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  • @TheDessyRayWay
    @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +16

    Hey babes! I’m hosting a group trip to Bali July 25-31st! 🥰🥰 here’s the trip itinerary/registration link if interested:
    www.trovatrip.com/trip/asia/bali/indonesia-with-des-aideyman-jul-2023

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      PRICING: $1995 (first few spots) / $2295 (regular pricing after those spots fill up). This price includes every single thing listed in the itinerary (activities, transportation, food, etc.). You are responsible for your own flight!

    • @yourfavpersuasion9385
      @yourfavpersuasion9385 Год назад

      good luck with a group trip!!

    • @jackiepittman9306
      @jackiepittman9306 Год назад

      Hey I'm a new subscriber where can I get the information on the wig and gel.

    • @BellaJudah
      @BellaJudah Год назад

      hey sis i love you and wanted to share what's been helping me mentally and spiritually get through difficult times. you mentioned your faith and last year I was where you are (just lost) but found IUIC on YT and they literally saved me because I learned who I was as an Israelite. if you ever have time just check out their channel(they have many and 24/7 teaching vids) You are a child of God and a jewel. Wishing you the best! Love your vids so far(new sub)

  • @happyfeet6663
    @happyfeet6663 Год назад +106

    Transparency moment? I subscribed because you have a job! It’s soooo refreshing to see a YT girly with an actual career. You have more to talk about and offer besides being a content creator, clothes, and shit. Shout out to my working girlies!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +6

      Shoutout to the working girlies!! 🥰🤞🏾 happy to have you here babe!

    • @0oohhhlala
      @0oohhhlala Год назад

      Yes!!!!

    • @cammiecam3032
      @cammiecam3032 Год назад

      Same💗

    • @ashavalii
      @ashavalii Год назад

      same!! love the chill everyday life vlogs 🤭🥰

    • @Tonell_Moon
      @Tonell_Moon Год назад

      Yes! You are amazing to watch. Love your content. ❤

  • @janaestephenson2501
    @janaestephenson2501 Год назад +151

    I rarely comment on RUclips videos but I had to when you kept saying you have a regular life so the vlogs gone be boring sometimes. Girl I’m a senior in college and trynna decide where to live when I graduate. Houston is one of the places that interests me so I’ve been watching a ton of Houston vlogs. Your videos are PERFECT. I’m gonna have a “regular 9-5” life as well so I’d rather watch this than girls turning up everyday and going out cause that’s not gonna be my reality. Your doing great loveeeee your videos please don’t stop. God is with you. Thank youuu for sharing your life with us beautiful 💕

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +10

      This just made my entire morning 🥺❤️ wow, thank you for the kind words. This motivated me more than you even know! Side note, congrats on almost being done with college! I hope your career path is everything you want it to be and more 🥰

    • @ShantrellYoung
      @ShantrellYoung Год назад +5

      Yes! We ALL have regular lives so yasssss relatable content! Lol 🫶🏾

    • @happyfeet6663
      @happyfeet6663 Год назад +4

      Okay so it’s not just me then! 🤣🤣🤣 I’m like PA… oh she has a job! I subscribed before I even started the video. 😂😂

    • @jeanellreynolds7291
      @jeanellreynolds7291 Год назад +1

      Totally agree.

    • @regrich8795
      @regrich8795 Год назад +1

      Very well said and i totally agree..

  • @LaShaynaMonique
    @LaShaynaMonique Год назад +6

    Just found your channel as I was debating Houston as a new location for me within the next year or so…
    Girl. You are so refreshing to watch! It’s a relief to finally find a down to earth black girl on RUclips that lives a regular life and is also a healthcare professional. I’m so over the constant display of luxury and unrealistic lifestyles. THANK YOU for everytime you share your story! xx

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Thank you for watching 🥰🥰 if you do decide on Houston, I think you will love it here!!

  • @sadymhotsha
    @sadymhotsha Год назад +16

    i pray you hit 100k this year, your content is so authentic, i feel so connected to your aura already..💖

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      You’re so sweet!! 🥹💕 I pray I do too. Let’s speak that into existence 🥰

  • @calyssajewel
    @calyssajewel Год назад +1

    Girl I’m crying watching the emotional chit chat. Walking in faith instead of logic?! That was beautiful and honestly gave me so much clarity personally. Wow

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Awww babe 🥹🫶🏾 I’m happy you resonated with this

  • @vanityquest4979
    @vanityquest4979 Год назад +6

    Subscribed! I have been trying to find more middle-class content creators with a career. I am a starting my first clinical job as a NP so this video is very relatable. Excited to binge watch your channel when I get back from grocery shopping.

