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करोड़ों लोगों में कोई एक कपल हि होगा जो दूसरे पार्टनर का सम्मान और एक दूसरे को समझ सकते है ऐसा जोड़ा बहरा गूंगा का मिलेगा परमात्मा ने केवल वही जोड़ी परफेक्ट बनाई है बाकी कितना भी पद प्रतिष्ठा मिल जाए परफेक्ट नही होगी दुनिया का सबसे बड़ा सत्य है thanks
Interference of mother-in-law plays a vital role in maintaining family life . Mother-in-laws destroy the family life of daughters in most of the cases .
Beti ki maa ka toh nhi pata par bete ki maa ne bete ke kaan bhar bhar k ghar jarur tudwaye he ,aap jara tute hue risto ki wajah ki tah me jaa kar dekhiye sach pata chal jayega
सफल वैवाहिक जीवन के लिए... अवतार, तीर्थंकर और देवी देवता आपकी ही गोद में खेले हैं। आदि शक्ति आदि पुरुष स्वरूप का स्मरण करें। आप पाप की संतान नही जिसको कयामत के दिन जजमेंट सुनाया जाएगा। आत्मदीपो भव सूत्र सनातन संस्कृति ने दिया है। पितृकुल के दिये हुए अपने दिव्य शरीर को आज भी याद है कि वाल्मीकि, राम, कृष्ण, सीता, राधा, हनुमान आदि अंशावतार या पूर्ण अवतार आपने ही जन्मे हैं। कभी आप कंस की जेल में प्रताड़ित देवकी वासुदेव रहे तो कभी राजा दशरथ और कौशल्या हुए, वाल्मीकि जैसे ऋषि को साधारण जन होकर जन्म दिया तो प्रतापी राजा होकर महावीर जैसे तीर्थंकर पैदा किये। मंदिर, आश्रम, तीर्थ जाएं तो अपनी गरिमामयी उपस्थिति से इन स्थानों को ऊर्जावान करें। उपनिषद का यह संदेश जन साधारण को अपने आचरण से समझाएं। एक साधारण प्रधानमंत्री या राष्ट्रपति के माता पिता अगर राष्ट्रपति भवन जाते हैं या प्रधानमंत्री आवास जाते हैं तो अपनी संतान पर गर्व करते हैं कि उनका पुत्र आज जगतप्रसिद्ध है। आप मंदिर जाएं तो गर्व करें कि आप ही की संतान आज जगत वंदनीय है। दीन दुःखी जो आज मंदिर आये हैं उनको वह परमसत्ता निराश नही करेगी जिसको कभी मैंने भी जन्म दिया था। अपने आचरण के साबित करें कि आप अपनी संतान के यश गौरव को और बढ़ाएंगे उसके काम में हाथ बंटाएंगे। ईश्वरीय सत्ता के काम में हाथ बंटाने का एक ही अर्थ है कि जो हमारे आस पास है उनकी गरिमा का स्मरण कराएं। उनकी आत्मिक शक्ति के विकास में सहयोगी हो भौतिक जीवन की समृद्धि में परस्पर सहयोग करें।
बदलते रिश्ते बिखरते परिवार स्वार्थ केन्द्रित आत्मीयता बढ़ती महात्वाकांक्षा भोगवाद बाजारवाद पारिवारिक जिम्मेदारियों के नाम पर मानसिक प्रताड़ना से वैवाहिक रिश्तों का ताना बाना पूरी तरह बदल गया है....रिश्तों के नाम का ढांचा खडा है उसकी ताजगी खुशबू गर्माहट गायब है....
Very simple , relationship never break. Say sorry first, the other do same. Kuch galti ho gay say both sorry to eachother. Donot show attitude to each other.kept one thing in mind always that no one is here to live for ever, 50 to 60 ka age hai milakar aur pyar se jiyo dosto, make heart kind always.
After my divorce, I had many opportunities, but I chose to marry a simple woman from a humble background. She has brought immense love and respect into my life, and I am grateful for her presence every day. Despite her being a housewife and having a simple education, her love and respect for me shine through, making our life together truly fulfilling. I have come to realize that certain golden rules hold true in relationships. It's not about the skin color or financial status of your wife; rather, with skin color and beauty she will bring ego with her Stay away from women if you smell even a small amount of feminism in her . My wife's simplicity and genuine care for me have taught me that true happiness lies in these qualities, not in material or societal expectations. I believe in supporting women's upliftment, but I also understand the importance of mutual respect and understanding in a relationship. My wife and I have a relationship based on these principles, and it has brought us immense joy.
जिस पति पत्नी में सच्चा प्रेम होता है वे दो जिस्म एक जान होते हैं। आपसी समझदारी से ये रिश्ता एक खून का ना होते हुए भी खून के रिश्ते से ज्यादा करीब होता है। Thanks to God for my amazing life partner❤🙏
My wife had a habit of speaking loudly always since childhood and it was a trigger to me. So, I some how convinced her to speak in a normal manner in low tone always no matter what. As the trigger was gone, our bond grew stronger. She still speaks loudly at times, but she understands now and so do I.
I m 38 divorced from mumbai. My wife used my body, my money n drained me emotionally. Daily arguments, no work at home, no respect, no financial contribution, no true love and threat me every day and doubts on me and had eye on my money and property. Best solution is to stop marriage, no kids and stay stress free life with lovely pets and parents. kids after some age don't stay with parents to look after in old age
App therapy try kijiye sir…app sayad depression mei ho Everywhere u comment same quora bhi app same comment karte ho..apke sath bura hua hai par apko therapy leni chaheye…
@@Antimgupta16 😄 my motive is to make all my brothers aware of the latest issues in marriage and prevent them from being a bakra...baki unki marzi. I have already moved on and I am much happy with my Lord swami narayan and parents and pets and some friends.
