I can’t wait to watch more videos from your channel. The art of being a feminine woman is lost in our society, especially in the black community. I hope this channel is well received.
I am a female scientist who works in Ecology/Biology and biotechnology. I am great at my job and I have to use lots of logic in my job but the reason I do what I do is emotional, i want to care for the earth, plants and animals and I tend to do what I feel is right. I also, choose jobs that help and care for plants and animals and not just to make money. I am very emotional about my work because it is about helping mother earth. Eventhough, I am in a logical profession to help nurture. You can still be in a logical profession but have your feelings as a guidance. Mother nature is feminine after all.
I'm an older guy and can attest that what you are saying is 100% correct. Hopefully those young people in the world will hear you and understand what you are saying. One thing I might add is that you should also check the person's background and upbringing for compatibility. If a young man was raised by a single mom, who taught him how to be a man? If a young lady was raised without a loving caring father or father figure then who taught her how she should be treated and what a good man is. These are important issues that young people need answers too before saying, "I do or I will."
My grandmother exudes femininity and I have to remember to speak in terms of my feelings versus wants because after a divorce, I operated from my masculine energy.
With so much bad advice being given to women these days, it's really heartening to see someone with class and sense trying to steer girls in the right direction. Keep up the good work.
I'm hoping your platform will provide what I am seeking. I support your message. I seek a feminine presence in my life, preferably a woman with melanated skin that desires family. She has eluded me so far
Being traditionally feminine is just fine. You might feel that you have to be a progressive woman, working a full time job with no kids or husband, because that's what popular media tends to press these days. I get that feminine qualities are often not appreciated, and that women are in a sense expected to act more like men to succeed. But being a masculine woman is also just fine. It's all about being who you want to be, following dreams you want to follow, and liberating yourself from oppression. You have the right idea about placing value on traditional femininity, as even when it was more common in the past, it was still not respected. I do believe feminine qualities should be respected (in both women and men). But career women, masculine women, lgbtq women, women who fight for their rights and give power to other women, are all important too. These agendas are equal in nature--neither of them are an issue, so long as they aim to support and nurture others. Forcing your agenda onto other women is the issue. Telling women that they need to be a certain way to be "respectable" is the issue. Saying that there is one way for a woman to be that is the best way is wrong. A traditional lifestyle is not wrong in and of itself. It's wrong when the people who are living it don't want it. Don't try to force people to be a certain way to fit into your world view. Just love them as they are and let them have the things that make them happy.
Seen you on SinFul The P with that group discussion about the black community. Had to check you out. I loved what you said......you can't know quility if you're not quility... Loved how you keep things in a positive prospective. I'll be checking out your page now.
Thank you for this, this is helpful. I just have to disagree on the logic and emotion part though. As someone who is more logical than emotional myself I use my logic to scope out how to logically go about situations of where people need me emotionally, I use my logic to help me with people skills like asking someone how they feel and being emotionally supportive (the best I can). I trained myself to learn how to comfort with touch and how to use words of affirmation and how to use words of comfort (still working in that part). Some of my male friends are more emotional than logical but that doesn’t make them any less masculine. I will never abandon my logic for emotions, but I use my logic to help me with emotions if that makes any sense. I believe I can be both feminine and primarily logical at the same time. As a female I can’t just not be who I am, I can’t just force myself to rely more on emotions than logic because it’s literally a part of me. So I guess I cannot be feminine then?
Hey Nicole, can you do a video about how women should relate to men? Like sometimes, or personally, it can be frustrating being in a relationship and having a man not understand your emotions or not being able to connect at an emotional level. What can we do about that? Or how can we regulate our emotions as women when they seem to be up and down at times?
I can’t wait to watch more videos from your channel. The art of being a feminine woman is lost in our society, especially in the black community. I hope this channel is well received.
Reagan Higgins 😍
I am 100% supportive of this platform! You're a blessing to this world!!!
BumbleBeyyy 🌺thank you sweetheart
I am a female scientist who works in Ecology/Biology and biotechnology.
I am great at my job and I have to use lots of logic in my job but the reason I do what I do is emotional, i want to care for the earth, plants and animals and I tend to do what I feel is right.
I also, choose jobs that help and care for plants and animals and not just to make money.
I am very emotional about my work because it is about helping mother earth.
Eventhough, I am in a logical profession to help nurture.
You can still be in a logical profession but have your feelings as a guidance.
Mother nature is feminine after all.
dr rd 🌺great. We need women in certain professions. It’s all about balance. So people need not get defensive just gain balance.