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Welcome to the gang 🥰 so happy to have you here! Good luck at your first NP job 💕

  • @Calligirl45
    @Calligirl45 Год назад +9

    Crying doesn't always indicate sadness. You're human and it is a way for the body/soul to release. No apologies needed. You've done a lot in a short period of time...and speaking of period, you did mention that too. The vulnerability is refreshing and trust me we all go through that. Love your videos. And I'm quite a few years older than you are. Keep going!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Thanks for the kind words and support! I appreciate you 😘

  • @jay.fl0ws
    @jay.fl0ws Год назад +9

    I’m also transitioning to a new job and because it’s such a great opportunity the people around me don’t understand the sad feelings I’m having around it. You deserve to let yourself feel the feels and grieve the old life you lived and the person you were. Sending you love as you keep building this beautiful life 🫶🏾

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      Right back at you babe 🥰 Happy New Year!

    • @jay.fl0ws
      @jay.fl0ws Год назад

      @@TheDessyRayWay Happy New Year!! 🎉

  • @ms.t8313
    @ms.t8313 Год назад +31

    That’s impressive that you got 2 jobs in such a short period of time and a Physician Assistant job normally pays 6 figures so you go girl ! Good luck on your journey!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +14

      Lol we’ll keep in mind 1 is only as needed so maybe only like 2 shifts a month haha. But nonetheless, thank you! 🥰

  • @TierraStewart
    @TierraStewart Год назад +8

    I love you sis! And so incredibly proud. You deserve to cry whenever you body seeks relief after all you’ve endured and conquered through. Thank you for your vulnerability and showing up as your full self. ❤

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      I love you so much more sis 🥹❤️❤️ thank you!!

  • @BettieDee
    @BettieDee Год назад +8

    Well it’s about time I start seeing some bomb recommendations on YT! Love the content!!! New subbie*

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      *actual tears* I’m so happy you found your way over here sis! 🥰🥰

  • @cammiecam3032
    @cammiecam3032 Год назад +4

    Just stumbled across your page….Instantly subscribed. You’re not boring, it’s refreshing to see a relatable day to day life. Also, congrats on becoming a physician assistant and your new job. Love seeing black women winning. 💗

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      Thank you for those words 🥰 I appreciate you for watching!

    • @cammiecam3032
      @cammiecam3032 Год назад

      @@TheDessyRayWay you’re very welcome. thanks for having me. 🌸💗

  • @Yourfavorite3497
    @Yourfavorite3497 Год назад +5

    I’m so happy I found you! There’s not that many black physician assistant RUclipsrs on here ! Can you do more PA videos ? I recently just applied to PA school awaiting a response. You deff have a new subscriber ! ❤

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      Hey girl! Thanks so much for the support 😘
      Also, Congrats in advance because I'm sure you will get in!!
      As far as PA videos, I will be incorporating some PA stuff in my vlogs from time to time but not too much more than that lol I'm happy to answer questions you may have though!

  • @brandyt3890
    @brandyt3890 Год назад +2

    I don’t care what anyone says… I’m a registered nurse and flight attendant.. in the past have worked in the restaurant, grocery, and other retail industries as well as beauty.. NOTHING is more panic inducing than starting a new role in healthcare…. We literally are responsible for life.. and everyone is watching us in these crazy times!!! So I relate with every new assignment. And yes I still have days where the imposter syndrome takes over.. “who would let you be a nurse?” Lol then I have a bad ass shift and my purpose is reconfirmed!! Congratulations on your journey!!! NP school may be next for me but who knows. 💕💕
    SN: it’s super dope and affirming that you implemented a 4/10’s work week! 👏🏾👏🏾

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      THIS!!! I’m so happy I’m not the only one, whew. Thanks for watching ❤️❤️ and good luck to you if you decide to pursue NP! I’m sure you’ll do amazing 😊

  • @mom2suns857
    @mom2suns857 Год назад +1

    Omg I came to this video from your Amazon haul and when I saw that you’re a fellow PA (I’m a pediatric PA from NYC) I just had to subscribe! Congrats on your current and continuing success! You are literally a breath of fresh air in this YT space ❤❤ now lemme continue binging your videos!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Ahhh PA gang! 🥰🥰 thanks so much for watching and leaving such kind words

  • @loviaroberts293
    @loviaroberts293 Год назад +3

    Yayyyyyyyy to the normal ppl like some of us! This is what I will watch!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      Haha I love it 🥰 thanks for watching!

