you’re not alone, life is extremely overwhelming and hard to deal with sometimes! so beyond happy that you trust us enough to share this part of yourself with us 🤍
I completely related. It seems like everyone around me is going so fast and I can’t keep up. But I’ve been realizing that the pace that I’m going at is best for me. I’m still living at home. I graduated in December. I don’t have a full time job. I work part time in my field. I don’t know what’s next but that’s okay! We are so young.
I've been having probably the worst week in my life and everyone around me is thriving and I have no one to talk to and I know this sounds weird but seeing other people have bad days almost makes me feel better like I'm not the only one struggling rn. I really appreciate you sharing your feelings with us
I'LL BE YOUR RUclipsR FRIEND!!!! ily it's so hard to see you so sad 😭❤️ I definitely feel the same where it's so scary to question the stability of RUclips 🥴 but we'll get through it together I'm sure!!!
I feel like this was so important to show that a youtuber feels like this too because a lot of people watch youtubers and compare themselves as well so it shows that life is never as perfect as it seems
I totally understand what youre saying in this video. Ik its annoying to hear in the moment but everything will work out & you will find those specific friends you need in the future, try not to be so hard on yourself
I've dealt with the same way of comparing my life to others, especially in the pandemic. My friends were moving out of their parents houses, having fun, going to college on campus and I was still at home doing classes from online and spending every minute by myself. I literally got so depressed about it and was constantly anxious. I ended up deleting instagram, tik Tok etc. and it has helped so much. I know your position is different because you are an influencer, but maybe cutting back on the spend you time on social media will help. Sending love
I’m so glad you made this. RUclips and social media needs more of this & while you may be comparing yourself to others, where you are at NOW is inspiring to me. You are doing great
You’re the RUclipsr I look up to. I see other youtubers my age moving out and traveling the world and all of this stuff and then I see you and your in college, you live with your parents still, as do I and I’m like ITS OKAY, we don’t need to be rushed. I love how real your life is! Thank you for posting this video to show that bad days are okay! Take everything in your life as steady as you need it, you are still so young!💕
i have been in a funk for a really long time and feel this way almost every night (nights are the worst). this was so helpful and i can definitely relate. it’s nice to know that we all go through it (nice in a weird way lol). thank you for sharing 🤍
i love you for this! you’re so strong honey. live your life, you’re doing everything right! dont compare yourself. also be closer with summer !! she’s so sweet i think, and you guys seem like you could be besties
good for you for filming yourself in an uncomfortable situation! i hate seeing you sad but it happens to all of us so i found it very comforting to watch and know that i’m not alone. things will get better girl :)
i actually don’t know you and have never seen ur channel before, but i was really struggling and searched “videos to watch when you’re having a bad day” and this popped up in the suggested so i clicked, and i’m very glad i did. it was just nice to hear someone else talk about their struggles and what they do to calm down and feel better. it’s felt like my life keeps crumbling around me the past couple months and it’s really bad timing for all of it, so having a video like this to come back to that reminds me of ways to stay positive and take care of myself is really nice. i hope you’re doing better now, and hopefully the next time you’re feeling sad it’ll help you a little to remember that this video meant a lot to at least one person who really needed to see it
i sobbed my whole drive home after work last night, i could barely see because i was crying so hard. seeing this made me feel a lot better that someone with a bigger platform struggles and is vulnerable from time to time.
Girl I totally feel you on this. Don’t feel bad for having a bad day. I’m a small RUclipsr and I compare myself to people like you or other bigger RUclipsrs but I realized that I’m growing at my own pace and my channel will grow in time. I hope you understand that it’s YOUR life and you can do whatever you want with it and that’s the best🤍 I know sometimes comparing ourselves to others can get the best of us, but try to see the things that you have worked for and really just take it all in and see the good in your life that you have accomplished or done. I’m engaged, a full time student, work part time, do RUclips and still living at my parents house right now so I can understand about not living on your own. I compare myself to other people who have graduated and are younger than me and why I’m 24 hrs old still in college. We all have our struggles, but we have try learn how to take those struggles and use it to make us stronger. I’m trying to get to that position where I can live on my own. I hope you understand how inspiring your channel is and you opening up to us really helps us all relate to each other. Love you, 💚 you got this (girl boss mode)
also i relate to this bc i feel like what i want in life is not the way it’s “supposed” to be, and i feel like i should know what i’m doing with my life right now and i don’t.
We’re all here for you ❤️ I’ve been struggling a LOT lately and having more anxiety attacks than normal and it’s super hard. I don’t have anyone I can really talk to about my issues, but just know I’m here for you.
Literally fav RUclipsr. This weeks been soooo hard for me with school and work too but there’s always something positive in every day. Loved this and you!
I’ve had a bad day today. I got in an argument with my PE teacher, people were pushing me in the halls, someone stole my phone charger, and I’m injured and have to sit out of practice and watch all my teammates have fun, and I have so much homework. I’ve been crying all night.
I love how real and genuine you are, no matter what may take you by surprise,good and bad!! It is okay to have bad days, we all go through them at some point, but with the help of this video you showed us that we can get through them...,much love !!💕
I’ve been struggling like this a lot too lately! I keep comparing myself to a lot of ppl and I make myself upset. Watching this vid and reading the comments made me feel better knowing I’m not alone!
