Its sad they need to get spammed on twitter to do a basic sanity check. It should be rather easy for a system to flag these reports as wrong. The reporter should be forced to upload a sample and say, when it was used. This way a system can probably handle some cases automatically and if not, mods can quickly check. Any serious report should have these infos.
@@Warrickomega I had a colleague who was mentally ill (he had spent over a decade in an insitution due to his mental problems), and thus his salary was paid by the social security system and not by the school. Free teacher for the school! Except, well, that he was crazy and prone to assaulting students. He adored me (we had some interests in common and I guess that's why he got so attached to me; he was the same age as my dad) and thus somehow it became one of my tasks to monitor him. He let his guard down with me and I could tell when he was going into an episode; he became super focused on his favourite hobbies, his speech sped up and he got this really laser focused stare. Since we also knew which students he hated, and thus would assault first, I then spoke to the vice principal and we made up reasons to collect these students from his classes for a week or so until he had calmed down. A couple of times he did assault students and then it was my task to sit down with him and tell him that he couldn't do that. He feigned innocense because in his mind he hadn't done anything as he didn't touch the students; his modus operandi was to charge from the back of the classroom and ram the desk into the student's stomach. Really, really dangerous stuff as he could seriously hurt their intestines. I was aghast that he was allowed to teach, and he was moved to spending most of his time as the school librarian. He still had some violent encounters with students, and then he called for me to rush over to diffuse the situation. He should have been stripped of his teaching licence long before we met. Yes, he was brilliant at the subject matter at hand. He could not teach at all and hated all students. Not that I am the greatest teacher in the world but at least I tried to balance teaching the subject with making sure the students understand the material and were doing fine in and outside of the classroom. Finally I burned out. There was this one student who broke me, and I've now been on sick leave for almost 14 years.
@@swedishmeatball4382 Thank you for sharing... that's definitely a rough story for sure. It's a part of why I really think Teaching could benefit from having psychological evaluations done to ensure that yes you're of a mindset that can do the job rather than be put in a position where you can do harm to people who are simply trying to learn.
I had a teacher who used eraseable pen in her grade book. She would remove grades and tell me I couldn't go to recess because I missed an assignment. She made a habit of going to the same one after awhile. It was a historical crossword puzzle and I memorized the answers after awhile. She said yet again that I missed it, and got me a copy out of her file cabinet. I took it, filled it out in like 20 seconds and handed it to her. She said "How did you do that?" I said "I do this one all the time". She got mad in a way that told me her lies were exposed. Of course, go against an adult and you're in the wrong no matter what. A friend of mine broke her window and I broke another.
The plagarism story reminded me of the time I was accused of plagarasing myself. One of my college teachers saw handwriting from 'multiple' people on one of my pieces of paper while walking around or something and called me and one of my groupmates out to the hall. My groupmate had seen me writing everything on that page myself. It pissed me off so much then and thinking about it makes me mad as it was so stupid. Everyone writes differently depending on the speed that you have to take notes for a class and you can't use electronics (this was around 10 years ago and notebooks were the prefered method of note taking). Story 2: The boyfriend sounds like my late grandmother, she used to start out in a certain 'mood' and would try to rile her target up and then she'd be calm and ask why they were so upset. OP needs to RUN not walk away. That is a toxic relationship and it's only going to get worse especially since they are in Psychology
The saddest part about story 2 is that often times mental health professionals can lose their license and certification if they seek out help themselves
Story 3: "tests" in relationships are toxic. Leave, and now. Go travel and don't come back. It will only get worse, and it's basically a form of gaslighting
On story 3, they both suck. It is obvious why the bf sucks, but regarding OP, who in their right mind either expects their relationship to survive while they go on a 6 month vacation when their SO doesn't like traveling? Who can even afford to go on a 6 month vacation abroad when they're young? She, through her actions, essentially said to her bf "you are less important to me than travelling." He got that message loud and clear, but unfortunately for everyone involved, rather than breaking up with her like he should have, he made a poor decision to open up the relationship, and when that didn't work out like he wanted, he kept digging himself a deeper hole rather than cutting OP loose.
First story: The same thing happened to me in middle AND high school. And the hell of it is, a family friend who was an English major took one of my pieces to his professor, who said that my writing style was on the level of his college students when I was a freshman or sophomore in HS. It frustrates the hell out of me that teachers discount their students' abilities and intelligence so much. I am now a teacher, and actively try to not do that.
