This person speaking with Candice isn't putting her mask on first BEFORE she can help others, she is putting her mask on and then watching as her man sinks into a coma due to a lack of oxygen. She wants to be of service only to herself.
Women always enter marriage with one foot in and one foot out, planning for their exit. Where do you think the term "Starter-Husband" came from, not from guys I can tell you.
This is a natural outgrowth of being in the tenuous woman’s position, surviving by manipulating resources from others. That’s why they try to have at least one backup man to take over her maintenance when the main guy wises up and nopes out.
Marriage is all about teamwork. Husband is the head of the family and Wife is the backbone of the family, neither can survive without the other in terms of raising a family. There is no me,myself and I unless u're single, now u are plural, u need to think more of the other party too. It's common sense.
A piece of paper for your house is good, it proves you own it. Equating your husband with a possession? Woman, slavery had been against the law in the USA since the 13th amendment (December 6, 1865).
The husband has to come first,here’s why. He is the breadwinner he is the one who supports the family. If he can’t go to work and bring home the money to pay the bills,you’re in the streets. That’s why wives are there to help and support their husbands. The less he has to do when he gets home,the less stress he has ,the more sleep he gets the more refreshed he is the better he can do his job and the faster he can climb up the ladder,get a premonition and the better financially the family becomes.
The problem is that the rom-coms make them believe he will fix her or her happiness will depend completely on him. Not saying its a female exclusive thing, but it is the female who thinks that way the majority of the time
I think she was in a euphoric high, thinking he would change his mind if he saw her in the dress. And was hoping to record a "omg im so happy, you look so beautiful" moment. But she failed to take him into consideration while getting it, going against one of his core values. She effectively put him in a situation where he has to choose over a belief he was clear about from the start and her. I'd call that manipulation. Where he was clear on his stance on marriage, she just made her own clear. You both now know you are not compatible, move on. Simple as that.
The person using the Oxygen Mask analogy is flat out wrong because that is NOT what she's talking about anyways. She's talking about looking out for herself as in "her personal benefit takes precedence over that of the marriage / partner / relationship, at the others expense if needs be". The two are not analogous no matter how much you want to try and pretend they are.
The girl talking about the guy that approached her at Subway is a walking red flag 🚩 and everyone can see it in her crazy big sanpaku eyes 👀 and gets triggered by the guy asking her if she’s in a relationship with another guy 🤦♂️ that’s another red flag 🚩 so if this happens to anyone just run for the hills 🤣
While women have total control over dating, they get to decide who - when - even if it’s going to happen... It's men and men along that have total control and decide when it comes to if this will be a long-term thing, and when - or even if - there will be a wedding. If you try to force the issue, or issue an ultimatum, it will backfire on you every time. You will lose. And guys, don't forget the prenup!
Man, modern women need help. If she wanted marriage, a wedding, and a family, then why is she wasting her time with a man who stated clearly he doesn't want to get married. Chad can have anyone he wants, and she fits perfectly in his life as a roommate and f buddies. What more is she asking for?
What I don't understand is why the two are living together. There's no love. No touching each other when they pass. No kisses or hugs. No cozying on the couch watching a movie. No stupid jokes that make each other groan.
So prenuptial agreement shouldn't be a problem. You say you ain't in this for money, then sign a piece of paper and prove it. You say you don't lie, then get a paternity test as soon as possible for your husband's peace of mind, if you are in it forever and locked in. If a woman can do this much, she can talk about marriage.
Wild to me that it is so common and acceptable for people to fight for relationships that don’t work! There is nothing wrong with two people who have different goals to end a relationship and call it a day! There is NO reason to stay when unhappy, try to change someone, question motives or sanity 😮 like y’all everything has an expiration date it’s ok go find the expiration date you agree with and friggin STOP TRYING TO FORCE A SQUARE PEG INTONA CIRCLE HOLE JUST GO FIND YOUR DAMN CIRCLE ALREADY AND STOP THE INSANITY FFS
Of course you put your husband first . Both do that & you have a happy marriage . Its more enjoyable cooking for a husband as well as yourself & do a meal you know he will enjoy. Have it almost ready for when he is due home. Welcome him with a kiss & hug, offer a drink & say dinner is almost ready darling ❤
Especially in a situation like that. They've only been together for about a year. I'm guessing she is at or about 30 and sees the wall approaching fast. Maybe, just maybe, he might have changed his mind with time, but that move will now prevent that. She messed up badly.
