My Wife Refused To Allow Me Check Her Phone. I Want A Divorce! Naija Man On His 2 Month Old Marriage

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  • Опубликовано: 7 фев 2025
  • My Wife Refused To Allow Me Check Her Phone. I Want A Divorce! Nigerian Man Asks For Advice Regarding His 2 Month Old Marriage.

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  • @okwuazundidi6571
    @okwuazundidi6571 5 часов назад +8

    I think this is the first time I will ever comment on your video. I really love the first question you asked him. Bimbo of single and married, once said in one of her marriage lecture that if you are scared of loosing a relationship, then be ready to loose your marriage. Some people will ignore somethings in their relationship, thinking they can put an end to it in marriage. It does not work that way. According to the man, he thought it is not necessary. Maybe that man was feeling inferior, thinking he might loss the lady. In his mind, after having the lady in his house, he could pass order. That man is not man enough. Weldone. I appreciate every question you asked that man. The reason for courtship is trash out every thing that will not make marriage work..

  • @iamprincesunny
    @iamprincesunny 2 часа назад +3

    I told one of my friends here in New York why I have respect for Daddy freeze he got up set and never wanted to continue the conversation with me. There are few people I can honestly say that I respect genuinely in Nigeria. Daddy freeze is a great example in that country.

    • @vincentvwede1606
      @vincentvwede1606 Час назад +1

      My day is not even complete if I don't watch Daddy Freeze.

  • @juliakakoroma1729
    @juliakakoroma1729 5 часов назад +7

    This men saw a red seed, not a red flag. But he still went ahead marry this woman.

    • @whymillie
      @whymillie 4 часа назад +1

      Chop knuckle, make I order you 200k Suya. ABI you want more?😂😂 Very folash man! Mtchew. He just dey vex me.

    • @lawaladeshina1524
      @lawaladeshina1524 3 часа назад +1

      He actually want to see how red the flag will be

  • @vjesus4083
    @vjesus4083 6 часов назад +4

    Daddy freeze thank you for the advice you giving this man but remember you didn’t do this in your first marriage.Transparency comes with time and experience

  • @floraekwemo8108
    @floraekwemo8108 3 часа назад +3

    2 months into my marriage, my ex won't allow me to see his phone , the worst is if he is going to toilet he goes to toilet with his 2 phones . We live in London. He are both divorced from previous marriages. I ended the marriage. The guy married someone else I heard they are divorced now. There should be no secrets.

  • @binessat7392
    @binessat7392 2 часа назад +1

    She can’t stay out past 8 pm??? 😮 okayyy.

  • @sevibaba4062
    @sevibaba4062 6 часов назад +1

    Daddy Freeze. You are full of wisdom. I feel blessed listening to you.

  • @godwinabraham5572
    @godwinabraham5572 3 часа назад +1

    Ask am wetim him smoke😂😂😂

  • @chinonye2
    @chinonye2 5 часов назад +3

    In the good old days, people would have an wise elder give them counsel over issues. Now every small issue you’ll hear - leave, divorce

  • @Terratiger
    @Terratiger 17 минут назад

    I am not checking my partner's phone, she's not checking mine. Trust is key.

  • @tessyimogie8664
    @tessyimogie8664 5 часов назад +7

    Before you divorce her she must open the phone I am married for 17year now why will my husband not open my phone when I have nothing to hide. Make sure she opens it

    • @Judy.083
      @Judy.083 5 часов назад

      Seconded she must open that fon, watin she de hide marriage of 2monthssssss honey moon never even start sef, arrange nonsense, also let's be sure the man is transparent as well how sure are we that he allows her to touch his fon? Becos I smell do me I do you 😂😂😂😂

    • @SomeMen-g7d
      @SomeMen-g7d 3 часа назад

      Your question should be why won’t your husband open your phone?

  • @harryflores4977
    @harryflores4977 6 часов назад +3

    The man got married to a total stranger. It’s obvious she has something to hide to have gone that far of going to block or retrieve her line.

  • @Benchmark243
    @Benchmark243 3 часа назад +2

    Get out of that marriage before you raise someone else's children. No man should doubt the paternity of the children he is raising. Please man up and leave that woman.