The boyfriend who needs mental health help sounds like he needs it right away. Don’t try to make him better it’s not gonna work he needs to help himself personally in my opinion I would get away from him as far as possible until he gets it together.
There is some truth to the first step towards recovery: admitting you have a problem. A lot of the time people don't admit for the reasons of pride, denial or ignorance.
I feel like "I know you plagiarized this, because no eighth grader has the ability to write like this," can be classified as ageism, and could have totally been lawsuit worthy
Story 2. Imagine those problems but for the rest of your life. I read something on a dating tips site that really stuck with me- don't choose a date you wouldn't choose as a mate. I really wish I would have read that before meeting my ex.
I had a Geography teacher that made us draw a map from a book and then accused me of tracing it and made me redraw it while he watched, and surprise surprise it looked almost identical to the one I had initially drawn, seriously a waste of time. 😑
Related to story 1: We had a bad teacher in our high school that gave a kid a C on his editorial because she didin't like his opinion. Not how that works.
I do agree with what the narrator said about the boyfriend In the third store, but what I don't understand is how it's not a red flag that the original poster wants to go traveling while she "young." I don't know about y'all, but letting young woman go traveling alone in different countries is just begging for her to cheat on her boyfriend. You can't sit here and tell me that some young Spanish dude with chiseled jawline and a 8 pack abs wouldn't be able to woo her off her feet and cheat on her significant other. I see where the narrator is coming from about the boyfriend but it seems to me the narrator doesn't see where the boyfriend is coming from about the original poster's trip. I don't understand why people think that clubbing, partying, or going to bars, or going on a out-of-country trip without their significant other isn't a red flag, like doing those things is single bish behavior regardless of the gender and isn't appropriate for somebody in a relationship. Most people don't understand that relationships mean you have to stop doing certain things and not only consider your feelings but your significant other's feelings.
did you completely miss the part where she _wanted her boyfriend to come with her and he rejected that?_ like dude, she literally first wanted to go travelling and take him with her. why would she offer to take him if she wanted to cheat.
Story #3 sounds to me like she didn't consider if her boyfriend would or even could go travailing with her and she made a decision that would affect their relationship without considering the other person. Wail i agree he was a jerk with the whole open relationship thing and I agree at that it is a red flag but looking at the framing he flat out said "t was to help him when she inevitably broke up with him. I also think it a pretty big red flag that not only dose she offer a break instead of just breaking up but it only took 2 days for her to change her mind about an open relationship despite not wanting it make me think she probably would have cheated if he would stay with her wail she travailed. There's also just to little info about why he wouldn't go to say hes a jerk for not dropping everything to play a 3-4 month trip out of the county.
She changed her mind because she wanted to do it for him, because else they would have to break up. Same for the break instead of breakup. She wants to stay with him so desperately she would hurt herself (emotionally) to be able to be with him.
Story 3: That guy does have about load of red flags but I'm gonna defend open relationships against the narrator here. Unfortunately a lot of people do use an open relationship for the reasons listed, but for some of us it's a necessity in a relationship. Personally I don't like the idea of monogamy because I'm asexual and have trauma around adult times, so I would rather know I've given my partner permission to see other people and even get to know my partner's partners so I can be friends with them and know my partner is safe
Story #2, my husband does that to me... Accuses me of having an attitude when I do not... Nothing puts me in a bad mood or gives me an attitude like being repeatedly told I have one when I do not... Sometimes it feels like he does it to avoid having to do anything because of MY bad mood... I know he is a narcissist; I just didn't realize how much of one he was before we got married...
14:57 for this situation I agree but I Also wouldn't say it's completely a red flag. I think if it's talked about [in a poly style or non monogamous relationship education and communication ks key] and healthily presented without coercion it could be fine
Dude, that shop chef should have played a short game of find the object, like 10 minutes max, then revealed in his hand and then lecture the crew. Yes, it would teach a lesson but doing it longer is a violation hazard.
I was accused of cheating on a fairly large project by my 4th grade teacher. Long story short she didn't believe that I didn't cheat (she hated my guts so ofc she didn't) and gave me a big fat F). Long story short my parents had to come in amd show her, with photographic evidence, that I did in fact NOT cheat. Good times
Story 2.. if ypu think his mental is on a power tripping think again .. i smell another girl messing up his "Menthol Health" .....OP get a grip think well you deserve better not bitter 😊
this teacher sounds like a karen, when she wants proof of rather or not you did your work and she wants you to show her proof about you doing a project and accuses you of cheating .
