My Mum Kicked Me Out For Getting Pregnant At 16 | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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A YOUNG TEEN couple have had a baby - causing them to lose friends and family. Cheyenne first met Donye online, when they were both in middle school. The couple talked for a long time online, before they finally met up in person. The teens then dated for a little while, but not long after dating Cheyenne realised she had fallen pregnant with Avielle. Cheyenne thought that a teen pregnancy was something that only happened in the movies or on TV, but decided early on she wanted to keep the baby. On breaking the news to her mum that she was pregnant and going to keep the child, Cheyenne was told to leave the family home. Fortunately for Cheyenne, after a couple of weeks of living with her grandparents, Cheyenne’s mum welcomed her back home. Unfortunately, Cheyenne and Donye also lost friends during the pregnancy, mostly because they no longer have the time to hangout with them anymore...
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You could feel the awkwardness through the phone when her friends came over. No hugs, went straight to the baby. Mama was uncomfortable. When they left it was “We wanna see the baby again”, not that they wanted to see/hang out with her 😢
I don’t understand what their parents thought was gonna happen allowing them to spend the night together…🤦🏽♀️
I was just going to say the same thing. Her parents inadvertently caused this.
Their daughter is beautiful. I hope they do manage to stay together.
was just going to say this!
I agree as well. I mean wtf?
True but parents should also be teaching about Safe Sex and Contraception, it’s okay to have sex if you spend a night, but make sure it’s safe.
@@fluteloops22 lmao den don’t be surprised when she finds alternative ways, not saying she will, but even the most innocent and sweet students/kids have their ways, and I respect your opinion, but I feel like 16 and up is when teens should be allowed sleepovers, that’s also the year when teens are expected to get their driver license and begin to transition into becoming an young adult, but not discrediting your parenting just know a teen will ALWAYS find a way, always. 🤷🏾♀️
For anybody wanting an update, she's a single mother now. Donye was facing a 20 year prison sentence. The girl is raising two kids on her own now.
Both kids are his, even tho 1st born doesn't look as much like the drug-using young dad. I believe young dad's own mom reported him because he was stealing $ from her for drugs. Sad that Cheyenne has to raise both kids alone while young dad does jail time
Omg is this true?
@@Grace-yu6ri as of the time I wrote that, yes it was. Not sure if things are any different now. I’d doubt it though
Phony so called friends 😂
It's unusual that the parents have stayed together being so young. But that's a great thing for everyone.
It's not encouraged enough.
Not unusual it’s not promoted or encouraged
@@Lisha904 Well, it obviously is to work for the people involved.
I normally don't encourage this having seen teen pregnancy with family members of both sides but they seemed to be maturing and accepting their roles as parents.
Awe their baby is so beautiful!! It's so good that both of them are being responsible parents!! I wish them all the best in life!!
Her mother is a and person, but her daughter was raised well enough to not be a bad person herself
I think it's extremely important to be open with kids and let them know to come to their parents when things happen. I would want my daughter to come to me and tell me the condom failed. That's a situation that can be remedied with a morning after pill. Full knowledge is super important.
Omg! Baby girl! ❤ she was a little cranky pants while filming! Lol
I had to pause just to say...wow is she such a gorgeous little sweetheart!!! There are adults out there that are so quick to just kill the baby & u did the right thing by not being persuaded to do so. It seems like u guys are doing a great Job with her. I know it's hard when ur young, I couldn't imagine myself...but trust that God will help ur little family as long as u all keep your faith strong. 🥰
Such a beautiful baby!!
I'm proud of them
It could have been worse you could have been a single teen mom like i was. But I don't regret it one bit because I had a amazing daughter, son in law and 2 amazing grandkids. 😊❤
Bruh my nigga Donye needs to get a paternity test he ain’t the father the baby has no black features bruh plus she has blue eyes 😂😂
we got one hahah 99 % probability he’s the father
@@cheyennepedrotti9722girllll, how tf that baby come out so white 😭 she cute asf but HOW???
@@YoungThunda so? The baby has both parents DNA.
Not everyone looks like their father...
@@CairistianaMorgan That ain’t his baby real talk
Never seen Drake’s baby?
MAURY:Donye, Your are........ NOT the father!
He is probably biracial
I don’t even think she’s the mother😳
I agree. He is not the father of that beautiful baby!
@@Vaci11iehow does this make sense
Your baby has cute eyes
GOD bless you all
The parents are ok with a random dude sleeping with their teen daughter but are suprised when she gets pregnant?
I’m surprised that he’s still around and not done what they always do😉🙃🤪🤓👍😎🤟🏻
Who are “they”?