  • @StylexFelicia
    @StylexFelicia Год назад +5

    Been binge watching! I love your sincerity and vulnerability towards your career path and life. Your videos are very refreshing!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Thank you so much girl! 🥰🥰 I appreciate you watching

  • @msfeefee9980
    @msfeefee9980 Год назад +2

    It’s ok to cry hun! Let it out and let go… we all get overwhelmed and just need to let it out. God covers you and He’s with you. Meditate and He will reveal some things to you. Be blessed! 🙏🏽

  • @MsAllyGreen
    @MsAllyGreen Год назад +3

    Your channel is sooo refreshing!!! I’ve watched some of your previous videos. I want to say I’m proud of you! Your life update has truly inspired me to get back to who I am! ❤

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Awww thank you love! 🥰 I love that for you! 2023 were really becoming our best selves o can feel it!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      I*

  • @imstillme143
    @imstillme143 Год назад +3

    I’m a cancer too and I was very emotional around new years as well and you mentioning the full moon would explain why 😅 I’m also glad you spoke about imposter syndrome, I feel seen and I’m just grateful that you talked us through all your emotions out loud because it helped me gain insight as to why my anxiety is through the roof, I also started a new job as well so I can relate to you as well. Thank you for sharing this video🙏🏾

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      Aww us empaths have to stick together!! 😅 lol im so happy my video helped. Thanks for watching love ❤️

  • @journeyandbooks
    @journeyandbooks Год назад +1

    Watching this video, i have had 4 meltdowns today, also overwhelmed because I am moving... I am happy, but i am overwhelmed and scared and i am just finding myself crying... we got this!!!!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Whew I remember those feelings!! I promise it will all come to an end once the move is over love. You’ll have time to really relax your mind!

  • @whatwouldmygrandmado4312
    @whatwouldmygrandmado4312 Год назад +6

    you go girl! you've worked hard to get where you are and you just made a big move so you might still be in shock with the new job and the new home. I'd cry everyday lmao you're trying to adjust.

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      When you put into perspective like that I feel less silly 😂 thank you! 🫶🏾

    • @regrich8795
      @regrich8795 Год назад

      Keep your head up sometimes i feel down because i relocated to Texas solo but thriving and a lot of times there's no one to talk to. I've learned to accept the fact and be the best person I can be. As men we don't suppose to be vulnerable but I'm not afraid to express how i feel.

  • @missynova6471
    @missynova6471 Год назад +1

    New subbie! I'm also a PA who recently moved to Texas. It's so nice finding a RUclipsr who I can relate to

  • @movisions1128
    @movisions1128 Год назад +1

    YAAAAZZZZ!!! YOU ARE A BORN LEADER!!! KEEP RISING TO THE TOP!!!

  • @itskashima
    @itskashima Год назад +5

    For those on a budget I got those Zara pants on sale in January for $12.99 and saw that if they were available in your size they went even lower to $9.99 from $45.90. I made a short and community post on the sale for my subscribers.

  • @kerenataneshia
    @kerenataneshia Год назад +4

    New subbie here! I fell in love with your authenticity. Showing your everyday lifestyle is so soothing and refreshing to watch! 🤍

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      Ahhh welcome to the gang 🥰 and thank you! I appreciate that 🤍

  • @MeaganMelancon
    @MeaganMelancon Год назад +3

    These movies you keep dropping! I absolutely love ittttttt! Your content is so fire.

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      LOL! Literal movies 😂 thanks so much for watching love! 💕

  • @LaRennEstherTV1985
    @LaRennEstherTV1985 Год назад +4

    Awe, it’s okay to cry!! Crying is good for the soul.. I believe you are just grateful 😊. You got this and God us you!! Congratulations, you just got a new subscriber!!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      So true! Thank you so much and welcome to the family 🥰

  • @essysinterlude
    @essysinterlude Год назад +3

    Would love a video on your hair and beauty routines/appointments! I love your hair and how effortless it seems, im trying to find out whether weaves, tape-ins are best. 🤍🤍

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      Oooh such a good idea! I’ll definitely film a maintenance vlog soon! 🤍🤍 and as somebody who has had pretty much every type of extensions out, I would recommend sew ins from a protective and convenient standpoint the most! Tapes were my favorite but they aren’t a “protective” style, so be prepared to put heat on your hair constantly lol

    • @essysinterlude
      @essysinterlude Год назад

      @@TheDessyRayWay thank you!!