Your first statement is the reason men aren't getting married anymore. It isn't all about the wives. It is supposed to be 50/50 effort, it takes 2 to make a strong team, you are a union, a partnership who are of equal importance to one another who will give and take as necessary, will rely on one another as the commitment you have made grows steadily stronger and closer. It is a fun adventure that will nourish your soul through thick and thin.
@@heapbig5352 You lost it at 50/50 and equality bs. Women dont want to marry their equal. They look for a man who is better than themselves in almost every possible way and then expect equality from him
thats how they become single mothers they lie to the man saying they on birth control and then voila a fucking baby and they think that bs is going to work
As a father of two adult daughters, I never once told them to be strong and independent. I showed them what men want, what boundaries are and that bad behavior comes with consequences. Anything in the other direction is a disservice to my daughters and contrary to every effort I made raising them.
My son n law thanked my husband for raising a good woman with realistic values and strong support for their family RATHER then a princess who expects a simp who caters to her while she does her hair and nails
That's most women. Most women aren't as attractive as they portray or believe themselves to be. The vast majority of their looks is artificial. A good rule of thumb is you can immediately deduct at least 3 looks points from most/all women when they're all dolled up compared to their natural state. Once you remove the fakeup, fake lashes, fake hair or extensions, dyed hair, jewelry, accessories, social media filters, waist trainers, corsets, cosmetic surgery, perfume, etc. etc. etc., VERY few women are naturally above a 6 in their natural fresh faced straight out of the shower state. So all these women walking around thinking they're 7s, 8s, and 9s, are actually closer to 4s, 5s, and 6s, when you wake up next to them in the morning. But if you let them tell it they're all supermodel goddesses who deserve your undying praise, adulation, and worship because of their breathtaking beauty. 😏 I don't take them seriously when I know I can instantly remove at least 3 of their physical attraction points with nothing more than a couple dollar store wet wipes or makeup removal cloths. And neither should you.
I would tell the women to marry each other if they all share this mentality... but given the abuse and divorce rate is 3x higher than guys..... remember they're not the problem. Everyone else is.
8:42 she doesn't understand that we're not worried about us breaking the contract we're worried about her breaking the contract and not facing any legal ramifications. I'm pretty sure she already knew that though
@@JohanDee Have to disagree. I've known Christian couples split up. Don't know how bad the guys were put through the wringer but I'm sure they lost a lot. The decisions the courts make are not based or related to the couples spiritual or religious beliefs
A marriage and the plane oxygen mask analogy is ridiculous. A marriage is nothing like a short term emergency. A marriage is a holy union between a man and a woman.
A father NEVER tells his daughter to be independent so SHE DON'T NEED NO MAN. Those are the words of her single mother. If she had a father, he would help her select the best man to take care of his little girl for a lifetime.
@@joshthetrainfan it's crazy as hell. They can't help themselves no matter what we say and what we do to tell them this is wrong they don't give a damn they just want us to be wrong no matter what
@@dthomasX01 oh holy shit is that true. I had my fair share of this and then some. Yeah, I did some shit, I know, but so did she. I barely ever heard her ever admit any faults until LONG after our relationship ended, and when she finally admitted she was wrong on one of my points, I was rejoicing for hours.
I wonder if she was gonna post it, have his mom see it by "accident" and probably ask when is the wedding. Reminds me of my gaming buddy, he nearly got trapped in it but thankfully his mom hated her and said hell no. Sometimes people try to use those around you to get what they want from you. Be careful people
Yup this is true, my mom did the same for me towards my second girlfriend at the time. & What was even more sad she stayed friends with my mom unknowingly if she was gonna mess her life up again she could always go back to my mom for help & what's even more funny my mom wasn't stupid lol So my ex's plan backfired, has a kid. Lost her apartment & car & is staying at a women's shelter & caught an STD towards the end she was promiscuous
Re: the wedding dress - if she bought it for her eventual wedding she had no reason to tell him or show him. She would have just bought it and put it in the back of her closet. It is the ultimate ultimatum, which always backfires. Re: the marriage license - she get a contract, he gets a prenup. Problem solved.