Why do people have so much trouble to see their bad relationships and expect people to chime in on yeah you are good... you are not obviously, the moment you are telling your story to the internet, it is obvious this is NOT OK... why?
this reminds me of a little bit of a problem I had when I was in high school. I'd always been a good student, especially in math and science, but then the thing I hated most about science came up the thing I despised with all my being a science fair. I hate science fairs mostly because they have very little to do with science and they are never fair. they above and beyond are more about how pretty you can make it than they are about the actual scientific work. I don't have much in the way of artistic talent so they had always been a problem with me. give him the fact that they had about as much to do with science as a cheeseburger has to do with rocket fuel. I did a project having to do with the understanding of how magnetic fields affect things. but again I have no artistic talent so I was judged poorly and I got am f. this would not stand. I talked to the teacher extensively repeatedly and vehemently over the fact that we were promised that we would have an interview and I did not get one when she said that it wasn't all that important. I said that it was her standard of the actual thing that was being measured and I would not take an f without her giving me the full opportunity that every other person in the class was given. she probably realized that I was my next move was to be to go to the principal and let them know that she was unfairly giving advantages to others. she agreed to let all the people who weren't given an interview the chance to interview. because of my last name being at the end of the alphabet I was going to be the last person to be interviewed. now, as I said before, I'm really good with science and I had actually looked up information on all of the projects that had been going on in my grade group. when others came up to give their interview I asked them questions and took them apart because when my turn was I wanted them to try and destroy me. I wanted them to ask questions to annihilate my premises and no with absolute certainty that I would be able to defend them. That is exactly what happened. they asked me question after question. they asked me things that had nothing to do with the premise of my science experiment and I answered those too. all the while looking the teacher in the eye and glaring at her as if to say this is what you gave me an f for. My grade was changed to a b after she realized that I actually understood science and that I put in the proper effort. I did the right research. I just wasn't as fancy as the people who got the actual good grades.
For story 1 one time my handwriting was so good I think in 6th grade My teacher asked me who actually did it like if my teacher help me and since I obviously said no one she put it down as a zero😢
Story 2 i think the OP is basically acting needy and not being entirely receptive to the bf. While admitting he has issues is still goingon and on about her issues. But is not receptive to people dealing with shit differently. While he needs to find shit to help himself she also needs to either leave or actually help not just complain.
When I was in the Air Force, our flight chief would do this stuff to teach people a lesson and make us stay late an hour or two. But that was it. Unsecured tools is a huge no-no and people would get the message instead of getting secret paper work and having to go see the commander
Now time to fix you end of story commentary it’s really kind of lazy annoying that all you do is sum the story up give us actual thoughts and such don’t just sum it up or sum it up in answer
what does horrible woman who mistakenly calls herself a teacher dead is inherently illegal by the basic standards of United States law. a person is innocent until proven guilty periid there is no if I feel like it to that. it is law
I had a teacher once that accused me of doing my homework right before class started instead of doing it at home just because it was not crumpled or folded because I kept it in a folder even after I explained that my mom helped me with the assignment she still didn't believe me
2nd story - If your health is being affected by your boyfriend, you need to get rid of him. I certainly wouldn't put myself at risk for the sake of someone else being a head case. I don't understand why this is such a hard concept and why OP is asking for advice. It seems like common sense.
After watching those with true mental illness and having had extensive experience with them, I would say that if you are a nominally sane person who is getting to be in a close relationship, you should think long and hard about about a person who has a verified mental illness. I've seen couples try for several months or years to make the relationship work and then finally auto destruct. A young man had severe manic depressive illness and found a really nice girlfriend. She knew and struggled for over a year with him. He had several breaks and spent several months in a medical facility. She loved him -- she really did, but in the end, it was all too hard for her to continue and reluctantly broke up with him. But this isn't one story. I've seen dozens of them go a similar direction. You can take on a mentally ill person. It could work, but you have to know what you are doing and be keenly aware. Or you might just go the more sensible easier natural route and find someone who doesn't have the severe problems. It is so much easier. Often the trials and struggles just aren't worth it long term.
2) wow that's a tough position you are in. He's bringing his work home with him even if he doesn't realize it. And working in the mental health field he should know the symptoms and seek help. It's ok to get help even no matter what work you do. You might want to move out and really give each other space and time the travel girl, he's just a toxic person who is jealous about your wanting to go out and see the world. And the open relationship nope bye bye
2 story they are the jerk cuz I mean it's not his fault it's his job which gets his mental heath down and also it is his fault for not getting help but it sounded like they were being a tad selfish
I start to asking myself, what they see on them? Because if is the good looking only ... OH BOY! i think we know where the problem in almost all relationships too. Guy got mental help and she is helping him: NOPE! you're the problem. Girl wants to travel with him and wants him to tag along too: "NOPE! because i don't feel and i want you here" Honestly ... again i don't know what they see on them because it looks more like a toxic relationship they gaslight into them.
