It is a good advice to talk with husband. But I think it is treatable and they both should resolve it by themselves first. Involving people in this matter can be harmful for mother and baby. They both are adult and had a good time before so talking about the issue is the best option in current circumstances. Women should also be advised to learn how to attract their husband as social media is full of colorful butterflies and they have to cope with it. And, there is no harm in it.
she was in a haram relationship for 7 years with his husband how can you find barakah in a relationship when its started with haram think about it ...i saw many cases those who were in a haram relationship for many years after the marriage they got divorced in 2 to 3 months You cannot live a happy life if you disobey Allah .....
There are many reasons to consider separating, and a lot of people may advise you to move on from your husband. But keep in mind, this decision will affect your whole life. Relationships with family members might also change; some may even see you as a burden, especially if they’re already managing their own families. Waiting for a new marriage proposal can be difficult, and some proposals might come from men who are already married or are looking for a second wife, which can be challenging. As someone who cares about you like a brother, I suggest trying to help your husband first. Take him to a rehabilitation center, seek medical help, and try to meet his emotional and physical needs as much as possible. Many people struggling with addiction want to break free but feel powerless on their own. Support him as you would care for someone who’s struggling, even if it’s hard. This effort could lead to a positive change in him, and the respect he’ll gain for you could be beyond what you expect. I sincerely hope and pray for the best for both of you.
In my opinion, video calling with girls is become a habit of him. Since you mentioned that you have been in relation with him for 5-7 years (or whatever) this whole time he has become habitual to this part. I am not sure if it is love because love has no concept of cheating and ignoring other's emotions. He just doesn't want to lose someone with whom he has become attached. He might feel lonely that's why he is not letting you go. And yes please be clear with the terms love and attachment. He won't understand emotions now.
Big red flag on her behalf too , she enjoyed when her husband goes against his parents for her, and when he is doing something to her then she be like😭😭😭😭, dont know what's wrong in this generation.
In this situation, as far as I believe she needs to push him to connect towards deen, ask him to spend more times with tableeghi jamat i-e 3 days, 10 days etc..further incline more towards deen, pray tahajud. Evil eye and wrong doings is something which can't be ignored..
If a husband can tolerate discussions about remarrying or taking a second wife in front of his current wife, then he should also be prepared to accept the consequences of his actions. This includes the possibility that his wife may seek comfort or companionship elsewhere.
Bewaquf log apni problems ka hal in baba ji se puchte hen. How can you guide someone when you don't know who they are and what's their family background. People only tell you their side of the story. There's always been two sides of the story. Anyways, listening to you is a good time to pass.
Ganji uncle one suggestion - try to keep the question reading short. Rather you can spare a few minutes to read the question yourself PRIOR to recording and then present the gist of the question to viewers along with your answer/solution. Reading the entire Q is time consuming and mostly not needed for listeners/viewers. Just a suggestion since Im a digital marketing professional and know a thing or two about online user behaviour!
Kismat ki bat hy sab. aj ap cheater say talaq logi kal apko koi or burai wala mard milay ga e.g non working men or some thing. Jitna shor machao gi faida koi nhi hoga.
Ziyada tar patels jo India se aate hain America on green card, they show their siblings as spouses. Due to last name, it’s hard to tell if they are siblings or spouse.
I think he is addicted to these online video call girls. I think he need a psychologists and family consultant. If you can't think that she can talk to him or she can't become like them.
Dolat mand banda hy, jabhi yeh orrat razi hui thi. yeh nhi bataya iss saudi orrat nay.Baat asaan hy Allah nay mard ko 4 ki ijazat di hy agur woh 4 nhi kar rahay tu idher udher mon marna bardash karo nhi tu talaq lay lo simple. Jitni jaldi orratain yeh baat samjh lain utna acha hy. Good luck
You being a doctor doing family medicine and planning is irrelevant. You’re not a relationship coach/psychologist. Also what do you think the advice should have been ?