Any one who says she is putting herself first in a marriage is a person who is not invested into the relationship. Those are the ones who have a back-up guy around and are setting money aside for the escape. If she is not 100% into it, then what is the point. A sharp guy that hears that is not going to invest his time into her; its going to a short term thing, if anything. BTW- However, she will still be expecting the guy to make her his priority
Ladies still dont get it, if a man wants to marry you , they will ask you the soonest possible. If after couple of years they are not doing it, u know they have no intention.met my wife july 2017 moved in jan 2018, proposed 6 months after , married a year later. I aint missing a good woman to other vultures out there.
If a man wants to marry a woman the conversation will get around to the future soon enough. He’ll at least hint, put out vibes, etc. If not, a woman is merely friends with benefits … No man likes being forced into marriage, and certainly not in today’s economic climate with it’s family courts that risk major asset stripping.
BIG HINT TO THE LADIES - Guys want to marry a lady who doesn't want to get married. Because she has other options and she is not desperate. I married my wife after 5 years of dating and she was starting to working as an M.D. - I knew she had many other guys that would marry her if I didn't do it. That was 18 years ago. It has worked out great.
@@joshthetrainfan I tell my wife that all the time. She was 1 in a million. An M.D. that put herself through medical school by modeling. Most of all, she really takes care of me. I try to spoil her as well. We never had children.
Just from your pic., you're a chad. Women will accept anything from you. Those other men were average, and had no chance. She would have stayed with you forever w/o marriage any how.
These women out here thinking they can trap a man into wanting to spend the rest of his life with them got something messed up. You cannot change someone they have to change themselves. If he still showed no interest in marriage you should have let him know tou can't carry the relton without you being married. If he says no. Bite the bullet (... Or not I don't really like that saying anymore. But for lack of a better phrase well stick with it.) and leave the relationship. Yo and I don't get this whole timeline BS. Do a through background check of your significant other. Look into their family, friends, hobbies. See if they're real and are genuine. This can be done within 8 months. People talking bout "you don't even know each other" is the dumbest shit ever. What are you, some ignoramus. Y'all stay saying this shit and I can't stand it. My dad knew my mother for less that 6 months and wanted to lock her down. They waited until she got out of college and they got married instantly. Going on a 40 year marriage next year. Y'all just wasting time.
The problem here is this lady never got her own feelings, responsibilities, and mannerisms in order so how do you expect her to put anyone but herself first! That is the real problem, if you see this in a woman...RUN!
marriage and raising a family is VERY hard work , and today's women are just not up to the task, there is NO love and happiness once the honeymoon has ended
Omg after watching a bunch of these videos I am SOOOOOOOO grateful I’m happily married and so is my husband! We actually communicate with each other, help each other, take care of each other and LOVE each other. I’m 55 and there is NO WAY I would try this dating crap now! Men are put off by so much about women and there is no good way other than time and getting to know each other to prove you’re not like most of the women in these videos! Wow!!! What happened to so many of us??????
Marriage means putting God first, us, second, family third. If she wanted to buy a wedding dress, just for someday, why would she have shown it to him? The real reason she showed him was to speed things along. Subway woman is psycho.
😂😝😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂 Between god and the government?? Gtfoh, the marriage license calls "ALL FRUITS OF THE UNION" government property, and God be damned. You better read more into it "lady" Can anyone answer what a fruit of the union is????
I had a friends-with-benefits situation years ago. I was a single mom of a 2-year-old. I had her every other week. When she was with her dad that's when I would date go out. We had friends-with-benefits for about 6 months. He was super cute and 23 years old. I was 30. We always had the best time. One night he professed his love for me. Wanted me to have his child. I ran so fast I never looked back.
Imagine hearing your woman preach on social media that men who really want her should be willing to unalive you. Even if he's toxic (most likely), someone's always more toxic. Just saying😅
He could have been gentler with her until he knew the reason. She could have been sharing something cherished with a close friend and she chose him. The dress could have been the start of her Wedding Chest. When my sisters were older they would get gifts for their birthday, etc. to add. A Wedding dress they bought or was made for them, China Tableware, Silver Service , Expensive Bed Linens, various household items were often a big part of it. She was so crushed, I felt for her.