That's why I look at people for who they are. Anyone who has the looks of a perfect 10 raises an automatic yellow flag for me as they could be toxic on the inside. That is, of course, assuming I'm casting my line in the first place.
@@JamesDavy2009 exactly. honestly dunno but they could save some troubles laterally if they look into their partner and reevaluate if the relationship works instead of just asking.
I used to be in a relationship, where my boyfriend would insist on sex, despite me not feeling like it. I suggested an open relationship, so he could get what he wanted, without breaking up. I tried breaking up, too, but he refused and everyone I asked for help insisted that I had no reason to break up with him (since my feelings were dismissed as "fear", I didn't realise until later that I'm really not into boys)
My point being, opening a relationship seems like someone's realising that the relationship doesn't give him what they need, but doesn't want to give up on it. Or maybe they don't know how to tell when a relationship doesn't work. I myself didn't realise I was in a relationship until I was told by my teachers
I like how he gets upset that the shop chief wasted the soldiers weekends. As if that isn't a regular thing that the military just does just because. XD
I left my shoes outside the front door because it was wet often and I would track mud and get in trouble. I was looking for my shoes and dad said a bum stole them. I had to go to school and they were my only shoes. Dad's friend was over and he got them out of a closet, handed them to me and said "You're lucky he's here. Now go to school!" I don't talk to my dad much or my mom at all
I'm hoping this isn't the US or was back in the day. I remember my grandpa only getting one pair of shoes a year and had to make them last, so he had to be careful with them. If this was modern day, I'd be tempted to refuse to go to school without the shoes, especially if part of the school uniform. Not being able to properly clothe your child would be a good way of getting CPS called on the parents.
@@benwagner5089 This was Seattle in the 90s. I really wish someone had called CPS the way he would hit, yell, order around, I'm actually going to start my own channel because I have so many of my own stories
"Prove you didn't cheat."
That's not how evidence works.
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It's not? Isn't the point of evidence to prove something or a lack of something?
@nyotamwuaji6484 but how the hell do you prove you didn't cheat?
@nyotamwuaji6484 Usually, that falls on the person making the claim.
@@nyotamwuaji6484nope it’s up to the accuser to prove that accused is indeed guilty!
Thank god RUclips team saved this channel
Wait is that what happened?
Its sad they need to get spammed on twitter to do a basic sanity check.
It should be rather easy for a system to flag these reports as wrong. The reporter should be forced to upload a sample and say, when it was used. This way a system can probably handle some cases automatically and if not, mods can quickly check.
Any serious report should have these infos.
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@@wumwum42 Exactly.
@@wumwum42 Yeah its sad
story 1: as you see that the school system is messed up because of people like that teacher hate children
You really have to wonder how some people are allowed to become teachers.
@@QuickManEXE your right
@@QuickManEXE I'm surprised Psych Evals are not mandatory for Teachers.
@@Warrickomega I had a colleague who was mentally ill (he had spent over a decade in an insitution due to his mental problems), and thus his salary was paid by the social security system and not by the school. Free teacher for the school! Except, well, that he was crazy and prone to assaulting students. He adored me (we had some interests in common and I guess that's why he got so attached to me; he was the same age as my dad) and thus somehow it became one of my tasks to monitor him. He let his guard down with me and I could tell when he was going into an episode; he became super focused on his favourite hobbies, his speech sped up and he got this really laser focused stare. Since we also knew which students he hated, and thus would assault first, I then spoke to the vice principal and we made up reasons to collect these students from his classes for a week or so until he had calmed down.
A couple of times he did assault students and then it was my task to sit down with him and tell him that he couldn't do that. He feigned innocense because in his mind he hadn't done anything as he didn't touch the students; his modus operandi was to charge from the back of the classroom and ram the desk into the student's stomach. Really, really dangerous stuff as he could seriously hurt their intestines. I was aghast that he was allowed to teach, and he was moved to spending most of his time as the school librarian. He still had some violent encounters with students, and then he called for me to rush over to diffuse the situation.