Oh girl, we all have bad days, just be sure everything is going to be right at the end, and that u are soo young everything is possible 🥰 PS: LOVE THE EDIT
Hi McKenzie, you are not alone in this. I am also having a bad day and I feel like I also have too much on my plate. I am struggling with college decisions, my relationship with my family, my job and other things. It has been overwhelming and stressful. Thank you so much for being open and vulnerable because it makes realize that I am not alone too🥲
I feel the exact same way! I’m 22 and lately I’ve been feeling like people are doing a lot more then I am right now so thank you for sharing this! I can’t even explain to you how much this video was needed❤️
I just have to say watching this video made me feel like we were best friends. It feels so refreshing to watch a RUclips show the real side to them and how they are feeling because I felt like I could relate so much and I finally didn’t feel alone. Thank you❤️. Also sometimes when I am feeling down I read a book. You were talking about scripting and about your dream life and that’s kind of what I do with reading. I pick books that are like my fantasy and then when I read it’s like I can escape my world and jump into this new one I’m reading. It’s a fun thing to do and I just have lying around my room whenever I need a break from my mind and social media. I love you
I know how you feel and I totally relate. Something that has made me feel better is I realized that most people that you think have life all figured out and are put together really aren’t, everyone is struggling whether that is behind closed doors or in person. It’s all about faking it till you make it.
there's this youtuber named Joanna Vongphoumy and in one of her videos she said "forget what other people’s opinions are of what success is, and just focus on what you feel like success is"
I cant be more grateful for this video, I just woke up (I have fever and cold "deadly combo" fr) and an important exam approaching, I also had a fight with my mom..catalysing me to cry for 2hrs straight and this video just comforted me so much...thank you
you’re the only youtuber i consistently watch because i relate to you! im also still living at home & it is hard to see people move at different speeds than you, but i think as a youtuber that sets you apart & makes you more relatable 💕
I have had the hardest year ever and seeing you post this made me feel a little less alone. I graduated last year and allll of my friends had jobs out of college... even IN THE THICK of the pandemic... but not me. My dream job & move was (still is, but almost at the end now!) post-poned and I've been unemployed living in my parents house most of the year. It's sucked... but I'm telling you this so you know you're not the only one! And don't compare yourself to other people!! I know that's easier said than done, but we watch you for you - not the grandiose success and the fancy cars and spending money left & right. We like that you show us legit days in your life, heartbreak and sad days and all!!
This really helped me. Thank you. Been really going through it (crying every day, feeling constant emotional pain, hating my job and self-loathing) and it's nice to know I'm not alone in feeling like this. ❤️
Hey, i know its been a while since you posted this but i just wanted to let you know that this helped me so much today. I have bad days like several times a week and it always hits me at night. So i searched up videos to watch when having a bad day. Yours was first to show up. My mom just passed away and im only 13 so its hard for me to cope. Thank you for posting this and never quit doing this! You rock! ❤
This is so crazy you feel that way because I think about how badly I would love to be you!!! I think you’re literally amazing. The people who seem like they have it all figured out usually don’t, but they will always make it seem like it on social media. It’s all fake. Keep your head up! I love your content and I’ve been watching you since you started RUclips!
ever since im in higher classes, things are going down hill...already study, then one i day i forgot to submit a assignment then the teacher got so mad and she called my parents, the way she threw me looks of pure hatred, ik it was my fault but I'm not a trouble maker...only a diary note would have been enough to get it signed but no. i do deserve it then at home i got a good scolding from mom now i get PTSD everytime i see that idiotic teacher of mine but i have to deal with it, i just hate school so much...god pls save me
I just want to say it is absolutely sooo normal to feel like this and feel like it’s a stupid reason but trust me it’s not and it’s completely normal and everyone has their obstacles and problems so please don’t feel ashamed thank you for speaking out about it I hope you’re feeling better now ❤❤
I love how you are realistic. I love how you still live at home and don’t flaunt your money or success and that’s why you are my favorite RUclips because I can relate so much to you
I definitely feel like this all the time. I constantly compare my progress and accomplishments to people around me too! I think what has helped me is telling myself "everyone's timing with life is different." Just because I'm not as put together as other people doesn't mean I won't get there one day. I also wanna say how much I love your content. I love that you're not like every other LA influencer. You're real and relatable! Keep Going girl!! We're in this together.
everyones progress & growth looks different! we ALL are guilty of comparing ourselves/choices/progress especially with how big of an impact social media has on life now! & in the same breath how it impacts everyones mental health! i’m sending you a BIG hug🤎 i always feel guilty when i have a bad day too but your feelings are ALWAYS valid! its okay to have a bad day, you will always get through it & grow through it! xoxo love you lots kenz:)
I feel the exact same way, I’m trying my hardest to be an influencer on tiktok I always lose motivation and then come back to it. I had a really bad day and I just always feel that if I let myself be happy for a minute something comes along and ruins it. I don’t know if I’m looking for advice like you mentioned in your video but yea that my little rant I guess and thank you for posting this I genuinely looking for a video like this to calm me down. Thank you and keep doing what you love and I will be following you on all socials ❤❤❤
McKenzie, you are such a strong, independent, kind, caring, and REAL influencer!! I have just fallen in love with your videos and your personality! I just wanted to let you know that I admire you so much and I'm so grateful to have such a real soul to look up to. You are so humble and it's such a breath of fresh air to watch. One of my other favorite youtubers , who I find so calm to watch is Danielle Carolan and both of you are so different but are girl bosses who have side hustles that you manage as well as RUclips and you both inspire me so much!!! I LOVE YOU
I just wanted you to know that I've been watching your videos for the longest time and the main reason fot that is that I cans relate so much to them. You just show your normal life and it feels so close. I struggle with the same sometimes I feel like I need to be living a certain life or achieving certain thing by a certain age. I think our generation gets really affected by this since everything we see on social media are these amazing people with amazing lives. Thank you for sharing this. Keep doing you. You are amazing!
