.
Yes I know tons of people say what's the point of being angry and depressed over what didn't happen in the past or not?
Well I'm entitled and I have a right to my mindset, I believe it's always been part of human nature or just the human psyche to always be sad and depressed or angry and resentful over good things that they wish happened to them in the past but didn't.
I know I'm not afraid to admit I have had these thoughts, and I'm sure other guys have thought this way, we feel that if we had been born a woman, we would not have been single that long.
Probably because women just have to exist and they are guaranteed attention and options from Men, that requires no skill or no social dynamics, no game or no seduction.
Guys, men, have to know or learn all of these skills, behaviors, talk a certain way, behave a certain way, act a certain way, walk and stand a certain way, breathe a certain way, have a certain lifestyle, because leading or taking the lead is something that is behavior based, skill based, think a certain way, and many more things, that i either don't know or forgot.
Women just have to exist and breathe and they are guaranteed attention, options, that doesn't require any learning or skill development, it mind boggles me and makes me annoyed when people say women need skills to succeed in dating.
One person I remember I heard said that women need game as well which I thought was the stupidest thing I ever heard.
So ya I still feel like an incel for all time despite managing to get a girlfriend eventually, and I still get irritated and annoyed whenever people and society say that men have it better than women do in the human mating game.
@@romanceismygoal are you saying that you never dated or never been in a relationship before?
@romanceismygoal another angry irritating depressing reminder, angers me how men end up like this more than women do
Men have it better? I've NEVER heard that!
@romanceismygoal why do I get the feeling you're a normal-looking guy or just that your looks are not a problem, sadly I'm going to assume you're a virgin as well
Part of being a man is dealing with all the adversity with courage and dignity. It hurts but this is a flawed and unfair world. Just be the best you can be. I believe good things will come our way in due time. If it doesn’t work out then at least we tried. To be a man is to struggle, but we soldier on son.
She freezes when she sees you surprises me.
Thank you for this advice! Always look forward to your awesome videos. Plus you are a cutie! 😍😍
I am tired of failing, I am tired of trying!
Hi Coach Melannie. Awesome video, especially the 'giggle' section. You have the best, most infectious laugh I think I have ever seen on RUclips. Thanks for your videos and coaching advice, and please keep posting these videos. I was actually laughing too at the post-bloopers section. Hilarious, so many thanks! :)
Hey Coach, Friendzone, Like. I'm pretty sure i watch most if not all the ones you say to type if we'd like more. Keep it up we appreciate it.
Thanks again for sharing Melannie
FRIEND ZONE,LIKE,GIGGLE another really amazing video melannie all your videos have really helped me on how to read a womans body language and I am currently taking your masterclass and that has really helped me a ton and has really helped me boost my confidence level thank you for all that you do and for helping single men like me to learn,find,keep that amazing woman and have an amazing relationship with her GOD BLESS YOU MELANNIE
Thanks Coach, priceless content as usual. Thanks for all that you do to help us. I would certainly like to see more 'friend zone' videos as I often fall into that place alot with women, plus little understanding why I end up there when things were initially looking promising towards a relationship. Thanks Coach for being awesome as always. God bless you! ✨🙏✨
Yes coach more friend zone please.
I have an idea.. Making a proper first impression.
Great topic! Giggle!
I try to watch all your videos, you are an amazing woman Melannie🌹
Friend Zone!
Freezing up? I thought it was fear. It certainly feels like it. Since leaving the Navy, openly practicing my martial arts, keeping mostly to myself, save for a couple of instances when I had to threaten grievous bodily harm to someone, I figured it was simply fear. The other signs, maybe here and there, but honestly, I'm one of those boring, nice guys, that women would love to use, so maybe.
Something that came to mind. You probably don't care, because you are honestly far and away more knowledgeable and established, than this old nerd, from Texas, but in the event that you believe I comment constantly, to try to "debunk" anything, I'm not. What you put out is genuinely good, and it helps the phyche, to hear a positive message. There are many men out here, who are normal, who are productive, scandal free members of society, who never cheated on their women, who handle their business, and we're tired of being put down. I do present the opposite side, though. We don't just attract the woman that use and put us down. We sit back and observe, listen. They feel justified, and applaud each other, for treating the good men like garbage, while running open armed, to the abusive deadbeats. There are heaping piles of skepticism, out here.
But truly, never stop. It's great to hear something different. May never happen for me, but different messages are healing.
Like!
Thank you very much.
Giggle, another great job. Keep up the good work!