  • @rosiesanaa
    @rosiesanaa Год назад +4

    Your hair looked great through out the video.
    Thanks for posting and good luck at your new job! 🫶🏾

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      Thank you so much for watching 🥰 I appreciate you!

  • @alwayskrazy
    @alwayskrazy Год назад +1

    New sub! This is the first I’ve seen you and I personally love your regular life contact. In fact, it makes me think oh so my life is normal lol These full-time content creators vlogs are them at home, getting Amazon deliveries, going shopping at this designer store to the next while always at target or Trader Joe’s lol so believe me you’re vlogs is well welcomed and are just as entertaining as the one I mentioned

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Hey love! Welcome 🥰🥰 I enjoy all different types of vlogs so I just wanted to make sure y’all would enjoy this type too! Happy to know you do 😊

  • @nisid557
    @nisid557 Год назад +1

    Heeeey! Welcome to Houston!!!!! So, glad to see another raw and real entrepreneur sis who also works a 9-5. Sooo refreshing!
    When you were describing the company you work for, I almost thought for a split sec you were speaking about the urgent care that I work for. Anyway, welcome and can’t wait to see/hear about all of your successes! God bless ✌🏾 🫶🏾

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Thanks so much for watching love!! 💕💕

  • @LScott-hq7mm
    @LScott-hq7mm Год назад +3

    I'm a new sub and I'm loving the normalcy you show us! Please keep it up. Not too many people are showing us the real! Good luck with both new jobs! Don't look back on life, look forward because you have something beautiful to look forward to in life. You'll do great in your new chapter of life!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Aww thank you so much for the kind words. They mean more than you know! 🥰 welcome to the gang btw!

  • @jothisorthat
    @jothisorthat Год назад +5

    Congratulations on everything, babe! You deserve! And happy new year ❤

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      Thank you so much baby! Same to you. I hope it’s your best year yet 🥰

  • @haveboldfaith
    @haveboldfaith Год назад +1

    I’m a 1st time viewer & as soon as I saw you make weenies & eggs for breakfast, I subscribed. I think I’ve seen enough turkey bacon, salmon & asparagus for the rest of my RUclips viewership! Love it! 🙌🏾

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      LMAO! “Weenies & eggs” has me hollering 🤣🤣🤣 thanks for watching love!

  • @Bellyandconversation
    @Bellyandconversation Год назад +4

    I loveeee your videos! It’s the transparency you display that is giving me strength in my personal journey to move to TX and accomplish my goals that I have slept on heavy! 😂
    Happy New Year girl! You got this!!🎉😊

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      Thank you love 💕 Happy New Year! 🥰

  • @Jeanette3
    @Jeanette3 Год назад +1

    I’m moving to Houston soon too! I love your vlogs, very realistic and relatable. You’re so gorgeous btw! 💖 you resemble SZA so much 😍

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +2

      Omg congrats on your move! 🥰🥰 and thank you so much love. She’s stunning!

  • @catd1190
    @catd1190 Год назад +1

    Hello 👋🏾 your video “I moved to Houston” came across my feed so I started watching. I’m from Texas,currently live in Georgia and entertaining moving back to Texas. My niece moved to Houston last year and she’s trying to get me and her mom back, she’s a content business coach and branding photographer. I’m a Group Practice Manager and a lot older than you. I want you to know you make me proud, just listening to you talk about being a PA-C. Seeing a young brown girl in this role is everything. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Remember burn out is real, take care of you and get in the habit of indulging in self-care. Baby girl it’s ok to cry! You have a whole squad cheering you on, let’s go!🙏🏾💕

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Awww thank you so much for those kind and motivating words 🥹❤️ I appreciate it more than you even know. PS - you should move back to Texas 🤭

  • @Kimw2023
    @Kimw2023 Год назад +1

    Dessy I can totally relate to your emotions. After moving to a new state, finding a new church and just trying to adjust to the new was overwhelming for me. You like me are the happiest we have been in a long time. I have also been through the trenches because the last two years of my life has been just exhausting both mentally and emotionally. But I am good now. Stay strong you are fine!!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Thank you for those kind words. I pray everything on your end continues to get better and better 💕💕

  • @miriamheart
    @miriamheart Год назад +2

    Please do weekly vlogs!!! Ur so classy and just seeing what u do is entertaining believe me!!! Ur a huge inspiration and absolutely gorgeous❤️