  • @Benchmark243
    @Benchmark243 4 часа назад +1

    Na wetin make my ex refuse my proposal because I no gree make she get another man. I suffered but I had the courage to end it quickly when I realised she was using me.

  • @osaruguewhittaker7780
    @osaruguewhittaker7780 7 часов назад +6

    Wich one be exactly the a good wife..I am a good woman but they treat us like trash..I have to stay on my line

  • @janembonu1410
    @janembonu1410 7 часов назад +8

    Daddy freeze your wife is so lucky to have you because all these men you're seeing out there, including the one reporting his wife to you would never allow their wife to go close to their phone not to talk of going through the messages but they would want to check and go through every single thing in a woman's phone. Which is very annoying. My husband won't let me touch his phone, but he has passwords to my 2 phones and goes through it as he wishes. This is so unfair

    • @ubongambrose4066
      @ubongambrose4066 5 часов назад +1

      Well, Ecc7:28 - there are still far more good men on earth than there are women. My Ex had password and access to all my devices and social media accounts, but all hers were kept secret until one day she forgot to logout of her yahoo mail account when I picked up the laptop to check something, only to click on the browser and saw she was on dating sites interacting with men. Long story short, she already gave birth to other men's children while still married to me. Today, Nigeria is 2nd to Jamaica (another predominantly Black country) as country with the highest paternity fraud. Nigeria is also globally reputed as a country with the most unfaithful wives/women. You can fact check it

    • @Tpbabyface
      @Tpbabyface 5 часов назад

      No vex men are like that!!!

    • @Chief-yi8mo
      @Chief-yi8mo 4 часа назад

      Divorce the cheating idiot

  • @happiness5262
    @happiness5262 2 часа назад +2

    You are now crying after wasting money for wedding rubbish. Was she not doing this during courtship?? Yeyee man

  • @esiamawarripikin1951
    @esiamawarripikin1951 2 часа назад +2

    He is still defending her, i dont think he is ready.

    • @Defmonkful
      @Defmonkful 2 часа назад

      Yup...he has been pxxy whipped

  • @gloriannechuku4088
    @gloriannechuku4088 6 часов назад +4

    Oga, open your eyes while in courtship and close your eyes when you are married. When you are still dating, make sure you know your wife in, and you too should be open to your wife.
    As it stands, you should take it as it is, or you leave the marriage because I can sense toxicity brewing.

  • @ezenwadiwe7514
    @ezenwadiwe7514 3 часа назад +1

    Please, get a divorce. You're lucky it's just 3 months, and no children 😅😅

  • @BULLS-TELEVISION
    @BULLS-TELEVISION 13 минут назад

    You called the man, MUMU.
    I think that description fits the man, based on his own foolish testimony. The man doesn't deserve any pity.

  • @ablove277
    @ablove277 8 часов назад +6

    That woman has what she is hiding.If you cannot have the p/w of your spouse, vice visa,that's not marriage. Ihave thesame p/w with my husband of 30 yrs of marriage. Our chil knows our p/w too.

    • @Judy.083
      @Judy.083 5 часов назад +1

      Abi oooo, this matter tire me oooo

  • @bellor7167
    @bellor7167 6 часов назад +3

    Is not too late bro. To end the marriage, if she refused you access..., If she wants privacy, let her go single... some women have no good parental orientation. Bro. be patient, and go out there for better respectful and responsible ladies out there.

  • @XQRobertz
    @XQRobertz 7 часов назад +3

    In marriages longer than 5yrs husband and wife should have separate bathrooms to avoid boredom in the bedroom.
    You can still share phone-passwords tho but not bathrooms, yours sincerely !

  • @baronchi_86
    @baronchi_86 7 часов назад +2

    Baba don go marry OS 😂😂😂😂😂😂 just throw her away at least is still early to move on

  • @AlielhajiSall
    @AlielhajiSall 7 часов назад +2

    Daddy freeze you de talk my mind

  • @olascorner265
    @olascorner265 8 часов назад +8

    I really do not believe what this man is saying. He caught the wind of her being with the ex when he went to Abuja. That was a big red flag! He may have married her because of some things e.g finance. This man eyes just dey open now o!