The person who said the people should take care of yourself before others in a marriage, only apply this rule to the wife. The husband must take care of wife before himself. The women in the interview even said it. She has a sexist view of marriage. The husband must prioritise her over himself
I feel sad about the comments of how many people agree with putting yourself first. I also understand what the lady is saying because she's speaking English but the message is lost. They look at marriage from a pov of selfishness, not understanding that a marriage is more like an extension of yourself.
😂😂😂guys don't compliment women anymore because it's consider a form of SA by some - not getting a kiss from a first date is one thing, but no one wants to wake up to a Warrant for Arrest😂😂
I feel no sorrow for her one bit. She thought by buying a wedding dress she would force Chads hand, but Chad is Chad, she knew what it was about, but she don’t want the man that would cherish her and do her right, she wants Chad. She will continue to be Chads pump and dump until he tires of hitting it and moves on.
She may just be an evil genius. Her ultimate goal is to get married. She may have thought if he doesn’t change his mind and decides to break up with me I will just move on to someone else.
If you think you have to put yourself first all the time, then DON'T GET MARRIED!!!
Chad is NOT looking to pay ALIMONY and CHILD SUPPORT 🤣🤣🤣
This person speaking with Candice isn't putting her mask on first BEFORE she can help others, she is putting her mask on and then watching as her man sinks into a coma due to a lack of oxygen. She wants to be of service only to herself.
Women always enter marriage with one foot in and one foot out, planning for their exit. Where do you think the term "Starter-Husband" came from, not from guys I can tell you.
This is a natural outgrowth of being in the tenuous woman’s position, surviving by manipulating resources from others. That’s why they try to have at least one backup man to take over her maintenance when the main guy wises up and nopes out.
Chad knows dat 304’s ain’t for marrying. 😂😂😂
Marriage is all about teamwork. Husband is the head of the family and Wife is the backbone of the family, neither can survive without the other in terms of raising a family. There is no me,myself and I unless u're single, now u are plural, u need to think more of the other party too. It's common sense.
God first
Husband
Wife
A piece of paper for your house is good, it proves you own it. Equating your husband with a possession? Woman, slavery had been against the law in the USA since the 13th amendment (December 6, 1865).
The husband has to come first,here’s why. He is the breadwinner he is the one who supports the family. If he can’t go to work and bring home the money to pay the bills,you’re in the streets. That’s why wives are there to help and support their husbands. The less he has to do when he gets home,the less stress he has ,the more sleep he gets the more refreshed he is the better he can do his job and the faster he can climb up the ladder,get a premonition and the better financially the family becomes.
Yeah, that sounds all good in theory but then again communism works in theory too.
You shouldn't be getting married if you are not done taking care of yourself and getting yourself right
The problem is that the rom-coms make them believe he will fix her or her happiness will depend completely on him. Not saying its a female exclusive thing, but it is the female who thinks that way the majority of the time
Denial is not a river in Africa.
From the Hoods of U.S. you'll find her majesty: Kween of Denial. Thousands of them, from their natural habitat, the Streets.
I don't understand the women of today, everything is Me Me Me! You treat men the way you want to be treated & quit living in the land of Delulu.
I think she was in a euphoric high, thinking he would change his mind if he saw her in the dress. And was hoping to record a "omg im so happy, you look so beautiful" moment. But she failed to take him into consideration while getting it, going against one of his core values. She effectively put him in a situation where he has to choose over a belief he was clear about from the start and her. I'd call that manipulation.
Where he was clear on his stance on marriage, she just made her own clear. You both now know you are not compatible, move on.
Simple as that.
The person using the Oxygen Mask analogy is flat out wrong because that is NOT what she's talking about anyways. She's talking about looking out for herself as in "her personal benefit takes precedence over that of the marriage / partner / relationship, at the others expense if needs be". The two are not analogous no matter how much you want to try and pretend they are.
What is her union? She is horrible!