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      🥹❤️ that means so much to hear! I will definitely continue. Thank you

  • @Princess8595
    @Princess8595 Год назад +4

    This was very relatable because people forget not everyday is glamorous and jammed pack with fun. I’m definitely you telling myself not to cry and it still happens 😂 I’m a Gemini though but I get the same way when I look back at my journey. You forced me to reflect with you and I got teary too 😅 congratulations on the new job! You got this and you’re not going to be the rookie for long, you’ll get into the swing real quick 👌🏾

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      Girl exactly!!! And lmaoooo ok great thank you for making me feel a little less psycho 😂😂 I appreciate you and happy new year baby! 💕

  • @Bgal31052
    @Bgal31052 Год назад +1

    Welcome to Texas! This was great. It was just like having you at the house hanging out. Blessings

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Aww I love that! Thanks for the welcome and also for watching :)

  • @theglamcouture6597
    @theglamcouture6597 Год назад

    i love watchin you channel! Like how real you are and your not afraid to show your emotion

  • @ashleyholmes5874
    @ashleyholmes5874 Год назад

    I couldn’t understand why I was drawn to your channel and spirit . But then I realized that we’re both cancers and along a very similar journey. I uprooted my entire life to move across the country for a career opportunity that didn’t work. I’ve gone through every emotion you can imagine. I’ve been feverishly applying to jobs and have had two interviews for a position that will take me back home and that I’m manifesting.
    I say all that to say that I see me in you and it brings me peace and comfort knowing I’m not on this journey alone

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      Aww you’re never alone 🥰 it’s all about just finding you tribe! I’m so happy you found a bit of peace from watching my video. God bless you and I pray everything works out

  • @regrich8795
    @regrich8795 Год назад +3

    Yes we do watch lbvs... One thing i want to add is don't let a mate come in and change your great path. Sometimes that happens and we are afraid to admit it. Keep up the great content you motivate me as well!!

  • @msfeefee9980
    @msfeefee9980 Год назад +1

    Great, welcome to Texas! I’m thinking of moving to Houston, Im in the medical field too and Houston is the place to be for that. I’ll be bk to see your videos to see how it’s going. Good luck!

  • @CiegiLaPriest
    @CiegiLaPriest Год назад +4

    Yes for sponsorships already!! We love to see it. Uploading AND TWO jobs?! Let me stop my excuses lol

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Lol!! Stopppp. I know how it gets trust me!

  • @treasurita
    @treasurita Год назад +3

    Literally in love with your channel!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Please don’t make me emotional 🥹🤍 I appreciate that!

  • @jothisorthat
    @jothisorthat Год назад +3

    Two times for the corporate baddies! You do it so well for us. And babe, the date look? Superb. I hope the date went well. ❤

  • @ms.latarya697
    @ms.latarya697 Год назад +1

    First time I have ever ran across any of your videos and watched it in its entirety. I will be tuning in for future videos! Congrats on your new job and everything God is doing in your life right now!

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      Welcome to the gang 🥰 I appreciate that love!

  • @jenifercovarrubias6538
    @jenifercovarrubias6538 Год назад +1

    Its ok to cry. sometimes we got to let out emotions. I'm so happy I found your channel. I also just moved to Houston after a divorce. I Look forward to watching the rest of your vids

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Thank you for the kind words! I hope all is well with you, and welcome to Houston 🥰🥰

  • @Socialbutterfly11
    @Socialbutterfly11 Год назад +3

    I see you like buying in bulk and I do too. ❤ Don't be afraid to do what you love like blog in the store. Love your content. ❤

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Lol yes it’s the best and so cost efficient! And yea I’m trying but I just get nervous lol. Thanks for watching love 💕

  • @badddgalsi
    @badddgalsi Год назад

    Hey babe! So happy I came across your videos. Finally someone who is relatable and living the best of both worlds in cooperate and entrepreneurship. Your videos are bomb and you have motivated me to get back in my content. Our stories are so similar and I’m sure you’ve heard that multiple of times. But I appreciate you and keep going 🤍 . And don’t be afraid to cry, crying is healing and good for your soul!