i came across this video today while having a hard day, thank you for sharing the reality of life. let’s all do better at sharing the real and raw moments with the people around us because it helps more than you know. ❤️❤️
I am so glad you made this video! I’m sure there are a ton of people going through the same thing! we are all here for you and I hope you feel better 🤍 love you 🤎🤎
Girl. Let me tell you, I’ve followed you for such a long time now and your growth is amazing and inspiring. Although you may not see it now, you are enough, and so many other people see it. I follow you because you’re always so real and raw about your emotions and I just wanna let you know that the people who watch ur videos are here for you and you are doing an amazing job. Reminder: you are so young! Life does not have to be figured out by tomorrow, next month, or even next year! Just live life everyday to your fullest :)
It’s ok to feel sad because you are human! Ur feelings are valid don’t ever apologize for feeling emotional. Your supporters are proud of u and everything you have accomplished so far. Maybe you haven’t gone as far as you want to, but you’re own your way there! Little steps at a time! We love you!
you have been one of my favorite RUclipsrs since probably 2014. you are a real human and you aren't afraid to hide that. I've seen you do everything on your own and you are such a good role model for other girls. no matter how you compare yourself, you always fight for doing the best for you and that's incredible. you'll always inspire me and i hope you can inspire yourself
I LOVE HOW YOU SHOW YOUR AUTHENTICITY AND RAWNESS TOWARDS US 💗 also, i def relate to the friendship part, it's really hard to make friends who resonates with me to the core & is passionate with stuff I do. Same goes to choosing a career path, college is 4 months away & I know nothing with what course I'm gonna be taking, pretty scary but every day I get up and try to ground myself more in the present moment. "The future will worry itself", I whisper to calm myself everytime!
Honestly, when I’m about to get my period and am on it recently I always feel so down. And I know I’m sad because of my period, but that doesn’t take away from the not being able to get out of the funk. And then, being sad makes makes me overthink about a lot of things going on in my life and things I’ve done in the past which takes me into a deep spiral of overthinking and worrying. And then, I get even more sad. It’s okay to be down sometimes. Life is a journey, and not every journey is the same. Doesn’t make any one have more or less worth. We need to give ourselves time to be sad, and then lift ourselves up. We need to try to take control of our lives and let go of the things we cannot control. It’s great practice to realize the good we have in our lives, and be grateful! Also, I really do relate to you snd appreciate how real, vulnerable, and honest you are! You are doing amazing! 💛
I love this video. The realness and vulnerability is so nice to see from a youtuber. Things are so fake online even through RUclips at times. We all have bad days and moments. I had one yesterday and it really messes with you. Online you do post the highlights and even from your videos as viewers we can see that your life is not perfect, but having you open up like this just proves how human you are and how much you love being a youtuber. I've been following you for years and while you aren't a Remi Cruz or Alisha Marie, I love watching your videos because they are so real and relatable. I feel like from watching your videos it's like watching a friend go about their day. I'm sorry you had a bad night, it happens to all of us. The most important thing to remember is that it sucks right now but it's going to get better. I know it's hard to think positively in almost any aspect when you're in a depressive moment, but it's important to get through it. Whenever I'm in a bad mental space I either cuddle with my dog (who has become essentially an emotional support dog), or I go for a drive and get a treat. I find driving so relaxing, I've made a playlist I only listen to of songs that make me sad so I can get through it and let myself feel or I just talk it out with myself. Sometimes you just need yourself to talk to and either try and get yourself out of the moment or let you wallow in it a little. That probably sounds weird but it helps me? I hope your week has gotten better and just remember you are a BAD ASS. You do RUclips, full time school in a pandemic, have somewhat of a social life and boyfriend and are just trying to navigate the early 20's like the rest of us. You got this!
to your intro, yes ma’am. someone is always going to have it worse and there’s always going to be bigger issues in the world but the faster you realize that your issues are big and matter to YOU, the faster you can fix them and help yourself get up and move on. bad days are gonna happen, it’s apart of life. love you :)
These types of videos make me feel so much better. I don't know why. Maybe because it makes me feel not alone. Like if they can get through it I can. So thanks. ❤️
you will always be my favorite youtubers, i love the content you put out because i feel like it’s always genuine. whatever life brings you i know you will be strong and push through, 🤍✨
I relate so much to what your saying . I compare myself all the time to other people’s lives Because I only went to college for like two semesters and I still live at home as well. I know it seems hard but we’re all on our own path and I know it’s hard to not be hard on yourself I struggle with that all the time but your not alone and I love you so much
I can really relate hun. I was bullied in my last employment position so chose to save myself from mentally declining further. Now I am jobless I constantly feel low and noticed myself comparing myself to others who have a job and an income. I also feel very judged by others due to not working even though I am trying. I am actually struggling to get out of the flat since I was attacked by a man and his dog and was wondering if you have any tips on getting back out there. Thank you for posting this, it must have been difficult to do. I prefer you tubers who keep it real like yourself.