Mujhe lgta hy jis larki ka mayika supportive strong hota hy, waha larki ko thik se rakha jata hy, braabari ya apne se bade ghar ke larko se shaadi mein larkiyo ki life barbad hojati hy, luckly kuch larke acche v hote hy, amir ya gareeb ho
Ha sahi kha apne se bade ghar 1 real example deta hoon yaha 1 ladki hai hamare ghar ki pass uski mom itni lalchi thi ki bahut bade ghar me us ladki ki shaddi karni thi uske chaar ke ki bi unka khud ka palace tha ladke walo ka par bahut drugs leta tha thode dino me ghar me wapus aa gyi ladki aaj uski age 40 se bi plus hai aaj kal logo ki bi galti hai movies dekh dekh kar unke bahutvrich chahiye accha ladka nhi
Baat ye hai ki apne jaise logo se hee rishta banana chaiya , balance of power is important otherwise bahut dikkat hoti hai , only exception is love and good people, accha log ho to baat alag hai fir matter nhi krta itna lakin fir b koshish krni chahiye ki dono side se cheeje balance ho , ak hee side Paisa , power rehta hai to dikkat hoti hai
इस दुनिया में परफेक्ट पार्टनर जैसा कुछ नहीं होता । ये सब फिल्मों की देन है परफेक्ट पार्टनर। अगर परफेक्ट पार्टनर खोजोगे तो कोई भी रिश्ता ज्यादा दिनों तक नहीं टिकेगा। एक रिश्ते से दूसरे में, दूसरे से तीसरे में,,,,,भटकते रहोगे। दो ही ऑप्शन हैं-- या तो अकेले रह लो या जो साथ है उसकी कमियों को एक्सेप्ट कर रिश्ते को अच्छा बनाने की कोशिश करो। इस दुनियां में कोई भी इंसान परफेक्ट नहीं है। बाकी आपकी मर्ज़ी ....
Ha sab social media ke reason ki wajeh se hai par jaadatar ladki chalati hai agar koi ladka bahut honest hai koi social media use nhi karta youtube or whatsapp ke bina bhir bi ladkiya phone pe lagi rehti hai kayi bahut aaj kal or youtube to permanently hai phone se delete bi nhi hota
@@Bloggermahi95 meri bass youtube par hai or whatsapp iske bina kahi time waste nhi karta youtube pe jab upset hota hoon calm hone ke liye video dekh leta hoon isme kya galat hai
Jb tk dono khud ko nhi smjhna sikhnege tb tk ek dusre pr blame karenge hm sb ki upbringing or mindset hi esa bna usse change krne k shi gyaan hona bhot jruri hai
Thank you for raising the very touchy issue of marital life of a middle class family. Out of respect for you and your viewpoint, please read and delete it. A discussion may or may not be healthy, but it also depends on various indirect factors, while you missed a lot. Secondly, the feeling of social pressure is prevalent in our culture, whereas it is not given any consideration in advanced nations and individuals. Similarly, the social environment/mindset is not the same between the two i.e. the child/parents/society and there may be general prejudices, social/society basics or laws surrounding them. As a retired HR professional, I probably know the mentality of youth/middle age/parent/social system. But basically, I agree with you but subject to several ifs and buts. An interesting example i.e. in olden times kings used to have many wives but have you seen a queen having many husbands! Respected Shivani Ji, “Equation is not possible nor acceptable +++ Next may be common-hostel for students at Dame and School/College/University level! As quoted, “Power/freedom destroys its user and absolute power destroys freedom altogether. (A similar review with a close friend/relative serving in the Defense Forces is also suggested! Please don't be offended but I would appreciate your reply.
I am very thankful with your thoughts about couple therapy. You are really great I shall try my best to follow your thoughts in my marriage life thank you Very much.
Ma'am main bhi 9 month pregnant hu... Ab mujhe is tym pr husband bol rhe separation k liye... Main nhi hona chahti... Becoz of family issues... I really want to give beautiful life to my baby... Kya krna chahiye mujhe??
Are kaissa husband hai pregnant karke tumhare bure time me alag hone ko bol raha jab apko uski sabse jaada jaroorat hai aise riste 1 side jaada der tak apka khus nhi rakhega jitna marji sacrifice karlo app aaj kal kitne bure log hai kisi ko pregnant karke uske bure time me puchte bi nhi or chood dete hai he bagwan kalyug
Aapki ek ek baat such h mam lakin real life me bilkul ulta hota h pati patni ke beech mene pure 22saal kate hn apne Shoher ke sath lakin perfect tariqe se ghar ko sanbhala h majal h bande ne kabhi tarif ka ek bol bhi ada kiya ho meri kamiyan to hazar gina denge 😢kabhi kabhi to ub jati hu zindgi se hamesha dukhti rag pr hath rakhte hn 😢
Same here sister!! Mene 11 saal ke baad ek bete ko janam diya IVF se. Mere dushmano par bhi aise din na aaye, kya kucch nahi zhela, itna painfull treatment, painfull tests, mentally and physically challenged hote ho aap aise time pe. 5 saal ka beta hai Mera ab. Husband ne kabhi thank you Tak nahi bola Aaj Tak ulta ab garaj poori Hui to tum kaun aor hum kaun wala behaviour. Appreciation ka ek shabd nahi. 16 saal se married hu bahut hi loanly feel karti hu. Meri behen ki do betiyan Hain. Hum dono beheno ne decide Kiya hai ki unn bacchiyo se kahenge bade hokar ki shaadi mat karna chahe Jo bhi ho jaye. Samaj ko bahut jarurat hai madad ki, samajseva kar lo Kam se Kam punya to milega, ye roj roj ki jillat to nahi uthani padegi.
@@rupalikadam3551sabhi ka yhi haal.h .....bcha na hone p aurat ko sunaya jata h ...aur bacha ho Jaye to kisi ko rkhwana nhi hota ....bda hone p kuch ghnte bchebko rkhne aur pura din sabhalne m din raat ka antr h ...meri bhi family m appreciate nhi krte ...but mujhe aapni bcho k saith rhna use batebkrnabhhut acha lgta h ..jab wo khti h ki muma naraz mat ho .....meri muma ho aap ....mene bhi 4 saal.bad baby hua tha ....mujhe bcha apne liye chaiye tha besak koi saith de na de ....m aapni bchi ko ache se bda krugi ...m aapne relationship k karan ..bchebko suffer nhi krne dugi ....mne bhut s log deke h jinko koi frak nhi pdta ki bchebp.kya asar pdd rha h but bche ka bachpan khrab ho jata h ...bcha jawani p vhi behave krega Jo bchpan m deka hoga Aap God ko thanku boleo ki aapko baby hua ...uske saith khush rhne ki kosis kro ....aadmi jaat to bhar ghum fir k time pass krlete h
arrange marrige jydater jhut bolkr hoti h ...tbhi sari problem h...mai khud fas gai hu sbkuchh jhut bola ..yhatk pti ne bhi sari baaten jhut boli ...shadi k bad life narak bn gai
Please talk about interference of in laws, especially expectations of Mother in law. Things that make the husband fall in a sandwich situation between wife and mother. Elders come in between a healthy relationship.