He should have been stripped of his teaching licence long before we met. Yes, he was brilliant at the subject matter at hand. He could not teach at all and hated all students. Not that I am the greatest teacher in the world but at least I tried to balance teaching the subject with making sure the students understand the material and were doing fine in and outside of the classroom. Finally I burned out. There was this one student who broke me, and I've now been on sick leave for almost 14 years.
@@swedishmeatball4382 Thank you for sharing... that's definitely a rough story for sure. It's a part of why I really think Teaching could benefit from having psychological evaluations done to ensure that yes you're of a mindset that can do the job rather than be put in a position where you can do harm to people who are simply trying to learn.
I had a teacher who used eraseable pen in her grade book. She would remove grades and tell me I couldn't go to recess because I missed an assignment. She made a habit of going to the same one after awhile. It was a historical crossword puzzle and I memorized the answers after awhile. She said yet again that I missed it, and got me a copy out of her file cabinet. I took it, filled it out in like 20 seconds and handed it to her. She said "How did you do that?" I said "I do this one all the time". She got mad in a way that told me her lies were exposed. Of course, go against an adult and you're in the wrong no matter what. A friend of mine broke her window and I broke another.
Please continue breaking her windows. I don't care if it's 40 years later, if she's still alive, keep doing it.
She deserved a bit more than 2 broken windows
The plagarism story reminded me of the time I was accused of plagarasing myself. One of my college teachers saw handwriting from 'multiple' people on one of my pieces of paper while walking around or something and called me and one of my groupmates out to the hall. My groupmate had seen me writing everything on that page myself. It pissed me off so much then and thinking about it makes me mad as it was so stupid. Everyone writes differently depending on the speed that you have to take notes for a class and you can't use electronics (this was around 10 years ago and notebooks were the prefered method of note taking).
Story 2: The boyfriend sounds like my late grandmother, she used to start out in a certain 'mood' and would try to rile her target up and then she'd be calm and ask why they were so upset. OP needs to RUN not walk away. That is a toxic relationship and it's only going to get worse especially since they are in Psychology
The saddest part about story 2 is that often times mental health professionals can lose their license and certification if they seek out help themselves
She seems like the person who tells you they have a boyfriend after you just tried asking them what aisle the pickles are
she should break up with him.
With story u mean?
@@AnnieChess what do you mean she's mean?
@@viviennemorgan7217 i didin't say shes mean i just asked what story she talks about
@@AnnieChess ok
Story 3: "tests" in relationships are toxic. Leave, and now. Go travel and don't come back. It will only get worse, and it's basically a form of gaslighting
On story 3, they both suck. It is obvious why the bf sucks, but regarding OP, who in their right mind either expects their relationship to survive while they go on a 6 month vacation when their SO doesn't like traveling? Who can even afford to go on a 6 month vacation abroad when they're young? She, through her actions, essentially said to her bf "you are less important to me than travelling." He got that message loud and clear, but unfortunately for everyone involved, rather than breaking up with her like he should have, he made a poor decision to open up the relationship, and when that didn't work out like he wanted, he kept digging himself a deeper hole rather than cutting OP loose.
First story: The same thing happened to me in middle AND high school. And the hell of it is, a family friend who was an English major took one of my pieces to his professor, who said that my writing style was on the level of his college students when I was a freshman or sophomore in HS. It frustrates the hell out of me that teachers discount their students' abilities and intelligence so much. I am now a teacher, and actively try to not do that.
As a person who has dated someone like that, he sounds like a narcissist they are very dangerous. Don’t let them control you!
The boyfriend who needs mental health help sounds like he needs it right away. Don’t try to make him better it’s not gonna work he needs to help himself personally in my opinion I would get away from him as far as possible until he gets it together.
There is some truth to the first step towards recovery: admitting you have a problem. A lot of the time people don't admit for the reasons of pride, denial or ignorance.
@@JamesDavy2009 or if you are in the mental health industry if you try and get help, they shut you down and you wont be able to work there anymore
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May AITJ live on for eternity!
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I feel like "I know you plagiarized this, because no eighth grader has the ability to write like this," can be classified as ageism, and could have totally been lawsuit worthy
Story 2. Imagine those problems but for the rest of your life. I read something on a dating tips site that really stuck with me- don't choose a date you wouldn't choose as a mate. I really wish I would have read that before meeting my ex.
Finally! A video today that ISN’T an April Fools prank!
I had a Geography teacher that made us draw a map from a book and then accused me of tracing it and made me redraw it while he watched, and surprise surprise it looked almost identical to the one I had initially drawn, seriously a waste of time. 😑
ive been binging this for so long
Related to story 1: We had a bad teacher in our high school that gave a kid a C on his editorial because she didin't like his opinion. Not how that works.