I completely relate. I'm a junior in college and I moved back home this year because of covid (I didn't want to pay for an apartment if I didn't need it) but all my friends from my hometown are on campus at their universities and I just feel like I'm staying still while everyone else is moving forward. And I've been getting rejected from all these internships and everyone seems to have these awesome internships and I'm just like so lost. So I feel you. Hang in there.
I compare myself to youtubers as well when they buy a brand new car, fix up a house beautifully, they can buy so many nice things and clothes . I feel so poor just going to work everyday not getting rich quick. I just want my debt payed off. I'm so overwhelmed with life .
i want you to know your not alone were with you dont cry😭 its ok if you feel down just tell someone it'll make u feel better i love u and your other subscribers are do u to🥰💕🌸
this video made me feel less alone. i’ve been feeling down the past few weeks too, and i appreciate your authenticity bc it helps make me feel a lot better🤍 just know that you are an amazing person with a beautiful heart and i love you so much and my life would not be the same without you in it:’) ps. my favorite thing to do when i’m having a bad day is to take a long walk, shower, journal or draw, and watch my favorite show😇 i love you kenzie
This helped me so much I've been feeling off and I've just been stressed about everything but I've been focusing on the positive and journaling and it's been helping alot, this also shows that not everyone on social media is always happy and positive everyone goes threw somethings we all have bad days but it will be okay in the end it always is ily kenzie! also can we talk about that John Mayer tick tok 🌟
It’s sad to see how people focus so much on money and not being able to have as much as others. When life teaches you that having a somewhat decent paying job and having a peace of mind, being treated properly at work and in life, and having a healthy mental health is so much more important than having money. I’m saying this with love ❤️… there’s more important things than money. I learned that the hard way.
Mckenzie I loved this ! keep doing you boo, I know its so hard and comparing becomes easy but you're doing very great and just keep on going! I've always loved watching your videos, years now
Heyy McKenzie.. I know it’s tough to go through this but believe me it’s the right time to listen to what your mind is trying to tell you.. if you feel like needing a friend like a guidance try to find a life coach that’s why they’re there and they make life so much easier. Currently I’m in this position and I know that this would be the turning point in my life that’s why I chose help. I hope you feel better 💕💕💕💕
This helped me smmm I have been having a really bad week, I have sooo much work to do, my boyfriend has been ignoring me all week, and it’s really hard since I love him so much I don’t want to lose him and I don’t even know what i did. and everything seems so stressful, I have a huge decision coming up and I have no idea what to do and my seasonal depression is back and I just wanna cry and scream and ahhh
you’re not alone, life is extremely overwhelming and hard to deal with sometimes! so beyond happy that you trust us enough to share this part of yourself with us 🤍
I completely related. It seems like everyone around me is going so fast and I can’t keep up. But I’ve been realizing that the pace that I’m going at is best for me. I’m still living at home. I graduated in December. I don’t have a full time job. I work part time in my field. I don’t know what’s next but that’s okay! We are so young.
yes i have to remind myself that i’m so young and i have a lot of life ahead of me. sending you love! 💕
I was scrolling through your Instagram and I said “I wish I had her life” and two minutes later I see this thank you for being honest with us❤️
thats so crazy to think about. everything is truly perspective & social media is SUCH a highlight reel. love u
I've been having probably the worst week in my life and everyone around me is thriving and I have no one to talk to and I know this sounds weird but seeing other people have bad days almost makes me feel better like I'm not the only one struggling rn. I really appreciate you sharing your feelings with us
i hope things get better for you. I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through a rough time. i love u!
I hope everything works out for you and you feel better soon, sending you love💕
I'LL BE YOUR RUclipsR FRIEND!!!! ily it's so hard to see you so sad 😭❤️ I definitely feel the same where it's so scary to question the stability of RUclips 🥴 but we'll get through it together I'm sure!!!
i love u so much thank you sweet girl
I feel like this was so important to show that a youtuber feels like this too because a lot of people watch youtubers and compare themselves as well so it shows that life is never as perfect as it seems
thank you! yes i definitely agree that more RUclipsrs should show the parts that arent so pretty & expensive!!
Can we talk about that John mayer tiktok tho
it’s so comforting yet so sad lol
Yes 100%
Tbh I might be stupid but I didn’t get it
@@anahilopez9195 basically just says that things aren’t always what they seem.
@@natalieminassian ty sis
my favorite quote is ‘enjoy the space between where you are and where you are going.’
we love you, and appreciate ALL your content 🤍
I totally understand what youre saying in this video. Ik its annoying to hear in the moment but everything will work out & you will find those specific friends you need in the future, try not to be so hard on yourself
it’s definitely not annoying to hear in the moment. i appreciate you!