Times are changing 🤙🏾🤙🏾
@@smurfy7972
Men
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First of all, I have a son and I know he’s only 3 yrs old now. When he gets older there will be no young girl and I repeat no young girl sleeping over at my house. And If me and my son father is not home, he will not be able to have no guests ( little friends at the house) if I come home and I catch someone at my house my son will be on punishment. He can have friends over but only under mine and his dad’s supervision. I will not be strict but I will not be lenient as well. I will be very involved in his education. Education will be mandatory in our household. There will be no fast tail little girl around my son. Yes at 16 he’ll probably have a little girlfriend but trust it will not be serious. As his mom I’ll make sure of that. I’m not only going to be going in on my son but that young lady too. If I really like her as a future daughter in law etc I’ll make sure to school her too on life. Especially if she don’t have anyone to show her and give her that support, love and guidance.
Youre a tyrant
This is not the way to do it mam, controlling your child sexually will only lead to arguments. Instead of making it taboo and not allowing it, teach the boy how to be careful and avoid pregnancy or stds. Banning the act all together is just going to make your hormonal young man rebellious and sexually frustrated. It’s part of human nature man. Just teach him to be precautionary. Simple as that.
Ummm
I'm not sure he's the biological father ;-) !!
Two words
Paternity test
I know that isn't a cross around her neck 💀
So what if it is?
Yeah ummm Donye better get dat paternity test. Got a feeling that's the quarterbacks kid
I most definitely agree with you. And she has blue eyes!!! Oh my!!
@@toobeautiful3517
😂😂😂
I must commend the father. He stuck around, took responsibility and continues to support his girl and child. That can't be easy when you have fear. 2 amazing young people. That said, it makes me sad that teens still get pregnant in these modern times. It's just a much better idea to wait until you at least have your own home, education and income.
He's locked up now.
@@adidasgirl0058for what?
@@CupcakeFairy777 Cocains and guns. Search his name up.
@@CupcakeFairy777Drug use lmao, he’s facing 20 years 💀
16 yo: *has a kid*
People: NOOO! Get rid of it!
16 yo: *gets abortion*
People: NOOOO! BAD!
16 yo: *keeps the baby*
People: NOOOO! YOU TOO YOUNG!
Exactly your judged no matter what you choose even if it's an adoption people will moan.
If they didn’t check up on you then they aren’t your friends hun, just saying
What an adorable baby. You make a gorgeous family.
Aww the baby seems very happy and loved. But a beautiful baby they made their friends now look like they’re fake friends or I guess you could say actors.
Clearly she is a better person than her mother. Good for them both for taking responsibility for their actions. And look at the adorable result. Adorable baby! She is so lucky to have such responsible, caring parents. Love!
I was 16 when I had my son. I thank God every day. It's hard, my oldest is 14 years old now and I wouldn't change my decision ever. Also I'm still with my husband after 16 years still together. 💙💙 We have a home, work are ass off and we have 2 boys. Don't give up, get an education and do the hard work. Love each other! Also you will have friends again that will understand and it's OK your man will always be your best friend.
Well done you love your attitude.
😬 he’s going to prison-
I’m amazed by how many ADULTS are unaware of how genetics work.. by the way we have two kids now & they both have blue eyes and a light complexion
Yeah but who has blue eyes
@@judemccooey4987 None of them has to have blue eyes to produce a blue eyed offspring. You carry two copies of most of your genes. The gene responsible for brown eyes is dominant. There are actually more than one genes shaping your eye color but to put it simply: it basically means if you carry one copy coding for the brown color, and one copy responsible for the blue eyes then you're gonna end up having brown eyes in the end. But you still carry a copy responsible for blue eyes. If both parents carry only one copy responsible for the blue eyes then both of them gonna have brown eyes, but there's 25% chance that the child inherits the blue variant from both of them then he's gonna have blue eyes.
I agree.. my mom has blue eyes, and my father has brown eyes.. I have green eyes, and all my other siblings have brown eyes. I'm the only one who has green eyes..
I mean the dad is light skin himself
And when will you finish your school or make another education? I don’t get it. 1 child can happen, but the second one was a decision. 🤦♀️
It is great that you kept the baby but how do you make ends meet?
It looks like their standard of living is allright, the baby was not born into poverty. Their income is really none of our business.
