My husband left me because i wanted children

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  • Опубликовано: 7 ноя 2024

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  • @AniMatters.official
    @AniMatters.official  11 месяцев назад +25

    In your opinion, when should a young couple discuss their desire to have children?

    • @ReneeInspires_GodGives
      @ReneeInspires_GodGives 11 месяцев назад +6

      During friendship or courtship…way before they marry.

    • @xoxosashana
      @xoxosashana 11 месяцев назад +7

      When the relationship is becoming more serious and you both feel comfortable talking about your future together.😊👫👶

    • @Yeetgirl1
      @Yeetgirl1 11 месяцев назад +2

      Before they get married

    • @ArcFallOrder1919
      @ArcFallOrder1919 4 месяца назад

      Before they get married, but in my opinion they should be tested for parenting. Cause I have seen young people making the right decisions for their children, etc. So they should be prepared, talk, or take a test.

  • @kerrygligorovic9758
    @kerrygligorovic9758 11 месяцев назад +68

    Eric should have told his wife the truth about why he refused to have a baby 👶with her in the first place instead being nasty and bully her to forget this idea of bring a child into the world. You should never run away from your problem or your fear because those problems won't go away by themselves so you have to face your problem/fear head on with some help from the people who cared for you.

    • @AniMatters.official
      @AniMatters.official  11 месяцев назад +14

      You're absolutely right, @kerrygligorovic9758🤗 Sometimes life presents you with situations in which we have the impulse not to confront, but if we do that, the situation will undoubtedly get worse. Besides, just as you say, you can always count on a little help from friends🙂🙂👍👍

    • @only257
      @only257 11 месяцев назад +3

      Agreed 🎉

    • @polishalastor142
      @polishalastor142 11 месяцев назад +1

      Ben

    • @avanaharvey
      @avanaharvey 7 месяцев назад +2

      Exactly

    • @MargaretStultz
      @MargaretStultz 7 месяцев назад

      I agree if you want a relationship it’s for the best to tell your partner that you don’t want to have kids

  • @gracejustine5048
    @gracejustine5048 11 месяцев назад +3

    Love is a beautiful thing when u find someone who genuinely loves you and share alot in common with you

  • @ameliawarfield5637
    @ameliawarfield5637 11 месяцев назад +31

    Eric should have been honest with his wife from the beginning.

    • @AniMatters.official
      @AniMatters.official  11 месяцев назад +3

      We 100% agree with you, @ameliawarfield5637. Sometimes it's scary to be honest, but it's certainly the right way to go and will save a lot of trouble in the long run😉Thanks for weighing in! 🤗🌷

    • @ameliawarfield5637
      @ameliawarfield5637 11 месяцев назад

      @@AniMatters.official You're welcome 🤗.

  • @kerrygligorovic9758
    @kerrygligorovic9758 11 месяцев назад +25

    If she have known that her husband doesn't want to have any kids with her then she should never have married Ben in the first place because watching the video it's very clear that they were never made 💔for one another since they have different opinion and goals. But I'm glad she realise this and decided to file for divorce so she could moved on with her own life as she have met someone who shares the same opinion 💖like her which turn out to be Ben's boss.
    I do love the good ending to the story but I wonder if Ben will ever find out that his ex-wife is happily remarried to his boss and she's pregnant with their first child because I would imagine that he'll be shocked and very annoyed. Even if Ben did confront them about their relationship his boss will pointed out to him that you should have married someone else who share the same opinion like him just as his boss and his ex-wife have a lot in common. This would make Ben realise that he and his ex-wife doesn't have anything in common after all and decided to take his boss advice by finding someone else who would have something in common just like him.

    • @AniMatters.official
      @AniMatters.official  11 месяцев назад +3

      Hi @kerrygligorovic9758👍👍Excellent the way you present the alternatives that life presents to Ben😉 If we get into the plot of the story, we can only hope that he has enough maturity and fortitude to move on with his life and learn from his past mistakes. He must learn to live and let live👍🙂

  • @avanaharvey
    @avanaharvey 7 месяцев назад +4

    Eric actually lied to her because he should've told her from strt

  • @CidZero
    @CidZero 11 месяцев назад +20

    I can understand the fear of disappointment in the first story. It wouldn't be a good life for the child if you suffered from addiction.
    But it's never too late to make the right decision and turn your life around, especially if you want a child.

    • @jaggg.3821
      @jaggg.3821 5 месяцев назад +2

      not all people can do that my grandpa adored my mom but, he was an alcoholic the best advice he gave my mom was to stick with that Jesus fella because He's working for you, she stuck with Jesus just as he advised but there's still a life lesson I learned stay away from Alcohol because my grandpa died of chiross of The liver when my mom was 16 years old and believe me that is such a painful death on top of it.
      My mom said he was a crying alcoholic not the blind violent some Alcoholic's behave.