Girl I relate so much. Not that I want you to have bad days but it’s kind of a relief knowing everyone has their moments.
i’m having one of those days, literally have done nothing. i went on a drive w my mom and was exhausted. this made me feel better, thank you 💓
i’m sorry you’re feeling that way :( i wish i could give you a hug! sending you love💕
I've dealt with the same way of comparing my life to others, especially in the pandemic. My friends were moving out of their parents houses, having fun, going to college on campus and I was still at home doing classes from online and spending every minute by myself. I literally got so depressed about it and was constantly anxious. I ended up deleting instagram, tik Tok etc. and it has helped so much. I know your position is different because you are an influencer, but maybe cutting back on the spend you time on social media will help. Sending love
I agree. I also deleted instagram. It helps
yes !! i haven’t had any social media in about 2 months except for my bf’s birthday and my birthday and it’s helping so much in a lot of ways
so true thank u for this!!
Literally didn’t realize all the typos and errors I had in this comment, I’m embarrassed. Ciao anywaysssss
I’m so glad you made this. RUclips and social media needs more of this & while you may be comparing yourself to others, where you are at NOW is inspiring to me. You are doing great
You’re the RUclipsr I look up to. I see other youtubers my age moving out and traveling the world and all of this stuff and then I see you and your in college, you live with your parents still, as do I and I’m like ITS OKAY, we don’t need to be rushed. I love how real your life is! Thank you for posting this video to show that bad days are okay! Take everything in your life as steady as you need it, you are still so young!💕
i have been in a funk for a really long time and feel this way almost every night (nights are the worst). this was so helpful and i can definitely relate. it’s nice to know that we all go through it (nice in a weird way lol). thank you for sharing 🤍
nights are the worst for me too! it brings me so much anxiety :/ but sending you so much love, angel
i love you for this! you’re so strong honey. live your life, you’re doing everything right! dont compare yourself. also be closer with summer !! she’s so sweet i think, and you guys seem like you could be besties
I love your little sound effects when you edit! Ugh literally love the way you edit. Thank you for filming raw content❤️I love this.
I literally LOVE her genuineness and authenticity shes so great to do this for so many people to see. WE LOVE YOU THANK YOU
good for you for filming yourself in an uncomfortable situation! i hate seeing you sad but it happens to all of us so i found it very comforting to watch and know that i’m not alone. things will get better girl :)
i actually don’t know you and have never seen ur channel before, but i was really struggling and searched “videos to watch when you’re having a bad day” and this popped up in the suggested so i clicked, and i’m very glad i did. it was just nice to hear someone else talk about their struggles and what they do to calm down and feel better.
it’s felt like my life keeps crumbling around me the past couple months and it’s really bad timing for all of it, so having a video like this to come back to that reminds me of ways to stay positive and take care of myself is really nice. i hope you’re doing better now, and hopefully the next time you’re feeling sad it’ll help you a little to remember that this video meant a lot to at least one person who really needed to see it
i sobbed my whole drive
home after work last night, i could barely see because i was crying so hard. seeing this made me feel a lot better that someone with a bigger platform struggles and is vulnerable from time to time.
Girl I totally feel you on this. Don’t feel bad for having a bad day. I’m a small RUclipsr and I compare myself to people like you or other bigger RUclipsrs but I realized that I’m growing at my own pace and my channel will grow in time. I hope you understand that it’s YOUR life and you can do whatever you want with it and that’s the best🤍 I know sometimes comparing ourselves to others can get the best of us, but try to see the things that you have worked for and really just take it all in and see the good in your life that you have accomplished or done. I’m engaged, a full time student, work part time, do RUclips and still living at my parents house right now so I can understand about not living on your own. I compare myself to other people who have graduated and are younger than me and why I’m 24 hrs old still in college. We all have our struggles, but we have try learn how to take those struggles and use it to make us stronger. I’m trying to get to that position where I can live on my own. I hope you understand how inspiring your channel is and you opening up to us really helps us all relate to each other. Love you, 💚 you got this (girl boss mode)
also i relate to this bc i feel like what i want in life is not the way it’s “supposed” to be, and i feel like i should know what i’m doing with my life right now and i don’t.
We’re all here for you ❤️ I’ve been struggling a LOT lately and having more anxiety attacks than normal and it’s super hard. I don’t have anyone I can really talk to about my issues, but just know I’m here for you.
Literally fav RUclipsr. This weeks been soooo hard for me with school and work too but there’s always something positive in every day. Loved this and you!
I’ve had a bad day today. I got in an argument with my PE teacher, people were pushing me in the halls, someone stole my phone charger, and I’m injured and have to sit out of practice and watch all my teammates have fun, and I have so much homework. I’ve been crying all night.
I love how real and genuine you are, no matter what may take you by surprise,good and bad!! It is okay to have bad days, we all go through them at some point, but with the help of this video you showed us that we can get through them...,much love !!💕
I’ve been struggling like this a lot too lately! I keep comparing myself to a lot of ppl and I make myself upset. Watching this vid and reading the comments made me feel better knowing I’m not alone!
mackenzie thank you so so much for filming this. you don’t know how much this helps.