I do agree with what the narrator said about the boyfriend In the third store, but what I don't understand is how it's not a red flag that the original poster wants to go traveling while she "young." I don't know about y'all, but letting young woman go traveling alone in different countries is just begging for her to cheat on her boyfriend. You can't sit here and tell me that some young Spanish dude with chiseled jawline and a 8 pack abs wouldn't be able to woo her off her feet and cheat on her significant other. I see where the narrator is coming from about the boyfriend but it seems to me the narrator doesn't see where the boyfriend is coming from about the original poster's trip. I don't understand why people think that clubbing, partying, or going to bars, or going on a out-of-country trip without their significant other isn't a red flag, like doing those things is single bish behavior regardless of the gender and isn't appropriate for somebody in a relationship. Most people don't understand that relationships mean you have to stop doing certain things and not only consider your feelings but your significant other's feelings.
did you completely miss the part where she _wanted her boyfriend to come with her and he rejected that?_ like dude, she literally first wanted to go travelling and take him with her. why would she offer to take him if she wanted to cheat.
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Story #3 sounds to me like she didn't consider if her boyfriend would or even could go travailing with her and she made a decision that would affect their relationship without considering the other person. Wail i agree he was a jerk with the whole open relationship thing and I agree at that it is a red flag but looking at the framing he flat out said "t was to help him when she inevitably broke up with him. I also think it a pretty big red flag that not only dose she offer a break instead of just breaking up but it only took 2 days for her to change her mind about an open relationship despite not wanting it make me think she probably would have cheated if he would stay with her wail she travailed. There's also just to little info about why he wouldn't go to say hes a jerk for not dropping everything to play a 3-4 month trip out of the county.
She changed her mind because she wanted to do it for him, because else they would have to break up. Same for the break instead of breakup. She wants to stay with him so desperately she would hurt herself (emotionally) to be able to be with him.
Story 3: That guy does have about load of red flags but I'm gonna defend open relationships against the narrator here. Unfortunately a lot of people do use an open relationship for the reasons listed, but for some of us it's a necessity in a relationship. Personally I don't like the idea of monogamy because I'm asexual and have trauma around adult times, so I would rather know I've given my partner permission to see other people and even get to know my partner's partners so I can be friends with them and know my partner is safe
I agree. To me the only thing toxic about the open relationship was that it was a test.
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U aren’t first
Teachers can be annoying
Third comment! Can't belive I'm this early!
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Just liked all comments including this one (video was 32 min ago)
I’ve copied a lot of stuff in middle school I’m not proud of it but the projects were just to easy to solve with a few google search’s
Story #2, my husband does that to me... Accuses me of having an attitude when I do not... Nothing puts me in a bad mood or gives me an attitude like being repeatedly told I have one when I do not... Sometimes it feels like he does it to avoid having to do anything because of MY bad mood... I know he is a narcissist; I just didn't realize how much of one he was before we got married...
I would recommend getting divorced before your (mental) health is in danger. I got away from a narcissist and it was eye-opening. You deserve better.
Not too late to get a divorce
Hopefully the place that you are located in has at-fault divorce.
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14:57 for this situation I agree but I Also wouldn't say it's completely a red flag. I think if it's talked about [in a poly style or non monogamous relationship education and communication ks key] and healthily presented without coercion it could be fine
Glad you guys are still here after that scandal 💯!!
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Dude, that shop chef should have played a short game of find the object, like 10 minutes max, then revealed in his hand and then lecture the crew. Yes, it would teach a lesson but doing it longer is a violation hazard.
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Story 1: When I was in Elementary or Middle School (Junior High) I had to do Current Events for one of my classes.
Day 22 of saying the same thing until I get pinned
Karen's getting destroyed is one of the best parts of my life
I was accused of cheating on a fairly large project by my 4th grade teacher. Long story short she didn't believe that I didn't cheat (she hated my guts so ofc she didn't) and gave me a big fat F). Long story short my parents had to come in amd show her, with photographic evidence, that I did in fact NOT cheat. Good times
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16:55: should be a huge No-No in life, period. Put other people's s*** back.
Story 2.. if ypu think his mental is on a power tripping think again .. i smell another girl messing up his "Menthol Health" .....OP get a grip think well you deserve better not bitter 😊
Story 2. He's got problems. He needs counseling. You may have to leave him
1713: totally good with the rules. Until it comes to following it... 😂😂😂
this teacher sounds like a karen, when she wants proof of rather or not you did your work and she wants you to show her proof about you doing a project and accuses you of cheating .
but i'm glad your mother got your back.