  • @leanaam.5385
    @leanaam.5385 Год назад +2

    New Subbie! Thank you for representing the 9-5 working ladies that also have a business and try to figure life out! It is appreciated ❤

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      Somebody has to do it! Haha thanks for watching love 😘💕

  • @CincerlyCaresa
    @CincerlyCaresa Год назад

    I just found your channel and enjoy the content... Especially how transparent, vulnerable and authentic you were sharing that things aren't always perfect and it's ok to cry. Welcome to Houston💕💕

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      thanks so much love. I appreciate you! 🥰

  • @danielle6334
    @danielle6334 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for being vulnerable. I am in the same place, I start a new role soon and you described my emotions to the T. I just found your channel and I love your content.

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      You got this babe!! ❤️❤️ thank you

  • @Iamaaliyahdesarae
    @Iamaaliyahdesarae Год назад +1

    One of my new fav RUclipsrs 🥰 i was watching one of your vlogs with my sister on my living room tv yesterday & she loves you too. She told me to send her your info ‘ I’m relocating back to htx in a month. & gonna get consistent on my vlogging 😊 waiting for my approval email for my new job! Keep up the great work doll! And btw you’re sooo beautiful and such an amazing inspiration for young black women.

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +2

      This just made my night 🥹❤️ tell sis I said I love her more! Thanks for watching and good luck with your relocation. I’m sure everything will work out 🥰

    • @Iamaaliyahdesarae
      @Iamaaliyahdesarae Год назад

      @@TheDessyRayWay yess ! Thank you doll ❣️ now we talk about you like you are a known house name 😂 & yes I accept your positive blessing! Keep up the awesome work & engagement with your subbies! We love you!

  • @classycassie1118
    @classycassie1118 Год назад +1

    Yes a content creator with a regular job as well! So refreshing. I'm subbing

  • @ashley_audacious
    @ashley_audacious Год назад +3

    Have you tried WearFigs scrubs? I’m a nurse practitioner and their scrubs are very flattering

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +2

      Girl I haven’t but I keep hearing great things!! Before this job I was in the hospital (hospital scrubs only), so I never had to buy scrubs. I think I’m gonna grab some Figs bottoms for sure

    • @ashley_audacious
      @ashley_audacious Год назад +2

      @@TheDessyRayWay girl this vlog is so good. you’re doing a great job and you’re so inspiring, the portion of the video where you were vulnerable with us really reasonated with me.

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +2

      @@ashley_audacious I appreciate you for watching and also receiving that chit chat so well. It makes me feel more comfortable to continue to open up with y’all 💕

  • @happyfeet6663
    @happyfeet6663 Год назад +2

    Oh shit you’re talking about reasonably priced pants? I just fell in love 😍😍😍

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Yessss omg they are some of my favorites! 🥰

  • @0oohhhlala
    @0oohhhlala Год назад +1

    I just discovered your channel! Your seem to be truly sincere and genuine. I love to see RUclipsrs/influencers with a life other than shopping and partying! Thank you!! #cancer

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Aww I appreciate that 🥰 thanks for watching!!

  • @prosperity4581
    @prosperity4581 Год назад +1

    I love the transparency! Congrats on your new jobs!

  • @ikiejones411
    @ikiejones411 Год назад +3

    I’m new to your channel and I love your videos congratulations 🍾 on all the new things in your life god bless you ❤

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Ahhh welcome!! 🥰 and thank you so much! Happy New Year 🎊

  • @cali_love5977
    @cali_love5977 Год назад

    Beautiful, smart, success and doing the most! That deserves a new subscriber 😊

  • @cupoftea434
    @cupoftea434 Год назад

    I’ve been dyinggg to find a new girlie to watch on YT, I def love your vibe 💕 You have a new subbie 🎉

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      I’m so happy to have you here! 🥰🥰

  • @culturedj3498
    @culturedj3498 Год назад +1

    She is such a great addition to Houston! You gotta love her! We are excited to have her 😂🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @Signedbynae
    @Signedbynae Год назад

    I just found your channel and I’ve been binge watching your videos this week! I love it!! Your content is amazing and very inspiring ❤

  • @perfumelover777
    @perfumelover777 Год назад +1

    Hi 🙋🏻‍♀️ I am new to your channel. I love how genuine and relatable you are, congratulations on your achievements. I wish you the best of luck on your new journey. I am also thinking about relocating from Orlando FL to Tennessee. Fingers crossed 🤞🤞 I’ll like it there as I will be visiting in a few weeks to check it out. Thanks for sharing your journey, stay blessed. 🙏🏼

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Aww hey love!! Thanks for taking the time to watch 🥰 I appreciate you

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      Good luck with the move!