    • @Judy.083
      @Judy.083 5 часов назад +2

      Big red flag, maybe she donate her heart ❤️ to him, because even kidney recipient no go marry who cheat on am.

  • @angelamanzini3497
    @angelamanzini3497 6 часов назад +3

    Why divorcing comes so easy????only 2 months marriage?????Noooo talk about it.Learn to talk things over.Set boundaries 🇿🇦✊🏾

    • @TchokomaAzy
      @TchokomaAzy 4 часа назад

      What exactly do you want to talk over a marriage of 2 months only she refused not to open her phone 📱 to his husband well this is what they call pure red flag I think I would advise him to save his life for this early time that God review it for him to avoid the story that touches the heart why because we have had enough

    • @jefbishop5514
      @jefbishop5514 3 часа назад

      We don’t tolerate cheating in my country

  • @MaryjoKasongo
    @MaryjoKasongo 7 часов назад +4

    The big question is does your wife check your phone if she does then you can check her own phone

  • @mamajojovegan
    @mamajojovegan 6 часов назад +1

    Daddy Freeze is a good husband

    • @nneorannekaa4428
      @nneorannekaa4428 6 часов назад +3

      DF is a good husband because he's married to another

  • @dizzyman123
    @dizzyman123 8 часов назад +1

    As a Leo, if that happens to me, I will do what boys do to the maximum before moving on.

  • @rotimiamuwo9423
    @rotimiamuwo9423 6 часов назад

    Marriage of two years can't be easily dissolved. You need leave of court if the marriage is less than two years unless the man can show that it has broken down irredeemably.

  • @chichialban3600
    @chichialban3600 8 часов назад +1

    Na waoo 4 dis man ooh

  • @mamajojovegan
    @mamajojovegan 6 часов назад

    Perfect

  • @gbengaidowu8320
    @gbengaidowu8320 4 часа назад +3

    @daddyfreeze, na you be the real mumu... Its not until you have full and unlimited access to your wife's phone before you marry her phone.
    You kan check a woman's phone and she kan still be cheating on you. Its all abt trust and not by checking phones. Make you dy talk with sense at times.

  • @Kemihealthylifestyle
    @Kemihealthylifestyle 6 часов назад +3

    Please ask him if the same lady has his Pswd to 14:13 his email, phone & social media

  • @PrinceCyrilChineduchinda
    @PrinceCyrilChineduchinda 7 часов назад

    Uncle freeze you the talk well.

  • @BrightJerry-eo5nk
    @BrightJerry-eo5nk 3 часа назад

    That guy na mumu from beginning

  • @Divinity11112
    @Divinity11112 7 часов назад +2

    The man marries one chance

  • @i0000-y3u
    @i0000-y3u 3 часа назад

    It's the ah for me

  • @mohammedDanladi-i6k
    @mohammedDanladi-i6k Час назад

    Wallah I’m scared everyday of getting married

  • @africanayasmin6210
    @africanayasmin6210 6 часов назад +3

    At least when you want to come on live to make a contribution, no offense but ensure at least you look presentable sisters. Some lipgloss; at least present your face and hair well; a nice top and don’t push I just rolled out of bed looks into our face. Peopke all over are watching. The look of this is how I am when I am at home looks, maybe presentable to you but not to everyone Haba 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️😉😉

  • @GiftGift-kw8eu
    @GiftGift-kw8eu 7 часов назад +2

    Na waiting fit men beta person way there go marry there no go Marry

  • @bettingpattern
    @bettingpattern 7 часов назад +1

    This is scary

  • @chrizarus365
    @chrizarus365 4 часа назад

    Mugu man 😂

  • @iseselechrisben2893
    @iseselechrisben2893 5 часов назад

    Oga, you made a big mistake when you were courting with her. You didn't check her phone before you both got married. Divorce is not the option now. please meet a professional counsellor.

  • @FlOmo-wy5ow
    @FlOmo-wy5ow 6 часов назад +3

    Some women may not want their husband to know things about her family so don't think it is all about having sffair

    • @Judy.083
      @Judy.083 4 часа назад

      In that case, she should open the fon and archive the family messages or tell him not to open family mesgs or insist she watch him as he checks whatever he is looking for.