I'm an older guy and can attest that what you are saying is 100% correct. Hopefully those young people in the world will hear you and understand what you are saying. One thing I might add is that you should also check the person's background and upbringing for compatibility. If a young man was raised by a single mom, who taught him how to be a man? If a young lady was raised without a loving caring father or father figure then who taught her how she should be treated and what a good man is. These are important issues that young people need answers too before saying, "I do or I will."
My grandmother exudes femininity and I have to remember to speak in terms of my feelings versus wants because after a divorce, I operated from my masculine energy.
With so much bad advice being given to women these days, it's really heartening to see someone with class and sense trying to steer girls in the right direction. Keep up the good work.
Joey Lopez 🌺I’m trying.... lol
I'm hoping your platform will provide what I am seeking. I support your message. I seek a feminine presence in my life, preferably a woman with melanated skin that desires family. She has eluded me so far
This is gold. Ladies these are key pointers to increase your value on the dating market.
I love your message and your calm attitude.
This Is Still My Favorite Video By Nicole
Teach them Nicole :)
❤❤❤this channel is lit, lessons are 💯
Renee carter-irby 🌺gracias chica 🌞
I love your channel 💕 great content
I needed this. Thank you so much
Love this episode! Thank you so much for these lessons Ms. Nicole!
NEW SUBSCRIBER!!! Your interview with Oshay brought me here! Excellent interview, by the way!
Aum Mu Ra me too. ! And I realize I'm not emotional at all.
I'm learning. Thank you. 💗
I'm really looking forward to see more content!
Being traditionally feminine is just fine. You might feel that you have to be a progressive woman, working a full time job with no kids or husband, because that's what popular media tends to press these days. I get that feminine qualities are often not appreciated, and that women are in a sense expected to act more like men to succeed. But being a masculine woman is also just fine. It's all about being who you want to be, following dreams you want to follow, and liberating yourself from oppression.
You have the right idea about placing value on traditional femininity, as even when it was more common in the past, it was still not respected. I do believe feminine qualities should be respected (in both women and men).
But career women, masculine women, lgbtq women, women who fight for their rights and give power to other women, are all important too.
These agendas are equal in nature--neither of them are an issue, so long as they aim to support and nurture others. Forcing your agenda onto other women is the issue. Telling women that they need to be a certain way to be "respectable" is the issue. Saying that there is one way for a woman to be that is the best way is wrong.
A traditional lifestyle is not wrong in and of itself. It's wrong when the people who are living it don't want it.
Don't try to force people to be a certain way to fit into your world view. Just love them as they are and let them have the things that make them happy.
This channel is going to be big.
Seen you on SinFul The P with that group discussion about the black community. Had to check you out. I loved what you said......you can't know quility if you're not quility... Loved how you keep things in a positive prospective. I'll be checking out your page now.
Great job Nicole,looking good as usual.
Reggie Laster 🌺thanks luv
this is the single best and most concise explanation ever! Thank you God Bless
This was a very inspiring and amazing video. Thank you for your perspective. It’s so beautiful 🧡
loving all of this... (Kelee here!!
Oshay brought me here. Love and admire your work.
More of this I enjoyed you on Donavan's channel wow
Hey niole I checked you and my boy oshay out on a live chat good content keep up the good work😃
Thank you for this, this is helpful. I just have to disagree on the logic and emotion part though. As someone who is more logical than emotional myself I use my logic to scope out how to logically go about situations of where people need me emotionally, I use my logic to help me with people skills like asking someone how they feel and being emotionally supportive (the best I can). I trained myself to learn how to comfort with touch and how to use words of affirmation and how to use words of comfort (still working in that part). Some of my male friends are more emotional than logical but that doesn’t make them any less masculine.
I will never abandon my logic for emotions, but I use my logic to help me with emotions if that makes any sense. I believe I can be both feminine and primarily logical at the same time. As a female I can’t just not be who I am, I can’t just force myself to rely more on emotions than logic because it’s literally a part of me. So I guess I cannot be feminine then?
This chick just trying to make money on YT don't let her nonsense define you. The most high made you perfect as a woman just how you are.
New Sub..from Oshay.. Great job sister.
Thanks
xD not sure about emotion part but i know certain feelings i get from ppl feels like an aura sense
Hello I've just found this series. Is this the 1st 1?
Makeda Findlay 🌺welcome Lovey. It’s an entire playlist
Ty 😘🙏
Hey Nicole, can you do a video about how women should relate to men? Like sometimes, or personally, it can be frustrating being in a relationship and having a man not understand your emotions or not being able to connect at an emotional level. What can we do about that? Or how can we regulate our emotions as women when they seem to be up and down at times?
Ndinani Majali 🌺I sure can. Thanks for watching!
Hmmmmm.... this is generalized touchy topic .... what about a man that’s feminine but he’s a man