You guys are amazing and inspiring to all the young mother and fathers ❤
Glad they are a happy family
Normally I wouldn't accept this but I'm so glad she said at the end she wasn't promoting it. Since yeah sometimes the condom might break and you get pregnant that happens, but we shouldn't encourage teens to get pregnant since not everyone is mature enough and they are throwing their lives away. But with this family I can tell they all love eachother and are supportive and are mature.
i think when a teen gets pregnant there’s no answer that’ll be the right one for every single case, you just can’t say they can’t have an abortion and need to keep the baby, and at the same time you can’t forbid them if they wanna be like her and take on the role and responsibility as a parent and take good care of their child, it’s their decision, and people should stop trying to take away their ability to make this decision
There is never a right answer to kill a human
Giving permission to have sex is saying pregnant is ok. Don't want a pregnant child say no sleep overs.
@@viktorias63 But it is oaky let a girl bear a child in that age when is life threatening to the mother according to many medical researchers .
@@emmabarrow2000 Sorry for your information that is natural due to raging hormones and even you try to stop your kids from doing it they find it so it is better to let them do it while telling the safe way but sadly it did not work so it does not you get to ruin a girl's life by letting her get pregnant in this age cause it is life threatening to the mother .
@@doomslayer4760 that's not even close to reason why women kill their fetuses, but you gotta say this as a pro abort who doesn't have anything but lies and manipulation
„Basically the condom broke and we knew that“
Why does that always sound like code for „we didn‘t have any on us and just ran the risk anyway, but we don‘t wanna embarrass ourselves so we‘ll blame it on the condom“ lol
You do you people get pregnant on birth control right? It's not 100% effective.
Yes u guys are great parents its a good thing you guys are showing how much u love each other😊
Am I the only one thinking they have brown eyes and that baby had blue eyes
TH BABY SO BEUTY
PRETTY!
They went straight to the baby. How rude.
This guy so handsome
The baby so cute to young
I would never tell my daughter to have an abortion 😡. I know your angry mom and disappointed and maybe wondering how that makes you look as mom. I’m sure your daughter didn’t make life easy at times, but abortion is a big no for me. I would maybe say adoption. That was a weird friend visit 🙄 but they are young 🤷🏽♀️
They need a paternity test
This guy's black genes just gave up.
I knew I wasn't the only one THIS YOUNG MAN NEEDS A PATERNITY TEST
Beautiful 🌸 family and
Shame on the mother of this girl for trying to get her to murder the baby. What a monster. God bless this family. 🙏
My mum offered me money and even twas ringing places when I was 22 weeks!!!! Then when I had her she tried to take over and threw me out and tried to keep her!!!!
the mother is so wrong but abortion is not murder. still a very bad mother at the same time and this family deserves lots of good things
I blame the parents for letting them spend the night together.
Support pregnant teens, not teen pregnancy.
wait but how does she have blue eyes if they both have brown eyes
Summ not adding up 🤣👀
I wondered about that also. And a fair skin
It could be someone in their family has it. It doesn't have to come from the mother and father. It come from their family, if that makes sense.
@@mommysbusiness ah yeah that makes sense
Mix babies tend to end up with blue, green, hazel eyes etc. Not to mention it is also genetic where it can skip a generation. Therefore, the baby might have gotten her beautiful blue eyes from the grandparents or even great grandparents. Same thing as for her light skin. My husband and I are both Asian origin. Although, I'm multiracial mix between 4-5 different Asian ethnic groups our youngest daughter has very pale skin like Snow white. She's even lighter than most causations. Eventhough, my husband and I have more of a yellow tone skin type.
How are they able to afford an apartment😳
Jobs…
Them friends seem fake asf 😮
Are we sure he’s the father? 🤨
Dear love Don’t Judge is it a must have meal that everyone needs to have eggs😂
Bless them and their little one, hope their love and happiness lasts against all the odds and haters. They’re doing a great job parenting and in their relationship too
I hope the baby is taken care of well and be all the focus. They are still kids and hope they are responsible all the way 🙏
Age does matter.
it does, but it’s still their decision at the end of the day, keep the baby or not
Hmm
What is her name ❤
Their baby has the most beautiful eyes ever
How they can have a white girl with blue eyes?
I'm just saying, don't you think that the baby is pretty much white? :v
And? The Mom IS white
@@ItaliaSicilia18 where you from bro? There's no half breed child's in your place or what
Science class says brown eyes and brown eyes don’t equal blue 😂 soooo 🥴
@@sp5727 Two brown eyes can make any eye color. Two blue eyes will, with rare exceptions, make blue eyes. The young man is probably mixed race and the young woman is white or mixed race as well.
@@mac020507 how many child's of mixed afro decedent people did you know that were quite white like that baby girl, for God sake!