Ha sab social media ke reason ke karan hai maine bahut example dekhe jab husband job pe jaata hai to ladki social media pe paata nhi kis kis se baat karti hai honesty nhi hai aaj kal
Kabhi kabhi relationship family members ki wajha se ni chl paate. Couples apne best tarike se rhte h but sometimes family ki umeedo ki wajha se couples relation balance ni kr paate.
Mam. Jo chizen hazaron salon se ho rahi hain, wah hamara sanskar ban jata hai. Striyan sharir se kamjor hoti hain. Unhe apne control men rakhna purush ki shan mani jati hai. Striyan wahan rahti hain jahan unka ek matr saga uska pati hota hai. Pati se jhagra karna matalab apni maut ko dawat dena hai. Aaj mobile ke karan wiwahita 24 hrs apne maike ke sampark men rahti hain. Jahir hai, ye uske pati ko achha nahi lagega. Police ki takat dikha kar apne pati par dhaunsh dikhati hain. Sena men sikhaya jata hai ki jiske sena unchai par hota hai. vijay usi ki hoti hai. Jab pati patni men than gayi, to antim jeet pati ki hoti hai. Aise men Ladkiyon ke liye wikalp do hi hai: 1. Wiwah aajeewan na kare 2. Yadi kare, to pati ki shreshta ko dil se man kar chale.
@@dollops1729 this is the 2nd reason believing in equality. Men and women are not same. Men sleeping around and women sleeping around is not the same thing.
@@big.bang. and who do u think you are to decide that......maybe u mend your ways first....then preach others....will help u in life.... pointing finger at others will not do u any good coz rest of the fingers are pointing at you.....
@@dollops1729I am no one to decide this. But it's a simple biology. A woman lose her ability of pair bond. If she's been with multiple partners. Because she is naturally monogamous. And even from a male perspective she became less valuable. So it creates incompatibility.
@@dollops1729होटल के कमरे में जब संभोग पूरा होता है, उसके बाद गर्भनिरोधक गोली कोन लेता है??? और अगर गलती से गर्भ ठहर गया तो सफाई किसके पेट की होती है???? इसलिए आयुर्वेद के अनुसार लड़का और लड़की में धरती आसमान का फर्क है,, लड़का सुबह 10 बजे होटल में संभोग के बाद एक चम्मच वीर्य निकालके ,कपड़े पहन कर बाबूजी बन जाता है, और फिर दोपहर के 2:00 बजे दूसरी चेली को लेकर दूसरे होटल में ले जाकर फिर उसके अंदर स्खलित कर देता है,,
Jo Dost thaa vo Husband or Wife to banaa hi nahi naa ... Parents to pyaar Bharosa sikhaaye hi nahi or maarte pittate the Hamesaa parents sikhaye ..ki Anjaan Larkaa or Larki se Baat mat karnaa, Pyar mat karna, Izzat doob jaayegaa... Or ek parents ek time ke baad kisi anjaan Larkaa or Larki se Saadi kar dete hai To kiu or kaise Bharosa hogaa
लड़की लड़के के साथ उसके स्ट्रगल टाइम पर आए तो उसको पूरा अधिकार है अपने अधिकार लेने का ।। लेकिन अगर लड़की का बाप लड़के की सरकारी नोकरी और उसकी प्रॉपर्टी देख कर शादी कर रहा है तो लड़की को अधिकारो की बात नही करनी चाहिए । लड़की का बाप प्रॉपर्टी , जॉब सब देखता है और दहेज की बात आते ही सामाजिक हो जाता है ।। shame on them
आदमी ज्यादातर दो किस्म के ही होते हैं या तो पूरे हुकुम चलाने वाला या पूरी तरह से खुला छोड़ देने वाला की फिक्र करने के टाइम फिक्र भी न करे। दोनो ही हालत में रिश्ता नहीं सुधर सकता । कुछ लड़कियां भी अपनी फ्रीडम की दुनिया में इतना खोई होती हैं कि सामने वाले के भाव की कद्र ही नहीं।
मैम मैं अभी 18 वर्ष के है जो आप के सोच हैं वैसा ही मेरा सोच है की कोई महिला अपना स्वतन्त्र जिंदगी शादी के बाद खो देती हैं क्योंकि उसके पास कोई भी बात का डिसीजन लेने का हक नहीं रहता है जो भी करते है उसके पति
Sexual past bhi ek bohot badi vajah hai mai kisi ko janta hu jisne apni patni ko cheat kiya kyoki uski wife ka shadi se pahale sexual past tha.ab vo bhi red light area me jata hai taki vo apni wife se badala le sake aur apni jalan ko shant kar sake. Vo bohot hurt huva hai. 😢
Madam plzz, Zamana badal gaya hai bohot. Log badal.gaye hai. Ye dating apps , pornography aur adultery ka zamana ho gya hai unfortunately. Loyalty is out of window. Boys p fraud case karte hai dowry ka , impotence ka , section 498a . Khali alimony k liye marriage.. Girls and boys have to go through depression, anxiety , abuse aur kya nai.. Marriage is outdated and unrealistic... Na jane kitni taklif , taane , roz roz k jhagde, Its a nightmare. From my experience i have learnt, Have courage, himmat rakho , single raho , paise kamao, desh videsh ghumo , life jiyo. Old age me ek naukar rakho..jisse apni property dena..wo dhyan rakhega.
Your video is incomplete. Comparison is not only present relationship but comparing with old relationship. True for both male/female. Personal Choices are more predominant than combined and hence no sacrifice.