You really have to wonder how some people are allowed to become teachers.
@@QuickManEXE When there's a shortage, complacency is rife.
Why do people have so much trouble to see their bad relationships and expect people to chime in on yeah you are good... you are not obviously, the moment you are telling your story to the internet, it is obvious this is NOT OK... why?
12:24: big old red flag that he thinks you're going to break up when you offered all of those options about him coming with and visiting you
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this reminds me of a little bit of a problem I had when I was in high school. I'd always been a good student, especially in math and science, but then the thing I hated most about science came up the thing I despised with all my being a science fair. I hate science fairs mostly because they have very little to do with science and they are never fair. they above and beyond are more about how pretty you can make it than they are about the actual scientific work. I don't have much in the way of artistic talent so they had always been a problem with me. give him the fact that they had about as much to do with science as a cheeseburger has to do with rocket fuel. I did a project having to do with the understanding of how magnetic fields affect things. but again I have no artistic talent so I was judged poorly and I got am f. this would not stand. I talked to the teacher extensively repeatedly and vehemently over the fact that we were promised that we would have an interview and I did not get one when she said that it wasn't all that important. I said that it was her standard of the actual thing that was being measured and I would not take an f without her giving me the full opportunity that every other person in the class was given. she probably realized that I was my next move was to be to go to the principal and let them know that she was unfairly giving advantages to others. she agreed to let all the people who weren't given an interview the chance to interview. because of my last name being at the end of the alphabet I was going to be the last person to be interviewed. now, as I said before, I'm really good with science and I had actually looked up information on all of the projects that had been going on in my grade group. when others came up to give their interview I asked them questions and took them apart because when my turn was I wanted them to try and destroy me. I wanted them to ask questions to annihilate my premises and no with absolute certainty that I would be able to defend them. That is exactly what happened. they asked me question after question. they asked me things that had nothing to do with the premise of my science experiment and I answered those too. all the while looking the teacher in the eye and glaring at her as if to say this is what you gave me an f for. My grade was changed to a b after she realized that I actually understood science and that I put in the proper effort. I did the right research. I just wasn't as fancy as the people who got the actual good grades.
For story 1 one time my handwriting was so good I think in 6th grade My teacher asked me who actually did it like if my teacher help me and since I obviously said no one she put it down as a zero😢
Hi do you have TikTok channel becouse there is many copy cats there using your voice guys with many views
Story 2 i think the OP is basically acting needy and not being entirely receptive to the bf. While admitting he has issues is still goingon and on about her issues. But is not receptive to people dealing with shit differently. While he needs to find shit to help himself she also needs to either leave or actually help not just complain.
When I was in the Air Force, our flight chief would do this stuff to teach people a lesson and make us stay late an hour or two. But that was it. Unsecured tools is a huge no-no and people would get the message instead of getting secret paper work and having to go see the commander
Helloooooo
Therapy? Naaaah, i watch aitj on youtube looking for similar scenarios to know what narrator thinks
Please post what game your playing in the description. Sometimes I see games that I would like to try out but did not know what game it was.
Now time to fix you end of story commentary it’s really kind of lazy annoying that all you do is sum the story up give us actual thoughts and such don’t just sum it up or sum it up in answer
School system still isn’t as messed up as the RUclips copyright strike system
what does horrible woman who mistakenly calls herself a teacher dead is inherently illegal by the basic standards of United States law. a person is innocent until proven guilty periid there is no if I feel like it to that. it is law
The neglectful bf who refuses to get help just sounds like a guy who's not ready for a relationship yet
Should have just broken up with him when he asked for the Open Relationship
Holy shit that's rumble racing that was one of the best games ever when I grew up!
among us
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Bro I also had a lazy social studies teacher… nah I’m joking he was awesome
It's relatively easy to at least get into most jobs as long as you have the talent and drive to do it... And more drive is needed to keep it...
Dude what the frick if some one saked for an openrelaton ship to ease a breakup id drop him right then abd thire
on the second story you sounded like a robot xD
Holy heck rumble racing I loved that game
This is so wrong. You are the accuser and it is upon you to provide evidance.