Oh girl, we all have bad days, just be sure everything is going to be right at the end, and that u are soo young everything is possible 🥰 PS: LOVE THE EDIT
im glad you made this & im sorry for what you’re going through 🤍
thank you💕💕
Hi McKenzie, you are not alone in this. I am also having a bad day and I feel like I also have too much on my plate. I am struggling with college decisions, my relationship with my family, my job and other things. It has been overwhelming and stressful. Thank you so much for being open and vulnerable because it makes realize that I am not alone too🥲
I feel the exact same way! I’m 22 and lately I’ve been feeling like people are doing a lot more then I am right now so thank you for sharing this! I can’t even explain to you how much this video was needed❤️
I just have to say watching this video made me feel like we were best friends. It feels so refreshing to watch a RUclips show the real side to them and how they are feeling because I felt like I could relate so much and I finally didn’t feel alone. Thank you❤️. Also sometimes when I am feeling down I read a book. You were talking about scripting and about your dream life and that’s kind of what I do with reading. I pick books that are like my fantasy and then when I read it’s like I can escape my world and jump into this new one I’m reading. It’s a fun thing to do and I just have lying around my room whenever I need a break from my mind and social media. I love you
I know how you feel and I totally relate. Something that has made me feel better is I realized that most people that you think have life all figured out and are put together really aren’t, everyone is struggling whether that is behind closed doors or in person. It’s all about faking it till you make it.
there's this youtuber named Joanna Vongphoumy and in one of her videos she said
"forget what other people’s opinions are of what success is, and just focus on what you feel like success is"
I cant be more grateful for this video, I just woke up (I have fever and cold "deadly combo" fr) and an important exam approaching, I also had a fight with my mom..catalysing me to cry for 2hrs straight and this video just comforted me so much...thank you
you’re the only youtuber i consistently watch because i relate to you! im also still living at home & it is hard to see people move at different speeds than you, but i think as a youtuber that sets you apart & makes you more relatable 💕
I had a bad week, this helped me sm & made me feel less alone, I haven’t watched these types of videos in awhile, so it feels quite comforting 💛
I have had the hardest year ever and seeing you post this made me feel a little less alone. I graduated last year and allll of my friends had jobs out of college... even IN THE THICK of the pandemic... but not me. My dream job & move was (still is, but almost at the end now!) post-poned and I've been unemployed living in my parents house most of the year. It's sucked... but I'm telling you this so you know you're not the only one! And don't compare yourself to other people!! I know that's easier said than done, but we watch you for you - not the grandiose success and the fancy cars and spending money left & right. We like that you show us legit days in your life, heartbreak and sad days and all!!
this video felt like a warm hug from a big sister. thank you
This really helped me. Thank you. Been really going through it (crying every day, feeling constant emotional pain, hating my job and self-loathing) and it's nice to know I'm not alone in feeling like this. ❤️
Hey, i know its been a while since you posted this but i just wanted to let you know that this helped me so much today. I have bad days like several times a week and it always hits me at night. So i searched up videos to watch when having a bad day. Yours was first to show up. My mom just passed away and im only 13 so its hard for me to cope. Thank you for posting this and never quit doing this! You rock! ❤
Thank you for sharing this with us, I’m also really stressed about sorting out my future at the moment
This is so crazy you feel that way because I think about how badly I would love to be you!!! I think you’re literally amazing. The people who seem like they have it all figured out usually don’t, but they will always make it seem like it on social media. It’s all fake. Keep your head up! I love your content and I’ve been watching you since you started RUclips!
ever since im in higher classes, things are going down hill...already study, then one i day i forgot to submit a assignment then the teacher got so mad and she called my parents, the way she threw me looks of pure hatred, ik it was my fault but I'm not a trouble maker...only a diary note would have been enough to get it signed but no. i do deserve it then at home i got a good scolding from mom
now i get PTSD everytime i see that idiotic teacher of mine but i have to deal with it, i just hate school so much...god pls save me
This is so sweet of you.
And you not alone in this world,we are with you
I just want to say it is absolutely sooo normal to feel like this and feel like it’s a stupid reason but trust me it’s not and it’s completely normal and everyone has their obstacles and problems so please don’t feel ashamed thank you for speaking out about it I hope you’re feeling better now ❤❤
I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels like this! Don't worry girl I feel the same way!
I love how you are realistic. I love how you still live at home and don’t flaunt your money or success and that’s why you are my favorite RUclips because I can relate so much to you
I definitely feel like this all the time. I constantly compare my progress and accomplishments to people around me too! I think what has helped me is telling myself "everyone's timing with life is different." Just because I'm not as put together as other people doesn't mean I won't get there one day. I also wanna say how much I love your content. I love that you're not like every other LA influencer. You're real and relatable! Keep Going girl!! We're in this together.
