I am exactly the opposite. I won't communicate because I am disgusted. Of people's behaviors. It costs too much to be around them. I just don't want to be a miserable person at the end. That's what I pray to God for daily. People will push your buttons or at least try
I always thought there was a neurological reward for outbursts. I've even seen them almost manufacture an angry response when at first they didn't care.
I'm not even going to listen Tamara because it hits too close to home. I have had an aggressive stalker for 2 years now. The only reason he knew I existed is I used to go to a gym he worked at. The guy would follow me to my house and start screaming at me, stopping his car right in front of my walkway pounding on the steering wheel saying he is going to shoot me. All I did was exist. I have a restraining order but it doesn't put him behind bars long (twice already) unless he actually shoots me or does something physical. They don't stop him for long just threatening and harassing.
I'm sorry you are going through that level of anxiety and fear. No matter how many times you have to call the cops or sue him, do it. I have lots of fear about my family although I'm in no contact. I use guided meditations to calm down. Take care ❤
Ya i think it’s epigenetic. Many families with generational racism trauma from the US government. My family fits this. Definitly my father & subsequently myself. If i hadn’t been put in therapy at a young age, i’d be too far gone. I’m glad i agreed to therapy.
They want to feel jn the position of power in order to prove to themselves (their ego and subconscious) they are not the victim and powerless. But whatever they do to you, does not erase what happened to them before. They cannot erade that, they have to face and feal with it.
They won't. It scared them. Most people think that aggressive people are fearless but it's fear that triggers anger the most unless we are talking about psychopathy.
Envy... taking something or someone from you gives them a sense of power and control. Maybe they are not even interested in your boyfriend. They just want to show you they can take them away from you just because they can't deal with other people's happiness.
My mother is very sick and dyng, my mother has CPTSD and mental conditions and refuses to go to the doctor. I have CPTSD, depression, anxiety and schizotypy, I can't get psychological help in my local town. My family stole her and tried to kill her, I have no one, I don't know what to do. When this happened I was 18, but I feel like my mental age is younger than that. I'm alone and scared, what can I do? My family destroyed my life
Oh yeah i know a lot of people that act like this my stepfather once physically attacked my youngest sister over some trash and my mother once attacked my first youngest sister over the fact that she come home late and did not tell my mom about it my brother also acts like this he once threatened to assault my nephew and threatened to shoot my nephews mother i remember my mom telling me a story about my grandmother pulling a gun on my mom and aunt and another one of my great grand mother attacking my mom because she tried to teach my older sister how to use the bathroom.
How can I schedule an appointment with you, I have insurance and if you don't accept insurance I have a HSA card fully loaded, I really need this therapy that you are so familiar with
They’re connected to the Puerto Ricans, all different “colors”. A good example of a terror to our communities is Zach Robertson aka JIT. I seen a post that he had where they had ran a young man’s shoes all the way to nothing by gang stalking and then he gave him a pair of “k-Swiss” ( Ak 47 Swiss cheese”) maybe.
I am exactly the opposite. I won't communicate because I am disgusted. Of people's behaviors. It costs too much to be around them. I just don't want to be a miserable person at the end. That's what I pray to God for daily. People will push your buttons or at least try
Living near one of these individuals so I’m all ears!
Our neighbor bullied, threatened us for years. We finally had enough so we threatened police and lawyer action. We got rid of her
I always thought there was a neurological reward for outbursts. I've even seen them almost manufacture an angry response when at first they didn't care.
They are hooked to adrenaline; stuck in fight mode. I'm not sure but probably they get dopamine fixes and who knows what other body hormones are.
@@Lyrielonwind they love drama and chaos?
I'm not even going to listen Tamara because it hits too close to home. I have had an aggressive stalker for 2 years now. The only reason he knew I existed is I used to go to a gym he worked at. The guy would follow me to my house and start screaming at me, stopping his car right in front of my walkway pounding on the steering wheel saying he is going to shoot me. All I did was exist. I have a restraining order but it doesn't put him behind bars long (twice already) unless he actually shoots me or does something physical. They don't stop him for long just threatening and harassing.