"Just like me, they long to be close to you." -- The Carpenters (circa 1970)
You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink Coach Melannie.
About 30 percent of my imagination fits within the context of humor. That's the way it's been for so many years. In fact, I smile too much; so much so that I still wear a mask where I work even though I don't have to.
My male coworkers seem to appreciate my jokes and funny stories more than my female coworkers. My sense of humor is all G rated. Am I doing something wrong?
No just be yourself brother
I can’t afford your payment options in your academy Coach Melannie.
I, definitely like to hear you giggle!😅❤😂
If a girl or woman has been hurt a lot in past relationships does that mean she’s toxic?
No , but she wil be very careful around potential partners.
Thankyou so much sweetheart. I. Crushing on my physical therapist who has this smile that lights me up overtime I see it. I know she feels the same way about me , but I don't know how to approach the situation since it's her workplace and my pt. Help please. I feel this is once a lifetime chance.
Perusing when she knows you
I owe you an apology its nobody's fault but my own.
Friend Zone; Like; and Giggle.
All women enjoy a good giggle
I know how will they act , and i guess you will say that they will show that they dont like you or that they dont care and some will show that they care , but thats not only women , thats how people act , for some they will act like they dont care but they care and some they will act like they dont care and they really dont care .
We are human we are not the same .
When I see a woman freeze up she was hoping you wouldn't show or you would show up depending . She could freeze up because she never knew you where going to be there and they are upset you are there and they are so mad they don't know what to say. Been on that end . There's she is looking for you so she can get out of a situation she may not know as many people there and knows you can get her out of trouble. Been there an instanting story about that. She was board and is looking for you so she is not as board or to get her out of there. Yes she might be looking for you because she wants to be with you but there can be more than that to.
Friend Zone
And if they anyone take care of you , thats mean he or she love you , dont say women are friendly , men and women are the same 90 to 99 percent .
Giggle
Freezing means she is scared of me. Or of something else. It definitely is not because she likes me
If she is nervous that's a sign she wants me to leave
Moving towards me does sound like a good sign
I'd agree on the hugging.
Yes I'd like more content on friend zone
But is she trying to catch my eye or keeping an eye on me because she feels unsafe?
Pointing the body I would certainly agree with.
Yes to those questions
It is a great blazer
I giggle when I get nervous too
Looks like you do a long form video once a week. Is that correct?
Like, giggle
She could be a hugger.
Giggle like the friendzone has left the building...
I have a girl from work I think like me but she has never hugedme but I have made eye contact every day more than once and she says hi and goodnight every day I see her at work but I really don't want to get my feelings hurt cuzz it's happened alot over the past few years
What if there is months in-between each time that I see her, I don't understand why I am ghosted for so long? I become hopeless and depressed. Friend zone, and how to get out? Also ,"like"(But, during the ghosting I have met another on line. I want to be what they want as well, but its all scary because I hate rejection. I don't want toxic women! I tired of this its way too painful! And things that they say to you that make you feel bad about yourself. I never understood this and why they do this!)
Friend zone, like
It's good to give a mixture of love ♥️😃✅
Friend zone yes please Melanie
Giggle 🤣❤️
Like!
I have a question : so I met this girl online, we've been talking back and forth for over a month and now, she says she wants to be my girlfriend. Is it a red flag?
You're asking this question because you think it's a little too fast, right?
Probably a bored sick guy, catfishing....
You are truly a but not in a bad way
Nut
@coach, help me! I had a little fling with my mother's friend, who I ended up visiting at her home to see were it would go but I always felt she was hot and cold. Fast forward, nothing happened between us although I always made the first moves and finally called it quits. Now she comes over to my mother's house where I currently live with the pretext of visiting my mother but in reality to see me and that I notice her. She freezes and is nervous when she finds me home and I let her in or offer her a drink almost like there was nothing there between us. I actually make the first move to greet her or make a casual comment and she lights up and mirrors my body language but at this point it just became stagnant and as much as I would like to give her another opportunity and don't want to be used and have my time wasted
Please let me know if I should ask her out tonight to hang out with me for a bit??
Thanks!
You're welcome! I'm so glad you liked it!
Giggle!
Giggles 😃
i'll give you my tips for your tips
You look cute when you blush
Like!
She works her way over to you could be many reasons.
Friendzone
Giggle. Hmmm. Hiding a funny secret?? Yes, rambling is stress. Hey ... you okay, Coach?
Giggle away!
Friend zone
Balloons
LIKE!
😎