You’re my fav RUclipsr and I’m so appreciative you showed these struggles 💕 thank you so much
love you for being so real. so true that most socials are just highlights and it’s so nice to see the other side
everyones progress & growth looks different! we ALL are guilty of comparing ourselves/choices/progress especially with how big of an impact social media has on life now! & in the same breath how it impacts everyones mental health! i’m sending you a BIG hug🤎 i always feel guilty when i have a bad day too but your feelings are ALWAYS valid! its okay to have a bad day, you will always get through it & grow through it!
xoxo love you lots kenz:)
I feel the exact same way, I’m trying my hardest to be an influencer on tiktok I always lose motivation and then come back to it. I had a really bad day and I just always feel that if I let myself be happy for a minute something comes along and ruins it. I don’t know if I’m looking for advice like you mentioned in your video but yea that my little rant I guess and thank you for posting this I genuinely looking for a video like this to calm me down. Thank you and keep doing what you love and I will be following you on all socials ❤❤❤
the ending was so calming and needed✨☁️
McKenzie, you are such a strong, independent, kind, caring, and REAL influencer!! I have just fallen in love with your videos and your personality! I just wanted to let you know that I admire you so much and I'm so grateful to have such a real soul to look up to. You are so humble and it's such a breath of fresh air to watch. One of my other favorite youtubers , who I find so calm to watch is Danielle Carolan and both of you are so different but are girl bosses who have side hustles that you manage as well as RUclips and you both inspire me so much!!! I LOVE YOU
I just wanted you to know that I've been watching your videos for the longest time and the main reason fot that is that I cans relate so much to them. You just show your normal life and it feels so close. I struggle with the same sometimes I feel like I need to be living a certain life or achieving certain thing by a certain age. I think our generation gets really affected by this since everything we see on social media are these amazing people with amazing lives.
Thank you for sharing this. Keep doing you. You are amazing!
i came across this video today while having a hard day, thank you for sharing the reality of life. let’s all do better at sharing the real and raw moments with the people around us because it helps more than you know. ❤️❤️
I am so glad you made this video! I’m sure there are a ton of people going through the same thing! we are all here for you and I hope you feel better 🤍 love you 🤎🤎
3 years later and I feel u it’s ok queen
Girl. Let me tell you, I’ve followed you for such a long time now and your growth is amazing and inspiring. Although you may not see it now, you are enough, and so many other people see it. I follow you because you’re always so real and raw about your emotions and I just wanna let you know that the people who watch ur videos are here for you and you are doing an amazing job. Reminder: you are so young! Life does not have to be figured out by tomorrow, next month, or even next year! Just live life everyday to your fullest :)
It’s ok to feel sad because you are human! Ur feelings are valid don’t ever apologize for feeling emotional. Your supporters are proud of u and everything you have accomplished so far. Maybe you haven’t gone as far as you want to, but you’re own your way there! Little steps at a time! We love you!
you have been one of my favorite RUclipsrs since probably 2014. you are a real human and you aren't afraid to hide that. I've seen you do everything on your own and you are such a good role model for other girls. no matter how you compare yourself, you always fight for doing the best for you and that's incredible. you'll always inspire me and i hope you can inspire yourself
I LOVE HOW YOU SHOW YOUR AUTHENTICITY AND RAWNESS TOWARDS US 💗 also, i def relate to the friendship part, it's really hard to make friends who resonates with me to the core & is passionate with stuff I do. Same goes to choosing a career path, college is 4 months away & I know nothing with what course I'm gonna be taking, pretty scary but every day I get up and try to ground myself more in the present moment. "The future will worry itself", I whisper to calm myself everytime!
Honestly, when I’m about to get my period and am on it recently I always feel so down. And I know I’m sad because of my period, but that doesn’t take away from the not being able to get out of the funk. And then, being sad makes makes me overthink about a lot of things going on in my life and things I’ve done in the past which takes me into a deep spiral of overthinking and worrying. And then, I get even more sad. It’s okay to be down sometimes. Life is a journey, and not every journey is the same. Doesn’t make any one have more or less worth. We need to give ourselves time to be sad, and then lift ourselves up. We need to try to take control of our lives and let go of the things we cannot control. It’s great practice to realize the good we have in our lives, and be grateful! Also, I really do relate to you snd appreciate how real, vulnerable, and honest you are! You are doing amazing! 💛
I love this video. The realness and vulnerability is so nice to see from a youtuber. Things are so fake online even through RUclips at times. We all have bad days and moments. I had one yesterday and it really messes with you. Online you do post the highlights and even from your videos as viewers we can see that your life is not perfect, but having you open up like this just proves how human you are and how much you love being a youtuber. I've been following you for years and while you aren't a Remi Cruz or Alisha Marie, I love watching your videos because they are so real and relatable. I feel like from watching your videos it's like watching a friend go about their day. I'm sorry you had a bad night, it happens to all of us. The most important thing to remember is that it sucks right now but it's going to get better. I know it's hard to think positively in almost any aspect when you're in a depressive moment, but it's important to get through it. Whenever I'm in a bad mental space I either cuddle with my dog (who has become essentially an emotional support dog), or I go for a drive and get a treat. I find driving so relaxing, I've made a playlist I only listen to of songs that make me sad so I can get through it and let myself feel or I just talk it out with myself. Sometimes you just need yourself to talk to and either try and get yourself out of the moment or let you wallow in it a little. That probably sounds weird but it helps me? I hope your week has gotten better and just remember you are a BAD ASS. You do RUclips, full time school in a pandemic, have somewhat of a social life and boyfriend and are just trying to navigate the early 20's like the rest of us. You got this!
to your intro, yes ma’am. someone is always going to have it worse and there’s always going to be bigger issues in the world but the faster you realize that your issues are big and matter to YOU, the faster you can fix them and help yourself get up and move on. bad days are gonna happen, it’s apart of life. love you :)
this video was so comforting... thank you
I LOVE THIS SO MUCH, I HAVE NEVER WATCHED SOMETHING MORE RELATABLE THANK YOU KENZIE XOXOX ILY
This was an amazing video!! So proud of you for making this!!!! 💛💛💛💛
I know this is out of topic but I just wanted to ask how did u get the rainbow on your name it’s so cute!