  • @bougieeneshia
    @bougieeneshia Год назад +2

    Great vlog! New subbie! I love weekly/talky vlogs

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      Welcome!! 🥰 ok great because I love to talk 🤣

  • @kimberlyshawnta
    @kimberlyshawnta Год назад +4

    Your video is great! I too have a channel and have a 9-5 and it is hard to do a weekly vlog. For the most part I vlog the same way weekends and trips.

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      Haha yes it’s a lot easier that way. Good luck to you and everything you have going on 🥰

    • @kimberlyshawnta
      @kimberlyshawnta Год назад

      @@TheDessyRayWay Thank you. To you as well ❤️

    • @louisianamrs
      @louisianamrs Год назад +1

      Same here and I bring work home most of the times.

    • @kimberlyshawnta
      @kimberlyshawnta Год назад

      @@louisianamrs yeah it took me a while to cut that out. My time is my time….lol

  • @jothisorthat
    @jothisorthat Год назад +1

    Girl, all I could say while watching this was, “what a Cancer!” 😅😂 why is it that we cry when everything is going so well in life. Blessings upon blessings and here we are. I’ve had these moments too & after a while after talking to God, I’m up & going for what’s mine.

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      LMAOOO!! Such a freaking Cancer!! 😩🤣🤣 I love us though. Some of the rawest, and most genuine souls out here!

    • @jothisorthat
      @jothisorthat Год назад

      @@TheDessyRayWay 💯💯

  • @porsharaye
    @porsharaye Год назад

    Subscribed this morning, you’re a breath of fresh air… real, simple and straight to the point. It’s rare to come across someone who isn’t doing stuff for the sole purpose of creating content.. you’re just being you and I love it.
    Also, Starbucks does have Nespresso pods. I use their blonde roast espresso pods for all my diy Starbucks drinks and it hits every time. They sell them at Target and Bed, Bath & Beyond ❤

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      Thanks for making my day 🥲💕💕
      You’re so kind! Also, thank you so much for that info! I had no idea lol

  • @jeanellreynolds7291
    @jeanellreynolds7291 Год назад +1

    Hi babe, I'm new to your channel and must say I'm enjoying the content. It is perfectly ok to cry and release stress. Just know you got this. Dessy your content is top tier.

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      I appreciate you so much girl thanks 😘😘

  • @bella-rue
    @bella-rue Год назад +1

    The best places for work clothes for me are Zara and HM. Express is hit-and-miss too often. The fabric is not the best. You are gorgeous 🫶

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Yes, I agree!! Thank you love 😊❤️

  • @Dejadavina
    @Dejadavina Год назад +1

    NEW subbie !! i'm loving the content so refreshing

  • @movisions1128
    @movisions1128 Год назад +1

    YAAAAZZZZ!!! DAT: HAIR!!! DAT: COIFFFF!!! WUUUURRRRKKKK!!! WUUUURRRRKKKK!!! WUUUURRRRKKKK!!! BLACK EXCELLENCE!!!

  • @lifeenbleu
    @lifeenbleu Год назад +2

    LOL WHEN THE HINGE NOTIFICATION POPPED UP 😂 Thank you for talking about feeling like you don't belong in professional spaces when YOU MOST DEFINITELY DO. Those kinds of thought can really take a toll on your mental health. I really enjoy this style of vlogs and hope you continue them - it's nice to know that other baddies also live a simple life haha

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      It did not need to pop up like that 🤣🤣🤣 thanks for watching. I definitely will! ❤️

  • @iantasmall6166
    @iantasmall6166 Год назад

    I couldn't believe I watch your entire vlog of over an hour because I don't...but I was pleasantly surprised.

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Haha! I’m happy you stuck around 🥰 thanks for watching!

  • @ramsullivan7883
    @ramsullivan7883 Год назад +1

    I do not normally comment on videos, but I think your videos are fascinating. I have been pursuing to be a board certified behavior analysis, and also work three jobs. One of which at a rehabilitation hospital that is on call.

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      Thank you so much 🥰🥰

    • @ramsullivan7883
      @ramsullivan7883 Год назад

      Your welcome! 🥰🥰 you are not alone when feeling overwhelmed with work. God bless!