मुझसे एक गलती हो गई है जो लड़की मुझसे शादी nhi karna chahti thi humne usi se shadi kr li hai kya kre😢😢 usse hm chij mere Ghar ki buri lgti hai jbki mere Ghar hm dono ur meri Mata ji hai mere Ghar wo hmesha hasti rhti hai but hr wakt jb use time milta hai apne Ghar hya ki burai krti rhti hai jaise mujhe bhut kaam karna padta hai Ghar bhut tuta futa hai yhi sab।
सबसे पहले तो अगर कपल में से एक ठीक हो और एक लापरवाह तो भी अच्छा पर्सन सफर ही करेगा। कितना ही समझा लो। वो लापरवाह नहीं बदलेगा। ये सब बातें पता तो लगभग सभी को होते हैं लेकिन रियल लाइफ में कोई कोई फॉलो करता है।
यदि धोखे से पति अपनी पत्नी को किसी के साथ से#स करते देख ले, पति को किस तरह समझाया जाए कि गलती दोबारा से नहीं होगी, 😢 पति हर रोज रोते हुए एक ही बात बोल रहा है कि तू अपनी करनी भरेगी इसी जन्म में 😢
Most women have have already slept around before marriage , yes modern marriage is women dominated by where she marries for retirement plan, if something goes wrong courts are in favour of her . Chapriyo ke sath alag alag hotel me ghumna hai phir koi bhola sa ladka job wala se shaadi krke use ko cheat krna hai .
Mam some time not only there controll over what you do or not to do and even not meet with parents,ni talk on phon or not wear even night suit etc also kind of control
mere sath toh yeh hua k arrange marriage k pehle jo girlfriend thi usi se shadi k baad bhi sara ghar contact me tha, upar se mere upar shak karna...even though i come from a defense background father, the scariest thing happend for me in life, and instead of accepting mistake, the guy took stand for the girl, how bullshit mentality and immature people are these days, im amazed! And seperation is even worst! How shameless people are now adays, nobody is there for me now, only relations are of name. Dhoke me rakhna kisi ko, bohot cool hai aj kal, fir ladki chor k chali jati hai toh suddenly she becomes the culprit! 😊
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करोड़ों लोगों में कोई एक कपल हि होगा जो दूसरे पार्टनर का सम्मान और एक दूसरे को समझ सकते है ऐसा जोड़ा बहरा गूंगा का मिलेगा परमात्मा ने केवल वही जोड़ी परफेक्ट बनाई है बाकी कितना भी पद प्रतिष्ठा मिल जाए परफेक्ट नही होगी दुनिया का सबसे बड़ा सत्य है thanks
Shi hi bola
Mutual respect
Friendship
Fondness admiration and gratitude
Responsiveness
Reliability
Don't rush for child unless you have secured your relationship
True
Interference of mother-in-law plays a vital role in maintaining family life . Mother-in-laws destroy the family life of daughters in most of the cases .
Absolutely
It can be son's family life also.
Beti ki maa ka toh nhi pata par bete ki maa ne bete ke kaan bhar bhar k ghar jarur tudwaye he ,aap jara tute hue risto ki wajah ki tah me jaa kar dekhiye sach pata chal jayega
@iloveuGAMERz bro it happens . I have gone through this.
सफल वैवाहिक जीवन के लिए...
अवतार, तीर्थंकर और देवी देवता आपकी ही गोद में खेले हैं।
आदि शक्ति आदि पुरुष स्वरूप का स्मरण करें। आप पाप की संतान नही जिसको कयामत के दिन जजमेंट सुनाया जाएगा। आत्मदीपो भव सूत्र सनातन संस्कृति ने दिया है। पितृकुल के दिये हुए अपने दिव्य शरीर को आज भी याद है कि वाल्मीकि, राम, कृष्ण, सीता, राधा, हनुमान आदि अंशावतार या पूर्ण अवतार आपने ही जन्मे हैं। कभी आप कंस की जेल में प्रताड़ित देवकी वासुदेव रहे तो कभी राजा दशरथ और कौशल्या हुए, वाल्मीकि जैसे ऋषि को साधारण जन होकर जन्म दिया तो प्रतापी राजा होकर महावीर जैसे तीर्थंकर पैदा किये। मंदिर, आश्रम, तीर्थ जाएं तो अपनी गरिमामयी उपस्थिति से इन स्थानों को ऊर्जावान करें। उपनिषद का यह संदेश जन साधारण को अपने आचरण से समझाएं। एक साधारण प्रधानमंत्री या राष्ट्रपति के माता पिता अगर राष्ट्रपति भवन जाते हैं या प्रधानमंत्री आवास जाते हैं तो अपनी संतान पर गर्व करते हैं कि उनका पुत्र आज जगतप्रसिद्ध है। आप मंदिर जाएं तो गर्व करें कि आप ही की संतान आज जगत वंदनीय है। दीन दुःखी जो आज मंदिर आये हैं उनको वह परमसत्ता निराश नही करेगी जिसको कभी मैंने भी जन्म दिया था। अपने आचरण के साबित करें कि आप अपनी संतान के यश गौरव को और बढ़ाएंगे उसके काम में हाथ बंटाएंगे। ईश्वरीय सत्ता के काम में हाथ बंटाने का एक ही अर्थ है कि जो हमारे आस पास है उनकी गरिमा का स्मरण कराएं। उनकी आत्मिक शक्ति के विकास में सहयोगी हो भौतिक जीवन की समृद्धि में परस्पर सहयोग करें।
बदलते रिश्ते बिखरते परिवार स्वार्थ केन्द्रित आत्मीयता बढ़ती महात्वाकांक्षा भोगवाद बाजारवाद पारिवारिक जिम्मेदारियों के नाम पर मानसिक प्रताड़ना से वैवाहिक रिश्तों का ताना बाना पूरी तरह बदल गया है....रिश्तों के नाम का ढांचा खडा है उसकी ताजगी खुशबू गर्माहट गायब है....
Bilkul sahi kaha aapne. Aisahi hai zyadatar rishte.
❤❤❤ बहुत सुँदर लिखा आपने @ बधाइयाँ
Very simple , relationship never break. Say sorry first, the other do same. Kuch galti ho gay say both sorry to eachother. Donot show attitude to each other.kept one thing in mind always that no one is here to live for ever, 50 to 60 ka age hai milakar aur pyar se jiyo dosto, make heart kind always.