I'm sorry you are going through that level of anxiety and fear. No matter how many times you have to call the cops or sue him, do it.
I have lots of fear about my family although I'm in no contact. I use guided meditations to calm down.
Take care ❤
Anger=Sign/Fear Of Pain So.....
"Why You Mad Bro!?!?"♡
Much Respect & Authentic Peace 💞
Why you mad bro? 😅
Thanks a bunch darling I’m surrounded
You're welcome!
I understand. I think we all are at some point in our lives.
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Thank you!! Glad this is helpful ☺️
Good explanation. Have seen it with some in a higher socioeconomic level.
Yes, I have too. Good point.
Great information thank you
Glad it was helpful! You're welcome and thank you!
The results of election has me petrified
Ya i think it’s epigenetic. Many families with generational racism trauma from the US government. My family fits this. Definitly my father & subsequently myself. If i hadn’t been put in therapy at a young age, i’d be too far gone. I’m glad i agreed to therapy.
They want to feel jn the position of power in order to prove to themselves (their ego and subconscious) they are not the victim and powerless. But whatever they do to you, does not erase what happened to them before. They cannot erade that, they have to face and feal with it.
They won't. It scared them. Most people think that aggressive people are fearless but it's fear that triggers anger the most unless we are talking about psychopathy.
These are my least favorire type of people.... 😢
They have no self control or self reflection.
Every day above ground and a chance at something new is a good day for me.
Very informative!
Glad it was helpful! Thank you!
Jealous losers ! Plain and simple. Only losers are bullies.
Bullies are aweful and often need help themselves.
@@TherapistTamaraHill They enjoy being that way so not sure they'd even seek help. People have the knowledge to choose between right and wrong
It's way better than to be a disgusting conformist
@tina8796 They never go fir help because it's not them. It's everyone else who is the problem.
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Dog eat dog behaviour
Agree! Well said.
Yeah that’s scary but why are they stealing boyfriends also very aggressive. Very low level type of social groups/poor family involvement
Envy... taking something or someone from you gives them a sense of power and control. Maybe they are not even interested in your boyfriend. They just want to show you they can take them away from you just because they can't deal with other people's happiness.
My mother is very sick and dyng, my mother has CPTSD and mental conditions and refuses to go to the doctor. I have CPTSD, depression, anxiety and schizotypy, I can't get psychological help in my local town. My family stole her and tried to kill her, I have no one, I don't know what to do. When this happened I was 18, but I feel like my mental age is younger than that. I'm alone and scared, what can I do? My family destroyed my life
Oh yeah i know a lot of people that act like this my stepfather once physically attacked my youngest sister over some trash and my mother once attacked my first youngest sister over the fact that she come home late and did not tell my mom about it my brother also acts like this he once threatened to assault my nephew and threatened to shoot my nephews mother i remember my mom telling me a story about my grandmother pulling a gun on my mom and aunt and another one of my great grand mother attacking my mom because she tried to teach my older sister how to use the bathroom.
How can I schedule an appointment with you, I have insurance and if you don't accept insurance I have a HSA card fully loaded, I really need this therapy that you are so familiar with
Yeah no thank you lol with these angry situations
Yes. They are tough. These individuals need help.
They’re connected to the Puerto Ricans, all different “colors”. A good example of a terror to our communities is Zach Robertson aka JIT. I seen a post that he had where they had ran a young man’s shoes all the way to nothing by gang stalking and then he gave him a pair of “k-Swiss” ( Ak 47 Swiss cheese”) maybe.
I'm not from Puerto Rico but that is a very racist comment.
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This is a very enlightening video! Thanks again! Take Care!
Glad it was helpful! Thank you!! You too.