Ep 39 Understanding and Healing Protest Behaviors Through an IFS Lens

Have you ever found yourself texting your partner repeatedly, withdrawing to get their attention, or starting arguments over small issues? These are protest behaviors-your nervous system’s way of saying, I need to feel safe and connected.
In this episode, we dive deep into:
🔹 What protest behaviors are and why they happen
🔹 How childhood attachment wounds shape these reactions
🔹 The impact of protest behaviors on adult relationships
🔹 How Internal Family Systems (IFS) can help you heal these patterns
IFS teaches us that these behaviors stem from protective parts of us-exiles carrying deep fears of abandonment, and managers trying to keep us safe. Instead of criticizing yourself, you can learn to approach these parts with awareness, curiosity, and compassion.
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