Mutual respect
Freindship
Fondness & admiration
Responsiveness
Reliability
Signs of a healthy relationship ❤
After my divorce, I had many opportunities, but I chose to marry a simple woman from a humble background. She has brought immense love and respect into my life, and I am grateful for her presence every day. Despite her being a housewife and having a simple education, her love and respect for me shine through, making our life together truly fulfilling.
I have come to realize that certain golden rules hold true in relationships. It's not about the skin color or financial status of your wife; rather, with skin color and beauty she will bring ego with her Stay away from women if you smell even a small amount of feminism in her . My wife's simplicity and genuine care for me have taught me that true happiness lies in these qualities, not in material or societal expectations.
I believe in supporting women's upliftment, but I also understand the importance of mutual respect and understanding in a relationship. My wife and I have a relationship based on these principles, and it has brought us immense joy.
❤
Simple traditional women 👑>>>>>>>>>>>> strong independent feminists 🤡
Really nice section.we need these type of solutions rather than problems.
जिस पति पत्नी में सच्चा प्रेम होता है वे दो जिस्म एक जान होते हैं। आपसी समझदारी से ये रिश्ता एक खून का ना होते हुए भी खून के रिश्ते से ज्यादा करीब होता है। Thanks to God for my amazing life partner❤🙏
Respect and freedom sbko psnd h, agr beleive system strong hai to yhi kafi hai happy marriage life ke liye.
Topic achcha tha.👍👍
We fight sometimes... But we love each other. Can't live without him also he wants me. 😊
My wife had a habit of speaking loudly always since childhood and it was a trigger to me. So, I some how convinced her to speak in a normal manner in low tone always no matter what. As the trigger was gone, our bond grew stronger. She still speaks loudly at times, but she understands now and so do I.
And the contributing factor in spoiling the relationships is.. " Friends".....no one can adjust with it...nor one can live without judging it...
I m 38 divorced from mumbai. My wife used my body, my money n drained me emotionally. Daily arguments, no work at home, no respect, no financial contribution, no true love and threat me every day and doubts on me and had eye on my money and property.
Best solution is to stop marriage, no kids and stay stress free life with lovely pets and parents. kids after some age don't stay with parents to look after in old age
App therapy try kijiye sir…app sayad depression mei ho
Everywhere u comment same quora bhi app same comment karte ho..apke sath bura hua hai par apko therapy leni chaheye…
@@Antimgupta16 😄 my motive is to make all my brothers aware of the latest issues in marriage and prevent them from being a bakra...baki unki marzi.
I have already moved on and I am much happy with my Lord swami narayan and parents and pets and some friends.
Most women who claim themselves independent don't contribute financially
Mujhe lgta hy jis larki ka mayika supportive strong hota hy, waha larki ko thik se rakha jata hy, braabari ya apne se bade ghar ke larko se shaadi mein larkiyo ki life barbad hojati hy, luckly kuch larke acche v hote hy, amir ya gareeb ho
Ha sahi kha apne se bade ghar 1 real example deta hoon yaha 1 ladki hai hamare ghar ki pass uski mom itni lalchi thi ki bahut bade ghar me us ladki ki shaddi karni thi uske chaar ke ki bi unka khud ka palace tha ladke walo ka par bahut drugs leta tha thode dino me ghar me wapus aa gyi ladki aaj uski age 40 se bi plus hai aaj kal logo ki bi galti hai movies dekh dekh kar unke bahutvrich chahiye accha ladka nhi
Ji ha shi baat h ye
Bilkul shi kha inme se m ek hu jo hr time meri बेजत्ती hoti hai
Baat ye hai ki apne jaise logo se hee rishta banana chaiya , balance of power is important otherwise bahut dikkat hoti hai , only exception is love and good people, accha log ho to baat alag hai fir matter nhi krta itna lakin fir b koshish krni chahiye ki dono side se cheeje balance ho , ak hee side Paisa , power rehta hai to dikkat hoti hai
Jab shadi ke bad perfect life partner na mile to life narak ho jati hai mai usi chijo se
Perfect koi nhi hota bs kuch log dikhava krte h or kuch Dil k ache hote h islea ye sb h
Yeah u are right
Pta nhi mujhe kysi milegi
इस दुनिया में परफेक्ट पार्टनर जैसा कुछ नहीं होता । ये सब फिल्मों की देन है परफेक्ट पार्टनर। अगर परफेक्ट पार्टनर खोजोगे तो कोई भी रिश्ता ज्यादा दिनों तक नहीं टिकेगा। एक रिश्ते से दूसरे में, दूसरे से तीसरे में,,,,,भटकते रहोगे।
दो ही ऑप्शन हैं-- या तो अकेले रह लो या जो साथ है उसकी कमियों को एक्सेप्ट कर रिश्ते को अच्छा बनाने की कोशिश करो। इस दुनियां में कोई भी इंसान परफेक्ट नहीं है। बाकी आपकी मर्ज़ी ....
Mai bhi..mera to mayka bhi khtm ho gya
Loylty aajkl dono side se khtm ho rhi h 😢😢😢😢shadi nam hi ek drrr bnn gya h logo me
Ha sab social media ke reason ki wajeh se hai par jaadatar ladki chalati hai agar koi ladka bahut honest hai koi social media use nhi karta youtube or whatsapp ke bina bhir bi ladkiya phone pe lagi rehti hai kayi bahut aaj kal or youtube to permanently hai phone se delete bi nhi hota
@@Entertainmentvv..jabki apki khud utube pr id h..😂😂
@@Bloggermahi95 meri bass youtube par hai or whatsapp iske bina kahi time waste nhi karta youtube pe jab upset hota hoon calm hone ke liye video dekh leta hoon isme kya galat hai
Ha..Mai bhi dhokha khay sadi me
@@rinkle-kn7lm kya dhoka kisne dhokha kiya husband ne
In the present scenario relationships are very difficult unless the couples are saint or very understanding
Your thinking is so beautiful mam kash sab yesa soch pate
Comparison is the root of all problems related to relationship.
Bahot hi samaj ne layak video he❤
Nice teaching mam...these teachings are needed to go to peoples brain for a better world
so nice of u madam for sharing this valuable nowledge...
Excellent. This is what so. But how to get trained for great realtionship?