FEW THINGS. IF TEENAGE LIFE.. EARLY 20s ETC LIFE IS DIRTY... IT IS VERY HARD TO SEE THAT PERSON CLEAN DURING MIDDLE OR OLDER AGE... TEENAGE AND EARLY 20s... VERY IMPORTANT TIMES.. ___ NOW LOYALTY ETC ???? OVERALL, GENERALLY ???? WRST ???? MORE MEN ARE LOYAL... OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD ???? MORE WOMEN ARE LOYAL... AND OVERALL, PAKISTANIS ???? NEED TO BE VERY CAREFUL... _____ RELATIVES FRIENDS MARITAL RELATIONSHIP BUSINESS RELATIONSHIP WHATEVER.. PAKISTANI ???? OMG BE CAREFUL.... NEVER TRUST TOO EARLY.....
I generally like your content but how are you qualified to provide family / psychological advice like this? She needs to go to marriage counselling with her husband with a qualified professional. Please refrain from giving this kind of unqualified advice
It is a good advice to talk with husband. But I think it is treatable and they both should resolve it by themselves first. Involving people in this matter can be harmful for mother and baby. They both are adult and had a good time before so talking about the issue is the best option in current circumstances. Women should also be advised to learn how to attract their husband as social media is full of colorful butterflies and they have to cope with it. And, there is no harm in it.
she was in a haram relationship for 7 years with his husband how can you find barakah in a relationship when its started with haram think about it ...i saw many cases those who were in a haram relationship for many years after the marriage they got divorced in 2 to 3 months
You cannot live a happy life if you disobey Allah .....
bilkul bullshit response, tm aona fatwa apnay pas rakho,
There are many reasons to consider separating, and a lot of people may advise you to move on from your husband. But keep in mind, this decision will affect your whole life. Relationships with family members might also change; some may even see you as a burden, especially if they’re already managing their own families. Waiting for a new marriage proposal can be difficult, and some proposals might come from men who are already married or are looking for a second wife, which can be challenging.
As someone who cares about you like a brother, I suggest trying to help your husband first. Take him to a rehabilitation center, seek medical help, and try to meet his emotional and physical needs as much as possible. Many people struggling with addiction want to break free but feel powerless on their own. Support him as you would care for someone who’s struggling, even if it’s hard. This effort could lead to a positive change in him, and the respect he’ll gain for you could be beyond what you expect. I sincerely hope and pray for the best for both of you.
Not a good suggestion. She need to spice up things.
Such a great vlog❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
NOTHING'S GONNA HELP NOTHING'S GONNA HAPPEN
Wise advice, sit and talk like a friend not wife
In my opinion, video calling with girls is become a habit of him. Since you mentioned that you have been in relation with him for 5-7 years (or whatever) this whole time he has become habitual to this part. I am not sure if it is love because love has no concept of cheating and ignoring other's emotions. He just doesn't want to lose someone with whom he has become attached. He might feel lonely that's why he is not letting you go. And yes please be clear with the terms love and attachment. He won't understand emotions now.
Better to take psychologist counselling sessions as this may be related to addiction.
Big red flag on her behalf too , she enjoyed when her husband goes against his parents for her, and when he is doing something to her then she be like😭😭😭😭, dont know what's wrong in this generation.
In this situation, as far as I believe she needs to push him to connect towards deen, ask him to spend more times with tableeghi jamat i-e 3 days, 10 days etc..further incline more towards deen, pray tahajud. Evil eye and wrong doings is something which can't be ignored..
😅aur 3shadiya kr lega wo
If a husband can tolerate discussions about remarrying or taking a second wife in front of his current wife, then he should also be prepared to accept the consequences of his actions. This includes the possibility that his wife may seek comfort or companionship elsewhere.
A woman who had a video call relationship for 7 years complaining about his man having a video call girl obsession.... 😂😂😂
Bewaquf log apni problems ka hal in baba ji se puchte hen. How can you guide someone when you don't know who they are and what's their family background. People only tell you their side of the story. There's always been two sides of the story. Anyways, listening to you is a good time to pass.
