i went through the darkest time of my life and my girlfriend left me during it, instead of helping me through it. I never thought I would recover, and still have not fully to be honest, but i promise everyone that it does get better. I am just now trying to meet new girls and get back into dating and that’s a whole other battle, but if i can get through it, anyone can. Good luck everyone
This commend is goated, I feel the same way. The video has helped me to get perspective - other breakup videos seem superficial, but this video feels like genuine advice.
you are great man. We are the same age and i'm having my own unique time with a relationship. Great to hear another person with similar experiences and someone equivalently indulged in MW2 nostalgia
Men take breakups the hardest because most dudes struggle getting dates, so when they finally get one and it eventually ends, it hurts a lot going back. Chicks can replace guys instantly so they normally just don't care. Not to mention, the way the go about it (mostly cheating on you) is the worst. We have no support network and the blame normally gets placed on us. Once you get to your late 20s/early 30s, this power dynamic changes. The best thing guys can do is to stay busy, don't ditch your friends, and hit the gym.
Sometimes they are a great thing aswell, after mine in march, in the end i had way more energy, more time for myself, more money for other things, I lost around 20lbs and improved in a lot of areas. A break up just indicates your getting closer to the person who you are meant to be with, which is ultimately the end goal.
I appreciate your videos a lot man. I’m in my early 20s figuring shit out and these videos offer a lot of good insight. Plus the aesthetic of some old gameplay and some heartfelt talk is gold.
Yeah my break up was pretty bad. It’s been around 7 months since we split up (2.5 year relationship) and it was so rough and I’m just barely getting back to being myself. But like you said in the video, walking through that fire and really suffering through it without numbing the pain changes you in the best of ways. Men are forged in the fire and it’s a beautiful thing, no matter what we’ll come out just fine gentlemen and we’ll be better men for it.
coming from a relationship i was in with a guy for just over a year. i just broke up with him. we both loved each other. he was my first love, my first relationship. then he went behind my back and did something unforgivable. if i was to stay with him, i'd only look like a fool and be accepting a man who has done me wrong. in several ways over the entirety of our relationship. a few times he asked me about marriage. i thought this was gonna be a long term thing. but then he threw it all away in a stupid 1 minute decision. i hurt, and he hurts. but if he didn't hurt me, he wouldn't be hurting now. nice videos i guess. i'm just a lil salty and hurting now. thanks
These videos are banging and really resonate with people like yourself. There's a lot of us with fond memories of MW2 and zombies and find value in listening to these life lessons
I love you man. These videos are awesome. I’m currently going through a very similar situation that you had with the hippy girl and if anything probably exactly the same with us being opposites. I’m in college and in a situationship with her where she ended things with me so I didn’t really follow your advice with this one 😂. Anyways, love the videos man, I’ve been binge watching them and keep it up!
oh no haha i bet the situationship didn't help your mind during that time 😂 its hard to maintain a relationship when the values are so different, you'll be happy in the long run
a month ago i broke up with my ex gf because she cheated on me but it doesn’t even feel like i did and i don’t feel like a man at least because of it but my situation got so much more complicated cuz she’s an addict and never wanted to become bad terms but it did cuz i had to tell her mom so she can the help she needs mentally and from addiction. i wish i can say everything but i can’t man. now i can’t even remember anything or feel any type of emotion. i don’t know what to do and ive never felt like giving up and don’t want to because of my friends and family cuz they mean so much to me and it makes me cry. im in a weird place in life right now, im 19 btw
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I never did that. He's just one of my regular haters who thinks I purchased views and subs because i had a few viral videos talking about my life. I'm just happy he's boosting my engagement by leaving me all these comments and watching my videos! Thank you Jaykejohn9885!
please never stop making these videos. they really bring me peace. you’re such a relatable guy and your advice is top tier.
i won't stop because of support from people like you! thank you
i went through the darkest time of my life and my girlfriend left me during it, instead of helping me through it. I never thought I would recover, and still have not fully to be honest, but i promise everyone that it does get better. I am just now trying to meet new girls and get back into dating and that’s a whole other battle, but if i can get through it, anyone can. Good luck everyone
that's how you know shes not the right person - she left during your worst moment. Good luck in your recovery and thanks for sharing your story
This commend is goated, I feel the same way. The video has helped me to get perspective - other breakup videos seem superficial, but this video feels like genuine advice.
you are great man. We are the same age and i'm having my own unique time with a relationship. Great to hear another person with similar experiences and someone equivalently indulged in MW2 nostalgia
Men take breakups the hardest because most dudes struggle getting dates, so when they finally get one and it eventually ends, it hurts a lot going back. Chicks can replace guys instantly so they normally just don't care. Not to mention, the way the go about it (mostly cheating on you) is the worst. We have no support network and the blame normally gets placed on us. Once you get to your late 20s/early 30s, this power dynamic changes. The best thing guys can do is to stay busy, don't ditch your friends, and hit the gym.