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big mistake for the upload date
I had a teacher once that accused me of doing my homework right before class started instead of doing it at home just because it was not crumpled or folded because I kept it in a folder even after I explained that my mom helped me with the assignment she still didn't believe me
...So what if you did??? Who cares WHEN the assignment is done, as long as it's done and in the teacher's hand when they ask for it?!
no 8th grader writes like a news writer
me: 👀👀👀
Is your youtube channel not going down?
"why don't you prove that I DID cheat"
So ASTATIC Am I the Jerk and Am I the Genius are making videos again. You and your team are the BEST!
2nd story - If your health is being affected by your boyfriend, you need to get rid of him. I certainly wouldn't put myself at risk for the sake of someone else being a head case. I don't understand why this is such a hard concept and why OP is asking for advice. It seems like common sense.
Background game? :D
After watching those with true mental illness and having had extensive experience with them, I would say that if you are a nominally sane person who is getting to be in a close relationship, you should think long and hard about about a person who has a verified mental illness. I've seen couples try for several months or years to make the relationship work and then finally auto destruct. A young man had severe manic depressive illness and found a really nice girlfriend. She knew and struggled for over a year with him. He had several breaks and spent several months in a medical facility. She loved him -- she really did, but in the end, it was all too hard for her to continue and reluctantly broke up with him.
But this isn't one story. I've seen dozens of them go a similar direction.
You can take on a mentally ill person. It could work, but you have to know what you are doing and be keenly aware. Or you might just go the more sensible easier natural route and find someone who doesn't have the severe problems. It is so much easier. Often the trials and struggles just aren't worth it long term.
2) wow that's a tough position you are in. He's bringing his work home with him even if he doesn't realize it. And working in the mental health field he should know the symptoms and seek help. It's ok to get help even no matter what work you do. You might want to move out and really give each other space and time the travel girl, he's just a toxic person who is jealous about your wanting to go out and see the world. And the open relationship nope bye bye
2 story they are the jerk cuz I mean it's not his fault it's his job which gets his mental heath down and also it is his fault for not getting help but it sounded like they were being a tad selfish
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I start to asking myself, what they see on them? Because if is the good looking only ... OH BOY! i think we know where the problem in almost all relationships too.
Guy got mental help and she is helping him: NOPE! you're the problem.
Girl wants to travel with him and wants him to tag along too: "NOPE! because i don't feel and i want you here"
Honestly ... again i don't know what they see on them because it looks more like a toxic relationship they gaslight into them.
That's why I look at people for who they are. Anyone who has the looks of a perfect 10 raises an automatic yellow flag for me as they could be toxic on the inside. That is, of course, assuming I'm casting my line in the first place.
@@JamesDavy2009 exactly. honestly dunno but they could save some troubles laterally if they look into their partner and reevaluate if the relationship works instead of just asking.
Say travelling one more time... 😂
yeah legally she has to prove you cheated
I used to be in a relationship, where my boyfriend would insist on sex, despite me not feeling like it. I suggested an open relationship, so he could get what he wanted, without breaking up.
I tried breaking up, too, but he refused and everyone I asked for help insisted that I had no reason to break up with him (since my feelings were dismissed as "fear", I didn't realise until later that I'm really not into boys)
My point being, opening a relationship seems like someone's realising that the relationship doesn't give him what they need, but doesn't want to give up on it. Or maybe they don't know how to tell when a relationship doesn't work.
I myself didn't realise I was in a relationship until I was told by my teachers
@@v3ru586 The word of the day is grooming.
I like how he gets upset that the shop chief wasted the soldiers weekends. As if that isn't a regular thing that the military just does just because. XD
Wait, not a hidden rickroll?
The first story reminds me of myself because sometimes my teachers would think I cheated because it was so good
If you assume your student is guilty until proven innocent, then you have no right to be a social studies teacher.
I left my shoes outside the front door because it was wet often and I would track mud and get in trouble. I was looking for my shoes and dad said a bum stole them. I had to go to school and they were my only shoes. Dad's friend was over and he got them out of a closet, handed them to me and said "You're lucky he's here. Now go to school!" I don't talk to my dad much or my mom at all
I'm hoping this isn't the US or was back in the day. I remember my grandpa only getting one pair of shoes a year and had to make them last, so he had to be careful with them.
If this was modern day, I'd be tempted to refuse to go to school without the shoes, especially if part of the school uniform. Not being able to properly clothe your child would be a good way of getting CPS called on the parents.
@@benwagner5089 This was Seattle in the 90s. I really wish someone had called CPS the way he would hit, yell, order around, I'm actually going to start my own channel because I have so many of my own stories
Oh thank god