The girl talking about the guy that approached her at Subway is a walking red flag 🚩 and everyone can see it in her crazy big sanpaku eyes 👀 and gets triggered by the guy asking her if she’s in a relationship with another guy 🤦♂️ that’s another red flag 🚩 so if this happens to anyone just run for the hills 🤣
In the best marriages, each puts the other first ❤😊
If you do get married get a PRENUP, no prenup no marriage
While women have total control over dating, they get to decide who - when - even if it’s going to happen... It's men and men along that have total control and decide when it comes to if this will be a long-term thing, and when - or even if - there will be a wedding. If you try to force the issue, or issue an ultimatum, it will backfire on you every time. You will lose. And guys, don't forget the prenup!
Man, modern women need help. If she wanted marriage, a wedding, and a family, then why is she wasting her time with a man who stated clearly he doesn't want to get married. Chad can have anyone he wants, and she fits perfectly in his life as a roommate and f buddies. What more is she asking for?
What I don't understand is why the two are living together. There's no love. No touching each other when they pass. No kisses or hugs. No cozying on the couch watching a movie. No stupid jokes that make each other groan.
Damn the more time passes and the more i'm willing to believe my cousin "Being gay is a blessing" o_O
Women ☕☕☕☕
So prenuptial agreement shouldn't be a problem. You say you ain't in this for money, then sign a piece of paper and prove it. You say you don't lie, then get a paternity test as soon as possible for your husband's peace of mind, if you are in it forever and locked in. If a woman can do this much, she can talk about marriage.
Wild to me that it is so common and acceptable for people to fight for relationships that don’t work! There is nothing wrong with two people who have different goals to end a relationship and call it a day! There is NO reason to stay when unhappy, try to change someone, question motives or sanity 😮 like y’all everything has an expiration date it’s ok go find the expiration date you agree with and friggin STOP TRYING TO FORCE A SQUARE PEG INTONA CIRCLE HOLE JUST GO FIND YOUR DAMN CIRCLE ALREADY AND STOP THE INSANITY FFS
Oof idk how any of these peeps are getting married anyway. So selfish.
Of course you put your husband first . Both do that & you have a happy marriage . Its more enjoyable cooking for a husband as well as yourself & do a meal you know he will enjoy. Have it almost ready for when he is due home. Welcome him with a kiss & hug, offer a drink & say dinner is almost ready darling ❤
No guy is gonna believe your bullshit, unless marriage is off the table, and should be, saying that, as an actual Christian.
@4:30 maybe they should invest in a solid bedframe first. sheeeesh
A guy is not the same as a husband.
Nobody said it was
Do you realize how dumb what you just said had to be to make Candace Owens sound like the smart and logical one in the room?
They can marry themselves. All they care about is the dress, photos and gifts anyway.
They will find a way to divorce themselves in a few years.
@gabem6863 Years? I say months, and I am being way too generous with that estimation.
yah but the leech cant afford it and need men to pay for the wedding.
@@gabem6863how about in a few minutes
And a giant party where they are the center of attention.
she thought she was gonna trick him into marrying her by buying a wedding dress without his knowledge. run man run.
Especially in a situation like that. They've only been together for about a year. I'm guessing she is at or about 30 and sees the wall approaching fast. Maybe, just maybe, he might have changed his mind with time, but that move will now prevent that. She messed up badly.
What ever happened to the tried and true method: “accidentally” getting pregnant?
"Women, put yourselves first! Husbands, put your wives first!"
Hey, why are men not getting married anymore?
Your first statement is the reason men aren't getting married anymore. It isn't all about the wives. It is supposed to be 50/50 effort, it takes 2 to make a strong team, you are a union, a partnership who are of equal importance to one another who will give and take as necessary, will rely on one another as the commitment you have made grows steadily stronger and closer. It is a fun adventure that will nourish your soul through thick and thin.
@@heapbig5352Fun for who? Not most men, they can assure you of that.
@@heapbig5352
You lost it at 50/50 and equality bs.
Women dont want to marry their equal.
They look for a man who is better than themselves in almost every possible way and then expect equality from him
It’s funny how they try to force someone to marry them and It’s even funnier when they realize It’s not going to work
thats how they become single mothers they lie to the man saying they on birth control and then voila a fucking baby and they think that bs is going to work
I suggest that he break up with her. This is an ultimatum.