  • @fyngal5327
    @fyngal5327 11 месяцев назад +3

    Am happy for Ben's boss at least he knows what he wants 😊

  • @MargaretStultz
    @MargaretStultz 7 месяцев назад +4

    You know what’s wired it’s crazy how childfree people know better how children are but people who want kids don’t realize how much work they are until they are born now I don’t want to have kids either

  • @daisyfombe8041
    @daisyfombe8041 11 месяцев назад +7

    Been waiting for this🎉🎉🎉finally

    • @AniMatters.official
      @AniMatters.official  11 месяцев назад

      Thanks to you, @daisyfombe8041, for your patient waiting 🤗🤗🤗

  • @freshnessnewaccount3854
    @freshnessnewaccount3854 11 месяцев назад +9

    Good story 👏👏👏

    • @AniMatters.official
      @AniMatters.official  11 месяцев назад

      Hi @freshnessnewaccount3854 👋🙂 Thank you very much! 🤗

  • @amaraobizue2652
    @amaraobizue2652 11 месяцев назад +9

    Don't force anybody to be a father or a mother
    I've always wanted to be child free, even if i can't get married

  • @vikivalov2600
    @vikivalov2600 11 месяцев назад +4

    DIVORCE HIM AND LEAVE HIM

  • @ameliawarfield5637
    @ameliawarfield5637 11 месяцев назад +10

    Ben obviously didn't want another baby. So he focused on his job, and his wife divorced him and found another husband who wanted to be a father.

    • @AniMatters.official
      @AniMatters.official  11 месяцев назад +3

      Hi @ameliawarfield5637 👋🙂 Thank you so much for commenting! 🤗🌼🌺

    • @ameliawarfield5637
      @ameliawarfield5637 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@AniMatters.official You're welcome 🤗.🌹

    • @jnew5274
      @jnew5274 10 месяцев назад +1

      I was listening for the marriage to Ben's boss but it seems that they are in a relationship and will be co-parenting. 🤷 Just saying.

    • @ameliawarfield5637
      @ameliawarfield5637 10 месяцев назад

      @@jnew5274 Got it.

  • @saihraahmed7051
    @saihraahmed7051 11 месяцев назад +8

    She cant force him to be a father.

  • @sapphirehylton
    @sapphirehylton 11 месяцев назад +12

    She not being a good wife it's wrong control Your partner

    • @AniMatters.official
      @AniMatters.official  11 месяцев назад

      Hi @sapphirerolon08 👋 Thanks for giving your opinion 🙂

  • @supremetrapxex
    @supremetrapxex 11 месяцев назад +5

    I miss everyone

    • @AniMatters.official
      @AniMatters.official  11 месяцев назад

      Hi @rainbowloaderxex👋🙂 Thank you for participate! 🤗

  • @GracieStories
    @GracieStories 11 месяцев назад +1

    He should tell the truth to his wife

  • @only257
    @only257 11 месяцев назад +3

    Great 😊

  • @melanateddoll1491
    @melanateddoll1491 11 месяцев назад +3

    Was this a re upload?

  • @zayvionthelegoking4545
    @zayvionthelegoking4545 11 месяцев назад +6

    You leave her just because she wanted kids not everyone have a family and some people want one but can’t have one due to one being infernal

    • @AniMatters.official
      @AniMatters.official  11 месяцев назад +1

      Those are the paradoxes and ironies that life sometimes has, @zayvionthelegoking4545🙂👍

  • @denisebatts3414
    @denisebatts3414 11 месяцев назад +3

    If and when you are in a relationship communicate to your partner before marriage if you say i was afraid to tell someone your feelings, 5hen you wiil not work out and to me trust is broken

  • @ArcFallOrder1919
    @ArcFallOrder1919 4 месяца назад

    Don't control your partner if want to have a child or not. But I understand breaking unhealthy cycles, but still.

  • @00videovideo
    @00videovideo 8 месяцев назад +2

    I love how we just skipped out the part where she tried to baby trap him but not taking her pills when she said she did. In some places that could be considered SA and honestly is just disgusting behavior.

  • @rosemary3135
    @rosemary3135 11 месяцев назад

    I remember these stories

  • @tonyahenry8166
    @tonyahenry8166 6 месяцев назад

    manipulated men to have his kid

  • @cassandraleis4162
    @cassandraleis4162 11 месяцев назад

    Lessons well learned

  • @rebeccaholt4827
    @rebeccaholt4827 11 месяцев назад +9

    Why bleep out ovulating? Who cares???

    • @Jasmine-mz9er
      @Jasmine-mz9er 11 месяцев назад +2

      For kids these are showing life lessons so parents would probably let kids watch this

    • @rebeccaholt4827
      @rebeccaholt4827 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@Jasmine-mz9er yeah but ovulating is not a bad word

    • @ArcFallOrder1919
      @ArcFallOrder1919 4 месяца назад

      It's RUclips

    • @luanagomesgoncalves7985
      @luanagomesgoncalves7985 3 месяца назад

      ​@@rebeccaholt4827and uterus a bad word.

  • @anonedwards
    @anonedwards 11 месяцев назад +5

    If she was smart she would've drop all the pills in the toilet and flush them😂 he'd never find full birth control pills in the trash 😂. I'm just saying, but I truly don't believe in lies and deception.

    • @AniMatters.official
      @AniMatters.official  11 месяцев назад +2

      Hi @anonedwards 👋🙂 Thanks for commenting. Your opinion is important for us 🤗

  • @polishalastor142
    @polishalastor142 11 месяцев назад

    11:07

  • @carolechaney2830
    @carolechaney2830 11 месяцев назад

    Diversity 😊

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    @Luisanaprincessicepink-ct1nn 11 месяцев назад +1

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