Thank you for being so real and vulnerable
These types of videos make me feel so much better. I don't know why. Maybe because it makes me feel not alone. Like if they can get through it I can. So thanks. ❤️
McKenzie I am always here for you if you ever need someone to talk to. You are a great person and you are sweet.
i’m feeling the exact same way. thank you for sharing this💖
you will always be my favorite youtubers, i love the content you put out because i feel like it’s always genuine. whatever life brings you i know you will be strong and push through, 🤍✨
I absolutely love this please never stop making these real beautiful videos. Ur amazing and you are so loved
I relate so much to what your saying . I compare myself all the time to other people’s lives Because I only went to college for like two semesters and I still live at home as well. I know it seems hard but we’re all on our own path and I know it’s hard to not be hard on yourself I struggle with that all the time but your not alone and I love you so much
love you so much thank you for your sweet words. 💕
girl i just love you! you are so honest and open and relatable❤️ thank you for your content
this was so refreshing to watch
i needed this video so bad rn, thank u for being so real ❤️
I can really relate hun. I was bullied in my last employment position so chose to save myself from mentally declining further. Now I am jobless I constantly feel low and noticed myself comparing myself to others who have a job and an income. I also feel very judged by others due to not working even though I am trying. I am actually struggling to get out of the flat since I was attacked by a man and his dog and was wondering if you have any tips on getting back out there. Thank you for posting this, it must have been difficult to do. I prefer you tubers who keep it real like yourself.
I completely relate. I'm a junior in college and I moved back home this year because of covid (I didn't want to pay for an apartment if I didn't need it) but all my friends from my hometown are on campus at their universities and I just feel like I'm staying still while everyone else is moving forward. And I've been getting rejected from all these internships and everyone seems to have these awesome internships and I'm just like so lost. So I feel you. Hang in there.
I needed this tonight 🥺 this is why you’re my favorite. You’ll get through it queen 🤍
Don’t worry kenz you’ll get through it I love u 😽
Thank you so much for sharing this, I think it's really brave ❤ i've been feeling so alone on days like this and seeing this totally helps
Keep your head up girly we love you and are proud of you!!
I compare myself to youtubers as well when they buy a brand new car, fix up a house beautifully, they can buy so many nice things and clothes . I feel so poor just going to work everyday not getting rich quick. I just want my debt payed off. I'm so overwhelmed with life .
i want you to know your not alone were with you dont cry😭 its ok if you feel down just tell someone it'll make u feel better i love u and your other subscribers are do u to🥰💕🌸
this video made me feel less alone. i’ve been feeling down the past few weeks too, and i appreciate your authenticity bc it helps make me feel a lot better🤍 just know that you are an amazing person with a beautiful heart and i love you so much and my life would not be the same without you in it:’) ps. my favorite thing to do when i’m having a bad day is to take a long walk, shower, journal or draw, and watch my favorite show😇 i love you kenzie
this is so cute and made me feel so much better. i love you.
This helped me so much I've been feeling off and I've just been stressed about everything but I've been focusing on the positive and journaling and it's been helping alot, this also shows that not everyone on social media is always happy and positive everyone goes threw somethings we all have bad days but it will be okay in the end it always is ily kenzie! also can we talk about that John Mayer tick tok 🌟
It’s sad to see how people focus so much on money and not being able to have as much as others. When life teaches you that having a somewhat decent paying job and having a peace of mind, being treated properly at work and in life, and having a healthy mental health is so much more important than having money. I’m saying this with love ❤️… there’s more important things than money. I learned that the hard way.
I needed this today, thank you
Mckenzie I loved this ! keep doing you boo, I know its so hard and comparing becomes easy but you're doing very great and just keep on going! I've always loved watching your videos, years now
i love you girl.
I also think your doing so well and I’m so proud of you 💕💕💕💕
this was so nice to hear thank you 🤍
i love u thank u for making this
seriously if u need that friend, im here. i need it too
Heyy McKenzie.. I know it’s tough to go through this but believe me it’s the right time to listen to what your mind is trying to tell you.. if you feel like needing a friend like a guidance try to find a life coach that’s why they’re there and they make life so much easier. Currently I’m in this position and I know that this would be the turning point in my life that’s why I chose help. I hope you feel better 💕💕💕💕
i’ve actually been thinking about getting a life coach tbh! i feel like it would benefit me so much. thank you for this, love you! 💕
“I have been my mentor for so long”
This helped me smmm I have been having a really bad week, I have sooo much work to do, my boyfriend has been ignoring me all week, and it’s really hard since I love him so much I don’t want to lose him and I don’t even know what i did. and everything seems so stressful, I have a huge decision coming up and I have no idea what to do and my seasonal depression is back and I just wanna cry and scream and ahhh