As a father of two adult daughters, I never once told them to be strong and independent. I showed them what men want, what boundaries are and that bad behavior comes with consequences. Anything in the other direction is a disservice to my daughters and contrary to every effort I made raising them.
you're doing a good job raising your daughter to be good candidate to society not entitled
Stupid mothers tell their daughters to be strong and independent.
My son n law thanked my husband for raising a good woman with realistic values and strong support for their family RATHER then a princess who expects a simp who caters to her while she does her hair and nails
If she wanted to impress him, she should've cleaned that room.
😂
My Lord, the way some of these people think is beyond comprehension and insanity.
Women control sex, men control getting married.
And men don't give it up easy like women do hahaha
Keep going MGTOW Gentlemen. There are ZERO positives out there.
Spot on as usual Candace Owens.
There´s no use in arguing with modern women . Better get away from them .
She says it took her a long time to look pretty.
Big red flag. That means all your beauty is achieved from artificial means-makeuo.
No natural beauty.
Amen to that,
Or it means she got her hair done… womens hair cuts take like 2 hours
That's most women. Most women aren't as attractive as they portray or believe themselves to be. The vast majority of their looks is artificial.
A good rule of thumb is you can immediately deduct at least 3 looks points from most/all women when they're all dolled up compared to their natural state.
Once you remove the fakeup, fake lashes, fake hair or extensions, dyed hair, jewelry, accessories, social media filters, waist trainers, corsets, cosmetic surgery, perfume, etc. etc. etc., VERY few women are naturally above a 6 in their natural fresh faced straight out of the shower state.
So all these women walking around thinking they're 7s, 8s, and 9s, are actually closer to 4s, 5s, and 6s, when you wake up next to them in the morning.
But if you let them tell it they're all supermodel goddesses who deserve your undying praise, adulation, and worship because of their breathtaking beauty. 😏
I don't take them seriously when I know I can instantly remove at least 3 of their physical attraction points with nothing more than a couple dollar store wet wipes or makeup removal cloths. And neither should you.
Trying to force a guy to do something he said he wasn't going to do off rip is wild
You want security get a job
I would tell the women to marry each other if they all share this mentality... but given the abuse and divorce rate is 3x higher than guys.....
remember they're not the problem. Everyone else is.
Yeah, funny how this stat is never disclosed on the main stream channels.
8:42 she doesn't understand that we're not worried about us breaking the contract we're worried about her breaking the contract and not facing any legal ramifications. I'm pretty sure she already knew that though
The purpose of modern marriage is to separate men from their assets. Avoid at all costs.
Not among Christians. ❤
@@JohanDee Have to disagree. I've known Christian couples split up. Don't know how bad the guys were put through the wringer but I'm sure they lost a lot. The decisions the courts make are not based or related to the couples spiritual or religious beliefs
@@JohanDeewhat statistics are you getting your information from?
"You cannot pour out of an empty cup." Selfishness in a marriage will only leave you more empty.
If you compliment a woman from 15 feet away your lucky to not be charged with SA
Facts! My neighbor is twice my age & he fell for it, & what sux even more he has to have a sign on his front yard.
Why don’t men can you pretty? Because they are being HONEST.
every man knows that marriage is a losing game for men
she should have known and left things alone
typical . they hate to see men happy
Oh the stupidity at its finest... You dont get married if your glass is empty...
A marriage and the plane oxygen mask analogy is ridiculous. A marriage is nothing like a short term emergency. A marriage is a holy union between a man and a woman.
A beautiful white wedding dress but the biggest, scariest, most concerning red flag I’ve ever seen in my life! Run dude, she’s lost her mind! 🏃 😨
These women clearly never had good fathers . Or they'd want to emulate their mother's relationship
A father NEVER tells his daughter to be independent so SHE DON'T NEED NO MAN. Those are the words of her single mother. If she had a father, he would help her select the best man to take care of his little girl for a lifetime.
Ahhhhhhhhh. That was a great response
It's like these women have to challenge God on everything, and they wonder why men don't want to get married anymore
Honestly they fr do. My ex sure af did, quite literally.
@@joshthetrainfan it's crazy as hell. They can't help themselves no matter what we say and what we do to tell them this is wrong they don't give a damn they just want us to be wrong no matter what
@@dthomasX01 oh holy shit is that true. I had my fair share of this and then some. Yeah, I did some shit, I know, but so did she. I barely ever heard her ever admit any faults until LONG after our relationship ended, and when she finally admitted she was wrong on one of my points, I was rejoicing for hours.