  • @ucheiwuajoku1037
    @ucheiwuajoku1037 3 часа назад +2

    What if she's not hiding anything????
    Let's not make a mountain out of a mole hill

  • @MargaretOniero-s5h
    @MargaretOniero-s5h 6 часов назад

    This na Naija man?????

  • @Lovemervy
    @Lovemervy 7 часов назад +5

    Am not comfortable with anyone checking my phone for no reason. I have nothing to hid, but it a no no.

    • @oozyvsak47ll31
      @oozyvsak47ll31 7 часов назад +5

      Your husband should have all pwd to everything what the hell are you talking about

    • @AJ-B-25
      @AJ-B-25 7 часов назад +1

      💯

    • @mikolowiskamikolowiska4993
      @mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 7 часов назад +6

      If you're not comfortable with someone you should not marry them

    • @TEEDR5452
      @TEEDR5452 6 часов назад

      ​@@oozyvsak47ll31 You shouldn't not check it because it's her phone. If she says so.

  • @natdione335
    @natdione335 7 часов назад +3

    Please my question is, if there's no privacy privileges in marriage?

    • @oozyvsak47ll31
      @oozyvsak47ll31 7 часов назад +3

      Privacy in marriage? Are you ok?

    • @bellor7167
      @bellor7167 6 часов назад

      So what is the point of being married for such privacy. People like u no fit last with a responsible man.

    • @kpediaaa1
      @kpediaaa1 6 часов назад +2

      No

    • @vincentvwede1606
      @vincentvwede1606 Час назад

      Not when accountability is involved

  • @nwokochaadaeze1437
    @nwokochaadaeze1437 7 часов назад

    Some women have lost a good marriage because of Goodbye gbenching wuth their ex! It doesn’t make her a bad woman. She’s only emotional and may think she owes her ex.

  • @africanayasmin6210
    @africanayasmin6210 7 часов назад +1

    You want to check her phone as if she’s a child? Your child? I don’t understand these men. Why would you want to look inside , and see what you don’t want to see ? Can’t there be some privacy?

    • @stevenwandell7718
      @stevenwandell7718 7 часов назад +6

      You are a joker. So your husband can't check your phone . Cheater 😂

    • @Tpbabyface
      @Tpbabyface 4 часа назад +2

      Na dem
      That's why some of these girls remain single

    • @AnthonyTafon
      @AnthonyTafon 4 часа назад

      You want what kind of privacy when you took an oat of which part of it is two of you are now one? Are you crazy? If you are a woman, any man still doing anything with you should run away. You are bad market. Both husband and wife should have access to each others phone.

    • @vincentvwede1606
      @vincentvwede1606 Час назад +1

      What stupid privacy are you talking about....

  • @sheriaggi5166
    @sheriaggi5166 6 часов назад

    That’s too coercive 😢to check your spouse phone 📞.where do you have all this time 🕰️ 😂to

  • @FactsUncompromized
    @FactsUncompromized 7 часов назад +4

    My wife's phones too de my side anytime she is home, i see all her monies, emails and i have all, passwords, but out of my 2 phones na only 1 she can access ooh. She wont even try check the other one. Stories that touch will happen. She no even de check anyway, 15yrs blissful years in marriage. I WILL MARRY HER AGAIN. SHE WILL MARRY ME AGAIN TOO. OGA YOU BE REAL MUGU..YOUR WIFE DE KNACK OUTSIDE..

    • @Tpbabyface
      @Tpbabyface 4 часа назад

      God bless ur marriage my brother!!!

    • @whymillie
      @whymillie 4 часа назад +2

      Watin dey the other phone o😅

    • @FactsUncompromized
      @FactsUncompromized 4 часа назад

      @whymillie Haa, some akata i de work with and some eyinbo sef , sometimes de send randy pictures ooh..All these single mother's in their late 40s , and early 50s boredom wan kpai them, even some no mind make a nice married men de help them..Den don all lower their standard unintentionally..kongi and boredom wan finish them.

  • @FactsUncompromized
    @FactsUncompromized 7 часов назад +1

    Mugu you be