Sometimes they are a great thing aswell, after mine in march, in the end i had way more energy, more time for myself, more money for other things, I lost around 20lbs and improved in a lot of areas.
A break up just indicates your getting closer to the person who you are meant to be with, which is ultimately the end goal.
it sucks in the moment and the months after, but usually is a great thing as time goes on and you find yourself again
I appreciate your videos a lot man.
I’m in my early 20s figuring shit out and these videos offer a lot of good insight.
Plus the aesthetic of some old gameplay and some heartfelt talk is gold.
Thanks so much for being a supporter man! Your 20s are such an adventure. Embrace the uncertainty, learn, and move forward!
Thanks man, a lot of what you said resonated with me in views I couldn’t think of before, I appreciate your work and insights.
Yeah my break up was pretty bad. It’s been around 7 months since we split up (2.5 year relationship) and it was so rough and I’m just barely getting back to being myself. But like you said in the video, walking through that fire and really suffering through it without numbing the pain changes you in the best of ways. Men are forged in the fire and it’s a beautiful thing, no matter what we’ll come out just fine gentlemen and we’ll be better men for it.
sorry to hear you went through a hard one. keep going and improving yourself! Soon you'll be super happy it happened looking back
@@whylearntech yessir I will! Keep up the amazing content man. You’re great!
Got the worst of the 3 options as my first relationship 😭
Perfect timing man thank you
Glad to help!
coming from a relationship i was in with a guy for just over a year. i just broke up with him.
we both loved each other. he was my first love, my first relationship. then he went behind my back and did something unforgivable.
if i was to stay with him, i'd only look like a fool and be accepting a man who has done me wrong. in several ways over the entirety of our relationship.
a few times he asked me about marriage. i thought this was gonna be a long term thing. but then he threw it all away in a stupid 1 minute decision.
i hurt, and he hurts.
but if he didn't hurt me, he wouldn't be hurting now.
nice videos i guess. i'm just a lil salty and hurting now. thanks
Thanks brother, cheers.
Subscribed bc you’re relatable
Thank you man 🙏🏽
These videos are banging and really resonate with people like yourself. There's a lot of us with fond memories of MW2 and zombies and find value in listening to these life lessons
Much appreciated, thank you. Happy that you enjoy listening! Those old games will never leave this channel
focus on you, untill the focus is on you.
I love you man. These videos are awesome. I’m currently going through a very similar situation that you had with the hippy girl and if anything probably exactly the same with us being opposites. I’m in college and in a situationship with her where she ended things with me so I didn’t really follow your advice with this one 😂. Anyways, love the videos man, I’ve been binge watching them and keep it up!
oh no haha i bet the situationship didn't help your mind during that time 😂 its hard to maintain a relationship when the values are so different, you'll be happy in the long run
Thanks man
never stop
i won't
a month ago i broke up with my ex gf because she cheated on me but it doesn’t even feel like i did and i don’t feel like a man at least because of it but my situation got so much more complicated cuz she’s an addict and never wanted to become bad terms but it did cuz i had to tell her mom so she can the help she needs mentally and from addiction. i wish i can say everything but i can’t man. now i can’t even remember anything or feel any type of emotion. i don’t know what to do and ive never felt like giving up and don’t want to because of my friends and family cuz they mean so much to me and it makes me cry. im in a weird place in life right now, im 19 btw
No drinking, the gym, and time. That's it.
simple in words, hard in execution. But true
Turns out I need my own words again 😕
who needs a GF anyway lol
Shouldn't have purchased bots man
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@@whylearntech I didn't call YOU a bot, i said you shouldn't have purchased them, It's
inauthentic. Real nothing.
Didn’t purchase them lol-what makes you think I did?
@@whylearntechbasically hes saying you are purchasing a method of getting views and likes that uses bots
I never did that. He's just one of my regular haters who thinks I purchased views and subs because i had a few viral videos talking about my life. I'm just happy he's boosting my engagement by leaving me all these comments and watching my videos! Thank you Jaykejohn9885!