@@joshthetrainfan they only admit when they screwed up when they need something from us
@@dthomasX01 oh yeah fs
About the only woman on here that makes any sense is Candace. Yep that's why I'm not dating right now.
She was doing what everyone else call a dress rehearsal on the idea of marriage
Put yourself first, than forget about a marriage. Ladies become cat ladies.
04:33 After she says "and um". You can hear her lose it. well, it's not like she had a lot left to begin with after that idea. 😂😂😂
I wonder if she was gonna post it, have his mom see it by "accident" and probably ask when is the wedding. Reminds me of my gaming buddy, he nearly got trapped in it but thankfully his mom hated her and said hell no. Sometimes people try to use those around you to get what they want from you. Be careful people
Yup this is true, my mom did the same for me towards my second girlfriend at the time. & What was even more sad she stayed friends with my mom unknowingly if she was gonna mess her life up again she could always go back to my mom for help & what's even more funny my mom wasn't stupid lol
So my ex's plan backfired, has a kid. Lost her apartment & car & is staying at a women's shelter & caught an STD towards the end she was promiscuous
And women say guys cannot take hints. I'm pretty sure from the very get-go when he said nothing serious, that should have been her hint
2:19 No FATHER would tell his daughter to put herself first in a marriage!!! That is a bunch of bull pucky!!!
If women love legal documents in a relationship that much they would accept a prenup.
And DNA TESTING FOR EVERY KID
Re: the wedding dress - if she bought it for her eventual wedding she had no reason to tell him or show him. She would have just bought it and put it in the back of her closet. It is the ultimate ultimatum, which always backfires.
Re: the marriage license - she get a contract, he gets a prenup. Problem solved.
Any one who says she is putting herself first in a marriage is a person who is not invested into the relationship. Those are the ones who have a back-up guy around and are setting money aside for the escape. If she is not 100% into it, then what is the point. A sharp guy that hears that is not going to invest his time into her; its going to a short term thing, if anything.
BTW- However, she will still be expecting the guy to make her his priority
It's always and only about the money.
the gold diggere in the car will be alone forever
Hallelujah!!
Ladies still dont get it, if a man wants to marry you , they will ask you the soonest possible. If after couple of years they are not doing it, u know they have no intention.met my wife july 2017 moved in jan 2018, proposed 6 months after , married a year later. I aint missing a good woman to other vultures out there.
If a man wants to marry a woman the conversation will get around to the future soon enough. He’ll at least hint, put out vibes, etc.
If not, a woman is merely friends with benefits … No man likes being forced into marriage, and certainly not in today’s economic climate with it’s family courts that risk major asset stripping.
That’s way too fast to me. I say no talk of marriage for at least 5 years. Not even living together until at least 4 years of dating
BIG HINT TO THE LADIES - Guys want to marry a lady who doesn't want to get married. Because she has other options and she is not desperate. I married my wife after 5 years of dating and she was starting to working as an M.D. - I knew she had many other guys that would marry her if I didn't do it. That was 18 years ago. It has worked out great.
You’re lucky bro
@@joshthetrainfan I tell my wife that all the time. She was 1 in a million. An M.D. that put herself through medical school by modeling. Most of all, she really takes care of me. I try to spoil her as well. We never had children.
@@ericinla65 Hey man, your bond is what really matters. She is 1 in a million. You take care of her my man.
Just from your pic., you're a chad. Women will accept anything from you. Those other men were average, and had no chance. She would have stayed with you forever w/o marriage any how.
@@uglytruthist9914that pic is henry cavill you muppet
These women out here thinking they can trap a man into wanting to spend the rest of his life with them got something messed up. You cannot change someone they have to change themselves. If he still showed no interest in marriage you should have let him know tou can't carry the relton without you being married. If he says no. Bite the bullet (... Or not I don't really like that saying anymore. But for lack of a better phrase well stick with it.) and leave the relationship.