Lisbeth , good advice I love your comment.
Oh dear
Your mom kicked you out what kind of mom does that
Alot of moms do it
Not technically
@@Keithyoung420 I don't know in what world you're living in then :)
Alot of moms kick out their daughters when they find out she's pregnant at a Young age...yes its bad but it really very common.
Pro abortion moms
@@viktorias63 anti abortion moms...she would have just ,
forced aborted the baby if she was pro abortion 🤡
Good for your Mom!
If she what’s to be a good mom to her daughter and a grandma she wouldn’t have kick her daughter out
@@lathafalls7675 I think the comment was about the teenage girl
Clearly they didn't care enough to think about the consequences
this was over 3 years ago get over yourself 😂😂😂😂
@@sunnyday23445 you're mad at opinion that was 2 months ago how about you get over yourself
@@951foodielover6Bruh you’re the one still responding after having left the comment 2 months ago 💀 get a life for gods sake. Embarrassing asf
You're mad at a 3 year old video? Get over yourself kid.
@DreamaCorbyn1 no one's mad for saying their opinion 😘
He might not be the dad.
shut the hell up do you even know how genetics work
@@sunnyday23445Yes… that’s why they made this comment lmao. Because they know how genetics work and that baby does NOT look a damn thing like him lmao.
@@oddpickle this video is also 3 years old the girl is 21 now the child will be 4 soon and she def looks like the dad for sure for sure. stay delusional plus the dad he’s not 100% black so ofc the baby was a little lighter
Just because someone look like their mum as a baby doesn't mean you look like your mother growing up.
Another assumption all because of babies skin colour.
Do you realise babies have both parents DNA not just one?
She is such a beautiful baby!! Mix kids are usually gorgeous anyways.
doesn't look like a mixed kid to me :v
@@zdzislawbeksinski731 I totally agree with you. You are absolutely right!
@@toobeautiful3517he’s mixed and i’m white. she’s not going to be dark lol
@@cheyennepedrotti9722 You look Latina or at least half. I’m Asian, Latino and Dutch, yet I’m darker than her. She might darken or develop more Afro feature as she ages.
@@champagneandcupcakesxoxo7139my uncles wife is white he’s very light baby looks white ..
donye dud are you sure she is your daughter 🙂 i mean seriously
He's bi racial the baby more than likely looks one of the parents.
Right cuz they both got brown eyes and the baby got blue 😂 genetics not adding up
@@sp5727 His mother could have blue eyes and could be white. Genetics do work that way.
@@dailywithyo that baby girls is far from look like mixed child
@@zdzislawbeksinski731 If you're dad if half black and half white, and the mom is 100% white the child is predominantly white the baby is 75% white and 25% black.
My great niece is 75% white and 25% black because her mom ( my niece) is half black and half white, and her dad is 100 % white. My great niece doesn't look black either it's genetics. 🤷🏽♀️
Baby doesn't look like him
abortion sucks, thank God they had their baby, keep making more.
No getting Pregnant at such age sucks for a young girl like her cause it is both unhealthy and life threatening for girls of that age so I rather say okay abortion than this cause you having a child is useless if the mother loses her life .
This young lady had no business getting pregnant. And I don't blame her mother for being angry 😡 she should be. But at the same time her mom shouldn't have allowed her little bf stay over
Teenagers can be sneaky even if you don't let them have sex sex at home they will find a way to have sex behide your back.
What I think should happen is more parents need to talk about he did talk about birth control to their kids and how to stay safe.
And same should go if they re not living with their parents.
@@CairistianaMorgan very true
Donye is definetely not the father. That baby has blue eyes and paler skin than both of his parents.
So you know someone is not the dad by looking at them? It's does't matter if the baby is lighter skin colour he's still the dad eve if it's not though blood you aren't an parent though blood you are one though actions.
I met my husband at 13, he 16. Moved in together at 15, pregnant at 17, 19, and 21. and 24 years later still together. Going strong. You can make it work
What's the point of these "Teen pregnancy..Teen mom" videos? This happens a lot and it's nothing new. I hope this channel post more informative, interesting, good videos. Extend your content, Please!
Because there's a lot of stigma. People hate on teenage parents and call them irresponsible, call them names, instead of offering them help and guiding them, and commending them for not being afraid. I mean, these kids get kicked out for nothing. Their "families" have no right to call themselves that
Not you're kid my boi.
You’re absolutely right!
Hahaha the blue eyes
Probably still his childhood it doesn't matter about your about your dna what matters is your actions and if you're a good parents.
Your dna doesn't make you a parent your actions do.