Right husband never accept his mistake and even some time shout on you
It can be other way also.
@@NaturalSpring-k5pWhich husband was burned for bringing dowry or which husband for burned like Sati?
Har jagah apna RR shuru kar dete ho..
@@Ninanani-4085 Have u ever heard of a narcissist? I think u don't know anything about them.
Absolutely fantastic!
Jb tk dono khud ko nhi smjhna sikhnege tb tk ek dusre pr blame karenge hm sb ki upbringing or mindset hi esa bna usse change krne k shi gyaan hona bhot jruri hai
Thank you for raising the very touchy issue of marital life of a middle class family. Out of respect for you and your viewpoint, please read and delete it.
A discussion may or may not be healthy, but it also depends on various indirect factors, while you missed a lot. Secondly, the feeling of social pressure is prevalent in our culture, whereas it is not given any consideration in advanced nations and individuals.
Similarly, the social environment/mindset is not the same between the two i.e. the child/parents/society and there may be general prejudices, social/society basics or laws surrounding them.
As a retired HR professional, I probably know the mentality of youth/middle age/parent/social system.
But basically, I agree with you but subject to several ifs and buts.
An interesting example i.e. in olden times kings used to have many wives but have you seen a queen having many husbands!
Respected Shivani Ji, “Equation is not possible nor acceptable +++ Next may be common-hostel for students at Dame and School/College/University level!
As quoted, “Power/freedom destroys its user and absolute power destroys freedom altogether.
(A similar review with a close friend/relative serving in the Defense Forces is also suggested!
Please don't be offended but I would appreciate your reply.
What an explanation! Sir kya yesb kbhi thik nhi ho skta.
I am very thankful with your thoughts about couple therapy. You are really great I shall try my best to follow your thoughts in my marriage life thank you Very much.
Abusive relationship is like living in a hell
Kahani Ghar Ghar ki
Thank you Josh talks for such insightful videos ❤
आप बिलकुल सच कह रही है मॅम 👍💐🙏🙏💐🪷
Thanks a lot mam
काश, कि इस वीडियो को 1 से ज्यादा, कई गुना ज्यादा, लाइक करने का option होता।
Ma'am main bhi 9 month pregnant hu... Ab mujhe is tym pr husband bol rhe separation k liye... Main nhi hona chahti... Becoz of family issues... I really want to give beautiful life to my baby... Kya krna chahiye mujhe??
Pyar se samjhao unko kyuki agar pyar care or respect khtm ho gyi to sath rhkr bi koi fayda nhi wo felling hi khtm ho jaegi
Zbrdasti k rishte me rah k fayda kuch ni. Better ap Acharya Prashant ji k kuch video dekho decision khud le skti h
Are kaissa husband hai pregnant karke tumhare bure time me alag hone ko bol raha jab apko uski sabse jaada jaroorat hai aise riste 1 side jaada der tak apka khus nhi rakhega jitna marji sacrifice karlo app aaj kal kitne bure log hai kisi ko pregnant karke uske bure time me puchte bi nhi or chood dete hai he bagwan kalyug
Kya family issue hai baatayo jo apka husband apki us majboori ka fayida utha raha hai
So common nowadays. No emotions at all. Stay strong.
Very good Information Mam.
Madam ji jab Tak ek doosare ke liay feelings nahi hogi tab Tak rista rista nanhi hai namaste.
Right
Aapki ek ek baat such h mam lakin real life me bilkul ulta hota h pati patni ke beech mene pure 22saal kate hn apne Shoher ke sath lakin perfect tariqe se ghar ko sanbhala h majal h bande ne kabhi tarif ka ek bol bhi ada kiya ho meri kamiyan to hazar gina denge 😢kabhi kabhi to ub jati hu zindgi se hamesha dukhti rag pr hath rakhte hn 😢
Sv ke sath same hy madam,koi luckily hoga jo respect payar de
Same here 😭
Same here sister!! Mene 11 saal ke baad ek bete ko janam diya IVF se. Mere dushmano par bhi aise din na aaye, kya kucch nahi zhela, itna painfull treatment, painfull tests, mentally and physically challenged hote ho aap aise time pe. 5 saal ka beta hai Mera ab. Husband ne kabhi thank you Tak nahi bola Aaj Tak ulta ab garaj poori Hui to tum kaun aor hum kaun wala behaviour. Appreciation ka ek shabd nahi. 16 saal se married hu bahut hi loanly feel karti hu. Meri behen ki do betiyan Hain. Hum dono beheno ne decide Kiya hai ki unn bacchiyo se kahenge bade hokar ki shaadi mat karna chahe Jo bhi ho jaye. Samaj ko bahut jarurat hai madad ki, samajseva kar lo Kam se Kam punya to milega, ye roj roj ki jillat to nahi uthani padegi.
@@rupalikadam3551 so sad bahan
@@rupalikadam3551sabhi ka yhi haal.h .....bcha na hone p aurat ko sunaya jata h ...aur bacha ho Jaye to kisi ko rkhwana nhi hota ....bda hone p kuch ghnte bchebko rkhne aur pura din sabhalne m din raat ka antr h ...meri bhi family m appreciate nhi krte ...but mujhe aapni bcho k saith rhna use batebkrnabhhut acha lgta h ..jab wo khti h ki muma naraz mat ho .....meri muma ho aap ....mene bhi 4 saal.bad baby hua tha ....mujhe bcha apne liye chaiye tha besak koi saith de na de ....m aapni bchi ko ache se bda krugi ...m aapne relationship k karan ..bchebko suffer nhi krne dugi ....mne bhut s log deke h jinko koi frak nhi pdta ki bchebp.kya asar pdd rha h but bche ka bachpan khrab ho jata h ...bcha jawani p vhi behave krega Jo bchpan m deka hoga
Aap God ko thanku boleo ki aapko baby hua ...uske saith khush rhne ki kosis kro ....aadmi jaat to bhar ghum fir k time pass krlete h
arrange marrige jydater jhut bolkr hoti h ...tbhi sari problem h...mai khud fas gai hu sbkuchh jhut bola ..yhatk pti ne bhi sari baaten jhut boli ...shadi k bad life narak bn gai
jaise kya kya jhoot
Mam love ho ya arrange sb ek jsi hi hoti h love marriage wala preshan krega to life time rona pdega arrange marriage wala krega to chal jata h
Aap agar ladki ho to aap ka naam Rahul kaise?