Yo and I don't get this whole timeline BS. Do a through background check of your significant other. Look into their family, friends, hobbies. See if they're real and are genuine. This can be done within 8 months. People talking bout "you don't even know each other" is the dumbest shit ever. What are you, some ignoramus. Y'all stay saying this shit and I can't stand it. My dad knew my mother for less that 6 months and wanted to lock her down. They waited until she got out of college and they got married instantly. Going on a 40 year marriage next year. Y'all just wasting time.
The problem here is this lady never got her own feelings, responsibilities, and mannerisms in order so how do you expect her to put anyone but herself first! That is the real problem, if you see this in a woman...RUN!
marriage and raising a family is VERY hard work , and today's women are just not up to the task, there is NO love and happiness once the honeymoon has ended
A man could never trust a wife who has a 'me first' attitude.
That's the type who cheats and who salts money away in a private account.
lol that dress was from goodwill too. You can tell. It’s from the 80s
@9:20 Yep I rather not get married now
I thought I can change him
No I in "team"
Omg after watching a bunch of these videos I am SOOOOOOOO grateful I’m happily married and so is my husband! We actually communicate with each other, help each other, take care of each other and LOVE each other. I’m 55 and there is NO WAY I would try this dating crap now! Men are put off by so much about women and there is no good way other than time and getting to know each other to prove you’re not like most of the women in these videos! Wow!!! What happened to so many of us??????
These women are so lost if they probably saw a fork of spoon they would jump for joy, like discovery of the year.
A fork of spoon?
Marriage means putting God first, us, second, family third.
If she wanted to buy a wedding dress, just for someday, why would she have shown it to him? The real reason she showed him was to speed things along.
Subway woman is psycho.
😂😝😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂
Between god and the government??
Gtfoh, the marriage license calls "ALL FRUITS OF THE UNION" government property, and God be damned. You better read more into it "lady"
Can anyone answer what a fruit of the union is????
I had a friends-with-benefits situation years ago. I was a single mom of a 2-year-old. I had her every other week. When she was with her dad that's when I would date go out. We had friends-with-benefits for about 6 months. He was super cute and 23 years old. I was 30. We always had the best time. One night he professed his love for me. Wanted me to have his child. I ran so fast I never looked back.
Imagine hearing your woman preach on social media that men who really want her should be willing to unalive you. Even if he's toxic (most likely), someone's always more toxic. Just saying😅
I normally give you guys a 👍from the jump but that balderdash about the oxygen masks took up too much time. Too stupid to continue watching.
He could have been gentler with her until he knew the reason. She could have been sharing something cherished with a close friend and she chose him. The dress could have been the start of her Wedding Chest. When my sisters were older they would get gifts for their birthday, etc. to add. A Wedding dress they bought or was made for them, China Tableware, Silver Service , Expensive Bed Linens, various household items were often a big part of it. She was so crushed, I felt for her.
Wife
Kids
Dogs
The dead cockroach in the corner of the bathroom nobody wants to touch
Me
Oh just wondering how many men think the same way especially in a marrige,I know of 4,women the same
She basically said " my way or the highway ". He definitely chose the right route.
The person who said the people should take care of yourself before others in a marriage, only apply this rule to the wife. The husband must take care of wife before himself. The women in the interview even said it. She has a sexist view of marriage. The husband must prioritise her over himself
I feel sad about the comments of how many people agree with putting yourself first. I also understand what the lady is saying because she's speaking English but the message is lost. They look at marriage from a pov of selfishness, not understanding that a marriage is more like an extension of yourself.
😂😂😂guys don't compliment women anymore because it's consider a form of SA by some - not getting a kiss from a first date is one thing, but no one wants to wake up to a Warrant for Arrest😂😂
why tf would you drop money on a wedding dress without evening having a discussion on marriage, even if he hadn't told her no. Those aren't cheap.
I feel no sorrow for her one bit. She thought by buying a wedding dress she would force Chads hand, but Chad is Chad, she knew what it was about, but she don’t want the man that would cherish her and do her right, she wants Chad. She will continue to be Chads pump and dump until he tires of hitting it and moves on.
She may just be an evil genius. Her ultimate goal is to get married. She may have thought if he doesn’t change his mind and decides to break up with me I will just move on to someone else.
Your “ Lack of Security “ is what
It's a union not a takeover!
Smart men avoid marriage