Ganji uncle one suggestion - try to keep the question reading short. Rather you can spare a few minutes to read the question yourself PRIOR to recording and then present the gist of the question to viewers along with your answer/solution. Reading the entire Q is time consuming and mostly not needed for listeners/viewers.
Just a suggestion since Im a digital marketing professional and know a thing or two about online user behaviour!
She better needs to evolve herself and get independent. This is the solution of all problems
That's why Wonen Education and independence is important.
Pakistan me kon saree pahenta hai ???
Video thumbnail indian ko dhyan me rakh ke banaya gaya hai
In Karachi it is worn
@manhoosnick kya
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Ab ismei bhi conspiracy theory dikh gai aapko.
Is woman ko Mera ye mashwara k Tum us ko massage kr dia kro hahahhaha.
Woh bhi pregnancy me 😡
Kismat ki bat hy sab. aj ap cheater say talaq logi kal apko koi or burai wala mard milay ga e.g non working men or some thing. Jitna shor machao gi faida koi nhi hoga.
LIFE IS DEMANDING WITHOUT UNDERSTANDING
Ziyada tar patels jo India se aate hain America on green card, they show their siblings as spouses. Due to last name, it’s hard to tell if they are siblings or spouse.
I think he is addicted to these online video call girls. I think he need a psychologists and family consultant. If you can't think that she can talk to him or she can't become like them.
Junaid bhai refer her to a doctor
Dolat mand banda hy, jabhi yeh orrat razi hui thi. yeh nhi bataya iss saudi orrat nay.Baat asaan hy Allah nay mard ko 4 ki ijazat di hy agur woh 4 nhi kar rahay tu idher udher mon marna bardash karo nhi tu talaq lay lo simple. Jitni jaldi orratain yeh baat samjh lain utna acha hy. Good luck
aapke haath ki lakeren kaisi mit gye?
Ganju baba please ganja pun khatam karnay par koi tips aur totka batao ni 😂😂
I'm a doctor doing family medicine and planning and sorry to say but Junaid bhai this is pathetic advice
You being a doctor doing family medicine and planning is irrelevant. You’re not a relationship coach/psychologist. Also what do you think the advice should have been ?
ارے جنید بھائی کن چکروں میں پڑ گئے آپ اجتماعی زندگی کے مسائل پہ گفتگو کرتے تھے یہ مسائل تو انفرادی سطح پر ھر جگہ ھیں۔
جی ویڈو پسند آی ہے پورا version کہاں ہے-
Wrong suggestions
FEW THINGS.
IF TEENAGE LIFE..
EARLY 20s ETC LIFE IS DIRTY...
IT IS VERY HARD TO SEE THAT PERSON CLEAN DURING MIDDLE OR OLDER AGE...
TEENAGE AND EARLY 20s...
VERY IMPORTANT TIMES..
___
NOW LOYALTY ETC ????
OVERALL, GENERALLY ????
WRST ????
MORE MEN ARE LOYAL...
OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD ????
MORE WOMEN ARE LOYAL...
AND
OVERALL, PAKISTANIS ????
NEED TO BE VERY CAREFUL...
_____
RELATIVES
FRIENDS
MARITAL RELATIONSHIP
BUSINESS RELATIONSHIP
WHATEVER..
PAKISTANI ????
OMG
BE CAREFUL....
NEVER TRUST TOO EARLY.....
Ye waqi addiction case hai or ap apny husband ko kisi achy physiatrist ke pas bhi visit kerwayen
Allah Pak asanian farmaye ap k liye.
Ameen
I generally like your content but how are you qualified to provide family / psychological advice like this? She needs to go to marriage counselling with her husband with a qualified professional. Please refrain from giving this kind of unqualified advice
So in Muslim holy place he is doing all haram things on video call. I though your holy place is strict and all
Kon pagal log Junaid ko apni zindgi k masley bhejtay
Ye adami nahi dudhrega
first
Amma Dekh! Oh Dekh! Sada Taya Bhighra Jaye!