Character less ladka ladkiyo ki life ko nark bnata h
Tum bhi apne 6 ex boyfriends ke bareme kuch bola nahi kya
Please talk about interference of in laws, especially expectations of Mother in law. Things that make the husband fall in a sandwich situation between wife and mother. Elders come in between a healthy relationship.
Thanks with regards for Guideline us valueable vedio about making good relationships with life partner.
Very nice message from this video, how to manage things together will be great help specially on family front, please suggest….
Ye he vjah h aj kal dippration ho rha h love marriage ho ya arrange marriage ho koi kisi ko smjhne k liye tyar he nhi h 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Ha sab social media ke reason ke karan hai maine bahut example dekhe jab husband job pe jaata hai to ladki social media pe paata nhi kis kis se baat karti hai honesty nhi hai aaj kal
Well Said Ma'am
Kabhi kabhi relationship family members ki wajha se ni chl paate. Couples apne best tarike se rhte h but sometimes family ki umeedo ki wajha se couples relation balance ni kr paate.
Mam.
Jo chizen hazaron salon se ho rahi hain, wah hamara sanskar ban jata hai.
Striyan sharir se kamjor hoti hain.
Unhe apne control men rakhna purush ki shan mani jati hai.
Striyan wahan rahti hain jahan unka ek matr saga uska pati hota hai.
Pati se jhagra karna matalab apni maut ko dawat dena hai.
Aaj mobile ke karan wiwahita 24 hrs apne maike ke sampark men rahti hain.
Jahir hai, ye uske pati ko achha nahi lagega.
Police ki takat dikha kar apne pati par dhaunsh dikhati hain.
Sena men sikhaya jata hai ki jiske sena unchai par hota hai. vijay usi ki hoti hai.
Jab pati patni men than gayi, to antim jeet pati ki hoti hai.
Aise men Ladkiyon ke liye wikalp do hi hai:
1. Wiwah aajeewan na kare
2. Yadi kare, to pati ki shreshta ko dil se man kar chale.
Specially, house wife suffer alot, mentally, physically, emotionally, financially
It can be other way also
@@NaturalSpring-k5p Tu idhar bhi ro raha hai?
Kitchen ka kaam seekh le, apni khud ki maa ko to khush rakh, le, fir Ghar me koi jhagda nahi hoga..
@@Ninanani-4085 Have u ever heard of a narcissist?
@@NaturalSpring-k5p Megalomania ke mareez. Maa ki sewa seekh, khana bana, bartsn dho..
Mam aapka ek ek sentence really right h❤❤❤❤
Nice reality.
70 saal se ambedkrite written constitutional govt system se failai jaa rhi Ambedkrization se toot rhe kon agree, 👍
Apne bilkul sahi kaha
Ma'am ka contact bhi dena chahiye description mein
The real reason is women sleeping around before marriage. And men believing in equality. These two things are the reason.
😂 and they sleep around with other women.....men don't sleep around???
@@dollops1729 this is the 2nd reason believing in equality. Men and women are not same. Men sleeping around and women sleeping around is not the same thing.
@@big.bang. and who do u think you are to decide that......maybe u mend your ways first....then preach others....will help u in life.... pointing finger at others will not do u any good coz rest of the fingers are pointing at you.....
@@dollops1729I am no one to decide this. But it's a simple biology. A woman lose her ability of pair bond. If she's been with multiple partners. Because she is naturally monogamous. And even from a male perspective she became less valuable. So it creates incompatibility.
@@dollops1729होटल के कमरे में जब संभोग पूरा होता है, उसके बाद गर्भनिरोधक गोली कोन लेता है???
और अगर गलती से गर्भ ठहर गया तो सफाई किसके पेट की होती है????
इसलिए आयुर्वेद के अनुसार लड़का और लड़की में धरती आसमान का फर्क है,, लड़का सुबह 10 बजे होटल में संभोग के बाद एक चम्मच वीर्य निकालके ,कपड़े पहन कर बाबूजी बन जाता है, और फिर दोपहर के
2:00 बजे दूसरी चेली को लेकर दूसरे होटल में ले जाकर फिर उसके अंदर स्खलित कर देता है,,
Bilkul sahi kaha mam
Very nice thought💐💐
Jo Dost thaa vo Husband or Wife to banaa hi nahi naa ...
Parents to pyaar Bharosa sikhaaye hi nahi or maarte pittate the
Hamesaa parents sikhaye ..ki Anjaan Larkaa or Larki se Baat mat karnaa, Pyar mat karna, Izzat doob jaayegaa...
Or ek parents ek time ke baad kisi anjaan Larkaa or Larki se Saadi kar dete hai
To kiu or kaise Bharosa hogaa
लड़की लड़के के साथ उसके स्ट्रगल टाइम पर आए तो उसको पूरा अधिकार है अपने अधिकार लेने का ।। लेकिन अगर लड़की का बाप लड़के की सरकारी नोकरी और उसकी प्रॉपर्टी देख कर शादी कर रहा है तो लड़की को अधिकारो की बात नही करनी चाहिए ।
लड़की का बाप प्रॉपर्टी , जॉब सब देखता है और दहेज की बात आते ही सामाजिक हो जाता है ।। shame on them
Toxic environment na bne islie to 28 k age m v shadi k lie khyl n ata ....... Jb smjh n ti tb relationship m ti.... But av n rhna kisi k v sath....
Right islea hmne sadi nhi ki zindagi jeeo bandh kr kyu katni
Log relationships me comparison karte hai jo apne pas hai usme khush nahi hona chahte,aaj ke bhautikwaadi sukh k chakkar jyada dukhi hain
जल्दी जाना हमेशा ही फायदेमंद होता है फिर चाहे वो नींद से हो या फिर अहम से या फिर बहम से हो .....!!!🎯📚🔥
Mera to shadi bad ❤❤
Jhagda hota h but ek dusre se pyar v Ham dono ek dusre ko samjhte h ❤
How can I get appointment from Mam
Madam aapka relationship kaisa h
Plz comment honestly
I have same problem
Best thing for men is to remain unmarried and travel the World 🌍
Single Life Happy Life. 😊
आदमी ज्यादातर दो किस्म के ही होते हैं या तो पूरे हुकुम चलाने वाला या पूरी तरह से खुला छोड़ देने वाला की फिक्र करने के टाइम फिक्र भी न करे। दोनो ही हालत में रिश्ता नहीं सुधर सकता । कुछ लड़कियां भी अपनी फ्रीडम की दुनिया में इतना खोई होती हैं कि सामने वाले के भाव की कद्र ही नहीं।
Admi acche hai , aurte buri hai .