  • @sweetmimi444
    @sweetmimi444 Год назад

    1:26:58 soooo we’re gona do this every vlog sis? 🤣🤣😂😂 I have never watched a hour + RUclips video ever! Before subscribing to ur channel! I work from home and I love watching ur vids as I work makes the day fly by! I love that ur a working baddie! I’m a corporate baddie myself! Ur an inspiration. Ps these types of vlogs are not boring! They are real and hella relatable ❤

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣 nah foreeeeal lmao I'm on my own nerves with that omg.
      Thank you so much for watching!! I appreciate you and the feedback more than you know 😘

  • @longinamakumbe6118
    @longinamakumbe6118 Год назад

    only watching beacuase you are a working girl and down to earth and not these other you tubers who seem not to a realistic view on life. go gal

  • @donitaphilpot8537
    @donitaphilpot8537 Год назад

    YOU GOT THIS GIRL!!!!!!

  • @EmmaMayo93
    @EmmaMayo93 Год назад

    I saw your title and I'm not a PA but the one I work under is amazing so lol I started watching and had to become a subbie

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Awww haha welcome to the family sis 🥰

  • @BeautyFilledDisaster515
    @BeautyFilledDisaster515 Год назад +1

    14:02 Hi! New here! I love LOVE the realistic lifestyle! May I ask what brand of hair you use? It’s gawjus! 😍

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      Hi babe! Thanks so much for watching. This hair is by the brand Dhairboutique on Instagram. All other details in the description box 🤍

    • @BeautyFilledDisaster515
      @BeautyFilledDisaster515 Год назад

      @@TheDessyRayWay thank you!

  • @livingwitht6406
    @livingwitht6406 Год назад +1

    You’re gorgeous! I’m here for it! New Subscriber ❤

  • @jorgedelgado9465
    @jorgedelgado9465 Год назад

    I frikken love your videos. I just found you and already watched all 20 💀 I’m in Houston too love my city.

  • @msfeefee9980
    @msfeefee9980 Год назад +1

    Praise Him, speak about it. Your favored and God is doing big things in your life so it’s ok. You Have allot that your doing and allot going on so getting overwhelmed and crying here and there is understandable. Just keep God first and let Him lead and guide you and you will be just fine and he will give peace to the weary and being overwhelmed.

  • @janieyaemerson6950
    @janieyaemerson6950 Год назад +1

    Got yourself a new subscriber!❤️

  • @agnesk2943
    @agnesk2943 Год назад

    Hi, do u mind sharing the hair details? Are those clip ins? So pretty

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      This video was bundles from DHairBoutique baby! I think Cambodian slight wave or something like that

  • @niijackson
    @niijackson Год назад

    Nice vlog. New here and subbed. Your content are 🔥😍👏🏼👏🏼

  • @MichelleSmith-nj2if
    @MichelleSmith-nj2if Год назад

    New Subscriber, love content and watching Vlogs is my tv 😂❤

  • @JaneeBarbre
    @JaneeBarbre Год назад

    Hey girl! New subscriber and I love it here. 🥰

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Hey babe! 🥰 I'm happy to have you here

  • @Wintersno
    @Wintersno Год назад

    new to your channel and so happy to be here

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      I’m so happy to have you 🥹❤️ stay a while sis!

  • @fmm2371
    @fmm2371 Год назад

    lord the bra strap! I nearly reached into my screen to snatch it off so you could relax and stop fidgeting lmaooo

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад +1

      LMAO I ain’t know it was that bad 🤣

  • @Larissaverhart
    @Larissaverhart Год назад

    who do you get your lashes done with??😍😍

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      @madamwinks on instagram!! She’s amazing 😊 let her know Dessy sent you!

  • @sheneedsadvice
    @sheneedsadvice Год назад

    Aw! I wish I was your friend. Honestly- we would make good friends. I’m a loner too.
    Your new subbie! You’ve inspired me to start RUclips.

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Awww we are friends now! 🥰 Thanks for subbing!
      Since your a loner, you might be interested in the group trip I'm hosting this summer! I have a really good group of girls already coming:
      www.trovatrip.com/trip/asia/bali/indonesia-with-des-aideyman-jul-2023

  • @ebonysoblessed
    @ebonysoblessed Год назад

    New subbie ! Love to your channel all caught up

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      Welcome sis! 💕💕 another vid just went live 🤭👀

    • @ebonysoblessed
      @ebonysoblessed Год назад

      Great! Watching now!!!! Where do you get your music?

    • @TheDessyRayWay
      @TheDessyRayWay Год назад

      @@ebonysoblessed SoundCloud 😊

  • @RrawVeganNee
    @RrawVeganNee Год назад

    New subbie ! Love the content already

  • @viazeek
    @viazeek Год назад

    @58:50 I’m a cancer rising, i feel you sista 😂