@@arnavsamaddar6638औरत भी बुरी होती हे बहुत हे yesi ,,😂😂😂 आदमी भी होते हे
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Toooooo good ❤❤❤❤
M kuch comment krne aaya tha , but duniya dukh se bhari hai.... Hayo Rama rama
Wow good bahut achha boli hai
I always take help of chanakya
मैम मैं अभी 18 वर्ष के है जो आप के सोच हैं वैसा ही मेरा सोच है की कोई महिला अपना स्वतन्त्र जिंदगी शादी के बाद खो देती हैं क्योंकि उसके पास कोई भी बात का डिसीजन लेने का हक नहीं रहता है जो भी करते है उसके पति
Give some suggestions on same.
Sexual past bhi ek bohot badi vajah hai mai kisi ko janta hu jisne apni patni ko cheat kiya kyoki uski wife ka shadi se pahale sexual past tha.ab vo bhi red light area me jata hai taki vo apni wife se badala le sake aur apni jalan ko shant kar sake. Vo bohot hurt huva hai. 😢
Thank u so much mam..❤
Mam bs aapse adhe ghante baat krna chahti hu
Please koi platform btayiye jiske through aapse baat kar sku
Bilkul sahi
Madam plzz,
Zamana badal gaya hai bohot.
Log badal.gaye hai.
Ye dating apps , pornography aur adultery ka zamana ho gya hai unfortunately.
Loyalty is out of window.
Boys p fraud case karte hai dowry ka , impotence ka , section 498a .
Khali alimony k liye marriage..
Girls and boys have to go through depression, anxiety , abuse aur kya nai..
Marriage is outdated and unrealistic...
Na jane kitni taklif , taane , roz roz k jhagde,
Its a nightmare.
From my experience i have learnt,
Have courage, himmat rakho , single raho , paise kamao, desh videsh ghumo , life jiyo.
Old age me ek naukar rakho..jisse apni property dena..wo dhyan rakhega.
Aur Jo shadi kar chuka h wo reverse gear m kaise jaye😂
Your video is incomplete. Comparison is not only present relationship but comparing with old relationship. True for both male/female. Personal Choices are more predominant than combined and hence no sacrifice.
मुझसे एक गलती हो गई है जो लड़की मुझसे शादी nhi karna chahti thi humne usi se shadi kr li hai kya kre😢😢 usse hm chij mere Ghar ki buri lgti hai jbki mere Ghar hm dono ur meri Mata ji hai mere Ghar wo hmesha hasti rhti hai but hr wakt jb use time milta hai apne Ghar hya ki burai krti rhti hai jaise mujhe bhut kaam karna padta hai Ghar bhut tuta futa hai yhi sab।
सबसे पहले तो अगर कपल में से एक ठीक हो और एक लापरवाह तो भी अच्छा पर्सन सफर ही करेगा। कितना ही समझा लो। वो लापरवाह नहीं बदलेगा। ये सब बातें पता तो लगभग सभी को होते हैं लेकिन रियल लाइफ में कोई कोई फॉलो करता है।
यदि धोखे से पति अपनी पत्नी को किसी के साथ से#स करते देख ले, पति को किस तरह समझाया जाए कि गलती दोबारा से नहीं होगी, 😢 पति हर रोज
रोते हुए एक ही बात बोल रहा है कि तू अपनी करनी भरेगी इसी जन्म में 😢
Pre marriage mai talk kse kre mam
Bilkul sahi baat
Apke baby ke bare me sahi kha
Ji hn baccho ko phle bda hona pdta h :- Fact
Most women have have already slept around before marriage , yes modern marriage is women dominated by where she marries for retirement plan, if something goes wrong courts are in favour of her . Chapriyo ke sath alag alag hotel me ghumna hai phir koi bhola sa ladka job wala se shaadi krke use ko cheat krna hai .
Mam Sadi kiye Bina kya nahi raha ja sakta
Ha yaar
खासकर शहर में लड़के village की लड़की से शादी करे और काम करने वाली लड़किया बेरोजगार लड़के से बहुत टाइम मिलेगा और सबका भला होगा😂
Nice 👍
Root cause why to Marry ?
Mam some time not only there controll over what you do or not to do and even not meet with parents,ni talk on phon or not wear even night suit etc also kind of control
Agar ❤ hai to sab possible hai varna sab bekar hai
Ek relationship me rahte koi dusra achha lagne lage to wo relationship pyar ka nahi hota
वर्तमान समय मे समझदार, सरल, शांत और अच्छी कमाई वाले पुरुशोने शादी करना उनके जीवन का सबसे गलत निर्णय होता है
Madam aap ki mala bhut aachi hai
Nothing can effect of this video
mere sath toh yeh hua k arrange marriage k pehle jo girlfriend thi usi se shadi k baad bhi sara ghar contact me tha, upar se mere upar shak karna...even though i come from a defense background father, the scariest thing happend for me in life, and instead of accepting mistake, the guy took stand for the girl, how bullshit mentality and immature people are these days, im amazed! And seperation is even worst! How shameless people are now adays, nobody is there for me now, only relations are of name. Dhoke me rakhna kisi ko, bohot cool hai aj kal, fir ladki chor k chali jati hai toh suddenly she becomes the culprit! 😊
Aaj kal rishte sirf mobile phono ne kharab kar rakhe h . Or ek paison (₹) ke lalach ne . especially jo dono hi jayada jayada kama rhe h .
😂😂😂but mere yahan Dono kmane wale Khush h aur ek wale dukhi h...
Ha bro sahi kaha
In my case everything failed despite respect , making her financial independent…
Iss duniya mein mukamal jahan nahi milta kahi jamin kahi aasmaan nahi milta